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    My Crush Knows I Like Him and He Keeps Looking at Me : What to do Next

    By on March 21, 2016

    No matter how he found out, now he knows. Your crush finally knows you like him! What does he do with that information? Does he rush up to you and proclaim his feelings? Is he completely avoiding you because he doesn’t feel the same way?

    None of those? Well, what if he keeps looking at you over and over again without saying a word or making any moves? While this is the most annoying thing a guy can do after he finds out you like him, it’s one of the most common. Here is what you should do if your crush knows you like him and he keeps looking at you.

    But first…

    First let’s talk about what him looking at you could possibly mean:

    1. He’s Checking You Out

    Some guys don’t take notice to a girl until they find out she’s interested. This could be him just checking you out and deciding if he has feelings or not.

    1. He Feels Self Conscious

    He could just be the shy type and is feeling self-conscious about himself. He might be looking at you to see if you’re looking at him or not. If you are, he may alter his stance/position to look better.

    1. He Might Like You Back

    A lot of the time, when someone finds out you like them and they keep staring at you it’s because the feeling is mutual.

     

    What to do Next!

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    1. Smile at Him

    If someone knows you like him and he keeps looking at you, don’t just stare awkwardly. Smile!! Smiling at your crush is a perfect way to let him know you are friendly and approachable. Many men get intimidated and rather shy when they find out a girl is into them. It makes them nervous and they may not know how to approach the situation. So go ahead and smile. They’ll take it as a positive signal from you.

    1. Wave

    Don’t just leave it at a smile. He could mistake that for your politeness or not even realize you’re directing the smile at him. So send him a smile AND a wave. This shows that not only are you acknowledging him, but you’re making the first move to initiate some sort of contact. The next move is up to him.

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    1. Talk to His Friends

    If you really want to know how a guy is feeling towards you or even why he keeps looking at you when he knows you like him, ask his friends. They’re like the keeper of all guy secrets! Just start chatting up one of his friend and casually mention that your crush keeps looking at you and you want to know why. They might divulge what’s really going on in his head and it will no longer be a mystery to you!

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    1. Gauge his Body Language

    Body language gives away SO much more than people think. If you want to know what he’s thinking, just watch him for a little bit – just don’t be creepy about it. Firstly, if he’s looking at you after finding out that you like him, he must be thinking about you in some way. Is his body turned toward you? Does he keep looking at you even when you notice he’s looking? These are all signs that he might be into you as well.

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    1. Go Talk to Him

    For the love of all that is right in this world, JUST GO TALK TO HIM! The fact that he’s looking at you so much might mean that he’s just trying to get your attention. He could also be too shy to make the first move even if he does like you back. Or maybe he doesn’t know you enough to have those feelings and is just checking you out because maybe he wants to see if he likes you, too. Either way, you’re not going to find out by sitting back and watching him look at you from across the room.

    Guys are sometimes really difficult to decode. If you’re stuck figuring out why he’s looking at you, try these tips.

    175 Comments

    1. Emily

      April 9, 2018 at 1:01 pm

      My crush during assembly I came late so I was 2 rows beside him he was like looking at me Nd turning away and he did the sAme thing till it was over I could feel his stares I didn’t turn to look at him cause I was too shy to do so getting to the point do you think he likes me??

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 9, 2018 at 9:20 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He is giving you attention during an event with a large group of people, so his thoughts are on you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Emily!

    2. Yati

      April 6, 2018 at 4:47 am

      We are in the same office but different department. I confessed my feelings to him through a close friend. The answer i got was he has someone already. what i don’t understand is why is he keeps on looking at me if he has no interest. he told me that he has someone. i’m okay with it. since he is resigning soon in one week time, i caught him looking at me many times. Is this mean he is considering?

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 6, 2018 at 8:34 pm

        He is in a relationship. He may feel an emotional connection with you. There may be a variety of reasons behind his behaviors. Since he is in a relationship, do not attempt to nourish a relationship with him. If his relationship naturally ends and he reaches out to you, then share your thoughts and feelings with him. For now, kindness and compassion will be beneficial. Have a great day, Yati!

    3. Jadyn Wilson

      April 5, 2018 at 6:00 pm

      I had this crush on a guy for several months and of course some girls are going to tell there closes friends. Which I did. So one of my so called friends started talking to him, was asking him all these questions about me, and making me sound desperate, resulting in him blocking her and him not wanting to talk to me. So I was mad at her for talking to him even though I said not too and spearing lies about me. A few weeks later she apologizes and I forgave her but I still didn’t want to be friend and I still didn’t trust her. A month passed by and she texted me in class that “my crush doesn’t want me” and how “he’s hers” and that “he likes her and doesn’t like me”, but yet he would stare and point at me and his friends would do the same so I was confused but I dropped it. She apologized to me 2 days after saying she needs me and all this other bullshit. I forgave once again but I still don’t want to be friends, to this day she tries talking to me like we’re BFF’s. But my crush today and all last month has been staring, following, pointing at me and talking about me to his friends. Also today he said something to the “friend” or girl right in front of me.. oh and her cousin is one of his friends. But I need to know if he’s messing with me or not. He literally does all this stuff just to see me or walk pass me. We had a very intense stare down yesterday. But I’m thinking about waving and smiling at him

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 5, 2018 at 9:51 pm

        It is certainly possible that this person has developed an emotional connection with you. His behaviors may be indications that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Jadyn!

    4. lonely girk

      April 4, 2018 at 11:02 am

      There ils a boy Ilove him frim 2 years he ils that kind of COLD BOY hé always look at me even m’y friends notice him but hé Never talk to me and when hé Knox I love him hé looks at me obviously but never talk I dont know what to do please help me (sorry for thé bad english)

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 4, 2018 at 5:10 pm

        It is certainly possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. The two of you share a social connection. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Lonely!

        • Jadyn Wilson

          April 5, 2018 at 4:43 pm

          I had this crush on a guy for several months and of course some girls are going to tell there closes friends. Which I did. So one of my so called friends started talking to him, was asking him all these questions about me, and making me sound desperate, resulting in him blocking her and him not wanting to talk to me. So I was mad at her for talking to him even though I said not too and spearing lies about me. A few weeks later she apologizes and I forgave her but I still didn’t want to be friend and I still didn’t trust her. A month passed by and she texted me in class that “my crush doesn’t want me” and how “he’s hers” and that “he likes her and doesn’t like me”, but yet he would stare and point at me and his friends would do the same so I was confused but I dropped it. She apologized to me 2 days after saying she needs me and all this other bullshit. I forgave once again but I still don’t want to be friends, to this day she tries talking to me like we’re BFF’s. But my crush today and all last month has been staring, following, pointing at me and talking about me to his friends. Also today he said something to the “friend” or girl right in front of me, it’s not a bug deal but yeah I got jealous.. oh and her cousin is one of his friends. But I need to know if he’s messing with me or not. He literally does all this stuff just to see me or walk pass me. We had a very intense stare down yesterday.

          • web admin

            web admin

            April 5, 2018 at 9:51 pm

            It is certainly possible that this person has developed an emotional connection with you. His behaviors may be indications that he is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Jadyn!

    5. Emily Hart

      March 15, 2018 at 11:27 am

      There is this boy that I told that I like him. But he does nothing and now I sometimes catch him looking at me and sometimes at my friends. I told him that I like him kinda online. How can I make him stop looking because I don’t know what he is thinking when he looks at me. And I don’t know what to do.

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 15, 2018 at 9:31 pm

        He is likely confused or uncertain about his feelings toward you. His feelings may have grown since you spoke with him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Emily!

    6. J....

      March 14, 2018 at 4:15 pm

      Ok so, there’s this boy in my Chemistry class and I started liking him since I met in 9th grade, we had the PE class together, and now that I’m in 10th grade I have him in my chemistry class. But I think he knows that I like him because last time I was talking to my favorite teacher and my best friend, Michael, and then he, my crush, past by and I he was not looking I look at him and told my teacher and my friend that he was crush but he turned around and I was pointing at him and then I hide, since I was so embarrassed. Like after some weeks, I kept looking that our paths were getting together, no matter where we were we always found our selves getting in each other ways. I think he kept his distance from me for some time, and then he started staring at me in class and it was kind of awkward ‘cuz I didn’t know if he knew or not that I like him. Two days ago in my class, we were doing a project and my best friend, who knows, was in his group so I decided to get close and then my friend put some black marker on my face and I was kind of mad but laughing and then he looked at me and told me to erase my face with the eraser, which a board eraser, trying to joke with me so I laughed and then he blushed and looked away while smiling. Today I saw him pass by, and I look right into his eyes and when I did that he was already looking at me but when I look at him he blushed and rapidly turn away his eyes.

      I’m confused, do you think he likes me or knows I like him? Should I talk to him?(by the way I made him laughed last time, and he laughed a bit hard, so…?)(His name’s Niclas and I know he would never found out that I asked in this place or know who I am, so that’s why I said his name.)

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 14, 2018 at 9:41 pm

        It is clear that the two of you have a strong social connection. It is possible that you share an emotional connection as well. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, J!

    7. Demet

      March 9, 2018 at 10:38 am

      Hi my friend told my crush I like him but I wasn’t there. So one day she called him over and said I like him in front of me so he started smiling and said it’s ok.This made me think that he doesn’t like me. Another day I heard my friend speaking to him and she asked him if he likes me and he said I don’t tell people about my feelings but he was smiling. Time past and he started staring at me and we once had eye contact and there was funny scene going on and we were both laughing. But I’m not sure does he like me or no???

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 9, 2018 at 9:54 pm

        It is certainly possible that this person is interested in developing a relationship with you. He may not want to share his emotional feelings with someone other than you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Demet!

    8. Celia

      March 5, 2018 at 12:28 pm

      I’m gonna talk to him

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 5, 2018 at 3:32 pm

        Thank you for sharing your decision. Please feel free to share your insights and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Celia!

    9. Abby

      February 28, 2018 at 7:29 pm

      My friend went up and told him that I like him and he turned red and smiled. Then she went to ask him out and he said no that he wasn’t interested but he still keeps looking at me and when i look at him he turns away really fast. What does that mean??

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 1, 2018 at 9:05 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He may have lied because he felt uncomfortable speaking with your friend about his thoughts and feelings. He may be confused or uncertain about his feelings. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Abby!

    10. Erya

      February 25, 2018 at 12:36 pm

      Hi,
      Im in 7th grade and my guy crush knows I like him because of a note and he keeps staring at me and smiling. In Science he shows off by making funny jokes and does funny (Slightly dumb) things I’m not sure if he like me because he’s a pretty bold, funny guy. But what was really weird was that when he was leaving the class to go to the restroom he turned around peeking through the door and smiled for around what seemed like forever but was probably around 15 seconds. (I couldn’t help but smile back. I’m always really afraid to talk to him because his friends are around. What’s really cute is when I see him getting glimpses of me, he turns red and looks coolly around.Getting to the main point what do you think he’s doing and what should I do? I am really confused?!

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 26, 2018 at 9:28 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. If you want to speak to him without his friends around, then ask to speak with him alone. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Have a great day, Erya!

        • Erya

          March 1, 2018 at 7:45 pm

          But I don’t know what to say to him exactly? Do you have any ideas? I don’t want to be embarrassed and if I say that I want to talk with him alone, I’m not sure if his friends will make fun of him, which will be bad. What can I say exactly to him and do? (Details)

          • web admin

            web admin

            March 1, 2018 at 8:20 pm

            It sounds as though you are uncertain how to begin a conversation with him. Your best option is to walk directly up to him and speak to him. If you do not feel comfortable doing that, then determine if you want to reach out to him, or do you want to wait for him to come to you. Have a great day, Erya!

    11. Tesslynn

      February 13, 2018 at 11:51 am

      My crush and me been friends for a while but we don’t talk much, he always looked at me before he knew I liked him and he still looks at me when he found out. But the thing is he keeps teasing me about it! Today he said “I love you” and I told him I hate him and when I walked out the door he was watching. I’m really confused, I can’t find out anything because he flirts with lots of girls. But now that he knows he keeps making comments about it, he confronted me about it also. He said “Ik you like me, liv told me”. Acourse I denied it and then he told me my face was getting red so he knows and it was horrible. Please help

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 13, 2018 at 10:01 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in a developing a relationship with you. He may be confused or uncertain about your feelings toward him. There is no benefit that can be gained by lying. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Tesslynn!

      • Vildan

        March 9, 2018 at 10:28 am

        Omg the same thing happened to me my friend told him but I wasn’t there. One day we were together in uni and she called him over and I was shocked and she said I like him and he started smurking and said it’s ok and I blushed. He has recently been looking at me when I’m not looking. I hope he does like me

        • web admin

          web admin

          March 9, 2018 at 9:53 pm

          It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. His feelings may have grown for you since your friend told him about your feelings. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Vildan!

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