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    What Does It Mean When You Dream About Your Crush?

    By on December 29, 2013

    On average every one of us dreams seven times per night. We might not even realise it, but that doesn’t make it any less true. All too often people don’t realise this and claim to never dream, not realising how statistically unlikely that actually is. Since you’re reading this, I think it’s safe to say however that you’re not one of those people. I’m going to take a shot and say that you remember your dreams quite a lot, perhaps most nights, and I’m going to take another shot and say that a lot of them feature a certain, very special, someone.

    But what does it mean when your crush keeps popping up in your dreams? Why is it that he just can’t contain himself to real life, why is he flaunting himself in your dreams too? Here’s your answer…

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    The Why

    ‘The why’ in ‘why is your crush dream stalking you?’ is simple – you’re thinking about him in your waking hours and unable to forget about him when you switch off for the night. When we sleep our subconscious gets free reign and in that time it paints us pictures using the people, objects, places and scenarios we’ve been thinking of when we were awake.

    There’s not much else to the why, like I said, it’s simple. You’re focussing on him while you’re awake and your subconscious is simply playing on that fact and creating a dream from it.

    What It Means

    Depending on your beliefs and whether or not you’re superstitious, dreams can either mean nothing or they can mean everything. They can hide clues to the future or your deepest desires or they can simply be nothing more than your mind playing a trick on you. If you don’t believe dreams hold clues to our futures or insights into our souls then I suggest you skip over this section, it may not be for you.

    Here’s a few common dreams that may include your crush and what they are commonly interpreted to mean…

    To dream you are kissing your crush symbolizes love, affectation and harmony. Your mind is expressing your waking desire to be close to this person and form some sort of attachment, in this case a relationship.

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    Don’t panic if you and your crush were arguing in a dream. This doesn’t mean you aren’t compatible as a couple. Arguing in a dream can symbolize tension and that you are trying to resolve an internal conflict. In this case, it’s likely your mind trying to tell you how frustrated it is that your crush is nothing more than a crush. It could show that your mind is ready for the two of you to become more than friends.

    If you receive a love note or letter in your dream means that there could be a new relationship ahead of you. It also however symbolizes that you are insecure about something and need reassurance about your feelings or relationship. My advice in this situation is to be hopeful but beware, don’t let your insecurities get the better of you.

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    What To Do About It

    On a whole, dreaming of your crush shows that you have an unresolved issue with him in real life, namely that he’s only your crush and not your boyfriend. You need to take action in the real world by attempting to get closer to him to see if a relationship is on the cards or not. Either way, your dreams about him are likely to grow fewer, if not stop altogether, as you start to live out your fantasy of speaking to him in everyday life. Chances are, you’ll be happier for it too. Instead of waking up feeling slightly hollow every morning seeing as your dream was only a dream, you’ll end each day feeling fulfilled that you spoke to him.

    Try reading my article How To Get Your Crush To Like You for tips on how to interact with your crush in real life. As much as we’d all like to, we can’t go on dreaming forever. It’s time to stop dreaming and start living so go out there and make your crush fall head over heels for you!

    3,321 Comments

    1. Rosa

      February 19, 2018 at 2:57 pm

      I have a dream that my crush and I holding hand and love each other? What is mean?

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 19, 2018 at 10:31 pm

        This dream is a reflection of your desire to establish a relationship with your crush. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Rosa!

    2. Haya

      February 19, 2018 at 1:58 pm

      I had a dream that I was in a classroom with only me and a guy that I thought was cute (not my crush) and his girlfriend. He was about to kiss me but then he realized that his girlfriend was behind him so he did’nt. What does that mean?

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 19, 2018 at 10:30 pm

        This dream may be a reflection of numerous influences that you have in your life. This is a positive dream. Your positive actions have manifested in your dreams. Allow this dream to continue to influence you in a positive direction. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Haya!

    3. Kylie

      February 19, 2018 at 10:17 am

      What does it mean when I am at school and my crush walks up to me and wants to be my date for a Halloween dance

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 19, 2018 at 10:22 pm

        This dream is a reflection of your desire to establish a relationship with your crush. It is possible that you want to spend additional time with him in person. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Kylie!

    4. Kylie

      February 19, 2018 at 10:15 am

      What dies it mean when your in a beach harbor and he has a fat suit on and the rips it of and is cute. And smiles at you

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 19, 2018 at 10:21 pm

        This dream is a reflection of your emotional connection with this person. It may be a sign that your feelings for him are changing. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Kylie!

    5. Rejhana

      February 19, 2018 at 2:32 am

      I had a dream last night that my crush texted me saying:”I love you” than I answered :”I love you too” and than he said:”I will be there for you forever and I want to be with you” than my dream ended 😭

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 19, 2018 at 9:59 pm

        This dream is a reflection of our desire to establish a relationship with your crush. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Rejhana!

    6. Emilie

      February 18, 2018 at 11:33 am

      I dreamt about me in my school and we were lined up , when suddenly and out of nowhere, my crush came and hold my hand and we started walking together, but then he started acting weird and then I realised that he was sick…
      What does that mean ???

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 18, 2018 at 10:32 pm

        This dream is a reflection of your desire to establish a relationship with you crush. His sickness may be a manifestation of your desire to have someone to care for. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Emilie!

    7. Isah

      February 15, 2018 at 7:38 am

      My classmate teased me yesterday to my crush and I keep thinking about the possibility that my crush will know my feelings for him and my fear started to show up. I don’t want to be awkward with him if we saw each other so I keep thinking about that things. And when night comes, I dreamed that my crush was curious about me. I don’t remember the exact line he said but I remember this, he said “There are 2 kinds of rose… But I’m curious about you” shocks he smiled at me and touched my cheeks then after that I woke up and it’s 1:34AM. What does the meaning of my dream?

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 15, 2018 at 8:51 pm

        This dream is a reflection of your desire to establish a relationship with your crush. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Isah!

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