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    What Does It Mean When You Dream About Your Crush?

    By on December 29, 2013

    On average every one of us dreams seven times per night. We might not even realise it, but that doesn’t make it any less true. All too often people don’t realise this and claim to never dream, not realising how statistically unlikely that actually is. Since you’re reading this, I think it’s safe to say however that you’re not one of those people. I’m going to take a shot and say that you remember your dreams quite a lot, perhaps most nights, and I’m going to take another shot and say that a lot of them feature a certain, very special, someone.

    But what does it mean when your crush keeps popping up in your dreams? Why is it that he just can’t contain himself to real life, why is he flaunting himself in your dreams too? Here’s your answer…

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    The Why

    ‘The why’ in ‘why is your crush dream stalking you?’ is simple – you’re thinking about him in your waking hours and unable to forget about him when you switch off for the night. When we sleep our subconscious gets free reign and in that time it paints us pictures using the people, objects, places and scenarios we’ve been thinking of when we were awake.

    There’s not much else to the why, like I said, it’s simple. You’re focussing on him while you’re awake and your subconscious is simply playing on that fact and creating a dream from it.

    What It Means

    Depending on your beliefs and whether or not you’re superstitious, dreams can either mean nothing or they can mean everything. They can hide clues to the future or your deepest desires or they can simply be nothing more than your mind playing a trick on you. If you don’t believe dreams hold clues to our futures or insights into our souls then I suggest you skip over this section, it may not be for you.

    Here’s a few common dreams that may include your crush and what they are commonly interpreted to mean…

    To dream you are kissing your crush symbolizes love, affectation and harmony. Your mind is expressing your waking desire to be close to this person and form some sort of attachment, in this case a relationship.

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    Don’t panic if you and your crush were arguing in a dream. This doesn’t mean you aren’t compatible as a couple. Arguing in a dream can symbolize tension and that you are trying to resolve an internal conflict. In this case, it’s likely your mind trying to tell you how frustrated it is that your crush is nothing more than a crush. It could show that your mind is ready for the two of you to become more than friends.

    If you receive a love note or letter in your dream means that there could be a new relationship ahead of you. It also however symbolizes that you are insecure about something and need reassurance about your feelings or relationship. My advice in this situation is to be hopeful but beware, don’t let your insecurities get the better of you.

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    What To Do About It

    On a whole, dreaming of your crush shows that you have an unresolved issue with him in real life, namely that he’s only your crush and not your boyfriend. You need to take action in the real world by attempting to get closer to him to see if a relationship is on the cards or not. Either way, your dreams about him are likely to grow fewer, if not stop altogether, as you start to live out your fantasy of speaking to him in everyday life. Chances are, you’ll be happier for it too. Instead of waking up feeling slightly hollow every morning seeing as your dream was only a dream, you’ll end each day feeling fulfilled that you spoke to him.

    Try reading my article How To Get Your Crush To Like You for tips on how to interact with your crush in real life. As much as we’d all like to, we can’t go on dreaming forever. It’s time to stop dreaming and start living so go out there and make your crush fall head over heels for you!

    3,192 Comments

    1. Saerin

      November 17, 2017 at 1:10 am

      I had this really strange dream last night i had a crush 9 yrs ago. And he appeared on my dream last night. I was asking him questions and he was just ignoring me. what does it mean?

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 17, 2017 at 4:58 pm

        This dream is a reflection of your previous emotional attachments for this person. Take this time to determine if you have any feelings for this person at this time. If you don’t, then allow this dream to fade. If you do, then reach out to this person. Have a great day, Saerin!

    2. Lyly love

      November 15, 2017 at 11:13 pm

      I had a dream about my crush and the thing is I don’t even think about him at all during the day or night. I just dream about him from time to time. Most of the time when I dream about him I can never really see his face but I just know it’s him. One time I had a dream and I was watching him do a play and I started screaming because I wanted to meet him so bad. Everyone in the crowd got mad at me and they started yelling at me for me to leave. His twin brother also got mad. Then everyone just suddenly disappeared and it was just me and him. He looked at me and we started arguing but then we made up. And I don’t remember what else happened. But it’s really weird because when I do think of him I don’t dream about him. But when I’m not thinking about him, that’s when I dream about him….WHAT DOES THIS MEANNNN.

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 16, 2017 at 3:00 pm

        These dreams are reflections of your emotional connection with this person. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with this person about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Lyly!

    3. Chantel

      November 15, 2017 at 8:30 am

      I had this dream that I married my crush and got pregnant and 3 years later my crush was killed in a car accident. I moved to Delaware with my daughter a year later and slowly healed, though I never remarried.

      I’d like to know what this means, thank you very much.

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 15, 2017 at 6:08 pm

        This dream is a reflection of your emotional connection with this person. It is likely that you are interested in developing a relationship with this person. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Chantel!

    4. Courtney S

      November 15, 2017 at 8:16 am

      I had a dream that my crush and I had to deal with a guy who liked me but I didn’t like. And he was the mortal enemy of my crush. It was a very scary dream and at least 3 people died.

      Meaning please?

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 15, 2017 at 6:08 pm

        These dreams are reflections of your social interactions and the other influences that you are in your life. Reduce the amount of violent media that you consume. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with this person about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Courtney!

    5. Chantel

      November 15, 2017 at 8:10 am

      SO I had this long dream that I married my crush and got pregnant and 3 years later, he was killed in a car accident. So then me and my daughter moved to Delaware a year later and slowly things got better. (I never remarried.)

      That’s not all but that’s the gist.

      What does this mean?

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 15, 2017 at 6:06 pm

        This dream is a reflection of your emotional connection with this person. It is likely that you are interested in developing a relationship with this person. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Chantel!

    6. Daisy

      November 13, 2017 at 4:55 pm

      I’m in a relations for 4 years now.
      I dream about someone I like and my gf last night.
      I know both sides don’t like each other, but in my dream they are just good as an acquaintance or just a friend. The scenario is we’re in a church (not a traditional church, but more likely a christian praise and worship churches) and they’re both sitting from (left: GF, right: Crush) side to side. They just normally but in reality, they don’t talk like that especially when I’m around. Thank you for answering my dream, I would like to improve my memory and interpretation in dreams 😀 This article help me.

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 14, 2017 at 6:45 pm

        You are currently in a relationship. Allow your thoughts of this other person to fade from your mind. Focus your emotional energy on your current partner. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with your current partner about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Daisy!

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