Capricorn Man in Love

By on April 26, 2014

CEO of the company, respected attorney, world renowned chef- these are just a few of the careers likely to be had by a Capricorn. Capricorns are extremely determined and single-minded individuals, and they won’t stop until they get what they want- even if it means traveling through horrendous obstacles to get there. Capricorns are always seeing the reality of every situation rather than the fantasy, which gives them an edge in certain situations- especially business situations. You won’t find a Capricorn taking a moment to daydream about things that could never be- they’d much rather be determining their next move on an important subject.


The Type of Woman Capricorn Needs

Capricorns tend to be a bit shy and reserved at first so they don’t rush into anything. They see relationships as a long term investment and tend to fall for someone quickly after entering a relationship. However, they prefer to stand back and assess their potential partner before making a move. That’s why Capricorn needs a real woman with a distinct personality, someone who likes the same things as they do. They don’t fall for someone with just a pretty face, which is why a Capricorn won’t typically go for eight inch stilettos and a mini skirt. Capricorn needs a lady who is as invested in the relationship as he is and is willing to go the extra mile to make it work. He doesn’t want a woman that plays games, but rather a mature woman who is seeking a lengthy relationship and is willing to work through problems.


Capricorn in a Relationship

For a Capricorn, even finding a potential mate is a bit difficult. The Capricorn will sit back and watch for awhile, noting what the female likes or dislikes and analyzing her personality. He wants to make sure it’s going to be worth his time- a match made in Heaven, so to speak. That being said, the Capricorn male is not a player and doesn’t go for one night stands. He won’t fall for a girl because of the way she looks, and would much prefer to get to know a woman before even entering into a relationship.Once the Capricorn has studied his potential mate for quite sometime, he’ll be able to determine whether or not she is worth the investment. (Capricorns are always judging something on longterm- whether it’s a relationship or a business proposal).

After entering into the relationship, Capricorn might seem a bit standoffish. It’s not because he isn’t interest (in fact it’s quite the opposite!), it’s more that he does not want to show off to much of his feelings in the beginning and ruin any possibilities. Capricorn knows he’s extremely into you and doesn’t want to mess anything up, so he tries not to scare off his partner with too much romance. However, after the relationship has moved past the initial few months of dating, a different side to Capricorn is shown: his affectionate, loving side- the side where he lets you know he’d do anything to keep you in his arms.

To put it plainly, Capricorn is seeking a long term relationship. Once he has found his ‘perfect girl’, he will do anything to keep her. He wants to be the man of the house and take of his lady, but also have a woman who is secure and likes the same things as him. However, Capricorn will have a problem if his woman surpasses him in any way (career wise, parent wise, etc).

Capricorn in the Bedroom

A lot of people think a Capricorn might be boring in the bedroom. His practical attitude and lack of imagination might seem dull, but that’s quite the opposite. In fact, Capricorn loves to please his mate. According to him, it’s best to find one or two things that work and stick to it. He will continuously perfect these few skills until he can please you within minutes. However, Capricorn does have a longing to please his woman in whatever way possible, so if you’re into whips, whipped cream, or sexy costumes, you may be able to sway him into it. If you like to be treated like a Queen in the bedroom (without having to return the favor), then you will definitely have a wonderful time with a Capricorn.


Negative Side of a Capricorn Man

One of the biggest negative trains of a Capricorn is that he tends to pessimistic. Capricorn, being an overachiever and hard-worker, always sees himself as ‘not good enough’. He uses this pessimistic attitude throughout most aspects of his life, and many find this negative mindset a bit of an annoyance.

Another problem you might notice with a Capricorn is their stubbornness. Capricorns have a certain way of doing things. They like what they like, and that’s it. If you disagree, they really don’t want to hear it. They are stuck in their ways and believe that what they think or do is best. This can obviously get on someone’s nerves, but if you can work through a Capricorns stubbornness you will enjoy their positive traits.

Lastly, Capricorns have a tendency to be shy- especially in the beginning of a relationship. This might irritate some women and leave them thinking that the man is uninterested. However, women need to remind themselves that Capricorn men are simply shy by nature and don’t like to give up too much in the beginning. Hold on to the relationship and you’ll see the man blossom into a hard-working and extremely dedicated individual that works tirelessly for his lady.


Capricorn and Taurus: The two make a wonderful match, both being level-headed individuals with a realistic approach. Just make sure you add plenty of fun and excitement to keep things interesting or your affairs may become mundane.

Capricorn and Capricorn: The perfect two! Both individuals have goals and determination necessary for a fulfilling relationship, and the two can easily have a business partnership at the same time. However, the relationship may get boring after time, so make sure to take time for some fun activities.

Capricorn and Pisces: Both individuals offer plenty of depth and communication, and if the pair can learn to appreciate the extreme differences between each other, the relationship will flourish greatly. In this case, opposites attract and can make for an exciting and fulfilling time!

Capricorn Man in a Nutshell

A capricorn man isn’t hard to figure out or very mysterious. He has two goals in his mind: how to reach the top of his career (or some other highly sought after goal) and finding the perfect woman for a long term and deep relationship. Capricorns are extremely dedicated and prefer to stick to their roots, not taking other’s opinions easily. They need a woman they can take care of for a lifetime, a gal who is willing to deal with his stubborn and ernest personality. But don’t let his hard-working mindset sway you from dating a Capricorn. These sweet men are pleasurers in the bedroom without needing any fancy footwork and will work endlessly to ensure his woman is happy- when it comes to the overall relationship, finances, home life, and more.


Image credit: Emma, Laurana, James.


  1. Aya Clare

    September 3, 2018 at 11:46 am

    I want some advice. Me and my capricorn man had broken up 10 months ago. The reason is because he likes someone else. And because i love him and want him to be happy I let him go. I’m a kind of person who doesn’t want to be friends with an ex, but he is the opppsite. But maybe because i still love him, and respect him and because we have a peaceful break up i always reply whenever he reached out. Sometime in April I asked him if we still have a chance to be together, he said no. By that time, i started moving on and focusing on myself. But on the month of june he went to my town and asked to meet me but i refused. He wants to have a second chance, i told him i’m not sure but we can start being friends. So we start communicating again. And there was a time when i asked if he still likes the girl, he said yes. I was confused, why he is not pursuing the girl that he likes, he said it was just a crush not love. And when we’re together (sleeping together yeah we are fwb/ ex with benefits right now) i still felt the same passion sometimes more intense passion that he had when we were together. But when we are not in bed he is that cold emotionally distant guy that i know. Am i like a past time to him until he get a chance to the girl he likes? I can’t ask him this question. I know him, he is so sensitive and i know he will be hurt if i ask him this question. He is just like the other cap man that was described in this comment section . He goes MIA for a few days. He won’t reply to my last message. When he does that i’ll just ignore him the next time i see him online and wait till he reached out. But i understand because he is busy in school. I still love him but i’m not really sure if he is worth a second chance. I’m not sure if he still has a feelings for me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 4, 2018 at 8:47 am

      It sounds like he is treating you as just an option or a back-up plan. If he still likes the other girl and broke up with you for her, then the reason he is not with her is most likely because she turned him down or doesn’t want to be with him right now. Instead of just telling you that you are his back-up plan, he is making you emotionally involved again. You were together for a while, so he might still have feelings for you, but that doesn’t mean that he really wants to be with you. If he is only passionate and interested in the bedroom, then it definitely seems like he just wants a sexual relationship and isn’t really interested in more. If you only want sex and can avoid developing feelings for him again, then you can continue sleeping with him. He is probably not going to want a real relationship though, so you would be better off ending things if you want to have an actual commitment at any point. Good luck, Aya Clare!

      • Aya Clare

        September 4, 2018 at 6:07 pm

        Thank you for giving the advice. This really help me to stop my heart on having any hope with us again. Actually before i comment here i was in dilemma, i’m having a second thought on leaving the country next year because of him. But maybe i just need validation to other people that i’m still an option for him so thank you so much. I’m going to continue on focusing on myself again.

        • web admin

          web admin

          September 4, 2018 at 8:18 pm

          You have made an excellent decision. It is always beneficial to take time for yourself. Determine what you want for your future at this time. Ensure that your actions are filled with kindness and compassion, as this will bring positive energy into your life. Please share your insights and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Aya!

  2. love

    August 28, 2018 at 6:59 am

    do they still comment here?Am a Pisces..I met this Capricorn male..he has the lovliest eyes I have seen…he approached me slowly.when I asked him what do you want to have with me he usually replies what do you think I want? he always does that as if he wants me to take the lead .the last time because I was so confused I chose to ask him..I asked why do you keep giving me off and on signals..he laughed and later said don’t worry from now on my signals will be clear and he kissed me, and plead with me that I stay at his place(no sexual involvement) after that night he seems so busy .I got more confused so I began making steps like initiating conversations..showing concern..I told him I love him he said he loves me too..he began to open to me but he is so slow that I even wonder does he really care?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 28, 2018 at 10:31 pm

      His behaviors are indications that he is shy or slow to share himself. It is possible that he has been hurt in the past. He may be a cautious person. It is likely that his behaviors will become more comfortable. It is likely that he wants to develop a relationship with you. Spend additional time with him in person, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Love!

      • love

        September 18, 2018 at 12:16 pm

        yea he said he was hurt in the past so he is very cautious…when I approached him about the issue he said with time things will unfold that he just need me to be patient..I have asked around about him and from all the replies he seems to be someone that sticks to one girl..but what signs will say precisely that he has fallen in love or is falling in love with me?

        • web admin

          web admin

          September 18, 2018 at 11:23 pm

          The two of you share a social and emotional connection. Each of you have shared your thoughts and feelings. As you spend additional time together, you will find that your relationship will be strengthened. Determine what you want for your future at this time. Continue to monitor his behavior to learn about his feelings. Have a great day, Love!

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