10 Signs a Guy Likes You But is Trying Not to Show it

By on April 18, 2016






So, you want to find out if a guy likes you even though he might be hiding it? Well, you’ve come to the right place! For some reason, guys try not to show it when they like a girl. I think they think it makes them seem less manly, even though that’s not the case at all.

Guys can try all they want to hide the fact that they like us. But one thing that we know and they probably don’t is this: body language can tell you a lot more about a person’s feelings than they ever will.

Understanding a guy’s body language is the first step to determining if he likes you but is trying not to show it. Here are some subtle signs that he’s really into you even if he’s hiding it.

  1. He’s Always Around, but Just Out of Reach

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If he seems to show up just about everywhere you are – even if it’s just to run a quick errand – he likes you but might not want you to know. When a guy always finds a way to just SEE you, he likes you. But by keeping his distance he’s able to see you and get the joy out of it without letting you in on the fact that he might actually like you.

  1. He Seems to Know Everything About You

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If he remembers your birthday, the fact that you hate pineapple on your pizza, and that your favorite snack is chocolate covered raisins, then he definitely likes you. When a guy goes through that much trouble to remember all of those important things about you, he isn’t just looking at you as a friend. But since he’s keeping his knowledge subtle and only bringing it up when the opportunity arises, he’s trying to keep his feelings for you on the down low.

  1. He Keeps Himself and His Place Clean for You

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If you’ve happened to notice that whenever you know you’ll be around him he seems to be clean shaved, freshly showered, and smells amazing, he’s into you. Another way to tell if a guy like you but is trying not to show it is if you’ve ever been to his house and it’s really, really clean and his room especially is extra tidy. Guys aren’t naturally really clean people. If he’s making an effort to be clean, he’s showing that he likes you by trying to impress you – even if he’s not saying he likes you.

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  1. He Gives You Very Small, but Great Gifts

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By small, I mean nothing that you would feel the need to repay in anyway. So no jewelry, clothes, or the likes. If he goes bring you your favorite smoothie, candy, or even a book he thinks you might like, then he likes you. He’s being subtle enough to make you think he’s just being a nice friend, but these actions from a guy means that he wants so much more from you. Gifts are not something that anyone really gives another person without having more than “just friends” feelings for them.

  1. He Calls Other Girls, “My Friend…”

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If you two are having a conversation and he’s talking about other girls and mentions them by name and he almost always says, “my friend…,” before their name, he likes you but is trying to hide it. If he didn’t like you, there should be no reason for him clarifying that the girls he’s mentioning are just friends. He’s subtly pointing out the fact that he’s NOT interested in any of them. Meaning he’s got eyes for someone else. And I bet that would be you.

  1. He’s Always Looking at You

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When you’re walking around a party, get together, or even at school and you somehow always seem to catch his eye, he’s been looking at you. When a guy spends that much of his time looking at you it’s because he likes you. Staring at someone from across the room is an age-old telltale sign that he likes you and is trying not to show it. Another key signal is if he immediately averts his gaze and pretends like he wasn’t looking. This for SURE means he likes you and really doesn’t want you to know.

  1. He Wards off His Friends

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If you’re talking to him and he mentions that you should steer clear of any (or all) of his friends because of some reason or another, it’s his subtle way of keeping you off the market so he has a chance when he’s finally ready to show you that he likes you. He also might make you stay away from his friends because they know he likes you and he doesn’t want you knowing.

  1. He Almost Always Agrees with You

When someone agrees with almost everything you say it’s because they like you. If you’ve also noticed that you seem to get your way around him more or he says one thing and then says the opposite because you speak up, he likes you and is trying to hide it.

  1. He’s Wishy-Washy

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People that are trying to hide their feelings sometimes don’t know they’re showing it. But as soon as he notices that he’s being too nice to you or making it apparent that he’s into you, he might pull back and actually be mean or withdrawn. So if you’ve noticed that a guy is being really wishy-washy with the way he talks to you and the way he treats you, it could be because he likes you but doesn’t want you to know.

  1. He Asks Intimate Details about You

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By intimate details I’m talking about personal information on your family, hobbies, and  likes/dislikes. If someone just wants to be your friend they’re not concerned about finding out that information right away. If he likes you, he’s digging and finding it for himself.

When you want to know if a guy likes you but is trying not to show it, these 10 signs are a perfect place to start. Do you have any more signs that you’ve noticed before?





169 Comments

  1. Dee

    November 22, 2016 at 6:35 pm

    Hi.I am a client of a guy who seems to be crushing on me as I am of him.The 1st time we met,we had a convo that felt like we knew each other forever.Since then we saw each other for business.Each time we first meet we are nervous, fidgety,we joke, laugh,open with each other alone but when we are in a crowd,he is serious.He’s different around others.He won’t let other men get close to me,for example,one of his collegues wanted to meet us for lunch,he told him we were finishing up and we left before he came. He always tries to hug me or if I initiate convo,he gets excited & walks so close I feel I will bump into him. But sometimes I wonder,I was with their firm 2 weeks,we saw each other everyday.He drove me to the site and we had fun.but once we got around his colleagues,he was serious.I tried to start convos but his replies were blunt.When we went out as a group he sometimes spoke about other women(movie stars)or saw pretty waitresses & flirted or gave big tip in front of me,I felt like he wasn’t interested.I try to show I like him when we are looking in each other’s eyes.I even gave him his favorite candy & next day he shared other candy.Is he just bieng nice?Im really confused! Thanks for any info!

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 24, 2016 at 7:34 am

      He could be being nice because you are a client, or he could like you. His behavior could really mean either thing. Until he makes a move or shows his feelings more clearly, I think it will be hard to tell what he wants.

  2. Mio

    November 22, 2016 at 12:20 pm

    We had free time today. I was hitting a volleyball by myself while he was passing another one to others(he went up to a guy from the other class and asked if he could play with him and later on,a group of other girls joined them). At the last half hr or so,I saw that the group had shrunk to be just him and a girl(that I talked to a bit). My ball accidentally went over to their spot and the girl gave it to me. She then asked me if I wanted to join her and my friend. As we were playing,my friend’s mood seemed to change from earlier. Before,from what I saw,he didnt smile nor talk as much;he seemed more relaxed and bright when I came in later on. He started teasing and laughing at me and the girl. Not only that but he was being quirky and foolish(in a funny way). He wasnt even the one that offered me to play with him but I felt like he was acting different once I came …Agh this kid ==
    What is this all supposed to mean ;-;

    • Mio

      November 22, 2016 at 12:44 pm

      Im sorry, I didnt realize I typed this twice!! ;-;

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 23, 2016 at 1:38 pm

        No worries! It happens a lot, actually. 🙂

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 23, 2016 at 1:37 pm

      It sounds like he could like you, but nothing is for sure yet. If you think that he may be interested in you, why don’t you just tell him how you feel? At the very least, you will know to move on if he is not interested. And if he does like you, you can end the waiting game and actually be with him.

  3. Maria

    November 14, 2016 at 5:00 pm

    I have a male bestfriend.He’s the sweetest tin i have ever had! we share deep secrets 2 each other.We are so close I met him in my new school nd we were in the same class for 2years till we gratuated from high school.he was just like a normal bestie 2 me.then, everything changed. Now his always on my mind, I can’t do without talking 2 him for a day,i always feel jealous when he tells me about girls disturbing him..His is single.I’m really crushing hard on my bestie.i know it’s not right.I Have tried 2 stop but, it’s not working..I’m always shy arround him nd my heart start beating fast..well, he doesn’t know i have a crush on him. I hid it frm him..we text a lot ,he buys me stuffs,he teases me a lot, we laugh together, when we were still at school he doesnt go 2 eat without me.I love im.We are besties 4 life..I dnt know if he feels the same way 2..maybe am taking it 2 far…or i shud just distance myself from him for a little while, till d weird feeling dies or rather, i shud open up..I’m Fed Up!

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 23, 2016 at 1:53 pm

      If you are close friends, then there is a chance that he could like you. You are obviously friends for a reason, so you must share a lot in common and get along well together. While there is no guarantee, it is possible that he originally became friends with you because he is attracted to you. He may have just held off on making a move because he did not want to ruin the friendship. Now, you just have to decide if you are willing to potentially make things awkward by asking him how he feels. Good luck, Maria!

    • Chloe

      November 27, 2016 at 9:26 am

      Well if he’s that nice to you, then he might be in to you look closely for signs and if it keeps up then he might like you. you should wait for the right time and tell him or show him.

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 28, 2016 at 12:25 pm

        That sounds like good advice, Cholie–I am sure that Maria will appreciate getting it. Thanks for commenting!

  4. Noel

    November 14, 2016 at 7:21 am

    Hi, I’m 13. There’s this guy in my class that I really like although I’m a new student. We went to the same school except that he was in International and I was in Integrated. I recognized him when he walked past me or when we met. At first, I don’t really like him cause he doesn’t even talk to me. After a few weeks or so, I started developing a crush on him since he was so nice to me and we talked a lot. I stared at him in class, always wondering if he likes me or not(I just got over a crush that lasted 3 years). I was looking at him every time I got the chance. For example, I looked at him when he was walking beside my desk(my desk is near to the front door). We began to talk more but it’s just a short conversation like hi or he/me would ask each other in class if we seat together. We smiled a lot to each other. The point is that I always look at him and always wondered if he liked me back. One day, I saw him looking at me in the classroom and I kept looking at him to see how his reaction was. He kept looking at me too! We looked for a short moment without anyone noticing since the teacher gave us works to do and the whole class was silent. He looked to someone beside me in a weird way then turned back to me and smiled and looked back at his book while I was still staring at him. From that day on, we always smiled to each other and we also began to make eye-contact more. I caught him staring at me once and he looked at his book right away and pretended that he wasn’t looking. He was always around me but he’s not very close. In Science class once, I went outside and a few minutes later he went out and stood behind me. I asked him why did he went outside and he said IDK. I went to his house once to do a project with him and 2 more friends. He came down from his apartment to lead me to his house. When I crossed the road, he suddenly started running and kept looking back. I got tired of running so I walked and saw him walked into a corner. I thought that he was walking slowly to wait for me but he surprised me when he jumped out of the corner. We both laughed and he lead me to his house. We had a small chat in the elevator. When we came his his house’s door, the door was locked since there are 2 friends that came earlier than me. He tried to open the door but he couldn’t(there was a girl and a boy and the girl in there knows that I have a crush on him). We finally got inside and everyone was talking about the project when suddenly I remembered that my best friend showed me a picture of her dance partner that me and other girls that I’m close to ship a lot. I showed the girl the picture and she’s like OMG he is so handsome! My crush and the other guy went to me immediately to look at the picture. My crush was suddenly curious at that time and asked me all kind of questions about him. He also asked me who was my best friend’s crush but I said that was private information. I was looking through the Internet to see if he likes me or not. At the end of term 1, I believed that he liked me and decided to tell him. I texted him to meet me at lunch but he didn’t show up cause he answered the text after lunch so that night, I texted him that I had a crush on him and at first he was like “Are you kidding me?” then after that he was like “I thought we are very good friends?”The conversation ended OK, which I tell him to keep it a secret and he said trust him, so I did. From the next day on, I didn’t look at him when he looks at me anymore because I was too shy and embarrassed (I’m the type who is shy to people I like or don’t know well, but I’m actually really crazy and only shows it to people who are close to me). He still smiled at me but then he doesn’t now. I saw him looking at me a few times but his eyes were cold(that’s how I see them). I sill looked at him when he’s not looking. I dreamed about him a while ago and in that dream, we were texting. I don’t know what we were talking about, but I do remember the text that said “I don’t like you, I only like your sweets!=)”(This was his text)(I am a very good baker(as considered by my friends) and I usually bake cakes for the class for special events so everyone knew that I love to bake and I bake a lot, almost every weekend).I woke up the morning after, panicking. I was afraid that it would be true (some of my dreams happen in the future). I’m avoiding him right now cause I’m so embarrassed. I just want to know if he likes me back or not. PLEASE HELP!!!!!!!! Thanks!

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 14, 2016 at 11:42 am

      It is clear that you have strong feelings for this person. It is likely that he has feelings for you as well. Since the two of you maintain eye contact, talk, and tease each other, it would be beneficial for your relationship if you spent additional time with him. Try to meet up with him and have some coffee or go on a nature walk. If you feel comfortable with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Speaking true words from the heart is always the best policy. Remain positive and mindful as you move into the future. Have a great day, Noel!

  5. rihem

    November 12, 2016 at 1:56 pm

    hello . i’m 18 i’m a high school student .. the story started one month ago ..
    when noticed that there is a boy in the school stares at me very long .. one day, while I am in front of the school he was standing with his friends and suddenly They all look at me except him i guess he was telling them about Me and on the evening of the same day I was standing on my own so he came toward me and left looks at a close distance as if he’s about to talk to me even when I looked at him, he did not change his view and his place i didn’t know what to do so i changed my destination … until the next day, he was standing with a girl in the school yard, but he was staring at me .. and in the last week, while he was standing with his friends as one of them spoke to him pointing on me with a broad smile. I don’t know if he likes me or not .. i’m falling for him and like him so much he’s very handsome and I miss his vision of time and the other he is not watching me from a far, but whenever he sees me he look at me in the eyes … i started liking him i even become staring at him so long even when he look at me i don’t move my eyes on him .. he don’t know my name .. but i know his name .. i don’t want to send him a friend request on facebook .. i’m afraid that he don’t like me .. so he could tell his friend “she’s stupid she thought i like her” … i don’t know i’m so confused i want to know what he think about me .. why he’s talking about me .. could you help me please i can’t stop thinking about him … i think i’m crushed on him now ….

    • rihem

      November 12, 2016 at 2:06 pm

      he’s single

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 13, 2016 at 11:04 am

        If he is single, then feel free to take charge. Good luck, Rihem!

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 13, 2016 at 10:59 am

      It is likely that he has an interest in developing a relationship with you. If nothing else, you are certain on his mind and part of his conversations. It is certain that he has not chosen you to cause emotional problems for you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. He likely will respond in kind. If you do not want to become closer to him, then allow his feelings to naturally fade away. For now, look inward and determine which course of action that you want to take. Remain positive as you move forward. Best of luck, Rihem!

  6. what

    November 8, 2016 at 4:34 am

    Hello,

    Okay so last year I was in grade 9 I had a crush on someone and I was a new student. So I met 4 friends lets call them A,B,C,D. I first told A about this and I don’t really have feelings for him… I just told A that he’s handsome and that’s all. But she overreacted from nowhere at starts to become obvious when he’s around and its annoying. I tried to stop her but she can’t control herself then I told the rest of them….. So now I’m grade 10 and I stopped having feelings for him. Then my classmate just asked me if I liked that person and I told why did she asked that. Then she told me that news was spread and I hated it I don’t know if he knew it but well probably I think he knows at I didn’t want anyone to know. His friends told me that he liked me and I think it was a joke, and probably they were tripping on me. These events happened last yr. only and there is no sign now that they are asking about my crush. With that, I had a distance with Friend A and stopped talking to her. I feel bad sometimes but I guess that is the best way I could do to stop this. But my crush or my ex crush likes someone and I think that he doesn’t like me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 8, 2016 at 11:55 am

      It seems as though you are in a tricky situation. However, there is an easy way out of it. If this person does not come to you and ask you out, then you do not need to take action toward him. Allow this whole scene to drift into the past. Or better yet, take this time to speak with your friends directly and honestly about your feelings. Be sure to also to let them know that it is not their pace to share your secrets with the world. If they can not handle that, then perhaps it would be best for you to not share such thoughts with them in the future. Enjoy life!

  7. Mio

    November 7, 2016 at 2:02 pm

    Hello,I sent a response earlier but it looks like it didn’t send so I’d like to type it again(hopefully I remember..)
    I’m 15 and I may have a small crush on a guy in my physiology class. He is the only true friend I have in that class. Although we both get along with the others,we choose to be a bit antisocial and spend time alone or by talking to each other. Whenever we get to choose partners,he comes up to me.
    Last week,we got to sit wherever we wanted so I set my stuff down at an empty spot. A few secs later,he came over from the other side of the room and sat across from me. We had to work with two other girls as a group on an assignment. I filled into the one-desk gap I had left between the one next to me(I thought it’d be awkward sitting next to the other girl) and when I did,I realized that my friend had left a space between him and the girl on his side;he was helping those two for the most part. Idk if he was looking at me from time to time but he offered me a colored pencil when I needed it. When the teacher turned on some classical music,he said ‘hey Mio,isn’t that __(name of piece)?’,remembering that we had a mutual love for music and how we both play the piano. I didn’t know the name of the tune so he started he teasing me and started dissing the other instrument I play-the violin. I prefer the violin nowadays so I said the piano was worse and we had a playful argument for several mins(the girls near us were entertained lmao).
    After doing some warmups in the gym,our class has recently been going out to the track to jog(+walk) around it. We both walk at a similar pace so he has been next to me and we’d talk a bit. During our last required lap,before we’d have to start running(we walked curbs and ran the straightaways),he whispered ‘race ya’ to me so we dashed to the end(this has happened twice so far). He was faster than me so I screamed ‘omg I hate u!!’ as I’d try to catch up and he’d chuckle.
    We’ve had free time on some days where we had the option to play with a basketball or a volleyball. One day,we both went to a wall and serve it(onto the wall) back and forth. At one point,however,mine went on top of the top of the folded bleachers next to me. We both didn’t bother to get it. He put down his volleyball and picked up a basketball near us and we passed it to each other. He was doing all these weird passes while I was doing it the old school way/in the method we learned in elementary school. Seeing this,he shouted ‘what is this!?’ and imitated me as I’d try to hide my laughter.
    We were once playing football and the boys were way more committed than the girls so the teacher told the guys to pass to us more. A few secs after she said that,we went back to playing. My guy friend had the ball and he threw it in,what looked like,my direction but some other dude was standing in front of me and took it instead. He seemed a bit pissed but I’m not sure if he was at me or the other guy.
    The thing is,I feel like we spend quite a bit of time together. We’ve been speaking to each other since day one(and opened up on the second day when we chose to do an interview-ish assignment together) but idk how he feels about me. He’s nice to everyone but the way he treats me feels rather.. different.
    Another thing I question is how he’s around the place where my friends and I sit during lunch. He walks around there several times almost every day when he could be eating and talking with friends as well. I asked him the other day why he did that and he said it was because he had ‘nothing better to do’-whatever that means. I do admit I look at him a lot when he does this and have caught a few glances he’s taken on me lol.
    Thx so much for reading all this and I hope to hear some feedback on how he may feel and what I can do to be good to him until the end(which is in January and he’s graduating so I cant see him next yr ;-;). I hope that we can talk even after we take the course(low-key wish we were dating?) so..yep.
    Again,thankyu and have a nice day~

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 7, 2016 at 3:39 pm

      Since he chooses you as his partner, it is clear that he wants to be around you. Additionally, it seems as though he makes attempts at various times throughout the day to spend time with you. He may want to develop a relationship with you. He may have been annoyed at the end of the day for many reasons, and it is possible that he was concerned that you did not like him. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If you only want to remain friends with him, then still be sure to spend time with him and continue your friendship as it is. Best of luck, Mimo!

      • Mio

        November 10, 2016 at 12:32 pm

        Thx for the advice ^^
        Um so I have this other story..
        We were walking on the track today and we talked a little bit. This group of people from our class came up to me and then to him. He seemed into the conversation so I walked away from them. After that,our class went inside and we had to option to play ping pong,basketball,or volleyball. Once the teacher finished giving instructions to us,he asked me if I wanted to play ping pong with him when he couldve been playing volleyball or whatever with the others from our class . Like why..???

      • Mio

        November 14, 2016 at 5:56 pm

        Im so sorry but um something else that I question has happened….
        He told his sister about me over the weekend- does this mean anything? Like he told her a story about me

        • web admin

          web admin

          November 23, 2016 at 1:32 pm

          It means that he was thinking about you, and he likes you enough to want to share stories about you. Whether he likes you as a good friend or as something more though can’t be known for sure from just this. Talk to him more and see how things go. Good luck, Mio!

      • Mio

        November 22, 2016 at 12:43 pm

        Ok so another story …
        We had free time(again) today. I was hitting a volleyball by myself while my friend was with a group of people(from the other class) using another one and passing that around. As time went by,the group shrunk;it was now only him and another girl(who I talked to a bit earlier). My ball accidentally went to their area so the girl gave it back to me but then asked if I wanted to join them. I came in and played with them. That’s when I saw something happening to my guy friend,he seemed different. From what I saw earlier,he was rather quiet and sort of expressionless. When I joined,he started talking and smiling a lot more- he teased me at one point too;it was as if he went back to his normal,playful self. His actions gradually became quirkier. He wasnt even the one that offered to play with them but he seemed like he enjoyed my company.. Why might have he been like this? Pls help> <

        • web admin

          web admin

          November 23, 2016 at 1:38 pm

          It seems like you commented twice on this one. I have to answer and approve each comment individually, so it can sometimes take me a little while to get around to all of them. If you do not see a response right away, do not worry because you will. Read through my last response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!

  8. Mimo

    November 7, 2016 at 12:47 pm

    Hello. I’m 15 and there’s this guy that I may slightly like in my physiology class.
    My only real friend in the class is him. He chooses me as a partner when we have to choose one.
    A few weeks ago,we had free time and got the chance to do whatever we wanted(basketball,volleyball). We both got our own volleyball and hit them against the wall until mine accidentally went on top of a bleacher. When I looked at him a sec later,I saw him carrying a basketball and asking me if we wanted to pass it to each other.
    Last week,we got to sit wherever we wanted to. When I set down my stuff,he walked over to a seat near me even though he was on the other side of the room earlier. We had to work on something with two other girls and he was helping them for the most part but when the teacher turned on some classical music,he remembered that we both had a common love for music and how we both played the piano. He teased me by saying that the other instrument I played-the violin-sounded terrible and we had a playful argument.
    Our class goes out to the track to jog and walk after some warmups in the gym twice a week(we are only in the classroom one day each week). He has come up to me before our last required sprint to say ‘race ya’ when he knows I won’t ever win to him(’cause 1.hes way taller,2.hes the fastest in the class) lol. Idk if this is because we’re friends but he only does this to me. He gets along with others(when he talks to them) and knows there are people faster than me but he only says this to me. Last time,I shouted I hated him since he was ahead of me and he started chuckling when I did. At the end of class,he caught me looking at him and said ‘what’ in a bit of an annoyed tone which confused me since he seemed in a better mood earlier.
    Finally,despite the confusion he can give me at times,I think he’s one of the sweetest people out there and I hope I can be the best I can with these two more months we have in the class(he’s graduating so I can’t see him next year ;-;)!
    Thank u so much for reading this. Ik this was mainly filler statements but I hope I can hear some feedback on how u think he feels and what I can do for him! *^^*

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 7, 2016 at 3:39 pm

      Since he chooses you as his partner, it is clear that he wants to be around you. Additionally, it seems as though he makes attempts at various times throughout the day to spend time with you. He may want to develop a relationship with you. He may have been annoyed at the end of the day for many reasons, and it is possible that he was concerned that you did not like him. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If you only want to remain friends with him, then still be sure to spend time with him and continue your friendship as it is. Best of luck, Mimo!

  9. Katie

    November 6, 2016 at 5:42 am

    If you have a lot of time, read this please:
    Right now I’m really confused about this guy I like. There is this guy I like in school but we never have any classes with each other.But somehow we make glances and stare at each other in the hallways a lot and I always see him walking around near me. Like for example, I was walking to my locker and putting my stuff in my locker and I always see him walking right near it. Also, I saw him trying to talk to the person near my locker while I was there, but I was so scared and nervous so I ran away XD. You might think that we don’t know each other at all because we don’t have the same classes in school and barely get to be friends with each other, we actually “were” friends if you’d call it. Me and my crush were in the same camp in the Summer and we were friends. However, this guy wasn’t a person who would easily open up to people and tell all of his secrets, so I didn’t really know a lot about this guy. One day, I had my first day at this class out of school and he was there. When he came in, he saw me and was like: “Hey, I know you from school…” and said: “What’s her name again…. oh.. Katie! Oh! I remember…” and whenever we were doing exercises the teacher always set us up together along with my other friends in the class, so it was really hard for me. He would say, “I remember you from camp!” and I answered: “Yeah… me too…”. When I am in the class, I am really open, but to be honest, inside I felt uneven. In school, I’m usually quiet and shy and I NEVER laugh a lot and stuff like that but when I’m at the class, I feel comfortable and become myself. However, my crush was avoiding me in exercises being near his friends and stared at me at some times. One time, I caught him staring at me from the corner of his eye. But when I was in the spotlight, he would not watch and did not face my direction. It seemed like he was not interested at all and was not into me. Also, near at the end of the day, he started talking to me normally. I felt kind of sad deep inside because he forgot my name, probably thinks I’m a stalker (caught me staring at him in his class through the door window while walking to the next period) because he said “Hey! I know you from school!” In the exercises and games, we were playing soccer and he never passed me the ball. I passed to him once, but he never passed to me. When it was his turn to be in front of an audience, I tried to comfort him and was like “You’re okay ______, you can do it!” He never answered. One time he got hurt in soccer even and everybody was asking if he was okay… It looked like he was about to cry and I felt so sad for him, but he answered “No, no, I’m fine…” and carried on like nothing had happened. I am having mixed emotions if I should change the way I am because I felt a little uneasy and a little not myself when I was really open in the class. Also, we have this “staring but when caught staring: look away or run” kind of game, and I don’t know if I should end it by becoming friends with him or staying a little bit on the quiet side. I find myself more comfortable by staring at him from a distance so I feel like I should be more quiet than open, but the next time I go to that class, I can’t be quiet or else my friends would think something was wrong, including my crush maybe. There are two things I want to know:
    “Should I step forward and try to become friends with him (but not comfortable with it) or should I step down and just be quiet?”
    and
    “Because of the things he was doing, does he like me or changed his mind about me when he saw the open and extroverted part of the introverted and shy me?”
    I saw a lot of websites and they say:
    “If they avoid you, that means he doesn’t want to be around you so he does not like you”. Also, some websites say, “If he doesn’t talk to you much, that means he is not interested.”
    But when I read this article, I felt a little bit of mixed emotions. Please answer my questions thanks! 🙂

    • web admin

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      November 7, 2016 at 3:01 pm

      You have a lot of questions and a long history with this person. It is clear that you are shy and it is also clear that he as positive memories of you. He may be wanting to spend time with you as he attempts to be near your locker and catches your eye. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then attempt to spend additional time with him and perhaps speak with him more. If you do so, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings when the time is right. If you do not want to make the first move, then perhaps try to be around him more and grab his eye until he speaks to you. Take action, because if you do not, then it is possible that his feelings for you will fade. Remain positive as you move into the future. Best of luck, Katie!

  10. Vicky

    November 4, 2016 at 5:04 am

    I had a guy I was having friends with benefits with even though it was sexting and after it first happened I went and told a close friend of ours what had happened and she said he was a really private person etc but as time went on I kept asking her for advice. Anyway the guy and I stopped have friends qkrh benefits as I was too clingy. So last night I came clean to him about talking to our close friend about what had happened between us and he was really calm and just said “well there goes the trust thing” and that we are now strictly friends and that’s it. He asked me to delete the pics of him I had as he’s deleted mine. Why didn’t he get annoyed at me? And why does he still want to be friends with Me when I talked about things with a friend

    • web admin

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      November 4, 2016 at 6:36 pm

      Perhaps in his own way he felt annoyed with you. It was nice of him to treat you respectfully. Accept that he is upset at you for sharing his secret. In the future, keep this as a reminder to not do so. Lessons are learned every day, and you may have learned one of the most important ones that you can learn. Once trust is lost, it is almost impossible to regain. Best of luck in the future, Vicky!

      • Vicky

        November 5, 2016 at 10:13 am

        Since then Ive said I was sorry for hurting him and I asked if he regretted what happens between us?, he said “you didn’t hurt me. but not really. I don’t really think about it.”

        What does this mean? I’m confused.

        • web admin

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          November 7, 2016 at 2:47 pm

          He may not have felt hurt and he may have allowed thoughts of you to drift away. It seems as though he has allowed his thoughts of you to fade away. If you want to try to rekindle his thoughts for you, then try to spend more time with him and speak with him more. If you want to remain friends, then be good and kind to him. Or, if you want to take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future, then be sure to do so. Remain positive as you move forward. Thank you for your comment, Vicky!

  11. Biannet

    November 3, 2016 at 7:34 pm

    Hi. I am 13 and theres this boy that keeps on looking at me in class. He and I are in the same class this year and he’s been looking at me alot and just 2 days ago he took my note book and stapled the cover of it. My friend said he talked to her alot a few times before homeroom starts cause he and she gets early to school. And he told her he started to like me. But I don’t know. He does sometimes always leans on my locker ( his friends locker is beside mine ) and I am tooo shy to tell him to move but once I did say “ALEXXX” (his name) in a quiet kinda annoyed voice. Oh! And once he offered to get my computer from where it was and never offered help to another. Or, he did but then told the other girl that she could get it herself. And these past few weeks he’s been sitting very close to where I sit in class. Yesterday he sat at the table I sat the day before and in some classes he leans his chair back that he almost hits me! In other words, he’s always around.I NEED help! PLEASE!

    • web admin

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      November 4, 2016 at 6:30 pm

      Because of the attention and teasing that he gives you, you can be certain that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. If you want to start a relationship with him, then spend more time with him and talk to him about your ideas. If you want to date him right away, then speak to him directly and honesty about your feelings. Enjoy life and remain positive. Best of luck, Biannet!

  12. Riley

    November 3, 2016 at 6:11 pm

    Hi I am Riley there is this boy in my class he looks at me and one day my friends to told him that was going to kiss him but I didn’t say that when they told him he smiled and one time he asked if I like his best friend stile and I said yes and from that day he was being mean to his best friend what does that even mean.

    • web admin

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      November 4, 2016 at 6:25 pm

      If you want to kiss this boy, then be sure to do so. But, that said, make sure that he is receptive to your action before you do it. Because of his positive reaction when your friends told him that you wanted to kiss him, it is likely that he wants to kiss you as well. However, if you do not want to kiss him, then do not let your friends dictate your life. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then your best option is to speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Remain positive and mindful as you move forward. Have a great week, Riley!

  13. Nadia

    November 3, 2016 at 3:23 pm

    So there ‘s this guy at my school that I’ve been texting for 2 years now and last year we went on a date and since then we’ve been txting less than usual but all of a sudden he texted me last Friday while he was drunk and asked me if I was in a relationship , then kept telling me I was cute and aksed me if I wanted to go to this Halloween dance with him and so the following week came and it was the day of the dance he texted me later that night saying that he was sad we didn’t dance together and he texts my friend saying that I’m pretty and everybody finds me pretty but he finds I’m negative and stuff. Today he went up to my friend and gave her this handshake while I was next to them and then he gave me the handshake but didn’t look me in the eyes and left and didn’t say one word to me . What does this mean ????? Help and on ask fm he says that he finds this girl pretty so idk ????

    • web admin

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      November 4, 2016 at 6:19 pm

      It seems as though he has made his feelings about your physical features clear. He also may feel that your response was not as positive as he wanted. While that may be his feelings, there is no reason for you to allow him to move you faster than you normally want to go. It is certain that he had an interest in you, and it is possible that he still does. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then attempt to spend additional time with him. Your best option is to speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Remain positive as you move forward. Good luck, Nadia!

  14. Carla

    November 1, 2016 at 10:01 pm

    I like this boy in my school but he seems to be avoiding me.The teacher assigned him a seat across from me but he always finds a way to not face me and he would get up and sit with his friends he would always look for an excuse to get away from me.One day the teacher told my class to come up and get an assignment from her desk and he got it for me when there was three other girls in front of me he decided to be nice to me and give it to me instead of the three girls in front of me.He looks at me from the corner of his eyes.When he talks to me he would look at my lips or he would look down.It’s like he is trying to avoid eye contact with me.Was he just being nice or something else? Why is he avoiding me? Why is he avoiding eye contact with me? Why does he look at me from the corner of his eyes?
    I’m shy and I am 14 years old.
    Can you help me.Thank you.

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 2, 2016 at 12:58 pm

      If you find him looking at your lips, talking to you, and spending time trying to catch you out of the corner of his eyes, then he most certainly likes you. Some people are not strong with maintaining eye contact. Others may look at your lips to show an interest. What it best for you to do at this time is to speak with him directly and honestly. If you want him to know your feelings, then share them. If you want him to make the first move, then continue to try to catch his eye and force him into action. Enjoy life and remain positive. Best of luck, Carla!

      • Carla

        November 3, 2016 at 4:17 pm

        Does this mean he’s shy to show how he feels?
        Thanks for your help.

        • web admin

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          November 4, 2016 at 6:16 pm

          It is possible that he is shy and it is possible that he is unsure of his feelings. There are many reasons for someone to act or to truly be shy. What is important is the actions that you take. Feel free to share your feelings with him and see how he responds. It is certain that he will break out of his shell as the two of you hang out more. Best of luck, Carla!

          • Carla

            November 5, 2016 at 7:19 am

            I really like him but I feel like I won’t be able to make him happy if we start dating.Why? Because I was born with half of my ear on my left side my right ear is fine but I feel if knows he might lose interest in me.I feel like a freak he might think I’m a freak. I don’t know what to do. I feel like if I had a left ear everything would go well.Help

            • web admin

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              November 5, 2016 at 10:14 am

              If he cares for you, the ear problem will not bother him. Everyone is different, and this difference just makes you unique. I highly doubt that the boyfriend or husband you ultimately find will care about the ear. Often, people are much harder on themselves than anyone else would ever be. Now, the main question is if he likes you back or not. He has not done enough of the signs to be sure, but it is always possible. Try talking to him, get to know him better and see where things go. Good luck, Carla!

              • Carla

                November 8, 2016 at 5:16 pm

                I got a nother question if I give a presentation in class and he turns his seat around to not look at me. What does that mean? I feel like he likes me but I’m not sure.

                • Carla

                  November 8, 2016 at 10:09 pm

                  I seen him look at me from the corner of his eyes a few times. He’s a mysterious guy I don’t know that much about him, last year he would always get in trouble and the guidance counselor is always asking him to come see her during class times. He fools around sometimes but I feel like he does it for attention because he probably doesn’t get any at home.He’s not always fooling around tho sometimes he’s calm and doesn’t fool around.He seems nice and calm but he’s kind of a mystery.When he hears people talk to me he looks from the corner of his eyes but I think he might do that because he knows I’m shy and don’t talk much. He seems to be avoiding me so idk if he might like me. He seems to be interested in me so like I think he asks himself, Why is she quiet? Why is she shy? And what is she hiding? What does she think?

                  • web admin

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                    November 9, 2016 at 12:33 pm

                    He very well could be shy, uncertain of his feelings, or perhaps has no feelings. If you want to get to know him better, then perhaps it would be wise of you to spend additional time with him. Talk to him more or attempt to catch his eye. Whatever the situation, it seems as though you need to find clarity. Determine if you want to take action or if you want to wait for him. Enjoy life and remain positive. Best of luck, Carla!

                    • Carla

                      November 9, 2016 at 12:49 pm

                      Why would he be shy when I should be the one because I’m shy and quite he’s not he talks to others. Sorry if I’m asking too many questions I’m just curious.

                • web admin

                  web admin

                  November 9, 2016 at 12:33 pm

                  He very well could be shy, uncertain of his feelings, or perhaps has no feelings. If you want to get to know him better, then perhaps it would be wise of you to spend additional time with him. Talk to him more or attempt to catch his eye. Whatever the situation, it seems as though you need to find clarity. Determine if you want to take action or if you want to wait for him. Enjoy life and remain positive. Best of luck, Carla!

                  • Carla

                    November 9, 2016 at 8:48 pm

                    Why would he be shy if I’m the one who’s shy and quiet he talks to people. Sorry if I’m asking to many questions I’m just curious.

                    • web admin

                      web admin

                      November 10, 2016 at 2:00 pm

                      He may not be shy, though he may be confused or uncertain. Those feelings may cause him to be less likely to take action. If you want for him to speak with you and take charge, then attempt to catch his eye and smile at him. If you want to be the first to make a move, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Take care, Carla!

    • Biannet

      November 3, 2016 at 7:36 pm

      I also have a similar conflict but,not quite.I wonder why guys have to be so CONFUSING am I right?

      • web admin

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        November 4, 2016 at 6:31 pm

        It is common for people to have difficulties in developing a relationships. So we appreciate our readers sharing their thoughts, insights, and experiences with each other. If you have any positive stories, please feel free to share more of them in the future. Have a great day, Biannet!

  15. Zena

    November 1, 2016 at 7:36 am

    Hi again! I have a question. I have written to you here already, so you should know who I am and in which situation I am. So I have played truth or dare with my friend. (I know, stupid) And I have a dare to hug the boy I like. should I? I’m unsure if he likes me, so I don’t know if he will distance himself from me… So, should I do it or not? (yeah I have asked you many times for help but just one more time and I won’t bother you again)

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 1, 2016 at 4:31 pm

      It seems as though you have strong feelings for this person and have a desire to strengthen your relationship. It would be wise of you to take action toward him when you are able. So if you are playing games, then play them with him in mind. As long as he seems supportive of yours actions, then be sure to continue them. Best of luck, Zena!

  16. Zena

    October 30, 2016 at 5:51 am

    Hi. I have a problem, because I’m unsure if a boy likes me or not. I have liked him now for three months and he sits behind me. We have the same classes so we see each other often. I think he knows that I like him, cause my friends have always pushed me to him and I have looked at him often and been more nice to him than most people. From the day I was almost sure that he knew I liked him, I have been beginning to notice that he takes quick glances at me in class or he has eye contact when we talk. He asks me for help or which page to open on the book, or which exercise to do even though the teacher said it. He has also been teasing me a bit lately and when he tells jokes to me and my seatmate, he looks at me. But, when he talks with a certain girl in class, his friends are teasing them both and saying things like:” they would be a great couple, they sure like each other!” The boy I like doesn’t look like he cares about what they say, but the girl he talks with is shy about it. They also often talk and laugh together, he also invites her to sit next to her when we are having lunch sometimes, so I’m not sure what to think. And some days ago, I looked at him from across the classroom when he walked out. When he was on his way out, he shot a quick glance at me and raised his eyebrows, but only for a second. Does he like her? Or me? Or none of us? I’m very unsure.

    • Zena

      October 30, 2016 at 6:04 am

      I forgot to mention that he also teased her a while ago, but not so much. Maybe one or two times. And one time when she asked him for help, he refused. But it probably doesn’t mean so much

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 30, 2016 at 6:40 pm

        Then you may want to act faster in your endeavor. Take this time to look inward and determine your action. Then take that action the following day!

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 30, 2016 at 6:39 pm

      If he spends time with you, talks to you, teases you, then he likely has an interest in developing a relationship with you. If your friends tease the two of you, then it is also likely that they feel that you two like each other. If he is looking at other girls, then it may be because he is unsure how you feel. His eyebrow raise could have been an indication of his curiosity of your feelings. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings as soon as you are able. You may find that if you wait too long that he will begin dating someone else. Remain positive and take action, Zena!

      • Zena

        October 31, 2016 at 3:26 pm

        Well, it’s hard to say if he spends time with me because we don’t know each other so well, and we started talking recently because he sits behind me.
        But you misunderstood me a bit, and I’ll try to explain it better now. His friends think that the other girl in class and him suit together. They think that they like eachother, especially that the girl likes him. And he has talked with her much more than with me, so yeah… But I’m still unsure. But thanks for your help!

        • web admin

          web admin

          November 1, 2016 at 4:35 pm

          While his friends may think that he is suited with her better, what matters is the feelings that the two of you have for each other. You can take action toward him or catch his eye so he comes to you. Whatever you do, it is important to remain positive and keep mindful. You will see, in time, what he likes and what you like about him. If nothing else, continue to remain thoughtful about your feelings and your desires. Have a great day, Zena!

  17. Lily

    October 18, 2016 at 4:32 am

    Hi! I am quite confused with this situation so i hope you understand. I’ve liked this boy since the first time i saw him last year, and it turned out he was in my class this year. He tries to act popular with his friends but i can tell he is different. Anyway, i see him lookinng at me sometimes but since im the nerd of the class i feel like he doesn’t want to show it because of his “popular” friends. He has a lot of friends that are girls and he was trying to do a weird trick in front of them today in class but i was also infront of him and i feel like he was trying to impress me but make it look like he’s trying to impress them. (He was facing me more). Im not sure if he’s dating one of those girls because he likes all her photos and stuff but she always tries to stare and flirt with him but most of the time he just ignores her. But when I look at him he looks at me in the eyes then we both look away. His feet also point towards me (sometimes) in class and i think he’s been trying to sit closer to me. When he talks to me irl he always looks straight into my eyes and i think we both feel something even tho we barely speak. thanks

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 18, 2016 at 9:57 am

      He is doing many of the things that people do when they are interested, but there is no way to know for sure yet. Until one of you gathers the courage to strike up a conversation, you may never find out if he likes you back or not. If you are feeling particularly courageous, say hello, ask how he is doing or ask about a homework assignment. Make an excuse to talk to him and see how he responds. If he seems embarrassed or eager to keep the conversation going, then there is an excellent chance that he likes you. Good luck, Lily!

  18. Sami

    October 16, 2016 at 1:12 pm

    Hi, I enjoy reading your article. I desperately need your advice . My story is a bit long. But hope you will give me good advice after reading.
    I wonder about my guy friend. We have been friends for nearly two year for now.
    Since the day we meet, I am interested in him. I have never been in a relationship.We are in same friend group . I found out from our mutual friends , he had over 6 years long term relationship ( intended to get married ) but that girl cheated on him and had severe broken heart.After around two months, he started dating one girl then leave his country to study abroad ( That is where we met)and the girl is still in home country. Even I knew he had that girl , I was still
    falling for him hard without particular reason. ( I know I shouldn’t, but you know we can’t control our feeling ).We started chatting every nights about 1 to 2 hours. We talked about our days, our amibition, family, friends, uni , carrer , furture plan, our opnion on realationship……..everything) . But when we were chatting , his girl’s call came in , he stopped chatting me. But he never admited that that girl is his girlfriend not only to me but also our whole
    group. He just said he never said “I Love you ” to that girl, so they are not in a relationship.
    Later he told me and one of our mutual friend while we are studying for exam, he doesn’t like that girl and started to frustarate. That girl wanted commitment from him and he said he couldn’t give her and he had another girl he really love. They dated for 7months ( 2 months in person and 5months LDR).

    We were still chatting and being good friends ( except I have heavy crush on him)during those months, he cared for me a lot, walked me home after our group night out. If it is in day time, he walked me to underground station or bus stop and see until I got into train or bus . One time, he kept me acompany while I was waiting my bus for 20 minutes coz he said he can’t leave me alone at bus stop but it was in daytime when we were back from library.Then always called and checked whether I got home safe. Also whenever we crossed the road, he grabbed my arm and protected me when we two alone but if we are still in group, he just cared me from a bit far away when I crossed the road. Even our friends are start teaseing us.

    After he broke up with that girl, he also backed out me and stop responsing my messages. That hurted me a lot .But as soon as I noticed, he started shutting me down, I also tried really hard not to start text or call him. I hated him so much. I didn’t attend every gathering or events to avoid him and there were no contact anymore.

    After one month, he called me and said he and other friend will treat me coz I helped for their exam preparation. Then I said him I had date with this cute guy ( actually there is no guy) . He called me to go out for 3 times but i rejected and told him I have to meet my dáte.

    Like two months later, he dated the girl from his high school who he reunited after many years. This time it is official relationship He seemed like he do love that girl. At that moment, I still have feelings for him but i can control myself not to initiate the contact. If I saw his couple pictures on FB, I suffered a lot. But I pretended to be I am also in love with the guy I created. We still maintained our friendship and have long catch-up once in a while. These times , I never started text or call him but if he started i am so happy and have long chat.

    I have finished my school and went back to our country and didn’t say him good bye. He still live and work in the country we met.
    After 2 months,I am back , he sent me message how I am doing and asking do I get new boyfriend?I just answer playfully and we had long catch-up.
    Then after one month, sent me message again and asked me again how many guys are trying to get my attention. I replied him i can’t even count by jokingly.

    Then I noticed , whenever he had fights with his girlfriend , he texted or called me. I hated that so much but as usual I can’t resist him.
    Two months later, he visited to our country and we met. This is the first time we are going out alone.During these times, he and his girlfriend are on again ,off again every 3 or 4 weeks.
    During our reunion, we chatted about everything like we used to be. He asked me do i have boyfriend now or still missing my ex that I created?Do i have plan to get married or to love again.( He think I love the guy I created so much and still mourning for him from broke up because he was my first love.) I told him I am open to the relationship if I meet a good guy. He said he is not sure he is going to marry his girlfriend at least just for now ( within 1 or 2 years)
    He also told me about his relationship and he needed the space but his girlfriend want all his time. He also mentioned that if I were his girlfriend, he is sure that problem won’t happen coz I understand him well and we are same type. I told him if you really love her , just try to make it work.Then he said she is really good to him and didn’t say anything about he loves her or not. I just encourage him to negotiate and try hard to make it work coz I don’t want to be someone who stole other girl’s boyfriend.During our meeting, he played my hair often, give me nice compliments, care for me so much and give very long goodbye hug. That is the first time we are hugging. He talked about our old times , friend sand having good laughs and I noticed that he still remembers my like and dislikes, what I have talked to him during our 4 month chatting.

    He went back from our country without even saying goodbye. I blocked him on FB coz I can’t stand seeing his continuous on off relationship. And don’t want to get involved and don’t want to fall for him one sided.
    No contact from him just blocked him on FB but we usually chat in viber that I didn’t block him. But deleted his number.
    So after 4 months, I wonder are they together. So l stalked his FB and found they are totally broke up.
    So I really want to talk him. I know he never like or love me.He just regards me as his sister and always called me little sis.So I sent him friend request and texted him I accidentally unfriend him. He was laughing . He texted me back that he wanna talk to me and hope I am doing great. I said I am too tired coz of work and exam then he texted take care of my health and he wanna see me happy and healthy when he is back. We just texted coz of time difference and when one woke up, one was in work. First time saying wanna talk to me and wanna see me.Next day he didn’t start texting. So I keep quiet too.
    And yesterday I can’t control myself again and find the excuse to start the conversation by asking advice from my problem. He read carefully as usual and explain to me how to deal and solve that problem.I told him thank you . He said it is my advice for my little sis( he must really think me like his sister 🙁 )

    Then I continue how I am feeling down and not excited for anything during these days, he said he will come back soon to make me crazy. And we have long catch up. At the end of conversation, he said ” miss you sis” . First time saying too. But I just ignore and saying other things coz I don’t know how to respond.

    He will come back for visit in December, then we will ‘meet and i am confused whether i should meet him or not. I know mostly i am conversation initiator and he wasn’t and will never interested in me. He is just playing or using me.
    It has been two years and I don’t want to suffer anymore. Please guide me what I should do and tell me your opinion on our relationship. Thank you so much in advance.

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 17, 2016 at 10:22 am

      Go ahead and make a move on his visit–it won’t hurt the situation since you aren’t dating and aren’t close to dating right now. He may have given p on trying to date you because you blocked him online, made up a fake boyfriend and never made a move. He may have liked you before, but there is no way to know if he still does or if he sees you as just a little sister. Whatever the case, the only way you will know for sure is to tell him how you feel and see what happens. Good luck!

  19. Evelyn

    October 16, 2016 at 11:24 am

    There is this guy in my class and I think he might like me because he is almost always looking my way and he always asks for my help any time he can even if we both know he is smarter then I am. The thing is all the boys in my class are jerks to me and he kinda follows along but always apologizes after. I’m not quite sure what I think of him. This is kinda embarrassing but I have had a few dreams with him telling me he likes me. I’m just not sure what to do. Any help would be much appreciated! Thank you 🙂

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 17, 2016 at 10:16 am

      Looking at you and asking for help are signs that he could like you–plus, he apologizes for going with the crowd, so he could be interested. Your dreams could just mean you like him back, or you think he could like you and dreamed of him that way. If you like him, go ahead and make a move and see what happens. Good luck, Evelyn!

  20. abbey

    October 16, 2016 at 8:43 am

    Hiya, I recently started my new job, ive been working there for 2 weeks now and there’s a boy there who I’m really into but he’s hard to read…..
    When ever I walk near him or he comes up to tills he always smiles and asks if I’m alright, he always opens doors for me, he always walk behind me at the tills putting his hand on my waist..
    Today he came in and all the girls behind the tills with me said to him “you look different” and he said “yeah, I’ve had a shave” and they were all like “you don’t normally shave” and he smirked at me and he smelt so good today as well. Today as well I noticed him and another boy who we work with were stood in eyes view of the tills and I could see him and this other boy talking and looking at me and smiling, like they were talking about me and then he bro hugged him…
    I just don’t know how he feels, does he fancy me, does he not? And what should I do if he does? Hes so hard to read….

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 17, 2016 at 10:14 am

      It sounds like he could like you, but nothing is for sure yet. Keep talking to him, try flirting a bit and see how he responds. Good luck, Abbey!

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