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    20 Signs a guy like you more than friend.

    By on December 25, 2013

    You like him, no doubt about that. You like the way he smirks when something is pretty funny, and the way he turns red when he’s complimented. You like his eyes, the way his hair falls just right across his forehead. However, you don’t have any idea if he likes you that same way. Does he notice those things about you? Naturally you won’t even try to talk about it or do anything about it until you know how he feels. Why would you? It could ruin a friendship or make things really awkward. But, what you don’t know is that there are sure-fire ways to tell if he’s into you too. If you find he does any of these signs, you’re in!

    1. He Changes The Way He Acts

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    When hanging out with a group of friends, he doesn’t act like he would if he were with them alone. As if he’s trying to impress you, he may be more polite and more attentive to you over them. If this happens, to show him you are into him, find reasons to grab his hand or his arm. Men are more likely to respond to physical contact than playful hints. You’ll notice that most guys, when they are with their friends, will show off. They’ll act like children–they goof off with their friends and act in a pretty embarrassing manner. But, when you are around everything is different. He acts like he doesn’t condone their childish behaviors, and may even dress in a different way.

    2. He Asks Random Questions

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    If he keeps asking seemingly random yet obvious questions (ie. Do you have a boyfriend? What do you do for fun?) then he is probably into you. Why would he need to know if you have a boyfriend if he isn’t planning on changing that status for you? Asking what you do for fun is a sneaky way to know your interests for future date purposes. One of the most common questions is asking for your number or wanting to know everything about you. If he asks about your history, it means he is invested in you enough to want to learn where it is you come from, how you became the person you are, and even your family.

    3. Always Finds A Reason To Touch You

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    He can’t keep his hands off you. Literally. He finds any reason at all to touch you, be it helping you down stairs or into a car or even just “accidentally” side swiping your hand with his. One of the cutest things he will do is tickle you a bit. When a guy tickles you, it’s almost always flirting. No, its not just about cheesy pickup lines!

    4. He TRIES

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    He goes out of his way to spend time with you. He cancels previous plans the minute you say you want to hang out. Any man who gives up Tuesday night poker or Sunday night football to spend time with you… if that doesn’t spell love then what does?

    5. He Becomes Your ‘Yes’ Man

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    You notice that he always agrees with you. Seriously, with everything you say and everything you do. You could throw a banana peel in the way of an old lady with a walker, causing her to trip and fall, and then point and laugh at her and he will likely join in. Why? Because he likes you and really wants you to like him.

    6. He Seems Very Protective of You

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    No matter what’s going on, he makes sure that you are safe. He guards you as if you are his most prized possession. Not saying women are possessions, but you get the idea. He may even go so far as to defend your honor if other guys are messing with you. Chivalry is not always dead! He gets upset if you are upset, and if you got faced with a mugger, he’d put you behind him while dealing with the situation. Sure, he could get shot or stabbed but as long as you are safe, he’d be okay with it.

    7. He Teases

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    If you find he is slightly picking on you, teasing little things about you, it kind of falls into that elementary school idea that if he pulls your hair and picks on you, he must be in love. For a guy, teasing is flirting. Flirting means he likes you. It’s just that simple!

    8. He Wants to Hear From You

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    He messages, texts, and calls you more often than not. One of the most obvious signs that he likes you is the fact that he can’t go a full day without talking to you. This shows that you are on his mind all the time, and he wouldn’t have it any other way!

    9. He Helps You Out… Always

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    He has no problem doing whatever you ask him to. Whether it’s carrying boxes up to your 8th floor apartment, paying your rent, becoming your personal chauffeur, or hit man when exes don’t leave you alone. Whatever you need, he’s the guy for the job. In fact, if you really wanted him to, he’d treat you like a Queen and call you his majesty.

    10. He Notices

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    There’s also the fact that he notices the little things about you. The new haircut, new shoes, or the fact that you’ve recently changed shampoos. Maybe it’s the way you smile depending on the circumstance. Either way, he notices and likes it.

    11. He’s Been Asking About You

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    You’ve heard from your sister’s boyfriend’s cousin’s wife that he’s been asking about you. Everywhere. The hobo that sits outside your building bumming for change had a twenty minute conversation about if he sees other guys coming in or out of your apartment.

    12. He’s Loyal

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    You never see him so much as looking at other women. When the two of you are together, a whole burlesque show could walk by and he wouldn’t notice. In fact, the naked mile may run past you and his eyes remain focused on yours. You are the only one within his peripheral vision.

    13. He Hangs Out With Your Friends

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    Everyone has that annoying friend, and nine times out of ten, it happens to be your best friend. He doesn’t like her, but he’ll hang out with her because you are there. Yea, that’s love. Even if that annoying friend is a guy who happens to be madly in love with you and you don’t feel that way. This guy may just be nice enough to have bro time with your friend, just to show how much he cares for you.

    14. He Treats You Amazingly

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    He proves once again that chivalry is not dead. He opens the door for you, writes you little notes, helps you with your bags, defends you to people bugging you, and does all the little things we wish most men would do. Most guys don’t just do that for every woman, so you must be pretty special in his eyes if he’s willing to do it for you.

    15. There’s No Sense of Time

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    Things are never rushed when the two of you are together. It’s like he has no care in the world on being late or missing something, so long as he has you. This means that he could spend hours on the phone just listening to you breathe and he’d be perfectly content with this.

    16. He Tells You

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    One of the most obvious signs a guy likes you more than a friend? He says it. He says, “girl, I can’t stop thinking about you. You’re all I ever wanted and more.” Or something along those cheesy lines. Maybe he does it in a cute way, like writes you a note. Circle yes or no?

    17.  He’s Always Nearby

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    He’s always close to you. He finds reasons to be close to you, maybe by leaning in when you are trying to talk to him. Sure, he probably doesn’t even need to get closer to hear you, but he will anyway. He just wants to spend a few seconds hearing nothing but you and smelling the perfume you are wearing. Plus, he probably hugs you. A lot. And lingers for an undetermined amount of time to smell your hair like those creepy guys in the stalker movies.

    18. He Ignores You

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    There is one way to know if he likes you, but honestly it’s hit or miss. He may pay no attention to you whatsoever. This whole “play hard to get” routine can be a popular one. It’s a way for him to play it cool and act like he doesn’t care when in fact, he’d bend over backwards to impress you.

    19. He Has All Your Contact Info, Because He Asked For It

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    He wants to know how to get a hold of you at all times. He doesn’t say it like that, (because that would be creepy) but he adds you to Facebook, gets your home and cell numbers, and just for extra measures, installs a GPS on your car. Just kidding about that last one, but he really wants to be available to you.

    20. He Goes In For The Kiss

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    The final clue that you are the one person on his mind? He tries to kiss you. He leans in, you can smell his mint mouthwash, his lips definitely look kissable, and who knows? Maybe he succeeds and kisses you. He could be drunk or sober, it doesn’t matter. If he kisses you, he at least finds you somewhat appealing to him. You should definitely see where it goes.

    Long story short, if the guy you like happens to exhibit any of these signs, he’s more than likely into you for more than just friendship. There are a few things you should be warned about though. One, some of these signs can be seriously misconstrued. He may like you, but in the brother/sister type of love. He could also be gay, or just a really nice guy. If you are best friends with him and you were interested in making it more, be wary. It may ruin the friendship. Or, it may be the best thing to ever happen and you’ll live happily ever after. You never can tell. He just might be the one for you!

    270 Comments

    1. Neko

      July 17, 2018 at 5:39 pm

      I often have dream of this guy friend we used to be really close, we have been friends for 10 years now… he used to always hug me from the back randomly. Then as years go by I realise I probably have a crush on him, he’s someone that can read me like a book. but when he knows that i like him, he starts avoiding me. We still go out, normally in a big group, and travel tgt once a year, but we don’t talk much anymore don’t hang out on our own anymore in recent years. Then suddenly ytd I dreamt of him kissing me on my lip it’s just a peck but am shock even in the dreams. What does it mean..

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 18, 2018 at 12:22 am

        Your dream may be a reflection of your social and emotional connection with you. He may be avoiding you for various reasons. He may share similar feelings for you, but he may also be shy. He may be uncertain or confused about your feelings. Determine what you want for this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Neko!

    2. siz

      June 18, 2018 at 8:22 am

      Hey .So I invited my best friend to have dinner with me in the street. He said yes so I met him at the shop. we talked about everything and anything. he dared me to burn myself with his cigarette so I did, I never back down from a dare. He took me into this long hug and cried ” you’re mental “. He then kissed me and I said no , as it wasn’t private. I took him down an alleyway and he put me up against the fence. He kissed me and i kissed back, and he started to touch me , I didn’t deny it. I then had to go home and he gave me a final kiss and i went my own way. I’m so confused in what we both want, I can’t think straight and may have massive feelings for him but I’ve maybe ruined the friendship. I’m 16

      • web admin

        web admin

        June 18, 2018 at 11:27 pm

        The two of you share a strong social and emotional connection. You did not harm your relationship. You shared a physical and emotional experience with your best friend. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Continue to spend additional time with him, as this will strengthen your relationship. Have a great day, Siz!

    3. Kristen

      May 19, 2018 at 2:34 pm

      Not to long ago, I had a dream about a guy friend that I like. In the dream we kissed. I don’t think he knows that I like him. He has a girlfriend that he is always telling me about. It kinda hurts to hear him talking about her. What do I do?

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 21, 2018 at 9:57 pm

        You feel a strong emotional connection with your friend and your dreams are reflections of this connection. He is in a relationship, so do not attempt to nourish a romantic relationship with him at this time. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. If his relationship naturally ends and you want to nourish a romantic relationship with him, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Kristen!

    4. Mike

      May 11, 2018 at 11:09 pm

      I had a dream about my guy bestfriend last yr probably in October and in that dream we were in our pick up car and someone was driving for us and out of nowhere he kisses me on the lips(not kissing). After waking up i thought its just a normal dream. Not too long after probably still in October or November, i dreamt “about” him again and then he give me smack on the lips. After waking up i thought its “probably” normal, probably. And then today, i dreamt we were in our house(my family), i was using my phone and he was beside me, then he kisses me(not kissing) and touches my private. This time i thought this is very weird, there has to be something behind this 3 dreams where he kisses me on my lips. Any opinions? Is he gay/bi?

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 12, 2018 at 11:25 am

        The two of you share a strong emotional and social connection. Your dreams are reflections of your emotional desires and influences. It is possible that you are interested in developing a romantic relationship with him. If you having these dreams, then it is certainly possible that his behaviors have influenced these dreams. Have a great day, Mike!

      • Lit winger

        May 12, 2018 at 1:38 pm

        I have no clue… but, if you don’t know him DONT let him touch your private. He might as well have to not be into girls or something. These are dreams right? So there is no right and no wrong

        • web admin

          web admin

          May 12, 2018 at 8:45 pm

          The intimate details were all in a dream. As for how the friend actually feels in real life, there is no way to know from just a dream. Thanks for commenting!

          • Mike

            May 15, 2018 at 11:04 am

            I was just wondering why on earth would my guy best friend be the one to kiss me when in fact i also have a girl best friend and we hang out more than him, we chat more than him, why not her right? Is there a possibility that he might be hiding something, his sexuality perhaps, and that it took my dreams to reveal a secret of him? Im really confused about these dreams. Im just looking for any possible opinions. And wait, you said it might be possible that “I” want to established a romantic relationship with him? How is that? He was the one who kissed me not me to him. Or you miscontrued? Thank you for replying!

            • web admin

              web admin

              May 15, 2018 at 10:07 pm

              Your dreams are reflections of your thoughts and feelings. No one except for your own mind manifested in your dreams. It is possible that your dreams are reflections of the influences and events that occur in your life. Perhaps speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. You will find benefit in speaking with your best friend as well. Have a great day, Mike!

              • Mike

                May 16, 2018 at 11:31 pm

                You mean to say, i should actually go to him and tell him about my dreams? there’s no way im gonna do that. And why would i tell him about my feelings to him, im not inlove with him nor do i like him “like” him, or even have feelings for him, im not gay. Hes my bestfriend. Studies say that if someone dreams about you or you dream about someone, its because you’re “frequently” thinking about them or them frequently thinking about you so you/they tend to appear in your/their dreams. And honestly I havent even talked to him for days and i dont think about him frequently.

                • web admin

                  web admin

                  May 17, 2018 at 11:30 am

                  You have stated that you are not interested in developing a relationship with him. You feel as though you have no feelings that you want to express with your friend. Because of this, there is no reason to continue to focus your emotional attention on him. Focus your energy elsewhere. If you decide that you want to share your thoughts with him in the future, then do so. Have a great day, Mike!

    5. Mike

      May 11, 2018 at 10:50 pm

      I had a dream about my guy best friend last year probably October, we were inside our pick up car, someone was driving for us and then out of nowhere, he gives me a kiss on the lips, i had no reaction about it, . After waking up i thought it was just a normal dream. Not too long after probably still October or November, i had a dream about him again and he kisses(not kissing) me on the lips. So i thought this “seems” like a normal dream, probably a normal dream. And then today! We were in my house, i was using my phone, and he was beside me. Then he kisses me on the lips and then touches my private. Now this time i began wondering what the reason behind my 3 dreams where my guy best friend kisses me on my lips. Is he gay/bi?

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 12, 2018 at 11:25 am

        The two of you share a strong emotional and social connection. Your dreams are reflections of your emotional desires and influences. It is possible that you are interested in developing a romantic relationship with him. If you having these dreams, then it is certainly possible that his behaviors have influenced these dreams. Have a great day, Mike!

    6. Derek Falcon

      May 4, 2018 at 8:32 pm

      I’m friends with this guy and he’s a freshman in high school, while I’m a sophomore. He’s French as well (moved to the US at 4). Anyways, earlier this year we were talking. We started talking about him. I’ll just say this much, his family owns castles in France and his baby brother passed away at one of the pools at their vacation castle. He also always wraps his arm around me, pokes me, and tickles me. I’m a guy as well. Are these signs that he likes me? He always finds a reason to talk to me. I’m beginning to think he’s gay.

      – Derek Falcon (idk what’s going on)

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 4, 2018 at 9:43 pm

        It is possible that he is gay. It is possible that he is attempting to nourish a relationship with you. His cultural influences from his parents are likely filled with French history. His behaviors may be indications of that background. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. Have a great day, Derek!

    7. Tina

      April 29, 2018 at 2:44 am

      hy, there is this guy who is my friend for a while now, I like like him ,and he has a girlfriend (he told me about her) but something lead to us kissing and cuddling . And he told me he cares about me , and when we see we kissed (I initiate it,but he do respond to my kisses) and I recently asked him “what are we doing” and he told me he likes me but as a sister,and he did all that to protect me and he didn’t want to hurt me so he played along.. I feel like he played with my emotion because he was aware of my feelings for him .. Could he be turning me down because he has a girlfriend or he just like me as a sister ..

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 29, 2018 at 10:51 pm

        If he has a girlfriend, then he is not interested in developing a relationship with you. He may view you as a sister. Allow your romantic thoughts of him to fade. If he becomes single and reaches out to you in the future, then share your thoughts and feelings with him. Continue to share your kindness and compassion. Have a great day, Tina!

    8. Brittany

      April 10, 2018 at 5:52 am

      My ex and I broke things off months ago because he got scared essentially. I have a child and he’s a littler younger than me. We never really stopped hanging out though, and honestly nothing really feels much different. Besides the fact that I don’t get honey and baby and constant affection. We hang out one on one, with our friends, during the day, at night, go out to eat, help each other out . He’s hot and cold a lot of mixed signals. If we go out he usually pays. When he was sick he called me. When I needed help I called him. But recently he has joked saying he’s glad we are friends etc and I flat out said I’m not Intimate with my friends. At dinner once he noted how he thought a girl was cute and then looked to see if I got mad or jealous. At this point i don’t know if he even still likes me and enjoys my
      Company or is it just better than being alone? But if all he wants is fun, why is he coming to the rescue when i need him and Calling me when he needs me? BOYS . Help

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 10, 2018 at 9:04 pm

        It sounds as though he has decided to treat you without respect. Determine what you think is appropriate for the future of your relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Brittany!

    9. Jade

      March 27, 2018 at 9:33 pm

      I have a guy friend. Who keeps giving mix signals. He says he not ready for a relationship. Has admitted he doesn’t want too date me because he afraid to lose me as a friend. Has said things like he wants me to meet his son, grandma. And wants me to help with his son. Has said he married me when where in our 30s, while drunk. I’m not sure why he said that. He does chores and protective over me. It so confusing. Says if he ever gets a girlfriend he dumped her if he couldn’t be my friend. Cuddles with me but says this what close friends do. Says friends sleep in same bed and uses his best guy friends as an examples and women he done same thing with and are still friends with them.

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 27, 2018 at 9:53 pm

        He is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. There may be another reason why he is unable to nourish this relationship. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Jade!

        • Jade

          March 30, 2018 at 9:56 am

          Thank you. You as well. I really needed the advice.

    10. Melissa

      March 25, 2018 at 9:21 pm

      I had a dream that this guy I like who has a daughter asked me if I love her daddy ? And I said maybe.
      And her dad also said he may love me too.
      He also kissed me on the cheek while he thought I was sleeping but didn’t say anything.

      Does this mean he does love me but is scared to admit it ?
      What do I do ?

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 26, 2018 at 9:44 pm

        He feels a strong emotional connection with you. He may certainly want to nourish this relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Melissa!

    11. anonymous

      March 24, 2018 at 8:40 pm

      I have a guy friend I have fallen for.. he lives in the UK and we talk a lot..we’ve known eachother for a couple years..but I feel like he actually likes be but is afraid to tell me.. He says I’m the closest girl he’s to outside of his family,he calls me his dearest friend,he hugs me..he’s upset when I am..he always says he just wants me to be ok..he likes to dance with me (on a virtual thing we’re on),he doesn’t mind sending me kisses,he’s not a smiling kind of person, but he smiles a lot for me, he acts so..different around me..protective and..i don’t.. we skype and kik sometimes..he’s so amazing..he treats me so wonderfully..and he tells me he loves me (dear friend) could he be hinting something for later?

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 25, 2018 at 8:36 pm

        It definitely sounds like he could like you. He may just be afraid of doing anything and letting you know how he feels because he does not want to hurt your friendship. If you have a crush on him as well, you might have to make a move if you want anything to happen between you. Good luck, Anonymous!

    12. Sarah

      January 17, 2018 at 3:05 am

      The guy I met on Okcupid is exactly like this. Except hasn’t ignored me. He saved all my voice recordings and some of the messeges I sent him.

      On the first day, he could not stop staring at me and at times (we were at a museum) he kept on tickling my sides and putting his head on my shoulder. Then he kept tickling my hands.

      2nd Date, we went to another museum and he kept hugging me and inching closer and even got on the bus home with me

      3rd Date I went to his house and we watched a film together. He took me home in a taxi as I missed my bus. He wanted to make sure I was safe.

      He often helps me do my cost up, puts my gloves on and hates seeing me cold. Also let’s me fall asleep on him and even offers to carry things for me.

      From that point it’s all moved forward and he’s excited with the idea of me going to uni etc and moving out etc.

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 19, 2018 at 12:05 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in a developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Sarah!

    13. Anonymous

      November 18, 2017 at 8:13 pm

      Note: This is going to be quite long. I’m so confused! So I have this guy that I know and we do this sport together. The thing is, is that he’s the owner’s son and so I help them out to clean up the place every once in a while and after I do my homework till we close. He’ll like flirt with me every once in a while (at least I think so). He’ll buy me food, bring me tea when I’m sick, ask about my day and my personal life, and he even took me out once! But, he’s so confusing because he’ll be really flirty with me one day, but then the next I’ll see him with this other girl (mind you she’s underage), but I can’t tell if he’s treating her like a little sister or not. Anyways it’s super confusing, but I don’t want to jump to any conclusions. Please help! Thank you!

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 19, 2017 at 5:52 pm

        It is certainly possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is clear that he cares for you. Do not allow his interactions with this other person concern you. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Have a great day, Anon!

    14. Dawn Halls

      November 13, 2017 at 2:45 pm

      Most of these don’t apply to my situation. See, I know this guy over the internet. We’ve both confessed that we have love-like feelings for each other, but lately when he emails, he says we are just best friends. I know I would do most of these to him if we ever met in real life; but I just can’t tell if he regards us as friends or lovers-to-be.
      What he has done is defended me against internet trolls, stayed up late just to be able to keep commenting on my posts, kept talking to me even though he is currently banned from the website, and finds any way he can to keep messaging me, be it through YouTube, email, or other. He doesn’t forget any of the things I’ve said or that we’ve promised each other. I know I fell hard for him. But I can’t see through his heart. Great guy, or likes me? Please help!

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 13, 2017 at 4:33 pm

        It is possible that this person cares for you. It is clear that he wants you not to be harmed. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with this person, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Dawn!

    15. Kadin

      November 3, 2017 at 4:57 pm

      I have this friend in my cadets class that I see once a week I catch him looking at me quite often and when I catch him he looks away he also comes up to me and tickles or pokes my sides and hips and once he came up to me raised his eyebrows and walked away without saying anything and he jokes about me being his gf and talks to me whenever he can does this mean he likes me?

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 3, 2017 at 7:59 pm

        It is likely that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is clear that he is attracted to you and feels comfortable around you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Kadin!

    16. Shariya S.

      October 19, 2017 at 11:24 am

      So I actually have this super cute guy on my Snapchat. He didn’t work until three today so he drove an hour out of his way to come see me. We cuddles, he kissed me (a lot) and he let me sleep on him. He also started tickling me. Does this mean he likes me as more than friends? I just want to be completely sure.

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 19, 2017 at 8:57 pm

        This means that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is likely that he has a strong emotional connection with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your relationship. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him the opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Shariya!

    17. Miranda

      October 18, 2017 at 10:32 pm

      Hi. I have this older guy friend. I dont know if he likes me because he always find excuses to touch me like touching my shoulder, tucks my hair into my ear, and there was a time that he touched my knees and he laid his head on it and slighly squeezed it. i always catch him looking at me. sometimes he ignores me. and when were alone, he speak less. what does it mean. is he only treated me as his little sister? or there’s something?

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 19, 2017 at 8:38 pm

        It is likely that he has a strong emotional connection. He may be interested in establishing a relationship with you. He may uncertain or confused about your thoughts and feelings. Take this time to determine what you want with this relationship. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Miranda!

    18. katherine

      October 18, 2017 at 12:15 am

      im in 10th grader in high school and my best guy friend is a freshmen. about a month ago we became freinds with benifits even though he’s talking ti my sister’s best friend, who are also freshmen. today my best guy friend just told me he loved the girl he was talking to and then he started questioning it and I told him that if he loved her that he wouldn’t be texting me that kind of stuff. he said I was right and that he needed to hear that. then later in the convo he addmitted to liking me in 7th grade and earlier this year at diffrent times. i think he likes me now but I told him that i don’t like being in relationships because it makes me feel to constrained when I can be dependent on myself than be dependent others. but becuase I told him this I think he’s gonna be really depressed because he’s liked n in the past and I’m not sure if he likes me now. I’m curious, because of this situation, if he had feelings for me the whole time or if he wasn’t to sure about it.

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 18, 2017 at 7:54 pm

        It is possible that his feelings for you have been established for some time. If he is interested in developing a relationship with someone else, then you need to determine your thoughts and feelings regarding his actions. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Katherine!

    19. Ellen

      September 30, 2017 at 6:42 pm

      Hi, I have this best friend I’ve known for a very long time and super close. He one day wanted me to visit him and spend the night there which I did and that night he kissed me and nothing else which made me confused and asked him later on if he has feelings for me but he said we should leave it with time, then one of this days I went to visit my female best friend and spent the night there without telling him and he called and I told him I spent the night at a friend house and he was very curious to know the type of friend,why,where this person stays and when am coming back to my home, I then told him is my gal friend and he became relaxed but recently he visited me and when he was leaving we kissed but doesn’t tell me whether he loves me or not and am confused,and above all he’s very loving and teases me sometimes. I don’t know what to do or think

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 2, 2017 at 5:07 pm

        He is attracted to you and may be interested in developing a relationship with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Ellen!

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