14 Signs Your Guy Means It When He Says “I Love You”

By on January 23, 2017

There is truly nothing more special in this world than love. It’s an intense, divine feeling that gives us warmth in our hearts, but chills down our spine. Seeing the person you love is like seeing an angel straight from heaven, while hearing those three little words ‘I love you’ makes us stop dead in our tracks, melting in an instant. Love can be complicated though, too, especially when someone says it but doesn’t truly mean it. So how can you tell if a guy really means it when he tells you those three special words? We’re going to dive into the world of love and expose all of the signs that your guy really means it when he says ‘I love you’.

Three Reasons He Might be Faking

It’s unfortunate, but sometimes men (and women too!) say ‘I love you’ without really meaning it. It’s a shame and truly something that messes with the heart on the other end, but to help reduce the risks of being played into a fake love, we are going to give you the three top reasons a man might say ‘I love you’ without meaning it.

He Wants to Get Into Your Pants

It’s unfortunate, but almost every man on planet earth knows that a woman is an emotional creature that is more likely to ‘give it up’ if she feels a man is in love with her. A lot of men use this ‘trick’ on women to get them into bed, then afterwards they’re up and leaving. It’s important to notice when a man is just saying ‘I love you’ to sleep with you- it’s pretty obvious if he does it while you guys are heating things up or when he’s obviously turned on and touching you every which way.

He Feels Forced to Say It

When a woman is in love with a man, she obviously wants him to know and is dying for him to reciprocate the answer. That being said, a woman in love will probably tell this guy over and over again just how much she loves him, just waiting for him to say it back to her. If you’re bugging him constantly about the ‘L’ word and he finally says it back begrudgingly, he most likely felt he HAD to say it just to get you to be happy. Does he mean it? Probably not.

Fourteen Reasons He is Being Real

Of course not all men say ‘I love you’ because they want some sex or feel they have to do so; so how can you tell when a guy is being genuine? There’s fourteen simple ways to tell whether or not he is the real deal and his love is pure.

Says it First

The majority of men don’t like to say ‘I love you’ first. It may be that they are scared, they don’t want to come across as needy, they are afraid of rejection, or simply their ego doesn’t want them to be the one being all emotional. Some men are even afraid of being in love period. All of these things make it hard for a man to finally say the big ‘L’ word, so if your guy is the first one to say it, you can rest assured he is probably being genuine with his feelings; especially if he doesn’t do it before or after intercourse.

Sounds Genuine

With some people you can just tell when their being genuine. Perhaps they have a certain way of saying something they truly mean, or their body language says it all. When he finally tells you he loves you, pay very close attention to how genuine he is actually appearing. Pay attention to his body language from head to toe and really get a good look at him when he says it.

Looks Deep Into Your Eyes

One quick and easy way to judge a man’s authenticity when he tells you he loves you is to notice where his eyes are. Is he looking at the ground, trying to avoid eye contact altogether? He could either be really, really nervous or simply not mean it at all. But nine times out of ten, when a man is truly in love and ready to say the words, he will look deep into the eye’s of his woman to ensure he has her full attention when he tells her such an important thing. So when the time comes for ‘I love you’, make sure his eyes are locked on you. His eyes should be as if they are looking deep into your soul, telling every inch of your body that the love is meaningful and true.

Says it Randomly

A guy that is in love won’t have to be prompted to say ‘I love you’, and once they get comfortable saying it, they will want to say it all the time. His love will happen at random when you are least expecting it, because he wants you to know he is being for real and he wants to make you smile as much as he possibly can. And he absolutely won’t leave the love to only ‘I love you too’s when you guys are talking.

Holds You Close

Men that are truly in love with their lady want to hold them close all the time; not just when you guys are getting ready to kiss or watching a movie, but all the time. It’s only natural! I mean think about it: when you truly love something or someone, you want it next to you all the time and you just want to feel close; that is exactly how a guy feels when he falls in love with a woman. They simply can’t get enough of their touch, and after an embrace, it is hard for them to let go.

Talks About the Future With You

Let’s just be brutally honest right now: a guy that is not one hundred percent serious about you and is absolutely not in love with you will not talk about the future with you! They don’t want a future with you and they are still holding out for the woman of their dreams to finally make a solid commitment to. So, if your guy is talking about the future- whether it’s the kind of house you two want or a vacation you should take during the summertime, take that as a big indication he is truly in love with you and wants you to stick around for a very long time.

Kisses You Passionately

There’s a big difference between a peck on the lips and a passionate kiss, and an ‘I love you’ should only be ended with a long, passionate kiss, where the love is being strewn up and down your spine as your tongues press against each other in a remarkable way. It’s the kiss where you can almost see fireworks, the one that melts your entire being. That’s the passionate ‘I love you’ kiss you will only receive from a man that is truly in love with you.

Makes You Feel Special

So you want to watch a terrible chick flick and he obviously would rather watch grass grow? But yet he watches it anyways? It must be love. So your back kind of hurts, but you don’t want to go get a massage? He will massage it for you. So he sends you an adorable text message just to light up your day when you are halfway through work? These are all things a man will do for his woman that he truly loves with all of his heart.

Is Jealous

Men AND women get jealous when they are in love. If your boyfriend doesn’t care that a guy is flirting with you or that he may have noticed you eye-balling that cutie across the room, then he probably doesn’t care about you at all. Jealousy just goes hand-in-hand with being in love; it sucks, but is certainly is true!

He Loves to Be Close to You

Don’t be surprised if a man that says ‘I love you’ wants to see you almost every day of the week; I mean, why wouldn’t he? The two of you are in love and being apart is almost treacherous. Yes, some personal space is okay, but for the most part the two of you want to be together all the time. You want to go on dates, make dinners together, or simply just sit at home snuggling watching a movie. The point is: you guys want to be close all the time.

Smiles Genuinely At You

You know that big smile a guy does when he is staring into your eyes like you’re the most beautiful woman in the world? Yup, that is the smile of a man who is smitten.

Does Special Things for You

Men love to surprise and spoil the women that they love, whether it’s a little ‘I love you’ poem on the fridge before he leaves for work, or a gorgeous diamond necklace on Valentine’s Day. The big things AND the little things are all part of the package, and you’ll get both if a man is really in love with you.

He Brags About You

A man that is seriously in love will also want everyone around him to feel super jealous of his wonderful woman, so if you’re overhearing him bragging nonstop about you, he probably loves you.

You Just Know

Sometimes the best way to know if something is genuine or fake is to use your own judgment. We all have intuitions, and if yours is telling you that he is really in love with you, you may be right. On the other hand, if everything just seems ‘off’ and ‘not real’, then pay close attention to him and figure out what the truth really is. Either way you need to follow your heart.

How do you think a man acts when he is really in love? What are some of the signs? Share with us your thoughts and stories below!

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    Jan

    August 18, 2019 at 9:34 pm

    I thought I would do a rewrite;due to many grammatical errors. So admin. Feel free to delete my first response. Thank you!

    He had waken me up early this morning. He had said, excitingly, “I have finally found a song, that reminds me of us.” It is George Strait’s, I Cross My Heart.” So he played the video on YouTube. I smiled so big and completely imagined us, dancing to it at our wedding of someday.

    He had even told me he loved me for the very first time. By the way, I am 37 and he is 41.

    Tonight, before he went to bed. He texted me the complete lyrics to the song. And he was correct, the song does remind me of us.

    Our love is unconditional
    We knew it from the start
    I can see it in your eyes
    You can feel it from my heart
    From here on after
    Let’s stay the way we are right now
    And share all the love and laughter
    That a lifetime will allow.
    I cross my heart
    And promise to
    Give all I’ve got to give
    To make all your dreams come true
    In all the world
    You’ll never find
    A love as true as mine
    You will always be the miracle
    That makes my life complete
    And as long as there’s a breath in me
    I’ll make yours just as sweet
    As we look into the future
    It’s as far as we can see
    So let’s make each tomorrow
    Be the best that it can be
    I cross my heart
    And promise to
    Give all I’ve got to give
    To make all your dreams come true
    In all the world
    You’ll never find
    A love as true as mine
    And if along the way we find a day
    It starts to storm
    You’ve got the promise of my love
    To keep you warm
    In all the world
    You’ll never find
    A love as true as mine
    A love as true as mine

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 20, 2019 at 8:23 pm

      Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. We always appreciate when members of our community share their thoughts and feelings. Please share more of your supportive comments in the future. Have a great day, Jan!

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    J'annetta Geoege

    August 18, 2019 at 9:23 pm

    When he finally figured put our song. I spent the night and he woke me up and excitingly said, I found our song that reminds me of us. George Strait’s song, I Cross My Heart. He told me, he loved men while looking in to my eyes. Before he went to bed, he sent me the entire lyrics to the song.

    Our love is unconditional
    We knew it from the start
    I can see it in your eyes
    You can feel it from my heart
    From here on after
    Let’s stay the way we are right now
    And share all the love and laughter
    That a lifetime will allow.
    I cross my heart
    And promise to
    Give all I’ve got to give
    To make all your dreams come true
    In all the world
    You’ll never find
    A love as true as mine
    You will always be the miracle
    That makes my life complete
    And as long as there’s a breath in me
    I’ll make yours just as sweet
    As we look into the future
    It’s as far as we can see
    So let’s make each tomorrow
    Be the best that it can be
    I cross my heart
    And promise to
    Give all I’ve got to give
    To make all your dreams come true
    In all the world
    You’ll never find
    A love as true as mine
    And if along the way we find a day
    It starts to storm
    You’ve got the promise of my love
    To keep you warm
    In all the world
    You’ll never find
    A love as true as mine
    A love as true as mine

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 20, 2019 at 8:22 pm

      Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. We always appreciate when members of our community share their thoughts and feelings. Please share more of your supportive comments in the future. Have a great day, J’annetta!

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    just wqondering

    April 28, 2019 at 12:13 am

    when he said I wanted to tell you this. Your beauty is as astounding as the winds of heaven that rips the chains of my everlasting sincerity and heart. You are my shining star in the darkness and if you were to count all the stars at night that is how much I love you. Also I want to tell you that out of all the flowers in the field I would only choose one and that would be you my beautiful rose. I don’t know if he is just saying it for me to tell him my feelings anf=d then just say its a joke or he really means it. helps?

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 28, 2019 at 9:23 pm

      He shared his thoughts and feelings with you. He may have decided to be poetic, which is an indication that he wanted to impress you. This does not mean that his statement is false. It is likely that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Ensure that your dream guides you to speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Wondering!

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