When a Guy Blocks You: What Does It Mean and What to Do

By on May 16, 2018

One of the worst things about social media is the fact that you can be deleted and blocked from someone’s life without so much as a second thought, in less time than it takes to blink. To be so happy in love one minute, only to find that you can’t even see your BAE’s Facebook or Instagram page the next; there’s only one thing to do when you’ve been blocked by your guy … 

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Don’t React

Of course, there are a hundred and one ways of dealing with this particular situation, but one thing is for certain — he’s mad or sad and needs a little time. He’s *that* mad he doesn’t even want to see your social media accounts, let alone speak to you. If the two of you try to communicate on any level there’s a good chance the situation will just get worse … and more heated. You’ll both say things that you didn’t mean but the other person won’t be able to forget that you ever said them and that little lover’s tiff you had has the potential to turn into something deeply troubling. Perhaps even relationship-ending. 

When a guy blocks you, give him some space. Let him have some time to think and relax. If the two of you have come to blows, chasing him further is just going to chase him away. You shouldn’t beg for his time, nor should you keep chasing him for it. If he doesn’t want you in his life right now, get on with yours. 

  • Get the girls around and have some drinks and a movie. 
  • Invite your parents around for dinner and a catchup. 
  • Go to the gym like you keep saying you’re going to do, but never do. 
  • Do something else — don’t pine for him, don’t sit and wait for him, just get on with your life and let things play out just as they’re going to. 

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Don’t React Like This … 

If he blocks you on Facebook, don’t message him on Instagram. He’ll block you on there too, and then you’ll need to resort to using Twitter. What if he blocks you there? Whatsapp next? Then iMessage? What about Skype? 

If you keep going around the social media accounts, there’s a good chance he’ll just keep blocking you. Take the first blocking as a sign — this chap needs his space. 

> > If he WANTS you to chase him around the various social media accounts to “prove” how much you’ll do for him, he’s playing games. You don’t need that drama in your life. Boy, bye! < <

While we’re on the subject of other things NOT to do, don’t scream and shout at him. We’ve said it before and we’ll say it again — he needs some space. Shouting and screaming at him is not giving him space. We know that you don’t want to lose your BAE, but hurling abuse at him is not going to keep him in your clutches. 

One final point that we feel it is important to bring to your attention — stalking his social media accounts using your friend’s social media account is always a good idea in theory but usually ends up going wrong somewhere along the line. You will accidentally ‘like’ an update from months ago, for example, making him aware of EXACTLY what you’re doing. He’s going to know that it’s your best friend letting you use her account. 

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Do React Like This …

Spend some time on yourself — treating and loving yourself. Self-care is very underrated but oh-so-vital, and if he won’t love you in the way that you would like him to, perhaps it’s about time that you started to love yourself? 

Treat yourself to a pamper weekend or have that extra slice of chocolate cake. You’ll add an extra half an hour on at the gym to compensate for it, right? 

Get your hair done. Nails? Yeah, get a manicure while you’re there too. All of those things that you don’t seem to find the time to do anymore now that you’re in a relationship; that’s what you should be doing. Sitting around waiting for him to make that unblock call is probably just going to break your heart. As the saying goes, you should be with the guy who ruins your lipstick with kisses, not your mascara with tears. 

When the time is right — when you have both calmed down — you can talk again, perhaps sort out the problems you had or have. But you do need to have calmed down first. You can’t solve an argument by starting a brand new one. You almost must remember that the resolution might not always be quite as you’d hoped. 

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    FT

    January 16, 2020 at 8:27 pm

    There was this guy I was seeing unofficially for almost 3 months before he blocked me out of the blue. We instantly hit it off at the nightclub I met him at; and he was the sweetest guy I’ve ever met. After the club he drove me back to my apartment 4 in the morning after my phone was stolen at that club (happens there all the time), when he walked me to my door, asked me out on a date the next day. The next day we went to a nightclub again (after I replaced my stolen phone) and he bought me roses; and we ended up having sex back at my place. I thought he was just putting up an act for sex, but even after having sex he still wanted to see me; he told me how amazing of a time he had, how amazing the sex was, and how he can’t wait to see me again.

    After that we spoke every single day, and when he was not busy, he messaged me in an abundance; but even when he was very busy, his response time was still reasonable. We would see each other on average about once a week. Which I felt was a healthy amount because we are both busy with school and work; he graduated school a month after I met him so I always pushed him to prioritize building his career over me.

    We went on several other dates and all of them went fantastic; he would often sleep over at my apartment after the date and we would spend time the morning after. And if I was ever in distress, he would drop everything to see me and made sure I’m doing okay.

    A month after we met, I was accepted to do a semester abroad in Europe, he was so happy for me and as time progressed, whenever I brought up leaving for Europe he would get sad and would mention he doesn’t want to think about me leaving. He would tell me how much he is going to miss me and would ask me if I would miss him too, to which I said of course. I also noticed on many occasions he has a major jealousy issue but would often try to mask it. He also he deals with a lot of family issues that leaves him very upset and when that happens he withdraws from everyone and has cancelled our plans a few times because of it. Whenever I expressed my concerns when he withdraws, he would apologise profusely and would make up for it when he felt better.

    The Saturday before he blocked me, we went on a date together to the same nightclub my phone got stolen the first time so he would let me leave his phone in the glove box of his car.
    This Saturday date was after not seeing him for 2 weeks because he was visiting family in Chicago, (and kept telling me how much he missed me when he was gone, he even admitted to having panic attacks in Chicago but was evasive on telling me why).
    After the club, we went back to my place, watched a movie, had sex and slept over, everything was good. The following Tuesday he asked to hang out on Thursday and I agreed. The day after I asked him what he wanted to do on Thursday and he ended up telling me he’s cancelling to help out his cousin with urgent wedding plans (he has mentioned this upcoming wedding many times). I wasn’t upset but I got a little bit annoyed with how he delivered the message of him cancelling our plans and I called him out on it politely. He responded right away apologizing profusely and how upset he is that he annoyed me, I told him it’s not a huge deal and not to worry about it. He ended up making plans with me the following Saturday which I agreed to.

    But by the time Saturday came (10 days before I leave), I only heard from him in the morning when he gives his usual good morning texts to which I replied. But as hours went by I did not hear from him so I msged him on WhatsApp if he’s okay, and as hours went by, still nothing and my messages on WhatsApp would be just one grey checkmark.

    I thought something bad happened to him so I called him on WhatsApp and it rang the whole time, but when I called his main phone line it went straight to voicemail every time. I also emailed him asking if he’s okay and still nothing. So I went and saw my friend and we did some investigating and she called him on her phone and it rang every time you (but he didn’t pick up) to which I realized he had blocked me.

    I was so revolted yet so upset when I realized it. I honestly didn’t see this coming, I know he tends to withdraw when he’s having issues but I never thought he would block me. It made me wonder if he lost interest in me/putting up an act this whole time / if he had another girl but all my friends including my counselor were doubtful about those speculations because he was so consistent this entire time. I never brought up wanting to be in an official/exclusive relationship with him because I didn’t know him well enough plus I’m leaving for Europe real soon for 4 Months. But mind you, he never brought it up either.

    I emailed him yesterday telling him he broke my heart but I still wish him the best; I knew there’s a chance he won’t reply for whatever reason but as long as he read it and he knows how I feel about this situation then I’m satisfied. I’m leaving for Europe in 5 days so if we ever get a chance to see each other again it won’t be for a long time 🙁

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 17, 2020 at 12:01 pm

      Perhaps he just isn’t ready to have a long-distance relationship and handled the situation immaturely. Some people are just not able to have a long-distance relationship, and there’s nothing you can do about it. He should have just told you how he felt instead of blocking you, but some people are afraid of having difficult conversations like that. On the bright side, it sounds like you are moving on to exciting, new things that will distract you as you heal. Good luck and congrats on the study abroad trip!

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    FF

    January 16, 2020 at 8:26 pm

    There was this guy I was seeing unofficially for almost 3 months before he blocked me out of the blue. We instantly hit it off at the nightclub I met him at; and he was the sweetest guy I’ve ever met. After the club he drove me back to my apartment 4 in the morning after my phone was stolen at that club (happens there all the time), when he walked me to my door, asked me out on a date the next day. The next day we went to a nightclub again (after I replaced my stolen phone) and he bought me roses; and we ended up having sex back at my place. I thought he was just putting up an act for sex, but even after having sex he still wanted to see me; he told me how amazing of a time he had, how amazing the sex was, and how he can’t wait to see me again.

    After that we spoke every single day, and when he was not busy, he messaged me in an abundance; but even when he was very busy, his response time was still reasonable. We would see each other on average about once a week. Which I felt was a healthy amount because we are both busy with school and work; he graduated school a month after I met him so I always pushed him to prioritize building his career over me.

    We went on several other dates and all of them went fantastic; he would often sleep over at my apartment after the date and we would spend time the morning after. And if I was ever in distress, he would drop everything to see me and made sure I’m doing okay.

    A month after we met, I was accepted to do a semester abroad in Europe, he was so happy for me and as time progressed, whenever I brought up leaving for Europe he would get sad and would mention he doesn’t want to think about me leaving. He would tell me how much he is going to miss me and would ask me if I would miss him too, to which I said of course. I also noticed on many occasions he has a major jealousy issue but would often try to mask it. He also he deals with a lot of family issues that leaves him very upset and when that happens he withdraws from everyone and has cancelled our plans a few times because of it. Whenever I expressed my concerns when he withdraws, he would apologise profusely and would make up for it when he felt better.

    The Saturday before he blocked me, we went on a date together to the same nightclub my phone got stolen the first time so he would let me leave his phone in the glove box of his car.
    This Saturday date was after not seeing him for 2 weeks because he was visiting family in Chicago, (and kept telling me how much he missed me when he was gone, he even admitted to having panic attacks in Chicago but was evasive on telling me why).
    After the club, we went back to my place, watched a movie, had sex and slept over, everything was good. The following Tuesday he asked to hang out on Thursday and I agreed. The day after I asked him what he wanted to do on Thursday and he ended up telling me he’s cancelling to help out his cousin with urgent wedding plans (he has mentioned this upcoming wedding many times). I wasn’t upset but I got a little bit annoyed with how he delivered the message of him cancelling our plans and I called him out on it politely. He responded right away apologizing profusely and how upset he is that he annoyed me, I told him it’s not a huge deal and not to worry about it. He ended up making plans with me the following Saturday which I agreed to.

    But by the time Saturday came (10 days before I leave), I only heard from him in the morning when he gives his usual good morning texts to which I replied. But as hours went by I did not hear from him so I msged him on WhatsApp if he’s okay, and as hours went by, still nothing and my messages on WhatsApp would be just one grey checkmark.

    I thought something bad happened to him so I called him on WhatsApp and it rang the whole time, but when I called his main phone line it went straight to voicemail every time. I also emailed him asking if he’s okay and still nothing. So I went and saw my friend and we did some investigating and she called him on her phone and it rang every time you (but he didn’t pick up) to which I realized he had blocked me.

    I was so revolted yet so upset when I realized it. I honestly didn’t see this coming, I know he tends to withdraw when he’s having issues but I never thought he would block me. It made me wonder if he lost interest in me/putting up an act this whole time / if he had another girl but all my friends including my counselor were doubtful about those speculations because he was so consistent this entire time. I never brought up wanting to be in an official/exclusive relationship with him because I didn’t know him well enough plus I’m leaving for Europe real soon for 4 Months. But mind you, he never brought it up either.

    I emailed him yesterday telling him he broke my heart but I still wish him the best; I knew there’s a chance he won’t reply for whatever reason but as long as he read it and he knows how I feel about this situation then I’m satisfied. I’m leaving for Europe in 5 days so if we ever get a chance to see each other again it won’t be for a long time 🙁

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 17, 2020 at 12:01 pm

      Perhaps he just isn’t ready to have a long-distance relationship and handled the situation immaturely. Some people are just not able to have a long-distance relationship, and there’s nothing you can do about it. He should have just told you how he felt instead of blocking you, but some people are afraid of having difficult conversations like that. On the bright side, it sounds like you are moving on to exciting, new things that will distract you as you heal. Good luck and congrats on the study abroad trip!

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    Vivian

    January 10, 2020 at 9:12 am

    So this guys and I have been together for over an year. We haven’t made things official because we wanted to see how we would manage this long distance. I visit him Monthly and he has visited me too. But I found out he was talking to other girls Over the summer. We talked about it and try to sort things out but whenever he would answer my calls or texts always made me think he was talking to other girls. Recently I saw that he was snapping Someone on Snapchat at 1 AM and he blocked me when I asked him who he was snapping at 1 AM. I only notice he was talking to someone because his Snapchat score went up but he also had answered my message on Snapchat! So it’s been a week since he has blocked me and he says he’ll unblock me whenever he is ready but it sucks because that’s how we share to each other part of our days. We still talk every night but we’ll be fighting lately about the situation. I don’t know what to do or think. Is it worth pursuing this or not.

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      web admin

      January 11, 2020 at 11:37 am

      He made the decision to block you, but has decided to continue speaking with you. This is a strong sign that your relationship is no longer viable. Address your concerns with him to reach a conclusion of the situation at hand, or make a decision to end your relationship.

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    katy

    January 5, 2020 at 10:23 pm

    so i’ve known this guy since 2016. i used to date one of his bestfriends, so we knew each other but not very personally. & now we’re coworkers so that’s how we became kind of friends again. so anyways a couple days before new years he asked if i wanted to hang out & i said sure. he comes over & we cuddled & we ended up having s3x & then he left. new year’s day he texted me asking me to come over, but i couldn’t because i had already been drinking & i didn’t want to go out drunk, so he said he would come over to my house. i told him it was fine he could but he never responded or came over. now i try to search him on social media & he’s blocked me from part of it. & turns out he had a girlfriend too. & i just don’t know what to do. i already started getting stupid feelings for him, but i wasn’t going to do anything about it because of the fact we were coworkers & coworker relationships don’t work out most of the time. please help, i don’t know what to do

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 6, 2020 at 7:55 pm

      He most likely blocked you for one of two reasons: 1) His girlfriend figured it out somehow and she blocked you. 2) He realized how wrong it is to cheat and decided to completely avoid that temptation again. Either way, I would just focus on moving on. Unless he is single in the future, he won’t (or shouldn’t) reach out again. Good luck!

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    katy

    January 5, 2020 at 10:23 pm

    so i’ve known this guy since 2016. i used to date one of his bestfriends, so we knew each other but not very personally. & now we’re coworkers so that’s how we became kind of friends again. so anyways a couple days before new years he asked if i wanted to hang out & i said sure. he comes over & we cuddled & we ended up having s3x & then he left. new year’s day he texted me asking me to come over, but i couldn’t because i had already been drinking & i didn’t want to go out drunk, so he said he would come over to my house. i told him it was fine he could but he never responded or came over. now i try to search him on social media & he’s blocked me from part of it. & turns out he had a girlfriend too. & i just don’t know what to do. i already started getting stupid feelings for him, but i wasn’t going to do anything about it because of the fact we were coworkers & coworker relationships don’t work out most of the time. i just don’t know what to do now. please help

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 6, 2020 at 7:55 pm

      He most likely blocked you for one of two reasons: 1) His girlfriend figured it out somehow and she blocked you. 2) He realized how wrong it is to cheat and decided to completely avoid that temptation again. Either way, I would just focus on moving on. Unless he is single in the future, he won’t (or shouldn’t) reach out again. Good luck!

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    Elizabeth

    January 5, 2020 at 9:27 pm

    I was casually dating this guy for 4 months and the day after Christmas I made the mistake of showing up at his house unannounced. He then blocked me on Facebook and Instagram. The next day he texted me and said he was upset and disappointed and that I should move on. I went a little crazy and texted him called him a bunch. I don’t know if my number is blocked but it may be. It’s been a week now. Do you think I will hear from him again if I give him space and with time? I really don’t want to leave things like this.

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 6, 2020 at 7:57 pm

      While it is understandable that you want more closure, it seems like he feels like he has enough closure from the relationship. It is unlikely that he’ll change his mind. If there is any chance he will come back though, it will be entirely because he had enough time and space to miss you, so give him space and let him sort things out. Good luck!

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    Katie raggett

    January 5, 2020 at 6:29 am

    So he got angry at me for bringing my friend over after me sending many messages and thinking I would calm down the situation I was blocked on whatsapp. I haven’t been blocked anywhere else and was messaged the next day to be told I would be blocked elsewhere but wasn’t. I’m confused and any advice would be great . Is this over or just cooling off

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 5, 2020 at 9:37 am

      It could be either. Right now, I think he wants to end things completely. If he has a chance to cool off though, he might actually change his mind, so be patient and wait. Good luck!

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    Stella mhatre

    January 3, 2020 at 11:39 am

    So there is guy on whom I had a hug crush.
    N he even knew it through others.
    But I tried to express my feeling to him but it ended nowhere.
    N recently I I lost two precious souls in my life . So I decided to message him . N I did, I told him, “it’s okay if u don’t like me ,or don’t wanna talk but remember if u need me any time I m there”. On this he reacted really sweet it was around 2 at night n v even did a call .. n d call also went well…. But when I tried to search him I discovered that he blocked me…
    N I was fine wid it…
    But now 2-3 days back he started following me n again blocked me

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 3, 2020 at 4:57 pm

      You shared your feelings with him, and he eventually made the decision to block you. This relationship is not viable, so determine what you want for your future without him.

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    Blessing

    January 2, 2020 at 7:42 am

    I met this guy at college. We exchange numbers and he wanted to us to hangout but I wasn’t too willing, coming out of my first two relationship five months ago, I don’t want to just get into another relationship which is base on sex. I let him know of this and he wasn’t too cool about not having sex in a relationship. We fixed a date, but then he asked me out again and I told him I will reply him when we see. I didn’t want to start a new relationship online. I wanted us to get to know each other at least before being intimate. On the day of the date, I called to confirmed the date, he didnt pick up, I sent a message but no reply. Then I notice that he blocked me on WhatsApp. I’m so heartbroken as I was looking forward to the date.

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 2, 2020 at 3:24 pm

      He clearly wanted a relationship with sex, so don’t feel too heartbroken–he couldn’t be the person you wanted because he wanted an entirely different relationship. All you can do now is try your best to move on.

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    A

    January 1, 2020 at 11:40 pm

    Hi,
    Me and my ex broke up several days ago. A week and a half, I think. And as a result, he blocked me everywhere…
    Let me give you a little background: he had some bad, bad days, things were not going as he wished to, so he was in a bad mood (and one of the reasons was me, he cancelled our holiday vacation because I didn’t got along with the group of friends we were supposed to go on the vacation with). And because he had a bad mood, instead of talking to him, I just treated him bad back, because I was feeling that he shouldn’t behave like that.
    So… after some bad conversation via text message I told him that we should break up. He tried to make me feel better, and invite me somewhere to talk, he didn’t agreed with my decision. So I blocked him.
    After one day I realized that I was totally wrong and I should comfort him, be by his side because he is feeling bad. So I unblocked him… but he told me that things should just stay as I left it, and that is for the better.
    I tried to meet with him to apologize for my behavior but he didn’t wanted to, he avoided me completely… So he blocked me everywhere.
    I am so sorry for what I did. I know I needed to learn my lesson but I love him and I would like to tell him that is going to be ok and I will change my behaviour…
    We loved eachother deeply, we didn’t just have a relationship. We were eachother’s first love, he did a lot of things for me, we helped eachother, supported eachother, and he loved me the way I was (I am very impulsive and fight often over everything).
    At this point, I know I just have to wait, cause I can’t do anything. I would like to ask for advice and help before I lost him… now I just can hope.
    I just wanted to Say that if you have a guy that loves you truely you should cherrish him the way that I didn’t…
    Do you think he will come back? I love him so much and I am so afraid he is gone for good this time…

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 2, 2020 at 2:53 pm

      You maintained a relationship with this person, and he made the decision to end your relationship. You are aware of how your behaviors impacted his feelings, and you should apply that knowledge ot your future relationships. It is unlikely that he will return to you, so determine what you want for your future without him. Take this time for introspection, as this will help you better understand how you can successfully navigate your relationships in the future.

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    Emilie

    December 29, 2019 at 11:04 am

    Hi,
    I’ve been in this long distance relationship with a guy for over 6 month now and we are planning on seeing wach other this summer (in about 5 months). I’ve been really needy lately because of my declining mental health and I know he has been fed up with it for a little while. He also has his own mental problems and sometimes just wanna be left alone. At the beginning after he had moved to the other side of the earth, he wanted us to take a break so that we could both focus on ourselves and then catch up when I moved over there (in about 2.5 years), but he was unsure about his decision and we decided to continue the relationship. With this I’m pointing out that he had the balls to break up with me the best way he could, He talked to me about it so that’s why I won’t believe that he has just decided to end it with me. Yesterday I woke up, I wrote him goodmorning and he answered the way he used to and we had a good conversation that ended with I love you on both ends. We didn’t talk after that but after many hours I got a little worried that he hadn’t answered my text (I sent him a question about hunting) so I checked to see if he had been active anywhere, and he had. So I asked him about it and he didn’t answer. I then tried to call him as a desperate attempt to get answers and he blocked me on snapchat (we use snapchat to facetime), then I sent him a text asking him what’s going on and he blocked my number. Then (because I was in panick don’t judge I know now that I shouldn’t have) I tried calling him via instagram and he blocked me there too. I haven’t sent him stuff like that after this.

    Now how I noticed that he had blocked my number was that my iMessages wouldn’t send, but when I woke up this morning the message had sent so I guess that he unblocked me at some point.

    I googled around and found a girl that had a similar problem as me, and she had sent him a message saying that she was sorry and that she was done with being annoying (rough summary), so I decided to send a similar message to him in hope of him unblocking me again sometime soon. In the message I sent I explained that I realized that I was being unfair with the whole thing and that I hoped he would talk to me again and that I love him and miss him. I hope I made the right choice.

    I’m saying all this in hope that someone can tell me what they think of the whole situation and help me out a little.

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      Emilie

      December 29, 2019 at 11:20 am

      I just wanted to add that we are engaged to be married and have been making big plans for when I can finally move after I’m done with school here. Like living together, babies, pets, and everything you can possibly discuss with someone you’re planning on spending the rest of your life with.

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 2, 2020 at 3:56 pm

        Make a decision about what you believe is viable and appropriate for your relationship. It is important that you don’t nourish a relationship that is not viable.

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 2, 2020 at 3:57 pm

      He has made the decision to block you. If he were serious about maintaining a mature relationship with you, then he would not have treated you in this manner. End your relationship, and focus your emotion energy elsewhere.

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    Nancy

    December 29, 2019 at 9:03 am

    me and this guy were seeing each other for 6 months and i introduced him to my 1 year and they seemed to have bonded very well . he would buy her food and toys and play all the time . he buy things for my house and basically lived with us but he never wanted a “title” as in boyfriend and girlfriend . recently he got upset about a game we were playing and i thought he would get over it but he didn’t . he doesn’t communicate his feelings the best and he can be very emotionless at times . i kept asking him what was wrong and why he was so upset but he would only give me the cold shoulder. a day later he came back to my house and still gave me the cold shoulder . he left after being annoyed and kept reading my messages and not responding . when he decided to come back to my house that same night i wasn’t there and he wanted to know when i was coming back home . i told him “shortly, what did you need” . he got upset about that and left again . reading my messages and not responding again .he is up and down like this every now and then and i’m always the one to reach out to him . once he comes back around he never wants to y’all about what happened or what upsets him . i got so frustrated that i told him i won’t force me and my child in his life if he can’t communicate so i packed his belongings and he came and got them and left . after that he blocked me on all social media sites .

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 2, 2020 at 3:51 pm

      He was not a mature partner, and he was unwilling to be the person that your daughter needs. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your energy elsewhere.

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    Keira

    December 26, 2019 at 9:35 pm

    I met this guy we been seeing each other for like 3 months now! He block me on most social media and number but not snap! One minute he saying he like me then the next he like I need space he ain’t ready. We will stop talking for week or 2 and he randomly unblock on one social media and we get talking. I confronted face on not in message and asked him why! He couldn’t answer it! I told him he was hurting me they was no reply! I delete him off snap and blocked him on everything because I think that is the best way to get over him ! but my mind everywhere with what if he did like he scared what if he don’t want the same as me and he scared to tell me! I know he don’t argument.

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 27, 2019 at 6:53 pm

      It is clear that this relationship is not viable. He is immature and he is not someone that you should spend time with. Do not contact him in the future. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. If he reaches out to you in the future, then do no respond to his message.

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    Fion

    December 24, 2019 at 11:19 pm

    I met this guy on Instagram. We dated about a month plus. Everything seems to be fine and a few hours ago we still chatted but so out of sudden he gave me a cold reply. After i told him I’m going to take my rest and the next morning i found out he blocked me on WhatsApp and even on Instagram.i don’t understand why he is acting this way. What should i do?

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 27, 2019 at 7:59 pm

      His behaviors were unexplained and immature. He is not interested in maintaining a relationship with you, and he is not someone that you should attempt to maintain a relationship with. Do not contact him in the future, and avoid speaking with him if he contacts you as well. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere.

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    Cherry Seya

    December 19, 2019 at 9:10 pm

    My ex and I were in a LDR for almost 2yrs and we decided to get married so we filed for fiance petition to the US (he is American) while on the process we had an argument which made him totally block me in social media and told my family he doesn’t think it will work. We had been so good together with a few misunderstandings which we always settled peacefully like all couples. What would be the best way to get him back? He sent an I love you message through a group chat with his kids which I replied to but he left the group and kept me blocked. Is there a chance for reconciliation? I am hoping we could still work it out.

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      web admin

      December 22, 2019 at 10:48 pm

      Be patient and don’t do anything. If he has you blocked, then it definitely means he doesn’t want to talk. If you try to talk to him while he is blocking you, it will only push him further away. If there is any chance left, the best thing you can do is be patient, give him space and let him come back to you when or if he is ready to. Good luck!

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    Jocelyn

    December 18, 2019 at 9:14 pm

    so i had matched with a guy on tinder, we talked, met up and hung out (among other things) and we had really hit it off. he talked to me about personal things and i talked to him about my own insecurities. he asked me questions about myself which i felt showed how much he was interested in me and he acted like he really liked me. he had mentioned he wasn’t looking for a serious relationship because of an ex that hurt him. however his actions showed differently but i went along with it. fast forward to now, he had promised to take me out to dinner and a movie and said he was “so excited to take me out”…he cancels the night off because he “has to work overtime” and promised once again to take me out the next day and claims he’ll make it up to me. well i text him the day of “are we still going out” he says “yes mam i’ll call you when i’m off work” next thing i know, three hours later he had completely blocked me on social media and my phone number! im completely heartbroken, i was the fool who believed “he was different” what gives?!

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      web admin

      December 24, 2019 at 10:29 am

      You met him on a hook up application. He then informed you that he was not looking for a serious relationship. After the two of you spent time together, he made the decision to end your relationship in an immature manner. It seems that those applications are not the best way to establish a long-lasting relationship. You may find benefit in meeting someone at a location that is based around mutual hobbies and interests, such as while hiking or rock climbing.

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        Justine

        December 27, 2019 at 7:19 am

        He blocked me from calling his phone out of the blue. Nothing negative happened. I have some of his things at my house. I dont understand. Last i talked to him was on monday evening. I’m so confused.

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          web admin

          December 27, 2019 at 10:10 am

          Perhaps he just isn’t mature enough to really be in a relationship and decided to “ghost” you instead of telling you he wanted to end things to your face. If this is the case, then you should definitely rethink pursuing any kind of relationship with him. Good luck!

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      Leah Carroll

      December 31, 2019 at 5:03 am

      So I met this guy in school in September! We’re both in the culinary program together. He saw me and I saw him for the first time and we both liked each other. It then started to pursue to hanging out! We only hung out twice! The first time it was like a date but really neither of us were attending it to be a date. We kissed a lot held hands. He then told me there might be a future together. He bought me dinner that night we went for a lovely night walk. It was a dream come true for me. Second time same thing but it was more of a study date. Again we kissed. Then he told me he just wanted to become friends for right now I respected him and agreed Even though I knew it was going to be tough being his friend because I also still had feelings for him and still do. I took it the wrong way and starting doubting if we would ever be together in the future. He knew I had feelings for him. But every time he would always confuse me with something and then he started making excuses not to hangout with me anymore 1 on 1 because I kept ion being overly dramatic with him. We tarted having hasten conversations. There was a time I removed him on Snapchat For a couple of days for which he got mad at me for. Now I called him out on things. He started saying stuff that didn’t make since to me at all. Excuses upon excuses. And we’re friends keep in mind this. We just started becoming friends. Now he’s blocked me on Snapchat and it hurts so bad because I sent something to him that was all my fault. It was all emotional and dramatic and I have a feeling he couldn’t take it anymore. So then why would he kiss me and then tell me things to get my hopes up and then change his mind. He doesn’t know if he even wants a relationship due to the previous one that left him broken hearted. Is he giving up. Does he still like me and just needs space!? We have such a strong social gig together but now I’m blocked by him as a friend and he never told me why! I come to find out that his grandpa has only 2 months live and me sending what I sent made it so much worse. I blame myself and blame him. It’s both our faults. He shouldn’t have blocked me that was childish of him. And I shouldn’t be so emotional over what he says sometimes. What do I do!? I see him in class next Monday and I can’t even and don’t even want to look at him!? Without crying. He’s hurt me just as I confused him. Does he just need space to figure stuff out?

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        web admin

        January 1, 2020 at 12:34 pm

        It sounds like you have answered many of your questions. You sense that he was tired of the drama and emotional stress, so he blocked you. He also only wanted a fling, which is why he kissed you and said he didn’t want an actual relationship. It doesn’t sound like he needs space–he’s already figured out what he wants, even though he could have communicated it better. 🙁

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    Ashley

    December 16, 2019 at 6:18 am

    My bf is hurt by something i did. We were talking. Then couple days later after he said we will be together just he needed space heal he blocked me off all docial media and phone.

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      web admin

      January 5, 2020 at 10:35 am

      He made the decision to block, which is often an indication that your relationship has ended. Speak with him in person, and determine what the future of your relationship holds.

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    Susi

    December 11, 2019 at 9:41 pm

    I am in a long distance relationship with my boyfriend right now.
    Everything was easy and we were happy until he decided to go back to Military.
    We don’t talk enough, and he always says that he’s busy doing an military operation.
    I message him every day even he doesn’t reply.
    It is been a week or so we didn’t talk, I got mad at him and sent him a lot of messages on WhatsApp.
    Then he blocked my WhatsApp without saying anything.
    I texted him and said that I wanted to break up.
    He just said that he needs to concentrate on his work and will come back to me when it’s done.
    And immediately blocked my number.
    It doesn’t make sense for me.
    Does it?

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      web admin

      January 5, 2020 at 11:28 am

      The two of you were maintaining a long distance relationship. He did not give you the attention you desired and you addressed your concerns with him. He made the decision to block you, and your relationship has now ended. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere.

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    alanna

    December 11, 2019 at 4:23 pm

    so there is this guy who has been staring at me and im pretty sure he talks about me to his friends, and i recently caught feelings. my friend gave him my number and we texted for a little bit and then he left me on read and i sent him a text but it still hasn’t sent through… im not sure what to do, i kinda really like this guy but im still tryna keep it lowkey… what should i do? this was our first time talking.

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      web admin

      January 5, 2020 at 11:32 am

      Make a decision about what you want for the future of your relationship. Nourish your partnership by spending additional time together in person.

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    Ginger

    December 8, 2019 at 12:36 am

    What I don’t understand, is a guy who I know was into me and watched all my stories, suddenly blocks me out of the blue? I’m completely baffled. I didn’t send him private messages or harass him other than watching his stories as well and liking his regular posts. We had gone out and he strongly pursued me, but I was just getting out a relationship and slowed things down and suddenly he stopped texting me, but kept following and watching me on Instagram. However, I carefully left him alone including no reactions at all to his stories even though I followed them. He watched all of mine as well, although he rarely liked any posts and nothing recently. Why not just unfollow or mute me, however? I can only guess he does not want me seeing his updates or being part of his life, which I am choosing to respect, although it stings and confuses me because we click so well. Maybe he has moved on with someone else, but why should he care if I see it? It’s not like I was pestering him with messages of any kind. We have a mutual “friend” (whom I suspect liked him herself) who I think may have filled his head with things about me (unflattering, no doubt) because on the night I happen to see her again after several weeks is the night he unfollowed and blocked me. And I didn’t even say hardly a word to her during this occasion other than just be my usual cheery self (I hate drama). I can’t help but think he should have at least tried to ask me about things before believing others if he had cared at all. He knew me before he knew her after all and not long ago (mere weeks) made it strongly obvious at one point he wanted to pursue a relationship with me…Or perhaps I’m overthinking things – I have no clue and likely never will or wouldn’t like the answer if I did ever get it.

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      web admin

      January 12, 2020 at 11:24 pm

      He may have blocked you because he started a new relationship and didn’t want to pursue things. it could be the “friend” saying things to him. It could also have happened because he realized he didn’t want to be just friends and didn’t want a reminder of a relationship he couldn’t have. Whatever the reason, you are probably right in assuming that you aren’t going to figure out the reason anytime soon.

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