12 Signs a Guy Likes You But Won’t Admit it

By on September 26, 2016

The really crazy and confusing thing about when you catch feelings for someone is the fact that many of us try to hide it. We go through so much trouble just to keep the person we really like from finding out the truth about how we feel.

Why do we do this?

The truth is, pretty much every single human being has a fear of rejection. Those that claim they don’t are just very, very skilled at hiding this feeling. The fear of being rejected can cause us to hold onto our feelings and never reveal it to the person we care most about.

The horrible thing about this is that we can miss out on the best things by just keeping our feeling hidden. Wouldn’t you rather admit how you’re feeling with the chance of something great happening than to hold onto your feelings with the certainty that nothing will?

Most guys would rather chance the latter and it can be really frustrating – especially if you actually like them! However, there are signs that can give away just how a guy is feeling about you even if he won’t admit it himself. Here’s how to tell if a guy likes you but won’t admit it.

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  1. He stares at you often.

If a guy likes you, he’s going to look at you a lot because he finds you attractive. He also will be looking at you a lot because he wants to notice everything about you and your little quirks. However, when you see him staring and he turns away, this is a sign he likes you but just won’t admit it. He never wants you to notice how much he’s looking.

  1. He starts conversations with you but keeps them short.

If he’s the one to always start your conversations and always the first person to try and talk to you, but he always keeps them short, like he’s trying to avoid going into a lot of detail, this is a sign he likes you but just doesn’t want to admit it. When a guy starts the conversations but then abruptly stops them, it’s because he doesn’t want you to know just how much he wants to talk with you.

  1. He remembers all the special occasions in your life.

If he’s texting you happy birthday and asking how your big interview went and basically commenting on any day that has importance to you, he likes you. The difficult part about this is that it’s a clear sign he cares about your day, but it also signifies that he doesn’t want to admit he likes you because he’s keeping it very friendly.

  1. He tries to cheer you up when you’re visibly upset.

This is a huge sign that a guy likes you. If he’s a person to try and make you feel better when you feel sad or upset, he really likes you. However, when he does this and then kind of backs off and doesn’t push you to feel better, that’s because he doesn’t want to admit just how much he likes you.

  1. He asks personal questions about you.

No guy is going to want to know your favorite dessert or your all time life goals if he doesn’t care about you. If he likes you, he’ll want to know everything really personal about you. He’ll start asking all about your childhood and all your interests. But if he does this in a way that seems like he has a reason to ask these questions, it’s because he won’t admit he likes you.

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  1. He double texts you.

This is a big sign that a guy likes you but is easily hidden by the fact that you can’t prove it just by a double text. If you don’t know what that is, it’s when you get two or more texts in a row from him without having replied to any. This just means that he really wants to talk to you and wants to get your attention.

  1. He gives you low-key compliments.

When a guy compliments your looks, he’s being obvious that he likes you. But if he compliments your personality or your interests in a way that makes you confused if it really was just a compliment, then he likes you but doesn’t want to admit that he does. He’s hiding the fact that he does but he also can’t help NOT complimenting you on something.

  1. He asks if you’ll be at parties/events.

If you have the same friend group and know of the same parties or events that are happening and he always asks if you’ll be attending them, he likes you but just won’t admit it. He’s not asking you to go to those parties with him because he’s trying to hid that he likes you, but he also really wants to know if you’ll be there so he can be prepared properly.

  1. He acts like he likes you, but never talks about his feelings.

If there’s a guy that’s always complimenting you and following you around and talking to you all the time but never, ever talks about himself or how he’s feeling, it’s because he just won’t admit that he has feelings for you. Some guys make the conversations all about you so they can determine just how much they do like you, but they withhold information about themselves so they don’t give away their feelings for you.

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  1. His friends tell you he likes you.

This is a huge giveaway that a guy likes you but won’t admit it himself. If his friends are secretly going up to you and telling you about how much their friend likes you, it’s a clear sign that he does. This happens very often because his friends really want him to make a go for it, but he’s just too stubborn to admit his own feelings. If this happens to you, then it’s safe to assume that he really does like you.

  1. He denies it when you ask him.

If you’ve ever tried to approach a guy and ask if he likes you and he immediately gets embarrassed and even denies the entire thing, it’s clear that he just doesn’t want to admit it. For whatever reason he has an issue with his feelings for you and might even not be ready for a relationship. If you’re confident he likes you but he says he doesn’t, then he might not be ready to tell you how he feels just yet.

  1. He tries to hang out with you alone.

If you’re at a party and you always seem to be talking to JUST him and he slyly made it so the two of you are alone, then he might really like you but just not want to admit it. Another sign is if you plan on going on a group outing and everyone ends up canceling but him and HE is the one who arranged the whole thing, it may be because he never even told the others to come.

Guys that don’t admit their feelings are always really frustrating. However, they usually have a good reason for doing so. But if you notice any of the signs above when talking with a guy you know, it could mean he likes you but just won’t admit it.

574 Comments

  1. Jess Nicholson

    December 11, 2018 at 8:58 pm

    I told him that I like him and his response was “I’m not sure how I feel because idk. I just broke up with (his ex-girlfriends name) and I’m not really looking for a relationship right now.” But all other signs point to him liking me. Is it possible that he actually likes me and just isn’t ready for a relationship? Or is he embarrassed to admit that he likes me (I’m a nerd from the grade below that shares most classes with him and he’s a ‘bad boy’)? Or does he not like me at all, in that way?

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 12, 2018 at 9:59 pm

      You have shared your thoughts and feelings with him. He clearly explained his position in response. His feelings are perfectly reasonable. You can nourish your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. If he becomes more willing to maintain a romantic relationship with you in the future, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings at that time. Have a great day, Jess!

  2. Sami

    November 29, 2018 at 12:52 pm

    I have been very good friends/ classmates with a guy for the past 3 years. Since our first high school year, he has always seemed like having feelings for me. He always flirts with me, cares for me, giving me all possible signs of liking me. People from our class think he likes me too. They always nag him about it but he coldly denies it. The thing is, I recently found out I always liked him. I tried to make him tell me if he really likes me but without giving myself away so I wouldn’t look stupid I guess. He coldly denied it. I’m really confused. I don’t understand what’s going on with him…

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 29, 2018 at 9:19 pm

      The two of you share a strong social and emotional connection. He is aware of your feelings, though he may be uncertain about his own. He may feel embarrassed, as he may be a shy person. Continue to spend additional time with him in person, as this will nourish your relationship. You may find benefit in seeing him outside of school when possible. Have a great day, Sami!

  3. Lily

    November 26, 2018 at 4:47 am

    We met at work, at first we were just friends, hanging around, spending a lot of time together. One thing led to another and we started going out together as a couple.. He’s very kind, caring, sweet. I’ve met his friends, his family.. Eventhough we spent all this time together, he never talked about his feelings towards me.. But I decided to wait around.. because I know how hard his past was.. 5 months in the relationship I had to go to see my family abroad for a month.. so I decided to tell him about my feelings.. In case anything happened..
    He told me that he doesn’t have feelings for me.. and never had the courage to tell me.. that he’s waiting and don’t know when his feeling will “unlock”..
    It broke me a little..
    but what happened next is all as confusing..
    When I came back, he picked me up at the airport.. was caring, sweet as if nothing had happened.. when all I could be was distant..
    Yesterday he told me once again that he doesn’t want me to wait for him to feel something for me.. so we decided to break things off.. to let him the time he needs to think about his feelings..
    but today once again he kisses me on the cheek, compliments me, hold me in his arms.. when we clearly decided to stay “friends”. He hasn’t told his family, his friends, our colleagues, that we’re not together anymore..
    I’m nothing more than confused.. I honestly think he feels a bit of love for me.. but he doesn’t know the difference between having a crush and falling in love.. because I asked him how does he know he’s in love? And all the answers were actually the definition of havinf a crush..
    I don’t know what to do.. everyone told me to stay away from him.. until he knows what he wants.. and what he’s feeling..
    Do you think he loves me? Or am I just having high hopes?

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 26, 2018 at 7:42 pm

      He has shared his thoughts and feelings with you. He was very clear about his position. He is uncertain about his feelings for you. He wants to maintain a relationship with you, as he feels that his feelings may grow over time. Determine what you want for your future. Nourish your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. If you feel as though you can not maintain a relationship with him, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Lily!

  4. Mara Mae

    November 14, 2018 at 10:24 pm

    ive been friends with this guy for a couple years now, about a year ago we started sleeping together and we never talk about the relationship. His friends all tell me that he likes me and he gets super jealous when other guys hang around me. Even when we go to the bars together people ask if we’re dating but he always tells them we’re just friends. I’ve met his family and friends and he’s met mine. Lately his friends have been telling me that he really likes me but whenever I confront him he shuts it down. We hangout 3-4 days a week and talk almost everyday and when we are together he’s super cuddly and we talk about everything and he usually tries to hang out as much as possible. Well the other day he told me he loves me, but that he doesn’t have feelings for anybody other than his family. I don’t know what that means or what he is looking for anymore. I’m just so confused. I tried ending things a couple times with him but we usually just fall back into seeing each other again.

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 16, 2018 at 7:42 pm

      He is interested in nourishing a romantic relationship with you. He likely does not want you to nourish a relationship with anyone else. He may feel uncertain about your feelings toward him. He has shared his thoughts and feelings with you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Mara!

  5. Jean

    November 9, 2018 at 8:10 pm

    So I was confused about a guy after I started liking him and he began to approach me and talk to me. He asked me for my number and texted me first and then tries to talk to me, hang out with me, work on projects with me. The other day we were having dinner as he feels like he should pay me back for my help with his work and somehow I accidentally said that I have someone I like. He started getting all hyper and friendly and asking me who that was but I kept saying I can’t tell him. I did drop a lot of hints why I couldn’t tell it to him but he kept talking as if he was this very helpful friend and he wants to help me get the guy and saying that I should confess to the guy if I want him, when in fact he IS the guy. Later, he still acts the same, talking flirty and acting like he likes me. So all the things he did before that indicated that he likes me and also the actions that he is doing right now, are they all just because he is too friendly? Does he like me or not? I am confused.

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 12, 2018 at 12:18 am

      It is possible that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. He may also be a kind person who wants to be friendly. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. You may strengthen your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Jean!

  6. Talia

    November 2, 2018 at 12:41 pm

    Me and my best guy friend have been friends for 3 years and we are so close. My friends all think deep down he has/had feelings for me but is too afraid to show any emotions but they don’t know him as well as I do. Me and this guy have spent hours just chatting and we even meet up after university and spend hours straight just talking and laughing. we’ve even went to eat alone many times after university is over which feels like a very casual date. It feels so effortless and fun which is why i really enjoy his company. He does small cute things like holding my lap or resting on me. I can’t figure out if he just enjoys my company and the friendship or lowkey has feelings for me but won’t admit it.

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 2, 2018 at 9:39 pm

      The two of you have a history and share a strong connection. It is likely that his feelings for you are similar to your feelings for him. Both of you value your relationship greatly, and both of you may have the same concerns about maintaining a relationship. If you nourish this relationship, then it will likely be lifelong and strong. Determine what you want for your future. Spend additional time with him in person, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Talia!

  7. Kay

    October 31, 2018 at 6:03 pm

    Okay so there’s this guy at my school that I honestly used to like a lot the year before and this year everyday I get mobbed and harassed by all of his friends because they claim he likes me and one of my best friends said she heard him and my ex talking about he likes me I want to believe them but if he doesn’t I don’t wanna embarrass myself and she also told me that my ex that he was talking to likes me too but he goes out with one of my friends another one of their friends put his arm around me in the hallway and we were talking but I think he likes me too but the first guy is always looking at me and he is always quick to deny when his friends tell me he likes me so what does it mean does he like me or not?!

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 31, 2018 at 7:27 pm

      Your best friend has shared what she has heard to you. It is reasonable to accept the statement of your best friend. Determine what you want for your future, and decide what you believe is appropriate. If you want to nourish a relationship with this person, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Kay!

  8. Kerry

    October 22, 2018 at 7:51 am

    So my ex and I were together for 4 years. We got pregnant our senior year of high school. He freaked and left me for another girl at 7 months. He came back 3 times, but left me for the same girl every time. She now has a boyfriend and they’re friends again. My mom kicked me out and kept my son so I’m living with him and his family. He gives me mixed signals on whether he likes me or not. I don’t know what to do. We were best friends for 5 years. He came around for our son, thank goodness. I just don’t know what to do. I want him back. He told me before he doesn’t know what the future holds for us, but then says he’s working on getting a new girlfriend (even tho no one on dating sites will meet or talk to him). His family wants us to be together. I just don’t know how that makes any sense. Advice please

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 22, 2018 at 9:01 pm

      He has chosen to disrespect you and put his personal desires over that of his child. His family wants the two of you to remain close. It sounds as though his family is more supportive of you than your family is. Strengthen your relationship with his family. Perhaps they will be able to give you a place to raise their grandchildren. Speak with your child’s father about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Kerry!

  9. den

    October 21, 2018 at 6:36 am

    means my best guy friend have been friends for 9 years. as of 7 months ago we started having casual sex. in august he decided that it’s best that we stop having sex to “focus on the friendship” but i’m confused as to what thateven means. we were having casual sex and kept a great between friends and friends with benefits so what exactly are we focusing on? i know he still wants to have sex but i’m also wondering could his feeling be something more than just wanting to have sex?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 22, 2018 at 8:11 pm

      He is interested in nourishing your emotional relationship. He may feel as though your physical relationship is causing him to lose focus on what is truly important. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. If you want to maintain a long term relationship, then share those thoughts. Spend additional time with him in person, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Den!

  10. Tibbaz

    October 8, 2018 at 10:12 am

    Me and my best guy friend have been friends for a few years. We’ve always had comments from our friends that we would be really cute together but we both openly deny it. However when we are on nights out we are very friendly and clingy with each other and find ourselves dancing together and holding hands. We have also spent hours just chatting to each other till late at night about personal and deep topics. When we go out with friends who happen to be in couples we also always end up together.
    Whenever i mention what our friends say about us to him, he always tells me he understands why people would comment because of how close we are but he says he likes the friendship as it is however with regards to the level of boundaries he does not mind (which i’m not sure what that means). When talking about getting with a friend he also said he would never get with a friend, only a close one will be an exception. And also when listing the girls in the friend group he would not get with and why he never mentioned me…(but could be he was just shy to say he would not get with me). His best friend also said how he really likes my personality because we get along so well and but he won’t admit he has feelings for me (which are only his friends words). I really don’t know what to think because I do like him but I’m getting too many mixed feelings and his words don’t always reflect his actions (that is when he tells me he likes us as friends but is very flirty in person). I want to know if he likes me but I don’t know how without making things awkward between us.

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 9, 2018 at 10:28 pm

      There may be a variety of reasons for his actions. The two of you share a strong emotional and social connection. He is likely attempting to not share his personal feelings, as he may be uncertain of yours. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Perhaps speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Strengthen your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Tibbaz!

  11. Carrot

    October 6, 2018 at 6:56 am

    Hey, last week he told me that he always miss me and that isbthe reason why he always look back ( look at me). Last time we went out for movie, i hold his arm because i was so cold. He didn’t even say anything. I automatically hold his arm when we walk without i even realize and he just let jt happen. It’s like he dont mind at all. We spent our time well that day. We don’t feel awkward but we always laugh together.

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 6, 2018 at 9:27 pm

      He shared his thoughts and feelings with you. It is likely that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. You feel comfortable with him, and he is available for you for that security. Determine what you want for your future of this relationship. Spend additional time with him in person, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Carrot!

  12. Buttercup

    October 3, 2018 at 2:11 am

    Me and him are somewhat members of a certain club in our school. btw we are highschool and have a 2 year birthyear gap. He is a sports writer while I am a photojournalist thats why the tendencies are we are together whenever a sports event came. So, here is the story, one time, we got a cover for a sports event and 4 of us (photojournalists which are girls) and 4 of them also (3 of them are boys and 1 is girl) are paired which is made by him. He paired us two out of nowhere in our chat the night before. Then we chatted, chatted and chatted and the day we called each other boss.Good thing I can control my feelings at that time, my heart really beats so fasta and whenever i came to crack up a joke, he laughs. He is really a very very very quiet, choosy person if I would say. I mean many of the girls in our school run after him cuz they like him. So going back, its the day of the cover. He intentionally (i think) that we would be partners the rest of the day. And the bad thing would be.. i left my sd card at home.I said to him that i would be gone for a while I buy a new one. Then almost half an hour came by, he started bombarding me messages where I am, and I started teasing him. We I got back, he still bombards me messages until we got by the group by lunch. Later on after we finished eating, we started the cover. I started taking pictures near the baseball players. Not necessarily making myself brag, the players started wooing me and I noticed him stealing glances at us, coldly. What do you think the meaning of aaalllll of this? I’m very curious..Thank you very much!

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 3, 2018 at 7:43 pm

      It is likely that the two of you share a strong social and emotional connection. He may be interested in developing a relationship with you. Your pairing may have been a reflection of your relationship or attraction. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Buttercup!

    • anon

      October 8, 2018 at 10:15 am

      I think he might have a thing for you but it’s too early days to admit it to you. He obviously got slightyly jealous/ curious when the guys were wooing you. Maybe he’s already made you his in his head hence the jealousy. Get to know him better to see if he was just doing it as an act in front of your friends or not.

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 9, 2018 at 10:28 pm

        Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. We always appreciate such insightful comments from members of our community. Please share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Anon!

  13. Unknown

    September 29, 2018 at 7:27 am

    We’re just classmates since elem. To hs, we have small talks but not that close before, but now we became seatmates. Kinda awkward because were not that close but as the days pass by he started up a conversation with me but I usually give a short reply to the person I dont talk to much, but everything seems weird when we both have a same vibes. It started when I was buffering to answer some math problems I never knew he was reading the notes I have been practice to solve, then he finds my answer wrong and i was surprise that he teach and let me understand this problem and Every math period when he sees me kinda buffering on those problems he teaches me and let me copy his answer even I didn’t ask him for.Then after that class he sees me playing a game which I’ve been addicted so again he start up open conversation about that game and that topic finds me interest which make our conversation kinda long and after that day every vacant time he invites me to play that game which starts our mutual feeling as a friend. All the time even the class is boring or not he always starts up a conversation with me, when he sees me that I’m silent or gets boring to the class he makes a funny jokes or ask me a questions. And I notice something that is really weird as the months pass by like: when I talk to my friends he was listening to the things which my friend talk about or what I’ve been talk about, he always teases me, he knows the personal data which i never share about (like my bday, or somethings he notice with me),he is clingy, when he sees me upset he cheers me up, he have his squad but he is not joining them and seems he prefers to spend time with me,he treats me differently unlike to what he usually treat to my classmates, he never share the things about his personal data, he always ask me for a treat(in a clingy way) and I always catches him that he is always staring me in secretive way and he is so secretive when i ask him “who is your crush?”. And some thing he have done makes me surprise I know he is not fun in music and arts but since we were close I was surprise that he is learning the things he didn’t explore. And one time one of his relative opens a topic, and i was surprise because his cousin is on the other grade and usually it is impossible to get a details about me, his cousin shares stories about him and she conclude that he likes me but i explain to her that we’re just friends but his cousin teases me that we are the cute couples. This thing make me confuse because when someone teases him he replied “We’re just friends, i dont have crush, i was attracted to anyone” , but this thing makes me confused he was giving some motives , i dunno if he was denying or keeping a secret from me or that is only the way he treat me as a friend.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 29, 2018 at 10:19 pm

      There may be a variety of reasons for his behaviors. He may be interested in developing a relationship with you. He may be shy or uncertain of his feelings. He may be unaware of your feelings toward him. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Strengthen your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Anon!

  14. Susie Sanders

    September 6, 2018 at 1:24 am

    Me and my best guy frends have been friends for 2/3 years now and I’ve always had on and off feelings for him but we were always very close.

    In the friend group we now have he was always closest to me from the girls and is very protective and caring towards me especially. In the last year or so he has become quite flirty (especially after he broke up with his girlfriend which was a year ago) and inappropriately handsy towards me (more than a friend should be) which I found quite weird. Our friends all tell us we would make a really good couple.

    After I decided to speak to him about the way he acts sometimes, his response was that he is aware that he does give off the wrong signals but finds nothing wrong in it as we both don’t have significant others and are very flirty without any intentions. He also mentioned how he would not act the same way if he knew I had a boyfriend.

    Does that mean that he was ‘using’ me as he had no girlfriend to get that pleasure from and I was an easy target since I’m his best female friend or does he have feelings but is too stubborn to admit it?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 7, 2018 at 10:19 pm

      His behaviors are indications that he is interested in nourishing a physical relationship with you. He is not using you, as he likely feels a strong emotional connection with you. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Decide what you believe is appropriate. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Your friends believe that this relationship may be viable. Have a great day, Susie!

      • Susie Sanders

        September 8, 2018 at 12:45 am

        Thankyou for replying 🙂
        I’ve spoken to him about it numerous times but his response to me was always that he likes our friendship as it is. He’s said to one of his friends that he really likes my personality as we get along so well but that’s it. I can’t tell if he’s just scared to admit he has feelings or genuinely just wants to remain as friends.

        • web admin

          web admin

          September 8, 2018 at 8:57 pm

          He has shared his thoughts and feelings with you. He is interested in maintaining your current relationship. Continue to spend additional time with him in person. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion with him. You may find that your relationship will strengthen over time. Have a great day, Susie!

          • Susie Sanders

            September 9, 2018 at 12:52 am

            So should I not try and bring up the subject of our friendship/relationship to try see if he’s ever had deeper feelings for me ? What if we both have had feelings for each other but never admitted it as we are both scared of being rejected? I would have lost my chance out of fear of rejection but I could also potentially make the friendship awkward! I really don’t know what to do!

            • web admin

              web admin

              September 9, 2018 at 8:58 pm

              Your response sounds like you want to develop a relationship with this person regarding a potential future fear. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship based on the merits of your social and emotional connection with this person. Take whatever action you believe is appropriate. Ensure that you always share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, regardless of your relationship with them. Have a great day, Susie!

  15. Heidi

    September 2, 2018 at 7:08 pm

    Ok so one of my friends and me are flirting all the time. One of my friends told him I liked him and he called mpletely ignored it but after he found out he started hanging out with me more and we are getting closer. DOES HE LIKE ME??

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 2, 2018 at 9:58 pm

      It is certainly possible that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. You shared your thoughts and feelings with him. He is now spending additional time with you. This behaviors is an indication of his feelings. Speak with him again and continue to spend time with him in person. Have a great day, Heidi!

  16. Genevieve Arena

    September 1, 2018 at 4:36 am

    Yesterday I was really mad at him because I was told he likes MY BEST FRIENDS LITTLE SISTER!!!! But at least seven or eight of his friends told me that no, he likes ME. He came to my house once over the summer And we e-mailed each other at least once a day. But know he is not even answering my e-mails, and now I don’t know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!😭😭😭😭😭

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 1, 2018 at 9:00 pm

      It seems like you may have commented twice on this one. I have to answer each comment individually, so it sometimes takes a bit for me to reply. If you do not see a response right away, don’t worry because you will! Read through my first response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!

  17. Genevieve Arena

    September 1, 2018 at 4:31 am

    Yesterday I was really mad at him because I was told he likes MY BEST FRIENDS LITTLE SISTER!!!! But at least seven or eight of his friends told me that no, he likes ME. And know I don’t know what to do!!!!!!!!!!!!

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 1, 2018 at 8:59 pm

      I would hold off and see what he does. If all of his friends think that he likes you, then he may have told you that he likes your friend’s sister because he doesn’t want you to know. It is also possible that he likes both of you or is just confused. Whatever the case, I would wait a bit before you do anything to see if he gets any easier to figure out. Good luck, Genevieve Arena!

  18. Lini

    August 28, 2018 at 3:08 am

    Yesterday I confess to my crush that I really like him (in paper). So then now all f he’s friends know that I like him and even other girls who likes him knows it. The reason I confessed bchz my friends thought I should do that and I thoght he likes me….then after he read jt he acted rlly normal like nothing even hapoened…so then he came into to class I pretended that I was reading a book and my friends said that he looked at me….es he like me or not?????? Sometimes I caught him staring at me

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 28, 2018 at 10:19 pm

      It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He is aware of your feelings. Perhaps attempt to spend additional time with him in person, as this will strengthen your relationship. He may be uncertain of confused about his feelings. Perhaps speak with your friends about their thoughts. Have a great day, Lini!

  19. Khera

    August 21, 2018 at 8:22 am

    I have a good friend and we are very close. We totally flirting with each other. People around us used to ask if we are couple. But both of us always left their questions hanging. A lot of sign and body language shows that he likes me. Even my friends notice that we actually more than a friend. He never admit or confess his feeling bit he did ask me if i hv crush on him and i didnt answer bcs i was confuse. Lately he always find an excuse to touch my hand or stand/sit close to me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 21, 2018 at 11:26 pm

      He is interested in developing a relationship with you. Your friends have shown you that they believe that the two of you are close. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Perhaps attempt to spend additional time with him in person, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Khera!

  20. Tara

    July 25, 2018 at 8:20 pm

    I have been really good friends with a guy for the past 7 years. We went on a couple of dates when we first met but he decided that he wasn’t interested in me and from there our friendship bloomed. We’ve always gotten along great and enjoy our friendship but over the past year or so we started doing couple like things. Going to dinner, movies, day trips out of town, but we’ve never been intimate. He’s now always smiling at me and talks to me a lot at work. Outside of work I notice he leans in a lot when talking to me, sits super close to me and has even ruffled my hair while “picking” on me. I have discovered that I have feelings for him and texted asking if it would be weird if we dated. No response that day so I texted the next apologizing and asking if I weirded him out by saying that. His response was “ no you didn’t weird me out or anything, I have just been thinking about it”. I said ok and left it at that but haven’t heard anything since. That was 3 days ago. He still acts the same around me. Does he like me? Or not? I didn’t know a yes or no answer could be that complicated lol

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 26, 2018 at 10:37 pm

      He is aware of your thoughts and feelings. He is taking this time to determine what he wants for this relationship. Continue to spend additional time with him in person, as this will strengthen his feelings for you. You may want to nourish an emotional relationship with him. His feelings will likely grow for you throughout the next few weeks. Have a great day, Tara!

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