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    What Does it Mean When a Guy Looks Into Your Eyes

    By on February 28, 2017

    Sometimes, it’s really hard to read what a guy is thinking or feeling. Often times, we may think they feel a certain way about us, only to find out they feel completely different. It’s not only frustrating, it’s downright confusing.

    But there are ways to tell just what a guy means by their body language. Specifically, when they look into your eyes. Sometimes a guy may be lost in thought and randomly looking at you, and other times they mean something specific. Here’s what it means when a guy looks into your eyes.

    1. They like your eyes.

    If you have striking eyes or very unique eyes, guys are going to look at them. It’s just like if you have any other feature that’s out of the ordinary. Don’t read too much into it if you have very bright eyes and a guy is looking into them.

    1. They think you’re attractive.

    Another meaning of a guy looking into your eyes is that they think you’re attractive. People tend to make eye contact with people they really enjoy looking at.

    1. They like you.

    If a guy is really into you, he’s definitely going to be looking into your eyes. You can also tell they like you by how close they’re standing, how much they talk to you, and if they ask deep, personal questions.

    1. They’re trying not to look elsewhere.

    If you’ve got a really low cut shirt on and a guy is making long eye contact with you, chances are, he’s trying not to look down at your boobs. This is a good thing! It means he’s a gentleman.

    1. They’re just being polite.

    Eye contact is polite in conversation. If someone is talking, it’s the right thing to do to make eye contact with them and if a guy is doing so while you’re talking, they could just be acting politely toward you.

    1. They’re trying to make an impression on you.

    We remember the people who forge a connection within us. Meaning, if someone is giving us long, consistent eye contact, we’ll remember them better than we would someone who doesn’t. Therefore, if a guy wants you to remember him, he’ll likely be looking you right in the eyes.

    You have to pay a lot of attention to what else a guy is doing when they look into your eyes. Reading their other body language can help you realize just what it really means when a guy looks into your eyes.

    30 Comments

    1. Katie

      March 12, 2018 at 3:34 am

      There’s this guy I really like an one day in class he sat next to me even though there was a spare seat with his friends and he kept watching what I was doing and asking me questions. Then he asked me if I could tell him some words to put in his crossword and I turned around in my chair and faced him and we looked into eachothers eyes for a while and it honestly felt like we were the only ones in the room and I felt like our souls were connecting. Do you think he likes me?

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 12, 2018 at 6:27 pm

        He has reached out to you to spend time with you. You feel a strong emotional connection with him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Katie!

        • Katie

          March 12, 2018 at 7:54 pm

          Thank you but this was last year and I haven’t seen him since then (I graduated)

          • web admin

            web admin

            March 13, 2018 at 3:16 pm

            Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Decide if these desires are viable. Take appropriate action. Have a great day, Katie!

            • Katie

              March 13, 2018 at 5:01 pm

              Thank you! But I have no clue what he’s doing these days and I was thinking about adding him on Facebook, should I add him?

              • web admin

                web admin

                March 13, 2018 at 9:20 pm

                Determine what you want for your future. Take appropriate action. Always ensure that your actions are filled with kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Katie!

    2. Vidya cynt

      February 13, 2018 at 4:27 am

      Help please.I have a friend . Different classes for me When we meet him always see me deeply. I was very aware of it but I pretended not to know. But as I quickly wiped he still saw me and did not divert the view. I do not know what’s on his mind. As I passed him on his way home from school, he always tidied his hair and clothes as if he was busy with something

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 13, 2018 at 9:56 pm

        It is possible that he is uncertain or confused about his feelings toward you. He may view you as a friend or he may be interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Vidya!

    3. Vidya cynt

      February 13, 2018 at 4:26 am

      I have a friend . Different classes for me When we meet him always see me deeply. I was very aware of it but I pretended not to know. But as I quickly wiped he still saw me and did not divert the view. I do not know what’s on his mind. As I passed him on his way home from school, he always tidied his hair and clothes as if he was busy with something

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 13, 2018 at 9:55 pm

        It is possible that he is uncertain or confused about his feelings toward you. He may view you as a friend or he may be interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Vidya!

    4. Zoe

      January 23, 2018 at 3:38 pm

      Help me ! There is this guy in school and he has been looking at me constantly and it’s make me so nervous! But I don’t know if he likes me as one day I was walking next to him (we never talked) and I thought I heard him say hi? But being the awkward person that I am I didn’t say it back as I wasn’t sure if he had said it so I kind of carried on walking.so then that night stupidly I asked him and he came across as really rude and basically saying he doesn’t even know who I am ? Anyway the next day he told all his friends and they all took the piss out of me as I was apparently trying to chat him up ? Since them he looks and makes eye contact with me and I’m always the one to look away first! Please help as I don’t know what to do or if he likes me!!

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 23, 2018 at 10:18 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in a developing a relationship with you. Determine if you believe that his behavior is appropriate. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Zoe!

    5. Roxanne

      January 15, 2018 at 3:22 pm

      Well there’s this guy he sure stares alot and when he does i just melt inside and forget everything else and my heart starts racing really fast and my legs starts shaking i have never felt this way around anyone ever before although we never talked nor i think we will the idea is that he stares for a long time which make me worry and he talks really loud with his friends when i am around and he always sits behind me on purpose so that he can talk loud and clear i think he wants to grab my attention which i find annoying i don’t want to talk to him because i don’t know where it will take me as relationships are not my thing as i have never been in one nor i want to be could you give me some advice on what to do and how to get rid of these feelings as i have never dealt with such thing before and what is he trying to do? Is he ill ?

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 15, 2018 at 9:00 pm

        You have said that you are not interested in developing a relationship with him. There is no reason for you to attempt to nourish a relationship with him. It is possible that he is interested in a developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Roxanne!

    6. riya

      January 12, 2018 at 6:34 am

      hey… I had this guy in my class and he sits in front of me with his body slightly tilted towards me, he always look at me after cracking jokes loudly with his frnz to catch my reaction or if I’m laughing or not… he looks deep into my eyes yet never speaks to me… he frequently borrows pens from me but never calls out my name… he acts like he doesn’t know my name… However I connected with him on Facebook and text him regularly to which he seldom replies and even if he does he chats constraintly… few days back I passed by him and he again looked deep into my eyes as if there was no one around

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 12, 2018 at 2:33 pm

        It is certainly possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is likely that he is uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Riya!

    7. Flex

      January 7, 2018 at 6:06 am

      Hi

      I have asked this guy for his numbers n he gave them to me but he ignored my messgaes. In short he rejected me so i was trying to move on but he keeps lookin at me when i catch looking at me he looks away. When he leaves the office he shouts good bye he hold rhe doors for me. He tease me when i talk to him. He makes small talk with me. He stares at me like deep in my eyes.

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 8, 2018 at 9:55 pm

        It is possible that he is unable or unwilling to establish a relationship with you. There could be reasons why he is not texting you, but treating you in a more flirtatious fashion in person. Allow this relationship to grow as a relationship when the two of you are together. Spend additional time with him in person, and you will find that your relationship will become stronger. Have a great day, Flex!

    8. A girl, help me please 😣

      November 26, 2017 at 9:24 am

      He don’t talk to me, we know each other for 2 month. He laughs with another girl too much. But he ALWAYS looks at me, i asked my friend to try to catch him looking at me in my back and she catched him about 8 time.and he become red when I look at him. And he always sit behind me in classes even if he likes sitting in the back of the class and me I always sit in the front.
      I also noticed that he looks at me especially when I’m laughing. It’s weird, I love him so much.
      If you need more information about this, just ask me. I will check this page everyday

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 26, 2017 at 5:44 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He is likely close friends with the person that he laughs with. Take this time to determine what you want for the future with this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Girl!

    9. Rose

      November 25, 2017 at 4:10 am

      My crush is my very close guy friend and he know but every one teases and tells me that he like me back and he told me he does but their is always a lot of eye contact and a lot of touching,I asked him out and he just said or.

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 25, 2017 at 6:27 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He may be confused or uncertain about his feelings. Attempt to spend additional time with him, as this will strengthen your mutual emotional connection. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Rose!

    10. Anon

      August 20, 2017 at 10:50 am

      Can u define what a deep stare a guy gives when he likes someone is like? I can feel a difference in the way my crush stares at me its longer and stronger, but i dont particularly know what it means

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 20, 2017 at 10:38 pm

        If you notice that someone stares at you for a long time and their eyes are focused directly on you, then it is a deep stare. Many people experience these stares when looking directly into someone’s eyes. Continue to learn about this person’s actions. In time, you will understand the actions that this person makes. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Anon!

    11. Cmya

      August 9, 2017 at 11:10 pm

      It’s doesn’t matter if i know them or not guys love to look at my eyes A lot and I don’t get it their just Brown I mean I’m naturally beautiful but I just don’t get it and certain guy friends I hug love pulling me close to them by my waist as I wrap my arms around their neck but one of my certain guy friend I like him but we keep friend zoning each other and hes always wrapping his arm around my waist when we hug in hallways or when we sit next to eachother at lunch and I squeeze his shoulders his arm ends up on my waist but this other friend on mine just loves touching me I dont know how I feel about him he loves looking at me and grabbing my waist pulling me against his chest but when people look he acts like we’re wrestling it’s confusing help

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 10, 2017 at 2:39 pm

        It is likely that this person is interested in developing a relationship with you. When people touch you often and tell you that you have beautiful eyes, it is a sign that they are attracted to you. Take this time to determine if you want to develop a relationship with him at this time. If you do, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Cmya!

    12. Bella

      August 1, 2017 at 3:10 am

      Im pretty sure my crush likes me, over 4 of his friends have said and teased him about me, he stares at me in class and we walk after school together. We email each other during class and i got excused to go to the restroom yesterday and he asked after then we talked and i went back into the classroom first then he did a few minutes later to not make it obvious we were talking. When he entered his friend saw and said ‘Oooh, they went out of class togetherrrr!!’ After school i overheard his friend talking about us and he said we were emailing in class, went out of the classroom at the EXACT same time’, then he said quietly ‘and they both like each other!!’ and did a small squeal lol. I dont know if he likes me, but his friend has asked me if i like him and he has blushed and tried to ‘shut him up’. Nearly everyone in my class has asked if we like each other and my friend said when he talks to me he stares at my breasts, idk if this is true or not. Can someone please help??
      Should i confess my feelings? I am too scared to confess, i want him to tell me he likes me or have him GUESS i like him.

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 2, 2017 at 7:23 pm

        He is very interested in developing a relationship with you. He is attracted to you and his friends know that he has emotional feelings toward you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Always be honest with him, and you will cause him to feel more confident in his actions. Have a great day, Bella!

    13. Francesca

      July 4, 2017 at 4:36 pm

      Hey I have a problem with my crush and I just wanted advice.
      So basically my girl friend tried to talk to him and become friends with him but when she introduced herself he took ages to reply which was an hr or two and all he said was k which totally putted her off from asking If he likes anyone, my guy friend then texts my crush and he also took very long to reply again and all he said was k. After a few months I got the courage to text him and in the matter of minutes he texts me fast. When I introduced myself he said kl Hi. He said flipping hi which he has never done to any of my friends on snapchat. I started asking him questions about himself and he asking me questions as well. It was then when I told him good luck on a certain test that is coming. He just blanked me without even saying good luck to me which showed me he didnt really care for me. He then sent me a post saying streaks and I was like I can’t be asked sorry maybe next time. And then he just blanked me for 5 hours and was texting my guy best friend for ages but hasn’t replied to my text msg. I gave him the whole day to msg me but he still hasn’t. But anyways all the time he staring at me and my guy friend which is really creepy and he has also looked at my body and then my eyes. All he ever does is stare at me or my guy friend

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 5, 2017 at 1:09 pm

        It is possible that he is not interested in developing a relationship with you at this time. He also be confused about his feelings. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then be direct and honest with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he wants to be with you, then he will explain his feelings as well. If he does not want to be with you at this time, then allow your thoughts of him to fade away. Perhaps move your focus to your close friends. Have a great day, Francesca!

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