Love Letters for Him
If there’s one thing that will make your boyfriend understand just how much you feel about him, it’s giving him a love letter. Sure, you can tell him how you feel, but seeing the words scrawled out on a piece of paper and realizing you took the time to write down all of your feeling for him makes it so much more meaningful.
Whenever you have the urge to tell your man how you feel but you just can’t come up with the words to say, writing down your feelings and then finalizing them in the form of a love letter can be the best way to go.
No matter what the occasion might be, you can always give him a cute little love note and watch him light up with joy. These are a few examples of what you can write for him during certain occasions. He’ll really like the love letters you write for him!
10 Ideas for Writing Love Letter for Him
- Relationship Anniversary
This is always a really important day for the both of you and a really great time to let him know just how much you love and appreciate him. Sometimes it’s too difficult to get the words out yourself and you need a better way of doing it. Giving him a love letter along with a little anniversary present is a perfect way to tell him how you feel. Here’s a sample of something you could say:
“Every day I get to be with you is better than the last. My time with you has been more incredible than I can explain and I’m so excited to mark another milestone – of many – with you.”
- Long Distance
When you’re in a long distance relationship pretty much every form of communication you have – other than video chatting – is done in letter form. Texting is a great way to get your feelings across but sometimes it’s just not meaningful enough. During time like that you need to send him a love letter that looks something like this:
“No amount of distance could ever make me feel distant from you. Our love carries over miles and miles and I know that even when we’re apart, we’re still close.”
- Birthday Love Note
If you really want to make him feel special on his big day, you should write him a love note. This can take his normal birthday to a whole new level by understanding how you truly feel about him. I suggest writing this in a birthday card and make sure yours is the first card he reads. You can write something similar to this:
“I know this may be your favorite day of the year, but it’s also mine because today is the day that the best person in the world was born and I’m over joyed that I get to spend it knowing that you’re mine.”
- After a Fight
Fights are inevitable in a relationship. You just can’t always get along with someone 24/7 and expect a fulfilling relationship. Couples fight all the time and it’s actually healthy. But sometimes the trickiest part of fighting is how to make up. Giving your man a love letter after a big fight can help him see that even if you two don’t get along all the time, you still belong together. This is what you can say during this time:
“I know that we may not always get along and we might fight from time to time, but just know that at the end of the day the only reason I’m fighting so hard is for you. I’m sorry for what I said and how it made you feel but I’m not sorry for fighting for you every day.”
- When You Miss them
Even if the two of you don’t live long distance from each other, there will be times when you’re away for vacation or you just can’t see each other for a while. This will cause you to miss him like crazy. The best way to get your true feelings across when you miss him is to say something like this:
“Every minute spent without you is another minute of unhappiness. I miss you more than words can explain and even though we’re not together in this moment, I know that we’re together in our hearts.”
- A Special Occasion
It doesn’t just have to be his birthday or your anniversary for you to send him a cute love letter. There will be times throughout your relationship when he’s having a special day and you want to show your support and love. It can be a graduation, he gets a promotion, or even if he accomplishes a big goal. All of these are perfect opportunities for you to tell him how you feel in the form of a love letter that says something like this:
“There aren’t enough words for me to describe how proud I am of you – not only in this moment, but every single day. My love for your grows with each passing day and every accomplishment you make. I love you for all you have done and all you have yet to do!”
- When You Don’t Know What to Say
There are moments in a relationship that can leave you utterly speechless. No matter what he did – whether it was nice or hurtful – sometimes you just can’t find the right words. During times like this, sending him a love letter can help him understand how you feel and tell him exactly what’s going through your mind when you can’t speak the words yourself. Something along the lines of this might help:
“Sometimes there aren’t words I can speak to convey how I feel about you. Just know that even in the moments where I am nothing but silent I am thinking about how much I love and care about you.”
- Feeling Romantic
Let’s face it, some day we’re just so much more romantic than others. I can personally say that even though I’m feeling romantic in the moment, sometimes I just can’t put my thoughts into coherent sentences. During times like this, it’s best to have a love letter ready for him so he can truly understand just how much your romantic thoughts mean. This is an example of something you can say during a time like this:
“You make me so happy with all of the love and comfort you bring me. There isn’t a day that goes by that I don’t think about how much I love you and how lucky I am to have you in my life. You mean everything to me and I never want to live without you.”
- Feeling Playful
If there’s one thing we can all agree on, we feel playful in our relationships from time to time. This can be a really fun time for you and your boyfriend and telling him how you feel when you’re playful can be made much easier. If you give him a love letter when you’re feeling playful he’ll know that even when you’re goofing around and having fun, you still love him. This is something you could write for him:
“I love you more than a fat kid loves cake. Our love is so special that sometimes I can’t explain to you just how much you mean to me. Everything about you makes me happy from your adorable dimples to the face you make when you eat something sour.”
- Just Because…
There doesn’t always have to be a specific reason for you to write your boyfriend a love letter. In fact, writing something loving for him just because can mean more than during any other time because this way he knows that something drastic doesn’t have to happen in order for you to share your feelings with him. This is a great example of what to say out of the blue:
“I just wanted to take the time to tell you how special you are to me. No matter what happens in our lives I want you to know just how much I love you and that I’ll be there whenever you need me. My life has never been as happy as when you’re in it.”
Tips for Making Your Love Letters Extra Special
Giving him a love letter is definitely special on its own, but making it extra special and make it have the most impact can be difficult. Here are a few tips to make it happen.
- Give it to Him When He’s Alone
Nobody wants to read a sappy love letter when they’re surrounded by friends – especially not a guy. If you really want him to read the letter thoroughly and truly appreciate what you have written there, then you should give it to him when he’s all alone so he can have that privacy. If you hand it to him when he’s around a bunch of his friends he’ll be less likely to read through the whole thing and might even shove it away because he’s embarrassed.
- Actually Hand Write it
Some people – especially nowadays in the rise of technology – type up their love letters before giving them to the ones they love. This can be a good way to do it, but it’s not nearly as meaningful as a real hand-written letter. I suggest actually getting a notebook paper and writing out your love note and giving it to him. This shows him that you’re more than willing to put in real effort into making him happy because of all the time a real letter takes to write.
- Do it Occasionally Only
Giving someone a love letter every single day can lose its meaning. They’re way more special if you only use them every once in a while in order to get your feeling across. Save your love letter for only a couple times a month if you really want them to hold a lot of meaning. Otherwise, he’s just going to get used to them and won’t be excited when he receives a new one.
Writing love letters for your boyfriend can be something really fun and rewarding. These are just a few samples of the different ways you can write him a love letter and make him happier than he’s ever been before.