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  1. kiki
    May 10, 2018

    so i have this crush… i sometime caught him stealing glances at me . when i have some friends around me , he wouldn’t greet me… but when i’m alone he’ll come up to me and greet me and teases me… he’s also protective of me… and when i pass his classroom, his friends would shout his name out loud trying to make me curious of what they are trying to do … well i am actually curious of what happened that day… and also when he greets me.. he’d always gives me his smirk…

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    • web admin
      web admin
      May 10, 2018

      It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is possible that he is aware of your feelings. He cares for you and wants to make sure that you are safe. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him a chance to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Kiki!

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  2. Lani
    February 3, 2018

    There is a guy I’m interested in, but I’m starting to think he is too scared to tell me if he is interested in me or not. We’ve know each other a year in this may and have become good friends. I’ve noticed some signs that he may be interested in me like, eyebrows raised, his pupils grow slightly bigger when he looks at me, he compliments me (at least five times), he’s opened doors for me, when he goes with his mom to take me home (he didn’t have a car at the time) he lets me have the front seat and when I think I said something about a hat that I liked, he ended up surprising me with it (I was honestly really surprised when he got it for me, completely caught me off guard). I will admit that I’m head over heels for him and have been for quite some time, but I honestly don’t know how to approach him on the subject. When he and I were sitting side by side and he had gone somewhere to get something, a friend (this guy and I are both friends with this person) asked me if my guy friend and I were dating and when I said “no” feeling rather surprised, another friend teased me a little about it, but didn’t say anything to my guy friend when he got back. How exactly can I start a conversation and ask him if he feels anything for me? We have to talk over FaceBook now since he moved and I really don’t want anything to be awkward because that’s how I felt when we first met. I don’t know if I could handle him forever being awkward around me if he rejects. That is seriously my biggest fear or losing his friendship.

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    • web admin
      web admin
      February 3, 2018

      Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. If you want to develop a relationship with this person, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If you want to maintain your friendship without risk, then continue to nourish your friendship with him. You may find that your mutual feelings will grow with time. Have a great day, Lani!

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  3. Dani
    November 29, 2017

    This is such an awesome article. It was honestly exactly what I was looking for. I am in the early stages of liking a guy, which likes me back, but he seems too scared to say it or express it because he is really cocky. I feel like he likes me so much and doesn’t want to be rejected so he tries to play cute things cool, while still being a gentleman, then teasing me later. I think its a defense mechanism to protect himself if I ever did reject him. Nonetheless I actually was about to cut things with him because it wasn’t clear, but I’m beyond glad I found this and every point was correct.

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    • web admin
      web admin
      November 30, 2017

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of your relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. This will help clear up any confusion or uncertainty. Have a great day, Dani!

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  4. Jozzy
    June 14, 2017

    So we met during school’s registration and surprisingly, we are in the same class. We had a project of which he was in my group, I saw him in the bus and he asked how am seeing the project. I then took the opportunity to ask why he doesn’t mingle with us since he doesn’t talk to anyone and he said he’s shy and moreover he doesn’t know anyone. I told him to feel free and talk to us since we are friendly, from then he’s changed seats and he sits beside me. He’s now close to my friends but the most awkward and loving thing is that we don’t know how we started sharing food but all I know is he started it. He’ll say did you bring anything today and sometimes I reply yes of which we eat together and he also brings biscuits for himself and I. He says whatever is mine is his and whatever is his is mine and the class was “are YOU two dating he only smiles and am like oh no we aren’t” . He touches me, pets me, teases me, comforts me, pretends as if he’s crying and telling his mom or the teacher that I don’t answer when he calls me,etc(he worries me a lot). One day, I wore one of my prettiest clothes to school with my handbag and they all like you look pretty today. He then asked where I’ll be going after school, from nowhere my closest friend said we had a group date and he was so mad at me . He didn’t talk or look at me for a week, I tried explaining things but he wouldn’t listen . After three day’s one of his friends said he’s gotten a girlfriend and they started asking me what happened between us. Honestly I was a bit disappointed although I don’t know why so he sent me a message after three days and I asked why he’s been behaving like that but he said he isn’t mad anymore but it was more like he was still mad. I saw him face to face and I asked what happened since helooked unwell, he said he couldn’t sleep for several day’s and that it’s his secret for not sleeping. Now we’re back to normal and he said he isn’t dating anyone he’s like that when they say we heard you’ve gotten yourself a girlfriend and he’s”but who’s spreading this rubbish”?. Even though we’re cool and normal, but he sometimes acts like a jerk. PLEASE HELP

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    • web admin
      web admin
      June 14, 2017

      It is possible that he wants to move your relationship close together. It is possible that he is happy as your friend. If you want to change what you have with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. This will give him the chance to be direct with you. Have a great day, Jozzy!

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