40 Truth Or Dare Questions To Ask Your Boyfriend

By on December 8, 2013

Truth or Dare – the timeless game that can be simultaneously fun and terrifying. It’s a game to make you squirm, a game to make you laugh and, more importantly, a game that can teach you an awful lot about another person (and yourself!). That’s why we think it’s the perfect game to play with your other half. It’ll let you in on their inner most secrets, it’ll teach you how they behave under pressure and, of course, it’ll teach you what they’d like to know about you. Just be sure you’re ready to step up to the mark and spill your secrets too!

Here’s the 40 ultimate Truth or Dare question’s to ask your boyfriend and the reasons they’re great…


Tell Me The Truth…


1. What are you most afraid of?

Reason – Men aren’t all as macho as they seem. Whether it’s spiders of lions, this question proves he’s human. Plus it takes a lot for someone to reveal their innermost fears – him answering shows he trusts you.


2. What’s your dream job?

Reason – This one will tell you whether he’s ambitious, realistic or perhaps even a dreamer. It’s important to know what he wants out of life and if you can go there together.

3. What’s your favourite movie?

Reason – A classic question but it’s classic for a reason. It will tell you more about what he likes, whether it’s an action, a sci-fi or a rom-com. Just be sure to be supportive whatever it is.

4. What’s your perfect date?

Reason – You might see him as the macho man who likes cars and DIY but when it comes to romance he’s likely to have a soft side. This will allow you to see the other side of him.


5. What do you like most about me?

Reason – Of course we had to throw this one in there. Does there have to be a reason? We just want to know!

6. What’s your favourite colour?

Reason – Simple but effective. Colours reflect moods and people. Are his inner thoughts passionate or calm? Dark or daring, bright or innocent? This will let you know!


7. Do you have any guilty pleasures?

Reason – Whether it’s a soppy song or a TV show, we all have guilty pleasures. It’s the things people don’t usually admit to that tell us the most about them, making this a fab  question.

8. What’s your favourite food?

Reason – This is a great question because it’s useful. If you want to book a surprise meal or cook for him one night, it always helps to know what he loves. He’ll love you all the more for remembering too.

9. What are you most talented at?

Reason – Here you can tell if he’s an artist or a sportsman, a musician or a chef. Plus, whether he answers shyly or full of bluster can tell you a lot about what he thinks of himself.


10. What are you most passionate about?

Reason – This is important simply because it’s important. If you want to be with him, you need to know what makes him tick and why. Here’s your chance to find out what it is!

11. Who’s your idol?

Reason – Who he looks up to and admires can tell you a lot about him. Does he admire fashion icons or entrepreneurs? World leaders or writers? Whoever they are, you’ll find he probably takes after them in some way and aspires to be like them.

12. Where would you most like to visit?

Reason – Whether he wants to visit somewhere full of history and culture or sun, sea and fun can tell you a lot about what type of guy he is inside.


13. Who’s your favourite fictional character?

Reason – As well as telling you if he sees himself as an action hero or the romantic type, this tells you what types of setting he sees himself in. Is he a realist from New York or was he made of the for the stricken lands of Middle Earth? You’re about to find out!

14. Do you collect anything?

Reason – People often collect quirky things so what and the extent of their collection can be eye opening. It’s not something people often share either so you may find yourself surprised.


15. What’s your favourite animal?

Reason – Our favourite animals are often a reflection of ourselves. Here you can see if he sees himself strong like a lion, wise like an owl or happy like a dog.

16. If you were invisible for a day, what would you do with your superpower?

Reason – This one will divide the cheeky chaps and the bad boys from the ones with hearts of gold and the shy ones. This is a real ‘show your true colours’ question.


17. What is the one question you’re dreading me asking you?

Reason – Is he hiding anything or keeping something back? Now’s your chance to find out. Just be sure you really want to know before asking though.

18. What’s the cheesiest pick up line you’ve ever used?

Reason – Of course, you know how you pair got together, but what was he like before you came along?


19. What’s the most embarrassing moment of your life?

Reason – Truth or Dare can sometimes be a little too serious, this question will lighten the mood.

20. Have you ever lied in Truth or Dare and was it in this game?

Reason – No explanation necessary.


I Dare You To…


1. Kiss me passionately.

Reason – Simple and predictable but we love this question all the same. Do we really need to explain the reason?


2. Let me blindfold you for the next five minutes.

Reason – He’ll be at your mercy for this time, yours to do whatever you want with be it tickle him senselessly, taunt him with kisses or something a little more adventurous.

3. Wish a stranger ‘Happy Toenail Appreciation Day’.

Reason – It’s hilarious for you and you’ll get to see the colour of his blush as he does it.

4. Give me a piggyback down the street.

Reason – It’s cute, it’s fun, it’s out of the ordinary and it’ll have you both laughing until your sides hurt. What more could you want?


5. Tell me what you really think of me. No holding back.

Reason – Okay, so maybe this one should be in truth but we never get tired of hearing how much he loves us. It’s great to hear him confess to things he may not have otherwise.

6. Do a pole dance for me.

Reason – This one will have you both in stitches and it’s a great way for you to relax around one another and show you feel comfortable together.

7. Get in the shower fully clothed.

Reason – Wouldn’t it be nice to see him soaking wet, clothes clinging to him Mr. Darcy style? You know you can’t resist!


8. Wear all your clothes inside out for the rest of the day.

Reason – Simply because we all need a good laugh.

9. Stand outside my window playing our song on a boom-box.

Reason – It was an unforgettable moment in the movie ‘Say Anything’ that made our hearts melt. Don’t we all want a guy like that, even if we have to dare him into it?


10. Roll a dice. Each dot stands for one day. You cannot watch sports for that time.

Reason – It’s a great way to steal his attention for potentially the next six days. This one’s even better if the World Cup is just starting!

11. Prank call your grandparents and pretend you want to order a pizza.

Reason – Role playing shows how far he’s willing to go and lets you see another side of him. We advise calling family or friends over strangers though, they’re more likely to see the funny side.

12. Tuck your shirt in a drop a few ice cubes down there. Leave them until they melt.

Reason – For no other reason than we want to see him squirm.


13. Do your best impression for me.

Reason – This will show how confident he is and might just give you both a few laughs at the same time.

14. Do the splits.

Reason – Here’s another one to make you both laugh. Bonus, he’ll probably ask you to do the same and he’ll love it if you can!

15. Wear a pair of my underwear for the rest of the day.

Reason – For the rest of the day you’ll both have your own little secret. You’ll both love being the only ones in on it and it might well bring about a bit of intimacy between you.


16. Go topless for the rest of the game.

Reason – If you’re already dating this shouldn’t be a hard one for him. It may not be anything out of the ordinary but at least you’ll get a great view for the rest of the game.

17. Walk up to a stranger and ask them to tie your shoe laces.

Reason – It shows his level of embarrassment tolerance and once again gives you a lot of laughs.


18. Kiss me passionately.

Reason – Oops, did we put this one in twice? Such a shame. We don’t hear you complaining though!

19. Plan a lovely date for us next weekend.

Reason – You shouldn’t have to dare him into this but you’ll love the results all the same.

lovely date

20. Kiss me where you’ve never kissed me before.

Reason – Whether it’s your back, neck, arms or feet this is sure to bring about a unique sense of intimacy…And maybe an abrupt end to the game.


We hope you’ve enjoyed our suggestions, now you’ve just got to go out there and use them. Just remember though, ladies, whatever you ask him, he can reverse and ask you so beware and be prepared to get a taste of your own medicine!


  1. Vidah

    January 16, 2019 at 9:35 am

    Hello, a guy who had pursued me before asked to take me for a vacation, and I chose to ask my boyfriend about it before going coz I had already told him about this guy. My boyfriend got so angry and said I am disrespectful to him and to the relationship by seeing him as not being wealthy enough to take me to those vacations. He said, am not serious and we should just break up early before I hurt him because am just a pretender. I was so hurt and because I love him so much, he is my first boyfriend ever, I didnt want to loose him for such a ‘silly’ stuff atleast for me. So I requested that we talk about it first instead of just throwing the relationship away. He forgave me and we are talking nicely now, but I’ve been feeling so hurt and withdrawn every time I think that such a simple thing and he was ready to let me go. Am I that easily disposable? Does he really love me to leave mee that easily.?

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 17, 2019 at 9:47 pm

      You were disrespectful to your partner. Your behavior was inappropriate. You are lucky that your partner has decided to forgive your actions. You should not nourish romantic relationships with other people while you are in a relationship. It would have been entirely reasonable for him to have ended this relationship. Learn this lesson and apply this knowledge to benefit the future of this relationship. Have a great day, Vidah!

  2. Broken heart and confused

    December 24, 2018 at 5:23 am

    My bf and I were together for 1 year and had our anniversary late and my birthday was in February and he gave me a late birthday present. But then during the summer we got distant with each other but he broke up with me in October😭 and he still likes me but Idk if I want to go back with him cause he lied to me three times and he cheated on me. Idk what to do

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 24, 2018 at 3:42 pm

      He has lied to you. He has cheated on you. The two of you are not currently in a relationship. Allow thoughts of him to fade. Focus your emotional elsewhere. Determine what you want for your future without him. Perhaps attempt to strengthen your relationship with your friends and family at this time. You may find that new relationships will become available at this time. Have a great day, Broken!

    • Courtney

      January 24, 2019 at 6:33 pm

      I think you shouldn’t get back together with him because if he cheated one time he will do it again. I hope my advice helps you 🙂

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 26, 2019 at 12:07 am

        Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. We always appreciate when members of our community share their thoughts and feelings. Please share more of your positive comments in the future. Have a great day, Courtney!

    • Jessica Jones

      February 3, 2019 at 6:19 pm

      Do what your heart is telling you!

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 4, 2019 at 1:11 pm

        Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. We look forward to hearing more of your positive comments in the future. Have a great day, Jessica!

  3. Reasons I Love My Boyfriend

    November 23, 2018 at 3:06 am

    Hey! This is my first comment here so I just wanted to give a quick shout out and tell you I genuinely enjoy reading your posts. Can you recommend any other blogs/websites/forums that go over the same subjects? Thanks for your time!

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 23, 2018 at 10:08 pm

      Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Reasons!

  4. Jess

    November 19, 2018 at 2:38 am

    My ex broke up with me through text 2 months ago now hes saying he screwed up and wants to get back together. He’s was my first boyfriend and I’m not sure what to do I still have feelings for him. We started talking again last month now we talk daily

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 20, 2018 at 7:10 pm

      The two of you ended your relationship two months ago. You are now now talking each day. Determine what you want for your future. Decide if you believe is behavior was appropriate. Speak with your friends about your thoughts and feelings. If you think this relationship is viable, then nourish it by spending additional time with him in person. Ensure that he always treats you with respect. Have a great day, Jess!

  5. Isabella

    October 20, 2018 at 11:17 am

    Me and my bf, it is complicated he dated my best friend and when they broke up he said that he loved me and i love him but i didn’t tell anyone and now we r dating and now my best friend thinks its awkward that i am dating her ex and she said she dosnt want to be in all of it, so what do i do?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 20, 2018 at 2:04 pm

      Your best friend has explained that she is not comfortable with you dating her ex. This is a perfectly acceptable for her to have. You have decided to nourish this relationship with someone who your best friend is no longer in a relationship with. It is up to you to take this time to determine what you want for your future. Whatever decision you make from this point will have a variety of repercussions for your future social and emotional relationships. Have a great day, Isabella!

  6. qorqi

    September 15, 2018 at 3:02 pm

    Me and my bf broke up but we made a plan to be best friends and we’ve done things that can’t be forgotten so should I let our relationship go and just be friends or push to get our relationship back help me please

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 15, 2018 at 5:02 pm

      The two of you have decided to end your romantic relationship. It is possible that your previous interactions have influenced your feelings. Determine what you want for the future of this friendship. Decide what you believe is viable and appropriate. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Qorqi!

    • Sieneh Davies

      October 12, 2018 at 5:56 pm

      That only depends if you both still love each other, if the feeling is still involved than keep trying, love can overtake anything. You don’t want to lose the only love of your life because of a mistake or misunderstanding. People change as time go by

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 12, 2018 at 8:14 pm

        Thank you for sharing your supportive comments. It is certain that your thoughts and feelings will support many members of our community. Please share more of your positive comments in the future. Have a great day, Sieneh!

  7. Mackayla

    August 15, 2018 at 2:46 pm

    He likes me, I like him but distance is a problem so he hasn’t asked me out yet but we are very tight and we have no problems…what should I do?
    Move on or wait!

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 15, 2018 at 10:11 pm

      The two of you share a strong emotional connection, and you are aware that the distance between you may make this relationship difficult to maintain. Determine what you want for your future. Decide what type of relationship is viable. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Perhaps attempt to spend time with him in person. Have a great day, Mackayla!

  8. Hope less romantic

    August 1, 2018 at 8:25 pm

    Hi my boyfriend and I are really good together when we’re with others but when it’s just the 2 of us we are really awkward with each other

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 2, 2018 at 8:27 pm

      This is fairly normal in the start of a relationship. You are just getting used to being around each other, so it makes sense that you might still feel awkward from time to time. Over the course of the next few months, you will naturally start to feel more comfortable with each other, so I wouldn’t worry too much. Good luck, Hope Less Romantic!

  9. Keiley

    August 1, 2018 at 6:20 pm

    My bf just came out as gay😭 but I love h I’m so much and I can’t loose him

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 1, 2018 at 6:41 pm

      Your boyfriend has shared his thoughts and feelings. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. If he is no longer able to maintain a relationship with you, then determine what you want for your future without him. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Keiley!

  10. lyba khan

    May 30, 2018 at 11:24 am

    Hyeee I don’t know my bf is loving me or not he shows no intrst in relationship vt to do vt to not do hw cld I judge his feelngx

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 30, 2018 at 2:19 pm

      It sounds as though you feel that you are being neglected. Determine what you believe you want for your future. Decide which actions you feel are appropriate for your relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he ignores you or chooses to treat you without respect, then end this relationship. Have a great day, Lyba!

  11. lyba khan

    May 30, 2018 at 11:21 am

    Hyeee I don’t know my bf is loving me or not he shows no intrst in relationship sometyms he says I luv u frm depth smetym he behvs so rudely I dont know vt shld I do I shld move on or not

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 30, 2018 at 2:18 pm

      It sounds as though you feel that you are being neglected. Determine what you believe you want for your future. Decide which actions you feel are appropriate for your relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he ignores you or chooses to treat you without respect, then end this relationship. Have a great day, Lyba!

    • Unknown

      July 15, 2018 at 8:58 am

      Leave him

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 15, 2018 at 11:25 pm

        Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Please share more of your supportive comments in the future. Have a great day, Unknown!

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