What Does it Mean When a Guy Looks Into Your Eyes

By on February 28, 2017

Sometimes, it’s really hard to read what a guy is thinking or feeling. Often times, we may think they feel a certain way about us, only to find out they feel completely different. It’s not only frustrating, it’s downright confusing.

But there are ways to tell just what a guy means by their body language. Specifically, when they look into your eyes. Sometimes a guy may be lost in thought and randomly looking at you, and other times they mean something specific. Here’s what it means when a guy looks into your eyes.

  1. They like your eyes.

If you have striking eyes or very unique eyes, guys are going to look at them. It’s just like if you have any other feature that’s out of the ordinary. Don’t read too much into it if you have very bright eyes and a guy is looking into them.

  1. They think you’re attractive.

Another meaning of a guy looking into your eyes is that they think you’re attractive. People tend to make eye contact with people they really enjoy looking at.

  1. They like you.

If a guy is really into you, he’s definitely going to be looking into your eyes. You can also tell they like you by how close they’re standing, how much they talk to you, and if they ask deep, personal questions.

  1. They’re trying not to look elsewhere.

If you’ve got a really low cut shirt on and a guy is making long eye contact with you, chances are, he’s trying not to look down at your boobs. This is a good thing! It means he’s a gentleman.

  1. They’re just being polite.

Eye contact is polite in conversation. If someone is talking, it’s the right thing to do to make eye contact with them and if a guy is doing so while you’re talking, they could just be acting politely toward you.

  1. They’re trying to make an impression on you.

We remember the people who forge a connection within us. Meaning, if someone is giving us long, consistent eye contact, we’ll remember them better than we would someone who doesn’t. Therefore, if a guy wants you to remember him, he’ll likely be looking you right in the eyes.


You have to pay a lot of attention to what else a guy is doing when they look into your eyes. Reading their other body language can help you realize just what it really means when a guy looks into your eyes.


  1. Anon

    August 20, 2017 at 10:50 am

    Can u define what a deep stare a guy gives when he likes someone is like? I can feel a difference in the way my crush stares at me its longer and stronger, but i dont particularly know what it means

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 20, 2017 at 10:38 pm

      If you notice that someone stares at you for a long time and their eyes are focused directly on you, then it is a deep stare. Many people experience these stares when looking directly into someone’s eyes. Continue to learn about this person’s actions. In time, you will understand the actions that this person makes. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Anon!

  2. Cmya

    August 9, 2017 at 11:10 pm

    It’s doesn’t matter if i know them or not guys love to look at my eyes A lot and I don’t get it their just Brown I mean I’m naturally beautiful but I just don’t get it and certain guy friends I hug love pulling me close to them by my waist as I wrap my arms around their neck but one of my certain guy friend I like him but we keep friend zoning each other and hes always wrapping his arm around my waist when we hug in hallways or when we sit next to eachother at lunch and I squeeze his shoulders his arm ends up on my waist but this other friend on mine just loves touching me I dont know how I feel about him he loves looking at me and grabbing my waist pulling me against his chest but when people look he acts like we’re wrestling it’s confusing help

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 10, 2017 at 2:39 pm

      It is likely that this person is interested in developing a relationship with you. When people touch you often and tell you that you have beautiful eyes, it is a sign that they are attracted to you. Take this time to determine if you want to develop a relationship with him at this time. If you do, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Cmya!

  3. Bella

    August 1, 2017 at 3:10 am

    Im pretty sure my crush likes me, over 4 of his friends have said and teased him about me, he stares at me in class and we walk after school together. We email each other during class and i got excused to go to the restroom yesterday and he asked after then we talked and i went back into the classroom first then he did a few minutes later to not make it obvious we were talking. When he entered his friend saw and said ‘Oooh, they went out of class togetherrrr!!’ After school i overheard his friend talking about us and he said we were emailing in class, went out of the classroom at the EXACT same time’, then he said quietly ‘and they both like each other!!’ and did a small squeal lol. I dont know if he likes me, but his friend has asked me if i like him and he has blushed and tried to ‘shut him up’. Nearly everyone in my class has asked if we like each other and my friend said when he talks to me he stares at my breasts, idk if this is true or not. Can someone please help??
    Should i confess my feelings? I am too scared to confess, i want him to tell me he likes me or have him GUESS i like him.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 2, 2017 at 7:23 pm

      He is very interested in developing a relationship with you. He is attracted to you and his friends know that he has emotional feelings toward you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Always be honest with him, and you will cause him to feel more confident in his actions. Have a great day, Bella!

  4. Francesca

    July 4, 2017 at 4:36 pm

    Hey I have a problem with my crush and I just wanted advice.
    So basically my girl friend tried to talk to him and become friends with him but when she introduced herself he took ages to reply which was an hr or two and all he said was k which totally putted her off from asking If he likes anyone, my guy friend then texts my crush and he also took very long to reply again and all he said was k. After a few months I got the courage to text him and in the matter of minutes he texts me fast. When I introduced myself he said kl Hi. He said flipping hi which he has never done to any of my friends on snapchat. I started asking him questions about himself and he asking me questions as well. It was then when I told him good luck on a certain test that is coming. He just blanked me without even saying good luck to me which showed me he didnt really care for me. He then sent me a post saying streaks and I was like I can’t be asked sorry maybe next time. And then he just blanked me for 5 hours and was texting my guy best friend for ages but hasn’t replied to my text msg. I gave him the whole day to msg me but he still hasn’t. But anyways all the time he staring at me and my guy friend which is really creepy and he has also looked at my body and then my eyes. All he ever does is stare at me or my guy friend

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 5, 2017 at 1:09 pm

      It is possible that he is not interested in developing a relationship with you at this time. He also be confused about his feelings. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then be direct and honest with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he wants to be with you, then he will explain his feelings as well. If he does not want to be with you at this time, then allow your thoughts of him to fade away. Perhaps move your focus to your close friends. Have a great day, Francesca!

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