Capricorn Man in Love

By on April 26, 2014

CEO of the company, respected attorney, world renowned chef- these are just a few of the careers likely to be had by a Capricorn. Capricorns are extremely determined and single-minded individuals, and they won’t stop until they get what they want- even if it means traveling through horrendous obstacles to get there. Capricorns are always seeing the reality of every situation rather than the fantasy, which gives them an edge in certain situations- especially business situations. You won’t find a Capricorn taking a moment to daydream about things that could never be- they’d much rather be determining their next move on an important subject.


The Type of Woman Capricorn Needs

Capricorns tend to be a bit shy and reserved at first so they don’t rush into anything. They see relationships as a long term investment and tend to fall for someone quickly after entering a relationship. However, they prefer to stand back and assess their potential partner before making a move. That’s why Capricorn needs a real woman with a distinct personality, someone who likes the same things as they do. They don’t fall for someone with just a pretty face, which is why a Capricorn won’t typically go for eight inch stilettos and a mini skirt. Capricorn needs a lady who is as invested in the relationship as he is and is willing to go the extra mile to make it work. He doesn’t want a woman that plays games, but rather a mature woman who is seeking a lengthy relationship and is willing to work through problems.


Capricorn in a Relationship

For a Capricorn, even finding a potential mate is a bit difficult. The Capricorn will sit back and watch for awhile, noting what the female likes or dislikes and analyzing her personality. He wants to make sure it’s going to be worth his time- a match made in Heaven, so to speak. That being said, the Capricorn male is not a player and doesn’t go for one night stands. He won’t fall for a girl because of the way she looks, and would much prefer to get to know a woman before even entering into a relationship.Once the Capricorn has studied his potential mate for quite sometime, he’ll be able to determine whether or not she is worth the investment. (Capricorns are always judging something on longterm- whether it’s a relationship or a business proposal).

After entering into the relationship, Capricorn might seem a bit standoffish. It’s not because he isn’t interest (in fact it’s quite the opposite!), it’s more that he does not want to show off to much of his feelings in the beginning and ruin any possibilities. Capricorn knows he’s extremely into you and doesn’t want to mess anything up, so he tries not to scare off his partner with too much romance. However, after the relationship has moved past the initial few months of dating, a different side to Capricorn is shown: his affectionate, loving side- the side where he lets you know he’d do anything to keep you in his arms.

To put it plainly, Capricorn is seeking a long term relationship. Once he has found his ‘perfect girl’, he will do anything to keep her. He wants to be the man of the house and take of his lady, but also have a woman who is secure and likes the same things as him. However, Capricorn will have a problem if his woman surpasses him in any way (career wise, parent wise, etc).

Capricorn in the Bedroom

A lot of people think a Capricorn might be boring in the bedroom. His practical attitude and lack of imagination might seem dull, but that’s quite the opposite. In fact, Capricorn loves to please his mate. According to him, it’s best to find one or two things that work and stick to it. He will continuously perfect these few skills until he can please you within minutes. However, Capricorn does have a longing to please his woman in whatever way possible, so if you’re into whips, whipped cream, or sexy costumes, you may be able to sway him into it. If you like to be treated like a Queen in the bedroom (without having to return the favor), then you will definitely have a wonderful time with a Capricorn.


Negative Side of a Capricorn Man

One of the biggest negative trains of a Capricorn is that he tends to pessimistic. Capricorn, being an overachiever and hard-worker, always sees himself as ‘not good enough’. He uses this pessimistic attitude throughout most aspects of his life, and many find this negative mindset a bit of an annoyance.

Another problem you might notice with a Capricorn is their stubbornness. Capricorns have a certain way of doing things. They like what they like, and that’s it. If you disagree, they really don’t want to hear it. They are stuck in their ways and believe that what they think or do is best. This can obviously get on someone’s nerves, but if you can work through a Capricorns stubbornness you will enjoy their positive traits.

Lastly, Capricorns have a tendency to be shy- especially in the beginning of a relationship. This might irritate some women and leave them thinking that the man is uninterested. However, women need to remind themselves that Capricorn men are simply shy by nature and don’t like to give up too much in the beginning. Hold on to the relationship and you’ll see the man blossom into a hard-working and extremely dedicated individual that works tirelessly for his lady.


Capricorn and Taurus: The two make a wonderful match, both being level-headed individuals with a realistic approach. Just make sure you add plenty of fun and excitement to keep things interesting or your affairs may become mundane.

Capricorn and Capricorn: The perfect two! Both individuals have goals and determination necessary for a fulfilling relationship, and the two can easily have a business partnership at the same time. However, the relationship may get boring after time, so make sure to take time for some fun activities.

Capricorn and Pisces: Both individuals offer plenty of depth and communication, and if the pair can learn to appreciate the extreme differences between each other, the relationship will flourish greatly. In this case, opposites attract and can make for an exciting and fulfilling time!

Capricorn Man in a Nutshell

A capricorn man isn’t hard to figure out or very mysterious. He has two goals in his mind: how to reach the top of his career (or some other highly sought after goal) and finding the perfect woman for a long term and deep relationship. Capricorns are extremely dedicated and prefer to stick to their roots, not taking other’s opinions easily. They need a woman they can take care of for a lifetime, a gal who is willing to deal with his stubborn and ernest personality. But don’t let his hard-working mindset sway you from dating a Capricorn. These sweet men are pleasurers in the bedroom without needing any fancy footwork and will work endlessly to ensure his woman is happy- when it comes to the overall relationship, finances, home life, and more.


Image credit: Emma, Laurana, James.


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    February 3, 2017 at 2:07 pm

    Well I met cap man 7 months ago we argue a lot but I enjoy attention and losening up aa months passes by his really loving me in his own special and stubborn way but in all the arguements we having he knows how to calm me down as a leo and feEl love,care and calmness in me again. Although he calls everyday but wrk is more important to him than anything and his familly and his children sometimes I feel like his not there in our relationship but somehow theres something that keeps me loving him even more his loyal no matter what he does I know his not cheating I can cal anytime he,l answer

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      February 5, 2017 at 9:25 am

      Perhaps you should just tell him that you want him to pay attention to you and focus on you more. It doesn’t have to be an everyday thing because of his work. If he gave you a special date and a few hours of alone time every week, it would go a long way toward strengthening your relationship, making you feel loved and it wouldn’t get in the way of his work. Just be open and honest about what you want, while making sure that you emphasize that you are not trying to get in the way of his career goals.

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    January 18, 2017 at 11:32 am

    Capricorn men, so complicated if you don’t know them 🙂 I, as a Libra, seem to have a special bond with Capricorns, male and female. I have a few Cap male friends, and I am engaged to one now. MY ex is also a Cap and it was that once in a lifetime love. Unfortunately, we broke up because of everyone else at the time, long story..
    I have learned that They are very patient, and don’t like to rush into anything. MY ex actually stalked me years ago before he finally asked my friend to meet me lol. HE was so shy, and sweet. We got to know each other and we had an instant connection. It was heaven and hell because of the timing, but it was real. He had tears in his eyes one night because he was afraid we wouldn’t last because of everything beyond our control.
    If a Cap really loves you, he will fight to be with you, he did, until it was just too much on both ends. HE worked hard, but he always called and sent me texts through out the day. He even took a week off from work to get to know me lol. Caps don’t do that. So, if he is really into you, most often, they won’t let you out of their reach..
    If he is a jerk, and doesn’t contact you after you let him knw your interested, then just ignore him. Caps don’t like to be ignored, been there..
    My fiancé is different than my ex Capricorn, he is younger and a very old soul lol. Caps age in reverse, so as they get older, they usually are more exciting. My ex was 10 years older than my cap now lol. So their is hope for my younger cap. He does take care of me and my kids though and I appreciate that very much…I love my tough, yet gentle Capricorn…

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      January 18, 2017 at 11:39 am

      Thank you for sharing your experiences with Capricorns. We always appreciate such advice. If you find that you have any other insights, please share them. Congratulations on your engagement. Have a great week, Angel!

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        February 27, 2017 at 5:25 am

        I just noticed this reply, thank you!

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          February 27, 2017 at 12:55 pm

          Have a great day, Angel!

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    January 4, 2017 at 3:25 am

    My long-distance (we saw each other once a week at most and sometimes went months without seeing each other) Capricorn ex broke up with me about two months ago because he felt I was getting clingy and obsessing over him; he lost interest in me as a girlfriend and a friend (it would require time and effort to maintain a friendship which he wasn’t willing to after feeling as though I feed off of any interaction I can have with him) and has closed lines of communication so I can only communicate things to him through mutual friends; I will see him again after no interaction since the past two months in about a month because of a common event we both and some of our friends are expected to attend. He and his friends don’t know I’m invited, and he might not attend. In the case that he doesn’t attend but some of his friends will be there (most don’t know me too well personally and share his perspective on what kind of a girlfriend I had been), what is the best way of conduct? What would be the ideal way to approach him? As he is shy but currently not interested in me I am in doubt that he’d initiate any conversation (I notice that he tries to get out of his shell when he’s interested), but I don’t want him to perceive me as needy/dependent and having had been hung-up over him if I initiate conversation and am friendly with him even if it’s my personality anyway. At the same time, he has a difficult time in group situations and tends to get left out; I don’t want to be insensitive to him by engaging with mutual friends and not involving him; he has shared with me that part of the personal issues with his shyness and insecurity is due to experiences with a sense of exclusion or unwanted-ness in social situations. I know getting back into a relationship would be a relatively slow process, but my goal for now is to get him interested again in being in touch with me or talking to me and then eventually build up to a friendship and a relationship. Thank you so much for any insight.

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      January 4, 2017 at 10:05 am

      If you do not think that he is going to initiate a conversation and he is not interested in you anymore, then it may be best to just avoid talking to him unless he starts up a conversation. It sounds like he has moved on and wants to continue being apart, so there may not be anything that you can do to change his mind. If it were me, I would perhaps smile if you make eye contact, but only talk to him if he talks to you first.

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    December 25, 2016 at 5:35 pm

    I have a huge crush on this Capricorn guy. I’m a 30 y/o Taurus and he’s a 34 y/o Cap. We have hung out a handful of times and have had extensive conversations on the phone. We have so much fun together and there is undeniable chemistry and obvious sexual tension when we are together. We both agree and have said we enjoy hanging out together, but I don’t know what I should do from here. We haven’t even kissed yet, and since I know how Caps are, I don’t want to put pressure on him, but I wonder if I should make the first move or tell him I’m interested in taking our relationship further? I don’t want to come off the wrong way. Any advice is welcome. Thanks

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      December 26, 2016 at 12:21 pm

      It seems as though both of you are interested in moving your relationship forward. You can either way for him to make the next move, or you take take action. Whatever route you choose is up to you. If you continue to wait for him, then he may never take action. The best option is to be clear about your desires. Nothing you will do is going to harm your relationship as long as is it done with respect and love. Have a great week, Kerry!

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    November 22, 2016 at 8:52 pm

    I am a Leo woman and I left a post but I don’t even see a response to mines I am confused ?

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      November 24, 2016 at 7:42 am

      It should have appeared by now, so let me know if you still do not see it. I have to answer and approve each comment manually, so it can sometimes take a little while for all of the comments to appear. If you do not see your comment right away, do not worry because you will. Thanks for commenting!

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    October 26, 2016 at 1:02 am

    So i met a capricorn man about 6 months ago and we talked alot and then we slept together. after i wasnt really interested so i stopped talking to him. well he started talking to me again and basically i told him i wanted to sleep with him so i went to his place after a week of non-stop talking. when i got there we talked for hours about important and personal things and then we slept together and it was amazing, like the best i’ve ever had. Anyway i ended up leaving because i was so confused and couldnt sleep. the next day we talked a little and then he didnt respond. i texted him the next day and he answered right away but only briefly. from the way we talked and the things he told me i really feel like he likes me (im a virgo). so my question is, should i put my feelings out there and tell him i like him? hes awesome and i dont want to lose this opportunity. i think he’s insecure and seems shy. i also think he thinks i only wanted sex, which at first i did until i talked to him and discovered how sweet, genuine and funny he was. he was genuinely interested in my goals and work and family life and i made him laugh alot 🙂 im used to guys being the pursuers but hes very stand-offish. please help me!

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      October 26, 2016 at 2:47 pm

      It is certain that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is also extremely likely that he would be happy to hear that you have positive feelings toward him. Take this time to send him a message about your feelings. Perhaps see if he wants to spend more time with you, and maybe even go somewhere in nature or out and about. Remain positive and mindful as you move forward, Sarah!

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      November 7, 2016 at 12:09 pm

      Hi Sarah, my story is very similar. I am also a Virgo, he is a Capricorn. If you want to discuss it with me, let me know.

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        November 7, 2016 at 3:36 pm

        Thank you for lending an ear to our other readers and commentators. We always appreciate our community supporting itself by positive and friendly people. Feel free to share more in the future. Have a great day, Pauline!

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        November 13, 2016 at 1:55 am

        I am a Virgo girl who is 20. I met a Capricorn guy who is 23 online around 4 months ago.. we met up quite a few times i have spent nights at his place we have been in a physical relation and he said that he loves me and we are in a relationship for a month now. Last night i had a talk regarding telling our parents and about our future plans regarding our relations. He said that he finds it too early to bring family into the picture. He wants me to settle down with my career and life and then ge will talk to his family and mine. The only thing i am worried about is that is there a chance that he will lose interest in me later and just leave me hanging or can i trust him to carry out what he planned? I am his second girlfriend. His first relation ended a bit badly. He mentioned that only i was able to get his attention and sex is not a casual thing fo both of us. Is he being honest with me?

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          November 13, 2016 at 11:13 am

          It is possible that he wants to take the relationship slow so that the two of you develop stronger feelings for each other. He may be concerned about past negative relationships and may be protecting himself. If you want to allay his fears, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If he has no reason to lie to you, then he is likely not lying to you. Remain positive as you move forward. Best of luck, Simren!

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    October 21, 2016 at 6:52 am

    Hi I am an Aries who has been dating a cap guy for about 6 months now. We both went into it not wanting a relationship or knowing what to expect but after spending so much time together and having intimacy feelings grew. We spent a lot of time together and his effort showed where his head was at but I too experienced moments where he would disappear or act distant. I believe it is because he’s afraid to give in to his feeling. We went to school together, not to mention his sister is my bestfriend of 6+ years. It was kind of something that happened. He’s met my family, we’ve spent weekends together..etc. he still doesn’t want commitment although he’s stated that he feels as though he really love me. He goes back and forth in regards to his feelings for me. He says it’s nothing but his actions say different.I’m falling for him but I’m afraid that if I continue to deal with him I will be wasting my time and end up with hurt feelings. Any advice?

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      October 21, 2016 at 6:23 pm

      It may be possible that the crux of your relationship concerns is based around his sister and your friend. Perhaps he is confused about how the relationship will influence him and his personal relationships. Perhaps your friend is also influencing him in both positive and negative ways. There are many reasons for people to act strange. Most commonly, it is a lack of certain knowledge about their potential partner’s feelings. It may be wise for you to speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. This will clear up any questions that he may have. Remain positive and mindful as you move forward!

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    Alyssa Marie M Ayudante

    October 11, 2016 at 10:50 am

    Hi, I’m a Libra Sun with a Capricorn Moon and I’ve liked a Capricorn Sun with a Cancer Moon for about two years now. We met through mutual friends, and it took a lot of work to be able to get him to open up and to be close with him.

    At first we both admitted to having some sort of feelings for each other, but then maybe 8 months later he told me he didn’t see me in that way. We don’t see each other often because we go to different schools and we both lag on texting because we are both busy people. However, through it all, we’ve remained good friends until now. Two of his friends say that he actually did like me at one point, but when pressured to ask me out and he wouldn’t do it.
    Whenever we went on dates, I would always have to initiate or plan something.

    Fast forward a year later, I saw him at a football game. I think he’s starting to like me again because he went out of his way to find me and actually asked me if we could hang out again one day. However, since that day, he hasn’t replied to me for 4 days.

    I really like him and I understand the virtue of patience, but it’s been two years. I don’t know whether what I’m sensing is true or if I’m getting my hopes up again. Sorry that this is long, I just really need some insight.

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      October 11, 2016 at 3:49 pm

      You may be getting your hopes up. It is possible that he is in a better place now and is more mature for a relationship, but don’t count on it too much. As long as you are single and not interested in anyone else right now, there is no harm in feelings things out and seeing what could happen. Good luck!

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    September 17, 2016 at 7:48 pm

    I am dating a Capricorn man and I’m a Gemini woman we are having complications six months in but we both are putting in the work to make our relationship work are there any tips anyone tips we are not really compatible but we do have our moments when everything is great

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      September 18, 2016 at 12:49 pm

      If you are finding that your relationship is more of a negative than a positive, then speak with him directly about how the two of you can change your actions so you become better for each other. If the relationship is a net positive, then work together to find new ways to increase your happiness. It is likely that he wants your relationship to flourish as well, so perhaps take some time alone together and speak with each other about your goals and ideas. If he is willing to do so, then it is likely that your honest and open time together with strengthen your bond.

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    September 16, 2016 at 9:05 pm

    ALL Capricorn men treat their partners like after thoughts. No commitment to relationship. Their work comes first, they shut you out, then talk to you AFTER they’ve done everything they want to. And the girlfriend is supposed to swallow all that? B.s…every woman deserves a man who sweeps her off her feet and makes her feel like a queen. A man who frees his time for her. Not a man who talks to her in his free time. You deserve to be called EVERY day not twice a week. No leaving you blank for days. I’m a Capricorn woman and I cannot stand Capricorn men. They’re awful people. Tf I should be the one playing hard to get. A man should chase me and not me chasing him. He should be doing mind games in his head to get me. Not the other way round. I will not “work” for any man. Or try to get him to like me or change anything about me or convince him I’m good enough to be his gf. B.s.. that’s degrading.

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      September 17, 2016 at 12:33 pm

      It sounds like you had a terrible experience with a Capricorn. On he bright side, at least you know now that you should go after someone else. Hopefully, your next relationship will be a better one. Good luck, Ella!

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    August 27, 2016 at 3:30 am

    I’m a taurus 30 years old woman , 2 years ago I got divorced .. I’ve tried to like and know a lot of men but I couldn’t, I’ve been difficult since divorce .. all men who knows me for a period are beging me for a chance but I don’t why I’m not liking them ,

    6 months ago ,I talked to this capricon man 39 years old divorced .. he’s not beging me ..he has ego as the same as me or more and more..

    I liked him Alot .. I don’t know why .. he said that we r in a relationship eventhough we didn’t met physically yet .. we talked in the phone also sex phone .. he’s talking to me every dsy fir more than 2 hours for like 2 days then he desapperd for a few days then he’s talking to me and telling to me that he love me.. , I like him without saying that . I didn’t said that i love him because I have to have time for that .. also I told him that he’s the only guy that attracted me and I like him ..
    After that , he’s again dessappering for a week then he’s talking to me again .. I become angry of his way .. he said that we r together then he’s not answering my calls .. so I break up with him I told him that I can’t handle his attitude with me ..

    Because for me .. if I’m in a relationship.. I’ll be 100% in .. I don’t play games I done like dessappering and also I don’t like being ignored..

    After 5 weeks he called . He said that he’s never calls any girl who broak up with him but he misses me and likes me alot .. and I were happy with his call and take him back..
    I don’t know why I’m giving him this chance and my time .. I rejected all good guys who’s calling and wanting me

    I took him back for a few weeks , then he did the same and I break up with him .. again

    Last week he called me , he asked about my life my situation whether I got married or not he said that he missed me ..I said .. thanks and I felt that he was sad because I just say .. thanks then he said .. I’ll be always in your side .. if u be with me ill protect you from every thing and I’ll be in your side ..
    Them he said bye dear and I said thanks and bye .

    Now, I’m really confused , I’m really attracted to him like no one else ..

    I’m kind of a girl who used to have attention from guys and they are asking a lot to be thier gf but I didn’t like any one ..

    I liked this guy with ego .. ..

    What shall I do
    Does he want me in his life or not?

    How can I let him take care of me and asks and calls me if I took him back.

    I like the man who’s taking care of me and calling me every couples of day ..

    Pls. Answer me, I’m a taurus with a difficult tast in guys and he’s the only one I like in 2 years

    And he’s the only one who’s not insisting like others . But he said I love you .. and one time when I break up with him I told him I don’t like the way u r treating me .. u r calling me every week and I don’t like that .. he said .. u r a lier.. I trusted you and I liked u ..and I gave u my love feelings Nd you lied to me …
    But I didn’t I’m not a lier , I’m direct person and I hate being ignored.

    I’m really confused he’s difficult.

    Regards ,

    • web admin

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      August 27, 2016 at 3:29 pm

      I would forget about him. He ignored you the first time. You were nice enough to give him a second chance, and he ended up ruining things again. I have no clue why he ignored you and just disappeared, but it seems like it is all that he does. If you decide to let him back into your life, he will most likely just do this again. You should think very, very carefully about what to do. You will most likely be hurt again, but it is up to you if you take that chance or not. Good luck!

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      September 17, 2016 at 12:30 pm

      I am also a Taurus woman and i’ve been dealing with a Capricorn man for 3 1/2 years now, I also met him on the web he to would do the same thing EXACTLY As your story”almost sound like the same man” although I know its not its the similarities! My guy friend and I talked on the phone for 11 months before we actually met in person we done the exact same thing shared the love word,phone sex,he made love to my mind (that’s what people don’t understand) Capricorn men are so charming but so sneaky. I finally allowed him to come meet me in person after a year of everything else and I really loved him because there was always a mental attraction, and the chemistry was magnificent but I also loved the physical part of him. We are still friends today because he to would disappear for a little while and return and emphasize how he loves me and never going to let me go he even often mistake me for property. He will say something like “your mine”,
      “I’m never letting you go” he comes off very possessive, but I swear he’s so affectionate and submissive, and loyal I absolutely know what your going through because every time I say I’m done I find my self right back with him❤

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        September 17, 2016 at 12:40 pm

        That sounds extremely, extremely difficult. Are you sure you want to stay in this relationship? Good chemistry is always desirable, but disappearing and being out of touch for long periods is not what you want in a spouse. Have you ever tried looking for someone else who could have the same chemistry and treat you better?

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    August 21, 2016 at 1:15 pm

    I have a friend (male Capricorn) we’ve known each other for about 7 years and never saw each sexually, until one night we ended up in bed. A month later a found out he’s married but he never mentioned it to me. We are not very close, but we always kept in touch and he never said anything. As far as I know Capricorns are very faithful, cause I am a Capricorn myself and I never cheated. But after that night he texts me every single day and I’m starting to like him a lot. I need you help don’t know what to do. Does he really like me ? or he’s not happy?

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      August 22, 2016 at 4:35 pm

      You should stop developing a relationship with him as long as he is married. He may be unhappy and he may be happy, however any action with him that will harm his wife will not be beneficial to you and your life. Speak with him about your feelings and explain why you can not develop a relationship with him at this time. In the future, if he decides to leave his wife, then you can develop a relationship with hi. At this time, determine if you want to develop a relationship with someone who is willing to cheat on their spouse.

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    August 19, 2016 at 5:54 pm

    Hi, I am a libra woman37 and I fell in love with a Capricorn man51. From the first beginning he spoiled me. I guessed for him it came naturally. We use to work together and he had this thing about not dating in the work place from past experience. Anyways, our bound grew and one during work he asked me to have drinks with him after work. I was cool with it. It got to the point where on our days off we were always doing something and having lot’s of fun doing it. He invited me to his place and it was dancing and drinks and he cooked for me. He opened up and told me about his past and He also asked me about my future plans.. He is really dedicated to whatever he does. So the turning point was when he made the comment that he wanted a lobster tail for his father’s day and I went out and found the biggest tail that I could find and prepared it for him and because he had to work, he ended up having his lobster tail at 1am. We talk everyday, every morning before he goes into work and I get that call as soon as he gets off work. Sometimes we speak for hours until he falls asleep on the phone because he doesn’t want hang up the phone.. I am getting mixed signals because he said that he wasn’t ready for a relationship but every time he has free time he wants to spend time together. I finally decided to tell him how I felt about him. Our conversations are more serious now. I am really shy around him and he recently started acting nervously around me. On one of our recent relaxing together, I felt like he wanted to kiss me but because he is taller than I am, I just put my head on his chest. Oh, and that kiss landed on the top of my head!! Lol.. The hug was different, tighter and longer. I am confused and although I am patient, I need some insight. He also share’s a lot of his personal feeling with me. So, he said that he needed an home cooked meal, I volunteered and he was all too happy and so am I. Advice please. Thanking you in advance.

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      August 20, 2016 at 12:42 am

      He has an interest in you and wants to develop a relationship with you. He may be shy and may not want to share his feelings with you. If you want to establish a relationship with him, then take the first move in a direct and honest way. If you are clear with him about your feelings, then he will be clear with you about his. If the two of you want the same thing, then it is clear that your relationship will flourish as your nurture it.

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    August 18, 2016 at 8:41 am

    Hi I’m a Taurus and my partner is Capricorn, he said he loved me after we started dating and from there our relationship progressed and got stronger, we have been together for almost a year now and everything seems perfect, at times we fight we r both stubborn and like things to be done a certain way which can be challenging sometimes, I feel my cap might get bored of me because we r very the same and we think the same way, I scare that one day he will wake up and think “what am I doing with this person”

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      August 18, 2016 at 8:58 pm

      It seems as though the two of you have a strong relationship. And a strong relationship will have changes over time. If you are concerned that he may stop being interested in you, then keep him interested. If he shows interest in something that you also enjoy, then nurture it. Spend time with him as much as you can so the two can grow together.

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    August 13, 2016 at 5:38 pm

    I really like this Capricorn we’ve been talking for couple months now on fb, we’ve met up three times but for business issues and haven’t talked face to face for more than 2mins. He’s asked to meet up and so have I by plans always get canceled. I’m going on a day trip wth him (uni open day) on a coach. He seems to trust me, we like the same things I guess and he askes for my opinion. we talk almost every day. Do I make the first move like holding hands? Or any advice if he’s into me? Btw we have a lot of banter

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      August 14, 2016 at 7:27 pm

      It seems as though the two of you are fairly close at this time. If want to to further your relationship, then take action when you are able. If you want to hold his hand, then it would be a good start. If you want to speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings, then it might work out in your favor. Speak with him as often as you are able and try to spend time with him as often as possible. It is always advisable to make the first move if you feel like you will gain what you are seeking by making the move.

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    August 5, 2016 at 6:42 am

    Hi im a Gemini 27 and i have a capricorn man who is 30. We been together off and on for 2years. At first he was everything i wanted. I fell for him pretty quickly. I would ask if he love me, he either wouldnt answer or just say no. First couple of months of dating, he suggest we move in together so we did. I found out i was the first and only woman he did thay with. He took me to meet both sides of his family. But still will say no if i ask if he love me. Things was cool up until i caught him cheating. We broke up, he moved out. 3 to 4 months later. He moved back n. I took him back felt sorry cause he was making 6figures. Then his seizures came back and he couldnt work for awhile. I got pregnant, and we broke up. Didnt talk for months. Just had our daughter july 2. He been back since may. But when he came back around he didnt want sex or to touch me. This been going on all the way up until last night when he kept trying to resist me. We made love and i could tell he was trykng to avoid sex or any affection with me because the fwelings would be deeper. His parents like to pressure us into marriage. At this point idk. This has really been a rollercoaster

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      August 6, 2016 at 12:21 pm

      Your relationship sounds like there have been a lot of ups and downs. However, what is most important now is that you have a child. If he is unable to stay with you and care for you and your child, then the next best option is for him to give your child financial support. His parents will support whatever action is made to care for your child. If you find that you are unable or unwilling to restart a intimate relationship with him, then take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future.

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    August 2, 2016 at 5:08 pm

    I really like an older cap. I’m 29 cancer female and he is 40. we used to chat a lot and then he disappeared. I feel so nervous to meet him in person. we have chatted on cam. but never met in person. I feel he won’t like me because I am overweight. I hear caps like for women only.

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      August 2, 2016 at 10:29 pm

      If your relationship has not reached the area where you meet in person, then you should move toward a physical meeting. However, it is important that you are mindful about the concerns regarding meeting people from the internet. That said, it is perfectly fine to meet with someone if you feel comfortable and secure in the meeting. It would be wise for you to make a date if you want the relationship to move further. If you are concerned about your weight, then you must accept your weight or change your weight.

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    July 5, 2016 at 7:00 pm

    Is all the capricon guys all of the same?
    As I met a couple of guys, they all seems to be more focused on career. When it comes to relationship, they are more wishy washy kind. Doesn’t like to give they commitment.

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    June 30, 2016 at 4:13 am

    Know my capricon guy for abt 3 yrs. Started getting closer (physically) for a year. He never mentioned how he felt abt me and I did tried asking him via msg, but he shun away from qns. He was always busy with his work, family business, etc. But he would try to meet me at nite if he end early or if he is around my work place, he would suggest to meet up for lunch. But due to his busy schedule, it could mean meeting him once a week or sometimes if he travels, it could mean once a month or more. I really don’t know what am I to him. Should I ask him again abt our status?
    What do u think he treat me as?

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      June 30, 2016 at 3:10 pm

      If you find that he is too busy to properly cultivate your relationship, then it would be best for you to accept his position. It would be best for you to remain his friend for now and support him as a friend would in his endeavors. If, in time, he decides that he has feelings for you, then develop your relationship with him. At this time, however, look inward to determine what you would like to happen in your personal life.

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        July 4, 2016 at 4:13 am

        Is all the capricon guys all of the same?
        As I met a couple of guys, they all seems to be more focused on career. When it comes to relationship, they are more wishy washy kind. Don’t like to give they commitment.

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      July 12, 2016 at 11:00 pm

      4 years plus and counting. I don’t know where I muster the patience and tenderness to keep this up for so long, but every good moments we had, makes up for all the time he treated me like an afterthought (to quote you, Jme – he too, only meet me when he has the time, when he is nearby, and I have to do all the reminding of my existence. Once in a blue moon when he have a long break from work, he will initiate something – otherwise, most of the time, I feel like an afterthought. But when he’s there with you, if it’s anything same like my situation – he’s 100% there and it was amazing time). And you are right – I still don’t know what I am to him.

      I’ll say – don’t ask him, if you have already asked him before. This Capricorn man that I’m dealing with – he do things at his own pace. No one can force or pressure him – so if you do decide to find out why, then ….I hope he is ready to answer you. It may push him away.

      Good luck.

      I am just waiting for the day, mine will take charge and do the right thing. OR until I am exhausted at being such a pushover. 🙂

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        July 12, 2016 at 11:56 pm

        If you find that you are being an afterthought or pushed aside, then you should speak with your partner about your desires and needs in your relationship. It is important that your partner treats you with the respect that you deserve. The more that you allow yourself to be taken advantage of, the more you will see yourself being more and more taken advantage of. Enjoy life, but demand respect.

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    June 21, 2016 at 7:33 am

    Hello I’m an Aries woman crushing on a Capricorn man and I’m just curious as to how things would turn out between us being I’m a fire sign and he an earth sign. Would it work? Is it a match made in heaven? What is pros and con of the compatibility between the two in other words are they even compatible?

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      June 21, 2016 at 1:51 pm

      I think that the best way for you to find out what would happen, is for you to begin the relationship in earnest. Speak with him directly about what you want. The stars do not dictate everything, but you do. Talk with him and see if he feels the same about you.

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      July 26, 2016 at 11:41 am

      im an aries Ive been talking to a cap man for about 5 months the main thing is PATIENCE.. and don’t take everything to heart. the best way to figure out a cap is by his actions and they will always be totally different than you would expect.. just takes long for them to open up make sure you are open and direct with your intensions and feelings they are very shy but deep inside they really love attention.. goodluck! slow and steady really wins the race I almost have my cap man right where I want him! move on his paste and not yours and most of all always remain calm cool ansd collect

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        July 26, 2016 at 7:21 pm

        Thank you for your insight! We always appreciate our readers sharing their experiencing that they have had. Always move at a comfortable pace and do not allow anyone to force you to act in any particular way. Patience is always an important virtue for people to develop for their relationships.

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