12 Best Pen Pal Websites

By on June 25, 2016

Everybody needs someone to talk to. Sometimes you don’t always find someone to confide in where you live and have to search elsewhere in order to connect with someone on a deeper level.

If this sounds like you, then you may be interested in finding something called pen pal. A pen pal is someone that you communicate with via written letters. You tell them anything you want to really and send your letters off in the mail and await their reply.

In the age of technology, it’s a perfect way to keep a nice connection open with someone that could be as far as across the entire world! You’ll get to learn about a new culture and even make a life long friend in the process.

The toughest part about finding a pen pal for someone is how they actually find one. Lucky for you and your soon-to-be pen pal, there are tons of websites with the sole purpose of matching you with someone great. Here are the best 12 pen pal websites.

  1. Interpals



This is an amazing pen pal website that allows you to connect with people from different countries. You can sign up for free and take your pick at over 3 million different members. Not only will having a pen pal in a different country allow you to learn about a culture outside of your own, but you’ll be able to build life long friendships that grant you ease when you want to travel. You’ll be able to stay with your pen pal and save yourself the cost of hotels.

  1. International Pen Friends



This is another great international pen pal website that allows you to connect with over 300,000 members in 192 different countries. If you’re really looking to make new friends across the world that you could potentially travel and visit, this is the pen pal website for you. You can also use this type of website in order to find a new friend that can even teach you a new language. With International Pen Friends, your choices are unlimited. Since it has been around wince 1967, you know it works great.

  1. Facebook



I’m sure by now you have all heard of Facebook for its social media purposes but have you ever thought that it could be the perfect place to meet a pen pal? The search process for a pen pal on this website may be a little trickier than some of the other ones but you can connect with millions upon millions of people from all over the globe. You can search by location and find someone, strike up a conversation, and be on your way to pen pal territory in no time.

  1. Tumblr



I think if you’re a hardcore fan of any popular TV series as of late you know what Tumblr is. If not, let me explain. Tumblr is basically a big network of personal blogs. You can add virtually anything you want on it and people can search and find things that interest them and that might be your blog. It’s great for people who are big fans of different TV shows and the fandoms reign over Tumblr. You’ll be able to find someone who likes the same types of things you do and you’ll be able to set up a pen-palship that will last as long as you want it to!

  1. Pen Pal World



This pen pal website, just like a couple I mentioned earlier, allows you to connect with people from all over the world. With almost 2 million members you can pick and choose who to connect with and who you don’t want any contact with. It’s a free website that offers a lot of control on the user’s end. You can block anyone above or below the age of 18 and you can even block entire countries if you want to. You are in control with this site and you’ll find someone to be your very own pen pal in no time.

  1. Student letter Exchange



This website is widely used in schools for those aged 9-20. Its main focus is to find people who are your age so you can use it as a learning process instead of just getting to know someone. You’ll learn about their culture, life in a different country, and make a new friend in the process. Since it is geared toward students and younger adults it is much safer than other websites so you know your information will be protected so you can be worry-free with your pen pal adventures.

  1. Letter Writer’s Alliance



The first thing you should know about this website for pen pals is that you have to have a paid membership in order to find pals. But don’t let that discourage you from taking part in one of the best pen pal websites that’s out there. This website is mostly dedicated to making sure letter-writing stays alive in the form of real snail mail and it will connect you with writers from all over the globe. You may make a life long friend from visiting this pen pal site.

  1. Pen Pals Now



This is a website for those looking for a pen pal that has very similar interests as them. With this site you can enter your personal information – including your likes and dislikes – and wait for people to come to you. But if you prefer to do the searching and leave out the important details, you can search for someone who is just like you and start your pen pal relationship. You can do a quick pen pal search or you can go into extensive detail to ensure that you’re finding the right pen pal for you.

  1. Post Crossing



If you’re someone who loves to connect with people around the world but hardly have time for real-life friends already then this website is definitely the one you want to find a pen pal. With this website you’re not exactly finding someone to send letters to, but you’re finding people to send postcards to. These people will also send you post cards and you’ll have a collection of different ones from all over the world without having to visit these places yourself. It’s perfect for a busy person who still wants to feel connected to other parts of the world.

  1. My Language Exchange



For everyone who has ever wanted to learn a second language or has learned one and has to practice more, My Language Exchange is the perfect place to do so. Not only will you be connected with people who speak the language you’re looking for but you’ll be able to learn all about their culture, too.

  1. Maarten’s Snail Mail Pen Pals



With this site being live since 1998 it’s no wonder it’s a perfect place to find a real-life pen pal to write with the old fashion way – via snail mail. You can search for someone yourself or wait for those to search for you to get the pan pal relationship started.

  1. Sassociations



This is a really fun website that lets you connect with people from all over. You can search by age and gender to ensure you’re finding someone that’s right for you! Let your search for the perfect pan pal begin!

When searching for a pen pal you always want to be careful not to fall for scammer’s sob stories in case they ask for money. Otherwise finding a pen pal is a perfect way to make a life long friend in another part of the world. Do you have a pen pal?


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    March 6, 2020 at 3:56 am

    want to be connected with the world I live in, and the best possible way to be in tune with the world is to make good friends, understand their cultural background, their lives and even learning the language. I am an individual who gets on well with everyone who I get in contact with, I am always ready to support those who need a friendly shoulder or just someone whom they would like to talk to. The best therapy is when you have someone whom listens to what you have to say, someone who will treat you as a human being, someone who opens their heart and soul to understand who you are as a person. Anyone is welcome, I mean anyone, you can send me a letter, or a email. Just tell me who you are, where you from, any information about yourself. Thank you.

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      March 12, 2020 at 9:37 pm

      You make some excellent points! If you are interested in having a pen pal, there are a number of websites you could try out to make a connection. Thanks for commenting!

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    alice peter

    October 5, 2019 at 10:26 am

    i would love to get many friends from many parts of the world who we can share many ideas

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      web admin

      January 28, 2020 at 6:11 pm

      Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. It is certain that our community is built on mutual kindness.

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    A Person

    September 23, 2019 at 7:30 pm

    I am trying to find the Student Letter Exchange but it does not seem to exist. The link available does not work.

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      December 24, 2019 at 11:23 am

      The only page I find for the Student Letter Exchange online is their Facebook page at https://www.facebook.com/studentpenpals/ . Perhaps you could try there? Or use one of the other companies listed?

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    July 29, 2019 at 3:07 pm

    I am looking for someone who can communicate and honest.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 29, 2019 at 9:22 pm

      Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Communication and honesty are extremely important in social and emotional relationships. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Angel!

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      December 3, 2019 at 7:21 am

      right here
      we could be pals because i look out for the same rare qualities u mentioned

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        January 20, 2020 at 2:38 pm

        Nice, thanks for commenting!

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    Soud Hussein Shabani

    March 7, 2019 at 10:30 pm

    Hi I hope this will quench my thirst.

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      web admin

      March 9, 2019 at 7:46 pm

      Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. Please share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Soud!

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    December 11, 2018 at 8:44 pm

    I’m looking for love everlasting love and good relationship

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      web admin

      December 12, 2018 at 9:58 pm

      It is great to hear that members of our community are interested in nourishing positive relationships. Please feel free to share more of your positive and supportive comments in the future. Have a great day, Milagros!

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