How to Tell If A Guy Likes You Through Texting
Now, more than ever, we are totally glued to our phones. Twenty years ago it was all about the way we talked, today it’s all about the way we text. It’s nice to be able to talk to anybody and everybody every second of every day, sharing every thought and detail of your life can make you feel like you’re together even when you’re miles apart. But even though we can send words back and forth almost as fast as we can think them, it’s a little bit harder to send emotions and feelings along with them. Sometimes all of those little tiny LOL’s and OMG’s only add to your confusion – especially when you are talking to a guy you like.
Don’t Freak Out If He Doesn’t Reply Immediately
So, how can you tell if your crush’s friendly greeting is more than just friendly? The first thing you have to remember is that guys don’t think or communicate the same way girls do. Most of the time, they say what they mean and they mean what they say. If you get a one letter response it’s because they’re busy or in a hurry or because it’s faster, not because they’re mad at you. Don’t read so much into it. Most guys are pretty straight forward.
He Texts You Throughout The Day
Something else to keep in mind is that while we ladies are the queens of multitasking, most guys just aren’t. They can do one thing at a time, and they can do it well, but try to get them to walk and chew gum at the same time and see what happens. Unless, of course, they are chasing a girl. Once a guy has his sights set on his lady love, he can pursue her 24/7, all while going about his normal routine. So, if your guy is texting you when his mind should be on other things, like work, chances are you’ve tickled his fancy. He just can’t get you out of his mind.
Does He Always Text Back Quickly?
Another way to tell if your guy is trying to send some ‘more than friend’ vibes your way via SMS is to pay attention to how fast he texts you back. If he is responding within a few seconds, you know he’s waiting on your next message and is totally engaged in the conversation. Even better is when you have a meeting of the minds moment and text each other at the same time – that’s almost the definition of soul mates in the 21st century.
He Tells You Everything
Also, if any guy takes the time to fill up that little screen with detailed descriptions of his day, chances are he’s digging on you just a little bit. Especially if he’s got an old-school phone. No man is going to take the time to text you line after line on those teeny tiny number keys unless he’s got some hidden feelings. The way he sees it, he’s making a valid effort to communicate with his lady, something not to be taken lightly.
He May Just Stink At Texting
When you are wrestling with your internal “he loves me, he loves me not” demons, make sure to keep in mind that every guy is different. So is every phone. Some guys may not text back as often as you would like because their phone is a pain in the you-know-what, while others may not text you back because they’re just not that into you. To tell which you’re dealing with, you’re going to have to use a little discernment. You don’t have to go all crazy stalker or anything, but scope him out when he’s texting his buddies. Does he look comfortable with his handset, or like a bit of a novice? If he’s a bit on the slow side, don’t be too offended if he’s a bit slow to get back to you.
He Wants To Spend Time With You
Something else to keep in mind is that if a guy is really into you, he’ll enjoy a bit of a chase. Let him initiate the text sessions from time to time. If you notice he’s hitting you up pretty regularly, out of the blue, chances are you’re on his mind more often than not. If he’s thinking about you while he’s walking around his living room or dozing off at night, you might be more than the girl of his dreams, if you get my drift.
The truth is that even though the way we communicate has gotten high-tech, the thoughts and feelings we are trying to convey are the same. There is a lot to be said for trusting your instincts; that being said if you are truly wondering about the intentions of your potential Romeo, the best thing you can do is ask. Maybe something like U+ME=:) After all, it’s only a text message. It’s impossible for him to know your true emotions, either. Worst case scenario, you tell him you were only kidding LOL
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Anaida
October 22, 2018 at 1:53 am
Hi! This is about a guy who was my classmate in 2013-15, but I never spoke to him then as there was no need to. In 2016, he wishes me on Facebook for my birthday, and that’s how we started talking. We almost texted each other daily, or at least kept in touch quite often. He’s subtly flirted with me, calling me a sweetheart and a queen. He also told me that I’m special. From what I have anaylsed through his texts, it did seem he liked me. I’ve tried my best to also flirt back and try to convey my feelings indirectly that I love him. This has been for 2 and a half years. This year in Jan, was the last time we texted each other. There was absolutely no argument, but he just sofpped texting me. I didn’t text him first again as I didn’t want to be the only one to text first. Then, he directly texted me for my birthday in Aug. He asked me what I was doing (which college course, since I’m doing my post graduation first year now). Then he told me to enjoy my birthday, and he didn’t text me ever since. I don’t understand what kind of behaviour is this. I don’t even know if something has angered him. He talks to me quite normally, but without the flirts and all. I really want to know why he is behaving like this. I don’t want to send him a text suddenly asking him why he is acting like this, but I really want to know what’s the reason. I’m thinking of wishing him for Christmas and then bring out the topic eventually. Do you think this is a good idea? I don’t want to lose the friendship since he really means a lot. Thanks!
web admin
October 22, 2018 at 8:47 pm
His original attempt to reach out to you may have been a reflection of his social and emotional desires. It is possible that he was interested in nourishing a relationship with you. His feelings may have changed, or he may be uncertain or confused about your feelings. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Perhaps you will find benefit in reaching out to him. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Anaida!
Anaida
October 24, 2018 at 8:29 pm
Thank you! Do you think its a good idea to wait for Christmas to shoot him a text, or I should send one ASAP? Also, could you suggest ways of bringing up this topic in a conversation? Have a good day!
web admin
October 24, 2018 at 9:57 pm
Determine what you want for your future. Decide what you believe is appropriate and viable. There are many options that you can take. Perhaps you will find benefit in being direct. Maybe behaving in a manner that causes him to reach out to you will strengthen this relationship. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Anaida!
Anaida
October 25, 2018 at 1:30 am
Thank you once again! 🙂
Chelsea
September 29, 2018 at 7:58 pm
Ok so this guy and I text everyday and I met him for the first time yesterday. It was at a football game (He is in band at his school)and he asked me if I wanted to go and I said yes. We didn’t really talk at all when he saw me he smiled, waved, said hey. After that we just sat there and awkwardly looked at each other every so often. But we text everyday, he basically tells me everything. He’s talked about this girl he likes and the girls texts idk if he’s trying to mame me jealous or he’s telling you to back off, I feel like im getting mixed signals.
web admin
September 30, 2018 at 9:33 pm
He is giving you mixed symbols. He likely is attempting to inform you that he has a strong social relationship with a female friend. Determine what you believe is appropriate for the future of this relationship. His behavior may seem immature, so decide if you believe this is the type of person that you want to nourish a relationship with. Have a great day, Clesea!
Angela
September 26, 2018 at 6:35 am
I met him during a camp and I started liking him. We started texting each other. He knows that I like him. I never text him first he would bring up conversations everything and text me first all the time but something that bothers me is he never care much to know about me. So I get confused if he just want attention. He would sometimes flirt with me saying that I’m beautiful and he even said he likes my videos. Sometimes he would say he wanna see me, sometimes he would send pictures of his hometown and says I should visit. He even said he would visit my hometown once and i’ll be the first one that he’ll love to meet. All this signs makes me fell like he’s also into me but sometimes he’s just so confusing because he mostly talks about himself and doesn’t care much to listen about mine. Does he just want attention or is also into me ?
web admin
September 27, 2018 at 8:47 pm
It is certainly possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He likely wants to share himself with you, which may be why he speaks about himself frequently. You will strengthen your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him a chance to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Angela!
Fifi
September 5, 2018 at 5:41 am
Oh I forgot to mention that we have like a lot in common.His texts make smile and laugh…I figured that if I stopped texting him, my feelings for him would go away…but I still like him so much. so please reply to my questions above
web admin
September 5, 2018 at 10:22 pm
The two of you share a strong social connection. He is in a relationship, so you were right in not attempting to nourish a romantic relationship with him. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. Do not attempt to harm his relationship. If his relationship naturally ends and he reaches out to you, then share your thoughts and feelings with him at that time. Have a great day, Fifi!
Fifi
September 5, 2018 at 5:32 am
I have chatted with this guy a few weeks ago…I liked him instantly and quickly developed feelings for him. This wierd thing happened, one night when I wanted to go to bed,his face kept popping up in my face.All I could think of was him. What does that mean???? Thing is he has a gf and so I didn’t want to intrude into their relationship so I had to stop texting him. What I really want to know is what extacly did it mean,having him on my mind all throughout the night?? He chats smoothly, ends the chat politely, uses exclamation marks repeatedly when replying back to my jokes, uses emojis constantly,replies quickly,gives detailed responses whenever I ask a question,makes me feel amazing the way I am & sometimes sends a response all in capital letters when commenting/complimenting on things I send …does he like me?? Did I think about him because he thought about me first??
web admin
September 5, 2018 at 10:19 pm
The two of you share a strong social connection. He is in a relationship, so you were right in not attempting to nourish a romantic relationship with him. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. Do not attempt to harm his relationship. If his relationship naturally ends and he reaches out to you, then share your thoughts and feelings with him at that time. Have a great day, Fifi!
Maimai
June 9, 2018 at 12:44 am
We were uni friends but said he needs to see me and has been wanting to talk to me for the longest time, saying where I lived made what he wanted to tell me complicated for him for what he wanted to talk to me about. He was someone I went to uni with 2 years ago and we never spoke after I finished uni because I moved countries and to be honest I never once thought about him unless I happened to see what he was doing on my Instagram or fb timeline and now out of the blue he’s just messaged me telling me he wants to tell me something saying he wants to take me to dinner. What does he want and what does he mean by my location making things complicated for him and wanting to tell me something after the longest time? I’m very confused.
web admin
June 9, 2018 at 10:45 pm
He has shared his thoughts and feelings with you. He is interested in taking you on a dinner date. This means that he feels a strong connection with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to nourish a relationship with him, then join him on this date. There is no requirement for you to have a second date if you do not feel comfortable. Have a great day, Maimal!
Jeanette
April 16, 2018 at 9:59 am
Hi, I’ve been texting this guy from the past 2 and a half years. We would text regularly, and he’s really sweet through text. He would keep complimenting me, and even flirt a lot. I know him as he was in my class previously but I didn’t know him personally then. He keeps telling me I’m special, and I’m a sweetheart. However, at times he just disappears from texting and doesn’t make any contact at all. Then he appears after a few days, and starts texting as usual. Normally he does this if he’s busy, or if we’ve texted a lot. But this time, he hasn’t texted me for 3 months now. I’ve not heard anything from him at all. We’re free now from college work, so it’s not that he’s busy. The last we spoke, he sounded normal and even flirted a bit then. We’ve had no argument at all. I was the first one to text him then. The last message I sent him was a good evening, which he seen and never replied since then. I don’t want to text him first now, because I want him to know that his behaviour has hurt me a lot. I was surprised that he didn’t even wish me for Easter, because he never forgets to wish me for any occasion, including my birthday. I don’t know why he’s doing this. He told me a lot of times that I’m really good, and he has no problem with me at all. Through all our conversations, he’s always sounded genuinely interested and concerned about me. Then why is he behaving like this? Is it time that I forget about him totallHi, I’ve been texting this guy from the past 2 and a half years. We would text regularly, and he’s really sweet through text. He would keep complimenting me, and even flirt a lot. I know him as he was in my class previously but I didn’t know him personally then. He keeps telling me I’m special, and I’m a sweetheart. However, at times he just disappears from texting and doesn’t make any contact at all. Then he appears after a few days. Normally he does this if he’s busy, or if we’ve texted a lot. But this time, he hasn’t texted me for 3 months now. I’ve not heard anything from him at all. We’re free now from college work, so it’s not that he’s busy. The last we spoke, he sounded normal and even flirted a bit then. We’ve had no argument at all. I was the first one to text him then. The last message I sent him was a good evening, which he seen and never replied since then. I don’t want to text him first now, because I want him to know that his behaviour has hurt me a lot. I was surprised that he didn’t even wish me for Easter, because he never forgets to wish me for any occasion, including my birthday. I don’t know why he’s doing this. He told me a lot of times that I’m really good, and he has no problem with me at all. Then why is he behaving like this? Is it time that I forget about him totally, though it’s really difficult for me. But I don’t want to be the only person who seems interested in contacting him, I want him to do the same. What should be the best thing to do? Your advice would help me, thanks in advance!
web admin
April 16, 2018 at 9:01 pm
It is possible that he is too busy to communicate. He likely is spending time with other people, which may be causing him to no longer message you. The two of you have not spoken in a while. This relationship is at a crossroads. Speak with him about your feelings and give him a chance to respond. If he ignores you or treats you poorly, then you are aware of his feelings. Remember to share your positive energy with everyone. Have a great day, Jeanette!
Jeanette
April 17, 2018 at 5:27 am
Thank you very much!
nadia
November 27, 2017 at 3:12 am
hi, so there’s this crush that i have in school, he’d always go to the bathroom because if you need to go to the bathroom you’ll have to pass by my class, so he would always go to the bathroom and look into the glass door to my class, but he’d never talk to me until one day he accidentally sent a post on instagram to me, then so he asked me if i watched stranger things, and he said i should, so that night while i was starting to watch ST i updated my story of me watching ST and then he replied “OMG YOURE WATCHING?”. so from there i kinda talked with him and asked him questions about the show and then when i was on snapchat, i saw him in my quick add, so i went and told him that i saw him in my snapchat quick add then he said that i can add him. so we talked about lots of stuff in that one month, that one month, i discovered that we had a lot in common, but even tho we had a lot in common, he kept on saying that he didn’t find girls attractive(don’t worry he’s not gay) and that he doesn’t want to get married and that he’s not the sweet kind, so i was a bit sad but i got over that when i found out that we had the same music taste, liked the same tv shows and lots of other things. we sent lots of memes and videos to each other on instagram and we both would just laugh, so on the last day of school, i took a picture with him and then he posted it on instagram, but he did multiple pictures, and i was the last picture, i was kind of devestated that i wasn’t his first picture but oh well, so then in a few days there’s prom coming up, and then so he asked me for my opinion about what should he wear, so after i have my opinion, he asked me if i’m going to prom, so i said that i thought juniors weren’t allowed to go (he’s 16 and i’m 14) so he asked one of the management people and then he confirmed that juniors could go, and so he asked me if i wanted to go, i thought he wanted me to be his date but he told me that i could invite my friends to go because there aren’t enough bookings for the prom, and he asked me to go check out the prom page, when i got there i saw their most recent post, they said that the bookings were almost full, and i saw that he liked the post, so i was like, why did he tell me that he bookings weren’t enough when the were almost no more seats left. i told him that i couldn’t go and he said “aww, why” so i told him my reasons and stuff like that. well after that he sent me a snap of him in his prom attire and he was wearing this hat, so i was all like “ahahaha why are you wearing that hat?” then he said that his friend said it looked nice on him, so then i said that he looked funny, in a way kinda cute, but i regretted it the moment i sent him that text because i didn’t want to ruin this friendship we had going on, and he kinda left me on seen and he didn’t reply back. so i’m wondering can you please tell me if he likes me and why did he say that he’s not attracted to girls and that he told me that the bookings for prom weren’t enough… please help me!
web admin
November 27, 2017 at 5:29 pm
It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is possible that he views you as a close friend. Take this time to determine what you want with this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Nadia!
heather
November 27, 2017 at 2:04 am
i have this crush that i really like, he will always go to the bathroom, because the bathroom is near my class so in order to go to the bathroom, he has to pass by my class, my class has a glass window and he always looks through it, but he never talked to me until the day where he sent me a post in instagram by accident and then like later he apologized that it was a wrong message, then later on he asked me if i watched stranger things, i told him i was going to watch it after school at night. at night, i updated my instagram story of me watching stranger things and he replied “OMG YOURE WATCHING!?”, from then on we talked a lot, i went on snapchat and i saw his username in my quick add so i went back to snapchat and told him that i saw him on my snapchat quick add, and he said that i could add him, so i did. so from that day onwards we bonded over game of thrones, stranger things, riverdale and like our music tastes. the past month, he has been sending me, like memes from stranger things and game of thrones and stuff and i send him memes back too. so he is 16 and i’m 14 and he has his prom in a few days, he asked me if i’m going, so i said that i thought juniors couldn’t go, then he was all like, you should go(btw i thought he was asking me to go with him but he said that i could invite my friends and ask them to go to), there isn’t enough bookings, and then he told me to go check out the instagram page, i then saw the most recent post on that page and it said that the bookings were almost full, so i thought to myself, why would he say that the bookings were quite little when the bookings were almost full? after that he asked me my opinion for what he should wear to prom and stuff. so after all that, he sent me a snap of himself with some suspenders and a hat you would wear to a beach on snapchat, so i was all like “what ahahah”, then he said that his friend said he looked good in it, so i said that he looks funny and in a way cute, and once i sent that i really regretted, because i didn’t want to spoil the friendship we had, well, because of that he kinda left me on seen and didn’t reply… so can you please tell me if he likes me or not, i’m in a dilemma so badly rn..
web admin
November 27, 2017 at 5:29 pm
It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is possible that he views you as a close friend. Take this time to determine what you want with this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Heather!
Lexi
November 23, 2017 at 7:37 pm
So, I was texting my crush and I was cracking jokes and whatnot. I eventually started to flirt with him in a text based on something that he said once. Then he texted back saying basically “Oh that? I’ll just get back to what I was doing.” So at this point I feel like there is no connection at all and that he doesn’t like me. I feel like I should just give up now…
web admin
November 23, 2017 at 7:53 pm
Take this time to determine what you want with this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. If you determine that there is no reason to attempt to develop a relationship with him, then focus your emotional attempt elsewhere. Have a great day, Lexi!
Helena
October 20, 2017 at 2:18 am
Hello, I hope you’re having a lovely day! I met this guy on a social app who appears to study in the same school with me. He initiates the conversation mostly, but sometimes I started the chat when I feel like talking to him. Well, several months passed and I found out he’s caring and I admit that he is a sweetheart. He also have a sense of humor tht managed to make me laugh and he teases me from, yet he would ask for forgiveness in case his teases offended me but I nvr mind that. My friend once talked to him abt me and he said that even though he and I are best friends, he’s still shy towards me. He sometimes compliments me like telling me that I’m really nice. But for the past few days, there’s this thing called ‘story’ which you can post at Instagram and I always check his story since tht’s wht friends do. And he keeps on uploading screenshots about an article he read about love, like ‘what’s the definition of love’ and things that are related to love. I wanted to ask him who he likes but is too scared to know. And today he upload a screenshot abt, ‘How to confess your love’ and below the article which is a blank space he typed in the words, ‘It’s you, who else?’ So now I’m confused, I don’t want to overreact bcs I’ve a feeling that he actually wants to confess tht he likes me, bcs what’s the point of him texting me if he had no intention. Howevr, I was afraid tht it might be for some other girls even tho I knew he told me doesnt likes anyone before. Please help me! Wht should i do?
web admin
October 20, 2017 at 8:28 pm
Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you believe that he may be talking about you and you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If you are not interested in doing so, then continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. Have a great day, Helena!
Shyann
October 19, 2017 at 3:58 am
Hi! So I’ve known this guy for 2 years now. we don’t meet very often. Most of the time, we only see each other if we bump into each other in college. But he texts me regularly. He’s really sweet and loving. He also flirts with me & says I am a sweetheart, and I am special. He hasn’t directly said that he loves me. So I am still confused about his feelings. However, there’s this one habit of his which annoys me a lot. At times he will text back really quick and sometimes we do have long conversations. But mostly, he takes a very long time to text. He doesn’t text back for hours at a stretch. I thought he is busy, only to find him active on social media. I can’t really tell him anything about him texting me quickly, because we aren’t dating, so it isn’t a rule that he needs to text me quick. I have read online that if a guy doesn’t text you back fast, he isn’t interested in you. Is this true? A friend told me that he doesn’t flirt at all with anyone, but I really don’t know. What should I do?
web admin
October 19, 2017 at 8:42 pm
It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is likely that he is confused or uncertain about your feelings toward him. Take this time to determine what you want with this relationship. If you want to develop your relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself as well. Have a great day, Shyann!
Shyann
October 19, 2017 at 10:47 pm
I want to develop a relationship with him. But I don’t know how should I tell him my feelings. I think it would be comfortable for both of us if I text him about my feelings. But whenever I think of doing so, his habit of taking too long to text back just puts me off. Do guys do this all the time with everyone, or only with certain girls? And could you tell me of ways by which I can tell him what I feel for him?
web admin
October 20, 2017 at 8:13 pm
It sounds as though you would be benefited by making a decision. If you want to speak with him, then speak with him. Send him a message now. If he ignores you or if he responds in a negative way, then perhaps allow your thoughts of him to fade. If he responds positively, then nourish this relationship. Have a great day, Shyann!
Shyann
October 21, 2017 at 6:10 am
Thanks a lot!
Kyle
October 21, 2017 at 6:12 am
I agree with Shyann that a lot of guys do this business of ignoring girls. It makes them sound less needy. But, I haven’t been able to figure out what makes them behave in such a way. Could you tell me more on this please?
web admin
October 21, 2017 at 6:06 pm
Men may be uncertain or confused about their feelings. Men may also not realize that their partner desires more attention. It is always beneficial for either partner to speak with their partner about their thoughts and feelings. Communication will always support a relationship. Have a great day, Kyle!
Kyle
October 22, 2017 at 12:29 am
Thank you!
Sarah
September 30, 2017 at 7:16 am
Hello! So, I’ve been texting this guy and he always respond to my text quickly, maybe like 3 mins after I texted him. Somtimes he is the conversation starter, and somtimes I am. We go to the same middle school. He is a very nice guy, howevr he’s into science like philosophy and stuff and I’m into art. But tht nvr gets in our way. Yesterday, my friend showed her conversation with him. In tht text message, she asked him why he refused to take a pic with her and he answered tht he is embarrassed bcs I’m there. He sometimes teases me thru text and always supports me so it’s obvious that he’s a sweetheart. Sometimes I glance at him and he did the same, only I didnt maintain the eye contact in case he feels weird. He also admits to a friend of mine that he and I are ‘close friends until we die’. He also knows everything abt me, he said he has sixth sense. I somtimes fall for him but am a bit confused at a few times. He wished my birthday thru a lengthy sweet text and he even wished it in front of me. He did a jokingly pickup line and whenever he makes fun of my name, he would text a sorry after that. He remembers all the details I told him, I asked him abt my fav food and he answered correctly. So now I’m just plain clueless. Please help!
web admin
September 30, 2017 at 2:17 pm
It is likely that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He certainly has developed a strong attachment with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with him, ten speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Allow him to share his thoughts with you as well. Have a great day, Sarah!
Maya
September 12, 2017 at 2:21 am
Oh and one more thing, he did say that he enjoys chatting with me. But I don’t think I believe that even though some experts says that men are straightforward. Or is it just me?
web admin
September 12, 2017 at 4:12 pm
Some men are straightforward, while others are not. It is best to treat each person as their own. Avoid the words of professional labels. Have a great day, Maya!
Maya
September 12, 2017 at 2:17 am
Hey! So, I’m artist and I post my art via Instagram. And one day, he complimented my art, saying that it’s awesome that I’m good at drawing and he said that he sucks at it. From that day on, he would find a topic to talk to me thru texting. He doesn’t text me all day, but maybe after three or four days and sometimes a week. However, he replies fast and he always ask about personal stuff abt me, saying that he’s curious. Being a woman, I also ask him several questions that’s not too deep in case he suspects smthg. Sometimes I compliment myself to see how he responds. Unlike my friends, he doesnt seem to care what I labelled myself as. We went to the same tuition class, and he admit thru text that he’s been watching me. He’s the same age as me and we both went to the same school but in different class. So, I’m wondering whether he’s being friendly and nice or is he interested in me. Thanks!
web admin
September 12, 2017 at 4:11 pm
It is possible that he is interested in you. He may have a strong interest in your art. He may want to be supportive and kind. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to nourish your relationship, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. You may want to share more of your artwork with him. Have a great day, Maya!
Jennie
August 17, 2017 at 7:25 am
In addition, through the text (it was several days ago), he complimented me that i am so cool and he’s such a nerd. He also told me about his schedule, events and conferences ahead and mentioned his prestigious campus. I want to say that he was trying to impress me, but i am not that confident as he didnt text me first until today.
web admin
August 17, 2017 at 7:29 pm
It is highly likely that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Jennie!
Jennie
August 17, 2017 at 7:07 am
Hi, so theres a shy guy that i like and we only met once during a conference about 3 days. Please note that hes super quiet and shy guy. First day, he shyly approached me and asked something common about location. The next day, i told him (and other colleagues) about my plan to enjoy the city after the conference and he asked me to invite him. As he greeted me before, i tried to get to know more about him by smiling a lot and bringing small talk up yet he only answered me with one-two words and not asked me back. Surprisingly, he texted me at the night to invite other friends of us to join the trip. Then the day after that we met to do the trip with several friends. I kept talking to him and he simply smiled at me and answered with one-two words again. In the museum as we split up, and i bumped into him (without our friends) suddenly he approached me with smiley face and asked me my name. I was surprised, like seriously why did you ask me my name when you’ve already texted me, i teased him a lot because of that question. We had conversation and he took several pics of me with my camera, and followed me when i was looking for direction when he already knew the right path. I thought he was interested in me and had already open up with me but after we encountered our friends, he began to be a quite guy again, but now with smile on his face. He didnt talk in group unless i or others asked him question (and i asked him a lot).
Since we live in different countries, the only way to reach him is only by texting. I initiated the conversation twice and hes pretty fun and good at texting, we texted throughout the night, despite he was on meeting he replied me quite fast, but in the end when the convo felt stuck, i left him on read.
Now i want him to know that i like him but i think this is too soon and i slightly have fear of rejection as well. Could you give me advice on my story? Thanks in advance!
web admin
August 17, 2017 at 7:25 pm
It is certainly possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. H certainly enjoys your company. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Ensure that he is able to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Jennie!