300+ This or That Questions and Game Rules

By on September 15, 2016

If you’re looking for a fun game that can help you get to know everyone around you, look no further! The This or That game is perfect for breaking the ice and helping everyone get acquainted with one another. It’s also amazing for getting to know each other in a fun way so you never have to deal with the awkward moments!


There are a couple different ways you can play this game if you really want. You can play in a group setting where you each take a turn answering questions. For this option, you can create game cards with the questions or you can have someone ask the question themselves. However, you only have 5 seconds to choose between the two and if you can’t, you don’t get the point.

The other option is to play in teams if you have a really big team. The idea of the game is the same, except your group has 10 seconds to agree on which one to choose and if you can’t, you don’t get the point.

After the game is over, the group or player with the most points wins! But the real point of this game is to get to know each other and have some fun with the questions!

This or That

Since there are SO many different questions This or That questions, I’ve decided to separate them into categories. You can even play this game by seeing who wins the most categories and add up the points that way! Don’t forget to have fun and answer quickly!

family-and-friend-laughingFood and Drink

Not only will you get to know people really well with these questions, but you can even see who you want to invite to a dinner and who you should never go to dinner with.

  1. Coffee or tea?
  2. Wine or beer?
  3. Bacon or sausage?
  4. Tea or soda?
  5. Grill or Bar-b-que?
  6. Dust or vacuum?
  7. Pasta or rice?
  8. Scrambled eggs or over easy eggs?
  9. Wheat bread or white bread?
  10. English muffin or bagel?
  11. Potato salad or pasta salad?
  12. Baked potatoes or mashed potatoes?
  13. Hamburger or hot dog?
  14. Cake or pie?
  15. Ice cream or sherbet?
  16. Electric stove or gas stove?
  17. Oven grilled meat or barbecued meat?
  18. Organic fruits and vegetables or non-organic fruits and vegetables?
  19. GMOs or no GMOs
  20. Black coffee or cream and sugar?
  21. Fast food or sit-down restaurant?
  22. Candy or gum?
  23. Grilled chicken or fried chicken?
  24. Salad or French-fries?
  25. Potato chips or potato salad?
  26. Diet soda or regular soda?
  27. Eat in or dine out?
  28. Salt or pepper?
  29. Chinese food or Japanese food?
  30. Ice cream or sorbet?
  31. Chocolate or vanilla?
  32. Ketchup or mustard?
  33. Pickles or cucumbers?
  34. Chicken or fish?
  35. Beef or pork?
  36. Lobster or crab?
  37. Fried shrimp or boiled shrimp?
  38. Fudge or caramel?
  39. Doritos or Cheetos?
  40. Burger King or McDonalds?
  41. Apples or bananas?
  42. Mexican food or Italian Food?
  43. Chicken or Beef?
  44. Pepsi or Coke?
  45. Regular or extra crispy?
  46. Low calorie or tastes great?
  47. Mint or cinnamon?
  48. Chocolate or vanilla?
  49. Strawberry shake or peach shake?
  50. Pulp or no pulp?
  51. Sprite or 7up?
  52. Strawberries or blueberries?
  53. Popcorn or candy?
  54. Milkshake or smoothie?
  55. Cake or cupcake?
  56. Jell-O or pudding?
  57. Fruit or vegetables?
  58. Chocolate or hard candy?
  59. Spaghetti or pizza?
  60. Expresso or latte?
  61. Skittles or Starbursts?
  62. Spoon or fork?
  63. Orange or apple?
  64. Cookies or cake?
  65. Nachos or French Fries?
  66. Hot or cold?
  67. Baked or fried?
  68. Honey mustard or BBQ sauce?
  69. Ketchup or mustard?
  70. Pancakes or waffles?
  71. Raisins or nuts?
  72. Picnic or nice restaurant?
  73. Sweet pickles or dill pickles?
  74. Crushed ice or cubed ice?
  75. Dark chocolate or white chocolate?
  76. Spicy or mild?
  77. Apple juice or cranberry juice?



If you’re looking to have a good time and get a little goofy with this game, these questions are definitely the way to do it.

  1. Fat or thin?
  2. Underwater or up in the air?
  3. Student or teacher?
  4. Doctor or patient?
  5. Trash or treasure?
  6. Fast or slow?
  7. Trees or flowers?
  8. Cloth or paper?
  9. Carnivore or herbivore?
  10. Lost or found?
  11. Trash or treasure?
  12. Find or lose?
  13. Prince or frog?
  14. Big ears or big nose?
  15. Small eyes or small mouth?
  16. Cold or flu?
  17. Inside out or right side out?


These are the best This or That questions because you can find out who you would most likely hang out with out of all the people playing the game. You’ll find out who has the same interests as you and it’s a perfect way to ask someone to hang out, too!

  1. Aerobic exercise or yoga?
  2. Arctic or the tropics?
  3. Art festivals or music festivals?
  4. Football or baseball?
  5. Baseball or basketball?
  6. Play sports or watch sports?
  7. Bowling or skating?
  8. Skiing or sledding?
  9. Golf or putt-putt?
  10. Car or truck?
  11. Van or sedan?
  12. Circus or carnival?
  13. Cruise or rail?
  14. Disney World or the beach?
  15. Drawing or painting?
  16. Canoeing or kayaking?
  17. Forest or beach?
  18. Piano or guitar?
  19. Drums or tuba?
  20. Hot tub or hot spring?
  21. Hot weather or cold weather?
  22. In your own country or abroad?
  23. Arcade or movie theater?
  24. Ocean or mountains?
  25. Running or walking?
  26. Skydiving or bungee jumping?
  27. Spring or fall?
  28. Summer or winter?
  29. Thunderstorms or sunshine?
  30. Theme park or water park?
  31. Bus or train?
  32. Cars or buses?
  33. Trains or planes?
  34. Cycle or walk?
  35. Vacation away or stay at home?
  36. Video games or board games?
  37. Aquarium or zoo?
  38. Africa or Asia?
  39. Comedy or horror?
  40. Facts or fiction?
  41. Book or movie?
  42. Rap or rock?
  43. Hip Hop or R&B?
  44. Books or magazines?
  45. Driving or riding?
  46. Flying or driving?
  47. Motel or hotel?
  48. Reality or drama?
  49. Romance or horror?
  50. Sports or reading?
  51. Facebook or Twitter?
  52. Drums or guitars?
  53. Skateboard or roller blade?
  54. Ferris wheel or roller coaster?
  55. Jazz or rock?
  56. Bicycle or motorcycle?
  57. Hunting or fishing?
  58. Dancing or singing?
  59. Sci-Fi or fantasy?
  60. Star Wars or Star Trek?
  61. Grammys or Oscars?
  62. Detailed or abstract?
  63. Antique or brand new?



With these questions, you’ll learn a ton about how someone prefers to dress and what they prefer. Maybe you’ll even find that you can share outfits or something!

  1. Sneakers or flip-flops?
  2. Heels or flats?
  3. Bare feet or shoes?
  4. Hair dryer or air dry?
  5. Coat or jacket?
  6. Manicure or pedicure?
  7. Piercings or tattoos?
  8. Natural or dyed hair?
  9. Mini or maxi?
  10. Matching or mismatched socks?
  11. T-Shirt or button-up?
  12. Dress or pants?
  13. Beard or mustache?
  14. Bikini or one piece?
  15. Nightgown or pajamas?
  16. Curly or straight?
  17. Long sleeved or short?
  18. Short nails or long?
  19. Blue eyes or green?
  20. Brunette or blonde?
  21. Wallet or purse?
  22. Shoulder bag or clutch?
  23. Buttons or snaps?
  24. Tie or no tie?
  25. Black or white?
  26. Pink or blue?
  27. Black or red?
  28. Yellow or orange?
  29. Purple or green?
  30. Neutral or bright colors?
  31. Boxers or briefs?
  32. Shorts or pants?
  33. Flats or high heels?
  34. Long hair or short hair?
  35. Sweatshirt or sweater?
  36. Sweater or jacket?
  37. Perfect teeth or perfect hair?
  38. Tall or short?
  39. Name brand or discount?
  40. Toothpaste or deodorant?
  41. Body wash or soap?
  42. Show or bath?
  43. Washcloth or luffa?
  44. Boots or sandals?
  45. Dresses or skirts?
  46. Bracelet or necklace?
  47. Dress up or dress down?
  48. Facial hair or clean shaven?
  49. Freckles or dimples?
  50. Tan or pale?
  51. Gloves or mittens?
  52. Checks or stripes?
  53. Plaid or polka dot?
  54. Glasses or contacts?
  55. Pierced or clip-on?
  56. Toothpaste or deodorant?
  57. Brush or comb?


Home or Family

These questions are all about your home and your family. You can learn an awful lot about people depending on how they answer some of these. Who knows? You might have a ton in common!

  1. Carpet or hardwood?
  2. Blanket or comforter
  3. Basket or box?
  4. Paper clips or staples?
  5. Air conditioner or ceiling fan?
  6. Fire pit or fireplace?
  7. Pet or no pet?
  8. Electric or natural Light?
  9. Mansion or cabin in the mountains?
  10. City or country?
  11. Smoking or non-smoking?
  12. Bar soap or liquid soap?
  13. Subway or car?
  14. Facebook or Twitter?
  15. Calendar or cell phone alerts?
  16. Store-bought gifts or handmade gifts?
  17. Amazon or eBay?
  18. Laptop or desktop?
  19. Microsoft or Apple?
  20. Firefox or Internet Explorer?
  21. Mac or PC?
  22. Online or at the mall?
  23. Bank account or PayPal?
  24. Credit card or cash?
  25. Sofa or loveseat?
  26. Garage or carport?
  27. Desktop or laptop?
  28. Pen or pencil?
  29. Picture or painting?
  30. Overhead light or lamp?
  31. Rent or buy?
  32. Apartment or house?


This is for couples to answer about their relationship. You can even put a twist on this part of the game and have them answer their questions on a sheet of paper for how their partner would answer and them compare them!

  1. Happiness or wealth?
  2. Wet or dry?
  3. Off or on?
  4. Funny or romantic?
  5. Roses or wildflowers?
  6. Smile or game face?
  7. Personal chef or personal fitness trainer?
  8. Shower in the morning or shower in the evening?
  9. Washing dishes or doing laundry?
  10. Shower or bath?
  11. Hang out with friends or stay at home?
  12. Abs or chest?
  13. Boobs or butts?
  14. Hands or feet?
  15. Charging or pay with cash?
  16. Pumping gas or pumping iron?
  17. Twins or triplets?
  18. Early bird or night owl?
  19. Introvert or extrovert?
  20. A dog or a baby?
  21. Hugs or kisses?
  22. He or she?
  23. Calling or texting?
  24. Fix it yourself or call a professional?
  25. Write or call?
  26. Letter or postcard?
  27. Blondes or brunettes?
  28. Marry or live-in relationship?
  29. Smile or eyes?
  30. Classic or modern?
  31. Serious or funny?
  32. Lust or love?
  33. Drunk or sober?
  34. Real or fake?
  35. Inside or outside?
  36. Buttoned up or unbuttoned?
  37. Bath or shower?
  38. Cut or break?
  39. Plastic or glass?
  40. Smoke or drink?
  41. Weird or normal?
  42. Male or female?
  43. Cry or scream?
  44. Older or younger?
  45. Diamonds or rubies?
  46. Gold or silver?
  47. Roses or lilies?
  48. Outside or inside?
  49. Sunrise or sunset?
  50. Rich or poor?
  51. Town or country?
  52. Fast or slow?
  53. Fight or forget it?
  54. Makeup or breakup?


BONUS: Hard Questions

Stump all of your new friends and make them answer these really difficult questions!

  1. Evil or good?
  2. Life or death?
  3. Earthquake or tornado?
  4. Sinful or righteous?
  5. For or against?
  6. Truth or lies?
  7. Badly wounded or dead?
  8. Love or hate?
  9. Naked or overdressed?
  10. Passive or aggressive?
  11. Minimum or maximum?
  12. Ignore or acknowledge?
  13. Smart or beautiful?
  14. Love or money?
  15. Noise or silence?
  16. Alone or in a crowd?
  17. Invisible or invincible?
  18. Get paid or volunteer?
  19. Yes or no?
  20. This or that?
  21. Real or artificial?
  22. Hit or miss?
  23. With or without?
  24. Secretive or open?
  25. Heart or soul?
  26. Locked or unlock?
  27. Passive or defiant?
  28. Armed or unarmed?
  29. Murder or suicide?
  30. Friends or enemies?
  31. Stop or go?
  32. Hidden or discovered?
  33. Touch or taste?
  34. Younger or older?
  35. Lose your sight or lose your hearing?
  36. Work or play?
  37. Temporary or permanent?
  38. Truth or dare?
  39. Talk before thinking or think before talking?
  40. Adventurous or cautious?
  41. Slacker or over-achiever?
  42. Asking questions or answering questions?
  43. Right or wrong?
  44. Democrat or Republican?

Now that you have all the questions you’ll ever need to play this game, get out there and get to know people better! Don’t forget to answer honestly and have a good time. What are some of your own This or That questions?


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