Don't Miss

    What Does it Mean When a Guy Stares at You?

    By on September 9, 2016

    As women, I think we have all noticed that men like to look our way- but why do some men take a glance, while others do a full on stare? If you’ve ever noticed a man actually staring at you- not just checking you out for a second- you may have been a little bit creeped out. But don’t judge a book by its cover- there are a lot of reasons why a man may stare at you, and I promise he’s not just being weird.

    b1c277724513b0828e4b5aeb52e8e78d

    He Find You Attractive

    I am pretty sure this one goes without saying: if a man finds you incredibly attractive, then he is going to stare at you. And he probably won’t just stare at your face, either, although that will be his focus of attention for quite some time during this stare-down. He will probably also take a look at your other features as well, of course talking about your chest and boot-ay.

    Men are just naturally drawn to women and their bodies; it is what makes the world go round. And when they find a female who is extremely attractive to them, they are going to stare. They don’t want to forget what you look like once you leave the room, so they will stare long and hard to take in all of your beauty and make a mental image of what you look like. Hey, take this as a compliment, ladies! Someone thinks you’re absolutely beautiful and they can’t look away; really, what’s the harm in that?

    He Wants to Talk to You, But Doesn’t Know How

    A lot- and I mean a LOT- of men have a very difficult time speaking to a woman. So, what is a guy to do? Stare! We already know he finds you incredibly attractive, and he really wants to meet you and get to know you. The only problem is, he is at a total loss for words when it comes to actually introducing himself and striking up a conversation with you. So, being completely at a loss for words and not knowing what to do next, he may just stare at you and freeze. During his stare-down, he is probably thinking about how beautiful you are and how he is just DYING to meet you. He is probably coming up with any question or comment he could probably say to you without you feeling weird or uninterested. His mind is RACING with what to do next, so he freezes, and just looks at you. He is hoping you will notice and YOU make the first move- and if you’re interested in him too, I highly recommend making the first move. He is probably just really shy and totally stunned by your beauty- he can’t even think straight or even SPEAK!

    He Wants to Annoy You

    There are those guys out there: you know, the guy you turned down because he was gross or crude or you simply weren’t interested in him. Well, he takes it upon himself to make you feel bad for not wanting him. He wants to make you feel uncomfortable and annoyed by him; I guess it is his form of (rather stupid) revenge. So, if there is a guy out there who you turned down and wanted nothing to do with after the first date, and he is staring at you, he is probably just trying to keep your attention and ANNOY you as much as he can. Don’t even pay attention to him- especially if he has one of those awful smirks on his face like he is so cool and smug. Seriously, the less attention you pay to him, the quicker it will go away.

    How can you deter this type of stare? DON’T LOOK AT HIM! I know it may be difficult, but keep busy with whatever you’re doing, whether it’s work or school. Try and talk to some of your friends and keep your mind (and eyes) of whatever is going on around you. He will stop staring eventually- I mean, he can’t stare forever, right?

    82cce70602d698e866e86847b76e99d4

    He Wants to Sleep With You

    Some men are pigs, let’s just be honest. If you notice a guy staring at you- but he is much more interested in staring at your curves and body- he is probably dreaming about sleeping with you. He is probably thinking of the quickest way he can get you into the sheets. He doesn’t want to get to know you or anything- his mind and eyes are focused only on your womanly shape and he doesn’t care if you know it. Yes, this can be a little bit creepy and rather disgusting, but hopefully he doesn’t keep at it too long; in fact, if he’s staring at your body like that, he’s probably just as confident to come up and ask you out- in which case, say NO!

    72 Comments

    1. Maria

      December 10, 2017 at 8:43 am

      Hi! I have feeling with a guy in my uni. We knew each other from student admission, he approached me first , said hello to me and talked about school stuffs. We didn’t exchange personal contact and personal things. And the unexpected thing is he’s in the same class with me until now so, It’s almost 2nd years I’m in uni and he becomes my classmates. In the faculty, I never see he talks with other girls except me. He likes to stare at me whenever I’m talk with my friends, laugh ,eat, present my homework presentation and I always caught him stare at me. When I caught him, sometimes he throw away his stare and sometimes stare and smile. Sometimes we like to talk but, not into personal stuffs. He gazing at my eyes so deep like an owl and it’s truly makes me nervous as hell. I feel bit like him because, he’s cheerful ,funny , humorist, sometimes he’s moody which is he looks mysterious and he always initiate to talk with me, make a conversation with me even the conversation is contains small talk such as exams , homework , weather, teacher, hair style. He likes to ask me when I wanna go out from class. But, there’s one thing that makes me confused so much. He only talk to me when he isn’t with his group. He has big group contains 7 people include 2 his close friend. (when the class only contains few classmates and his close friend ) and I think he’s afraid their friend will teasing (?) and his voice becomes small when he talks to me.Does he has interest in me? Oh ya, we haven’t become friend in social media and we never talk in whatsapp or email until now

      • web admin

        web admin

        December 10, 2017 at 6:34 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Maria!

    2. Corin

      December 7, 2017 at 6:00 pm

      Hi, there! I wanna share something with you. So, there is a guy in my University. He has same age like me. Honestly, I don’t like him but, I’m curious with him. I knew him in a new student party. He came to me , say hi and talked to me. Also he asked did you like playing game and computer? why I choose IT as my major and my University. But in that time, he didn’t ask my personal contact like WhatsApp or kind of that. After the party was end, new class beginning and he’s in the same class with me. Sometimes, in the class he approach me like say hi and stare at me in the far and talk to me. He seldom talk with female friends in my class. We only have small talk like how’s your exams and homework. He’s clever in the class, I ever studying with him and my friend and in that time, he asked me did you understand? after the studying group session end He also realize when I have a new haircut. When we talk, he gazing at me like deep and sharp and sometimes in the near distance. And it makes me nervous because of his eyes and in the near distance. Mostly, he always open the conversation, because I’m an introvert and he’s​ an extrovert. I ever caught him stare at me and if I caught him, he’ll smile at me and sometimes talk to me. But, two days ago he played hot and cold with me. He passed me in the morning and he didn’t say hi to me. He only say hi to my close friend. but I can see he still stare at me in the far when I laugh and talk with my friends but, I act like ‘I didn’t see you’. And in the evening, he smile at me. And yesterday, I heard in the stairs, he ask to my close friend and search me because I haven’t come to class and after that, I wanna come to him and my close friend but, he leaved my close friend and he went away but, he back and stare at me again. We never texting before and haven’t follow each other in social Media. I don’t wanna assume he likes me or not, but in your opinion, he likes me or he only wanna play with me? I’m so afraid if a guy only play with me. Thank you :))

      • web admin

        web admin

        December 8, 2017 at 9:25 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in developing a long term relationship with you. He may only be interested in a short term fling. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Corin!

        • Corin

          December 9, 2017 at 3:26 am

          Thank you for reply my comment. Well, I don’t know why suddenly I have some interest with him.But,.. I’m still not sure about my feelings with him also I’m still not sure he has interest with me or not. I wanna make a move like talk with him in class but, I’m extremely shy and I’m afraid to open the conversation with boys (that’s why I seldom has male friends.). I also feel difficult to read someone’s character smile and kind of that. Yeah, I started to stalk his facebook and I found something.. he had 2 female friends (maybe they were his close friends) and 1 photo together with a girl (one of them) when he was in senior high school. It’s so different with his condition in university because, I never see him has female friends in university. I’m afraid he still has feelings with his female friend.

          • web admin

            web admin

            December 9, 2017 at 11:32 pm

            Your feelings regarding his relationship with this person are based on old Facebook photos. Take this time to determine what you want for this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. There is no reason to be shy. If you are unwilling to speak with him, then perhaps attempt to reach out to him on social media. Have a great day, Corin!

    3. Alice john

      December 4, 2017 at 7:41 am

      There is a guy I like in the school.He is not in my class.his class is next to mine.In break or when he has not a lesson he is always standing in front of my class and talking to the girls of my class and always staring at me but he has never talked to me even when it’s break I am going in my class he always stares at me .but I don’t know what does that stare means?but i wanna know does he like me ? And also i have acne on my face i don’t know if he is staring at me because he this I am creepy ugly or weird or he is interested in Me?

      • web admin

        web admin

        December 4, 2017 at 5:55 pm

        Do not be concerned with the acne that is on your face. It is normal for people to have have acne. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of your relationship. It is possible that he is interested in becoming your friend. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Alice!

    4. Cat

      November 10, 2017 at 12:47 pm

      Hi there, can you help me?
      I work with a guy that I am inexplicably drawn to. I feel so much attraction to him that I worry it is all in my head and not mutual. I have noticed when he talks to me, he looks into my eyes, but, his gaze also travels around my face, feature to feature. He smiles throughout. It’s like he is studying my face. I tell myself it doesn’t necessarily mean attraction, although I have read otherwise. He is also extremely helpful towards me, offers lifts, holds doors, comes and talks to me, is sweet and kind. What is your opinion on my situation and what should I do? Thank you. X

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 10, 2017 at 4:54 pm

        It is likely that he is attracted to you. It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Cat!

    5. lourane

      September 22, 2017 at 4:12 pm

      Hi, there is a guy at work he keeps on staring at me whenever he sees me he keeps his eyes on me and I if I hold it he keeps, he hold it too; he keeps his eyes fixated into mine. This has been the case since two years and he still didn’t make a move. I know that he is keep asking about me however he have never ever talked to me or said hi or even responded to my (hi) and if he was close to me either he runs away or just stare into my eyes with a blank look- no expression at all, what does it mean? If I wasn’t look directly at him I noticed several times that his eyes are actually following me.. what is tge message he is trying to convey?

      • web admin

        web admin

        September 22, 2017 at 8:22 pm

        It is likely that he has thoughts that are about you. He likely is or has been interested in developing a relationship with you. He may be confused or uncertain about your feelings toward him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If he makes you feel uncomfortable, then speak with him so he understands. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Lourane!

    6. Confused

      September 11, 2017 at 4:12 am

      There a guy in my college in starting i found him staring at me giving me attention many times i have seen him looking at me in the break aur audi aur during departure even he notices my actions i think ….. I havnt paid attention before bt when this hppned continiously 2-5days then i noticed him ….. According to me when he got to know that i started noticing that he stares at me he has stoped looking directly to me as before now he try to look indirectly …try to be front for more tym as possible …i find him shy …what should i understand does he want to talk bt he is nt able to or there some other reason …. Should i ask him….. If he want to talk something to me ?

      • web admin

        web admin

        September 11, 2017 at 10:14 pm

        He may be interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine your feelings toward him. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Confused!

        • Confused

          September 13, 2017 at 4:04 am

          Hey thanks for ur advice….i found that from 2-3 days he tries to stay longer in front …. Like uses different excuses fill bottle aur reading notices from notice board what should i understand by that he has the courage to talk bt nw he is jst observing me that i also give him response or not
          Is that so??? Aur i should take tym and make a frst move towards him ????????

          • web admin

            web admin

            September 14, 2017 at 10:16 pm

            It is likely that he is interested in speaking with you. He may be confused or uncertain about your feelings toward him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. This will give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Confused!

    7. Shy

      September 8, 2017 at 2:06 pm

      What if you’re shy..and he stares at me from the moment I walk in class and then when I make eye contact with him. He doesn’t look away but ? I don’t know how I should start a conversation with him or what to expect. We do look at each other..just can’t seem to start a conversation

      • web admin

        web admin

        September 8, 2017 at 9:55 pm

        If you are shy and unwilling to make the first move, then attract your partner. You will find you are benefited by speaking with people. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Attempt to spend additional time with him, as this will help to nourish your relationship. Give him an opportunity to share his thoughts as well. Have a great day, Shy!

    8. Brianna

      September 7, 2017 at 1:40 pm

      So there is this guy in my science class and I’ve talked to him before but nothing recently. I started to develop a crush but I wanted to keep it on the low until I was sure but now…I find him staring at me. His expression is blank and I’m a sky person so I usually look away before he does. I looked it up but I’m still unsure of what. It means. If you could help that would be fantastic. Thank you for this artical

      • web admin

        web admin

        September 8, 2017 at 8:37 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is clear that you have feelings for this time. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Perhaps attempt to spend additional time with him, as this will bring the two of you closer. Have a great day, Brianna!

    9. Sullie

      August 28, 2017 at 12:28 am

      There’s this guy at church, I’ve noticed him before. Lately I noticed him staring at me. When I catch him and lock eyes he doesn’t look away. I stare back for a while to see his reaction. It’s a stare downn till I look away unsure how to react. His face is blank. It bothers me since we’ve never me. Does he find me attractive? I thought of talking to him, but unsure

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 28, 2017 at 5:55 pm

        It is certainly possible that he finds you attractive. He may be interested in developing a relationship with you. It is likely that the two of you share similar spiritual beliefs. Your families may approve of the relationship. Take this time to determine if you want to develop a relationship with him. If you do, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Sullie!

    10. Lou

      August 17, 2017 at 12:54 pm

      Theres a guy at work. I noticed started doing stuff to get my attention. Block my way, once he was working outside an guy ftom in van came out an looked my way when he looked like he asked him something. Glances. Smiles. Following behind me. Checking me out time to time. I was with sum1 whrn all.this happened. But now im.not . Plus we were outside. I was nervous. Think he felt it. Then he decided to ask if i was ok. I said yeah he said are u sure. I said yeah. Then nothing. Now again just stares an glances from him…

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 17, 2017 at 7:37 pm

        It sounds as though he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He likely is attracted to you. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feeling. Allow him to share himself with you as well. This will ensure that the two of you properly nourish your relationship. Have a great day, Lou!

    11. Confused

      August 4, 2017 at 3:42 pm

      I have caught my fitness instructor staring at me across a crowded hall a few times during very busy classes (over 50 ladies). When I noticed one time I did a move which he mirrored, and another time I caught him, he just stared back and scrunched up his face at me in a sweet way. He also quite often singles me out during classes and pays extra attention towards me. I’m sure he’s taken a liking to me but really confused as he is apparently already in a relationship with someone! Just not sure how to tell him that I like him too and whether I should as I know he’s with someone else. Please advise

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 4, 2017 at 9:46 pm

        If he is in a relationship with someone else at this time, then do not attempt to develop a relationship with him. If he is available and you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. It is likely that he is interested in you on some level. Have a great day, Confused!

    12. Trainer Lady

      July 7, 2017 at 6:24 pm

      Loved the way you phrased this. There’s a trainer at my gym ( I am also a trainer, but am not there often), who I found staring at me. I have only been going to this gym for about two months and just recently realized that he was watching me. I honestly can say that I am pretty sure he noticed me long before I realized he was staring. He was training a client but I would see him watching me through the mirror. Recently he was walking though the gym and I watched him walk away. When he came back, I looked up and he glanced in my direction, smiled then kept walking. I saw him yesterday and finally said hi. He seemed almost too nervous to open his mouth to respond. I saw him again, two more times and both times his eyes were fixated on me. Long story short…what the heck do I do now??

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 7, 2017 at 9:09 pm

        It is highly likely that he is attracted to you and has an interest in developing a relationship with you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he is shy or has trouble speaking, then he has very strong feelings for you. If he wants to develop a relationship with you, then determine what you want for your future. Have a great day, Trainer!

    Leave a Reply

    Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *