What Does it Mean When a Guy Looks Into Your Eyes

By on February 28, 2017

Sometimes, it’s really hard to read what a guy is thinking or feeling. Often times, we may think they feel a certain way about us, only to find out they feel completely different. It’s not only frustrating, it’s downright confusing.

But there are ways to tell just what a guy means by their body language. Specifically, when they look into your eyes. Sometimes a guy may be lost in thought and randomly looking at you, and other times they mean something specific. Here’s what it means when a guy looks into your eyes.

  1. They like your eyes.

If you have striking eyes or very unique eyes, guys are going to look at them. It’s just like if you have any other feature that’s out of the ordinary. Don’t read too much into it if you have very bright eyes and a guy is looking into them.

  1. They think you’re attractive.

Another meaning of a guy looking into your eyes is that they think you’re attractive. People tend to make eye contact with people they really enjoy looking at.

  1. They like you.

If a guy is really into you, he’s definitely going to be looking into your eyes. You can also tell they like you by how close they’re standing, how much they talk to you, and if they ask deep, personal questions.

  1. They’re trying not to look elsewhere.

If you’ve got a really low cut shirt on and a guy is making long eye contact with you, chances are, he’s trying not to look down at your boobs. This is a good thing! It means he’s a gentleman.

  1. They’re just being polite.

Eye contact is polite in conversation. If someone is talking, it’s the right thing to do to make eye contact with them and if a guy is doing so while you’re talking, they could just be acting politely toward you.

  1. They’re trying to make an impression on you.

We remember the people who forge a connection within us. Meaning, if someone is giving us long, consistent eye contact, we’ll remember them better than we would someone who doesn’t. Therefore, if a guy wants you to remember him, he’ll likely be looking you right in the eyes.

You have to pay a lot of attention to what else a guy is doing when they look into your eyes. Reading their other body language can help you realize just what it really means when a guy looks into your eyes.


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    Jessica Alex

    March 22, 2019 at 8:04 pm

    Im currently go to a high school and I have a group of 6 to 7 friends who always hang out. Theres this guy part of that group and I really like him. His ex is my best friend and I know it is so terribly wrong for me to like him but when they were together he would always talk and look into her eyes. Now they are broken up but he has started looking into my eyes longer each time we have seen each other. We also wrestle sometimes about food and he would grab both of my hands and not let go. I have no clue if he likes me and I need help! Lol

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 23, 2019 at 1:42 am

      His ex is your best friend, so before you attempt to nourish a relationship with this person, you need to make a decision about your relationship with your best friend. You can choose to speak with your best friend about your thoughts and feelings. If your best friend approves of this relationship, then speak with this guy about your thoughts and feelings. It is always beneficial to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Jessica!

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