Capricorn Man in Love

By on April 26, 2014






CEO of the company, respected attorney, world renowned chef- these are just a few of the careers likely to be had by a Capricorn. Capricorns are extremely determined and single-minded individuals, and they won’t stop until they get what they want- even if it means traveling through horrendous obstacles to get there. Capricorns are always seeing the reality of every situation rather than the fantasy, which gives them an edge in certain situations- especially business situations. You won’t find a Capricorn taking a moment to daydream about things that could never be- they’d much rather be determining their next move on an important subject.

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The Type of Woman Capricorn Needs

Capricorns tend to be a bit shy and reserved at first so they don’t rush into anything. They see relationships as a long term investment and tend to fall for someone quickly after entering a relationship. However, they prefer to stand back and assess their potential partner before making a move. That’s why Capricorn needs a real woman with a distinct personality, someone who likes the same things as they do. They don’t fall for someone with just a pretty face, which is why a Capricorn won’t typically go for eight inch stilettos and a mini skirt. Capricorn needs a lady who is as invested in the relationship as he is and is willing to go the extra mile to make it work. He doesn’t want a woman that plays games, but rather a mature woman who is seeking a lengthy relationship and is willing to work through problems.

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Capricorn in a Relationship

For a Capricorn, even finding a potential mate is a bit difficult. The Capricorn will sit back and watch for awhile, noting what the female likes or dislikes and analyzing her personality. He wants to make sure it’s going to be worth his time- a match made in Heaven, so to speak. That being said, the Capricorn male is not a player and doesn’t go for one night stands. He won’t fall for a girl because of the way she looks, and would much prefer to get to know a woman before even entering into a relationship.Once the Capricorn has studied his potential mate for quite sometime, he’ll be able to determine whether or not she is worth the investment. (Capricorns are always judging something on longterm- whether it’s a relationship or a business proposal).

After entering into the relationship, Capricorn might seem a bit standoffish. It’s not because he isn’t interest (in fact it’s quite the opposite!), it’s more that he does not want to show off to much of his feelings in the beginning and ruin any possibilities. Capricorn knows he’s extremely into you and doesn’t want to mess anything up, so he tries not to scare off his partner with too much romance. However, after the relationship has moved past the initial few months of dating, a different side to Capricorn is shown: his affectionate, loving side- the side where he lets you know he’d do anything to keep you in his arms.

To put it plainly, Capricorn is seeking a long term relationship. Once he has found his ‘perfect girl’, he will do anything to keep her. He wants to be the man of the house and take of his lady, but also have a woman who is secure and likes the same things as him. However, Capricorn will have a problem if his woman surpasses him in any way (career wise, parent wise, etc).

Capricorn in the Bedroom

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A lot of people think a Capricorn might be boring in the bedroom. His practical attitude and lack of imagination might seem dull, but that’s quite the opposite. In fact, Capricorn loves to please his mate. According to him, it’s best to find one or two things that work and stick to it. He will continuously perfect these few skills until he can please you within minutes. However, Capricorn does have a longing to please his woman in whatever way possible, so if you’re into whips, whipped cream, or sexy costumes, you may be able to sway him into it. If you like to be treated like a Queen in the bedroom (without having to return the favor), then you will definitely have a wonderful time with a Capricorn.

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Negative Side of a Capricorn Man

One of the biggest negative trains of a Capricorn is that he tends to pessimistic. Capricorn, being an overachiever and hard-worker, always sees himself as ‘not good enough’. He uses this pessimistic attitude throughout most aspects of his life, and many find this negative mindset a bit of an annoyance.

Another problem you might notice with a Capricorn is their stubbornness. Capricorns have a certain way of doing things. They like what they like, and that’s it. If you disagree, they really don’t want to hear it. They are stuck in their ways and believe that what they think or do is best. This can obviously get on someone’s nerves, but if you can work through a Capricorns stubbornness you will enjoy their positive traits.

Lastly, Capricorns have a tendency to be shy- especially in the beginning of a relationship. This might irritate some women and leave them thinking that the man is uninterested. However, women need to remind themselves that Capricorn men are simply shy by nature and don’t like to give up too much in the beginning. Hold on to the relationship and you’ll see the man blossom into a hard-working and extremely dedicated individual that works tirelessly for his lady.

Compatibility

Capricorn and Taurus: The two make a wonderful match, both being level-headed individuals with a realistic approach. Just make sure you add plenty of fun and excitement to keep things interesting or your affairs may become mundane.

Capricorn and Capricorn: The perfect two! Both individuals have goals and determination necessary for a fulfilling relationship, and the two can easily have a business partnership at the same time. However, the relationship may get boring after time, so make sure to take time for some fun activities.

Capricorn and Pisces: Both individuals offer plenty of depth and communication, and if the pair can learn to appreciate the extreme differences between each other, the relationship will flourish greatly. In this case, opposites attract and can make for an exciting and fulfilling time!

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Capricorn Man in a Nutshell

A capricorn man isn’t hard to figure out or very mysterious. He has two goals in his mind: how to reach the top of his career (or some other highly sought after goal) and finding the perfect woman for a long term and deep relationship. Capricorns are extremely dedicated and prefer to stick to their roots, not taking other’s opinions easily. They need a woman they can take care of for a lifetime, a gal who is willing to deal with his stubborn and ernest personality. But don’t let his hard-working mindset sway you from dating a Capricorn. These sweet men are pleasurers in the bedroom without needing any fancy footwork and will work endlessly to ensure his woman is happy- when it comes to the overall relationship, finances, home life, and more.

 

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258 Comments

  1. Beck

    June 16, 2017 at 9:28 pm

    I been with him for 3 years without up and down. I knew he loves me without he saying it, he done sweet things to me. But the problem is he will go to other country for work and he said we just ‘can’t be together’.
    What should I do? Do I have to waiting for him? (It happened how many times already. He said that and came back)

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 17, 2017 at 7:08 pm

      If he said that you can’t be together, then the relationship is over. Allow him to fade from your mind. He has chosen to move to another country for work, so it would be best for you to move on with your life. This will be best for the both of you in the long run. Take this time to determine what you want to say to him before he leaves. Best of luck, Beck!

  2. Jill

    June 2, 2017 at 1:25 am

    Hi! So I’ve known this Capricorn guy personally since 1 1/2 years. I’ve found him to be opening his feelings to me a lot. He always compliments me. He has repeatedly called me a queen, and says i deserve to be one. He also says that I’m very special. But when I ask him what it means and what he thinks so, he doesn’t explain. He tells me “Look at yourself from my eyes and you’ll understand”. He hasn’t confessed if he loves me or not. Many a times, he suddenly disappears as in he stops texting for days or even weeks.and then he reappears as if nothing happened.this has left me confused. Is this typical of a Capri guy? We’ve not met each other that often, but we converse mostly through text. He was a previous classmate of mine, though I didn’t know him personally. What others signs should I look for to know if he really is interested in me?

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 2, 2017 at 2:34 pm

      Have you ever tried asking him what happens when he disappears? It sounds like he likes you, so the disappearances are rather odd. He may just be busy or something though, so I would just say something like, “It has been a while since I heard from you. Is everything okay?” That way, you can subtly ask where he was without sounding pushy or clingy. If you want to find out more signs about whether he is interested in you or not, we have several articles that cover that topic on Her Interest. Good luck, Jill!

      • Jill

        June 4, 2017 at 5:20 am

        He does sometime tell me that he was busy and hence couldn’t text. I’m in doubts about whether I should confess my feelings for him or not, as I don’t want him to feel awkward if things don’t work out between us. Thanks! 🙂

        • web admin

          web admin

          June 5, 2017 at 1:49 pm

          It is possible that he is busy. He may be working, with friends, or with a partner. Speak with him when you are able to do so. This will help you understand what is keeping him busy. Try to sped time with him in person if he is often busy when you text him. If he is not willing to make time for you, then you may want to lessen your focus on him. Have a great day, Jill!

  3. Lee

    May 27, 2017 at 8:06 pm

    I really like this capricorn male i work with, over the past year i have noticed our friendship progressing through social events as we started to spend more time together. Only recently we actually went out to lunch together (first thing we have done outside of work not as a group event, which was very nice/chilled), and in July we’re attending a concert together, but i feel too forward being the one to initiate everything (I initiated lunch/asked him to concert) though i do know he doesn’t like to organise things and likes to flow, but sometimes i feel like he isn’t interested if I’m the one always making the first effort.

    When we’re out, we are very attached and will stick together for majority of the night (people have actually questioned if we are a couple). Im being quite pessimistic especially because I am 20, and he 24 so i feel like he prefers someone his age or older, and his 2 siblings are both older than I am. I know there is a difference in years of experiences, but i feel like we connect when it comes to values, work ethics, personality traits.

    I actually know a lot about him because we have good chats and he has learned to open up to me now, also likes to vent to me about things, and i know its not with anyone else at work, but i also want him to really get to know me and my goals/mind etc and see me in the light that i see him in, but the opportunity to do so isn’t there at work because there is only so much you can talk about working in a busy bar on weekend nights. Maybe I’m the one that doesn’t open up enough? Im a person that needs questions though, but with him i can ask him one question and he can add more and more to the answer.

    We have said we would do drinks soon, but i know him well and he is quite forgetful and needs reminding, but will i push him away and look to eager if i bring it up again? I feel like it would be a great night to converse about many things and get to know each other more. He is very uni focused, driven, and busy so he likes things to be perfectly planned. I can just really feel the connection, though will never express my feelings which is what is really getting me down.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 28, 2017 at 11:08 am

      I think it would be okay to mention getting drinks again. If he doesn’t take you up on the offer, then leave it alone. If he does take you up on the offer, then go out, but hold off on initiating the next hang out so that you can see if he actually wants to be with you on some level or is just hanging out, out of politeness. Best of luck, Lee!

  4. LadyLEO

    May 15, 2017 at 8:10 pm

    My Capricorn friend told me that he loves me ! And than said he loves my dirty draws ! I’ve known him since high school 1995 he was the third guy I had ever been with ! He told me that I have always been in his heart, since high school ! I never knew this because he never acted like it, or showed me, really in no way. We barely was around each other so, I really don’t see how he could have fell for me ? 22yrs later, he says he loves my dirty draws but how could he stay away so long from someone, he claims he loves? and he says will be friends and he’ll be in my life for ever !!! By the way we have slept together several times of course ! he was down for about 8yrs in prison but he has never been a lazy guy and now he’s trying to start a trucking company, he has been working on that since he got home 2yrs ago endlessly and he has text me pictures of beautiful homes and stuff I just don’t get it ? Why would he want me in his life for ever, if he never has any attentions of committing to me ! I’m falling in love with him and I’ll be crushed if he chooses someone else after persistently trying to keep me in his life, any way he can ! Please explain all this to me I don’t get it ? Ah I am a LEO 8/4 and he is 1/5

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 16, 2017 at 10:20 am

      The prison time would have gotten in the way of making a move on you. If he had that big of a crush on you in high school, then he may have just been too afraid to make a move and potentially be rejected. It sounds like he genuinely likes you now, so I would keep the relationship going and see where it takes you.

  5. ariesgirl

    May 14, 2017 at 5:29 pm

    Crappie broke up with me when he took a job that he traveled for
    Said he wanted to be friends,I didn’t want to be friends….he got so upset….
    He reaches out to me sometimes and I respond. I reach out to him,he responds. I care about him deeply. We are very different though…..I don’t know how to let go of this magnificently strong yet sensitive man……

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 15, 2017 at 11:12 am

      If he wants to just be friends, then it sounds like the relationship is not going anywhere n the near future. He reaches out to you and responds because he wants to be your friend–unless the situation with his job has changed, he is probably not going to change his mind about wanting to be just friends. Moving on is never easy, but it will happen. Good luck, AriesGirl!

  6. Jody

    March 26, 2017 at 11:53 pm

    Hi im a female leo and he is obviously a capricorn man. i really really like him i believe he has all the requirements to be the perfect man as in a long-term relationship and i really want us to work. The thing is, i love attention and someone that shows interest. I know that he loves me because he tells me all the time randomly but i cant tell. I also find our conversation boring. Mather of fact, i think i find him boring. :/

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 27, 2017 at 9:34 am

      If he tells you that he loves you and does nothing to make you think otherwise, then he loves you. While he may be the perfect guy in general, I would be a little worried about the fact that you find him boring. If you find him boring now, it will only get worse over the future. Do you think that that will change? Could you plan more exciting dates like hiking trips, aquarium dates, clubbing or potter painting to make him seem more exciting? If you can’t imagine living with the boredom over the future, it does not bode well for a continued relationship. Is he really the right fit for you?

    • Leo

      May 5, 2017 at 6:38 am

      Omg , im in a same situation :p. He told me that he likes me a lot and we date 1,2wice a week. He inroduced me with all of his friends and siblings. And i find him bit borring(i mean closed, not talkative) during a day “especially sunday”. Otherwise we are fun during the evening or in the bed. After he asked me to be his girlfriend he is still as same as before and no difference and I can’t figure out what he really want :/ , is it normal for capri man? Does it mean that he is still checking me out?

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 6, 2017 at 1:34 pm

        It sounds like he likes you and wants to see where things go. He might not have that interesting of a personality. He obviously views you as more than just a sexual relationship though because he takes you out, introduces you to family and introduces you to his friends. Now, you just have to see how compatible you two are together by dating him for longer. Good luck, Leo!

  7. Peg

    February 20, 2017 at 7:06 am

    Hi I’ve been seeing a cap for a little over year now on and off like fwb type things anyways when I first met him he looked at me like I was the most amazing thing he ever saw I thought that was weird and he was younger than me anyways he stayed at my house every now and then and as we got to know each other down the track he sometimes got distant and than I would find out he was seeing someone else it kinda hurt but I didn’t care sucked it up and didn’t worry than he would come back and it happened many more tines after that but I dismissed it and one time I turned around and seen somebody else he didn’t like that at all got jealous but than he’d go see other girls,I have a lot of patience and I’m just observing him still I can see he has a lot of potential I didn’t care he seen other girls and stuff at that time and what not I’d just tell him I’m happy for him and I’d leave etc,he calls me everyday ivcan sometimes feel that he’s gonna call on certain days and he does ,he asks me what am I doing and just wants to spend the day with me even if it’s really doing nothing its like a repeat every week ,I do like him but not sure I should say nothing cause I’m unsure myself and I’ve been through heart ache before in the past so I’m kind if still observing,he listens to me. Looks for me when stuff is going down in his life for me to help him or advice etc, sometimes he calls continuously and hardly even talks just wants me there even tho I’m not I thought yeh after a year hr will go elsewhere like find the one but he hasn’t he still needs me in his life ,he gets upset like comparing himself to guys I could be interested in like saying I’m better etc or I said next guy I go with I’m gonna delete Facebook etc he’s like you didn’t do that with me I was thinking but I thought we went together anyways idk if anyone understood that but I do caps are very complicated n patient with who they want but like I say to him I will find someone if he don’t jump in first and also he’s family loves me I met them through him too anyways to whoever reads this hold on he will get better

    • Peg

      February 20, 2017 at 7:08 am

      I am a Pisces by the way

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 20, 2017 at 11:26 am

        It is clear that the two of you are close. If you want to further your relationship with him, then attempt to spend additional time with him. Continue to speak with him about your thoughts and ideas. Learn more about him whenever you are able to do so. This will make sure that the two of you remain emotionally close as time goes on. Have a good day, Peg!

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 20, 2017 at 11:26 am

      It is clear that the two of you are close. If you want to further your relationship with him, then attempt to spend additional time with him. Continue to speak with him about your thoughts and ideas. Learn more about him whenever you are able to do so. This will make sure that the two of you remain emotionally close as time goes on. Have a good day, Peg!

  8. Jennaleigh

    February 16, 2017 at 4:30 pm

    What is the compatibility between a Sagittarius-Capricorn girl (Dec. 20) and a Capricorn-Sagittarius (Dec. 23) guy? I keep seeing him everywhere I go, and I think fate is telling me I should approach him. We exchange glances, but I want to take it a step further. What should I do

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 16, 2017 at 5:32 pm

      You will find that your relationship will be developed with a strong foundation if you speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. Walk up to him an share your thoughts with him. This will give him a chance to share his ideas with you as well. Best of luck, Jennaleigh!

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