20 Signs a guy like you more than friend.

By on December 25, 2013






You like him, no doubt about that. You like the way he smirks when something is pretty funny, and the way he turns red when he’s complimented. You like his eyes, the way his hair falls just right across his forehead. However, you don’t have any idea if he likes you that same way. Does he notice those things about you? Naturally you won’t even try to talk about it or do anything about it until you know how he feels. Why would you? It could ruin a friendship or make things really awkward. But, what you don’t know is that there are sure-fire ways to tell if he’s into you too. If you find he does any of these signs, you’re in!

1. He Changes The Way He Acts

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When hanging out with a group of friends, he doesn’t act like he would if he were with them alone. As if he’s trying to impress you, he may be more polite and more attentive to you over them. If this happens, to show him you are into him, find reasons to grab his hand or his arm. Men are more likely to respond to physical contact than playful hints. You’ll notice that most guys, when they are with their friends, will show off. They’ll act like children–they goof off with their friends and act in a pretty embarrassing manner. But, when you are around everything is different. He acts like he doesn’t condone their childish behaviors, and may even dress in a different way.

2. He Asks Random Questions

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If he keeps asking seemingly random yet obvious questions (ie. Do you have a boyfriend? What do you do for fun?) then he is probably into you. Why would he need to know if you have a boyfriend if he isn’t planning on changing that status for you? Asking what you do for fun is a sneaky way to know your interests for future date purposes. One of the most common questions is asking for your number or wanting to know everything about you. If he asks about your history, it means he is invested in you enough to want to learn where it is you come from, how you became the person you are, and even your family.

3. Always Finds A Reason To Touch You

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He can’t keep his hands off you. Literally. He finds any reason at all to touch you, be it helping you down stairs or into a car or even just “accidentally” side swiping your hand with his. One of the cutest things he will do is tickle you a bit. When a guy tickles you, it’s almost always flirting. No, its not just about cheesy pickup lines!

4. He TRIES

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He goes out of his way to spend time with you. He cancels previous plans the minute you say you want to hang out. Any man who gives up Tuesday night poker or Sunday night football to spend time with you… if that doesn’t spell love then what does?

5. He Becomes Your ‘Yes’ Man

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You notice that he always agrees with you. Seriously, with everything you say and everything you do. You could throw a banana peel in the way of an old lady with a walker, causing her to trip and fall, and then point and laugh at her and he will likely join in. Why? Because he likes you and really wants you to like him.

6. He Seems Very Protective of You

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No matter what’s going on, he makes sure that you are safe. He guards you as if you are his most prized possession. Not saying women are possessions, but you get the idea. He may even go so far as to defend your honor if other guys are messing with you. Chivalry is not always dead! He gets upset if you are upset, and if you got faced with a mugger, he’d put you behind him while dealing with the situation. Sure, he could get shot or stabbed but as long as you are safe, he’d be okay with it.

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7. He Teases

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If you find he is slightly picking on you, teasing little things about you, it kind of falls into that elementary school idea that if he pulls your hair and picks on you, he must be in love. For a guy, teasing is flirting. Flirting means he likes you. It’s just that simple!

8. He Wants to Hear From You

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He messages, texts, and calls you more often than not. One of the most obvious signs that he likes you is the fact that he can’t go a full day without talking to you. This shows that you are on his mind all the time, and he wouldn’t have it any other way!

9. He Helps You Out… Always

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He has no problem doing whatever you ask him to. Whether it’s carrying boxes up to your 8th floor apartment, paying your rent, becoming your personal chauffeur, or hit man when exes don’t leave you alone. Whatever you need, he’s the guy for the job. In fact, if you really wanted him to, he’d treat you like a Queen and call you his majesty.

10. He Notices

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There’s also the fact that he notices the little things about you. The new haircut, new shoes, or the fact that you’ve recently changed shampoos. Maybe it’s the way you smile depending on the circumstance. Either way, he notices and likes it.

11. He’s Been Asking About You

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You’ve heard from your sister’s boyfriend’s cousin’s wife that he’s been asking about you. Everywhere. The hobo that sits outside your building bumming for change had a twenty minute conversation about if he sees other guys coming in or out of your apartment.

12. He’s Loyal

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You never see him so much as looking at other women. When the two of you are together, a whole burlesque show could walk by and he wouldn’t notice. In fact, the naked mile may run past you and his eyes remain focused on yours. You are the only one within his peripheral vision.

13. He Hangs Out With Your Friends

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Everyone has that annoying friend, and nine times out of ten, it happens to be your best friend. He doesn’t like her, but he’ll hang out with her because you are there. Yea, that’s love. Even if that annoying friend is a guy who happens to be madly in love with you and you don’t feel that way. This guy may just be nice enough to have bro time with your friend, just to show how much he cares for you.

14. He Treats You Amazingly

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He proves once again that chivalry is not dead. He opens the door for you, writes you little notes, helps you with your bags, defends you to people bugging you, and does all the little things we wish most men would do. Most guys don’t just do that for every woman, so you must be pretty special in his eyes if he’s willing to do it for you.

15. There’s No Sense of Time

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Things are never rushed when the two of you are together. It’s like he has no care in the world on being late or missing something, so long as he has you. This means that he could spend hours on the phone just listening to you breathe and he’d be perfectly content with this.

16. He Tells You

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One of the most obvious signs a guy likes you more than a friend? He says it. He says, “girl, I can’t stop thinking about you. You’re all I ever wanted and more.” Or something along those cheesy lines. Maybe he does it in a cute way, like writes you a note. Circle yes or no?

17.  He’s Always Nearby

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He’s always close to you. He finds reasons to be close to you, maybe by leaning in when you are trying to talk to him. Sure, he probably doesn’t even need to get closer to hear you, but he will anyway. He just wants to spend a few seconds hearing nothing but you and smelling the perfume you are wearing. Plus, he probably hugs you. A lot. And lingers for an undetermined amount of time to smell your hair like those creepy guys in the stalker movies.

18. He Ignores You

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There is one way to know if he likes you, but honestly it’s hit or miss. He may pay no attention to you whatsoever. This whole “play hard to get” routine can be a popular one. It’s a way for him to play it cool and act like he doesn’t care when in fact, he’d bend over backwards to impress you.

19. He Has All Your Contact Info, Because He Asked For It

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He wants to know how to get a hold of you at all times. He doesn’t say it like that, (because that would be creepy) but he adds you to Facebook, gets your home and cell numbers, and just for extra measures, installs a GPS on your car. Just kidding about that last one, but he really wants to be available to you.

20. He Goes In For The Kiss

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The final clue that you are the one person on his mind? He tries to kiss you. He leans in, you can smell his mint mouthwash, his lips definitely look kissable, and who knows? Maybe he succeeds and kisses you. He could be drunk or sober, it doesn’t matter. If he kisses you, he at least finds you somewhat appealing to him. You should definitely see where it goes.

Long story short, if the guy you like happens to exhibit any of these signs, he’s more than likely into you for more than just friendship. There are a few things you should be warned about though. One, some of these signs can be seriously misconstrued. He may like you, but in the brother/sister type of love. He could also be gay, or just a really nice guy. If you are best friends with him and you were interested in making it more, be wary. It may ruin the friendship. Or, it may be the best thing to ever happen and you’ll live happily ever after. You never can tell. He just might be the one for you!





219 Comments

  1. Aria

    June 28, 2017 at 3:20 am

    I met a guy through a mutual friend online. Haven’t me each other yet but will be this weekend. A month ago he told me that he liked my mutual friend but then recently said he lost interest in her because of university getting too busy and just my mutual friend not showing any interest. This was also around the time when he started messaging me everyday. I have fun with him and I’m sure he does as well with me – otherwise why would he be starting the conversations. We can honestly talk about anything. He’s told me bits about his old relationship and I have as well. He has also said something about liking someone else right now (the only girls he talks to are me, another mutual friend who is already in a relationship with his best friend and also another girl who is also in a relationship). He’s pretty protective of me – especially when I mentioned that I might be going out with a guy friend he doesn’t really like to the movies (he thinks that my guy friend is a bad person). I’m not sure if he likes me or not and I don’t even know how I feel about this whole situation (haven’t had a serious relationship before). I’ve confided with my best friend and she definitely thinks that he does and another mutual friend of him and mine is constantly asking if there is anything between the two of us. I hope nothing too surprising happens this weekend when we go out together…

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 28, 2017 at 3:48 pm

      He has feelings for you. It seems as though you have feelings for him as well. He is likely jealous of the time that you are spending with this other people. He might think that you are seeking to develop a relationship with him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. It would be beneficial for you to speak with your friend about your thoughts and feelings. Honesty is always the best policy. Have a great day, Aria!

  2. Kristeana

    June 14, 2017 at 6:06 am

    I like a guy that’s a year older then me he goes to my rival school he’s popular smart and athletic and he asked me to be friends with him. My friends say that him calling me “my dude” is a definite sign that he doesn’t like me. Also he makes direct eye contact seriously it’s weird cause sometimes it feels like he’s starring me down. He’s always trying to make me laugh and says he’ll always be there for me like EVER SINCE THE DAY WE MET! He says goodnight to me every night and if I’m mad I don’t say it back I’m pretty sure he always tells himself that I’ve already fallen asleep and he seems to denie that I’m mad at him. Also when my friends asked him if he had feelings for me he quote on quote said “nnnaaaaaahhhhh” honestly at first it hurt but then I realized that he might actually just want me to think he doesn’t like me. I just want to know if I’m being stupid?

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 14, 2017 at 2:16 pm

      If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. This will give him a chance to be clear with your about his feelings as well. If you don’t want to be with him, then allow thoughts of him to fade. Speak with your friends about your feelings regarding this person. Have a great day, Kristeana!

  3. V

    June 8, 2017 at 12:40 pm

    Hi, so there is a classmate of mine, he is a nice guy and 2 years younger than me.

    We have been knowing each other for more than 1 year but just start to be a bit closer these several months. There’s always this calm and playful atmosphere when I’m with him and I enjoy that 🙂

    He always notices what I was wearing, asked me about why I wear long sleeve during summer, take a look at my watch or bracelet and stuffs like that(actually he questions a lot bout what I’m wearing whenever we meet) He teases and make fun of me in a weird voice compares to when he’s with other classmates. One day he put his cap on me in front of a guy and just because I never wear cap. I was too embarrassed (and I believe I look bad with caps) so I brushed it off and give it back to him. Then he put it on my head again and said let he see it, well “it’s actually not bad” and smile. He smiles brightly when talking to me but I’m afraid its just my assumption considering I might have a crush on him atm…

    There was one week he kept staring at me a lot and intensely, wanted to shake my hand many times out of no where,waited and tagged along during lunch and approach me in classes (he rarely did that). But after my girlfriends came back to class from their 1 week study trip, he just stopped and these actions gradually decreasing.

    Now we are working with other guys in 1 group and only meet around once a week during class time. Sometimes he purposedly choose to sit next to me during discussions, but sometimes he just sits far away. Sometimes I even asked to meet up more regularly at school to discuss but he just said it’s not necessary to do that (and seems like their place are quite far away)

    We never talk or text each other online. And just random chit chat whenever we meet up. There were many times he could follow through with me after class but he didn’t, he went home with the guys and I went to the exhibition alone. Just one time they (including him) came back join me just because a guy though it’s somewhere far away. What I meant is I never feel he put any effort to be with me,in the end he will go along with the guys.

    I’m trying to not thinking too much but sometimes I do read too much into things. My question is does he likes me or he just thinks of me as a close friend?

    Many thanks, V.

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 8, 2017 at 1:44 pm

      It sounds as though the two of you have a strong friendship. If you want to move your relationship forward, then try to speak with him more often. It would be most beneficial for you if you attempt to spend more time with him in person. This will give him a chance to feel more comfortable and confident around you. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Best of luck, V!

  4. V

    June 8, 2017 at 12:18 pm

    Hi, so there is a classmate of mine, he is a nice, kind and 2 years younger than me.

    We have been knowing each other for more than 1 year but just start to be a bit closer these several months. There’s always this calm and playful atmosphere when I’m with him and I enjoy that 🙂

    He always notice what I was wearing, asked me about why I wear long sleeve during summer, take a look at my watch or bracelet and stuffs like that. He teases and make fun of me in a weird voice compares to when he’s with other classmates. He smiles brightly when talking to me but I’m afraid its just my assumption considering I might have a crush on him atm…

    There was one week he kept staring at me a lot and intensely, wanted to shake my hand many times out of no where,waited and tagged along during lunch and approach me in classes (he rarely did that) . But after my girlfriends came back to class from their 1 week study trip, he just stopped and these actions gradually decreasing.

    Now we are working with other guys in 1 group and only meet around once a week during class time. Sometimes he purposedly choose to sit next to me during discussions, but sometimes he just sits far away. Sometimes I even asked to meet up more regularly at school to discuss but he just said it’s not necessary to do that (and seems like their place are quite far away)

    We never talk or text each other online. And just random chit chat whenever we meet up. There were many times he could follow through with me after class but he didn’t, he went home with the guys and I went to the exhibition alone. Just one time they (including him) came back join me just because a guy though it’s somewhere far a way. What I meant is I never feel he put any effort to be with me,in the end he will go along with the guys.

    I’m just worried if I have read too much into things or not, since there are many confusing signals. I’m trying to not thinking too much but I know I do.

    V.

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 8, 2017 at 1:44 pm

      It sounds as though the two of you have a strong friendship. If you want to move your relationship forward, then try to speak with him more often. It would be most beneficial for you if you attempt to spend more time with him in person. This will give him a chance to feel more comfortable and confident around you. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Best of luck, V!

  5. Ny

    March 26, 2017 at 11:49 am

    Hi,so i met a guy awhile ago we he asked for my number and he called me straight everyday but on saturday and sunday i didnt hear a word from him and in the same week i gave him my number asked him if he wanted to come to my house he came in a slpit second, he took my hand and tired to kiss my but i didnt rlly want to just yet but after that we still spoke and held hands and all so im wondering why he hasnt called me sat and sun and is he just a fckboy looking for a little kiss?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 26, 2017 at 1:50 pm

      If he showed up immediately after you asked him over and asked for your number, then it sounds like he is interested in you. As for his overarching intentions, there is no way to know for sure. At this stage in any relationship, both partners are generally interested because they are attracted to the other person. The only way for each person to develop a more emotional attraction is to find out if their personalities are compatible, and that can take time. He may just be interested in a sexual relationship for now, or he may already want more. Be cautious, but keep dating him. The only way you will know for sure what he wants is to keep the relationship going and see what happens.

  6. JingleBells

    March 20, 2017 at 9:24 pm

    There is this guy here at college… We met last semester in history class, and I have been wondering for a while if he has a “thing” for me. We became pretty fast friends, and I would honestly say that he is one of my best friends… He always walks me back to my dorm in the dark (even though his dorm is on the other end of campus) after dinner, a concert, or a chess game–that is how we hang out. I remember one time he offered me his coat when I was cold walking back, though he said something about not meaning to be taken romantically… Anytime I need to walk somewhere in town and don’t feel comfortable going alone, if I ask him if he can he usually says totally… He even walked with me two miles away and back! We hang out almost every day and text a fair amount both while at school here and over breaks. I know he liked this one girl earlier this year, but last I’d heard of it he said he didn’t really care for her anymore… I don’t know… One time I was at an interview after dark on his end of campus and he told me to text him after so he could walk me back. He teases all the time… He noticed the first time I wore something a bit more bright colored than I usually do (I tend to wear gray and black, but wore green that day) and he noticed when I dressed up for said interview (saying that I looked… mature?). I don’t know, he does a lot of things if I ask him to and he asks what is wrong when I seem down or out of sorts… but that could just be friendly… I personally thought he was just being friendly (I’ve never dated and I don’t really know much about guys)… But then my mum made a remark about wondering if we were dating… I asked a guy friend of mine in another state what he thought, and he said that the guy was showing signs of liking me… But I don’t know… We have been confused for a couple once by an acquaintance of mine… But then again, so were my brother and I… What do you think? Friendly or more than friendly?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 21, 2017 at 1:34 pm

      He clearly cares about your well being. He may simply want to be friends with you, but it is likely that he wants something more. He may be concerned or confused about the feelings that you have toward him. He may not want to potentially damage your friendship. Continue to spend time with him. Perhaps invite him to your dorm to just spend time together. This will help him feel more comfortable. Have a great day, Jinglebells!

  7. Mena

    March 13, 2017 at 6:31 am

    Okay so there’s this classmate of mine who’s making me so confused! I never really noticed him at first until one day a professor made us sit next to each other lol. We were three, him, another female classmate and me. The girl seemed close to him in a way? She kept asking him questions and being all talkative, NGL she was hella annoying.. That was the very first encounter and surpringly we learned that me and him have extremely similar family name haha. He was taken by surprise and started asking about my origins and all that. He was very nice and very funny. I was sitting in the middle, the girl to my right and him to my left and I noticed (from the corner of my eye) that each time he faced the other girl when she was addressing him, he would quickly glance at me.. He’s done it more than 3times and I’m positive that the girl noticed too. He was being so nice to me.. And ever since that day he would always smile and say hi to me. One time he even came and sat next to me (my friend was there too) and he initiated a convo and i was so nervous that my friend laughed and made fun of me (not in front of him though) I also sometimes catch him looking at me from a cross the classroom with a smile on his face. Oh and he frequently offers help! Recently he came and sat close to me and started a convo and as I was talking I noticed how he licked and bit his lip in a cute way, another time we were talking and he rubbed his lower lip.. My question is, does he like me? Or is he just super friendly?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 13, 2017 at 2:35 pm

      He may be super friendly, but he probably has an interest in developing a relationship with you. Speak with him after class and try to spend time with him. Get his number and perhaps go out to a meal with him or out on a nature walk. This will help the two of you become closer. Best of luck, Mena!

  8. Moon

    March 12, 2017 at 11:31 pm

    Hi. I have a friend and classmate that he’s in our group of friends. I like him and the problem is here that his close friend love me but i ignore him. I think he kinda like me but he cant mention that because of his friend. He’s so proud and hard to tell me he likes me. But some of his acts and behaviors with me is in a different way from other girls. For axample when he wanna find out where we wanna go for lunch after the classes he calls me and after some classes we’re alone. At that time he’s very kind and he more talks about himself . He tease me and sometimes he tries to touch me but really i cant understand is this things as a friend or he loves me and he dont wanna say that because of his friend.sometimes he’s heedless about me when were in the group and i wanna know if he likes me or not.
    Thanks for helping❤🙏🏻

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 13, 2017 at 2:01 pm

      He probably has an interest in developing a relationship with you, but he is aware that doing so will damage his friendship. He may not have a desire to damage that relationship, as he is aware that romantic relationships are often temporary. You may want to wait until his friend begins dating someone else or stops being interested in you. That will free up the person who wants to develop a relationship with you. Have a great day, Moon!

  9. Sanya

    March 12, 2017 at 8:56 am

    I have a guy in my university named faisal
    He’s like the most goodlooking guy in my university. On 14th feb he suddenly got me so many stuff (teddy bear, roses, chocolates etc) and thats when he confessed that he likes me, which i never knew since i joined the university.
    However i was already in a relation (which wasnt in a good state) that time and he knew that already as he asked my friend about it.
    However later on i went though a breakup. Me and faisal started hanging out together. During our meetings i noticed that he cant stop touching me, my hands or shoulders for exanple but not in a bad way.
    I never gave him an answer that if i agree for the relation or no
    But in our last meeting he kissed me.
    Now i dont know what to feel about it. If hes the right guy? Or does he just wanna pass time with me? Or does he really want me ?
    Because if thats so why would he kiss me before we being in a relation?
    Or if the kiss just happend?
    I am so confused right now. Please help

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 12, 2017 at 2:34 pm

      He clearly wants to develop a relationship with you. He may only want a short term relationship, or he may want a long term relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. This will give him the chance to share himself with you as well. Best of luck, Sanya!

  10. L

    March 8, 2017 at 4:15 pm

    Hi, a lot of things have been happening lately!

    Me and this guy have known each other for a long time. We have a lot in common and we always sit together in class. We have a right laugh sometimes! He mirrors my actions and when he croseed his legs in music class, they were pointing towards me and apparently from 7 other websites that’s a sign…? He hangs out with my friends and even G, the annoying diva that we all don’t like (even he doesn’t like her) When we are in a group h pe tells a joke and looks at me for a reaction. He also called me kawaii 5 times (means cute in japanese) We both are foreign and nobody has heard him speak in his language except from me and his guy friend. People think we would be great together but i’m scared of making things awkward and that he will dump me. What do I do?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 9, 2017 at 2:09 pm

      By the sound of it, the two of you are already close. He may be interested in developing a relation. Try to learn his language and have conversations with him. That way the two of you can have hidden discussions. Try to spend more time with him. Ask him to go with you for a walk or out to a meal. Take charge and take this risk, as it will probably work out for you. Have a great day, L!

  11. Stella

    March 4, 2017 at 11:46 am

    Hi, I’m 20 this year
    Recently I just noticed that there’s something strange happens to my guy friend. We starts to have a lot of eye contacts in class, sometimes he looked away, sometimes he’s staring back at me and then I have to bring up something to talk about. He noticed what I wear, like the fact that I always wear sweaters and covered shoes, and mentioned on that one day I wear something else. He came to my seat and asked what was I doing. The other day he just wanted to shake my hand and compare its size with his hand, just out of nowhere , when he didn’t really talk/contact much to other girls in my class. He is a nice guy, but sometimes he teased and made fun of me a lot.

    There was one time he brought up some weird topic out of nowhere, like how girls prefer to date younger guys so there won’t die alone since men die earlier than women. (he never talks about love-like relationships, never)

    Sometimes I think that maybe he interested in me but other signs say no, since he never talk or mes or answer much on whatappsss or instagram, always leaves early in class and sometimes even ignore my goodbye. And there are times when he doesn’t even listen to what I’m talking about… Just sit and staring at the air.

    He is good looking, but 2 years younger than me. Is he interested in me or not? Cause this situation confuses me a lot.

    thank you, I really appreciate your time if you tell me your point of view about this:)

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 5, 2017 at 10:30 am

      How odd. Some of his behavior makes it seem like he really likes you. Noticing what you wear and making an excuse to touch your hand both seem like clear signs that he likes you. Ignoring you online may just be because he is not into online communication. Ignoring your good-byes seems odd though. It seems slightly more likely that he likes you than not, but there is no way to know how he feels for sure. Keep trying to talk to him and see if he ends up making a move. If you are feeling more confident, try flirting to see how he responds. Good luck, Stella!

  12. ᴇʀɪᴄᴀ

    March 4, 2017 at 7:56 am

    sᴏ ᴍʏ ɢᴜʏ ʙᴇsᴛ ғʀɪᴇɴᴅ ʜᴀs ʙᴇᴇɴ ᴀᴄᴛɪɴɢ ᴄᴏᴍᴘʟᴇᴛᴇʟʏ ᴅɪғғᴇʀᴇɴᴛ ᴛᴏᴡᴀʀᴅs ᴍᴇ ғᴏʀ ǫᴜɪᴛᴇ sᴏᴍᴇ ᴛɪᴍᴇ ɴᴏᴡ. sᴏ ᴛɪᴍᴇ ɴᴏᴡ. ᴀɴᴅ ɪ ᴅᴏɴ’ᴛ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ᴡʜʏ ʜᴇ’s ᴀʟᴡᴀʏs ᴛᴏᴜᴄʜɪɴɢ ᴍʏ ᴀʀᴍs ᴇɪᴛʜᴇʀ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʜɪs ʜᴀɴᴅs, ɢʀᴀᴢɪɴɢ ʜɪs ᴀʀᴍs ᴏɴ ᴍɪɴᴇ ᴏʀ ɪs ᴄʜᴇsᴛ ɪs ᴏɴ ᴍʏ ᴀʀᴍs ɪғ ɪ’ᴍ ɴᴏᴛ ᴘᴏɪɴᴛ ғᴀᴄᴇ ᴛᴏ ғᴀᴄᴇ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʜɪᴍ. ʜᴇ ᴘᴜᴛs ʜɪs ʜᴀɴᴅs ᴏɴ ᴍʏ ʟᴇɢs ᴡʜᴇɴ ᴡᴇ sɪᴛ sᴏᴍᴇᴡʜᴇʀᴇ ᴛᴏɢᴇᴛʜᴇʀ. ʜᴇ ɪs sᴜᴘᴇʀ ᴘʀᴏᴛᴇᴄᴛɪᴠᴇ ᴏᴠᴇʀ ᴍᴇ ᴀɴᴅ ᴛʀɪᴇs ᴛᴏ ᴀᴄᴛ ʟɪᴋᴇ ʜᴇ’s ᴍᴏʀᴇ ᴍᴀᴛᴜʀᴇ ᴀʀᴏᴜɴᴅ ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴏɴᴇ. ʜᴇ ᴛᴀʟᴋs ᴛᴏ ᴀɴʏ ɢɪʀʟs ᴡɪᴛʜᴏᴜᴛ ᴍᴇ ᴀʀᴏᴜɴᴅ ʙᴜᴛ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴍᴇ ᴀʀᴏᴜɴᴅ ᴏɴʟʏ 1 ᴀɴᴅ sʜᴇ’s ɢʀᴇᴡ ᴜᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ʜɪᴍ. ɪ’ᴠᴇ ᴋɴᴏᴡɴ ʜɪᴍ ғᴏʀ 6 ʏᴇᴀʀs ʙᴜᴛ ɪ ᴅᴏɴ’ᴛ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ɪғ ʟɪᴋᴇs ᴍᴇ ᴏʀ ɴᴏᴛ,ᴀɴᴅ ɪғ ʜᴇ ᴅᴏᴇs ʜᴏᴡ ʟᴏɴɢ ʜᴇ ʜᴀs? ᴡᴇ ᴛᴇʟʟ ᴇᴀᴄʜᴏᴛʜᴇʀ ᴇᴠᴇʀʏᴛʜɪɴɢ. ᴇᴠᴇɴ ᴀʙᴏᴜᴛ ᴏᴜʀ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘs ɪғ ᴡᴇ ᴀʀᴇ ɪɴ ᴏɴᴇ. ᴍʏ ʟᴀsᴛ ʀᴇʟᴀᴛɪᴏɴsʜɪᴘ ʜᴇ ᴛᴏʟᴅ ᴍᴇ ᴛᴏ ʙʀᴇᴀᴋ ᴜᴘ ᴡɪᴛʜ ᴍʏ ᴇx-ʙᴏʏғʀɪᴇɴᴅ ʙᴇᴄᴀᴜsᴇ ʜᴇ ᴡᴀs ɢᴏɪɴɢ ᴛᴏ ʜᴜʀᴛɪɴɢ ᴍᴇ ʙᴜᴛ ɪ ᴅɪᴅɴ’ᴛ ʟɪsᴛᴇɴ. ᴀ ᴍᴏɴᴛʜ ɴ ᴀ ʜᴀʟғ ʟᴀᴛᴇʀ ɪ ᴡᴀs ᴄʜᴇᴀᴛᴇᴅ ᴏɴ ᴀɴᴅ ʜᴇ’s ᴡᴀs ᴛʜᴇʀᴇ. ʜᴇ ᴡᴀs ғᴜʀɪᴏᴜs sᴏ ʜᴇ ᴛᴏᴏᴋ ᴍʏ ᴘʜᴏɴᴇ ᴀɴ ᴛᴇxᴛᴇᴅ ᴍʏ ᴇx-ʙᴏʏғʀɪᴇɴᴅ. ʜᴇ ᴅᴇғᴇɴᴅᴇᴅ ᴍᴇ ɪɴ ᴡᴀʏs ɪ ᴅɪᴅɴᴛ ᴋɴᴏᴡ ʜᴇ ᴡᴏᴜʟᴅ ʙᴜᴛ ɪᴛ sʜᴏᴄᴋᴇᴅ ᴍᴇ ᴀᴛ ᴛʜᴇ sᴀᴍᴇ ᴛɪᴍᴇ. ʜᴇ ᴄᴏɴғᴜsᴇs ᴍᴇ😕

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 4, 2017 at 10:19 am

      It sounds like he may have feelings for you, or he may just view you as a very close friend. Now, you just have to decide what you want. From his behavior, I would think it more likely than not that he likes you. He does not seem to be making any more moves though because he may not want to ruin your friendship. If you like him back, you may have to make the next move so that you guys could actually try having a romantic relationship. From the sound of it, he genuinely cares for you and I think a relationship between you two would work out pretty well.

  13. Ray

    March 2, 2017 at 8:19 pm

    Well…. my male best friend has been acting odd, rubbing my shoulders,always pulling me to him, and even kissed my nose last week…

    but today, he went farther. We we’re hugging because we had to go somewhere, and he just bent down and kissed me on the lips, and then saud bye and walked away, then did it again when I attempted to ask about it.

    I’ve know him for so long, but he talks like we’re simply friends, yet acts like we’re more? What do I do I’m so confused

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 3, 2017 at 2:34 pm

      It sounds like he likes you. He may just be afraid to put his feelings into words, or he may be trying to see how you react first. Now, you just need to figure out what you want. If you like him back, then make a move and tell him how you feel. If you do not like him back, find a nice, gentle way to let him know that you are not interested so that he does not feel led on.

  14. Rexha

    February 7, 2017 at 3:18 pm

    Well theres this boy in my class and i really like him. He always stares at me and when i look at him he quickly looks away. He shouted my name when he was with his friends and i was with my friend. I love him but im really shy to speak top him. He also comes in my dream and i had a dream that im at school and he walkd padt and puts a note in my hand. On the note it says he likes
    Does he like me and wat should i do

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 8, 2017 at 11:21 am

      He probably has an interest in developing a relationship with you. Try to speak with him about your ideas and thoughts. Try to spend additional time with him if you are able to do so. Maybe you can try to spend time with him at lunch. Learn more about him and see if you want to develop a relationship with him. Best of luck, Rexha!

  15. Jozzy

    January 3, 2017 at 8:51 pm

    So, I know four guys in my hood who in some ways, three know each other. Let me classify them as guy A, guyB, guyC and guyD. I’ve known guyA for almost 1&half years, we live in the same house but in different appartement. One thing I have in common with these guys is that we hang out in the same bar since my friends dad owns it. This guyA is a bit cold towards me but can’t stop to smile, wave and greet me when he sees me, he almost aways leave the door open for me on his way home and now it’s been our tradition. If I go home first, I leave the door open,if he goes 1st, he leaves it open for me. When he sees me for instance, he would just start to stare at me till I get closer to him then he’ll greet me, thus will follow either by a smile or a smirk(even in the midst of his friends). We sometimes chat on messenger but our chat is casual. I’ve known guyB for a year n some months and he’s friends with guyA but don’t think they’re very close to each other. He’s the the type who acts wishy whiny. He wants to know almost everything about my life, we’re very close to the extent that he’ll leave his friends and spend time with me before going back to his friends. When he comes to me we hug, exchange pecks and he sit close to me leaving no space at all, as if there’s only that space left in the room. He tells me if he has a plan going on, at times about his family, he also ask if I’ve got a boyfriend or a crush. He recently ask if I know or if am friends with any of the guys in the bar on Facebook and I said yes. He just said okay. Just recently he tried to kiss me and I pulled away but surprisingly he kissed me some days afterwards. He’ll sometimes hug me very tightly, even in front of my friend. If he comes and doesn’t see me I hear that he came looking for me. But what annoyed me was when I asked him why he kissed me, he said he doesn’t know maybe for fun. He keeps saying he doesn’t want to date anyone since he’s jobless and he even said that no girl will date him knowing there’s no cash. I’ve known guyC for a year but have never talked to him casually. He’s friends with all the guys. Am friends with him on Facebook, he’s very difficult to read. I was going to the bar the other time and I saw him with other guys not knowing guyB was there. In the course of our exchange of pecks, I noticed he’s been staring at us since but he quickly looked away when I caught him staring. I once met him in front of the bar and he was about to enter but opened the door and made way for me to enter first. I was once trying to do something and he helped me out with his friend. He stares at me a lot. This reminds me , guyB once brought him up during one of our discussions and I said he’s friends with my brother but not the close type just hi, how’re you type. Then, guyB asked if I like him but I asked why and he said nothing then he said that I like him of which I just smiled and said stop teasing me. I’ve known guyDfor a year, he’s friends with guyAand C. For him he’s more than the word difficult to read cuz all this year that I’ve known him, he just stares at me, scan my face and doesn’t say anything. We take the same bus when going to school and coming back. He always stares straight into my eyes without saying a word. So it has now become our syndrome, we just stare at each other when we meet without saying anything. Sometimes, it’s very intense(I mean the staring, it turns to scanning of face but am always the one to break the eye contact ).When we’re in the bus, it’s as if we’re the only ones there cuz we just keep staring at each other, I break the contact but he keeps staring. But he either relax in his chair, tilt his head or stay focused whenever he stares at me. Mostly in the bar he sits at the end of the room facing the door as if he’s waiting for me to enter and when I do,he starts to check me out without leaving a piece of information. It strange why none of us has the courage to say hello. Please any idea about these guys? (Almost forgot am almost 20, guyA is almost 23,guyB is 24, guyC &D are both 19). Thanks for your time.

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 4, 2017 at 9:41 am

      I am not sure about guy C or D, but guy A and B sound like they like you. The fact that guy B was also worried that you could be interested in another guy shows that he is more likely than not interested in you. Now, you just have to decide which guy you actually like back and who you would be interested in dating. What do you want to do?

      • Jozzy

        January 4, 2017 at 3:26 pm

        Thanks for the feedback and honestly speaking, I got a crush on guyA the first time I saw him until guyD came. Even though I tried to forget guyA, I couldn’t do it. Now I’ve got two big crush on them. Don’t really know what to do *sigh *

        • web admin

          web admin

          January 6, 2017 at 10:07 am

          Take your time! Until one of them makes a move, you don’t actually have to decide for sure. As long as you aren’t in a rush to be in a relationship, you can wait and see which guy you like the most before you try to do anything. Good luck, Jozzy!

  16. sarah

    December 5, 2016 at 6:26 am

    well there is named sam who i really like and he is in my class.he keeps teaseing me and its mean.sometimes when his friends arent around he is nice to me.i think he likes me but my friends said that he doesnt.he is is the type of guy who doesnt stare at girls that much.but every now and then he gives me a glance and when i look at him he looks away quickly,when my friends look at him he just smiles and looks down they told me.idk why but wherever im present he is sometimes there.Also his bestfriend asked my friend if id like sam or not.and his close friend also asked me if i liked sam or not.and sometimes whether or not accidentaly our fingers touched and since then they have been touching

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 5, 2016 at 2:17 pm

      It is likely that he has an interest in you. Because he is talking with you and his friend is asking about your feelings, you can be certain that he likes you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then do so. Explain to him that you do not like it when he treats you in a way that is rude or unkind. He will understand if he cares about your feelings. Best of luck, Sarah!

  17. sarah fauzna

    December 5, 2016 at 3:00 am

    i know this guy and his name is sam .he is always mean to me and teases me.some times he is nice to me but mostly mean.he is the type of guy who doesnt look at girls much but he always gives me a glance and we hold our eye contact for at least 1 sec and quickly looks away.but whenever my friends make eye contact with him they tell me that he gives them a smile he does dat to all my friends except for me(also he is the badass type of guy).there was this time when our fingers touched and since then idk if he is doing on purpose but our fingers keep touching.and his bestfriend asked my friend if i like him or not.and even his girl best friend asked my friend if he likkes me or not and he tends to be every i am (i htink its by coincidence).can you plese tell me if he likes me or not?

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 5, 2016 at 2:34 pm

      It is likely that he has an interest in you. Because he is talking with you and his friend is asking about your feelings, you can be certain that he likes you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then do so. Explain to him that you do not like it when he treats you in a way that is rude or unkind. He will understand if he cares about your feelings. Best of luck, Sarah!

  18. veka

    November 24, 2016 at 12:37 pm

    I met a guy on tinder and we met twice we have been talking and now he wants us to do more than friends and he dont want just to be friends. Now he is not talking to me since i said i want just to be friends. Can I trust him to be more than friends. He is a good looking guy and i like him.

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 25, 2016 at 10:15 am

      You never know if you can trust someone in a relationship or not, and a relationship is basically just a leap of faith. He obviously wants to be more than friends and does not want just a friendship with you, so if you want to keep him in your life, you would need to be more than just friends. It is entirely up to you whether you trust him enough or whether you want to have a romantic relationship with him or not.

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