12 Signs a Guy Likes You But Won’t Admit it

By on September 26, 2016

The really crazy and confusing thing about when you catch feelings for someone is the fact that many of us try to hide it. We go through so much trouble just to keep the person we really like from finding out the truth about how we feel.

Why do we do this?

The truth is, pretty much every single human being has a fear of rejection. Those that claim they don’t are just very, very skilled at hiding this feeling. The fear of being rejected can cause us to hold onto our feelings and never reveal it to the person we care most about.

The horrible thing about this is that we can miss out on the best things by just keeping our feeling hidden. Wouldn’t you rather admit how you’re feeling with the chance of something great happening than to hold onto your feelings with the certainty that nothing will?

Most guys would rather chance the latter and it can be really frustrating – especially if you actually like them! However, there are signs that can give away just how a guy is feeling about you even if he won’t admit it himself. Here’s how to tell if a guy likes you but won’t admit it.

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  1. He stares at you often.

If a guy likes you, he’s going to look at you a lot because he finds you attractive. He also will be looking at you a lot because he wants to notice everything about you and your little quirks. However, when you see him staring and he turns away, this is a sign he likes you but just won’t admit it. He never wants you to notice how much he’s looking.

  1. He starts conversations with you but keeps them short.

If he’s the one to always start your conversations and always the first person to try and talk to you, but he always keeps them short, like he’s trying to avoid going into a lot of detail, this is a sign he likes you but just doesn’t want to admit it. When a guy starts the conversations but then abruptly stops them, it’s because he doesn’t want you to know just how much he wants to talk with you.

  1. He remembers all the special occasions in your life.

If he’s texting you happy birthday and asking how your big interview went and basically commenting on any day that has importance to you, he likes you. The difficult part about this is that it’s a clear sign he cares about your day, but it also signifies that he doesn’t want to admit he likes you because he’s keeping it very friendly.

  1. He tries to cheer you up when you’re visibly upset.

This is a huge sign that a guy likes you. If he’s a person to try and make you feel better when you feel sad or upset, he really likes you. However, when he does this and then kind of backs off and doesn’t push you to feel better, that’s because he doesn’t want to admit just how much he likes you.

  1. He asks personal questions about you.

No guy is going to want to know your favorite dessert or your all time life goals if he doesn’t care about you. If he likes you, he’ll want to know everything really personal about you. He’ll start asking all about your childhood and all your interests. But if he does this in a way that seems like he has a reason to ask these questions, it’s because he won’t admit he likes you.

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  1. He double texts you.

This is a big sign that a guy likes you but is easily hidden by the fact that you can’t prove it just by a double text. If you don’t know what that is, it’s when you get two or more texts in a row from him without having replied to any. This just means that he really wants to talk to you and wants to get your attention.

  1. He gives you low-key compliments.

When a guy compliments your looks, he’s being obvious that he likes you. But if he compliments your personality or your interests in a way that makes you confused if it really was just a compliment, then he likes you but doesn’t want to admit that he does. He’s hiding the fact that he does but he also can’t help NOT complimenting you on something.

  1. He asks if you’ll be at parties/events.

If you have the same friend group and know of the same parties or events that are happening and he always asks if you’ll be attending them, he likes you but just won’t admit it. He’s not asking you to go to those parties with him because he’s trying to hid that he likes you, but he also really wants to know if you’ll be there so he can be prepared properly.

  1. He acts like he likes you, but never talks about his feelings.

If there’s a guy that’s always complimenting you and following you around and talking to you all the time but never, ever talks about himself or how he’s feeling, it’s because he just won’t admit that he has feelings for you. Some guys make the conversations all about you so they can determine just how much they do like you, but they withhold information about themselves so they don’t give away their feelings for you.

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  1. His friends tell you he likes you.

This is a huge giveaway that a guy likes you but won’t admit it himself. If his friends are secretly going up to you and telling you about how much their friend likes you, it’s a clear sign that he does. This happens very often because his friends really want him to make a go for it, but he’s just too stubborn to admit his own feelings. If this happens to you, then it’s safe to assume that he really does like you.

  1. He denies it when you ask him.

If you’ve ever tried to approach a guy and ask if he likes you and he immediately gets embarrassed and even denies the entire thing, it’s clear that he just doesn’t want to admit it. For whatever reason he has an issue with his feelings for you and might even not be ready for a relationship. If you’re confident he likes you but he says he doesn’t, then he might not be ready to tell you how he feels just yet.

  1. He tries to hang out with you alone.

If you’re at a party and you always seem to be talking to JUST him and he slyly made it so the two of you are alone, then he might really like you but just not want to admit it. Another sign is if you plan on going on a group outing and everyone ends up canceling but him and HE is the one who arranged the whole thing, it may be because he never even told the others to come.

Guys that don’t admit their feelings are always really frustrating. However, they usually have a good reason for doing so. But if you notice any of the signs above when talking with a guy you know, it could mean he likes you but just won’t admit it.

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    Drained girl

    June 20, 2019 at 5:02 am

    Basically I’ve been close with this friend for a year and only 6 months ago did I realize I was starting to fall for him and our relationship has always been flirty and a little bit more than “ just mates” but over the last couple of months things have heated up more, and you must know we are the exact opposites in every way the only similarities we have is the high care we have for each other and our stubbornness, we argue quite a bit but from my point of view we come out the other end closer but recently I decided to tell him how I feel because I’ve just been drained with the not knowing like honestly the way we behave with one another you would assume we are together but I didn’t know if he saw it like that too, after I told him he basically said he reciprocated similar feelings towards me otherwise he wouldn’t have been treating me the way he does but he also said that he’s thought about being with me in a relationship a lot but was scared we might wound up hating each other because of how much we argue as “just friends”, honestly I feel disgusted I can’t even sleep because what’s basically gone through my head is that these long months of me thinking I’m crazy because he would be treating me one way but nothing was said where all true like every cute thing he would do like staying up till 2:30am on ft or painting me cute paintings, the little things basically that could have a deeper meaning actually lived up to the deeper meaning but in the end I’m just not worth the risk, I’ve told my friends and they all think that it the reason was more of an excuse but I don’t know what to do, I know I have to move on now but I can’t help but feel a little hope but I honestly don’t have the energy any more with him in that way like I’m sick of wondering why am I not good enough ,

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      web admin

      June 20, 2019 at 3:52 pm

      It seems that it is possible that he has feelings for you. He may be uncertain or confused about your feelings for him. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Drained!

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    Amber

    June 19, 2019 at 3:17 pm

    I have a crush on a guy and he knows i like him,we chatted for a while about things nothing really personal and then we stoped chatting .whenever i sends him a message he reads it and doesn’t reply,we see each other at work daily , he is always steering at me and he always greet me and he sometimes compliments me, sometimes he just doesnt talk to me,pls what should i do,i really like him and i am confused ,pls help me

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      web admin

      June 20, 2019 at 3:09 pm

      His behaviors may be an indication that he is interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Amber!

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    kate

    June 9, 2019 at 7:21 pm

    we’ve been friends for years and there’s this guy who said that he likes me, he opened up his past experience and i appreciate him for being real no lies, then i trust him, we care about each other, we hang out sometimes and went to cinema. we both like each other but i think no one is making a move.

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      web admin

      June 9, 2019 at 10:43 pm

      The two of you share a strong social relationship. If you do not think that he is going to make a move, then determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Kate!

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    Pearlly

    June 8, 2019 at 10:02 pm

    So I have a coworker (or actually you can say he’s my manager, but indirectly). We’ve known each other for over an year now. We’ve used to talk about family and one time he even revealed his old relationship. After that we seldom talk about this kind of thing but now we only share about our hobbies, daily life and things at works, nothing deeper than these. Also, We from time to time messaged each other before… But now, if I don’t message him, he won’t message me as well… However, every time when we see each other in person at work, we talk normally and joke with each other… Furthermore, when there’s not many people around us, he’ll reach me and stay so closer, otherwise he’ll keep a distance and sometimes even ignore. Sometimes I feel he might has that kind of feeling, but I’m still not sure…

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      web admin

      June 9, 2019 at 8:24 pm

      His behavior may be an indication that he is interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Determine if this relationship is viable and whether or not it will harm either of your careers. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Pearily!

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    Fore stella

    June 6, 2019 at 2:51 am

    now is 4 years but he dont want to admit or even trying to talk to me ..idont know may be he’s fried that iwill refuse him ….we study in collage i didn’t notice him in first year then in holiday he sent me a frined request in facebook ..but i rejected because it was fake account he put other name but when i see the picture i know that was hes fake account in this was a new account and have no frined in it ….but he have another real account ….itell my self why he doing that i reject the idea of fake …so i tell my self hes playing im not the one for him
    So in second year i notice him how he look at me & how he follow me every where …even his frineds help him to search for me …then in third year his the same look at me nothing different and his frineds help him ….even my frined notice how he look at me …ok i tell my self he like me but that is not love ….in forth year what was different that his brother also start to study in collage ….and his brother follow me ….i say ok he tell his brother his frineds why he cant be brave and talk to me …why he cant admit his feeling toward me …the problem is i get confused about my feeling cause i know that i don’t love him but why i keep thinking of him …i will love him if he become a man and tell me about his feeling …i hate how he’s playing so cold …and im sure that he love him self more than me …cause if he truly love me he wouldn’t keep me in this confused situation

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      web admin

      June 6, 2019 at 8:45 am

      It seems like this entire process has been going along for years, and he has never really made a move or shown you his true feelings. If he has not told you how he feels or made a move after four years, he probably isn’t going to make a move anytime soon. Now, you just have to decide if you like him back enough to make the first move or if you would rather cut your losses and just move on.

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    Fore stella

    June 6, 2019 at 2:32 am

    Now is 4 years he is still the same he never admit or even try to talk to me ….he tell his frineds and brother about me…when im around he become so nervous ….but i think hes not brave enough to tell me or he is fried that i will refuse him …idont know
    But in same time i get confused about my feeling about him …i dont love him but why i keep think of him

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      web admin

      June 6, 2019 at 8:42 am

      You may think about him because of the situation, so he is more likely to reappear in your thoughts. It is also possible that your subconscious secretly wonders what it would be like if you two were actually together. It definitely sounds like he may like you, but he doesn’t seem interested in being rejected or losing his friendship with you, so he isn’t going to make a move. If you do want to be with him, it is probably up to you to make the first move. Good luck, Fore Stella!

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    Noho

    June 4, 2019 at 4:12 pm

    I have a coworker that moved here for this job last year. Ever since then we have become close. We invite each other out to lunch everyday, he has met and hangs out with my friends and when his friends are in town he invites me to meet them. I look at the signs like when we go to lunch in groups he sits by me, he texts/snap chats me after hours or the weekends, and he’s always teasing me about whatever nerdy thing I might be doing. Since he moved out of his state to come here, I can’t tell if he’s just lonely or if he’s actually interested in me. He’s had a few girls interested in him but whenever I talk to him about it he tends to carry a ‘meh’ attitude. I like him, are these enough signs that I should go for it?

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      web admin

      June 5, 2019 at 1:07 am

      His behaviors are indications that he shares a strong social relationship with you. His attention is indicative that he may want to maintain an emotional or romantic relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Noho!

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    Shy kid

    June 3, 2019 at 9:13 pm

    Um so there’s a boy in my class and he always talks to me and today he called me the smartest girl in the class I always catch him looking at me, and I like him back please tell me what you think thanks

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      web admin

      June 4, 2019 at 10:40 pm

      This person feels a strong connection with you. He clearly thinks that you are intelligent. He has decided to share his feelings with you. It is likely that he is interested in becoming a better friend with you, or he may want to nourish a romantic relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Shy!

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    Hannah

    June 2, 2019 at 2:50 pm

    I have been friends with this boy for over a year but it started out as more than a friendly friendship at the beginning as we started out by flirting with each other all the time but acted as though we were just mates, over the last couple of months things have started to become more deeper level into the flirting game we have goin on and he’s told my friend that he sees me as just a friend but due to his actions over the year I refuse to believe he doesn’t have feelings for me but I don’t known what to do I don’t want to make things awkward and tell him how I feel because I really value him as a person in my life as we are quite close. Every time I mention other guys he acts jealous and snaps at me if I compliment other males it’s like no one can have me but he doesn’t even want me himself.

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      web admin

      June 4, 2019 at 9:21 pm

      It is possible that he told your friend that he only sees you as a friend because he is uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. The behaviors and connection that the two of you share are indications that he is attracted to you. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Hannah!

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    Angel Siu

    May 31, 2019 at 7:39 pm

    My guy co-worker asks where I am when I am out of office (according to my team mates). He invites me to go to other countries for vacation – he said he will also invite other friends as it is better if there are many of us (the more the merrier) but days go by and he doesn’t invite his other friends. When there was an earthquake, he immediately sent me a chat message telling me “Hey, there’s an earthquake just now”.. he sent it to me privately even if we have group chats with other friends. When his friend is inviting us (him, me and another friend) to go somewhere, he doesn’t reply to the group chat but lets me know about it and urges me to join.. my friends are saying my guy coworker likes me but he denies it so I don’t know for sure. We used to eat lunch together (alone) daily.. and he shares his sandwich with me. He also get set aside food for me when their team has food (we have different teams) and makes sure to heat it for me too so I can eat it when I get home. On the other hand, he doesn’t talk to me on a daily basis (even online).. so.. does he like me as a friend or more than a friend?

    I’d really appreciate your honesty. I need a stranger’s point of view.

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      web admin

      June 1, 2019 at 2:34 pm

      He feels a strong connection with you. He may be interested in maintaining a relationship with you. He is aware of the difficulties of maintaining a long distance relationship. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship, and determine what is viable. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Angel!

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    Shy girl

    May 28, 2019 at 7:21 pm

    Umm there is a boy in my class that says he hates me. But when he is alone he casually touches me and asks me personal questions and plays funny tricks and voices. And whenever we are alone he tries to know more about me. But in front of his friend I m invisible. And I like him too. But am too shy to admit it. Does it mean that he likes me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 28, 2019 at 8:39 pm

      It is unlikely that he hates you. He may feel uncertain about his friend’s feelings toward him maintaining a relationship. Make a decision about what you want for your future. If you want to nourish a relationship with this person, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. You may nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Shy!

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    Boo

    May 15, 2019 at 4:02 pm

    So there is this boy in my class and he does some of these things sometimes in class. And I look at him to sometimes also. So today, his friends told me that he confessed that he likes me but then all of a sudden he rejects me. I don’t know if he just rejects me just because his friends are there. But I am very sad now and I don’t know what I should do. Should I text him how I feel or just do nothing?

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 15, 2019 at 10:08 pm

      His behaviors may be indications that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. His rejection could be a manifestation of his uncertainty regarding your feelings toward this relationship. Make a decision about what you want for your future, and speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Boo!

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    본미

    May 7, 2019 at 4:30 pm

    So this dude is always trying to be near me and casually touches me and walks up to me and starts conversations a lot. Also, he always wants me to be near him alone. I got my friend to ask him if he likes me and he hesitated but said no. Later, he talked to me and said “Why would you think I like you?” but his body language says it. His words made my heart hurt but I 2feel better asking help. So, does he like me?

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      본미

      May 7, 2019 at 4:31 pm

      Also, I don’t want it to be awkward between us now? Does he like me? What should i do?

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        web admin

        May 8, 2019 at 10:05 pm

        His behaviors are indications that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. His statement either means that he is confused about your feelings for him, or he is unsure about his feelings for you. Make a decision about what you want for your future. If you feel that it would be appropriate to speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, then do so. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, 본미!

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 8, 2019 at 10:05 pm

      His behaviors are indications that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. His statement either means that he is confused about your feelings for him, or he is unsure about his feelings for you. Make a decision about what you want for your future. If you feel that it would be appropriate to speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, then do so. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, 본미!

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    Blah

    May 6, 2019 at 8:24 am

    There’s this guy in my univeristy. We met a month ago and he does everything a guy would do when he likes someone. He glances at me every 2 mins or so, makes a strong eye contact with me, smiles whenever I see him, compliments me a lott all the time, just told me I’m his forever bestfriend now, asks me if I’m going to be present at a certain event. He’s nice to everyone and he’s very social, but he admitted he’s never been so close to anyone and I’ve seen him different around me and around other girls. He isn’t like that to other girls like he is to me. But when one of my friends confronted him he said “I swear I don’t like her that way she’s my little sister I have no wrong intentions towards her”. What is he actually trying to do man?

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 6, 2019 at 9:28 pm

      His behaviors are indications that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. It is possible that he is uncertain about your feelings toward him. He may have lied to your friend, as he may have felt shy or confused. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Blah!

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    Tamika Mckenith

    May 3, 2019 at 2:23 am

    What happens if you can feel a connection between you and the guy and he’s always glancing you way and positioning his body your way while he’s talking, and still he denies his feelings but shows successful interest.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 4, 2019 at 2:56 pm

      His behaviors are indications of his feelings toward you. It is possible that he is uncertain about your feelings toward him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Tamika!

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    Euna Song

    April 30, 2019 at 4:59 am

    Okay, so I confessed my feelings to my crush and he told me he likes me too. But before that, he kept stealing glances of me but won’t talk to me. We may have conversations but it’s always short. What does it mean?

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      Euna Song

      April 30, 2019 at 5:01 am

      But after a little while, I clarified and asked him if he likes me romantically or just a human being. And he told me he likes me as a human being. I mean why would he tell me he likes me in the first place AS A FRIEND?

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        web admin

        April 30, 2019 at 10:43 pm

        Your followup question likely caused him to feel confused. Once again, he was uncertain about your true feelings for him. When you informed him that you liked him, he felt confident that you liked him romantically, and shared himself with you. Your second question made him uncertain, and he returned to a neutral statement. Make a decision for your future, and take appropriate action. Have a great day, Euna!

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      web admin

      April 30, 2019 at 10:42 pm

      He has informed you that he has feelings for you. This means that his other behaviors may be indications of his shyness. It is possible that he felt uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. Since the two of you spoke about your feelings with each other, you should nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Euna!

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    Sammie

    April 23, 2019 at 10:29 am

    So I like this guy…. and he looks at me and stuff. He likes someone but he won’t tell me… how do I let him know I like him? How do I find out who he likes? Why is he leading me on?

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      web admin

      April 23, 2019 at 8:46 pm

      It is certainly possible that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. He may be uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. Make a decision about what you want for the future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Sammie!

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    Tika

    April 23, 2019 at 6:58 am

    Me and my best guy friend have been friends for like 3 years now but we’re closer now than we’ve ever been. We spend time together alone and have even gone out alone in the evenings but never as a date, just as 2 friends hanging out. I have feelings for him but I’m too scared to ruin what we have by telling him and him not feeling the same way, or even worse stop spending time alone with me cause he’ll think he’s leading me on. I also know that whenever our friends joke about us going out in the future he goes along with the joke but says we’re just friends if someone had to ask him seriously. I want to ask him if he feels like there’s something between us but also don’t want to make it awkward if he doesn’t…what do i do ?

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      web admin

      April 23, 2019 at 8:04 pm

      It is clear that the two of you share a strong social and emotional relationship. Your friends are aware of your connection. It is possible that he is interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. If you feel that it would be appropriate to do so, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Tika!

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        Tika

        April 24, 2019 at 1:06 am

        I’ve found out he still has slight feelings for his ex but doesn’t want to date her or anything. He also said that the reason we go out alone is because none of our friends actually could make it so it just leaves us two and we decide to go out anyway. He also said he’d go out alone with me because we get along and talk and we don’t make it weird. However when we talk he says there is no girl that he currently knows that he would date. Could it be possible that he doesn’t think I have feelings for him so any thoughts of us being more than friends does not cross his mind?

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          web admin

          April 24, 2019 at 10:16 pm

          He clearly is interested in spending time with you. This means that he feels a social connection and may want to nourish this relationship. It is possible that he sees you as just a friend. He may want to develop a romantic relationship with you. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Tika!

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        CZ

        April 25, 2019 at 5:56 pm

        I have a crush on a guy and about 3 months ago at the school dance he rejected me. He rejects everyone, and he never dances. I’m quiet and shy. And now he knows that I like him. His friend told me when I asked, and then he later told me that my crush was mad that his friend told me that my crush knows that I like him. I keep catching him staring at me but he always looks away. And then he ignores me, mostly around his large group of friends.

        Does he like me?

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          web admin

          April 27, 2019 at 7:02 pm

          Your crush is aware of your feelings. It seems as though he is not interested in maintaining a relationship. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Determine if it is appropriate for you to reach out to him at this time. If so, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, CZ!

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            jessica

            June 23, 2019 at 3:27 am

            there is this guy who always like to be closer to me…its pretty hard to explain it but whenever he sits beside me…his arms is always sticking with my arms too…hes legs touching my legs too and he acts like he dont care…and i remember in first day of school hes taking too much space on my arm chair …..i think he doesnt care whenever his legs and arms is sticking with me whenever we are seatmates…its pretty hard to kniw if he like s me or not because even hes friends teasing him with ne when his friends kniw hes courting somebody…i hope you help about this and help me how to avoid him especially were seatmates and i keep assuming that he likes me…pls help me though…

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              web admin

              June 23, 2019 at 12:26 pm

              It’s not possible to tell if he likes you or not just from this, but it seems like a possibility. If you want to find out if he is interested or not, try talking to him more often and make a move–he may be holding off just because he does not know how you feel and is afraid of being rejected. Good luck, Jessica!

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    Mary

    April 22, 2019 at 7:13 pm

    There is this boy and he flirts and everything and he teases me. But one time me and my friend were whispering and he thought I was talking about him, and said “ooo whose your crush, common u can tell me” and my friend said, “why are you trying to see if it u?” And he said “ oook yeah we’re not a good match”. But he still fidgets around me and still clearly has feelings for me. But why won’t he say anything!

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      web admin

      April 22, 2019 at 7:42 pm

      He is likely interested in developing a relationship with you. He may be uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Mary!

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    Ally

    April 9, 2019 at 4:50 pm

    There is this boy in my class and some of my friends think he likes me but I am just not sure. People think that he looks at me at dismissal and so do I some but I don’t know if he is looking right at me. Also whenever people ask him if he likes me, he sometimes will not even answer but he blushes and says no sometimes. People have been asking him a lot and he won’t admit it. I also was making eye contact with him over and over again and I looked away first. Also in class I noticed his one friend keep glancing at me and I think they may have been talking to each other as well. I really like him and I want to know if he likes me back. Do you think he likes me? And what should I do if I want to possibly date him? He has already said that he wouldn’t date me and that was final but idk bc he sounded nervous when he said it and he stumbled over his words.

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      web admin

      April 10, 2019 at 9:22 pm

      It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. His behaviors indication that he is uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. Your mutual friends seem to feel that the two of you should maintain a relationship together. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Ally!

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        Ally

        April 25, 2019 at 5:59 pm

        Thanks a lot! The problem is that I am very shy and talking to him is just very awkward for me. And I don’t know if he would open ip to me because he don’t talk about his feelings a lot. Alsa a day or two ago my friend said that I liked him to everyone I’m the class also his friends. A kid who knows him was like “he likes you too, it’s a proven fact”. All of his friends who have said he didn’t like me, said nothing. I think if he dint like me his friends would have stood up and said he did not. What do I do about this now?

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          web admin

          April 27, 2019 at 4:27 pm

          It sounds as though there are various people giving you different opinions on the matter. This person seems pretty confident. Make a decision about what you want for your future. It is common to be shy, especially when speaking with a crush. However, if you do not reach out to him, then he may be confused about feelings toward him. Spend time with him in person, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Ally!

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        Mia

        May 3, 2019 at 4:04 am

        There this guy at my workplace who is very nice and gentleman. While I am the type of introvert girl who love to spend time alone. But this guy seems enjoy my company. He has trust issue on people due to his past at last workplace. But he love to sit with me during lunch, talk to me and comfort me when I am upset. We also share few secrets which work related & he said he trust only me. His face brighten up whenever talking to me. He invited me to hang out once. And when I invited him, he accept it. We seems comfortable to each other. But he told me he will leave for better workplace. Should I confess to him? Do we have chance to stay together?

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          web admin

          May 4, 2019 at 2:59 pm

          His behaviors are indication that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He is thinking about finding a new job. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Even if he finds a new job, you can continue to nourish this relationship. Have a great day, Mia!

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            Mia

            June 5, 2019 at 5:59 am

            Hi! Thanks for the reply. I got update here..

            Its been 3 months me and him being close friend.. There this one night, we were going home after we attended company dinner and he drove me.. While in the car, he talk A LOT about himself including his family and the death of his beloved granny, his past relationships & his deepest secrets. I was actually surprised & confused. Why would he be so open to me at that night? He never told me these personal things before. And then he interested to know abt me especially abt my past love & my trauma or fears. He also told that he would want to take me to go visit his village and childhood places where he used to be next time. He told me how he trust me like no others and this making me nervous and confused. However, he keep mentioning that he wouldnt want to involve with any girls and want to focus in building his career and when he is ready, he will get married. He also told me the criteria of girl that he like and ask me how if a guy wants to be my boyfriend. I am so confused. And then tomorrow at work, he acted a little weird and by distancing himself from me and keep looking at me from a far. 3 days later he back to his normal self again – he get close to me and talk to me, and joking around. I dont understand with his intention and actions.

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              web admin

              June 5, 2019 at 9:52 pm

              He shared his deepest secrets with you. He also informed you that he is interested in you, but he is uncertain about your feelings toward him. Determine what you want for the future. Of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Spend additional time with him to nourish your relationship. Ensure that you give him another opportunity to share himself with you, as this will help you better understand his desires. Have a great day, Mia!

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          Boo

          May 15, 2019 at 4:02 pm

          So there is this boy in my class and he does some of these things sometimes in class. And I look at him to sometimes also. So today, his friends told me that he confessed that he likes me but then all of a sudden he rejects me. I don’t know if he just rejects me just because his friends are there. But I am very sad now and I don’t know what I should do. Should I text him how I feel or just do nothing?

          • web admin

            web admin

            May 15, 2019 at 10:08 pm

            His behaviors may be indications that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. His rejection could be a manifestation of his uncertainty regarding your feelings toward this relationship. Make a decision about what you want for your future, and speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Boo!

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