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    Virgo Man in Love

    By on April 27, 2014

    Always having to recheck their work, seeking the best route possible, and spending countless hours perfecting every aspect of their life until it meets their standards- yes, this sums up the Virgo individual to a tee. But don’t think persistence and dedication is only used in business and school situations. Virgoans are extremely interested in their partners as well, and will ensure their lover is happy at all times. Is there anything else hiding underneath this man’s precise personality?


    The Type of Woman Virgo Needs

    A Virgoan isn’t persuaded by a pretty face, nor does he find himself enthralled with a woman who’s dazzling with jewels and fancy clothes. The Virgo man looks beyond the looks, seeking something more. He needs a stable, secure, and confident woman who knows her worth and doesn’t rely on her looks to get her way. In fact, a Virgo man will most always choose a beautiful and strong personality over a good-looking female any day. A Virgoan will sit back and assess his potential woman for some time before making the decision to pursue her- he must first make sure you are not some ditzy woman with a pretty face, but rather a smart gal with a head on her shoulders and a confident personality that is easily recognizable in a crowd. He also needs a woman who can boost his confidence and ego, and a lady with a wild side that can bring him out of his rigid shell a bit.


    Virgo in a Relationship

    The Virgo man is always striving for perfection, and will review his work endlessly until he finishes it with utmost perfection- and this includes his love life, too. In fact, a Virgo man has a very difficult time falling in love. This is because the Virgoan will spend a multitude of his time assessing the relationship, seeking out every pro and con of the woman/relationship and see if there are any flaws or cracks worth mending. It is only when he has decided that the relationship has met his standards of perfection that he will allow himself to become comfortable enough to fall in love. The positive side to this? He will be faithful to the woman he loves.

    Virgoans are not only known for their faithfulness, but their thoughtfulness as well. They will always (and we mean always) make time for you, even though his days might be booked with full time work and part time schooling. The Virgoan will take special precautions and plan out his entire schedule to make sure he’s home to make his spouse dinner and play with the children during all of his free time.

    It’s not often that you will see a Virgo man do anything extremely out-of-the-blue or romantic. His sensible nature and relaxed relationship style sees no need for extravagant schmoozing or romantic candlelit dinners on the ocean shore. However, don’t let that sway you from dating a Virgo man. Remember, he is the type of guy who is willing to do anything for his lady and makes time for her no matter what. He’s not high maintenance in the slightest and is in it for the long haul, which means you can’t put your fears of ‘hit it and quit it’ to rest.


    Virgo in the Bedroom

    During the first encounter with a Virgo man, you might notice one thing: his extreme rigidness. Virgoans don’t have a natural confidence about them, and this lack of confidence extends into the bedroom. You won’t expect any surprises or wild encounters with a Virgo man, as every aspect of the event is planned carefully beforehand and done so in the correct order during the night.

    However, as the Virgo man becomes more comfortable with his lover, the rigidness will disappear and it will be like making love to entirely different person. Suddenly the surprises appear and you see a new found passion and wild drive in your Virgo lover. You will soon notice that his careful attention to detail and his strive for perfection can be used in a spectacular, pleasing way.

    One way to get the Virgoan to come out of his shell and love you more deeply is to reassure him often of what a great job he is doing. As we’ve mentioned before, Virgoans are constantly seeking to be perfect in everything they are doing, and hearing from you that their work is perfect will boost his confidence and help him to relax more under the sheets.

    Negative Side of a Virgo Man

    The biggest negative trait a Virgo man possesses is his overcritical attitude. As he’s always seeking perfection in everything he does, he will certainly criticize every aspect of his daily routine until it meets his (sometimes impossible) requests. Many women find this to be annoying and this critical attitude can sometimes show up during the course of the relationship, which sometimes may lead to a messy and hurtful breakup.

    The Virgo man is also a bit picky and harsh when it comes to choosing his mate, which can appear as judgmental. Virgoans will sit back and watch before making a move on a woman for the sole purpose of deeming whether or not she is ‘good enough’ for him. Of course, nobody is fond of a gentlemen who is extremely judgmental and picky when it comes to choosing a lady, so this can be a big put off for many woman.

    Last but not least, a Virgo is very stuck in his ways and won’t change his mind for anything or anyone. Once he has an idea in his head, he will stick to it no matter what. This is a part of his overcritical attitude and constant need for perfection in every aspect of his life. This includes his love life, so don’t bother trying to change your Virgo man into something that he’s not- it simply won’t work.


    Virgo and Capricorn: This is truly a match made in Heaven. The both of you are extremely driven and determined with everything you do and give 100 percent to your partner at all times. The both of you are seeking long term relationships and take relationships extremely seriously. You will be able to work through problems and always conquer your issues for a stress-free relationships that is almost perfect.

    Virgo and Taurus: Another great match as the two of you are very secure in yourselves and are looking for something that is built to last. This relationship will flourish as the two of you strive for a seemingly perfect and limitless relationship. Just make sure the two of you get plenty of fun and exciting activities in, as your realistic mindsets can leave you lacking a bit of pizazz.

    Virgo Man in a Nutshell

    A virgo man is looking for one thing: perfection, whether it’s in his work, his friends, or his relationships. He wants the perfect woman who can boost his confidence and stay by his side no matter what. He is a driven, determined, and faithful individual who will stop at nothing to make sure his wife and children are happy at all times.


    Image credit: Leaaa, Martha, Nicola.


    1. Majora

      November 29, 2017 at 5:51 am

      Hi. Im a cancerian and recently met a virgoan thru online. its been 3months since we started talking everyday. we talk and update each other till we sleep and right after we wake up. he would even apologize if he will reply to my messages late.
      he helped me moved on with my ex and been there with me especially when im having my mood swings, he just listens to my drama and give me realistic and practical advice. he remembers everything that i told him even the small things and he’s happy to remind me whenever i forgot something that im suppose to do. he’s very caring and sweet, he told me that he is happy talking with me and he’s always waiting till i send him a message. he’s also giving me compliments about how independent and strong woman i am.. and how beautiful i am. he also told me that he will visit me once i migrated to a place near him.. which will be a year after!!! (can’t wait that long!!!)

      inspite all of this, he never told me that he likes me. as a cancerian, i can feel that the feeling is mutual but i need an assurance that he really likes me before i let my heart fall for him.. i know virgos are really slow when it comes to love relationship, one thing i also noticed is when he’s doing something like sports, he really need to focus and won’t message in between.. he will also criticize himself whenever he thinks he didn’t do his best. that’s the only negative side i noticed.
      do you think he likes me? or just want someone to talk to? i want to know if talking to him is still worth it and will it be possible for us to blossom in a serious relationship?

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 29, 2017 at 12:18 pm

        It is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. He may want to nourish this relationship. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Majora!

    2. Confused

      October 24, 2017 at 9:47 am

      I need some advice on how to deal with my virgo ex(male). I am an aries btw. We were in a relationship for 8 years till one night we broke up after a very heated argument. I found out later that he was in a relationship with someone else but yet he still comes to my house and we have great sex he also vents to me about what’s been going on in his life. I miss him so much but I don’t tell him because I don’t want to get wrapped up into him again. He never talks about his new girlfriend and neither do I..I just play it cool like I don’t know anything. But talks as if we are still together which is confusing to me.. I really don’t know what I should do at this point.. I do and always will love this case patience really is a virtue!!

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 24, 2017 at 7:50 pm

        It sounds as though you are no longer interested in continuing this relationship. Take this time to determine if you believe that his actions are acceptable for your relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him a chance to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Confused!

    3. Fatima

      August 4, 2017 at 5:40 am

      Tell me plz what I do I really love him??

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 4, 2017 at 9:15 pm

        If you love someone, then your best option is to be clear and direct with them. Speak with them about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Fatima!

    4. Fatima

      August 4, 2017 at 5:39 am

      Helo Em Capricorn and love with a Virgo man,we have age problem I’m bigger than him, he just don’t talk with me, when I’m going to online he is suddenly goes to offline, if one day I am not text to him, he text me, he says he loves me with some signs but said I’ll must tell u one day that I love u or not, we do kiss he says I love you, but when I say my parents do my marriage with another person,, I don’t know he annoyed with me or what but he don’t rep me, just sometimes he rep me just one world,and says u told yes to your parents for another person, I don’t know what he want, one time he says me say no to your parents and I tell him I can’t say no, now he says you say yes to your parents, and doesn’t rep me

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 4, 2017 at 9:11 pm

        It sounds as though he is unwilling to share his emotional feelings toward you. This could mean that he is shy. This could mean that he is hiding something. It would be beneficial for you to speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Meet with him in person so you can see his face when you are speaking to him. Decide what you want to do at that time. Have a great day, Fatima!

        • Fatima

          August 7, 2017 at 5:16 am

          I meet him personally, he do kiss, and tells that he loves me, now in these days he is online on whatsapp but don’t text me, even morning dear, love of my life text I do, he just rep morning,and full day no text, on Sat he says I can’t marry with you, I can’t put you in decieve, I’m little angry with him and I don’t text him, tomorrow he text me and say u live with me, if we physically then I must marry with u, what is this???? I ask him u not love with me u Jst flirt with me?? He says Em not from those boys who promises with girls and used him and leave him, if we are going to physically I can’t leave u,and I must marry with u, ( ??I love him alot and don’t phisycall with him I just want marry with him, what I do ??,what I do that he loves me from heart and stop to think to being physical before marriage

          • Fatima

            August 7, 2017 at 5:25 am

            His age is not for marriage but why he want to phisycall with me?? Many times I says directly that I really love u,i alxo 3,4 years wait for him, but I wish that he loves me from heart and sincere with me, not says these type of things to me, how is possible?? How much I love him??,I wish he do text me and share all problems with me but it’s just my wish ?

            • web admin

              web admin

              August 7, 2017 at 6:34 pm

              If you do not want to develop a physical relationship before marriage, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. He should respect your feelings. If he does not show you respect, then determine if he is someone that you want to develop a relationship with. There will be benefits in taking this time to determine what you want for your future. Have a great day, Fatima!

          • web admin

            web admin

            August 7, 2017 at 6:34 pm

            If you do not want to develop a physical relationship before marriage, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. He should respect your feelings. If he does not show you respect, then determine if he is someone that you want to develop a relationship with. There will be benefits in taking this time to determine what you want for your future. Have a great day, Fatima!

            • Fatima

              August 8, 2017 at 3:15 am


            • Fatima

              August 8, 2017 at 3:19 am

              Thanx ,and I do text daily r not? How i developed love in his heart?? He can’t rep me properly,, what can I do that he messages me daily and share all life problems with me

              • web admin

                web admin

                August 8, 2017 at 6:33 pm

                Send a message at this time. If he does not respond, then he is not ready to nourish your relationship. Give him a few days to respond. If he does not reach out to you, then allow him to fade from your thoughts. There is no reason to chase someone who is unwilling to communicate with you. Determine what you want for your future at this time. Have a great day, Fatima!

    5. Capricorngirl

      August 2, 2017 at 1:39 pm

      Hello! I’m a Capricorn woman and i like a Virgo man. He says I’m not like other girls who are materialistic. I care about him a lot but it looks like he doesn’t care much about me! he calls me almost everyday just for 5-10mins and tells me what he did all day! He said loveyou many times and he even calls me baby! We never talk dirty stuff as we prefer talking about other things such as politics or food etc. once I said sorry for being irritating so he replied me “you’re not being irritating. Trust me! You’re funny” he says you’re really mature than other girls but I can’t get he never text’s me first! We have been talking since 2 months i feel like there’s some bonding between us! Sometimes it feels like he likes me because he told me his secrets and sometimes it feels like he’s not into me but some other girl! Does he even like me? Can you please help know is he into me or not? Is he taking everything slow?

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 2, 2017 at 8:22 pm

        He is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is possible that he is uncertain about your feelings toward him. He may be shy. Your best option is to attempt to spend more time with him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. He may want to continue a relationship with you as a friend. Have a great day, Capricorn!

        • Capricorngirl

          August 2, 2017 at 10:25 pm

          I’m scared if I’ll tell him about my feelings directly he might reject me! Should I wait till he opens up with me more?

          • web admin

            web admin

            August 3, 2017 at 8:27 pm

            Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Rejection will always be a possibility. That should not stop you from taking action that you think will benefit you. If you do not feel it is the right time, then simply spend additional time with him in person. This will help the two of you grow stronger feelings for each other. Have a great day, Capricorn!

    6. Confuzzled

      July 24, 2017 at 6:42 pm

      Hello, and help! I’m an Aries in love with a Virgo we’ve known each other for about three years now. I confessed to him about 10 months to a year ago that I loved him and he said i was too emotional and empathetic.

      I distanced myself from him and had a definite glow up. I got thinner, got better clothes, and worked on my tolerance. Out of the blue he says he misses me and in a assurance to keep my friendship with him o said I wouldn’t make a move with him again.

      Though he has been flirting more than he ever has before, he’s called me hot, described his “perfect girl” as a perfect description of me and even asked me to hangout with him without ever attempting to before as well as having pictures of me saved on his phone.

      So inevitably I’ve fallen back in love Inevitably but don’t know if he is really in love with me. I would give him my all if he asked but I’m hesitant to if he actually is in love with me or just being teasing? When I confessed to him people said he liked me, then the outcome was the complete opposite.

      I can’t move on to anyone else if he is in my life and teasing me like this. So I was hoping if you can tell me if there is hope for a relationship? Is he Interested or just being friendly? And what do you think I should do?

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 24, 2017 at 7:23 pm

        He likely has strong feelings toward you. It is clear that he finds you attractive. He likely has a strong emotional connection with you from before. However, you may want to speak directly and honesty with him about your feelings. This will help you determine his true thoughts toward you. If you want to give him another chance, then do so. If the relationship fails, then know that you did everything that you could to nourish your relationship. Have a great day, Confuzzled!

    7. becky

      May 30, 2017 at 6:38 pm

      I am 47 and the first time I dated a Virgo man was for 2 1/2 months until I ended it a few weeks ago. Trust me, it will be the last time I ever date a Virgo man again! I am a Libra and read up on all the warnings of a Virgo man/Libra woman union. They were all true. This guy was sweet in the beginning but way too shy and reserved for this social butterfly Libra gal. I tried to make it work…until…we had our first argument. He was nearly an hour late for a date night and totally unapologetic. When I confronted him, he freaked out, yelling at me in a crowded restaurant. That wasn’t the end of it either. He stewed in his anger into the next day. How dare I demand he not be late and to apologize? He had zero humility and it was as if he was high on his self-righteous anger. I apologized for my part (confronting him, which in hindsight I shouldn’t have apologized). Oh no! He wasn’t having it. He was seething with rage, which was ridiculous. You would have thought I killed his first born or cheated on him. He was hell bent on torturing me verbally. He was way too particular for me anyways. Everything had to be just right. I broke up with him and am not looking back. Good riddance. His response to me breaking up with him was acting like a king baby. He blocked my email when I wanted a t-shirt returned to me. Eventually, he mailed it to me. I will NEVER engage with a Virgo man ever again. I think the only good Virgo men are those who’ve had serious counseling for their issues, especially if they have family of origin issues, which this guy definitely had. Now I know why I’ve never been attracted to a Virgo man in the past. They are stubborn, OCD-like with certain things, judgmental, and hold resentments forever.

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 31, 2017 at 8:57 am

        It sounds like you are lucky to get out of that relationship. He does not sound like someone who would be easy to be with or worth your effort. Thank goodness you found this out earlier rather than later. Thanks for commenting, Becky!

    8. NeeNee

      May 2, 2017 at 11:32 pm

      So I’m a Taurus woman who’s dated a Virgo in the past and it wasn’t a good match AT ALL. The worst relationship I’d ever been in actually, I was the best woman to this man and his family and pulled a disappearing act on me out of no where. A few years passed and I got married, I ran into him and he apologized for everything. Doted on how beautiful of a woman I was and how much he actually appreciated me. Now, I’m separated from my husband and recently became friends with a Virgo man again. It’s been over 10 years might I add. I actually, was totally against even being friends with him. However, he’s the total opposite of my ex and we just mesh so well. Now he’s being distant, the communication is getting light and he answers what he wants when he wants. I’m working so hard to help him pull his life back together and he’s changing. Should I just be my patient self and wait to see if this changes or should I just focus on reconciling with my husband?

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 3, 2017 at 2:11 pm

        Perhaps it would be best for you to take this time to focus on yourself. Give yourself some time to live alone and without a partner. This will help to determine what you want for your future. It is very difficult to have a successful relationship with someone if you think about other people. Have a great day, NeeNee!

    9. Roxy

      March 14, 2017 at 8:03 am

      Hi there am a Leo woman I met my Virgo guy 3 months seemed a match made in heaven my dream guy ..very practical , intelligent & funny.

      Now last saturday I went out with Ma friends he also went out with his friends. At night abt 11pm decided to call him since miss him . No answer

      He only called me on Monday with no apology not returning My missed calls he talks as if nothin happened so I said to him politely that I didn’t like the no return on missed call. But he changed topic immediately not entertaining wat I was saying.
      For the whole week he has been distant no calls only will answer wat I ask . Got all cold & distant no communication on daily basis as we used to .

      Did I scare him away by expressing how I felt ? Bt we did not argue , should I keep my distance as well jst afraid the relationship might come to an end .
      & when would I knw if he’s no longer interested will he say it upfront ?

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 15, 2017 at 2:58 pm

        You may have scared him away by expressing yourself. However, take this as a blessing. You do not want to be with someone who does not respect your feelings. Keep your distance and allow him to fade from your thoughts. If he reaches out to you and seems caring and you still want a relationship with him, then develop a relationship with him at that time. Have a great day, Roxy!

      • KeKe Baby

        March 17, 2017 at 1:25 pm

        I’m also a Leo, and my Virgo ex pulled this on me. Come to find out, in the days he was ignoring me, he was with his girlfriend. He ended up marrying her, and he is currently going through a divorce. He has since been call/texting all day and night. Virgo men make time for what they want to do. If he is not making time for you, me may be otherwise occupied. I understand the connection, as he and I were like rice and butter, peanut butter and jelly, and I was devastated not hearing from him. Now he is begging to be with me, admitting his faults, and trying to change. Virgos will always admit when they are wrong, and in the end, if he is interested and made a mistake, u will be the first to know after he realizes it.

        • web admin

          web admin

          March 18, 2017 at 12:40 am

          Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. It is certain that your words will help someone in the future. Please feel free to share any advice that you have about relationships in the future. Have a great day, Keke!

    10. girb

      March 1, 2017 at 9:54 am

      Hey..ive been with my Virgo guy for about 3 years and although its been rocky we had some good times. A few days ago we got into an argument about us not spending enough time together because all he does is work. He got so angry that he ended up calling it quits. The next day he called said he was sorry he loves me and he still wants to be with me. The problem is I’m not sure if us getting back together would be a good thing. Like I said the relationship has been tough, so at this point I’m not sure if I should let it go or give it another shot.

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 2, 2017 at 8:36 am

        Only you can decide that–and you should probably decide that soon. He wants to get back together now, but he will most likely start to heal and move on if you give him too much time. You just have to decide if you think that this relationship is going to go anywhere. Could you see yourself marrying him and spending a life together with him forever? If not, you should move on. If you can only imagine yourself being with him forever, then you should get back together now. What do you want?

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