How To Tell If a Guy Likes You

By on May 28, 2014






At one point or another, every woman has asked herself: Does he like me? It’s one of the most confusing, annoying, and nervous questions we can ask ourselves, but it’s something we are constantly trying to figure out. Make this question a bit more easy and get the answer you need with these 25 ways to tell if he really likes you- or sees you just as a friend.

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 1. He Seems to Smile at You. A Lot.

Don’t get me wrong. There’s always those people out there who smile at everybody and everything. They’ll smile at strangers, they’ll smile at the silliest jokes- they’ll even smile during a physics quiz. If you’re talking to a guy who has one of those never-ending smiles, he might just be doing what’s natural to him by smiling at you often.

But let’s face it: most people aren’t like that. If you catch him smiling at you often, it may be a sign that he’s into you and the sight of your face brings a smile to his lips. Pay close attention to his smile, too. Is it one of those fake, forceful smiles? Or is it a genuine smile full of love? This will really help you determine whether or not it’s a true, “I like you” smile.

2. The First Form of Flirting: Teasing

Remember back in the day on the school yard when boys would chase the girls and call them names, and everyone said it’s because he likes you? It may seem so kindergarten, but even in our later years men still use teasing as a form of flirting. If he (playfully) teases you often, then it could be a sign he’s going back to his roots and using teases to show he’s interested in you. Of course, if he is just being flat out rude about something than he’s probably not into you- in a girlfriend or a friend way- and I suggest you run for the hills.

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 3. Flirty Compliments That Leave You Blushing

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On the other hand, maybe you’re talking to a guy who’s matured past the teasing tricks and actually knows how to flirt. If he compliments you a lot- whether it’s a simple compliment about how nice your hair looks that day or how great you performed your oral presentation- it’s probably a definite sign that he’s interested in you.

I mean, yes- it’s completely true that people will compliment each other on a job well done or a nice t-shirt. But a compliment is one thing, a flirt is another. Surely you can tell the difference by the way it’s said and what words are used. For example:

Regular compliment: I like your shirt! (Pat on the back.)

Flirty compliment: That shirt looks great on you. (Smile)

See the difference?

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 4. Playful, Accidental Touching

When you like someone, you want to be close to them. That’s just nature! If you find your guy friend playfully or accidentally touching you on a regular basis, it could just be his way of trying to get close to you. Some examples of playful or accidental touching would include:

-Running up behind you and picking you up for a fun hug.

-‘Accidentally’ brushing your hand while the two of you work on a project together.

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-Wanting to play a silly game like thumb wars or arm wrestling.

-Patting you on your thigh after talking to you while sitting down.

 5. Men Hate Phone Calls. But He Doesn’t?

We all know how much men hate to talk on the phone. When you ask them to call you, it’s like pulling teeth. Or perhaps even a root canal. Without any medication for numbing. (Yes, it’s that bad sometimes, right ladies?). But for some reason he will call you completely out of the blue, just to talk. And he actually enjoys it and says he’s had a nice time talking to you. No, he hasn’t been abducted by space aliens that changed the wiring in his brain. It’s as simple as this: man likes woman, man goes to great lengths to show that he cares. Which brings us to the random phone calls where you spend 6 hours talking about movies, sports, music, clothes, school, celebrities- whatever. So go ahead, pick up the phone. He surely didn’t call you because he hates talking to you!

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6. Not Just Your Basic Text Messages

So not every guy will suddenly enjoy talking on the phone because he likes you, or maybe he’s just too busy to call you. Insert: text messages, the most convenient way to talk to another human being.

So you say he’s texting you often, hmm? Well let me ask you a question first before we jump to any conclusions. Is he texting you the basic texts like, “When are you going to be here?” or “Can I borrow your homework?” or anything along those lines? Or is texting you just because? If he’s sending you good morning texts, asking how you’re doing or what you’re up to, or trying to start an actual conversation over a text message, it may be a sign he is interested. Again, let’s do a quick example.

Friendly text: “Hey, are you coming to Mark’s party?”

Flirty text: “Hey Molly. How are you doing? I was wondering if you were going to go to Mark’s party. Can’t wait to see you!”

 7. Pay Attention to His Grammar

When a guy likes a girl, he tries to impress her- we all know that! But sometimes it’s not always about incredible out of this world gestures to grab our attention and impress us, and that’s why we need to pay attention to details. If he tends to talk in slang often but really tries hard to use proper grammar and punctuation when talking/messaging you, it could be a simple sign he’s trying to impress you with his mind. Here’s an example, using the text messages used in number 6:

Friendly text: “Wassup u coming to Mark’s party?”

Flirty text: “Hey Molly. How are you doing? I was wondering if you were going to go to Mark’s party. Can’t wait to see you!”

Note how he is using bad grammar in the first text, while the second text is not only significantly longer by texting standards, but also uses proper grammar and punctuation. See ladies, even something as simple and subtle as this could be a definite sign he likes you and wants you to notice how smart he is.

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8. Even Social Media Can Be a Hint!

Whether you’re both on MySpace, Facebook, Twitter, or Instagram (or any other popular social media networking site), if he likes your post often, it could be a sign that he likes you. Sure we sometimes just go scrolling down our newsfeed liking pictures we think are cute or interesting, but if he has made it a goal to like almost all of your posts, from pictures to status updates, he might be trying to show you that he cares. If he sends you comments on your posts often, that’s just another great sign he might be interested in you!

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9. Make it or Break it: Eye Contact

You’ve probably heard this over and over again, but eye contact is ridiculously important, from first dates to job interviews. If you notice he’s looking at you often and makes it a point to have eye contact with you while the two of you are talking, this not only means he likes what he sees but is trying to get you to notice him as well.

Friend: Will obviously talk to you, but will probably be looking around the room or interrupting your conversation to holler at another friend. He probably won’t randomly stare at you with hearts in his eyes, either.

More than a friend: Will make it a point to focus on you and only you during conversation, and you will probably catch him staring at you often. (And he might have his jaw dropped sometimes, too- it happens).

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 10. Him? Sophisticated and Mature? No Way!

So he is the kind of guy to make crude jokes and mess around with his guy friends at all times. Even when there is a girl present he won’t mind being his goofy, totally immature and somewhat nasty self. But when you are around, everything changes. Suddenly he turns into a somewhat sophisticated man who is reserved and respectful, and might even tell his friends to stop with the crude humor while a lady is present. This, my friends, is one of the easiest ways to tell if a guy is interested in you. After all, he doesn’t want you to think he’s some disgusting pig with no respect for woman, so he knows to turn it off when you come around. You should not only feel honored that someone would do that for you, but feel confident in knowing what his intentions are.

11. Girl? What Girl?

When you are friends with a guy, you get used to that fact that they will probably be checking out females often. They might even make a remark to you about how cute they think the girl that just walked by is. And they won’t have a problem telling you that they’re planning on seeing Samantha from the coffee shop down the road. But if he’s interested in you and wants to be more than friends, you won’t hear a single peep out of him with regards to another female. In fact, you might notice a pretty girl walking by quicker than he does.

If you notice he doesn’t really say anything about girls or dating anyone anytime soon, you might want to ask him if he is interested in anyone. His answer will say it all!

12. Curious About Your Relationship Status

When you’re just friends, it really doesn’t matter whether you are married with three kids or never been on a date in your life. Nobody really asks, and why should they? The two of you just go out as friends having a good time- nothing else. But if your guy friend wants to know about your relationship status is or if you’re interested in anyone, he could be trying to ease his way into becoming your boyfriend. If he asks you what a guy would have to do to get you to be his girlfriend, you can definitely take this as a sign he wants you as more than just a friend.

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13. “We Should Be Together. Just Kidding…”

Have you ever heard that saying that the biggest lie you could ever tell is just kidding? It seems like adding ‘just kidding’ to the end of something serious automatically turns it into an untrue, laughable joke. But the fact of the matter is, 99 percent of the time when someone says they’re just kidding about something, they really aren’t.

That being said, if your guy pal kids about you and him being an item, he might actually want it to happen. For example:

The two of you are playing video games and suddenly start laughing out loud about a joke only the two of you would find funny. As the wave of laughter comes to an end, he jokingly says “We would make the perfect couple.” Let’s face it ladies, he probably isn’t joking. And if this kind of thing happens somewhat often, I’d take that as a definite sign he wants you.

14. Where Are You Two Going?

Pay close attention to where you guys go. Do you do the basic friend thing, like go to parties together, hang out downtown, or do a lot of other group activities with the rest of your friends? Or are your hangouts a bit more romantic, with just the two of you? If the bulk of your adventures are done in group, you’re probably just friends- or he is trying not to be so obvious. But if he asks you to do a lot of one on one things, he might be trying to get to know you better and see if the two of you are a match made in heaven.

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15. Oh, You Shouldn’t Have!

There is a huge, huge, huge difference between doing a friend a favor, and doing something especially sweet for someone. If he gave you a ride home from work one day, I wouldn’t get carried away and assume he likes you. But if he does a lot of nice things for you on a regular basis, like buying you those special shoes you couldn’t afford or offering to pick you up from work every single night, there might be more to it than just a friendly gesture. Pay close attention to this, as this can sometimes get confusing. You wouldn’t want to mistake kindness for love!

16. Your Knight in Shining Armor

It’s the male instinct to protect the woman you love- and if you notice he is acting more like your knight in shining armor than your best guy friend, it’s a possibility he’s into you. It could be as simple as telling some people to stop saying mean things about you to completely going berserk on a guy who shoved you in public. Whatever his knightly duty was, don’t take it lightly. He not only did this to protect you, but impress you and show he cares for you and your safety.

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17. The Green Monster Pays a Visit

When you like someone, you get jealous- that’s nature. Whether it’s an innocent flirt or they are talking about being with someone else, the little green monster pops his head up instantly. If he gets jealous about you talking with other guys or mentioning other guys, this is a definite clue he likes you.

18. Remembering the Finest Details

Remember when you told him you broke your arm when you were 5? Yeah, he just so happened to remember that. He also remembers about that silly joke you said a couple months back that had him rolling on the floor laughing during the Christmas party. Men are notorious at forgetting things, especially the fine details. If he seems to remember all that and more, this is a serious sign he is interested in you and actually listens when you talk to him.

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19. Are You Impressed Yet?

As we’ve said so many times before (and you’ve probably known for quite some time), men love to impress females- especially ones they are interested in. If he seems to try to impress you, whether it’s with his clothing or picking up a giant boulder *right in front of you*, he’s probably trying to get you to notice him in a way other than friendly.

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20. Need Any Help With That?

This kind of goes hand in hand with doing favors for you more than the average friend. But if he seems willing to do certain tasks- even the most boring or hard like changing your oil or fixing your broken glass window- this is a sure sign he likes you. Plus he gets to show off how manly and handy he is. Double win!

21Just a Few More Minutes..

At the end of the night or a conversation with a friend, it’s usually easy to say goodbye. But when you’re interested in someone, you never want it to end. You could be together all night long, not saying a word, and it would be the best thing ever. If he always tries to spend more time with you or stay on the phone just a bit longer, he’s probably very interested in you.

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22. Asking Friends and Family for Help

There is no better way to get to know someone than by asking around. If he’s asked your friends and family members questions trying to get to know you better, I’d take that as a very obvious sign he is wanting to be more than friends. Some common questions he might ask those closest to you include the following:

-Does she have a boyfriend?

-What kind of guys is she interested in?

-What are some of her favorite things to do?

-Any idea what her dream date is like?

Don’t be surprised if someone close to you says so and so has been asking questions. It’s not weird, he just really wants to know more about you and surprise you with something he knows you would absolutely love. That’s great investigating and really shows that he’ll go the extra mile to learn about you!

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23. A Kiss to Remember

Your guy friend just kissed you. Like, woah. Completely out of nowhere. You two were walking home from the party and he grabbed you and kissed you. You were left completely speechless. And, you know what, this really doesn’t need further explanation. Either he was drunk out of his mind or he’s been wanting to kiss you for awhile.

24. “I Like You.”

If he flat out tells you he likes you, then, well, he likes you. And that’s that. No more questioning or wondering. It’s pretty much all on the table at that point, and it’s up to you to decide how you will react. At least you won’t have that lingering question in the back of your mind, right? Even if it’s totally awkward, it’s a huge relief off of your shoulders- and that’s something to be thankful about. Let’s just hope the guy you’re friends with has the guts to come out and tell it like it is! (Yes, men, we totally appreciate a guy who does this. Be brave!)

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 25. JUST ASK HIM

That’s right. Sometimes enough is enough and you just need ANSWERS. If he isn’t budging, just ask him to tell you so you can quit wondering.

It can be torture sitting around wondering if your guy pal wishes the two of you were ‘more than friends’. It doesn’t have to be hard, though. With subtle hints like playfully teasing and touching to going out of his way to do you awesome favors, there’s plenty of ways you can put your curiosity to rest- and possibly land yourself a boyfriend.

 

Ladies- what are some great ways a guy friend has proven to you that he wants to be more than friends?





988 Comments

  1. Jyayee

    July 12, 2017 at 5:04 am

    There is a guy I really like who is one year above me (he is in year 12, I’m in yr 11). We talk for hours everyday during school holidays and I see him everyday when we are at school in one of my classes (I do a year 12 subject). We have a lot of common interests so we never run out of things to talk about. He is a quiet guy but is very talkative when we chat through messages, but I’m not sure if he does the same thing to other people. He has sent messages saying that he likes talking to me will miss me when he goes to university. When I told him that I’ll probably be planning to go to the same uni as he is, he said that how happy he would be to see me again. However sometimes, he sends messages which just makes me think he only sees me as a friend and I’m always the one to message first. But when we do start talking, he would ask lots of questions about me and make jokes to make me laugh. He is always willing to help with anything and goes out of his way to spend more time with me at school during break time and after school. He is a really nice guy so I’m not sure if he’s just being friendly or actually likes me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 13, 2017 at 7:32 pm

      It sounds like the two of you have a great relationship. He probably is interested in developing a relationship with you. If you are interested in developing a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. This will give him to chance to share himself with you as well. You will find benefit is attempting to more time with him in person. This will help your relationship. Have a great day, Jyayee!

  2. Morgan

    June 26, 2017 at 7:48 pm

    Hi!!! So here’s how my story went last June I told my bff I liked a boy let’s name the boy Connor (not actually his name just an example.) Connor’s friend eavesdropped me and heard that and told him and I cried the whole summer break with only Connor on my mind and then when school started in September Connor ignored me and avoided me as possible and I had no idea why I still have no idea why In between the month me and my friend (Connor’s ex) hacked into his Instagram (just for fun I know that’s it’s not nice) he found out and called us curse words behind our backs let’s just fast forward and get to the question part so right now it’s the last week of school yesterday Connor followed me on Instagram I know he was messing on me like he did with his ex so I deleted his follower request and today I checked to see if he followed me again I also searched his account and he blocked me idk why he hates me I want to talk to him but like that’s going to be a nice, friendly conversation instead it’s going to be a rude, arguing, conversation and I’m avoiding that what did I freaking do he ignored me for a year we’re almost in grade 8 I cry thinking of him I know your answers going to be “his a jerk there’s still plenty of fish in the sea get over him and live your life” but it’s hard this summer break is gonna be no different then the last one when I got rejected this ones being hated by him I don’t know what to do I cry when he pulls his stupid idiotic stunts I regret all the nice things I did to him I should have probably been mean and rude like him I have to go through all this just for ryou my dumb feelings and Connors friend eavesdropping me I feel so stupid there’s nothing I can do to fix it he hates me guts so much! I wish I never switched schools and stayed in my old school with no stupid Connor I freaking hate myself he probably would have a party if I died I’m done with him I feel like yelling at him showing how much pain he put on me but like his gonna care cause he won’t since his so popular and friends with my classmates (there are two grade 7 classes his in the other one) everyday he would hang out with them at lunch as much as I want to tell what Connor did to one of my classmates that’s a girl I don’t know if I can trust her or not she’s really nice. My question to this is WHY IS HE SO FREAKING MEAN TO ME AND BLOCKED ME ON INSTAGRAM FOR NO REASON?!?

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 27, 2017 at 3:39 pm

      You deleted his request. That is enough reason for someone to block someone else. It sounds like he treats you with disrespect. There are many other fish in the sea. Allow him to fade from your mind. Take this time to determine what you want with our future without him. If he reaches out to you, then you can always attempt to develop a relationship with him at that time. Have a nice day, Morgan!

      • Morgan

        June 27, 2017 at 4:50 pm

        I just deleted my Instagram today to get him off my mind I was hoping you would say that lol I didn’t really want Instagram but my friend forced me saying it’s fun so I was like sure I’ll get it I’m not even upset of deleting it I didn’t even post anything but my poor drawings that sucked thanks for the advice it will be kind of hard to get over him because I see him everyday but then again on summer break I could get him off my mind lol thanks again
        ~мσяgαи

        • web admin

          web admin

          June 28, 2017 at 3:36 pm

          It is great that you brought up your drawings. This is an excellent time to focus on the things that interest you, like drawing. Perhaps allow the excess energy that you have on your mind work its way onto paper. This will help you become more proud of your work. Have a great day, Morgan!

  3. Octavia

    June 23, 2017 at 8:58 pm

    How do I know if I like someone for real of if its just a little crush? When I am around the guy that I like I can forget about the two other guys I have a crush on and I know that I would be happy with just him. But I haven’t seen him in 2 months and I find myself slowly falling back into my other two crushes. Although I know that when I see him again in 2 weeks I am going to think the same way again. Is this just a small crush of mine or do I truly truly like him?

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 24, 2017 at 1:29 pm

      You may want to take this time to determine who you are truly interested in developing a relationship with. If you think about someone while you are with other people, but don’t think about the other people when you are with that particular someone, then you have your answer. Speak directly and honestly to the person that you most want to develop a relationship with. Be direct and honest about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Octavia!

  4. Rosalee

    June 1, 2017 at 9:03 pm

    So the guy I like texts me a lot but when we meet in person he mostly talks to my best friend. During our messages he gives me big hints that he likes me such as asking me if I will be at this school event or what I’m doing or what episode I’m on, on our favorite tv show, he’s given me enough reasons to think that he likes me yet I don’t know for sure, because there will be days he texts me a lot some days only a little bit and others not at all, and then I thought that maybe he likes my best friend, and I also thought that maybe he is trying to make me jealous, because he doesn’t have her number and he doesn’t text her and he texts me about random stuff like what he is having for lunch or if he is having lunch. Im confused about what to think on the grounds of him liking me, does he like me or not? And what should be my next step if I want to build a stronger relationship?

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 2, 2017 at 2:31 pm

      He might be nervous about talking to you in person, so he talks to your friend. It is normal for someone to feel shy in person, but be able to talk to their crush via text. It sounds like he likes you, so I would make a move. Ask him if he wants to hang out outside of school or watch a movie with you. It sounds like he likes you, so go for it! Good luck, Rosalee!

  5. JB

    May 27, 2017 at 5:45 am

    There’s this colleague from other office who jokingly said to me while we were with our other common colleagues that he likes me. He even introduced me to one or two from other office as his girlfriend. I was shocked because we are not even close given that we are not in the same office. We seldom meet, and those were all during official events.

    In those few times that we meet during work, he sometimes tease me, asking, “what would you do if I fell for you?”, jokingly, in front of others. These happened during two separate occasions.

    I did not have feelings for him during those times of “teasing.” But when these playful jokes and teasing stopped for a while, I realized that I already kept a special part for him in me.

    Saddest part, I heard from my friends that he is resigning from his office.

    I do not even want to know if he meant what he said about being his gf before or if he was serious in asking what if he fell for me. I just want to say this here because I cannot tell my friends that I hope we can be closer next time we meet. That we can be friends (Yeah, even just friends, I do not want to be greedy.) before he leaves his office. So that we can communicate. I do not have his number and he does not have mine. (I cannot initiate texting even if I have his digits. Ugh!) I am also not into adding people to my social networking account, like only around 20% of my Facebook friends were because I was the one who asked to be FB friends. The other 80%, they added me. Do not get me wrong. I am friendly. But I opt quality over quantity.

    I’m thinking he was just really joking because the teasing was not sustained.

    Tsk. Why do I always realize that I like someone late, when they are already not giving me much attention? (Because this story is not the only experience that I have which has the same plot.)

    Thank you for taking time reading my post.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 28, 2017 at 10:32 am

      It is not too late yet! He hasn’t quit completely, so you still have time to get his number. It sounds like he may have liked you before, but may have stopped flirting because you didn’t really respond. I would ask him for his number and just say it is so that you can keep in touch once he leaves. Make sure to give him your number as well so that he can text you as well–especially if you do not feel comfortable about texting him first. From there, you just have to keep talking and see where things go. Good luck, JB!

  6. Octavia

    May 23, 2017 at 10:27 am

    How do you look for signs that a guy likes you? I have liked this guy for a while and he talks to me most through texting when out in public he never comes up to talk to me. So my question is how do you tell whether a guy likes you through messages? I try when ever I can to walk up and talk to him and he will say a few quick words and walk away. And when ever he does talk to me longer its usually about what we had discussed through messages before. So I’m not sure if he just can’t find anything else to talk about or if he just is trying to give me signs to stop texting him. I need some help here so that I can make my next move, because right now I have decided to stop texting him and wait to see if he starts texting me. But when he does I’m afraid I will read it wrong and take it that he missed our conversations, I don’t want to be that annoying girl.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 23, 2017 at 12:10 pm

      He may just view you as a friend and responds to your texts just to be nice. I think that it might be a good step to stop texting him and see if he initiates the texts–that way, you can see if his responses were just because he was being polite or if he genuinely has feelings for you. Good luck, Octavia!

  7. none

    May 21, 2017 at 8:21 pm

    So this guy I like is the clown of the class. He loves to joke around a lot. I didn’t start to think he liked me until recently when we texts me a lot. I told him I was going to his brothers graduation. Once I was headed their he texts me asking if I’m their yet, and when I say yes he asks where I am, he said its because he’s sitting next to people he doesn’t know. Throughout the graduation he asks where I am and continues texting me about what is happeneing. Later on at the after party I see him and he sees me but he doesn’t come talk to me rather he texts me after the party saying he saw me. And all tonight he has been texting me. Does any of this mean he likes me or is he just being a friend?

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 22, 2017 at 11:24 am

      It sounds like he might have a crush on you. Even though he is confident around everyone else, he may be a little shy or nervous around you. Because of this, he keeps texting you instead of just talking to you. While it is not 100 percent certain yet, it sounds like he likes you.

  8. Babesgirl

    May 6, 2017 at 10:57 am

    I’m able to go out soon as in places so I will be able to get a boyfriend as I had stood up to the people. I’m ready for a relaionship and I know what I want and I would like to ask you this if it can help me for knowing if a guy likes me. My question is ‘If a guy talks to you alone does he like you? He does talk to me when I’m around other people but not as much.’ I know that there hasn’t been nothing bad happened between us.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 6, 2017 at 1:09 pm

      Yes, this article can help you tell if a guy likes you. If he talks to you all the time when you are alone, he may be trying to get closer to you. While it is not a guaranteed sign that he is interested, it definitely shows that there is a possibility that he has feelings for you.

  9. Babesgirl

    May 2, 2017 at 2:21 am

    I always talk to guys at college and they seem different when they are around their friends. Whenever, they are around their friends and I’m around the guy seems a bit distant but when I am on my own they talk to me like they have never seen me before. I would like to know what this means and I would like to have a boyfriend but I’m not allowed to go out. How do you think this is possible if I want to date and know if they do like me? Please help me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 2, 2017 at 11:56 am

      If you are not allowed to go out, then you probably will not be able to develop a relationship. However, since you are in college, you should speak to whoever is not allowing you to develop a relationship with anyone. It is time that you explain that you are adult and that you can establish a relationship if you wish to establish a relationship. Deal with this unreasonable issue first, and then worry about beginning a relationship. Have a great day, Babes!

  10. Sheyla

    April 27, 2017 at 8:49 am

    Please help there is this guy wyom i deeply fell in love with in the start we were good friends we talked together every day and night always answer my messages a the next minutes but after new celebration i send him a message just like in jokes i told him i loved him i dont know if he saw the message but even after then nothing changed after some few times my phone went bad and when it was ok i saw he text me and i was not cinnected that day.since that day he never connected him self again and i disscovered he had a new number but i never asked since i’m nit that kind to ask the numbers of boys. Since we are in the same school i send him a request on face book and he accepted (i swa he was single and had nobody) but since that we are freinds he never liked any of my pictures but identifies me in he’s and even talk to me he cant say he doesn’t see them or pike them beacause i’m popular on facebook and my pictures always have high rates.why does he act like that and dont like my pictures,identifies me and is no more close to me like before

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 27, 2017 at 2:05 pm

      It would be best not to worry about whether or not he is active on social media. Many people do not like pictures. It is simply not important to them. He may be more interested in spending time with you in person. Reach out to him at this time. Explain that you would like to see him in person. This will give you an opportunity to learn about his thoughts and feelings toward you. Have a great day, Sheyla!

  11. Rebecka

    April 16, 2017 at 12:43 am

    I kinda have this crush on my guy bestfriend and i’m unsure if he likes me back. We talk everyday and when we skype, we talk like maybe 7 or 9 hours and when his dad tells him to say goodbye he says ‘just a a few more minutes’, and sometimes in school when we have recess and our group of friends sits down somewhere,he sometimes hugs me from behind and in some cases he spoons me while i’m sitting up. About a month ago i talked to a another guy on skype who i met on the internet, all my other friends teased me except him. He seemed jealous and when his bestfriend asked him if he was jealous he denied it. Also a few days ago when we were in a room alone he asked me to look at him and i did. He told me my eyes were really beautiful. Sometimes in class i catch him staring at me. He also always keep eye contact when we talk. He smiles alot when we talk. I’m afraid if i ask him if he likes me it might ruin our friendship and i don’t want that to happen.

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 16, 2017 at 9:07 am

      He has very strong feelings for you. It is certain that he wants to develop a relationship with you. He may be uncertain about your feelings. Your best option is to speak directly and honestly with him about your desire to develop a relationship with him. Try to spend time with him in person, as this will bring the two of you closer. Have a great day, Rebecka!

  12. veronica

    April 12, 2017 at 9:19 am

    i have a crush on this guy called sam and he is in my class which is 10th.When i was a new kid some girls told sam that i liked him .So sam asked my bestfriend if i liked him and she said no.After that sam started making fun of me and being rude to only me and not other girls.And when i asked him if he hated me he said no and he said that it was fun annoying me.And one day i caught him staring at my lips.And his bestfriend keeps asking my friend if i like sam or not and he says that he knows that i like sam.
    Sam also imitates me at times.and a few days back he asked me if i’m dating tony(a guy in my class who is nice to me)and i said yes (sarcastically) and asked him hold di i know that.he replied saying that the way my eyes look at tony.then when my friend asked his bestfriend who sam liked he said it was some (9th grader).and sam likes all the pictures of that girl on instagram.and he even commented on one saying looks like i dont make bad decisions when she posted a selfie.what could this mean ??
    please help..

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 13, 2017 at 8:38 am

      He is interested in a relationship with you. He may not have understood that you were being sarcastic when he asked you about the other guy. It would be beneficial for you to not lie to him about your relationships or anything else in the future. Your best option is to speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. Best of luck, Veronica!

  13. Bell

    April 9, 2017 at 3:28 pm

    HE DOESNT NOTICE ME!! so today I was waiting by homeroom when my crush and his friend came and obviously he saw me but he said “there’s no one here” then his friend said “no Bella’s here” like why he is starting to do that a lot his bothering me

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 10, 2017 at 8:12 am

      He may have just not noticed, or he may not want you to realize that he noticed. Whatever the case, it is not enough to show whether he likes you or not. It may take more time to figure out if he could actually have feelings for you or not, so be patient. Good luck, Bell!

  14. veronica

    April 6, 2017 at 6:38 am

    there is this guy in my class called sam and i have a crush on him.his bestfriend marc keeps asking my bestfriend zarah if i have a crush on sam.she obviously replies no.but then a few days back marc told zarah that sam has a crush on this girl in 9th grade whereas sam is in 10th.marc always used to tease me about liking sam.but then for a few weeks he stopped and then he started again.and also the girl in 9th grade posted a picture and he commented saying”my choice aint that bad”.Marc also knows that zarah tells me everything.

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 6, 2017 at 10:09 am

      It looks like you may have commented twice on this one. I have to answer and approve each comment individually, so it may take me a bit to approve all of them. If you do not see a response immediately, do not worry because you will. Read through my last response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!

  15. Kierra

    April 4, 2017 at 8:08 pm

    So this friend of mine I’m not sure if I like or if he likes me. We have all the same classes together. In history I sit across from him and at times I find him staring at me. He loves to joke around and messes around a lot with one of my close friends, but he treats me differently then any other girl. He will help me when I drop something by picking it up, but at times he doesn’t even realize that I’m in the room. I don’t know if I like him or not because it seems the only times I feel a bit attracted is when I see him help others, but when he jokes around with others and doesn’t even have the audacity to notice me it really hurts. I don’t know if this is him showing his affections or if he just doesn’t like me. And I don’t know what this says about my feelings toward him.

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 5, 2017 at 8:15 am

      He might like you–it certainly sounds possible. I wouldn’t worry about how he feels yet because you still do not know if you are interested or not. The best thing to do right now would be to figure out how you feel before you make a move or encourage him in any way. Once you know how you feel for sure, then you can decide your next step. Good luck, Kierra!

  16. sarah

    April 2, 2017 at 4:53 am

    i have a gut feeling that my crush likes me but my friends refuse to accept it for some reason.the other day he was staring at my lips when we were talking and then he pointed at some baby pigeons on the window sill what could it mean?and some times he even teases me and he behaves differntly as in whenever some girl asks him for help he helps her but when i ask him for help he never helps me

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 2, 2017 at 9:11 am

      If he behaves differently around you, then that could mean that he likes you. The fact that he never helps you is not a good sign–if he liked you, he would take that as an opportunity to be around you and get to know you better. For the moment, it could really go either way. Unless you are willing to risk a rejection, I would hold off on asking him out or anything. Good luck, Sarah!

    • Kierra

      April 4, 2017 at 8:13 pm

      Some guys think that its attractive to not help a girl and by being rude or annoying. He may have some interests in you, but not to be rude but it seems as if his feelings could fade for u very quickly, if u don’t want this to happen I wouldn’t try to earn his affections because you have already one them and to act differently toward him could make him drift away. Just keep doing what your doing, keep being you because thats the you he likes.

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 5, 2017 at 8:16 am

        That sounds like pretty good advice. Thanks for commenting, Kierra!

  17. Please help

    April 1, 2017 at 11:26 am

    Hey guys.. So I’m in a totally emotional rut right now. My guy friend and I were so close. We could talk about anything and he shared all his personal issues with me. I was there for him when he needed me. I even helped him with most of his college assignments and he got high grades for that. We sexted sometimes and trusted each other very much. I am very concerned at the amount of female friends he has on fb and got kinda jealous. I’m also worried bc at times I feel he is just using me for the sexting, but he does support me when I need him. I think my jealously got he best of me and I blocked him on fb. When I threatened to block him other times he told me not to and apologized for whatever made me angry.He also told me he doesn’t want to lose me. My concern is he hasn’t done anything about the fact that I blocked him. Like sending a text or calling me asking what’s the problem. Am I being over paranoid and obbessed with him. And doesn’t he value our friendship? BTW… I think im in love with him.

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 2, 2017 at 9:16 am

      He may be tired of the threats of blocking him and the jealousy. Since you were not in a relationship with him, he probably did not expect that level of control or jealousy. Unfortunately, it is hard to go back from this type of event. He probably valued your friendship highly and it sounds like he was attracted to you, but the constant jealousy drove him away. I would unblock him and never block him again. Hold off on reaching out for a bit afterward so that you have a moment to calm your mind and he has a chance to be the first one to reach out. You might not be able to undo the mistake, but you can unblock and hope that it works.

  18. Kierra

    March 28, 2017 at 8:07 pm

    So I need some help with a serious question. So this best friend that I have that has gotten a girlfriend and apparently me being his friend bothers her even though I have stepped back knowing he is in a relationship. Now I cannot even meet up with him and do fun things like go skating together anymore, we never get to see each other anymore we only text. Well this girlfriend of his has only known him for 8 months I’ve known him for 3 years and have liked him for 3 years. So now that I see what kind of person she is it has been making me jealous and I have been texting him even more now, but the thing is he keeps leading me on to think that he likes me especially when he said he would rather loose her than me. So I don’t know if I should back off and stop texting him since he’s in a relationship or keep texting him and make my life miserable knowing he has someone else. Which should I do?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 29, 2017 at 10:11 am

      It seems like he is in a difficult spot. He would rather have your friendship than be with her, but she does not want him hanging out with you at all. Right now, you may want to just take a step back and try not to get too involved. If she is that jealous already, then the relationship is probably going to fail at some point soon. It’d be better if he does not associate you with the relationship failing though, so you may want to try to respect his relationship and make things easier on him by not hanging out so much for a while. If things change, you can obviously start hanging out with him again.

      • Kierra

        March 29, 2017 at 5:49 pm

        so I shouldn’t text him? But would that lesson our relationship? He’s always the one to start the conversation so if I ignore him he would gradually drift away from me right? And he considers me as the greatest friend he has to talk to since he says that he finds it easier to talk to me than anyone else. So should I just try to be there for him as a friend? And when he asks me about his relationship what should I say? Because it hurts me when he talks about her with me and thats a lot

        • web admin

          web admin

          March 30, 2017 at 9:49 am

          If he texts you, text back. Just don’t initiate the texts. Try to stay friends as much as you can, but also try not to get in the way of his relationship. You basically have to do a very careful balancing act if you want to stay friends with him without getting the relationship. As for what you should do when he asks for relationship advice, that is entirely up to you. He is probably going to want advice from you as long as you are still friends, so you may have to get used to it.

  19. Ally

    March 22, 2017 at 2:58 pm

    So here is how it began me and my friend (the one my crush used to date) knew his Insta password so we sometimes logged into his account to see his messages and stuff she told some of her friends she trusted the thing saying we “both” got the insta password (it was me but not that I cared) then today my crush found out (me and my friend don’t know who told him) and he called his ex (my friend) a cuss word he didn’t say ‘******s’ just ***** without no s I know it was to her and so did she but my question is he ignores me and doesn’t call me a swear I don’t know why he isn’t mad at me unless he is but doesn’t bother to call me a swear word idk

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 23, 2017 at 7:40 am

      He may be more upset at her than you because they used to date. He may feel like he should have been able to trust her more, and he could feel betrayed. He also may rightly realized that she was the one logging into his account. For the moment, it looks like you have luckily avoided his wrath.

      • Ally

        March 23, 2017 at 2:25 pm

        There’s more I found today me and her were literally crying today at lunch everyone In the other grade 7 class is talking about us the people who me and her considered friends were also talking about it she even told me that she heard the boy who rejected me telling his friends that “yeah there’s this girl named Ally who had a crush on me she’s a *****” I can’t believe he said that! His a jerk as well like he pretends to be friends with a boy that’s me and my friend’s friend when me and my friend went into his account he talked about him in most of the messages I just don’t know me and her were crying but the end of the day my friend told the boy everything so yeah but I’m hurt all I did was admit my feelings and my crush’s friend eavesdropped and told him and his ignoring me I’m sad I wish I never see his face ever! But sadly I have to see it since his in the same school as me I can’t believe I liked him!! Please tell me what to do I should have never went into his account but i was curious and his password was his full name so he leaves me so confused everyday!! I can’t get him out of my head, he left me crying at home numerous times, I just want this to stop but probably the their grade 7 class will keep talking about it me and my friend feel guilty I’m guilty for liking she is guilty for dating him she’s also confused because he broke up with her and calls her cuss words I just want this to stop!! 😩😪😪😪

        • web admin

          web admin

          March 24, 2017 at 8:42 am

          I would forget about him. It is understandable that he is upset, but calling you names and belittling you are not appropriate responses. You know now that he is not worth your time or interest–and if you weren’t sure before, the way he treats his guy “friend” is another clue. For the moment, the only thing that you guys can do is to ignore all of the rumors and go about your normal day. This has basically tested your friends and shown you who you can really trust. Now, you know that your best friend is truly your friend, and many of the other people at the school are not people that you can trust. If the bullying gets intense, go to a teacher or a parent for help. Otherwise, do your best to ignore it and stick close to your best friend.

        • Kierra

          March 28, 2017 at 8:18 pm

          I know that this moment may be hard for you but I would take this time to pray, to pray that God will ease your heart and mind and allow you to get through the day. We cannot run from things we hate we must face them and to truly bring them down is to make them feel like they are missing something. Tell them you will pray for them, you pray that they will see that making fun of others and stepping on them to rise up will only lead to them falling because whatever goes up must come down. That is why at this moment that you are down lean on God and I promise you he will help you rise to where you will never fall. They are already below you and they just haven’t looked up to realize that because they are lost, they have not leaned on God for support . I will pray for you during this time and I hope you will be able to feel this strength as you pray to God for that support. Blessings, kierra

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