What Does it Mean When a Guy Stares at You?

By on September 9, 2016






As women, I think we have all noticed that men like to look our way- but why do some men take a glance, while others do a full on stare? If you’ve ever noticed a man actually staring at you- not just checking you out for a second- you may have been a little bit creeped out. But don’t judge a book by its cover- there are a lot of reasons why a man may stare at you, and I promise he’s not just being weird.

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He Find You Attractive

I am pretty sure this one goes without saying: if a man finds you incredibly attractive, then he is going to stare at you. And he probably won’t just stare at your face, either, although that will be his focus of attention for quite some time during this stare-down. He will probably also take a look at your other features as well, of course talking about your chest and boot-ay.

Men are just naturally drawn to women and their bodies; it is what makes the world go round. And when they find a female who is extremely attractive to them, they are going to stare. They don’t want to forget what you look like once you leave the room, so they will stare long and hard to take in all of your beauty and make a mental image of what you look like. Hey, take this as a compliment, ladies! Someone thinks you’re absolutely beautiful and they can’t look away; really, what’s the harm in that?

He Wants to Talk to You, But Doesn’t Know How

A lot- and I mean a LOT- of men have a very difficult time speaking to a woman. So, what is a guy to do? Stare! We already know he finds you incredibly attractive, and he really wants to meet you and get to know you. The only problem is, he is at a total loss for words when it comes to actually introducing himself and striking up a conversation with you. So, being completely at a loss for words and not knowing what to do next, he may just stare at you and freeze. During his stare-down, he is probably thinking about how beautiful you are and how he is just DYING to meet you. He is probably coming up with any question or comment he could probably say to you without you feeling weird or uninterested. His mind is RACING with what to do next, so he freezes, and just looks at you. He is hoping you will notice and YOU make the first move- and if you’re interested in him too, I highly recommend making the first move. He is probably just really shy and totally stunned by your beauty- he can’t even think straight or even SPEAK!

He Wants to Annoy You

There are those guys out there: you know, the guy you turned down because he was gross or crude or you simply weren’t interested in him. Well, he takes it upon himself to make you feel bad for not wanting him. He wants to make you feel uncomfortable and annoyed by him; I guess it is his form of (rather stupid) revenge. So, if there is a guy out there who you turned down and wanted nothing to do with after the first date, and he is staring at you, he is probably just trying to keep your attention and ANNOY you as much as he can. Don’t even pay attention to him- especially if he has one of those awful smirks on his face like he is so cool and smug. Seriously, the less attention you pay to him, the quicker it will go away.

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How can you deter this type of stare? DON’T LOOK AT HIM! I know it may be difficult, but keep busy with whatever you’re doing, whether it’s work or school. Try and talk to some of your friends and keep your mind (and eyes) of whatever is going on around you. He will stop staring eventually- I mean, he can’t stare forever, right?

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He Wants to Sleep With You

Some men are pigs, let’s just be honest. If you notice a guy staring at you- but he is much more interested in staring at your curves and body- he is probably dreaming about sleeping with you. He is probably thinking of the quickest way he can get you into the sheets. He doesn’t want to get to know you or anything- his mind and eyes are focused only on your womanly shape and he doesn’t care if you know it. Yes, this can be a little bit creepy and rather disgusting, but hopefully he doesn’t keep at it too long; in fact, if he’s staring at your body like that, he’s probably just as confident to come up and ask you out- in which case, say NO!





62 Comments

  1. lourane

    September 22, 2017 at 4:12 pm

    Hi, there is a guy at work he keeps on staring at me whenever he sees me he keeps his eyes on me and I if I hold it he keeps, he hold it too; he keeps his eyes fixated into mine. This has been the case since two years and he still didn’t make a move. I know that he is keep asking about me however he have never ever talked to me or said hi or even responded to my (hi) and if he was close to me either he runs away or just stare into my eyes with a blank look- no expression at all, what does it mean? If I wasn’t look directly at him I noticed several times that his eyes are actually following me.. what is tge message he is trying to convey?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 22, 2017 at 8:22 pm

      It is likely that he has thoughts that are about you. He likely is or has been interested in developing a relationship with you. He may be confused or uncertain about your feelings toward him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If he makes you feel uncomfortable, then speak with him so he understands. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Lourane!

  2. Confused

    September 11, 2017 at 4:12 am

    There a guy in my college in starting i found him staring at me giving me attention many times i have seen him looking at me in the break aur audi aur during departure even he notices my actions i think ….. I havnt paid attention before bt when this hppned continiously 2-5days then i noticed him ….. According to me when he got to know that i started noticing that he stares at me he has stoped looking directly to me as before now he try to look indirectly …try to be front for more tym as possible …i find him shy …what should i understand does he want to talk bt he is nt able to or there some other reason …. Should i ask him….. If he want to talk something to me ?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 11, 2017 at 10:14 pm

      He may be interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine your feelings toward him. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Confused!

      • Confused

        September 13, 2017 at 4:04 am

        Hey thanks for ur advice….i found that from 2-3 days he tries to stay longer in front …. Like uses different excuses fill bottle aur reading notices from notice board what should i understand by that he has the courage to talk bt nw he is jst observing me that i also give him response or not
        Is that so??? Aur i should take tym and make a frst move towards him ????????

        • web admin

          web admin

          September 14, 2017 at 10:16 pm

          It is likely that he is interested in speaking with you. He may be confused or uncertain about your feelings toward him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. This will give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Confused!

  3. Shy

    September 8, 2017 at 2:06 pm

    What if you’re shy..and he stares at me from the moment I walk in class and then when I make eye contact with him. He doesn’t look away but ? I don’t know how I should start a conversation with him or what to expect. We do look at each other..just can’t seem to start a conversation

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 8, 2017 at 9:55 pm

      If you are shy and unwilling to make the first move, then attract your partner. You will find you are benefited by speaking with people. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Attempt to spend additional time with him, as this will help to nourish your relationship. Give him an opportunity to share his thoughts as well. Have a great day, Shy!

  4. Brianna

    September 7, 2017 at 1:40 pm

    So there is this guy in my science class and I’ve talked to him before but nothing recently. I started to develop a crush but I wanted to keep it on the low until I was sure but now…I find him staring at me. His expression is blank and I’m a sky person so I usually look away before he does. I looked it up but I’m still unsure of what. It means. If you could help that would be fantastic. Thank you for this artical

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 8, 2017 at 8:37 pm

      It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is clear that you have feelings for this time. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Perhaps attempt to spend additional time with him, as this will bring the two of you closer. Have a great day, Brianna!

  5. Sullie

    August 28, 2017 at 12:28 am

    There’s this guy at church, I’ve noticed him before. Lately I noticed him staring at me. When I catch him and lock eyes he doesn’t look away. I stare back for a while to see his reaction. It’s a stare downn till I look away unsure how to react. His face is blank. It bothers me since we’ve never me. Does he find me attractive? I thought of talking to him, but unsure

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 28, 2017 at 5:55 pm

      It is certainly possible that he finds you attractive. He may be interested in developing a relationship with you. It is likely that the two of you share similar spiritual beliefs. Your families may approve of the relationship. Take this time to determine if you want to develop a relationship with him. If you do, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Sullie!

  6. Lou

    August 17, 2017 at 12:54 pm

    Theres a guy at work. I noticed started doing stuff to get my attention. Block my way, once he was working outside an guy ftom in van came out an looked my way when he looked like he asked him something. Glances. Smiles. Following behind me. Checking me out time to time. I was with sum1 whrn all.this happened. But now im.not . Plus we were outside. I was nervous. Think he felt it. Then he decided to ask if i was ok. I said yeah he said are u sure. I said yeah. Then nothing. Now again just stares an glances from him…

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 17, 2017 at 7:37 pm

      It sounds as though he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He likely is attracted to you. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feeling. Allow him to share himself with you as well. This will ensure that the two of you properly nourish your relationship. Have a great day, Lou!

  7. Confused

    August 4, 2017 at 3:42 pm

    I have caught my fitness instructor staring at me across a crowded hall a few times during very busy classes (over 50 ladies). When I noticed one time I did a move which he mirrored, and another time I caught him, he just stared back and scrunched up his face at me in a sweet way. He also quite often singles me out during classes and pays extra attention towards me. I’m sure he’s taken a liking to me but really confused as he is apparently already in a relationship with someone! Just not sure how to tell him that I like him too and whether I should as I know he’s with someone else. Please advise

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 4, 2017 at 9:46 pm

      If he is in a relationship with someone else at this time, then do not attempt to develop a relationship with him. If he is available and you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. It is likely that he is interested in you on some level. Have a great day, Confused!

  8. Trainer Lady

    July 7, 2017 at 6:24 pm

    Loved the way you phrased this. There’s a trainer at my gym ( I am also a trainer, but am not there often), who I found staring at me. I have only been going to this gym for about two months and just recently realized that he was watching me. I honestly can say that I am pretty sure he noticed me long before I realized he was staring. He was training a client but I would see him watching me through the mirror. Recently he was walking though the gym and I watched him walk away. When he came back, I looked up and he glanced in my direction, smiled then kept walking. I saw him yesterday and finally said hi. He seemed almost too nervous to open his mouth to respond. I saw him again, two more times and both times his eyes were fixated on me. Long story short…what the heck do I do now??

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 7, 2017 at 9:09 pm

      It is highly likely that he is attracted to you and has an interest in developing a relationship with you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he is shy or has trouble speaking, then he has very strong feelings for you. If he wants to develop a relationship with you, then determine what you want for your future. Have a great day, Trainer!

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