20 Signs a guy like you more than friend.

By on December 25, 2013

You like him, no doubt about that. You like the way he smirks when something is pretty funny, and the way he turns red when he’s complimented. You like his eyes, the way his hair falls just right across his forehead. However, you don’t have any idea if he likes you that same way. Does he notice those things about you? Naturally you won’t even try to talk about it or do anything about it until you know how he feels. Why would you? It could ruin a friendship or make things really awkward. But, what you don’t know is that there are sure-fire ways to tell if he’s into you too. If you find he does any of these signs, you’re in!

1. He Changes The Way He Acts


When hanging out with a group of friends, he doesn’t act like he would if he were with them alone. As if he’s trying to impress you, he may be more polite and more attentive to you over them. If this happens, to show him you are into him, find reasons to grab his hand or his arm. Men are more likely to respond to physical contact than playful hints. You’ll notice that most guys, when they are with their friends, will show off. They’ll act like children–they goof off with their friends and act in a pretty embarrassing manner. But, when you are around everything is different. He acts like he doesn’t condone their childish behaviors, and may even dress in a different way.

2. He Asks Random Questions


If he keeps asking seemingly random yet obvious questions (ie. Do you have a boyfriend? What do you do for fun?) then he is probably into you. Why would he need to know if you have a boyfriend if he isn’t planning on changing that status for you? Asking what you do for fun is a sneaky way to know your interests for future date purposes. One of the most common questions is asking for your number or wanting to know everything about you. If he asks about your history, it means he is invested in you enough to want to learn where it is you come from, how you became the person you are, and even your family.

3. Always Finds A Reason To Touch You

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He can’t keep his hands off you. Literally. He finds any reason at all to touch you, be it helping you down stairs or into a car or even just “accidentally” side swiping your hand with his. One of the cutest things he will do is tickle you a bit. When a guy tickles you, it’s almost always flirting. No, its not just about cheesy pickup lines!



He goes out of his way to spend time with you. He cancels previous plans the minute you say you want to hang out. Any man who gives up Tuesday night poker or Sunday night football to spend time with you… if that doesn’t spell love then what does?

5. He Becomes Your ‘Yes’ Man


You notice that he always agrees with you. Seriously, with everything you say and everything you do. You could throw a banana peel in the way of an old lady with a walker, causing her to trip and fall, and then point and laugh at her and he will likely join in. Why? Because he likes you and really wants you to like him.

6. He Seems Very Protective of You


No matter what’s going on, he makes sure that you are safe. He guards you as if you are his most prized possession. Not saying women are possessions, but you get the idea. He may even go so far as to defend your honor if other guys are messing with you. Chivalry is not always dead! He gets upset if you are upset, and if you got faced with a mugger, he’d put you behind him while dealing with the situation. Sure, he could get shot or stabbed but as long as you are safe, he’d be okay with it.

7. He Teases


If you find he is slightly picking on you, teasing little things about you, it kind of falls into that elementary school idea that if he pulls your hair and picks on you, he must be in love. For a guy, teasing is flirting. Flirting means he likes you. It’s just that simple!

8. He Wants to Hear From You


He messages, texts, and calls you more often than not. One of the most obvious signs that he likes you is the fact that he can’t go a full day without talking to you. This shows that you are on his mind all the time, and he wouldn’t have it any other way!

9. He Helps You Out… Always


He has no problem doing whatever you ask him to. Whether it’s carrying boxes up to your 8th floor apartment, paying your rent, becoming your personal chauffeur, or hit man when exes don’t leave you alone. Whatever you need, he’s the guy for the job. In fact, if you really wanted him to, he’d treat you like a Queen and call you his majesty.

10. He Notices

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There’s also the fact that he notices the little things about you. The new haircut, new shoes, or the fact that you’ve recently changed shampoos. Maybe it’s the way you smile depending on the circumstance. Either way, he notices and likes it.

11. He’s Been Asking About You


You’ve heard from your sister’s boyfriend’s cousin’s wife that he’s been asking about you. Everywhere. The hobo that sits outside your building bumming for change had a twenty minute conversation about if he sees other guys coming in or out of your apartment.

12. He’s Loyal


You never see him so much as looking at other women. When the two of you are together, a whole burlesque show could walk by and he wouldn’t notice. In fact, the naked mile may run past you and his eyes remain focused on yours. You are the only one within his peripheral vision.

13. He Hangs Out With Your Friends


Everyone has that annoying friend, and nine times out of ten, it happens to be your best friend. He doesn’t like her, but he’ll hang out with her because you are there. Yea, that’s love. Even if that annoying friend is a guy who happens to be madly in love with you and you don’t feel that way. This guy may just be nice enough to have bro time with your friend, just to show how much he cares for you.

14. He Treats You Amazingly


He proves once again that chivalry is not dead. He opens the door for you, writes you little notes, helps you with your bags, defends you to people bugging you, and does all the little things we wish most men would do. Most guys don’t just do that for every woman, so you must be pretty special in his eyes if he’s willing to do it for you.

15. There’s No Sense of Time


Things are never rushed when the two of you are together. It’s like he has no care in the world on being late or missing something, so long as he has you. This means that he could spend hours on the phone just listening to you breathe and he’d be perfectly content with this.

16. He Tells You


One of the most obvious signs a guy likes you more than a friend? He says it. He says, “girl, I can’t stop thinking about you. You’re all I ever wanted and more.” Or something along those cheesy lines. Maybe he does it in a cute way, like writes you a note. Circle yes or no?

17.  He’s Always Nearby


He’s always close to you. He finds reasons to be close to you, maybe by leaning in when you are trying to talk to him. Sure, he probably doesn’t even need to get closer to hear you, but he will anyway. He just wants to spend a few seconds hearing nothing but you and smelling the perfume you are wearing. Plus, he probably hugs you. A lot. And lingers for an undetermined amount of time to smell your hair like those creepy guys in the stalker movies.

18. He Ignores You

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There is one way to know if he likes you, but honestly it’s hit or miss. He may pay no attention to you whatsoever. This whole “play hard to get” routine can be a popular one. It’s a way for him to play it cool and act like he doesn’t care when in fact, he’d bend over backwards to impress you.

19. He Has All Your Contact Info, Because He Asked For It


He wants to know how to get a hold of you at all times. He doesn’t say it like that, (because that would be creepy) but he adds you to Facebook, gets your home and cell numbers, and just for extra measures, installs a GPS on your car. Just kidding about that last one, but he really wants to be available to you.

20. He Goes In For The Kiss


The final clue that you are the one person on his mind? He tries to kiss you. He leans in, you can smell his mint mouthwash, his lips definitely look kissable, and who knows? Maybe he succeeds and kisses you. He could be drunk or sober, it doesn’t matter. If he kisses you, he at least finds you somewhat appealing to him. You should definitely see where it goes.

Long story short, if the guy you like happens to exhibit any of these signs, he’s more than likely into you for more than just friendship. There are a few things you should be warned about though. One, some of these signs can be seriously misconstrued. He may like you, but in the brother/sister type of love. He could also be gay, or just a really nice guy. If you are best friends with him and you were interested in making it more, be wary. It may ruin the friendship. Or, it may be the best thing to ever happen and you’ll live happily ever after. You never can tell. He just might be the one for you!


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    March 22, 2020 at 5:22 pm

    Please you haven’t answered my question

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      March 23, 2020 at 6:05 pm

      I have to answer all of them individually, so it sometimes takes me a little while to get around to them all. I just answered your other question, so read it and let me know if you have any other questions!

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    October 6, 2019 at 6:07 am

    I have a guy friend, he doesn’t text me often or reply back to me always even if he’s online. He compliments me sometimes. I get mixed feelings all the time. When I want to talk to him he’ll make up excuses about him being with friends or family. But when I hangout with him sometimes he would make out with me. Do you think he loves me? Or he’s just fulfilling his needs? I’m confused.

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      February 4, 2020 at 8:09 pm

      He may be interested in maintaining a relationship with you. It is possible that he is interested in a emotional or physical relationship. Make a decision about what you feel is appropriate. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well.

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      March 22, 2020 at 2:29 pm

      So I have this guy friend I have known for some time now..we good friends but we don’t discuss anything about relationship..but he gives me mixed signals..his brother once told me that I’m breaking his heart.. he used to call me honey..he tells his family that I’m beautiful n that I’m his bestie..but he hasn’t told me anything personally about his feelings..I’m confused

      • web admin

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        March 23, 2020 at 6:04 pm

        If you are his best friend, he may be worried that he could ruin the friendship by telling you how he feels. If he likes you a lot, he may also be afraid of making a move. The fact that his brother says you’re breaking his heart and the family knows he thinks your beautiful seems to be a good indication of his feelings. He is probably just afraid to ruin your friendship by making a move and getting rejected. At this point, the best thing you can do is to just talk to him about how you feel if you happen to like him back. Good luck!

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    July 30, 2019 at 2:26 pm

    I have a guy, I like a lot and I don’t know if he feels same about me. He live tickling my waist. Always looking at me when we are in the same place and when I caught his stare he smiles back. He has refused to tell me his feelings for me and he keeps making me feel like he likes me this moment and the next moment he is not into me.
    We once had a misunderstanding and he said he can’t start anything with me but want to be friends but now he is still doing the same things now. I am confused.

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      July 30, 2019 at 3:11 pm

      His behaviors are indications that he is attracted to you. It seems that he is uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. This may be making behave in an unusual manner. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Determine what you believe is viable and appropriate. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Anon!

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    July 29, 2019 at 3:46 pm

    So I have a guy friend that I have known for 6 years. We have always been close but parted ways after high school for a few years. We were both in serious committed relationships and did not speak with each other during those years but we knew we always had each other. Our relationships ended around the same time (both due to completely different reasons, nothing to do with each other)so we started talking and hanging out again. We have been inseparable since. Before I use to tell myself that its because we understood each other and could talk to each other but that phase ended over a year ago. Now he knows my entire family, is always there for me and we have been having small moments. He will reach in and hung me for a long period of times, will stare at me when we are out to dinner together, and will always compliment me and make me feel beautiful on top of other side comments like “I think of you every morning” or “I’m always thinking of you”. My entire family loves him and are just waiting for us to finally get together. But I cannot tell if he is being my best friend or if there is more? Not to mention when he has too much to drink he tends to be more attached to me or will be more affectionate. I am starting to get deep feelings for this guy but I am terrified of getting rejected and then it ruining our great friendship.

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      July 29, 2019 at 9:28 pm

      The two of you share social and emotional relationships. During the course of your relationship, both of you maintained serious relationships. Now, the two of you are single and are maintaining time together. It is certainly likely that he is interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Anon!

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      August 15, 2019 at 8:47 pm

      Loves in the air
      Most of the signs is true to me and like 4 or 5 of the 20 signs hasn’t happen. Were two different people. I haven’t met his friends he haven’t met mine. We don’t go out together in public which he made it harder for us to do so and barely communicate now because he’s with someone else. Poor me being there for this person since he’s depression after a break-up with his last girlfriend. Now he his with one of his old girlfriends. When can I have a turn? He kept a promised that he won’t leave me, I don’t recall him saying that it’s a promise but he made it a promise anyway, I promised him the same thing I’m like a tool waiting to be use, like for only emergency or when you need me. He tried to get a hold of me I wasn’t notified I didn’t have a notification of the message he send me I saw it a few weeks ago. The message was sent to me somewhere in July 2019 and finally he had the guts to message me through his account. He didn’t had the guys to do it because he gave all his accounts to his girlfriend. He made it hard for us to have a conversation and hangout in public. We never got the chance to hangout in public. He even kisses me even though he has a girlfriend. I don’t know why. I didn’t do anything. I loved him and missed him so much I didn’t do anything like talk to him or get my hands on him I only talk to him when he talks me first or If I have something to ask or say. I keep a lot of things to myself until its no use for me to have it anymore like the gloomy side of me that I kept to myself. He used to wrapped his arms around me I really missed that I felt so comfortable when he did it and it was cozy too. I helped him with his homework and stuff. He said he was gonna paint his house and he asked me to messaged him I wanted until night time cause I don’t know when he’ll be done and I don’t want to bother him. I miss it when he sings to me. it felt nice. But now he doesn’t do those things anymore. He still in my heart. We both seem excited to see each other again for some reason. I wanted to go off island and come back with a better me. Things get awkward between me and him we barely hangout and have a conversation. I want the old him back I really miss that part of him now theres some gaps of what he remembers when he was with me m. Yay hell no.. thats not okay I don’t know what else theres a gap in those memories of his. The day we met face to face again its been months since we ever see each other were suppose to see each other on my birthday. In my heart the best gift I could have Is just seeing him and having a conversation with him And laughing. I was in the store holding 1 bag, my keys, and the change the cashier gave me honestly he didn’t bother to open the door for me and then when were outside he asked me if I needed help. Lol. Anyways he used to call me his girl and he use to say that i’m special. I don’t see anything special anymore. In my heart he’s special. How special? Special enough for me to except him in my life, special enough for me to treasure the moments We have, and special enough for me to love him just the way he is. I still love him with all my heart and I missed him too. He said he misses me too the last time we talked. He felt hurt after what his girlfriend did that concerns just me and him and its not her business to intrude its his decision whether or not she can do anything between me and his concerns.

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        August 18, 2019 at 8:18 pm

        It is clear that you feel a strong social and emotional connection with him. However, is has a girlfriend. Do not attempt to maintain a romantic relationship with him at this time. If his relationship ends, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings at that time. For now, simply be a friend to him. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Anon!

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      August 16, 2019 at 3:56 pm

      I have known this guy sense 4th grade and he liked me but i don’t like him. Now when we were in 8th grade he kissed me and at this time before the kiss i started to have feelings for him. It wasn’t just a peck either but then after a couple of days he got another girlfriend. I was really upset. Like 3 or 2 months later we kissed again and I didn’t know how to feel about it but i knew i still liked him. But i soon found out he had a girlfriend but she didn’t know about it. Now we are in high school and we were hanging out at church and we were in the car and he was acting like he liked me. He was tickling me and trying to get me to hug him and he keeps saying that i hate him just so he can get me all angry and i don’t know why. He kept asking for hugs and when we were hugging he kissed my forehead and i don’t really know what this means. It like for days later and i think he has a girlfriend but he talks to me a lot more that he used to in school now. Like when i leave lunch or when i’m waiting for my mom to pick me up from school. He teases me and sneaks up on me and pulls my hair or takes stuff out of my bag and makes me chase him for it. After he pulls my hair i get mad at him in a playful way and hit his arm or lightly slap his cheek. I don’t know if he likes me or what i’m so confused but i really want to be with him. Give me advice?

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        August 18, 2019 at 9:00 pm

        The two of you share a strong history and social relationship. His behaviors throughout your relationship have been indications that he is attracted to you. If he is maintaining a romantic relationship with someone else at this time, then focus your emotional energy elsewhere. If he is single, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Anon!

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      October 7, 2019 at 4:42 pm

      So i have this guy friend. We talk personally and sometimes on social media. For the past few months he didn’t want to see me and he never chatted me on social media. Then last night me and my colleagues were out for a drink. I was not really overly drunk i thought of texting him to come and pick me up. At first i thought he wouldn’t reply or even open my message,but he did. On our way to my house i was trying to make a conversation between us and asked him where he was when i texted him. I was curious because he was still on his uniform. Then he answered he was with his colleagues aswell. I felt guilty so i told him to stop the vehicle and i got off. I looked at him with a puzzled look on his face. I turn around because of guilt that i disturbed him from being with his colleagues and also i feel a little light headed. Then all of a sudden i felt his hands wrapped my face look into me and kissed me. Out of shock i just stood there while he kisses me. After that he teasingly jokes about going to a hotel and i declined. Awkwardly on our way to my house as he drop me off there’s silence he didn’t even looked at me. That night i got so confused. What does he want? Is he just sexually attracted to me or not? He said he just wants to be friends then why did he kiss me?

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        February 25, 2020 at 1:11 pm

        It is clear that he is interested in nourishing a romantic relationship with you and he is attracted to you. He feels uncertain about what you want for the future, and he doesn’t know how to appropriately behave around you. Take this time to make a decision about what you want for your future, and speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Be certain to give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well.

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    July 14, 2019 at 1:17 pm

    So this guy and I are always together it seem. I’ve spent the night at his house and we cuddle a lot hold hands and we’ve kissed plenty of times. He’s always doing things for me or buying things or getting me out of trouble. Everyone says he likes me but he hasn’t asked me out yet: he said he wanted to be able to trust me more and he said I’ve worked my way up but I feel like I’m getting nowhere.

    • web admin

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      July 16, 2019 at 9:48 am

      It definitely sounds like he likes you. If he is kissing you and cuddling with you, then he is definitely interested on some level–and the fact that he has not pushed for sex yet means he probably isn’t just looking for a one-night stand. Some people just take a long time to open up and trust someone, so it may just take a few more weeks before he can take that next step. Best of luck, Anonymous!

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    June 30, 2019 at 6:31 pm

    i’ve had this guy friend for around two years. we talk about everything and whenever i need advice, i text him. however, because i went to another state for college, we haven’t seen each other in a year. when i visited him today, he kissed me goodbye. like a makeout kiss. and im not sure if he meant it like a fwb kiss or like a relationship kiss….? because he’s starting college in the fall 2 states away:( so im confused. what do u think??

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      July 2, 2019 at 1:17 pm

      It is clear that he is attracted to you. He likely would be interested in maintaining a romantic relationship with you. You are aware that it would be difficult to maintain a relationship with him over long distance. Determine what you believe is viable and appropriate. Continue to share your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will bring you many benefits in the future. You may want to attempt to visit him in person to nourish this relationship. Have a great day, Anna!

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    May 13, 2019 at 4:11 pm

    So today, my guy friend told me: “kiss me” he seemed serious. When i laughed at him, it’s like he got mad or something, his replies are short..
    We say we love each other, he gets mad when i don’t text him or reply his texts. I ususally catch him looking at me, he gets jealous of other guys i know, everyone thinks we’re dating … he sometimes calls me baby, my love, my all… i really love him !! Please help, does he love me back ?

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 13, 2019 at 7:33 pm

      He shared his thoughts and feelings with him. You then laughed at him. It is clear that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He is likely confused or uncertain about your feelings for him. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings, and nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Paris!

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    Linda Tidmarsh

    April 8, 2019 at 2:02 am

    Ive been living with a guy for nearly a yr now just as friends he has always said he sees me as a sister I have always had a bit of a crush on him but never did anything about it as he was quite clear he’s always seen me as a sister we have a laugh and sometimes it does seem like flirting hes always flicking my ears and moving my arm if I’m resting on it a couple of days ago we kissed but he has not mentioned it since and neither have I just incase he thinks it was a mistake should I just pretend it never happened or what?

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      April 8, 2019 at 10:44 pm

      His statement regarding him viewing you as a sister means he feels a strong social and emotional connection with you. He may be interested in nourishing a romantic relationship with you. He may simply want to nurture a close emotional relationship. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him at all times. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Determine what you want for your future, and speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Linda!

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    Winnie the Pooh

    March 19, 2019 at 9:46 am

    My best guy friend sits next to me in every class, unintentionally holds my hand during/after lesson, tickles me randomly, touches my shoulder, my face, my arms, he is super polite to me and he hugs me whenever we meet. In addition, everyone in my year group and the teachers thought that me and him were dating for a long time. This has been lasting for a year and a half, and nothing else is happening. I honeslty feel like he does not consider me as a girlfriend material and does not ask me out… Is there any way I can make him ask me out, since I am too scared to be rejected by a sweet friend like him.

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      web admin

      March 19, 2019 at 10:13 pm

      The two of you share a strong social and emotional relationship. His behaviors are strong indications of his feelings for you. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. If you don’t think that he wants to nourish a romantic relationship with you at this time, then simply continue to spend time with him when possible. Have a great day, Winnie!

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    March 10, 2019 at 3:07 pm

    I live in a house with 12 other students. About a year ago a new guy came to live with us. We immediately hit it off. The first few months I really started to like him and I thought he liked me to but then he started dating other girls after a while. So from then on I just saw him as a friend, but last Oktober we spoke about these first few months. He told he liked me too but didn’t think it would be smart to start a relationship with a roommate. I agreed with him so we decided to just stay friends. Now a few months later, we are just real close housemates. Always 2/3 times a week I watch a movie with him or something else. But last week we went drinking with a few housemates and he kissed me on the mouth when he was really drunk. He always gives me kisses on the cheek (I think this is just normal for friends right) but not on the mouth. So I am a bit confused. Then later that evening I fell asleep in his room with a friend of him and him to and the next morning, we cuddled the whole night, but I though that it was the alcohol. The next morning he wanted to cuddle me and we spooned. He also went with his hands through my hair when I was half asleep. I question If he loves me like a friend or more. I know he loves me, I love him to. But I don”t know where the boundary for loving just as a friend or more lies.

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      web admin

      March 10, 2019 at 5:55 pm

      The two of you share a strong social and emotional relationship. If the two of you respect each other, then your relationship will not harm your household life. Make a decision about what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by speaking with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Shelly!

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    January 1, 2019 at 11:23 am

    So I have this one friend (let’s call him Steve) and we’ve been friends for about 3 years, had some really rough times where he’s been a dick and then not. So the first half of 2018 he barely spoke to me when we had group hangouts and basically was just polite. Then a couple weeks ago he went on a car ride in the middle of the night to pick up a friend to bring over to our party and asked me to go with him. One of my other friends that use to have a crush on me decided to come with, but he sat in the back seat and the whole car ride there was this serious tension between me and Steve at first I thought it was like the sort where he didn’t want me there very much but now I’m thinking maybe it might have been sexual. Anyways fast forward a couple days, every time our group of friends decide where to hangout and stuff he asked me if I was ok with that and what my feelings were and stuff, which was new for me. Then Nye came and I had my friends over. Which included Steve, the guy who used to like me awhile ago and a couple other friends. The whole night was cool everyone was getting drunk and then people started heading to bed and I was helping Steve feel better because he was feeling super sick and we didn’t want him to throw up. We ended up staying up quite late just chatting then, we were sitting really close to each other and he was asking me questions about kissing and my past relationships and all that. Then basically asked if he could kiss me. He did. And we made out a bit. Everything was fine the next morning, nothing too awkward but the only mention he’s made about what happened was “I really enjoyed your company” and then nothing else. I have no clue what to think or what to do. I don’t think he’s wanting a relationship because we’re out of school now and all headed to Uni. So was it just to say that he’s kissed me? What should I do?

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      web admin

      January 1, 2019 at 7:15 pm

      The two of you share a strong social and emotional connection with each other. You had a deep conversation with him. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Decide if you believe that this relationship is viable. You may want to speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish your relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Caroline!

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    Robert Wayne

    November 23, 2018 at 1:32 am

    Great piece of writing friend. I have met the girl of my dreams. she is fun, lively and most importantly has a superb dressing sense. when we talk, she touches her hair a lot but she does not seem confused or anything when we talk. she goes out with me but it is not any sort date or something due to outdoor work, we go together two 2 to 3 times in a month. I have a question; can she really be into me? I am afraid to make a move what if I have been assuming it this whole time? Could you help me by sharing some advice? I do need it at this point.

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      web admin

      November 23, 2018 at 10:05 pm

      The two of you share a strong social connection. It is possible that she is interested in nourishing a relationship with you. Continue to spend additional time with her in person, as this will strengthen your relationship. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Robert!

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    November 10, 2018 at 11:01 am

    Hey I have this guy best friend, he lives in a town far from where I stay but he checks on my every Saturday.he comes early and lives late, I have not really known more about his relationship life but he assured me he is single and has never dated anyone. So two weeks back,he tempted to teach me how to kiss and ofcos we illustrated by using ourselves. So this time he just kisses me and we end up romancing deeply. Does this guy like me or what

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      web admin

      November 12, 2018 at 8:51 pm

      It is clear that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. The two of you share a strong social and emotional connection. He is attracted to you and sees a future with you. Determine what you want for your future. Nourish your relationship by spending additional time together. Have a great day, Doreen!

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    September 17, 2018 at 11:37 am

    I have a guy friend with who i’ve been friends for allost 3 years, the third year, i noticed that he’s changed towards me suddenly. He started ignoring me and acting like if he doesn’t know me. Normaly, when i send him a text, he replies when he has time. But now, he doesn’t answer or answer after days. I don’t know what happened to him that made him act like that. I talked to him about it and he said that he noticed that i don’t chat with him anymore(he’s lying, i chat with him 4-5 times a week). Then after that, i thought he won’t ignore me anymore because i’ve been honest with him, but he kept ignoring me. So i decided to ignore him back. We stayed more than one month without talking to each other. The first day of school, he passes near me and didn’t say even hello, i got so mad, so i acted the same way, when we’re leaving the class, he said: hey(my name) and left. I’m so confused,he never acted like that in the past years. He’s changed all of a sudden. He talks normaly and laughs with everyone except ME. I love him so much and i don’t want things to end like that without an explanation. I tried my best to understand him, but he just keep ignoring me. 😢😢😢😣😦

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      September 17, 2018 at 11:41 pm

      There may be a variety of reasons for his actions. Regardless of what his driving his behavior, he has chosen to ignore you. This may not be someone that you want to develop a relationship with. Determine what you want for your future. You will find benefit in allowing thoughts of him to fade. If you want to strengthen your relationship with him, then spend additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Laura!

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    September 13, 2018 at 7:12 am

    My guy friend. We went on 3 dates 5 years ago and it just didnt work, not in a bad way. We met back up in a work class and have been talking. He let’s it be know he likes being single, and glad hes single. Hes met my kids taken me out and we flirt all the time. We discuss how attractive we think each other is. Well. After 5 months we went to the drive in and he kissed me. Not just a pack but full on French kissed me and licked and kissed my neck. We have sexted but never tried to do anything. We talk all the time and he talks about how he appreciates me and how he knows I respect him and his needs of alone time. He shares every detail of his day with me. And will send me screen shots (as proof?) Of exactly what hes doing. He is a private person but we both agreed we are very comfortable with one another. Hes wishy washy when it comes to this stuff but hes sexted, kiss, his hugs are the best and last forever. He tells me everything and he listens when I talk. Hes respectful, holds the door for me etc. Is he trying to be more? I’m just going with the flow of things. But he gives me “the look” everytime we meet up. And smiles with his while face. Do I let him continue to do this in his way? I dont want to push it and lose my friend if that’s all we end up as.

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      September 14, 2018 at 8:11 pm

      He is physically attracted to you and likely shares a strong emotional connection with you. He may be interested in developing a long term relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future at this time. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. You may find that your relationship will be strengthened if you spend additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Valerie!

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    September 5, 2018 at 3:59 pm

    I have this guy friend and I dont know if he likes me but he hugged me for 5 minuets straight for some odd reason he tried to hold my had tried to kiss me I met his parents cause he wanted me to and he always puts his arm around me he always seems so upset when I am he always smiles whens hes around me and he always says im one of the closest friends he has but I dont know if he likes me or not oh yeah and we knew each other since babies cause are parents knew each other during high school.

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      web admin

      September 5, 2018 at 10:35 pm

      His behaviors are indications that he feels a strong social and emotional connection with you. It is certainly possible that he wants to develop a relationship with you. He may not want to harm your friendship by sharing himself with you. Determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a romantic relationship with him, then share your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Samuya!