10 Signs He Doesn’t Like You

By on June 20, 2016

Guys can’t be really hard to read sometimes. They can be super flirty one minute and then completely ignore you the next. Who else finds this really frustrating? I know I do! It can be so hard to tell if a guy likes you that you might just give up on someone that actually likes you!

Luckily, I’ve had some experience decipher when a guy really likes me and when he clearly doesn’t. It also doesn’t hurt that I have many male friends that help me decode their confusing behavior.

If you’re not sure if a guy likes you or not, it can be upsetting and downright annoying trying to figure them out. These signs that he doesn’t like you can save you from wasting your time and feelings on someone who just doesn’t care.

  1. He doesn’t reply to your texts.

When a guy likes you, he’s going to want to talk to you all the time. This means that if a guy doesn’t like you, he’s not going to reply to your texts or calls or any form of communication for that matter. So if you’re ever sending texts that go unanswered – especially if you send more than one – then it means that he’s really not interested and you should just move on.

One confusing aspect about this is that he might reply to your texts just to be polite even if he doesn’t like you. In this instance, you’ll want to watch out for really vague texts that don’t further the conversation at all. If he takes forever to reply and when he does it’s really mediocre response, he doesn’t like you.

  1. He is never the first person to start the conversation.

If you’re constantly the one initiating the conversion – whether via text or in person – then it’s a sign he doesn’t like you. Just as I mentioned in the point above, those who like us actually want to talk to us as much as they can. If you’re always the one who has to push for a conversation and you feel like it’s pulling teeth just to get him to respond to anything you say, then he doesn’t like you.

  1. He doesn’t make and effort to talk to you when you’re in the same place.

Running into your crush happens a lot – especially if you’re within the same friend group. But if you frequent the same places and you find that he makes no effort to walk over and talk to you, then it could be a sign he doesn’t like you. If you know he sees you and he still doesn’t engage in you any more than just a quick wave, move on because he’s not interested.

  1. He never remembers details about you.

A guy that can’t remember your birthday is a guy that doesn’t actually care about it. Guys are very selective in what they choose to hear and remember. This means you can have a completely deep conversation with a guy – or so you think – and it turns out he won’t remember even the simplest of details. Why? Because he wasn’t even listening in the first place because he doesn’t care. If he liked you, he’d remember every single important detail. So move on if this is the guy you’re crushing on.

  1. He talks to everyone the same way he talks to you.

Guys have a way of talking to girl they like in a very different manner than they would talk to their friends. So if you find that he talks to you just the same way that he’s talking to his friends, unfortunately, he doesn’t actually like you. Some of you will try to justify this behavior by saying, “but he can act himself around me so it must mean he likes me.” No. Guys who like you WILL act and talk different around you. If they don’t, then it’s a sign he doesn’t like you.

  1. He doesn’t ask about your life at all.

If you do talk to this person on a semi regular basis it can be hard to tell if he likes you because well, he’s talking to you! But if he only keeps the conversation on a neutral level, never asking any details about your life, then it’s a sign he doesn’t like you. If he did like you, he’d be asking you detailed questions about your life and trying to get to know you as best he could. Since he’s not doing that, it’s safe to assume he doesn’t care about the details of your life and therefore does not like you.

  1. He flirts with everyone else.

Guys can be VERY flirtatious creatures. Meaning they will flirt with just about everyone – even if they do like you. The difference is that if they like you, they won’t be flirting in front of you because it will ruin their chances of actually dating you. If he’s flirting with you and then going around and flirting with other girls right in front of you, then he doesn’t actually like you at all. Otherwise he wouldn’t want you to witness his flirtatious behavior with everyone else.

  1. He’s turned away from you when you two talk in person.

Body language is a HUGE indicator of whether or not someone is into you because they can’t help the way their bodies respond to you. This means that if he is talking to you but his body is turned away from you and he’s just turning his head to speak with you, he doesn’t like you. If he did like you, his whole body would be engaged in the conversation because he would want to be interacting with you as much as he could. So if you do get to talk to him sometimes but it seems like he’s interested in something else, he doesn’t like you.

  1. His body language doesn’t suggest that he does.

The direction of his body isn’t the only way his body will tell you if he likes you or not. There are so many other ways his body language can give way to his true feelings. If he crosses his arms when talking to you, this also means that he’s not interested at all. As humans, we tend to block ourselves around those we don’t like and open ourselves to those that we do. Another way to tell is if he’s making eye contact with you. If he likes you he’ll try to focus his eyes on yours but if he’s avoids eye contact with you, then it’s a sign he doesn’t like you.

  1. He tries to avoid you.

If this is the case, it’s more than likely that he’s figured out you have feelings for him and is trying to avoid any confrontation that might take place between you two. Why would he do this? Because he doesn’t actually have feelings for you but doesn’t want to say that and hurt your feelings. He’s hoping by avoiding you you’ll get the hint and move on without him having to be caught in the middle of an uncomfortable situation.

Although guys can be really confusing when it comes to figuring out if they like you or not, these 10 signs he doesn’t like you will definitely help you figure it out. Have you had any luck deciphering a guy’s feelings before?


  1. Nette

    March 15, 2018 at 12:18 am

    I have a neighbor I have a crush on. Him and I have a feeling that he likes me too coz he always looking at me and look in our house..one day I send him a message in Facebook and confess that I like him and it’s okey for him he reply and we have a short talk seems he is interested to me but his girlfriend have access to his Facebook and one day he message me to stop chatting as his GF will get mad I notice that he’s not the one writing that maybe his GF..until now he’s not replying to me anymore.im confuse does he really like me too or not?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 15, 2018 at 9:26 pm

      He is in a relationship. Allow thoughts of him to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Take this time to determine what you want for your future without him. There is no reason to attempt to develop a romantic relationship with him. If his relationship naturally ends and reaches out to you, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Nette!

  2. Anonymous

    October 24, 2017 at 1:18 pm

    Hi! So, i like this guy in my workout class hes really shy and sends alot of mixed signals. One day he will be really chatty and the next quiet. He asks where i am but so do my friends! Its so confusing!! He also sits by me alot and smiles when im in his presence.. and when i come into the room (very rare) he will leave the room its wierd. The other day he saw me sitting by the window so he snuck over to the other room then he walked out looked at me and started pacing back and forth then sat 3 feet away from me reading his book,and he also says goodbye to me and only me. Does he like me or should we just be friends?

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      web admin

      October 24, 2017 at 8:06 pm

      It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship. He likely feels a strong emotional connection with you. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him a chance to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Anon!

  3. Ashley

    August 1, 2017 at 11:52 pm

    Please help me. I really like this guy and I wanna make sure he likes me to before I say anything to him about how I feel or show any signs. It starts with a guy I been talking to at a store he works at near my house. Every time we see each other we would start talking. If he seen me he would walk up to me and start talking to me (we’ve known for each other for roughly a year). If he’s finishing work and sees me in a ile hell walk over and talk to me before leaving work. One day their was at least 3 of us talking and he only asked my opinion in regards of him. Like do you like my hair, do you think id be a good Dr, would I look good with studs. Why wpuld he only ask me? he’s also complimented my new hairstyle. “I like you’re hair” were his exact words and the first thing he said when he seen me (I also had like 3 other people compliment my new hair and it was girls, he was the only guy who said anything about my new hairstyle). I also catch him staring at me here and their and when i catch him its direct eye contact like he was looking in my eyes. Only problem is he hasn’t asked me out, asked to add him on any of his social sites or my number so I’m confused? He also tells me new life updates about him and new upcoming jobs he has, his favorite clothing store, favorite mall, told me what town he lives in. He hasn’t made any moves tho? Am I over thinking and he’s not interested?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 2, 2017 at 7:50 pm

      It is possible that he views you as a only a friend. It is possible that he has feelings for you, but it uncertain about your feelings toward him. It is likely that your relationship would be benefited by speaking directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Perhaps attempt to spend additional time with him. Have a great day, Ashley!

  4. Angel

    July 14, 2017 at 3:29 pm

    So I spent a night dancing away with a work colleague its was very flirtatious but nothing happened. Once we arrived back in work I thought I would say hello and exchange a few words to break the ice. Everyone seems to think he is really shy. Well he doesn’t seem to be when he is speaking to them and I’ve seem him after a few drinks he seems fine with everyone but me. She I tried it felt really awkward and since then it continues to be. He will say hello to everyone else around but never to me. Doesn’t stay in the room long enough when I’m there. Avoids all eye contact and if it does happen will divert his gaze as soon as he can. Of course we have to see each other frequently and on company dos this can be hard. Again he completely avoids me and seems to feel that conversing/flirting with other women around me is kind. If he doesn’t like that’s fine but to be what i would call rude is not cool

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 14, 2017 at 7:20 pm

      It is possible that he is not interested in developing a relationship with you. It is possible that he is shy and does not know how to speak with you at this moment. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to continue your relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If you don’t want to be with him, then allow him to fade from your life and move on. Have a great day, Angel!

      • Angel

        July 15, 2017 at 1:23 pm

        Thanks for this. As I can’t see either of us communicating with each other and even though I do really like this guy I think I might just have to let this fade

        • web admin

          web admin

          July 15, 2017 at 8:36 pm

          Thank you for sharing your response. It is great that you have made a decision regarding your relationship. New opportunities will come. Have a great day, Angel!

  5. Jess

    April 10, 2017 at 12:03 am

    Ok, so I work with this guy I really like, I’ve known him since November. We have almost everything in common, his body language is green flags (feet pointed towards me when we talk, eye contact, etc.) there is even the ‘accidental’ hand touches and invasion of personal space. He’s made it pretty clear that he’s single, and only one time said another girl was cute in front of me (he was talking to his friend) already knowing that this other girl is in a relationship and never mentioned her again, and he takes more initiative to come talk to me more so than I do to him. However he hasn’t made any obvious hints that he likes me as much as I like him. For instance, we clocked out at the same time but didn’t wait for me to walk me to my car, hasn’t flirted (or at least I haven’t picked up on it) and hasn’t asked for my number or befriended me on social media. I’m not sure if I got stuck in the friend zone (again, only said it once about the other girl), he doesn’t talk to me about guy stuff, and never called me pal, buddy, etc. but we do talk about our lives outside of work. It’s obvious he enjoys my company, he just making it difficult to tell if he likes me more than a coworker/friend

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 10, 2017 at 8:17 am

      He has had chances to add you online, walk to you to the car and to flirt with you, so he may not be interested in you as more than a friend. If he does like you, then he may also not want to do anything since you work together. I would not assume that he is interested yet though–it could make things uncomfortable at work if you make a move and he does not respond. You could always respond by flirting a little just to see if he starts to do the same. Good luck, Jess!

  6. Gracie M.

    March 27, 2017 at 9:13 pm

    Hey. My crush and I have known each other since December. He’s not much into social media or texting so the only way we talk is through skype or in person.He also can be vague at times. We have mutual friends and make jokes or playfully fight. A few weeks ago I confessed to him and he took it quite well and we still hang out and speak. So last week, I asked if he liked me and he responded with “idk” and left the conversation at that. I’m very confused.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 28, 2017 at 9:25 am

      It sounds like he just never realized considered you as an option, so now he has to rethink his feelings for you. He didn’t realize that you were interested, so now he has to figure out if he feels the same way. Give him a bit of time. He knows that you like him, so he can always make a move now if he is interested. Good luck, Gracie M.!

  7. Lisa

    February 19, 2017 at 8:43 pm

    Sup! my crush teases me a lot and puts sarcastic jokes in between our convos he smiles sometimes and sometimes doesn’t I don’t know if I like him because after getting rejected I don’t seem to feel anything I only felt butterflies once I don’t know ?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 20, 2017 at 10:51 am

      If the two of you are close, then you may find that your friendship will naturally grow into a relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Try to spend additional time with him and learn about his goals and desires. Do not concern yourself with thoughts of rejection. Best of luck, Lisa!

  8. Karen

    February 17, 2017 at 2:09 pm


    • web admin

      web admin

      February 18, 2017 at 12:44 pm

      Hello, Karen! Feel free to share any questions or comments that you may have. Have a great day!

      • Karen

        February 23, 2017 at 6:27 pm

        By any questions I can ask my question is Have you ever heard the band Panic! At The Disco?

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 24, 2017 at 11:53 am

          Sure! Ask him any questions that you want. Learning about his musical tastes will help the two of you become closer. If he hasn’t heard of them, then listen to an album with him. If he has, then listen to all of the albums together. Have a great day, Karen!

          • Karen

            February 24, 2017 at 4:26 pm

            Actually I was asking you you said I can ask you guys anything so have you heard Panic! At The Disco their amazing!! Lol ? I don’t want a boy friend

            • web admin

              web admin

              February 26, 2017 at 12:22 pm

              Oh! Thank you for clearing up our misunderstanding. Feel free to share more of your questions and thoughts in the future. Have a great day, Karen!

  9. Claire

    February 16, 2017 at 5:58 pm

    Hi!!! First I would like to say Happy two days late Valentine’s Day! So remember how you said talk to the boy I like well I tried but totally chickened out just when I was near him I got nervous and turned the other way so yeah now today we were practicing shooting basketballs in gym and every chance I got I tried getting three in a row shooting far from the net to impress him but he didn’t say anything when other girls and his friends shooted the ball in the net he would say “nice” or something I don’t get it I got the ball in every time he would glance at me but not a single “nice” to me

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      web admin

      February 17, 2017 at 8:44 am

      You would be best served by steeling yourself and speaking with him. Walk up directly to him, look at him in the eyes, and explain your thoughts and feelings. You may be surprised with what you can achieve if you are directly with someone. Best of luck, Claire!

  10. Bella

    February 10, 2017 at 4:46 pm

    Hi, my crush rejected me last year but today he kind of stared at me for 5 minutes then went inside the classroom I was he stared at me when I was laughing with my best friend what does that mean??

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 11, 2017 at 9:56 am

      He may want to establish a relationship with you. If you still have feeling for him, then try to speak with him. If he doesn’t want to speak with you, then you have your answer. If he is positive and kind to you, then you know that you can try to further your relationship. Best of luck, Bella!

  11. Claire

    February 7, 2017 at 9:40 pm

    This one is about the boy I have a crush on right now, so he talks to everyone but me and at home time he asks questions to me through my mom like for example we have to choose a person to do a biography on he would ask my mom “Who is Claire doing a biography on?” Then my mom would ask me and I would answer I’m kind of upset about that he is a really outgoing guy I don’t understand what’s wrong with me btw if you don’t know who I’m talking about it’s the boy who people tease me with by shipping Claire +__ so yeah I try everyday to see if his looking at me but I’m to shy I can only last one second I laugh at his jokes mostly I try my best to show him I like him without talking he even asked to help me with the attendance a week ago but apparently our teacher said ‘no’I was hoping a ‘yes’ but whatever the question is why doesn’t he talk to me at school and at home time he laughs when my mom embarrasses me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 8, 2017 at 10:24 am

      He may be too shy to speak with you. Since he is asking about you, he probably is interested in becoming closer to you. Your best option is to try to speak with him more often. Try to strike up a conversation with him when you are able to. Perhaps the two of you may become closer if you work on your assignment together. Your parents may be interested in helping the two of you study together. Best of luck, Claire!

      • Claire

        February 8, 2017 at 2:00 pm

        Sorry I explained it wrong it’s an individual project what I meant when I said choose a person to do a biography on it means we have to choose a person who fought for human rights and do a biography on them I’m doing Nelson Mandela he is doing someone else and he told my mom that he even helped someone in our class boost their math grade up (his really smart) I was hoping my mom would ask him to tutor me but she didn’t cause my grades are a little down as well and I’m too shy to ask him that I need help because he called me dumb once and yeah and the person he tutored was a boy

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 8, 2017 at 2:37 pm

          You may find that your actions will bring the two of you closer. Speak with your mother about your idea. You may also want to work with him to share ideas about organization for your report. Even if the two of you study different people, you can still study together. Best of luck, Claire!

          • Claire

            February 8, 2017 at 9:05 pm

            I don’t know how my mom will react if I told her that or how I like him I’m too nervous and by him being too shy to speak to me does that mean he likes me?? He talked to me once around his friends it wasn’t a conversation just a sentence but I know he was talking to me the only thing was he didn’t say my name he talks to my ex-best friend who told me on Saturday that she found a new best friend oh, I’m off topic but yeah we just switched desks and my crush is sitting in front of her and he sometimes turns around to have small talk with her I would talk to her that’s it’s bugging me but right now me and her are giving each other the silent treatment

            • web admin

              web admin

              February 9, 2017 at 10:29 am

              You need to take this time to realize that the only option for you is to communicate with everyone in your life. Speak with your mother about the person that you like. Speak with the person that you like about your desire to establish a relationship with him. Speak with your friend about whatever is bothering you If you continue to not speak, then you will find that you will continually lose out on things that you desire. Best of luck, Claire!

              • Claire

                February 9, 2017 at 9:36 pm

                Okay thanks for the advice and does him being shy mean he like him? I didn’t get the answer

                • web admin

                  web admin

                  February 10, 2017 at 10:47 am

                  It is possible that shyness means that there are hidden feelings. It is also possible that he is simply naturally shy. Your best option is to speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. Best of luck, Claire!

  12. Claire

    January 30, 2017 at 6:52 pm

    I just noticed #10 is my crush he runs away from me when he sees me it’s painful (especially on the first day of school the year after I confessed) but somehow I got used to it now I’m trying hard to forget the past even though I see him everyday at school it’s just hard! #sad ):

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 31, 2017 at 12:07 pm

      If the only thing that he is doing is avoiding you, then it is possible that he is shy. He may be worried about how you feel about him. He may want to establish a relationship with you. Try to spend more time with him if possible. Best of luck, Claire!

      • Claire

        February 5, 2017 at 8:27 pm

        I can’t talk to him because we are in separate classes there are two grade 7 classes I don’t have a phone so I can’t like text him I barely have time to talk in the Morning when I arrive at school; I don’t see him. At lunch time; he is talking with his friends. At home time; with his friends. We used to be in the same class for three years but than we got separated I miss his teasing ):

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 6, 2017 at 11:08 am

          You may want to try to speak with him during lunch time. Try to catch him with his group of friends and ask him if he would speak with you alone. There is no reason to be concerned about his friends. If you do this, then he and his friends will know for certain that you like him. That said, it is likely that he will be positive about your actions. Take charge and enjoy life. Best of luck, Claire!

          • Claire

            February 7, 2017 at 9:30 pm

            Well I’m in Lunch program and sometimes we stay in because of the weather (after eating we always play outside) like today but I saw him in the Morning only there wasn’t any time to talk because the bell rang and I was two minutes late but yeah in the morning he was with two of his friends (one that used to be nice but is ignoring me now) they ran all three of them to the door and didn’t even open the door for me! Yesterday I kindly opened the door for his two friends why is he being so cold he smiled to his friends while running also, he used to date my best friend in grade 6 then they broke up.

            • web admin

              web admin

              February 8, 2017 at 10:23 am

              There are many reasons for him to be acting this way. You may want to allow him to fade from your thoughts. If he continues to not show any interest in you, then put him out of your mind. If you find that he wants to develop a relationship with you, then perhaps worry about him at that time. For now, remain positive and enjoy life. Best of luck, Claire!

  13. Niccole

    January 18, 2017 at 2:00 pm

    Hi so this guy named River has been acting wierd around me he winks at me and smiles at me. I do Like him. He is always sitting by me too. I was wondering if I should ask him out? Thank You

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 19, 2017 at 1:58 pm

      It is likely that he wants to establish a relationship with you. It seems as though you want the same thing. You already have your answer, so take action toward him if you want to have a relationship at this time. Best of luck, Niccole!

  14. Mariah Mackk

    January 16, 2017 at 2:51 pm

    So hi…my boyfriend and i have been dating for one month (tommorow yay!) and everything is going absolutely amazing! he’s told me everyhting and we literally know everyhting about eachother so our phone conversations aren’t very thrilling anymore. We used to talk every single day for hours on end about everything andnothing and its still great but now its like…because we know eveything about each other theres not much to talk about. how do i get him to open up to me more and how do i get the convo flowing

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 17, 2017 at 10:01 am

      Since the two of you have reached your limit through phone conversations, you two should spend more time together in person. Use the phone to set up dates or just times to meet. You do not need to spend any money for your dates. Nature walks are always great. You can spend time at his house or he can spend time at yours. Your relationship is ready for the next step. Have a great week, Mariah!

  15. Toni

    December 3, 2016 at 8:30 pm

    Hey. I have a boyfriend off 3 years but the past year I have been so unhappy and finding it hard to leave him because I dont want to hurt him. A few months ago I started talking to this guy who works in a shop around the corner from me. We were sending really flirty message via Facebook. So in September me and my boyfriend went to Vegas with my family. While I was away inn the casino my boyfriend went into my Facebook and saw the messages. After a heated argument he left the hotel room and got drunk,I was in bed by the time he got back which was around 3am. He dragged me out of bed by the legs and pulled my hair. The next day I didn’t speak to him. So we ended up talking and he said he would forget about what happened. Everything was okay until November when on my niece baptism day he didn’t want to be there. So he left around 3pm and I was minding the baby that night until I got a message from the other guy telling me that my partner was threatening him. So I kicked my boyfriend out of the house which lasted a week. But now the guy that I do like won’t talk to me at all. I have 2 Facebook’s and he only has me blocked on 1 which is confusing me. But when I go to the guys work place to get what I need I notice when I walk away he stares at me. This guy told me he wasn’t interested in me and I feel I’m getting mixed signals. I no what I did behind my boyfriends back was bad but the relationship is toxic. But has anyone got advice as about the other guy?
    Thanks toni

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 4, 2016 at 8:59 am

      If your current relationship is toxic (and I think that it could also be potentially dangerous since he was quite violent at the casino), then you should leave him. The other guy is not going to make a move until your current relationship is over and enough time has passed for him not to worry that this boyfriend will attack him. He may be unwilling to talk to you again, but he certainly is not going to start flirting again as long as you are taken. Since your current relationship is not a good one, you may want to start by just breaking up with your boyfriend and spending some time as a single person before you try to reconnect with the other guy.

  16. Lost in my mind

    November 8, 2016 at 8:34 pm

    Hey so there is this boy I like and he is shy when I’m around him, he always tells everyone he doesn’t like me because his brother likes me too I saw him today and he stared at me while I walked and he started to smile which made me smile but he flirts with all the girls in school and a lot of girls like him but he dated and had to break with me because of his brother but he was going to ask me out again but everybody knew so he didn’t and he texts me things like I don’t like you ok and I’m not going to ask you anything ok but his brother tells me that he says he loves me and his brother told my cousin that he has dreams about me and him

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 9, 2016 at 12:49 pm

      It is likely that his brother’s desire to develop a relationship with you may be negatively impacting his actions. He may have an interest in developing a relationship with you. However, you have a tough route to navigate. The first problems that you must deal with is his brother. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want to do in the future. For now, take no action and allow yourself to observe the situation for a week or so. At that time, take action. Have a great week!

  17. Katherine

    October 26, 2016 at 11:02 pm

    hey so I’m in 9th grade at an all girls school and there’s this guy at an all guys school and I knew he liked me but I can’t tell if he still does. So we’ve been texting off of Snapchat for about a month but we haven’t sent each other stuff on insta, and also see each other for the past 4-5 fridays in a row because of football games. So far he’s been texting just about everyday except for the last 2 days. And he has told his family about me and just about all the seniors at my school thinks we are a thing because he has a sister who’s a senior. I can’t tell if he likes me anymore because we haven’t texted each other in the past 2 days and one of his friends (who’s a girl) posted a pic of him on her snap story and it really got me confused. And the girl who posted something on her story about him is his best friends gf. I’m confused right now or paranoid.

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 27, 2016 at 10:13 am

      If you want to know the truth, then your best option is to speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings and concerns. Perhaps make some time to hang out with him. Talk to him more, but if he ignores you or decides to only give you short conversations, then try to gather additional information. It is certain that you can get more information from people who are friends with him who are in your school. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future. Remain positive and enjoy life, Katherine!

  18. rinimeher

    October 17, 2016 at 8:33 am

    Hello!i have this boy who keeps looking at me.Today at history he waited for all the students to go though he was given the free space to leave what he did was staring at me the whole lesson and my friends were really nice and whenever they turn back my friends says he is still looking at u.When one girl knew about this she went to ask the boy if he loved me.She came back with an answer”No he doesnt like u he says that ur ugly and stupid and ur hair is messy and everything of u is so stupid”I couldnt believe it!!In library he didnt notice me coming in he was sitting far from my other friends he say me soon joined in the closet table to mines and kept staring i moved to another place he sat beside me.Another boy was staring and kept making me laugh.wHEN I got mad at the other boy who has a crush at me i guess i roughly spoke to him by throwing stuffs at him.this is what i said (ill censore because i swear a lot!)”U B**** I CANT BELIVE U!U CALLED ME UGLY AND STUPID WHAT THE FU** I CANT GET WHY U KEEP LOOKING AT ME!!!!”i screamed and i was fedup the whole day and this is what he said looking flustered by what i said “NO NO NO!I NEVER CALLED THAT!BELIVE ME WHEN DID I EVEN SAY THAT!?!I DONT TALK BAD AT U AT ALL!WHOEVER SAID THAT WAS A LIAR!”he kept saying that.Then soon i asked this girl who spoke to him about him liking me i asked her madly “HE SAID FU***** NO!!!WHAT R U LYING?”im so confused plz help!

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 17, 2016 at 11:01 am

      I would relax and forget about it. She may be lying, or he could have been embarrassed and lied when you asked him about it. Whatever the case, your best bet right now is to forget about all of this and move on because you may never really find out what happened behind the scenes. He could like you and said that to throw you off course, he may never have said that and the girl just wanted to cause problems or something else could be going on. If it were me, I would just forget about this event and move past it. Good luck, Rinimeher!

  19. Melicia Sylla

    September 20, 2016 at 3:24 am

    I have this guy I really guy. He flirts with me everyday. But when I send my friend to talk to him about me, he said he doesn’t like me. I am confused.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 20, 2016 at 4:04 pm

      It is possible that he did not want to speak with your friend about you. Often times people will keep their real thoughts hidden when they speak to someone else who was sent to them. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. You are likely to find him acting in a much more positive manner toward you at that time. Enjoy life, Melicia.

  20. ally

    June 27, 2016 at 8:13 pm

    me and this guy just started ” going out” and we usually hang out with his group of friends but next time we hang out with them will be the first time since he asked me out. what can i do to keep it from getting extremely ockward so we can still have a good relationship.

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 28, 2016 at 3:33 pm

      It really should not be that awkward. You guys are already friends and hang out together in the group, so it isn’t like it will be anything different than what you already do. The only thing that has changed is in your mind and his mind. The friends will probably act the same. I would just relax and enjoy hanging out as a group together. Good luck, Ally!

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