16 Ways to Make Him Fall in Love With You

By on June 1, 2014

“She wasn’t exactly sure when it happened. Or even when it started. All she knew for sure was that right here and now, she was falling hard and she could only pray that he was feeling the same way.” -Nicholas Sparks. If that sounds like you’re love life right now, you’re probably wondering if there’s any way to guarantee he loves you back. But while there’s no way to make someone fall for you, there’s still some easy steps you can take to get one step closer. Take a look at these 16 ways to make him fall in love with you!


1. Always Be Yourself

If you’re putting on a show or being someone you’re not in the hopes that he will fall in love with you, you are only setting yourself up for failure. The second you slip out of what you think is ‘perfection’ for him, he will not only view you as a liar- but won’t love you anymore. He wants to know the real you. He wants you with all of your flaws. That’s why he picked you. So stay true yourself and always be who you are. You’d be surprised how much further that gets you than trying to be something you’re not- which leads us to tip number 2.


2. Be Different Than the Rest

If you’re too busy trying to be like everyone else, how can you be different from the pack? Men don’t want another plastic replica of everyone else. They want a lady who is unique. Be that girl, not another clone of the rest of the world. That will attract him and make him fall for you quicker than any item of clothing, piece of makeup, or false appreciation for video games.


3. Look Your Best

I’m not even going to try and sugarcoat this statement: men fall in love with what they see. So if you’re not looking your best, how far do you think that’s going to get you? Always put your best foot forward. This doesn’t mean you need to buy the most expensive clothing or be a size 0. Simply take care of yourself and wear clothes that accentuate your best features. Find out the things he loves and try to do them often. Your guy loves red lipstick? Go out and buy yourself a lovely shade of red and glide it across your lips- he’ll go crazy! Have a man that likes women in cute summer dresses? Buy a couple flowery, cute (and of course short) summer dresses to turn him on.


4. Don’t Be Easy

Have you ever heard that saying, “Why buy the cow when you can get the milk for free?” It’s kind of harsh; but it’s also ridiculously true. Men like a challenge, and being quick and easy isn’t going to make him fall for you- let alone respect you. And this doesn’t just mean not being easy when it comes to having sex. You can be easy in other ways, like saying yes to every date he asks you on or agreeing with everything he says. You need to be independent, have your own opinions, and make him work for it- from the first date to the first kiss and everything that follows. Just remember not to hold out too long, as this can be a big turn off too.


5. Be a Great Listener

Women aren’t the only ones who like to talk for long periods of time, get their feelings out, or simply have a nice conversation. Men like it too, and nothing makes someone feel worse than talking to someone who isn’t listening to them- which really implies they don’t care. If you want your man to fall in love with you, pay attention to him. Listen to him when he wants to talk, and be there for him- even when the conversations are repetetive or boring. He needs an ear to listen, you should be the one with open ears ready for whatever he needs to say. You never know, the next conversation might be the time he expresses his love for you.


6. Be Positive

Who wants to be around someone who is negative? Surely not your boyfriend. Positivity only sprouts one thing: more positivity. If you want a positive, happy relationship with only positive and happy outcomes, you need to be positive from the beginning. Even when the going gets rough, be positive for your man and for yourself. This positivity will ignite future positivity which could lead to love and marriage.


7. Be Sweet

Nothing makes a man fall in love faster than a nice, sweet, innocent girl (with a hidden naughty side, of course- but we will get to that later!). If you really want to suck him into your love spell, just be sweet- from the moment he meets you. Have a smile on your face and be as feminine and gentle as possible. He will love your sweet attitude and will naturally gravitate towards you. It’s just physics, ladies!

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8. Be Silly

Women always say it’s a huge plus if a man can make them laugh. Why wouldn’t it be the same for a man? Men LOVE it when a girl can make them smile, and it’s only extra brownie points if she can make him laugh too. Be that girl that he actually enjoys being around. Don’t be afraid to let your hair down and have some fun. Make silly comments and do silly things, without feeling embarrassed or ‘too hot’ to do fun things. That’s a huge turn off for guys! Even those corny jokes you think are stupid to say- don’t be afraid to blurt those out too. He will probably find it adorable and funny all at the same time. Major WIN!



9. Be Trustworthy

You know what breaks a relationship up the quickest? A lack of trust. Trust (along with communication) are the stepping stones that make up the perfect relationship. And not just a perfect one, a long lasting one. You won’t get him to fall in love with you if you’re constantly insecure, asking him where he is at every time he leaves the house or accusing him of being with another woman just because he said ‘Hello’. Be secure in yourself and have faith in your partner. It really does work wonders, and you won’t believe how strong it will make your relationship.


10. Give Him Space

This goes hand in hand with tip number 9. You need to trust him enough to give him some personal space. After all, being around someone too much is never a good thing. Everyone needs their personal time- even your man. Let him go out with his buddies and have a good time. Let him stay home and get caught up on his work every once and awhile. Give him some space, and you’ll notice a stronger relationship. You will not only prove to him that you trust him, but also give his mind some relaxed time where he can let loose.


11. Be Supportive

When a man has a bad day, you know what he wants to come home to? A woman who will be positive, encouraging, and supportive. Even when the hard time comes, he needs his lady by his side no matter what. Show him that you are indeed that woman and he won’t be able to resist falling for you.


12. Let Him Be the Hero

It is in every man’s nature to want to be the hero. They want to be the strong protector that can do anything for their woman, from opening that tough jar of mayonnaise to bringing home the bacon. You act like you’re a dainty, feminine girl that actually needs him to perform the masculine tasks, and you’ll have him in your grasp in no time (while also giving him a huge, much needed ego boost).


13. Flirt a Lot

Who doesn’t love to be flirted with? A flirt, big or small, makes you feel special. It makes you feel wanted and needed, and most of all, attractive. Your man wants to be flirted with, whether it is the first date or the three hundred and third date. This not only makes him feel great about himself, but keeps the relationship spicy and romantic. Remember ladies: never stop doing the simple things that you did in the beginning of the relationship. That’s the best piece of advice for keeping a relationship alive. So when he tells that funny jokes, giggle and touch his arm like you did the first time. When he comes out wearing your favorite blue shirt, tell him how unbelievably handsome and muscular he looks. He needs this; and he will definitely appreciate it.


14. Keep Things Spicy

Yes, it’s time for the sex talk. Remember earlier when we made the, ‘wild in bed’ comment? Well, we meant it. Guys love this. They want a lady who can turn them on in the bedroom. If you’re not keeping things spicy and interesting, then he might get bored- and nobody wants that. Boredom only leads to two things: cheating and breakups. Try to switch things up often, whether it’s with a new outfit or a new candle, or something even freakier- it really depends on how crazy your man is and what he prefers. Ask him what kinds of things he’d like to try in the bedroom and surprise him with one of his fantasies. He will absolutely love this and won’t want to stop being with you; a little blend of lust and love.


15. Try New Things

It’s as simple as that: try new things often, in and out of the bedroom. In the bedroom, try out one of his fantasies, even if it isn’t in your comfort zone. You might find out you like it. But that’s not the only place you should be adventurous.

Let’s say your guy loves to scuba dive, but you’ve never tried it before. In fact, the thought of swimming around with fishes terrifies you. He assures you that it is tons of fun, and he will be right there next to you to guide you and protect you. With all of that reassurance, why not give it a try? You might discover a newfound love for scuba diving, and you did four great things: 1. You showed him that you are an adventurous woman who isn’t afraid to try new things. 2. You two now have something awesome you can do together often. 3. You showed him that he is your big, strong, powerful man, and by his side you can do anything. You trust him! 4. You want to explore things he likes, just because HE likes them. And that shows you really care about him, and he can’t help but admire that.

So the next time he wants to do something new and exciting, why not give it a shot?

16. Have Fun Together

This goes along with trying new things. But even if it’s something you’ve already done a million times before, HAVE FUN! Nobody wants to be stuck in a boring relationship, right? So keep things interesting and always have fun, whether you’re just playing video games on the couch together or going deep sea fishing. Being fun will keep you both happy and positive, which will only make the relationship grow tremendously.


It may seem like a challenge, but getting your man to say those three special words ‘I love you’ may be easier than you think. Just remember to keep a sweet, fun, and spontaneous attitude and always be yourself. Keep your trust and faith in your special someone and make him feel like the perfect guy he is. He won’t be able to resist you!


Ladies, what are some of the reasons why your man fell in love with you?


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    August 30, 2016 at 2:40 pm

    I’m in love with this guy. Hes lovely, he’s sweet, he compliments me all the time, he makes me laugh and we’re best friends. Recently however(after the first time we had sex), he’s stopped going on the dates with me. The only time he seems to be interested is if I’ve hinted at something dirty previously. He still compliments me but it’s always on my boobs or my body and when he makes me laugh it’s with sex jokes. I still love him and he insists he loves me too but I can’t help feeling like ive become a sex object to him when all I want is my best friend back. I don’t want to end it so quickly because there are a few amazing moments that make me think he really does still love me! Help please!!x

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      August 31, 2016 at 9:35 am

      Since the two of you had sex, his mind is probably filled with hormones urging him to have sex. If you are not comfortable with having sex with him, then explain that to him. If you find that his focus on sex is upsetting the balance of your relationship, then explain that to him as well. However, a useful course of action would be to use his desire for sex as a tool. If he responds to dirty jokes and that brings him out on a date, then there is no reason for you to not use that tool. After everything is said in done, be clear with him that you demand respect and for him to still go on dates with you.

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    August 22, 2016 at 10:27 am

    i have being dating this guy for the past 4month and i love him alot and he says he loves me too. But his friend told me he is cheating on me and i asked him and he said it isnt true, and i saw some msgs on his fone to another girl telling her to hang out and i asked him about it and he said she is just a friend,and he love me with all his heart he wont ever cheat on me.. Im so confuse

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      August 22, 2016 at 5:20 pm

      You should speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. You should also be aware that he may have friends of the opposite gender. If you would like for him to not have female friends, then explain your feelings to him. Be aware that you may end your relationship with your conversation. He may not be cheating on you and he may be cheating on you. If he wants to continue his friendship with this other girl, then explain that you want to hang out with the both of them at the same time. If he is not comfortable with that, then you may bring up your concerns again.

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    July 18, 2016 at 1:01 pm

    Hi,i became friends with a guy in 2015, we talked all the time until one day he asked me about relationships and then I told him I wasn’t ready. After our conversations started getting shorter. Later I fell in love with him and kept my feelings for a year and 5 months. It was recently that I told him how I felt for him. His response was that when I told him I wasn’t ready for a relationship he chose to back of even though he almost fell in love with me. I love him so dearly, but now he is so difficult to understand. Recently we met at a party and talked all night he even drove me home and gave me his bracelet with his name written on it. The following morning I texted him saying that even if no relations happen between us, I still wanna be his friend. He replied saying that ,he doesn’t want me to talk like that and that we’re gonna make it work, he just want us to take things slow.I’m always thinking about him, but I wanna give him space. Sometimes he shows mixed signals, does it mean, he doesn’t want to show me he likes me too.I mean this guy is liked by lots of girls and I thought he entertained them but I got the chance to ask him lots of questions during the party and realized the things he really likes.I feel worried when he ignores me without texting, I do the texting always. Is he playing hard to get now? Should I give him space?

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      July 19, 2016 at 2:29 pm

      It is doubtful that he is playing any games with you as you have made it clear that he explained that he does not want to form a more intimate relationship with you. If he said that he wants to take it slow, then that is what he meant. Be a friend to him and if you want a relationship to flourish with him, then you need to be respectful of his wishes. If he continues to remain just friends with you, then there is no reason for you to not date anyone else in the meantime.

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    July 12, 2016 at 3:21 am

    i have been single for many years and been living my life the way i wanted. traveling around, fun & adventures things and being independent is all the common thing I do. but recently I started to like this friend of mine who was not in touch for more than a year. and now we are hanging out like casual friends but i feel that he is solely treating me like his other guy friends just becos i am an independent woman. How to make him realize that I actually like him.?

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      July 12, 2016 at 5:16 pm

      Speak with him directly about your feelings and your desires. There is no reason for you to keep your relationship desires to yourself. If he reciprocates your feelings, then you can go from there and focus on cultivating your relationship. If he does not share your feelings, which is doubtful, then you can continue your relationship in any way that you desire.

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    May 27, 2016 at 4:11 am

    Hey….im having crush on a guy who is my brothers friend but i have never ever talked to him before….but i just have a thought that i love him, each time i look into his eyes i feel my blood rushing to my brain….i need some advice…

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      June 3, 2016 at 1:11 pm

      It sounds like you are attracted to him physically. Whether you are attracted to him emotionally or intellectually or not remains to be seen. For now, get to know him better and see where things go. You will never know if there could be something more to the relationship until you get to know him better though, so work on that first. Good luck!

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    biso biso

    May 6, 2016 at 9:06 am

    I did not fall in love before, but nowadays I have some feelings for someone how is my friend but we are just friends and he do not love me at all but I feel love him how can I make him love me.
    I do not thing these stip it will be help me cause he is toooooooooo strect so I do not know how can I do that to make him love me alot.

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      May 9, 2016 at 7:59 am

      There is no way to make someone love you. You already hang out with him as a friend, so he has had a chance to fall for you if he likes you. Even if he did start liking you though, he may be afraid to make a move because it would jeopardize your friendship. For the moment, just stay friends with him and try to flirt with him. If you start to think that he could like you, make a move and see where it goes. Good luck, Biso Biso!

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    April 24, 2016 at 2:02 am

    I’ve been in a relationship a little over a year now. It was great to start with and we even made plans to move in together and maybe think about marriage one day. But the last few months it’s all mixed signals from him. He has started having new hobbies and spending a lot more time with other people which of course is great and I encourage him with them, but it has stopped him having any time to talk to me or meet me. His parents split up and I try to support him for example, and he tells me he’s not ten and doesn’t need to talk about it. But then used it against me saying I don’t care when I tell him how I feel about him not having time for me anymore as well as throwing some pretty nasty insults my way instead of listening to where I’m coming from.. Should I stay or leave? Is there a way I can get him to listen or is it time to stop trying?

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      April 25, 2016 at 8:16 am

      You should just talk to him about what you want. While it is good for him to have friends, you should mention that you want to have one-on-one time with him. It sounds like you already tried to do this though, and it did not work the first time. While he fell hard at first and was contemplating marriage, it sounds like he is either considering a break up or he is just taking you for granted. If it were me, I would leave the relationship and move on. You are the only person actually in the relationship though, so you would know best if there was any possibility of things working out. Good luck, Sadie!

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    April 19, 2016 at 10:46 pm

    Hey there! I have been into a relationship since last 3years. Through these years there has been times when he has cheaated on me. But i have forgive him still maintaining our relationship. Our families too knows about our relationship. We are physically mentally aand financially strong in our relationship. But he seems to cheat on me again he is kind of getting attracted to other girls. I am losing my trust and getting broken. The fact is that he himself tells me about the fact that he is cheating on me. I dont know what to do. I am very confused. Please help me am broken i am losing my courage. He loves me too but still he seems to cheat. Please help. Thank you !

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      April 23, 2016 at 9:36 am

      It seems like you may have commented twice on this one. I have to answer and approve each comment individually, so it can sometimes take a little while to get around to answering all of them. If you do not see your comment right away, do not worry because it will eventually appear. Read through my first response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!

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    April 19, 2016 at 10:31 pm

    Hey there . i have been in a relationship since 3years we both are happy but these three years there has been times when he has cheated on me and i have forgive him we are still in a relationship but somewhere my trust on him is lacking. He is still getting attracted to other girls. But on the other hand he only tells me everything about the fact that he is cheating on me. I am so very confused what to do with my relationship and yet i must mention that we both are physically, mentally and yet financially strong in relationship. Please help me i am broken from within. Our families too know a put our relationship. Please help ! Thank you.

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      April 23, 2016 at 9:36 am

      It sounds like he is probably not going to stop cheating anytime soon. If he has continuously cheated in the past and checks out other girls all the time, it does not sound like he is going to be settling down anytime soon. While he undoubtedly loves you, that does not stop him from cheating on you. If I were you, I would give up on the relationship now and move on. You have put three years into the relationship, and if he was going to change, he would have already done it. Good luck, Sneha!

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    Rafaela Gutierrez Paredes

    April 16, 2016 at 6:28 pm

    Sooo….. i have this crush on a fuck boy and actually its been weird that i always find him where i am, he looks at me, and at a party we had a many intense eye contact and also me and a friend caught him staring at me, weird we have never talked, and he sent me a friend request on facebook (i still dont accept him),i dont get it, is he kinda intrested on me or something?

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      April 16, 2016 at 7:51 pm

      It sounds like he finds you attractive, although he could want more than just a fling. Considering his tendency to just sleep around, I would not expect too much from it. In a few years, he may be ready for something more serious. Unless you just want a fling, I would not get close to him in any way now. Good luck, Rafaela!

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        Rafaela Gutierrez Paredes

        April 17, 2016 at 5:58 pm

        thanks but heres the thing, all the woman he had a crush on were nothing like me, so this is why its weird.
        Now would this change everything?

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          April 23, 2016 at 6:51 am

          He may have just realized that he wanted to try dating a different type of girl, or he may just like you without realizing why. It would not really change the fact that he is a player and will probably remain a player until he matures a bit. Be careful, and be prepared to leave any potential relationship with him if he remains a player at heart. Good luck, Rafaela!

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    March 26, 2016 at 2:03 pm

    Hi ! i’m 14 years old and the guy who i love is 17 ! he is my brother’s friend and he knows alot of girls but he says that he sees. them as if they were his sisters. i made a fake account to know if he is girls lover or not .. i asked his friends about him but 95% told me to avoid him he is rude and he loves girls and he cause for them alot of problems .. but i cant believe them .. im now so broken i want to make him fall in love with me

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      March 28, 2016 at 2:41 pm

      If his friends were the ones who told you to stay away, then you should listen to them. For a friend to say something so negative, it must be true. Unless you want your heart broken, avoid him at all costs. There are always other guys out there, and you don’t want to get tangled up in a pointless, painful relationship. Be careful, Emily!

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      April 16, 2016 at 2:46 am

      You should make an eye content when he is looking at you an D give a smile.

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        April 16, 2016 at 4:44 pm

        That is a good idea. It may be a bit too subtle for some guys to pick up on though, but go ahead and try it. Eye contact and smiles are a sign that someone is interested, so it should at least make him take a second look. Thanks for commenting, Lisa–I am sure that Emily will appreciate it. 🙂

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      April 16, 2016 at 4:09 pm

      You are 14… Let’s do a little subtracting 17-14=3 that means he is three years older than you. That is quite a bit of a maturity difference between you two…

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        April 16, 2016 at 7:56 pm

        Very true. In some states, it is not even legal–even if they had the exact same maturity level. Even if she does not care for her sake, it would be a good idea to look up the laws. If she cares about the guy at all, she will not date him if it is not legal in her state. A three year age difference is not a major issue later on, but it is fairly significant in high school.

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    March 6, 2016 at 11:10 am

    Hi. I have met a guy on a dating site & i have been chatting with him for a few days & i sort of like him,but we have never met. He said that he had 3 girlfriends in past, what to do of my feelings? & how to make him like me? & yeah I’m 20 years old & he is 24

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      March 6, 2016 at 12:08 pm

      If he is talking to you and met you on a dating site, then it sounds like he is interested in you. Get to know him better–we actually have articles on Her Interest about questions to ask your crush, so you could check these out for ideas about how to start a conversation. If you are feeling particularly brave, go ahead and ask him if he wants to meet you for a cup of coffee. Unlike a lunch or dinner date, you can leave at any time, which is great if you are not sure how the date will go. If things are going well, you could always suggest going on a hike, painting pottery or going to a movie afterward. Best of luck, Lisu!

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    November 24, 2015 at 4:12 pm

    Hi.. i’ve been dating this guy for quite a while now.. say a year and a half
    and things “seem” to be moving on fine even tho’ there’s been few months of attention and inattention
    we’ve never had sex though,i told him right from the beginning of the relationship..i’m 21 and he’s 29 and has a child already but truth be told i love the age difference
    he treats things in a matured manner but most times, he doesn’t open up and sees me as “too young for him” he doesn’t tell me “deep things”, never said”i love you”, he’s seeing other women cz i see messages but always wants me around
    i’m not hyping myself but i feel like i’m the main woman..
    it’s kind of a long distance too but we can make that work..

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      November 26, 2015 at 2:56 am

      You may just want to talk to him about what you want and see if he is willing to give it to you. If he thinks that you are too young and does not open up to you, then that will certainly be a problem as the relationship progresses. As long as he is unwilling to open up, this relationship will never go past casually dating. Do you want to be exclusive? What do you want? If you are fine with just dating around and seeing where things go, then you do not have to talk to him about anything. If you want to have a more serious relationship or, at least, be exclusive, you will need to talk to him about what you want and convince him to open up for you more often.

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    November 14, 2015 at 2:23 pm

    This blog is thoughtful, detail and practical. I love it! Thanks for sharing your advice.

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      November 28, 2015 at 6:14 pm

      I am glad to hear that you enjoyed the article. If you liked this article, there are a number of other ones like it on Her Interest. If you have time, make sure to check them out. Thanks for commenting, Kevin!

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    October 26, 2015 at 8:03 pm

    hey i like this boy and he is mad @ me we used to be best friends idk where i went wrong wat should i do to make it better I LIKE HIM AS

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      October 26, 2015 at 11:16 pm

      I think your first step would be to figure out how your relationship ended up going wrong. It seems like your only option to fix your relationship is to find out what went wrong. If you can get him to talk to you, ask him why he is upset and then try to work through the issue. Once you are friends again, you will have a better chance of turning him into your boyfriend. Good luck, Mollie!

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        October 27, 2015 at 1:53 am

        ive tried but he ignores me

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          October 27, 2015 at 2:47 pm

          In that case, it seems like your only real option at the moment is to wait things out and hope that he stops being angry on his own. It is not an easy or enjoyable option, but it seems like it is your only one at the moment. Good luck, Mollie! I hope that everything works out for you!

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    October 26, 2015 at 1:48 pm

    Everything seems fine (in my own opinion) except the no. 14. The more you make a man wait for sex, the more he will work for it. Men lose respect to women who give sex outside marriage. Avoiding sex will make the relationship more spicy. Men tends to lose interest once they get sex.

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      October 26, 2015 at 10:14 pm

      I don’t think that is always true, but I think that there is certainly a limit to how long you want to date. You don’t want to wait too long, or sleep with him too fast for exactly the reasons that you mentioned. Thanks for commenting, Carlo!

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    October 26, 2015 at 5:16 am

    ive known my next door neighbor and me and him r so close and weve almost kissed. he always says he misses me when i come back. ive noticed he stares @ me a lot. he always invites me over. ive noticed his little features. does he likeme bc i know ive fallen 4 him?

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      October 26, 2015 at 9:24 pm

      It looks like you may have commented twice on this one! If you do not see your comment right away, do not worry—I have to approve and answer each comment individually, so it can sometimes take a few hours for it to appear. Read through my first response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!

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    October 26, 2015 at 5:01 am

    i hav liked my next door neighbor 4 a year and i have tried flirting with him but he became bug eyed. i mean he gave me his number and his instagram name. all i know is that he always begs me 2 come over. What does this mean. Does it mean he likes me

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      October 26, 2015 at 9:22 pm

      If he gave you his number and his instagram name as well, then there is an excellent chance that he likes you. Most likely, he becomes bug-eyed when you flirt because he feels awkward around you and cannot get up the confidence to flirt back. Although there may be another reason for his behavior, I think the most likely answer is that he is interested in you. Good luck!

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    October 21, 2015 at 10:49 pm

    I am working on this project with a guy, we’ve been in touch for 6 months. We became friends, he trusts me and sometimes shares deep thoughts of his.

    He came to my country like 3 times so far, we surely met to discuss work.
    We skype(work),
    We text(work),
    We are on Facebook(work),
    And by the way, this project is his personal project, he asked me to be there to motivate him, so i’m doing it as a support. We actually met through another online business we are now doing together as well.

    Now… i think i am in love with this guy.. and i am not sure if he feels the same way too. He is very nice to me, his smile, the look in his eyes, i can feel that he likes me, but he is being professional and focused. With a lovely smile in his face.

    I sometimes wonder why did he involve me in this project? What is it that he wants especially that i’m not doing much. My role is to listen to his progress, ask questions, and give guidelines when i can. That’s it!

    I want to continue being decent, i sometimes think that i don’t want to involve love in my relationship with him, he is a person i would like to keep forever. But my feelings are very strong, he is always in my mind, his smile, his talk, his face, his interest in me which i am confused about… eeeverything about him is attracting me.

    I tried flirting to be honest, but he didn’t react well, he was so mean to me. so i stopped it and started acting normal again. I was deeply hurt, but we both came over it already and never discussed it again.

    What can i do to either stop my feelings or have him fall for me?

    Please advise me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 24, 2015 at 7:11 pm

      Hmm..considering how he responded to your attempt at flirting, he may not be interested or he may just want to keep the relationship as a professional one. Although you may feel like you are not doing a lot for the project, your advice and input must be helping it. He may also just want someone to listen as he throws around ideas, and you are knowledgeable enough about the topic to give input. As for your current dilemma, I would probably keep your relationship as it is. If he does want to take things farther, he can always ask you, but you do not want to ruin your work relationship by making a move on your own. As for stopping your feelings, it would be extremely difficult to stop caring for him if you are always talking to him or working with him. Getting a different boyfriend or dating around may help you to forget about your feelings a bit, but it would still be fairly hard.

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    October 21, 2015 at 5:49 pm

    There is this guy i like and he claims he clahe also likes me back but he just cant stop flirting with other girls…please help me what im i gonna do??

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 24, 2015 at 5:39 pm

      It is entirely possible that he likes the other girls as well, or he could just be a major flirt. If he told you that he likes you, then I would go ahead and assume that he was telling the truth. Now, you just have to decide what you want to do about these feelings and if you would be able to date someone who is such a flirt. Good luck, Amirah!

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