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  1. Jane
    June 15, 2018

    The guy I am currently seeing hasn’t asked me to come to his house, he comes to mine. I have mentioned this and he always avoids an answer or makes up a lame excuse. He doesn’t disclose anything about himself and when I ask his answers are minimal. He also has very little interest in asking me anything. I know he can talk freely about many topics because we used to work together and talked all the time. Granted, we’ve only been seeing each other a couple of months (weekly) and he is consistent in texting (most of the time) but my gut feeling is that he would try harder if he were interested. I believe he is keeping me around because he has nothing else better to do and would leave me in the dust for the person that IS right for him. I may give him more time but why? The day I have the ‘conversation’ with him is the day I walk away. Because if he were actually interested in me, I wouldn’t have to have the conversation with him at all.

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    • web admin
      web admin
      June 17, 2018

      There may be a variety of reasons for why he does not want you to come to his house. He may have a household life that embarrasses him or is stressful for him. He may be concerned that you will not feel comfortable or safe. You might want to speak with him and determine what is preventing him from spending time with you at his house. Have a great day, Jane!

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  2. Luna
    May 5, 2018

    Its 50-50. I just don’t know, I’m in so much pain rn. were friends, but I JUST DO NOT KNOW 🙁

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    • web admin
      web admin
      May 6, 2018

      If you believe that he is not interested in developing a relationship with you, then allow thoughts of him to fade. It is possible that he may have feelings for you. You can nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Luna!

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