20 Romantic Questions to Ask Your Boyfriend

By on January 8, 2014

Trying to get a little bit more intimate with that special someone in your life? Well, get cozy and relaxed with your lover and try out these 20 romantic questions to ask your boyfriend.

1. How long do you see our relationship lasting?


There’s no better way to find out how serious someone is about a relationship than with this question. If he says anything other than ‘till the end of time’ or ‘forever’ or something along those lines, you may need to rethink!

2. How much do you love me?

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Get ready to be showered with compliments, hugs, kisses and the likes, simply by asking this romantic question.

3. What is your opinion of marriage?


It’s every woman’s dream to get married, so if your man isn’t on board with marriage you may have a problem. On the other hand, if he thinks the man is a provider who should care for his woman till the end, you’ve struck gold.

4. Do you see us ever getting married?


Is there wedding rings and honeymoons in your future? You’ll never know until you ask him this romantic question.

5. What do you love about me the most?

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Again, this compliment-provoking question is simply one you have to ask.

6. If I died in a horrible accident, how would you react?


If he is anything other than terribly distraught for months on end, he might not be as serious as you think he is.

7. How can I prove my love for you?

Feeling like really proving to your guy you love him more than anything on earth? Then you need to ask this question and find out what he’s craving for.

8. Do you feel like you can tell me anything?


Without trust and a bond, a relationship cannot be sustained. If he truly loves you he should be ready and willing to share even his deepest, darkest secrets.
9. Do you still remember our first kiss?


This question is actually more important than you think. Your first kiss was one of the milestones  of the relationship and should be one of the most important things to remember. Warning: Hearing your man relive the night you and two shared your first kiss may be a tear jerker.

10. Do you remember the day we met?


Again, if your man remembers this amazing day, then he is definitely head over heels about you. Plus this question makes for a highly romantic reminiscing session.

11. What about me were you first attracted to?

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Was it your beautiful green eyes? Your long brown hair? Your hilarious personality? Find out what has made your man gaga ever since the start.

12. What song reminds you about me?

This can really tell you a lot about what’s going on in his mind. Would he choose a crumby, yet totally adorable song like ‘Brown Eyed Girl’, or is it something a bit raunchy like ‘Ms New Booty’?

13. What’s is the craziest thing you would do for me?

If you’re wondering what exactly your man would be willing to do for your love, you’ll find out instantly with this cute question.

14. Would you sacrifice (something) to keep our relationship going?


Would he give up his hateful, jealous friends just to keep you? Would he stop playing video games if it meant saving your relationship? Choose one of his favorite things and see if he’d be willing to give it up for you!

15. Would you be my lover in the next life?


If he wouldn’t want you in the next life, he probably doesn’t really want you in this life. Time to hit the ‘end’ button.

16. Would you be loyal even if your celebrity crush tried to sleep with you?

Who could resist their celebrity crush? Only a man who truly loves you, of course! Can your man say no to the temptations?

17. Will you be with me no matter what?

Even if your looks went sour or you were suddenly dirt poor, your man should still be right by your side through it all.

18. What memory of ours do you never want to forget?


Finding out your man’s fondest memory of the two of you is always a heart melter. Enjoy as he reminisces about his favorite moments and take a second to just enjoy what the two of you have been through together.

19. Am I perfect in your eyes?


The answer should always be yes, no questions asked.


20. Where would our dream honeymoon be?


It’s nice to imagine the two of you eventually saying your vows, exchanging rings, and being together for the rest of your lives. But that’s not all. There’s also the honeymoon. What romantic place would the love of your life take you? A beautiful beach paradise or by the fireplace in a cabin amongst ice-capped mountain tops?


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    January 22, 2019 at 11:33 am

    As I was asking my boyfriend these questions I randomly made a oohh noise and we are laughing our heads off xxx

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      January 22, 2019 at 5:54 pm

      Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. We always appreciate when members of our community share their positive comments. Please share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Aaliyah!

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    August 31, 2018 at 1:05 am

    Im in a relationship from last 2 yrs.im a bit confused by my relationship he is too much with me from jan to may talks to much meet me thrice in week and cares too much but after may he starts behaving like not responding calls msgs etc and finally when I say to breakup then he calls and tell about his reasons it hearts a lot when he didn’t talks to me suddenly I don’t know what to do

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      September 1, 2018 at 8:51 pm

      What were his reasons for not talking? From the sound of it, he was really into you. Your message makes it seem like you didn’t like the excessive attention though, so perhaps he picked up on that and that is what caused his behavior to cool off. I would listen to whatever his reasons are for suddenly being distant and decide what to do based on what he says. He was obviously extremely into you before, so it is more than likely that he still is or could be again.

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    July 20, 2018 at 8:39 pm

    I have a Bf since two weeks he so polite and caring but he also want a sexual talk to me but I can’t. I don’t what happened with me. And he also marrie me. But we are from different cast. Our family’s not allowed. What should I do.

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      July 21, 2018 at 9:22 pm

      There are many influences in your life that you need to navigate at this time. Determine what you want for your future. Decide what is appropriate for your future. Your social and cultural influences prevent you from establishing this relationship because of your caste, so you must decide if you value the caste system. Your family may not approve of this relationship, so speak with them about your thoughts and feelings. After you determine what is possible, then speak with your boyfriend about what you believe the future holds. Have a great day, Mahi!

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    July 13, 2018 at 11:45 am

    My bf and i have been dating for 3 months i trust him alot but we hardly get to meet becoz it’s difficult with our families as they don’t know..some advice please

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      July 13, 2018 at 3:20 pm

      Your relationship may be strained because of your familial influences. You should speak with your family and attempt to have them meet his family. A relationship will have a hard time being successful if it is not approved of by your families. Speak with your partner about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Saira!

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    April 3, 2018 at 10:30 pm

    Heyy i am having a boyfriend for one week now but we had sex after that i think he changed but am not sure so how do i find out if he is changing??

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      April 3, 2018 at 11:13 pm

      Continue to monitor his behaviors. It is common for emotional changes to occur after sexual intercourse during early relationships. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Fatma!

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    March 22, 2018 at 12:52 am

    My boyfriend n I have completed only two months of relationship n i think he is losing interest because he doesn’t seems to be interested in talking to me sometimes i have asked him about this but he doesn’t answered my questions attentively..but i really love him what to do..??

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      March 22, 2018 at 8:21 pm

      It is possible that his feelings have altered. There may be an external reasons for his changes. You may find benefit in spend additional time with him in person, as this may strengthen your relationship. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Affy!

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    Vandan gupta

    January 4, 2018 at 10:09 am

    My bf hides nothing frm me….we r in relationship from last 3 years nd he introduced me with his family also …but still hve. Little fear about his honesty…what should i do..????

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      January 4, 2018 at 8:08 pm

      Take this time to determine what is influencing your feelings. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Vandan!

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      Shanaya Nanda

      January 27, 2018 at 6:03 am

      Hey nice to talk to u. Good question. Every girl has this problem. I think he is absolutely honest other wise he would have never met your family. I am in relationship wth a boy for 5 yrs.

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        January 27, 2018 at 9:56 pm

        Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Shanaya!

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    September 18, 2017 at 9:39 am

    av been dating this guy for some time Nd for the first time I went visiting in his place I stayed for two weeks Nd we Neva used the word I love u even wen cuddling when it was time to leave I left and since then he has bin acting strange I ask him what the problem is he says nothing even when I asked if he missed me he says maybe.What should I do

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      September 18, 2017 at 5:51 pm

      He is likely confused or uncertain about your feelings toward him. Take this time to determine what you want for your relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Attempt to spend additional time with him. Allow him to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Shalom!

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