20 Romantic Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

By on January 8, 2014

Trying to get a little bit more intimate with that special someone in your life? Well, get cozy and relaxed with your lover and try out these 20 romantic questions to ask your boyfriend.

1. How long do you see our relationship lasting?


There’s no better way to find out how serious someone is about a relationship than with this question. If he says anything other than ‘till the end of time’ or ‘forever’ or something along those lines, you may need to rethink!

2. How much do you love me?

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Get ready to be showered with compliments, hugs, kisses and the likes, simply by asking this romantic question.

3. What is your opinion of marriage?


It’s every woman’s dream to get married, so if your man isn’t on board with marriage you may have a problem. On the other hand, if he thinks the man is a provider who should care for his woman till the end, you’ve struck gold.

4. Do you see us ever getting married?


Is there wedding rings and honeymoons in your future? You’ll never know until you ask him this romantic question.

5. What do you love about me the most?

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Again, this compliment-provoking question is simply one you have to ask.

6. If I died in a horrible accident, how would you react?


If he is anything other than terribly distraught for months on end, he might not be as serious as you think he is.

7. How can I prove my love for you?

Feeling like really proving to your guy you love him more than anything on earth? Then you need to ask this question and find out what he’s craving for.

8. Do you feel like you can tell me anything?


Without trust and a bond, a relationship cannot be sustained. If he truly loves you he should be ready and willing to share even his deepest, darkest secrets.
9. Do you still remember our first kiss?


This question is actually more important than you think. Your first kiss was one of the milestones  of the relationship and should be one of the most important things to remember. Warning: Hearing your man relive the night you and two shared your first kiss may be a tear jerker.

10. Do you remember the day we met?


Again, if your man remembers this amazing day, then he is definitely head over heels about you. Plus this question makes for a highly romantic reminiscing session.

11. What about me were you first attracted to?

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Was it your beautiful green eyes? Your long brown hair? Your hilarious personality? Find out what has made your man gaga ever since the start.

12. What song reminds you about me?

This can really tell you a lot about what’s going on in his mind. Would he choose a crumby, yet totally adorable song like ‘Brown Eyed Girl’, or is it something a bit raunchy like ‘Ms New Booty’?

13. What’s is the craziest thing you would do for me?

If you’re wondering what exactly your man would be willing to do for your love, you’ll find out instantly with this cute question.

14. Would you sacrifice (something) to keep our relationship going?


Would he give up his hateful, jealous friends just to keep you? Would he stop playing video games if it meant saving your relationship? Choose one of his favorite things and see if he’d be willing to give it up for you!

15. Would you be my lover in the next life?


If he wouldn’t want you in the next life, he probably doesn’t really want you in this life. Time to hit the ‘end’ button.

16. Would you be loyal even if your celebrity crush tried to sleep with you?

Who could resist their celebrity crush? Only a man who truly loves you, of course! Can your man say no to the temptations?

17. Will you be with me no matter what?

Even if your looks went sour or you were suddenly dirt poor, your man should still be right by your side through it all.

18. What memory of ours do you never want to forget?


Finding out your man’s fondest memory of the two of you is always a heart melter. Enjoy as he reminisces about his favorite moments and take a second to just enjoy what the two of you have been through together.

19. Am I perfect in your eyes?


The answer should always be yes, no questions asked.


20. Where would our dream honeymoon be?


It’s nice to imagine the two of you eventually saying your vows, exchanging rings, and being together for the rest of your lives. But that’s not all. There’s also the honeymoon. What romantic place would the love of your life take you? A beautiful beach paradise or by the fireplace in a cabin amongst ice-capped mountain tops?


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    June 24, 2017 at 1:05 am

    This tips has totally changed my relationship for good thank you guys so much.

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      June 24, 2017 at 7:07 pm

      Thank you for sharing your positive comment. It is great to see that our articles are helpful to our readers. Have a greta day, Jennifer!

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    Michelle Ampofo

    June 15, 2017 at 3:21 pm

    I’ve been in this relationship for about a month and half now. Every time we try talking about us we get short of words and it becomes boring. I’m scared that it’s pushing him away.
    What do I do?

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      June 16, 2017 at 12:28 pm

      It is possible that the reason why the two of you are unable to talk about your relationship is because there is nothing to talk about. This may be a sign that the two of you are happy. This may also be a sign of concerned or confused feelings. Your best option is to speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts. This can move your relationship in a positive direction, as your partner will be willing to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Michelle!

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    May 26, 2017 at 7:18 am

    I am in long distance relationship with my boyfriend we met online and never met him before.. Everything was going great but when I ask him to promise me something he doesn’t promise me what should I do ?

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      May 26, 2017 at 10:29 am

      Don’t make him promise you things. Some people do not like making promises unless they are 100 percent certain that they can keep them. He may just be unwilling to promise anything because of this, or it may have been what you asked him to promise you. Whatever the case, it sounds like the relationship was going pretty well otherwise. I wouldn’t get too hung up on just the promising problem.

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      May 27, 2017 at 11:06 pm

      In all honesty you guys should meet up first before any kind of promises are made seeing someone in person allowes for promises to be more real

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        May 28, 2017 at 11:15 am

        That sounds like pretty good advice. Thanks for commenting, Esperanza!

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    March 26, 2017 at 6:46 pm

    So I’m bi. I’ve been dating this girl for a few months and I’m nervous. Me and her have been put under a lot of stress due to our families. Her mother and grandmother are super religious and hate the fact that she is gay. My parents are blaming everything I do wrong on her. But we’ve held out strong. And I’m nervous because recently she’s been hinting at wanting to kiss me. And I want to, trust me I really do. But if her mom finds out she’ll ban her from seeing me. We’ve been keeping it a secret from her mom for about 5 months. Should I kiss her? I’m sorry that I’m asking you this I’m probably bothering you I just need to have a little help.

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      March 27, 2017 at 9:31 am

      It is entirely up to you. If her mom is a problem, then perhaps you should kiss her somewhere else. You have been dating her for long enough to expect a kiss, so I would go for it if you think that it won’t hurt your family relationships too much. Your family should really be more accepting of who you are though, so you may have to just realize that there hold-ups are their problem and not yours. Coming out is never easy, and it is even harder with a family that cannot accept your partner. If you want to kiss her, kiss her. Just realize that you will need to be really careful not to let your families in on it. Once you move out some day, it will hopefully get easier to just be yourself and be with your girlfriend.

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      April 19, 2017 at 12:40 am

      it would be no big deal if you kissed her in secret, right? the mother would not find out.

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        April 19, 2017 at 7:56 pm

        It is always advisable not to take any actions that you would not do if someone else knew. It would be best to speak with your concerns about anyone who is in your life that may have a problem with your actions. Thank you for sharing your ideas, Amanda!

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    March 2, 2017 at 10:24 pm

    My bf is prettier than me…everybody use to advise him to leave me but maybe he loves me…But he never looks interested for our future….I m very serious about him… Sometimes he use to egnore my messages and calls….and says that he is busy he has no tym for me…before I proposed him he had a large crush on her classmate….she is as pretty as him… everybody says that he accepted my proposal bcz it was his first proposal…can you plz help to deal wid this situation…and how can I make him serious any our relationship…

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      March 3, 2017 at 2:47 pm

      There is no way that you can make someone serious about a relationship. Either they have those feelings there, or they do not. Pressuring him to be serious could actually serve to just push him away. Enjoy your relationship and see where it goes. As for what “everyone” says: ignore them. “Everyone” is often wrong. Plus, each person has a unique idea of beauty, so what seems attractive to one person may not be to another. He must be attracted to you to be with you, so ignore what your classmates say and enjoy your relationship.

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    February 23, 2017 at 11:13 am

    its only for girls or boys can ask any question if any..??

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      February 23, 2017 at 12:19 pm

      Anyone can ask any questions that they feel comfortable asking. Best of luck, Prem!

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    February 14, 2017 at 7:56 pm

    Well me and ma bf we r doing ok. I just asked him all this questions and he was like wow am not bored anymore.Thx to you guyz this thunv actually works. For everybody out there you will find this interesting.
    Ma bf now tells me everything he is not hiding anything from me. He is nkw open to me.

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      February 15, 2017 at 9:33 am

      Thank you for sharing your positive comment. We always appreciate hearing such appreciative comments. Feel free to share more of your thoughts in the future. Have a great day, Patience!

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    February 5, 2017 at 8:35 am

    My bf nd I r doing OK. But he hardly opens up. I hv tried everything but nun seem to work out. I luv him so much. He gives much attentions to his games, family and friends. I feel useless around him. Even when I try asking questions about our relationship he gives me a chick answer. What do I do please?

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      February 5, 2017 at 10:44 am

      Some people just take time to open up. He also may not be used to being in a good relationship, which is why he seems to focus so much on everything else. Perhaps you should just tell him that you want more alone time together because you want him to pay a bit more attention to you. Be open and honest about how you feel, and he will hopefully reciprocate by being open about his feelings as well. Good luck, Sarah!

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    January 27, 2017 at 9:16 pm

    I luv him a lot but the rules of the religion would nt make as one …there no luv in religion …then hw can I success my love…

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      January 29, 2017 at 12:00 pm

      If you find that there are religious reasons why your relationship can not survive and your partner or you decide that religion is more important than love, then you have your answer. If you want to try to establish a relationship with your crush, then try to convince him to choose love over faith. Take any action that you please. Best of luck, Ashrafii!

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    January 27, 2017 at 2:42 am

    I luv him he luvs me too but I don’t think that he can convince his family n we hv to end our relationship one day bt we don’t hv tht gut’s to leave each other.
    Wht should I do…???

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      January 27, 2017 at 10:23 am

      Speak with your parents about convincing his family to allow your relationship. There is no reason why they should stop your relationship from happening. If you believe that your relationship can not survive, then you may want to have a serious talk with your boyfriend about your concerns. Best of luck, Shefa!

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    August 17, 2016 at 6:54 pm

    Sorry I meant my boyfriend and me is doing okay but he does everything then it makes me feel bad cuz he does everything for me what should I do

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      web admin

      August 17, 2016 at 10:10 pm

      If you feel that he does everything and that he then holds it over your head, then speak with him about your feelings. Explain to him that you want to be doing things so that you carry your own weight. If he insists on doing things after you have explained your feelings, then tell him that you are going to do it on your own. And if he does not allow you to do it on your own and does it himself, then explain to him immediately that he is acting in the manner that you do not want him to be doing. If he continues, then it is clear that he is choosing to not respect your feelings and needs.

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    August 6, 2016 at 11:14 am

    Hello I have a crush on him I told him but am engaged to my boyfriend. We had sex with crush but am guilty over it I cheated on my bf am confused as to who my heart wants at the moment my bf wants a serious relationship that shall lead to marriage. We’re in long distance rlship whereby we’re OK with it since we do meet often what, shall I do keep my relationship with my guy or keep off with crush kindly advice coz it happens I like two of them and I don’t want to murder them both.

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      August 6, 2016 at 2:26 pm

      If you have cheated on your current boyfriend, then it is most important that you are honest with him about your actions. If you are not honest with him, then you are building your relationship on a lie that will be exposed in the future. If you do explain it to him and he leaves you, then you should accept it. If he accepts what you have told him and remains with you, then you should be clear with him and yourself that you will not betray his trust. After you have determined what you are going to do with this relationship, then you can determine how to end or develop your relationship with the person that you cheated with.

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    August 4, 2016 at 6:20 pm

    My boyfriend is planning to study abroad and keep a long distance relationship with me. But I’ve also considered changing majors just to be with him but I don’t if doing so would have horrible effects on my personal growth. But I also fear that our long distance relationship might tumble, I mean, I trust him with my life; but with all the new people he’s going to meet he might forget about me. I don’t know what to do, please help me out. Should I sacrifice my career goals for him, should I give the LDR a try? please help me out

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      August 5, 2016 at 2:43 pm

      There is no inherent problem with a long distance relationship. However, it is often difficult to navigate the emotional and physical aspects of a long distance relationship over long periods of time. It would be wise to determine if you want to value your career or your relationship with this person more. If your career is more important to you, then you can attempt to continue a relationship with him and remain mindful that your relationship may end. Or you may choose to remain with him, but be aware that relationships can still end for many reasons. There s no reason to not attempt a long distance relationship to see if it works for you.

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      August 24, 2016 at 7:13 am

      Never leave your dream or passion because of a man. My dear you will be amazed at as how women of today are left heartbroken because they gave their all to a guy and he dissapointed,if he truly loves you he will still come back to you.Alot of people have gone through LDR and in the end it worked perfectly well for them,jus try and communicate more with each other and trust yaselves more.if he is yours no matter wher he goes to he will still come back to you..my little advise to you dear.HOPE IT WORKS.

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        August 24, 2016 at 12:28 pm

        Thank you for your advice and insights. We always appreciate our readers sharing their thoughts and ideas. This is what builds our community. Feel free to share anything that comes to your mind in the future.

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      November 11, 2016 at 7:56 pm

      If u love him you will make it work to the fullest

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        November 12, 2016 at 6:28 pm

        Thank you for sharing your thoughts and insights. It is certain that strong feelings of love will solve many problems. We appreciate such positive comments. Please feel free to share your words in the future. Have a great day, Jalicia!

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    So out of it

    August 4, 2016 at 9:43 am

    Ok so heres the thing ive been eating this latín guy Whos the sweetest thing ever in bed it’s great he always texting me day night we’ve spent all his free time together the other night I looked through his phone he has this cute nickname for me “lobita” which means wolf sounds cuter in Spanish and when I went through his phone he texted some other girl the same thing and told her to take care of herself because he didn’t want anything bad to happen to her which made me a little jealous I did confront him he assured me nothing was goin on I believed him!!! So a month later there I go nosey me I go for his phone a second time to see if he continued to text her this time it was another girl which I fumed I didn’t tell him that night but I was cold with him the rest of the night and he finally asked what happen totally denied it but the next day he called me up apologizing saying there was nothing going on which I’m just like wtf is going on he called her my love which like hello over here that’s so what he tells me he works 6 days a week and that one day off spends it with me I’m like what the hell is going on I know there’s no way for him to leave work and see another girl his bosses are so strict it’s ridiculous what should I do or where should I go from here

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      web admin

      August 4, 2016 at 2:13 pm

      If you have found him acting in an unfaithful manner twice, then it is likely that he will continue to act in such a manner. If you want to give him a second chance, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings and your needs for respect. If he tells you that he will respect you, then you will need to demand his honesty. That said, it would be wise to have this be the end of your relationship. Ask him again about his work schedule to see if he is honest about how often that he works, if you find that you are curious.

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    Confused friend

    July 26, 2016 at 7:47 am

    I have been friends with this guy for 1&1/2 years now and I have had a crush on him since the beginning. I’m really starting to wonder if he likes me back, I am also scared that if he does like me I will miss out because two of my other friends have been flirting with him and I have looked at every website I could find that tests if he really likes you and I always get a 50/50. I am too scared to ask him out because I don’t want to ruin our friendship if things go badly o I Es wondering if you had anymore tips that aren’t the usual that you find on every website

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      web admin

      July 26, 2016 at 7:03 pm

      If you want to develop a relationship with this person, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If you are concerned that your friends also have an interest in this person, then be sure to take care to concern yourself with their feelings. Be mindful that relationships can come between friends if people choose to not be mature. Remain positive as you move into the future and determine where you want your future to go.

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    July 22, 2016 at 9:57 pm

    i love him but he is a muslim n i am punjabi

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      July 23, 2016 at 4:32 pm

      If you are interested in developing a relationship with him, then speak to him directly and honestly about your feelings. If you find that your relationship is not possible because he chooses to not cultivate your relationship, then there is no reason to concern yourself with your love for him. Remain positive and mindful as you move forward.

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    June 25, 2016 at 3:04 am

    Am doing great my relationship. D one problem I have and it eats me up is that my guy cheats. Don’t know what to do about it. The most painful part is that he made it so obvious that he’s cheating. It’s really making me weak. What do I do?

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      web admin

      June 25, 2016 at 9:35 pm

      If he cheats on you, then end the relationship. It is about as cut and dry as anything. There is no reason to allow someone to treat you without respect. Respect yourself and end the relationship as soon as possible.

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    May 30, 2016 at 8:28 pm

    Me and my boyfriend have been daiting for 1 week and he always wants me to cuddle and talks about making out. But I’m not ready for that what do I do

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      web admin

      June 4, 2016 at 12:41 pm

      Tell him that you are not ready for that. If he does not respect what you want and are willing to do, then he does not deserve to be with you. Just tell him how you feel and he should accept that. If he does not, break up with him because he is not the type of person that you would really want to date. Good luck, Brinkley!

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    May 22, 2016 at 9:40 pm

    umm…I just wanted to say that I’m doing great with my relationship but I wanna be able to see him in the weekends and after school without my mom telling me no idk how to change that tho

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      May 25, 2016 at 11:35 am

      Other than talking to your mom about it, I am not sure what you could do. Your mom has to be onboard with the relationship for you to spend time with him after school and on the weekends. Perhaps you could have him come over for dinner or something so that your mom can get to know him better. If she likes him and trusts him, she will be more likely to let you spend time with him. Good luck, Daylim!

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    April 27, 2016 at 5:21 pm

    Hey I need advice on how to take my relationship to the next level we have been dating for 2 months we haven’t held hand, hugged, or even really talked about our relationship and I don’t know how to change that.

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      April 29, 2016 at 8:04 am

      It seems like you may have commented twice on this one. I have to answer each comment manually, so it can sometimes take a while for your comment and the response to appear. If you do not see it right away, do not worry because it will ultimately appear. Read through my first response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!

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