60 Flirty Text Messages

By on June 20, 2014

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After text messaging with someone for awhile, things can get kind of plain and boring. If your feeling like your text messaging life needs a boost, why not try out one of these 60 flirty text messages? We’ve got everything from cute and silly to spicy and romantic- take your pick!

e4bd490bb67ef8a80da3759f6cd07ea4 1. Hey you 😉

This is a great, simple text message to start a conversation. Plus it’s flirty thanks to the winking smiley face. Win, win situation here!

2. Good morning handsome. Have a great day!

This isn’t just your average good morning text. It’s a compliment and a well wish all in one, and that’s a winning, flirty combination!

3. Would you rather do you homework or come hang out with me?

If you want to hang out with your crush, ask him this. You really think he will pick homework over you? Doubt it!

4. Ugh, I have a problem. I can’t stop thinking about you.


This is so funny and cute! At first he will be thinking you have an actual dilemma, but the only problem is he’s stuck on your mind- and he will love that.

5. You look good in that new shirt.

Is he wearing something extra cute today? Why not let him know with a flirty, complimenting text message.

6. Blue is definitely your color 😉

Again, this is a great compliment that lets him know it isn’t just the shirt- but anything blue makes him look amazing. Don’t forget the winking smiley face!

7. I’m so bored! Wanna go on an adventure?

Dates don’t always have to be for dinners and movies; sometimes you just wanna have fun! Invite him out for an exciting day or afternoon and see the sparks fly.

8. This homework is killing me! I can’t do anymore. Save me?

Men love to be the hero- even when it comes to simple, silly things like these.

9. Good luck on your game tonight. You’ll do awesome and look sexy doing it 😉


Everyone gets nervous before a big event, whether it’s a game, speech, or outing. Boost his confidence by not only wishing him good luck, but telling him how great and handsome he is!

10. We just landed in Hawaii. Ugh, I wish you were here!

Did you go on an exciting trip and miss your crush? Then you need to tell him!


11. Happy Birthday! If you could have one wish, what would it be? 😉

This might sound like a normal Happy Birthday statement, but the winking smiley face at the end lets him know you might have some R rated thoughts on your mind. Wonder what he will come up with?

12. I’m trying on these new bras, but I need a second opinion. Care to share your thoughts?

Warning: he might need a new phone after slobbering over his when he sees this text message! Be prepared to send him into a lustful daze with a few pictures of your new bra!

13. Come over, I have all your favorites. Pizza, beer, and of course, ME.

Let’s be honest: what guy could possibly resist that? He will be flying over to your house as quickly as possible with this flirty and alluring text!

14. OMG, you were amazing last night.

Trust me, every guy wants to hear this compliment. It’s what he lives for, and you’ll definitely see a boost in confidence the next time you guys are ‘together’.

15. Can’t wait to see you tonight. I think you’re going to like what you see 😉

If you’re planning to see him later on, why not get him excited? He’ll love reading this and you’ll definitely spark his interest.

16. Hmm, should I wear the red panties or the black ones? Can’t decide..

All men love to have input when it comes to the panty department. Seriously, ask him this question.

17. I could seriously use a little bit of testosterone in my life..

If he isn’t very suave, he might not get this text message. But 99% of men will know that you’re ‘testosterone’ comment is really a G rated way to say you want him.

18. When he asks what you’re doing, tell him you just got out of the shower.

He will probably start daydreaming about you dripping wet in nothing but foam suds. Yeah, he will certainly enjoy that.

19. I’ve been thinking about you all day.

Because everyone likes to know they are on someone’s mind.


20. Follow up with… it hasn’t all been rated G either.

This lets him know you’re not only thinking about HIM, but thinking about YOU and him- ‘together’.

21. Send me a picture 😉

Hopefully he will catch onto the winking smiley face and slip you a sexy picture. Then the ‘sexting’ can ensue.

22. Where have you been hiding?

When he texts you out of the blue, this is a cute way of telling him you’ve missed him and are very pleased he sent you a text message.

23. Hey cutie. Haven’t talked to you in awhile. Thought I’d say hello!

If you haven’t talked to him for awhile, send him this. This compliments him while also letting him know he’s been on your mind.

24. Sweet dreams….with me in them 😉

It’s one thing to wish someone sweet dreams before they go to bed. It’s a whole other thing to wish them sweet dreams with YOU in them. He will certainly like the sound of that and close his eyes to his imagination running ramped.

25. Oooooh, I like the sound of that 😉

If he texts you something flirty or alluring, this is always a winning response (for obvious reasons).

26. Follow up with… Tell me more 😉

Combine these two if you’re really in the mood to turn him on, as these texts combine let him know you love what you hear and you’re sitting on pins and needles to hear more of his sexy comments.

27. I’m just laying in bed, bored. Care to join?

Perfect for those boring weekday nights when you’re in bed but don’t want to miss out on any of the fun. Either he’ll come over or you guys can have an enticing text message conversation until wee hours of the morning.

28. I really like our friendship, but I was thinking… maybe we could be friends with benefits?

Wow. His jaw will literally drop to the floor when he sees this. It’s definitely what every man wants to hear!

29. Let’s hang out tonight. I promise you won’t regret it 😉

Hmmm, have something sexy and fun planned tonight? This lets him know that he is in for a REAL treat. Just don’t flake on your promise ladies!


30. Let’s play 20 question. What’s your name? What’s your favorite color? Wanna go out with me Saturday night?

He will NEVER see it coming- and that’s what we love about it! Who could resist this totally not obvious and adorable way of asking someone out?

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  1. Batman

    October 15, 2016 at 1:47 am

    Do these questions work on girls too as I’m a guy I was wondering if they do?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 15, 2016 at 10:43 am

      Yes, they should work. Girls love getting cute, flirty messages because it shows that you care and like them a lot. Send her one or two of these a week and you will have a very happy girlfriend. Good luck, Batman!

  2. cherylg

    August 28, 2016 at 1:03 pm

    I’ve been texting this guy for a while now, and I know he likes me bc he said he does but we haven’t spoken to each other in 4 days. what # should I text him to get him more interested in me. Thanks- Cheryl

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 29, 2016 at 8:03 am

      I would just start with a hello and ask him how things are going. You could also ask him what he is up to this weekend–with any luck, he’ll take it as a hint and use the opportunity to ask you to hang out. He may just feel nervous about texting you again and seeming needy, so just send him a basic text asking him how he is doing or what he is up to this weekend. Good luck, CherylG!

  3. Rizah

    August 19, 2016 at 11:12 pm

    I love you

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 20, 2016 at 12:47 am

      Thank you for your positive comment! We always appreciate reading such friendly comments on our message boards. Our authors always love receiving such positivity.

  4. hello

    August 3, 2016 at 8:17 am

    Hey do you have other pages with more flirties?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 4, 2016 at 1:03 pm

      We will soon! Be sure to come back in the future to check. If you have any ideas, please feel free to share anything that comes up in your mind. Thank you for your readership and your appreciation!

  5. Hey

    July 27, 2016 at 12:17 pm

    For number 30 are we suppose to ask the questions seperately and wait for his answer each time? Or just say the whole thing in one text as you have it written?

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 27, 2016 at 2:39 pm

      It is always best to act in a way that will help you meet your goals. If you think that your goals will be reached by texting it all at the same time, then do so. Feel free to modify these texts in anyway that you please. Remain positive as you move forward.

  6. Hey

    July 25, 2016 at 1:35 pm

    Hey your number 31 description doesnt make much sense?

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 25, 2016 at 11:43 pm

      The joke of the text is that when they read your text, they will then start thinking about you. When they start thinking about you, they will laugh because of the joke “stop thinking of me”. It is humorous because it would have been your thoughts and actions that caused your partner to start thinking about you.

      • Nyllyn

        August 5, 2016 at 7:24 am

        #31 did wonders for me. Sent him a text “Hey, stop thinking about me, I am trying to work :-).. He replied, “LOL, I will pick you up in 30 minutes so I do not have to think of you.”

        • web admin

          web admin

          August 6, 2016 at 12:23 pm

          That is one of our favorites! Thank you for sharing your appreciation and positive comments for us to read. Nothing makes us happier than seeing these ideas used and then receiving a positive reaction!

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