60 Flirty Text Messages

By on June 20, 2014

After text messaging with someone for awhile, things can get kind of plain and boring. If your feeling like your text messaging life needs a boost, why not try out one of these 60 flirty text messages? We’ve got everything from cute and silly to spicy and romantic- take your pick!

 1. Hey you 😉

This is a great, simple text message to start a conversation. Plus it’s flirty thanks to the winking smiley face. Win, win situation here!

2. Good morning handsome. Have a great day!

This isn’t just your average good morning text. It’s a compliment and a well wish all in one, and that’s a winning, flirty combination!

3. Would you rather do you homework or come hang out with me?

If you want to hang out with your crush, ask him this. You really think he will pick homework over you? Doubt it!

4. Ugh, I have a problem. I can’t stop thinking about you.

This is so funny and cute! At first he will be thinking you have an actual dilemma, but the only problem is he’s stuck on your mind- and he will love that.

5. You look good in that new shirt.

Is he wearing something extra cute today? Why not let him know with a flirty, complimenting text message.

6. Blue is definitely your color 😉

Again, this is a great compliment that lets him know it isn’t just the shirt- but anything blue makes him look amazing. Don’t forget the winking smiley face!

7. I’m so bored! Wanna go on an adventure?

Dates don’t always have to be for dinners and movies; sometimes you just wanna have fun! Invite him out for an exciting day or afternoon and see the sparks fly.

8. This homework is killing me! I can’t do anymore. Save me?

Men love to be the hero- even when it comes to simple, silly things like these.

9. Good luck on your game tonight. You’ll do awesome and look sexy doing it 😉

Everyone gets nervous before a big event, whether it’s a game, speech, or outing. Boost his confidence by not only wishing him good luck, but telling him how great and handsome he is!

10. We just landed in Hawaii. Ugh, I wish you were here!

Did you go on an exciting trip and miss your crush? Then you need to tell him!

11. Happy Birthday! If you could have one wish, what would it be? 😉

This might sound like a normal Happy Birthday statement, but the winking smiley face at the end lets him know you might have some R rated thoughts on your mind. Wonder what he will come up with?

12. I’m trying on these new bras, but I need a second opinion. Care to share your thoughts?

Warning: he might need a new phone after slobbering over his when he sees this text message! Be prepared to send him into a lustful daze with a few pictures of your new bra!

13. Come over, I have all your favorites. Pizza, beer, and of course, ME.

Let’s be honest: what guy could possibly resist that? He will be flying over to your house as quickly as possible with this flirty and alluring text!

14. OMG, you were amazing last night.

Trust me, every guy wants to hear this compliment. It’s what he lives for, and you’ll definitely see a boost in confidence the next time you guys are ‘together’.

15. Can’t wait to see you tonight. I think you’re going to like what you see 😉

If you’re planning to see him later on, why not get him excited? He’ll love reading this and you’ll definitely spark his interest.

16. Hmm, should I wear the red panties or the black ones? Can’t decide..

All men love to have input when it comes to the panty department. Seriously, ask him this question.

17. I could seriously use a little bit of testosterone in my life..

If he isn’t very suave, he might not get this text message. But 99% of men will know that you’re ‘testosterone’ comment is really a G rated way to say you want him.

18. When he asks what you’re doing, tell him you just got out of the shower.

He will probably start daydreaming about you dripping wet in nothing but foam suds. Yeah, he will certainly enjoy that.

19. I’ve been thinking about you all day.

Because everyone likes to know they are on someone’s mind.

20. Follow up with… it hasn’t all been rated G either.

This lets him know you’re not only thinking about HIM, but thinking about YOU and him- ‘together’.


21. Send me a picture 😉

Hopefully he will catch onto the winking smiley face and slip you a sexy picture. Then the ‘sexting’ can ensue.

22. Where have you been hiding?

When he texts you out of the blue, this is a cute way of telling him you’ve missed him and are very pleased he sent you a text message.

23. Hey cutie. Haven’t talked to you in awhile. Thought I’d say hello!

If you haven’t talked to him for awhile, send him this. This compliments him while also letting him know he’s been on your mind.

24. Sweet dreams….with me in them 😉

It’s one thing to wish someone sweet dreams before they go to bed. It’s a whole other thing to wish them sweet dreams with YOU in them. He will certainly like the sound of that and close his eyes to his imagination running ramped.

25. Oooooh, I like the sound of that 😉

If he texts you something flirty or alluring, this is always a winning response (for obvious reasons).

26. Follow up with… Tell me more 😉

Combine these two if you’re really in the mood to turn him on, as these texts combine let him know you love what you hear and you’re sitting on pins and needles to hear more of his sexy comments.

27. I’m just laying in bed, bored. Care to join?

Perfect for those boring weekday nights when you’re in bed but don’t want to miss out on any of the fun. Either he’ll come over or you guys can have an enticing text message conversation until wee hours of the morning.

28. I really like our friendship, but I was thinking… maybe we could be friends with benefits?

Wow. His jaw will literally drop to the floor when he sees this. It’s definitely what every man wants to hear!

29. Let’s hang out tonight. I promise you won’t regret it 😉

Hmmm, have something sexy and fun planned tonight? This lets him know that he is in for a REAL treat. Just don’t flake on your promise ladies!

30. Let’s play 20 question. What’s your name? What’s your favorite color? Wanna go out with me Saturday night?

He will NEVER see it coming- and that’s what we love about it! Who could resist this totally not obvious and adorable way of asking someone out?


31. Randomly text him… Hey! Stop thinking about me!

This will undoubtedly put a smile on your face, and he will either tease you and say that you weren’t, or he’ll say ‘how did you know’? Either way, it’s a winner in our book!

32. Hey, I was wondering, do you believe in love at first sight? Or do I need to walk by you again?

Come on, I got a giggle out of writing this silly yet flirty text message! Put a definite smile on his face with this funny text.

33. I just woke up and you’re already on my mind.

What better way to say good morning to someone than with this adorable, flirty text?

34. Mmm, sexy. I love a man that can (fill in the blank).

This is a GREAT text message for any situation. Let’s say you asked him what he was doing and he said he was making dinner. Why not send him this text as a response? It works for almost anything: cooking, cleaning, working on a motorcycle, playing a musical instrument- anything!

35. I know you have a busy day ahead of you, but could you add me on to your to-do list?

This is sexy, and he won’t even see it coming. And let’s face it: we ALL enjoy texts like these. This will definitely turn him on, and he won’t be able to help himself buy say OF COURSE!

36. You have the most amazing (fill in the blank).

Again, this is an easy and flirty text that can let you say almost anything. You could say his smile his amazing, his eyes are amazing, or even his personality is amazing. It really doesn’t matter what you say- this text message is bound to make him smile.

37. I want to take you home with me and pleasure you in ways you didn’t know possible.

Wow. This steamy text message is certainly not for new relationships. But if you and your crush or boyfriend have been at it for awhile, why not send him this sexy message and get the fireworks flying? C’mon, you know he will absolutely love this text message. Be brave and let him know!

38. You make me feel so (fill in the blank).

Does he make you happy? Does he make you feel complete? Does he make you feel ‘hot’? Any text that lets him know he makes you feel a certain way is definitely a winner in our books.

39. I love your lips.

Of course, this is a spicy and romantic text message that boost his confidence and lets him know that yes, it is OK to kiss you and you absolutely love it.

40. Follow with… I can’t wait to taste them again.

There’s something about the waiting game that drives us all mad. So telling him you can’t wait to kiss him and taste him again is a surefire way to peek his interest and make him feel all warm and intense on the inside.


41. If I could rearrange the alphabet, I would definitely put U and I together.

You’ve probably seen this clever text message on other websites or even television shows, and for good reason! This cute text message is flirty and clever all wrapped up into one, easy and quick text message. It will definitely make him smile!!

42. Come over. Now.

Sometimes guys like it when women are a little demanding. This will peek his interest for 2 reasons. One, your being assertive and most men find that a very attractive trait. And for two, why do you want him over? And not just tonight or sometime this week, but NOW? Do you have something special planned? He will be running over before you can even send the next text message!

43. Dang, you look extra hot today.

People love to hear that they look good today. And saying something as simple as this will boost his confidence incredibly fast. He might just do a few more struts passed you so you can get an ever better look.

44. Have you been working out?

There’s only one reason why you would ever ask a guy that they’ve been working out: there muscles look bigger (or they look better overall). So if you’re asking him if he’s hit up the gym lately, you’re clearly stating that he’s caught your attention because he looks so great. To put it plainly. this text message simply can’t go wrong.

45. Mmm, come over here. I want to touch you.

Every man wants to be touched. End of story. This text will undoubtedly turn him on and he won’t want to wait another second to come closer to you.

46. Can’t wait to see you XOXO

At the end of the day, we all just want to be wanted- right? This text will make him feel special. It will make him feel wanted. And that’s something that will definitely make him happy and excited to see you too!

47. Guess what I’m wearing right now.

This will really make his imagination run wild. Are you wearing a sexy dress? Maybe a piece of lingerie? Who knows! Just prepared to send him a picture of what you’re wearing afterwards.

48. I was just telling my friends about you. They’re so jealous 😉

You’re talking to your friends about him? Yeah. Guys LOVE that. And they also love to know that they are making your friends jealous. Plus the winking smily face lets him know you told them ALL the details- and they are even more jealous about THAT.

49. I had a dream about you last night. It was definitely R-rated…

This can only mean one thing: you had a naughty dream about him. Be ready to fill him in with all the dirty details!

 50. Did you know I can do the splits?

Men love a girl that is flexible. This sparks interest because he will want to see just how flexible you can be.


51. I’ve been a bad girl today. I need a spanking.

Men love it when a nice girl can be dirty, and they love it even more when they can spank her for it. Send him this text message and drive him WILD.

52. Talk dirty to me.

It might be on the spot, but men thrive on that! He will want to show you how passionate and exciting he can be over text messages. And trust us, you’ll love all of the things he comes up with trying to impress you and turn you on.

53. Don’t waste all of your energy at work today. You’ll need some extra energy for later…

He’ll be thinking, “Oh really? For what?” Maybe you have something extra spicy planned for tonight. The point is to get him thinking all day long and let the intensity build up so he’s ready to go at it all night when he gets home.

54. Ugh, I was rushing out of the house and totally forgot to wear a bra.

I’m pretty sure his jaw will drop after reading this, and soon after his imagination will kick in, day dreaming about how alluring you look in a top without a bra on.

55. I found my old cheerleading outfit. It still fits…

Every man has a fantasy about a girl in a cheerleading outfit. I don’t know why, don’t ask me. The point is- it’s just a fact about men, and he will love to hear this. Be ready to showcase it for him!

56. Ugh, I’ve had a horrible day. I need to unwind… 😉

I wonder what you have in mind? What better way to unwind than to…. (you fill in the blank).

57. Can you guess the color of the underwear I’m wearing?

Men like to talk about girls and their underwear. And that’s just that.

58. I’ve never met a man that can (fill in the blank) as well as you.

This could be something G or X rated- you make the call!

59. If I were with you right now, what would we be doing?

Get inside of his head!

60. I’m trying to fall asleep, but I can’t stop thinking about you!

This is just too cute for words.

What’s your favorite flirty text?


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    Rukayya abare

    July 29, 2017 at 12:11 am

    What’s the meaning of G and R-rated u were using

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      July 29, 2017 at 6:20 pm

      G and R ratings are terms used to define the maturity of movies. G ratings signify that something is safe for family to read without embarrassment. R ratings mean that the content is only for adults to see. Have a great day, Rukayya!

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    You don't need to know

    July 23, 2017 at 7:41 pm

    Hey all you guys need do to is when talking to a girl you should show that you confident and not scared speak loud and clearly I’m a 19 year old boy

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      July 24, 2017 at 6:45 pm

      Thank you for sharing your advice. You are right. It is always best to be confident when sharing your thoughts and feelings. It is also helpful to be kind and compassionate at all times. Have a great day, Need to know!

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    July 15, 2017 at 7:20 am

    Thanks for the advice. Totally worked on him.

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      July 15, 2017 at 8:47 pm

      Thank you for sharing your experiences. It is great to see that our advice was put to good use. Please feel free to share any thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Olivia!

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    May 30, 2017 at 11:02 am

    I’m an African,I have a huge crush to Japanese guy and we already talk every day bt he don’t talk much so I don’t think he will respond to this message,bt I like them all

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      May 31, 2017 at 8:44 am

      I am happy to hear that you enjoyed the messages. 🙂 Thanks for commenting, Neo and good luck with your crush!

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    May 30, 2017 at 6:37 am

    I have a girl who I so much love but she never accept any of my funny texts she always like giving me the red card always want can I do about it

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      May 31, 2017 at 8:41 am

      She doesn’t accept them? Or she just doesn’t respond in a flirty way? She may not know how to respond with a flirty text, or she may not be interested. For the moment, it could really go either way. She might also just dislike texting though, so maybe you should try flirting with her more in person. Good luck, ScofieID!

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      June 1, 2017 at 6:30 am

      There’s this guy in my class and he kept on staring and smiling at me. It’s very very annoying! What’s the meaning of it?

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        June 2, 2017 at 10:22 am

        He may not know what to say, he may like you or both. If you like him back, talk to him. And if you do not like him back, just let it go and try to ignore it. Good luck, Alexa!

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    May 13, 2017 at 1:04 pm

    Oh my God…I told my friend I wld like us to b friends with benefits bt she refused and said that wld never happen… She added sayin im at the wrong track wit the wrong person…And thats how our relationship ended…

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      May 14, 2017 at 9:25 am

      Asking her to be friends with benefits was a risky move. Many people view that type of relationship as lacking in respect, or they just want more of a commitment. Either way, it obviously offended her–you may have lost out on any chance of being with her.

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      May 30, 2017 at 11:09 am

      I’m an African, I have a huge crush to Japanese guy and we already talk every day bt he don’t talk much so I think he’d not respond to this message bt I really like them all.

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        May 31, 2017 at 8:44 am

        You appear to have commented twice on this one. I have to approve each comment individually, so it can sometimes take me a little while to answer all of them. If you do not see your comment right away, do not worry because you will. Read through my first response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!

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        June 1, 2017 at 6:33 am

        Ask her why she’s not answering you message (or call)! And why he kept on leaving your messages on red?

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          June 2, 2017 at 10:23 am

          She could do that, but she should be careful not to put him on the defensive. He may just be busy or unable to answer for some other reason. Askign would be a good way to see why he does not always respond though, as long as it is done right. Thanks for commenting, Alexa!

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    Emmanuel Wesonga

    April 19, 2017 at 4:51 am

    Hey thanks for the information! For me its the opposite, I have a crush on a girl in my college class.Am a male of course! can just use the same same tips or what?

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      April 19, 2017 at 7:57 pm

      You can use the same tips and ideas. Of course, it would be best if you make them applicable to the person that you are speaking with. Feel free to let us know how everything goes. Have a great day, Emmanuel!

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    April 13, 2017 at 11:05 am

    I have a huge crush on a colleague and he is older. But I’m sapiosexual and I’m fascinated by his brains, his body and omg the voice. What should I do? We flirted once on text and he recently complimented me on my body.

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      April 14, 2017 at 10:20 am

      It sounds as though he is what you are looking for. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. This will give you the best opportunity to learn what he thinks about the idea of developing a relationship with you. Reach out to him and share your mind. Have a great day, Athena!

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    just me

    February 26, 2017 at 4:23 pm

    well i founded that some expresions are very very special
    but i really don’t know whow can workes if we are separated by many countries and we haven’t meet ever and we are little bit attracted to each other but he is so bussy so we don’t talk actually alote also i saw most of expresions here are specialy for closted lovers so ; can you help me please .
    thank you so much

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      February 27, 2017 at 11:58 am

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts. If you find that you are having difficulties establishing a relationship with him at this time, then perhaps you would be best served by trying to visit him. You can also convince him to try to come visit you. This will help your relationship grow and flourish. Best of luck, Just!

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    Kiara Renee Rose

    January 15, 2017 at 7:36 am

    I like these things they really worked on my crush…I didn’t do the sexual ones tho cause I’m only 15 but still …..Thanks for flirty Messages!!

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      January 16, 2017 at 10:53 am

      Thank you for sharing your experiences. It is great to see that our articles have helped your relationship grow. Please let us know any insights that you may want to share with our community. You will certainly help people in the future. Have a great day, Kiara!

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    January 14, 2017 at 10:01 am

    What if you like a guy who has a girlfriend already..but u really like him..wat do u do or say?

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      January 14, 2017 at 11:52 am

      If you are interested in someone who is in a relationship, then do not attempt to damage their relationship. This will only bring harm to you, your crush, and their partner. If you find that your actions may cause someone to have negative feelings, then it is best to not do it. If you wait until their relationship has naturally ended, then you can try to establish a relationship with them at that time. Have a great day, Apple!

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        March 29, 2017 at 9:53 am

        My boyfriend thinks im boring and we have only dated for 5 months I don’t know what to do…

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          March 29, 2017 at 10:34 am

          We have a number of articles with topics and questions that you can talk about with your boyfriend to get the conversation going. You could also try reading current event magazines to get new ideas about what to say. You may also want to think if there is a reason why he thinks that you are boring–you are probably not boring, so he may be saying that because he feels like your personalities don’t match. If you do not have a lot in common, it can make one or both of you seem to be boring because you have nothing to talk about. If this is the case, it may make having a long-term relationship difficult.

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    January 5, 2017 at 7:08 pm

    These are amazing tips but what if he doesn’t get emojis or if I’m giving tips to younger ages

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      January 6, 2017 at 1:22 pm

      Thank you for your positive comment. It is always great to hear that our readers appreciate our articles. If these messages are not appropriate for the age group that you are sharing them with, then perhaps another age group would be better to target. Feel free to change the messages in any way that will suit you. Best of luck, Maude!

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    January 4, 2017 at 7:58 pm

    So i like this guy.I wanted to do flirty texts but i don’t wanna make it obvious.Is there something i can do.

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      January 6, 2017 at 1:00 pm

      You can either be flirty or you can just talk to him. There is nothing wrong with sending him messages and seeing him how he is doing. Ask him if he wants to hang out, or maybe see if he wants to go to a meal with you. You have many options to choose from. If you want to be flirty, then make your feelings known. He will likely respond in a positive manner. Best of luck, Yari!

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      February 19, 2017 at 6:49 pm

      tell you’re exhausted and stressed out. Slowly tell him descriptive words about wear you’re sore. Then say you’re getting in the tub and ask if they don’t mind to keep talking. OR talk about how you are going to the store and saw the cutest bra ever. describe the colors and how it fits perfectly.

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        February 20, 2017 at 10:22 am

        Thank you for sharing your insights and advice. We always appreciate such positive and supportive comments. Please feel free to share more of your ideas in the future. Have a great day, Kelsie!

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    January 3, 2017 at 8:41 pm

    I like this guy that’s one year older than me but he and my cousin are best friends and he says he thinks I’m cute and I told him that’s he’s cute but didn’t respond and we have some passionate conversions HELP!!!

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      January 4, 2017 at 10:01 am

      It sounds like he could be interested in you. He may not have responded when you said he was cute because a) he is bad at taking compliments or b) he did not realize that you were interested in him as well. Use texts from this list or check out some of our other texting articles on Her Interest for flirting ideas and ways to keep the conversation going. Best of luck, Giselle!

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      March 8, 2017 at 7:25 pm

      many a guy do not like to be called cute!!

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        March 9, 2017 at 2:30 pm

        Thank you for sharing your thoughts. Many people have different feelings about many things. Have a great day, Advicate!

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    October 15, 2016 at 1:47 am

    Do these questions work on girls too as I’m a guy I was wondering if they do?

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      October 15, 2016 at 10:43 am

      Yes, they should work. Girls love getting cute, flirty messages because it shows that you care and like them a lot. Send her one or two of these a week and you will have a very happy girlfriend. Good luck, Batman!

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    August 28, 2016 at 1:03 pm

    I’ve been texting this guy for a while now, and I know he likes me bc he said he does but we haven’t spoken to each other in 4 days. what # should I text him to get him more interested in me. Thanks- Cheryl

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      August 29, 2016 at 8:03 am

      I would just start with a hello and ask him how things are going. You could also ask him what he is up to this weekend–with any luck, he’ll take it as a hint and use the opportunity to ask you to hang out. He may just feel nervous about texting you again and seeming needy, so just send him a basic text asking him how he is doing or what he is up to this weekend. Good luck, CherylG!

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      Corinne L

      December 6, 2016 at 12:28 pm

      How about …
      Havent seen you for a while …Are you still that good looking?

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        December 6, 2016 at 2:42 pm

        Thank you for sharing your cute and fun message idea. We appreciate such contributions to our community. Please feel free to share more of your ideas in the future. Have a great day, Corinne!

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    August 19, 2016 at 11:12 pm

    I love you

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      August 20, 2016 at 12:47 am

      Thank you for your positive comment! We always appreciate reading such friendly comments on our message boards. Our authors always love receiving such positivity.

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    August 3, 2016 at 8:17 am

    Hey do you have other pages with more flirties?

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      August 4, 2016 at 1:03 pm

      We will soon! Be sure to come back in the future to check. If you have any ideas, please feel free to share anything that comes up in your mind. Thank you for your readership and your appreciation!

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    July 27, 2016 at 12:17 pm

    For number 30 are we suppose to ask the questions seperately and wait for his answer each time? Or just say the whole thing in one text as you have it written?

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      July 27, 2016 at 2:39 pm

      It is always best to act in a way that will help you meet your goals. If you think that your goals will be reached by texting it all at the same time, then do so. Feel free to modify these texts in anyway that you please. Remain positive as you move forward.

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    July 25, 2016 at 1:35 pm

    Hey your number 31 description doesnt make much sense?

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      July 25, 2016 at 11:43 pm

      The joke of the text is that when they read your text, they will then start thinking about you. When they start thinking about you, they will laugh because of the joke “stop thinking of me”. It is humorous because it would have been your thoughts and actions that caused your partner to start thinking about you.

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        August 5, 2016 at 7:24 am

        #31 did wonders for me. Sent him a text “Hey, stop thinking about me, I am trying to work :-).. He replied, “LOL, I will pick you up in 30 minutes so I do not have to think of you.”

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          August 6, 2016 at 12:23 pm

          That is one of our favorites! Thank you for sharing your appreciation and positive comments for us to read. Nothing makes us happier than seeing these ideas used and then receiving a positive reaction!

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            Kiara Renee Rose

            January 15, 2017 at 7:37 am

            I like these things they really worked on my crush…I didn’t do the sexual ones tho cause I’m only 15 but still …..Thanks for flirty Messages!!

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              web admin

              January 16, 2017 at 10:53 am

              Thank you for sharing your experiences. It is great to see that our articles have helped your relationship grow. Please let us know any insights that you may want to share with our community. You will certainly help people in the future. Have a great day, Kiara!

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