Virgo Man in Love

By on April 27, 2014






Always having to recheck their work, seeking the best route possible, and spending countless hours perfecting every aspect of their life until it meets their standards- yes, this sums up the Virgo individual to a tee. But don’t think persistence and dedication is only used in business and school situations. Virgoans are extremely interested in their partners as well, and will ensure their lover is happy at all times. Is there anything else hiding underneath this man’s precise personality?

large

The Type of Woman Virgo Needs

A Virgoan isn’t persuaded by a pretty face, nor does he find himself enthralled with a woman who’s dazzling with jewels and fancy clothes. The Virgo man looks beyond the looks, seeking something more. He needs a stable, secure, and confident woman who knows her worth and doesn’t rely on her looks to get her way. In fact, a Virgo man will most always choose a beautiful and strong personality over a good-looking female any day. A Virgoan will sit back and assess his potential woman for some time before making the decision to pursue her- he must first make sure you are not some ditzy woman with a pretty face, but rather a smart gal with a head on her shoulders and a confident personality that is easily recognizable in a crowd. He also needs a woman who can boost his confidence and ego, and a lady with a wild side that can bring him out of his rigid shell a bit.

large-1

Virgo in a Relationship

The Virgo man is always striving for perfection, and will review his work endlessly until he finishes it with utmost perfection- and this includes his love life, too. In fact, a Virgo man has a very difficult time falling in love. This is because the Virgoan will spend a multitude of his time assessing the relationship, seeking out every pro and con of the woman/relationship and see if there are any flaws or cracks worth mending. It is only when he has decided that the relationship has met his standards of perfection that he will allow himself to become comfortable enough to fall in love. The positive side to this? He will be faithful to the woman he loves.

Virgoans are not only known for their faithfulness, but their thoughtfulness as well. They will always (and we mean always) make time for you, even though his days might be booked with full time work and part time schooling. The Virgoan will take special precautions and plan out his entire schedule to make sure he’s home to make his spouse dinner and play with the children during all of his free time.

It’s not often that you will see a Virgo man do anything extremely out-of-the-blue or romantic. His sensible nature and relaxed relationship style sees no need for extravagant schmoozing or romantic candlelit dinners on the ocean shore. However, don’t let that sway you from dating a Virgo man. Remember, he is the type of guy who is willing to do anything for his lady and makes time for her no matter what. He’s not high maintenance in the slightest and is in it for the long haul, which means you can’t put your fears of ‘hit it and quit it’ to rest.

large

Advertisement


Virgo in the Bedroom

During the first encounter with a Virgo man, you might notice one thing: his extreme rigidness. Virgoans don’t have a natural confidence about them, and this lack of confidence extends into the bedroom. You won’t expect any surprises or wild encounters with a Virgo man, as every aspect of the event is planned carefully beforehand and done so in the correct order during the night.

However, as the Virgo man becomes more comfortable with his lover, the rigidness will disappear and it will be like making love to entirely different person. Suddenly the surprises appear and you see a new found passion and wild drive in your Virgo lover. You will soon notice that his careful attention to detail and his strive for perfection can be used in a spectacular, pleasing way.

One way to get the Virgoan to come out of his shell and love you more deeply is to reassure him often of what a great job he is doing. As we’ve mentioned before, Virgoans are constantly seeking to be perfect in everything they are doing, and hearing from you that their work is perfect will boost his confidence and help him to relax more under the sheets.

Negative Side of a Virgo Man

The biggest negative trait a Virgo man possesses is his overcritical attitude. As he’s always seeking perfection in everything he does, he will certainly criticize every aspect of his daily routine until it meets his (sometimes impossible) requests. Many women find this to be annoying and this critical attitude can sometimes show up during the course of the relationship, which sometimes may lead to a messy and hurtful breakup.

The Virgo man is also a bit picky and harsh when it comes to choosing his mate, which can appear as judgmental. Virgoans will sit back and watch before making a move on a woman for the sole purpose of deeming whether or not she is ‘good enough’ for him. Of course, nobody is fond of a gentlemen who is extremely judgmental and picky when it comes to choosing a lady, so this can be a big put off for many woman.

Last but not least, a Virgo is very stuck in his ways and won’t change his mind for anything or anyone. Once he has an idea in his head, he will stick to it no matter what. This is a part of his overcritical attitude and constant need for perfection in every aspect of his life. This includes his love life, so don’t bother trying to change your Virgo man into something that he’s not- it simply won’t work.

Compatibility

Virgo and Capricorn: This is truly a match made in Heaven. The both of you are extremely driven and determined with everything you do and give 100 percent to your partner at all times. The both of you are seeking long term relationships and take relationships extremely seriously. You will be able to work through problems and always conquer your issues for a stress-free relationships that is almost perfect.

Advertisement


Virgo and Taurus: Another great match as the two of you are very secure in yourselves and are looking for something that is built to last. This relationship will flourish as the two of you strive for a seemingly perfect and limitless relationship. Just make sure the two of you get plenty of fun and exciting activities in, as your realistic mindsets can leave you lacking a bit of pizazz.

Virgo Man in a Nutshell

A virgo man is looking for one thing: perfection, whether it’s in his work, his friends, or his relationships. He wants the perfect woman who can boost his confidence and stay by his side no matter what. He is a driven, determined, and faithful individual who will stop at nothing to make sure his wife and children are happy at all times.

 

Image credit: Leaaa, Martha, Nicola.





183 Comments

  1. Aquawoman

    February 18, 2017 at 2:42 am

    Hi, I’m an Aquarian woman, and Ive been married with a Virgo Man for 2 years now. We met in septmber 2013, we became couple after 2 months, and got married after 10 months because I was pregnant then. Things went by so fast since then.

    I’m a politician in our Town, and so is He in his city. We are both public servant. The whole time that I’m pregnant until I gave birth to our baby, and his first birthday I was in the city, so that’s almost 2 years.. I filed my candidacy october 2015, and ever since I stayed in my hometown to campaign. And I also knew that he was also busy campaigning in his area. Our place is 3 hours away from each other. But I still manage to visit him once in awhile like every other week..

    We both won in the elections.. so after that, He was expectiing that we’ll be back to our old program. Like me and the baby staying in the city again, than in my town. But something came up, because I opened up a business in my place that takes a lot of time and work. But we would still manage to see visit each other. In between of those months, we argue a lot with so many things. I was always the one who starts that fight, I’m always irritable, to the point of always walking out when things get rough, and wouldnt talk to him. He has always been the very understanding one, and the first to cool things off. He loves me so much, and our baby.. i always take him for granted, and so insensitive of his emotions. So the situations goes on and on and on. I realized on the latter part that its been monthssss that we are not having any sexy time together. And since we are both busy with our works, no time for catchinf up or anything. Then months later, after christmas, he came up to me. Calmly, and asked, “Are you happy with our marriage? Do you think we should continue or end this?? After hearing those words, It felts like my world crashed!!! It took ke awhile to realize that. Maybe, I’m just in denial all this time that we really had some serious talks, but since I was really busy, that’s the only time that we had because we are out of the country and on a vacation. It’s holiday, and family vacation. I cried so hard and told him that I was sorry for everthing that hurts him, and did not prioritize him all this time because I was busy raising our child, doing business, and serving my constituents.. While doing those things, my husband kept on hanging out with his friends a lot and almost drinking everyday because I didn’t that he’s going through a tough time, and didn’t really mind him at all..

    After that vacation, we went back to our home and talk about our marriage. He asked for a space because he wants to think and think and ask advices from friends and ask himself if he really wants to stay.. I ask for forgiveness, and I said evrything to him that I can’t live a life without him and our baby. And that I’ll make it up to him. And he did see that, days have passed and he’s seeing the old me again. The caring and the sweet one. Compassionate and loving. And the relationship gets better and better. We are more open now with the communication. And me very affectionate to him. But sometimes, I noticed him that he’s cold, or thinking in deep silence. But I ignore, I just thought that maybe it’s part of the process.

    But here’s the thing, after 3 weeks, I found out that he has/had a REAL relationship with a girl(I’m really not sure if the relationship ended or not). I asked him and he confessed that it’s true. And he did bec of my loss, and looking for attention and affection. I crrriiiied so hard, and didnt know what to do. I felt betrayed, I dont trust him anymore, anger everything.. but after praying, praying and oraying everyday. Things gets better. He asked for more space, but we still see each other and talk to each other, and expresses our love for one another. But the things is, he wants space and more time to fix himself.. I respect that, and gave it to him.. So now, our lines are open for communication, we go to our home in the city 4 days in a week. And soend time together.. i pray to God that this will help us both to renew our marriage.

    My question is, why do you think he is asking for a space? Do you think he still has an affair? Knowing a virgo, is that normal for him to do that? Please advice.. we are only 4 years together and honestly, we really didn’t know each other that much. But I know in ky heart, that He is the man for me, and that I’ll do everything to make this Marriage work. Thank you in advance.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 18, 2017 at 1:23 pm

      Your best option isn’t to concern yourself with the fickle nature of the stars. Our signs are unimportant as compared to our actions. Your best option is to speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. He needs to be there for your children. They are the most important thing in both of your lives. Take this time to focus on your children. If he is a good partner and father, then he will return. If not, then you may need to seek support from family and friends. Best of luck, Aquawoman!

  2. Mimimi

    February 15, 2017 at 9:11 am

    Hi! I’m a Aquarius woman and I’ve been talking to a Virgo man. We’ve been talking for almost 8 months. At first, I’m not really interested with him. Like when we’re talking, just saying “Hello, how are you?” Asking if I’m okay or if he’s okay. Yes, we talked in phone but its just only thrice or twice a week. There’s a time that I just seen his messages and didn’t accept his calls. So he asked me if I had a boyfriend if I already met a guy I’ve been looking for. I said no, I’m just busy. Well that time I found him not really so interesting, So I tried dating someone else. But yeah it didn’t worked out. And then I just realized he’s good and a caring, sweet guy. We continued talking and we tell our secrets. After that I feel something different about him. I never felt this way before but I feel something like I’m starting to like him. I told him that I like him and he said he likes me too. But then I was so disappointed because when the time I said to him my real feelings. He didn’t even agree with it. I was like what the eff! Its false hope. I thought he feel the same way. I thought that by saying my feeling he feel the same way too. But it’s not… I asked him “Why?” And he said “(Insert name) If I didn’t mean it, I won’t say it… I don’t want you to live with lies.” Yes, I understand him. I was so upset, but I found it very interesting. I like his honesty. And I’m so dedicated to know him a lot, theres something with him that other guys never had. I didnt stop talking to him eventhough I was so disappointed.

    A months later. We give ourselves more time. We talked everyday, everynight. And it got me jealous knowing his past ex’s. I know we’re not in a relationship but its normal to a girl like me to feel jealous. I was about to give up when he finally said HE LOVES ME!… I am so happy and I feel excited. That’s the first time he said he loves me and when he said that he’s so shy. So cute. I asked him why? How? When? I don’t know why I asked like that I know its stupid. But I want to know. He answered it. And as expected I like his answers it so much feelings.

    But my problem is We’re thousand miles away. I just wanted to know if there’s a possibility to make our relationship better in future? I mean I know theres no official relationship but theres something with us that I really want to keep. I dont want to waste my time and his time, if we arent compatible to each other. I will repeat it and make it perfect so that we’ll be together… Happy. And my other question is I can’t stop thinking if he will do the same like what he did in his ex’s to me? Like back then he use to be player. I’m afraid to risk something that I know will go wasted.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 15, 2017 at 10:01 am

      Your relationship sounds difficult, and the distance is not helping. Your best option is to make a plan to visit him. If your relationship remains distant and message-based, then it will eventually end. Make plans to visit or have him make plans to visit you. This is the only option that will make your relationship endure. Best of luck, Mimi!

      • MiMiMi

        February 15, 2017 at 2:45 pm

        Thanks Admin! And yes, he is planning to visit me this july. And I am planning to visit his country to if ever we go smooth. We still progressing but I am happy that everything is alright for now.

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 15, 2017 at 6:36 pm

          Thank you for sharing! Please remember to let us know how everything goes. Share your experiences and insights with our community. Have a great day!

  3. SunshineS

    February 12, 2017 at 4:48 am

    Its long story – We are both virgo. He is a good friends of me since 5 years ago we met and I know he has feeling for me since then. He asked 3 times if i could be his gf while we are in the same country – but I didnt answer to him.I just keep smile when he asked, the second time he probably aware I may worried about the age (and yes that’s it) and he told me he don’t mind and the last time was asked me before he left to US for PhD study. He left 3 years from now and we a good friends as always, we used to message each other few times a week. He has a girlfriend once which last for 6 mths and break up since last March. In last June, he called (the first time he called as we just message each other normally), he told me he missed me a lot(yes, I still no answer to him), since then we will chat once a day…until last August, it was my birthday and he acted really weird to keep sending hug to me for begging a kiss. Since then, we keep chatting day & night, he reported everything to me and so am I. He share everything in life daily with me, he waited to talk to me when he’s sad (we have time difference) he even called me mom once when I asked him to take care of himself in the busy work. So I finally asked him what we are and he told me he do likes me a lot, we get along so well with trust and comfortable. My words to him just what he looking for to light up his life, BUT he can’t be in a long distance relationship. It’s killing him as i am not around, so we agreed to be stay as a good friends…at that time I already know he may someday disappear forever (because I may do the same) and I asked him don’t do that to me. We agree to stay as friends and see what’s coming to us in future. But he told me that he don’t like mix up the friends and relationship and he’s very sorry he can’t control himself when he face to me. Anyway, we still keep chatting day and night everyday until he sleep even he message me when I am sleeping. Suddenly, he disappear for 2 weeks and of course I am so scare but I let him space. Then he came back and talked to me like nothing happened, we are still very sweet together until last thanksgiving – I told him I am really grateful to have him in life. After that, he has been so cold, he reply message but only few days. But before that, we were very sweet so I did paint a Plant in painting to him as a xmas gift and letting him knows even the plant is alone, it’s not as it’s with the sunshine around (he said Im his sunshine). Unfortunately that make him being over react, he message me and told me he don’t feel the same as I do, and don’t want to get me misunderstanding……..so he disappear, no reply to message (I just sent him twice to hope he’s well) for a month, until end of last mth, he finally read my message but without response. At that time, our common friend was asking me if he’s alright as she found he’s bit upset. So I write him again to asking him to take good care. And after that, he block me, now i can’t sent him any message and seems he act like normal to our common friend. I don’t know what to do……we are very good friends, I don’t know why “love” will make us being like this. I am really regret to say I like him too now.
    Sorry for the long story, but I really appreciate your advise to me as i am lost now. Lose a good friend, lose a potential good relationship.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 12, 2017 at 10:14 am

      If he blocked you, then he no longer is interested in a relationship with you. He may feel as though this is the best way to protect him feelings. He may not want to simply be friends with you. He may feel jealous that you might be with other people. There are many reasons for this behavior, but you are not in a relationship with him, so let it be. If he comes back, then you can talk with him at that time. For now, allow thoughts of him to fade from your life. Move on and enjoy the life that you are living at this time. Best of luck, Sunshine!

      • SunshineS

        February 14, 2017 at 5:28 am

        He’s acting strange. I catch him twice to unblock me for few mins, not sure if it’s because he wanted to check my last online time or what (I guess I will never know why).
        Should I fly to US and talk to him face to face? but I am afraid he’s freaking out if I dont let him know I am coming for him.

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 14, 2017 at 11:03 am

          If he has blocked you, then do not fly to the United States to surprise him. Allow him to fade from your life. Take this time to determine how to move forward with your life without him. Have a good day, Sunshine!

  4. tonya

    February 10, 2017 at 6:05 am

    I’m a Sagittarius, dating a older workaholic Virgo since October of 2016. We’ve been exclusive since our first date .He’s a great guy when he’s with me but I only see him mayber 20 hours a week. The working isn’t so much a problem but he talks about marriage and leaving together yet he’s still paying rent for a ex that he claims has no where to go and no money. He says he couldn’t bear the thought of anyone being on the street suffering with nothing. I’m in the middle , I love him. He says he’ll stop but won’t follow through with it. I believe he’s not cheating or lying, but I’m not first to him even though he says I am. Should I just cut the relationship, I don’t do ultimatums.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 10, 2017 at 11:00 am

      Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. There is nothing better than having a honest and direct conversation. You do not need to issue an ultimatum. Either he will give you want you are seeking, or he will not. At that time, you should end your relationship. Best of luck, Tonya!

  5. Leo

    February 5, 2017 at 2:12 pm

    Hi, I am a Leo woman. I met a Virgo man through work and friends online and we formed an intellectual friendship. When we met in real life first time we had extremely strong chemistry. I had just started seeing someone and he was (is) in a serious relationship so we left that super-sparked evening to be and proceeded to stay friends. Living in different countries made it smooth. We developed a fun friendship, slightly flirtatious but not in a chasing way, the focus was on being friends and sounding-boards. After many months we found ourselves in the same country and met for a few intense hours. Our relationship became physical but we knew that part had no future after that day. We would talk about it and reminisce but we didn’t see eachother for almost two years. In that time we would stay in touch and be there for eachother in tough times and do some work projects together. We have many many friends in common and I saw this as a friendship that would last for life. The attraction was there but I didn’t have hopes because he has a family so it was just something to avoid. We met again a month ago, briefly, for the first time in this long time and it became an intense physical intimate experience. Then I left for my home country. He went silent and I so I was texting asking what was going on. After a few days I got a message that his family had found out about us and he appreciates what we have been for eachother but it has to end. It was painful. In many ways. Empathy is one, because I know I caused a third person pain. My own sadness is that this is someone who was a close friend and I can’t imagine my life without that part. He is a typical Virgo in the sense that he makes firm decisions and sticks to them. But also untypical in the way that he chose to let things happen between us in conflict with his loyalty to the family. I have a hard time letting the friendship go. The other part, those moments every two years, i can live without. What to do?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 6, 2017 at 11:30 am

      He has been clear about his needs with you. Since he is in a relationship and his family disapproves of your relationship, there is no much that you can do. Allow this event to happen and take it in stride. Allow your thoughts and feelings for him to fade. Bring the positive energy that you had with him into the future and enjoy life. Best of luck, Leo!

      • Leo

        February 11, 2017 at 11:50 am

        Thank you.

  6. Aires girl

    January 31, 2017 at 3:55 pm

    I am after some much needed advice, if someone could help me please understand my Virgo man I may be able to stop my heart from aching and my eyes from leaking.

    Last month my Virgo man started chatting to me through an online dating site and we have a weirdly instant connection. The conversation moves so effortlessly and within days we are talking on the phone. I love the sound of his voice and he is so romantic that he makes me swoon when ever I get a text message or hear his voice. Not like a typical Virgo at all. We have so much in common and I find myself drawn to him, not by his looks but his heart and personality. I know that it is lust in the beginning pushed it to the side but he kept persisting that we meet. We live 2 hours apart and I told him I would not be in a long distance relationship. Also I’m not sure I’m even emotionally ready for something that serious and I have been hurt by too many men lately. I have just started dating again and I always put my whole self into anything I do so when a man promises me forever I believe them. But of course they we’re only after sex and after the third date I usually never hear from them again.

    I am looking for the one, my soul mate, my equal and my best friend. I am a 42 fiery Arian, 1 year single after a 20 year relationship, mum of 4 kids between the ages of 6 and 17. So finding that person is very difficult and they will have to be pretty special. Someone who accepts that I will always put my kids first but is smart enough to know that won’t be for forever and we can then have the rest of our lives together.

    My Virgo is 50 and has been single for 4 years by choice. He says the right woman hasn’t come along yet and he won’t settle for any random woman who declares their love. He is a very patient man and is searching for the one, he is ready to settle down and begin the rest of his life with her. All he needs is to meet someone that he has a connection with and then he is sure love will soon follow. He has recently left the police force to move back in with his parents to help care for his father who is frail and suffering from early dementia. That noble action alone tells me he is of high morals and not just talk.

    His mum has spoken to him in the past and said that he can’t keep his life on hold for his dad forever, that he needs to go live his life. He said don’t rule him out just yet, because moving to the city was a high possibility in his near future. For the right person he would look at rentals and a job close to where she lived because he wants exactly what I am after in a relationship. I mean who doesn’t, right?

    2 weeks ago I was holidaying 100km from where he lives and his brother lives in the same town where I was staying. That’s when he said he will come down and meet me. I was so excited that he would make that effort but even more happy bc we would finally see each other and know if there was really something there or it was just lust.

    It was everything I imagined it would be and more. I believe it was love at first sight for us both. He tells me that the sight of me takes his breath away and when I see him my heart skips and I feel like it’s about to burst out of my chest. He has won my love, head, heart and soul but I haven’t told him that yet.

    We had a couple of meetings and it just felt right so I invited him back to our resort and he met the kids. We were together the rest of the week with me and my kids and we couldn’t be happier.

    Then I returned home and we carry on our long distance relationship in perfect bliss. Planning out our futures together is exciting and I can finally see hope for happiness and eternal bliss. I still need to sell my marital home and go through settlement and he needs to tie things up with his folks and organise alternative care so we have given each other 6 to 12 months to finally be together. But then the worst possible thing happened. His dad got really sick and was rushed to the hospital.

    The fairy tale I am living is slowly fading away. I gave him space bc I knew while his dad was in ICU he would need to concentrate on that so the constant messaging and phone calls eased to only a few in the morning and a few at the end of the day. They are still so passionate and romantic but I can tell he is hurting and wish he was anywhere but where he is. He can’t handle that this is what his life has to be. But like me with my kids I know he needs to put his dad first.

    Then it got worse. His dad isn’t going to get any better so they discharge him and send him home. This is when my Virgo completely turned off from me. He stopped calling, stopped messaging, stopped all social media activity and it is like he just switched off from the world. After what felt like eternity but was 3 days he messaged me back and said that his phone was broken. Which I know was just an excuse to keep me happy but it’s what he wrote. Factual and to the point. No love or emotion like his usual messages. I was so happy to get a message that I didn’t even notice at first. Then he said he is sorry but he’s busy with his dad and had to go. Another few days later and I hear nothing again. As I did before I still send him a couple of messages a day just letting him know that I’m there if he needs me and that I care for him and miss him a great deal. Just with a good morning message and a good night message hoping that he will respond. Now I wish he didn’t.

    My heart is breaking. The response I get is that he doesn’t want to be in the position he is but he feels obligated.
    “Hi sorry been busy looking after dad. He isn’t well still. I’m sorry this is my life and I can’t do anything about it. It might be best if you forgot about me. I’m sorry I don’t have time for me anymore. I wish it was different but it’s not. You can do better than this you can do much better than me. You deserve someone who can be there for you, with dad the way he is, I can’t be. I’m sorry.”

    That was his message. Of course it breaks my heart and me being the fiery stubborn Aries girl that I am can’t leave it at that so I respond.
    “You think I don’t know that you’re not happy. I can wait, we have waited this long already to find each other. We can do both, you promised me forever remember. Just talk to me please”
    I sent this to him after he rejects my phone calls.

    “Sorry baby this is my life. Got to go sorry I’m looking after dad.”
    To his response. At least he’s showing something as he called me baby again.

    “Whatever u go through I do to. I didn’t say it before but I know I feel it and I know you do too. We share the same heart. So please just talk to me”
    I try to reason with him again but I think I’ve finally pushed him away. This is his last response after me acting like a psycho from my 10 rejected calls.
    “I’m busy looking after dad please!!!!!”

    So my question to you is what do I do now. I gave the Virgo man all my heart when I promised myself I wouldn’t just for this very outcome. But I can’t give up on a love that could be so perfect forever. Do you think he will come around if I hang in there and wait for him, I know he is worth it. Or should I face the fact that it is over before it even really began and try and move on.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 1, 2017 at 8:52 am

      There is no way to know what will happen. It sounds like he is as serious about caring about his dad and placing him first as you are about your children. In a way, it makes sense that you two would be so attracted to each other since you are both the type of people who put your obligations and loved ones first. Unfortunately, this may mean that he is essentially out of touch for a while. He feels like it is his duty to care for his father, and he may feel like he was neglecting him by spending so much time with you. Whatever the case, it is clear that he needs some space at the moment. If you get time to talk together, tell him that you understand and are willing to wait–after all, you are just as devoted to your children as he is to his father, so you understand how he feels right now. After telling him how you feel, give him time to take care of his father. If he does not spend this time caring for his father now, he may regret it later on. Hopefully, he will still be interested in a relationship in a few weeks or months. Good luck!

    • CKEEKC

      February 3, 2017 at 2:38 am

      I really felt for you reading that. Personally, I think the best thing you can do now is give him the space he has asked for. Maybe in a few months time if you still feel the same way you could contact him and ask how he and his Dad are going. If its meant to be it’ll happen. Good luck!

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 3, 2017 at 11:39 am

        Thank you for sharing your supportive and uplifting comments. Please feel free to share more of your insights and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Ckeekc!

  7. Grayce

    January 18, 2017 at 9:54 pm

    Hi, I am a Capricorn female and I’ve known a Virgoan guy for about 4 years. I am about 3-ish years younger than him, but age really isn’t the problem. Ever since we met, I knew that there was something that I liked about him. For the past 3 years I’ve only been his friend, sometimes recklessly declaring my emotions for him, and he’s always kindly rejected me. But still, I always persisted and still was his friend.
    But lately for the past 4 months, things have changed. I think as I grew into myself more, and he finally settled with his route in life, one day he just started paying more attention to me. Started being more interested, more attentive, and of course I was pleasantly surprised. I didn’t push it though. And so for the past months, we’ve gotten really comfortable with each other and our habits and daily routes in life. We talk everyday, and for awhile things have started to turn slowly sexual. And it’s all fantastic, but I’m wondering when will he ever verbally tell me that he likes me? I can read his body language that he’s interested in me, and how he acts when we’re physically together, but whenever I bring up my “sappiness” (aka emotions, lol) he always jokes about it lightheartedly and sort of brushes it off sometimes. He knows that I’m interested in him in a relationship, but I just don’t know what he’s thinking. I’m a patient person, but it doesn’t help when my family breathes down my neck and asks if we are together or not, and if he is just stringing me along. Of course I defend him, but a secret part of me wonders the same thing.
    I know who he is, what his passions are in life, and I support him and even share the same passions. I know his tendencies to analyze everything haha, and I just let him go at it.
    I just know so much, and I understand him so much. And he’s such a talker, but not about his emotions. Granted, I’m only good about talking through my emotions when I’m by myself or in writing, but I never have the courage to say anything face to face. I’m scared of being vulnerable, and I think he is too? I understand his actions, and he understands mine.
    I just wonder what he’s waiting for…
    Thanks to whoever replies! Comments will surely be appreciated!

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 19, 2017 at 2:23 pm

      Allow him to continue to have his feelings become stronger for you. Don’t take action toward him yet. Let him make the first move this time around. Perhaps try to catch his eye by your actions. Try to spend more time with him alone if you are able to do so. Perhaps invite him out to coffee or out for a walk. The choice is yours. Best of luck, Grayce!

    • Amy

      February 6, 2017 at 6:32 pm

      Grayce I feel like I’m reading about my Virgo man. We have been together 2 years now. In fact the first year he just wanted to be friends but be at his disposal. I was not having that. I told him that I would hang out when I could but would continue dating other men because I wanted a real relationship. He became more and more jealous and finally said I want to be exclusive. They are very methodical and meticulous in every aspect of their life and that includes significant others. He knew you liked him (which is good because they don’t make the first move) but he has been taking his sweet time studying you to see if you were gf material. My advice to you is don’t get emotional on him he can’t handle it but be strong, independent and not needy. They don’t play games and everything you need to know is by his actions. If his extra time goes to you he likes you. If he disappears for a bit just let him have his space and don’t freak out. Once he’s fallen for you, you will never have to question his love. And as time goes by affection, passion, and anything that needs to be done like chores or car maintenance he will just do for you. And he will never complain. That’s how they show their love. I didn’t hear an “I love you” until 2 years but coming from a previous relationship that said it but didn’t show it I prefer action. If you need to know where you stand just be straight forward and ask what his intentions are. They like directness but I too get a little intimidated cause I don’t want to rock the boat. That’s why went in the direction of him knowing I had other options. Patience you will need. Good Luck they are quirky and sometimes annoying but definitely worth it!

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 8, 2017 at 10:56 am

        Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. It is certain that you will be greatly serving many people in our community. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and ideas in the future. Have a great day, Amy!

      • SunshineS

        February 12, 2017 at 5:02 am

        Hi Amy, your advice to Grayce is very true. COuld you please help me too to read my problem? Its long story for me and him, your advice will be very helpful to me…I don’t know what to do to get him back as I thought he still so much in love with me (even he said he don’t and disappear).

        Its long story – We are both virgo. He is a good friends of me since 5 years ago we met and I know he has feeling for me since then. He asked 3 times if i could be his gf while we are in the same country – but I didnt answer to him.I just keep smile when he asked, the second time he probably aware I may worried about the age (and yes that’s it) and he told me he don’t mind and the last time was asked me before he left to US for PhD study. He left 3 years from now and we a good friends as always, we used to message each other few times a week. He has a girlfriend once which last for 6 mths and break up since last March. In last June, he called (the first time he called as we just message each other normally), he told me he missed me a lot(yes, I still no answer to him), since then we will chat once a day…until last August, it was my birthday and he acted really weird to keep sending hug to me for begging a kiss. Since then, we keep chatting day & night, he reported everything to me and so am I. He share everything in life daily with me, he waited to talk to me when he’s sad (we have time difference) he even called me mom once when I asked him to take care of himself in the busy work. So I finally asked him what we are and he told me he do likes me a lot, we get along so well with trust and comfortable. My words to him just what he looking for to light up his life, BUT he can’t be in a long distance relationship. It’s killing him as i am not around, so we agreed to be stay as a good friends…at that time I already know he may someday disappear forever (because I may do the same) and I asked him don’t do that to me. We agree to stay as friends and see what’s coming to us in future. But he told me that he don’t like mix up the friends and relationship and he’s very sorry he can’t control himself when he face to me. Anyway, we still keep chatting day and night everyday until he sleep even he message me when I am sleeping. Suddenly, he disappear for 2 weeks and of course I am so scare but I let him space. Then he came back and talked to me like nothing happened, we are still very sweet together until last thanksgiving – I told him I am really grateful to have him in life. After that, he has been so cold, he reply message but only few days. But before that, we were very sweet so I did paint a Plant in painting to him as a xmas gift and letting him knows even the plant is alone, it’s not as it’s with the sunshine around (he said Im his sunshine). Unfortunately that make him being over react, he message me and told me he don’t feel the same as I do, and don’t want to get me misunderstanding……..so he disappear, no reply to message (I just sent him twice to hope he’s well) for a month, until end of last mth, he finally read my message but without response. At that time, our common friend was asking me if he’s alright as she found he’s bit upset. So I write him again to asking him to take good care. And after that, he block me, now i can’t sent him any message and seems he act like normal to our common friend. I don’t know what to do……we are very good friends, I don’t know why “love” will make us being like this. I am really regret to say I like him too now.
        Sorry for the long story, but I really appreciate your advise to me as i am lost now. Lose a good friend, lose a potential good relationship.

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 12, 2017 at 10:14 am

          If he blocked you, then he no longer is interested in a relationship with you. He may feel as though this is the best way to protect him feelings. He may not want to simply be friends with you. He may feel jealous that you might be with other people. There are many reasons for this behavior, but you are not in a relationship with him, so let it be. If he comes back, then you can talk with him at that time. For now, allow thoughts of him to fade from your life. Move on and enjoy the life that you are living at this time. Best of luck, Sunshine!

  8. Venus

    January 18, 2017 at 2:22 pm

    Hi..am a libra women of age 39 single i met virgo guy in family relation.. as i hardly knew him since childhood but in 2014 he contacted me by msgng n i knw tht he liked me since many years but i nvr spked with him ealier so now he s 39 same age married in 2010 but sepeated with his wife in 2012 n thy didnt contacted to eachother last three yrs n al these things he shared to me once he started talking to me n thn he also shared tht he like me vry much but bcoz of his present situation is tht his divorce process running last 1 year..n initially i was only concerned abt his problem whtevr he shared to me n going through of al..n i just tried support him as a friend n prayed for his wife wl cm bk n agn thy wl b together but his wife denied to cm bk..n th guy started luvng me n proposed me for marriage..n i also started luvng him thn but thing is tht legally thy r nt divorced n th proccess wl b go for how long..dnt knw m vry upset of al these things n now wht hapnd for last 6 months he has bn avoiding me..stopped msgng me ..calling evrything..n earlier daily he was texting me evrytime ..used to cal me n..had cm to see me once..n now..dnt knw whts s going on as he committed to me tht he needs some time n he wants to b with me..n many thoughts are coming in my..mind tht wht s happening evn he told me tht he cnt live with out me n suddenly..
    his wife s nt ready to bk to him..dnt know wht to do..am only waiting for him..i truly luv him cnt lv with out him now..why he s behaving like tht as u mentioned in ur description tht virgos are vry loyal honest n committed n vry lubng man..but u knw..am just crying last 6 month..pls help me out this..pls reply soon..am getting off myself..only he s in my mind evry single moment

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 19, 2017 at 2:03 pm

      Wait until he is legally divorced. If he has told you that she wants him back, then they are still in communication. You do not want to deal with the potential social troubles that you will have in the future. The decision is yours, however, so choose what is right for you. Take this week to determine what you want for yourself. Best of luck, Venus!

  9. Venus

    January 18, 2017 at 2:10 pm

    Hi..am a libra women of age 39 single i met virgo guy in family relation.. as i hardly knew him since childhood but in 2014 he contacted me by msgng n i knw tht he liked me since many year but i nvr spked with him ealier so now he s 39 same age married in 2010 but sepeated with her wife in 2012 n thy didnt contacted to eachother last three n al these things he shared to me once he started talking to me n thn he shared he like me vry much but bcoz of his present situation is tht his divorce process running last 1 year..n initially i was only concerned abt him problem whtevr he shared to me..n i just tried support him as a friend n prayed for his wife wl cm bk n agn thy wl b together but his wife denied to cm bk..n th guy started luvng me n proposed me for marriage..n i also started luvng him thn but thing is tht legally thy r nt divorced n th proccess wl b go for how long..dnt knw m vry upset of al these n now wht hapnd for last 6 months he has bn avoiding me..stopped msgng me ..calling evrything..dnt knw whts s going on as he committed to me tht he need sm time n he wants to b with me..n many thoughts are coming in my.mind tht wht s happening evn he told me tht he cnt live with out me n suddenly..his wife s nt ready to bk to him..dnt know wht to do..am only waiting for him..i truly luv him cnt lv with out him now..why he s behaving like tht as u mentioned in ur description tht virgos are vry loyal honest n committed n vry lubng man..but u knw..am just crying last 6 month..pls help me out this..pls reply soon..am getting off myself..only he s in my mind evry single moment

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 19, 2017 at 2:00 pm

      Wait until he is legally divorced. If he has told you that she wants him back, then they are still in communication. You do not want to deal with the potential social troubles that you will have in the future. The decision is yours, however, so choose what is right for you. Take this week to determine what you want for yourself. Best of luck, Venus!

      • Venus

        February 8, 2017 at 7:14 am

        Thank u so much for ur concern n al ur support. I will try to b strong wl do as u hv suggested me..please take care..n stay blessed

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 8, 2017 at 10:24 am

          Have a great day! Enjoy life and remain positive. Have a great day, Venus!

  10. Aino

    December 30, 2016 at 12:40 pm

    a virgo guy says he loves me… to be precise loved me loves me and will love me forever and ever.. and he has confessed his love many times.. he never gets mad at me, respects me and strives to make me feel happy all the time, texts me daily…i am a piscean girl.. and he says he fell for me after meeting me just once because of my smile and later due to my innocence and a bit of naughty nature but adores my smile the most…he also tried hard to find and contact me although a.t him he tried to control but couldnt and had to find me.. he is romantic and expresses his feelings clearly… but i am an insecure person basically and i fear that i might fall for him because of his persistence… before that i need to be sure if he truly loves me.. whatever i read abt his zodiac anywhere has left me confused… how can i know if he truly loves me?

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 31, 2016 at 12:56 pm

      It sounds like he does love you, or at least, he is certain that he does. This is normal in relationships, and there is no way to know how long these feelings will last. It sounds like he has done everything he can to reassure you of his feelings, so I would just continue with the relationship and hope for the best. Ultimately, it is trust that makes up any relationship, so you just have to trust that his feelings are true.

      • Aino

        January 1, 2017 at 5:58 am

        tnku so much web admin for your kind advice… i was going crazy after reading about ‘the near to cold’ nature of virgo lovers. tnku for ur positive response

        • web admin

          web admin

          January 1, 2017 at 11:15 am

          You are welcome! Let me know if you have any more questions! Thanks for commenting!

  11. Leigh

    October 16, 2016 at 3:07 pm

    I’ve been seeing a Virgo man since January of this year. We are just friends but we meet up at least once a week and text each other every day mostly due to me initiating contact. I like him a lot and naturally would like to be more than just friends with him. He knows how I feel as I’ve expressed my feelings 3 times in the last 9 months. However, we always remain friends. I do feel that he has slowly been opening up to me since I first met him. He’s introduced me to most of his family (siblings and nephew and nieces). I feel that I’ve been getting mixed signals from him but then my friends tell me that I read too much into the things he does. I’m really happy when I spend time with him or when we are on the phone or exchanging messages. Sometimes I become very emotional and doubt myself and whether we will ever have a relationship. He says that he doesn’t want a relationship but only friendship. Then again he says that he doesn’t ever want any relationship with anyone as he’s worried about getting hurt. My heart and instinct tells me that I should persist and be patient but then again other times I doubt whether he will ever feel the way I feel about him.

    BTW he’s in his late 40s and I’m in my mid 40’s. We’re both single and never been married. He’s had many girlfriends over the years but none that have last beyond a year except for one. I’ve had 2 significant relationships lasting 5 years and 8 years and a number of flings in my younger days.

    I don’t think that I can walk away and stop being friends with him. That would hurt me a lot and I think he would feel let down.

    Any advice would be appreciated.

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 17, 2016 at 10:33 am

      I am really not sure what to say. He says he just wants friendship, but he also just does not want a relationship with anyone, so it is still possible that he likes you. The way that he treats you makes it sound like he could be interested in more, but there is just no way to know for sure. I you think that he is worth it and don’t mind the wait, it may be worthwhile to get to know him better and give him more time to trust you. Once he knows that you will never hurt him and he has been friends with you for a long time, it may make it easier for him to attempt a relationship as well. Whether you are willing for a long wait or not is entirely up to you though.

      • Leigh

        October 17, 2016 at 1:03 pm

        Thank you so much for your advice.

        I’m a Capricorn BTW. I feel that we get on so well. Both earth signs. We both have the same values. He’s very kind and compassionate which is one of the things that really attracts me. He also has a great sense of humour which I love. He’s an artist and ever so sensitive, sometimes too sensitive but that’s one of his qualities. The downside is he is constantly a worrier.

        When I have expressed my feelings to him previously he has always said that he wants to keep me as a friend as he can be friends with me forever. However as a girlfriend he says that we would not last beyond a year like his previous relationships as he becomes insecure and jealous. He says he always ends up getting hurt.

        I don’t know what to think. He wants to be just friends but then we spend so much time together. He does things like stop me in the street when we are walking on a Friday night out and then plays me a love song from his iPhone. He’s introduced me to most of his immediate family already. I’m confused. Sometimes when I look into his eyes and he’s looking back at me I really feel that he he must feel something for me other than just friendship but then he always maintains we are just friends. When I’ve been out with a male friend, he gets jealous.

        I’ve been single in the last 11 years since being jilted by my ex. It affected me a lot and I’ve only been on a couple of dates since then. I think that my Virgo friend is worth waiting for. I want him to trust me so that he knows that I won’t abandon him like all his previous girlfriends. I want him to know that I will always be around as a friend above all even if we can’t be in a relationship.

        I love him even though we have never had a physical relationship. The only physical contact we have are long hugs when we say goodbye at the end of the evening.I think the friendship we have is beautiful. I’ve never fallen in love before with someone who I’ve not had a relationship before. It’s new to me.

        • web admin

          web admin

          October 18, 2016 at 8:31 am

          It sounds like you know what you want to do, so now you just have to wait and see if he starts to trust you enough in the next few months or year to have a relationship. Hopefully, it will be worth the wait. Good luck!

          • Leigh

            October 18, 2016 at 10:50 am

            Thank you Web Admin!

    • Candy

      December 22, 2016 at 2:23 pm

      Patience is everything when you are dealing with a Virgo man but trust it is worth it in the end…. I am still learning my Virgo man it has been 4 years in

      • web admin

        web admin

        December 23, 2016 at 9:46 am

        Patience is certainly a virtue. Thank you for sharing your supportive and insightful post. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and experiences in the future. Have a great day, Candy!

  12. Icy

    September 24, 2016 at 11:13 am

    I would usually see this guy at work but never really spoke to him. After a month or so he started hailing and said that I was funny. Shortly after he asked for my number and we started texting each other. A week later he asked for sex and me being the Capricorn that I am said no. We hadn’t even gone on a date yet.
    We still communicate as we were (and I found out he’s a Virgo) and now it’s like he’s just trying to win me over. Is he doing it because he likes me or just wants sex?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 25, 2016 at 11:03 am

      It is certain that he is interested in having sex with you and it is likely that he has an emotional interest in you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If you determine that he is only interested in having sex with you and you do not want that, then explain that you are not interested in such a relationship. Whatever your decision, be sure to remain mindful as positive as you move forward, Icy!

  13. Abraham shaluwa

    September 20, 2016 at 10:15 pm

    am Virgo man…. what i know we are fuss attention to the one we love, our brain work always we think until we got hurt, we talk ànd chart for ourself which causes to forget other or not able to sit on crowded, simply dont denies us we remenber you but we are hard take phone and calling… we want to do everything for our own so any problem we are not first tell everyone becoz we have the answer of everything, serious we dont need advice or it hard for us to seek the advice for our own matter, but we asj everything we share and ee kike to have your choice and options but we know the best and our test.

    be true
    be confident
    take care of yourself
    improve every aspect in yourlife (we dont like less)

    we cant hold two girl at once , if virgo have no interest in you he appear cold and distant.
    you must to seduce virgo for a long (am sory for that )
    we late to fall in love or not at all
    we live the lonely life and we enjoy it alot

    if you make a perfect move ….. am sure a little love you got from him will burn you for your entire life… we surrender everything for one we date to love

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 22, 2016 at 4:22 pm

      Thank you for your insights and ideas. It is most certain that your experience will help someone in the future. Likely you will find people thanking you for your comments for their relationship ideas. Continue to post your experiences and thoughts with us and watch our community grow. Thank you, Abraham.

    • bindu

      October 14, 2016 at 12:37 am

      very true

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 14, 2016 at 10:21 am

        🙂

  14. Debbie

    September 16, 2016 at 8:10 am

    I just met a Virgo some weeks ago.I took him to be a flirt CUs d first thing he told me is dat he loved my crop top…he was so clingy n all of a sudden asked for my number…we exchanged contacts n we’ve bin talking since den..

    However..I’m really beginning to love him cos something keeps striking me about him. So far..he has bin very sincere…and at anytime he makes a promise of calling back or doing anything…he keeps to it.

    Recently we’re both having a club program…one of the programs that brought us together initially…and I told him I won’t be able to come cos of finances..surprisingly…he’s asking me to come along that he’ll foot the bills…

    And just today..i asked him if there’s any strings attached and he got really upset,however I explained to him why I was bein straightforward and he understood but made mention of me hurting his feelings by asking that kind of question. Problem is… I love this guy but I’m finding it difficult to believe he’s genuine…

    I really don’t know how else to tell if he really loves me or not.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 16, 2016 at 10:52 am

      If he is willing to pay for you to be part of the program, then it is likely that he is interested in continuing this relationship with you. That said, with or without his knowledge there are sure to be strings attached. If your relationship ends, then you can be certain that the program payments will end. However, if you love him and he loves you, then you should try to spend as much time together as possible.

  15. cece

    August 18, 2016 at 9:19 am

    I’m also in love with a Virgo male we met online at first I was not into until he asked was I married single or fianceI told him no so I asked him about himself what he married and he told me yes he was married for 10 years and been divorced for 3years he also has three and he works the only thing is it’s a long distance relationship so one day he asked me to be his girlfriend and then he mention wife to be.I told him I don’t mind but how is that going to work because I live in Miami he lives in Orlando and he’s also in love with me and I love him too I don’t know what to do

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 18, 2016 at 9:33 pm

      If the two of you are interested in taking your relationship to the next level, then spend as much time together as you are able. If you want to try to meet up with him, then it would be wise to do so. In the future, if your relationship is to move far forward, then determine how to have the two of you live together or in the same city. Take this time to have a serious conversation with your partner and determine your course of action.

  16. AquaGirl/CapRising

    August 15, 2016 at 8:08 am

    I have a zodiac compatibility question – in one of your post you advise not to base your relationship around the sign itself, but I just want to know what are the chances of a successful relationship with my Virgo man based on our zodiac compatibility if anyone knows.

    I am an Aquarius female (although what I read about my sign doesn’t seem to match up) with Capricorn rising, Taurus moon and Capricorn venus.

    I’m not sure of my Virgo man’s rising but he is a Pisces moon with Leo venus and mars.

    We seem to get along great and complement each other in every imaginable way. Where I am weak he is strong and vice versa. It seems almost too good to be true and I think that’s where my doubt is.

    When I read your article about Capricorn/Virgo love and Taurus/Virgo love this is us. But when I read about Aquarius/ Virgo love I can’t relate.

    This zodiac stuff is really confusing.

    But one thing I must say my Virgo man is amazing we’ve been seeing each other for 17 months now and each day our relationship just gets better and better. He hasn’t said that he loves me, I have – in my past relationships this would have concerned me but with him it doesn’t because his actions show me that he loves me. He is the sweetest, thoughtful, smart, reliable and funniest man I’ve ever met. Omg and in the bedroom they come to life, full of passion – he blows my mind every time.

    For those who are just starting out dating a virgo man, honestly in the beginning they do show bad communication skills and disappearing acts are present but stick with them, be patient, don’t rush, communicate with them your feelings and don’t be overly dramatic with emotions when you do it will scare them away. They don’t even realize that they are being distant. They are worth it.

    But if anyone can answer my compatibility question I would really appreciate it.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 16, 2016 at 2:58 pm

      Since the two of you have been together for seventeen months and seem to have a strong relationship, then it is likely that you have moved past the majority of troubles that may arise from zodiac differences. If you are noticing that your relationship does not match up to the signs, then it is a wise decision to focus on the relationship with the person rather than the relationship with the sign. It would be best for you to take this energy regarding your signs and putting it toward a surprise date or perhaps a romantic getaway. Enjoy your relationship as it seems to be flourishing and is enjoyable.

  17. San

    August 13, 2016 at 11:07 am

    Hi I’ve been dating a Virgo man for 3 months now and we both are going through divorce of 20+ years. He initially was the one to always text/call or come over. Around the second month he slowed up his contact. He’s a police officer and there had been a few shootings/deaths on his squad so I was there to support him through that but since then he’s not been the same. I’ve asked him over & over what’s going on w/him and his response is: divorce, finances, work, exhaustion, etc… He’s told me that he loves me, that we’re exclusive and so on but I just don’t feel like we’re in a relationship due to his non communcationation. He was a heavy communicator before & now barely a text/call a day. I’ve not seen him in 2weeks. I do love him but I just don’t know what to do about us. He accuses me of having other guy friends but yet he makes no time for me. He work 6 days a week from 9 am-9p. He works 2 jobs. Please help bcuz at the moment I’ve basically cut him off bcuz I don’t know what to do w/him.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 14, 2016 at 6:58 pm

      It is clear that he is extremely busy and emotionally drained. It is likely that you are also busy and possibly emotionally busy. Speak with him directly about your feelings directly and honestly. If he shares your feelings and wants to continue your relationship, then it would be wise to do so. If he does not share your feelings or does not want to further your relationship, then you know that you can end it. However, as he is complaining about you having male friends, then there is likely other concerns that you will have to deal with in the future. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future.

  18. Tanisha

    August 5, 2016 at 9:28 am

    I left a message for ivlgrl because I loved her advice. I am good at giving advice but it is very hard when it comes to myself. I think I over analyze everything and this causes me to want to rethink the whole situation. I am a Pisces woman who loves to share and be loved. My life revolves around making others happy because in this manner I find happiness. I am head over heels in love with a Virgo man who is 6 years older than me. I’ve known him for 4 years. In the beginning he had a preference and he would tell me that he loved with women who petite. His ideal woman at the time weighed 130lbs. I told him I love the way I look. I am very busty but I have a medium built frame very tall. I exercise 3 times a week and I love the results I am getting in keeping my body toned. Anyway about 6 months ago I suddenly became sick and wound up in ICU. I was not able to contact him. Because we talked everyday for the last 2 years I think it bothered him. My mom answered the phone while I was in the hospital and from this point he has been a total different person. I’m showered with attention. He doesn’t remind me anymore of being just friends and our conversations have gone from once a day to 3 times a day. 2 weeks ago we were intimate and this only caused me to fall even deeper in love with him. I think my biggest fear is me. I live 2 hours away from him and we don’t see each other on a regular basis but we do talk a lot. He calls me and I call him. Everything happens naturally. My thing with him is that I don’t have a problem with calling him if he doesn’t call me and I remind him if he misses a call like he does me. We established in the beginning as friends. As a woman we must be confident in ourselves and you must always have faith. I dealt with a Virgo in the past and I was friends with him for 14 years before we became intimate so you must be patient even though the previous Virgo was not the right one. I will never give up on Virgo Love. It is the best love in the world especially when you meet with the minds first. We have so much in common. I feel like he is the male version of me and I am the female version of him. I believe with all my heart he is my soulmate and that he will be my husband. I think my question was posed because I don’t like competition when it comes to someone I love. I do things intuitively and I don’t get a bad vibe from him. So in the end I am going to be patient and let everything just flow like it has been. Good luck all you lucky women who found love in Virgo.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 6, 2016 at 12:37 pm

      Thank you for your positive and uplifting story! We always appreciate reading comments from our readers that uplift our other readers, like lvlygrl, and share trust and goodness. It seems to me that your friend has developed a strong sense of compassion, and your time in the hospital brought up stronger feelings in him for you. If you are able to shorten the physical distance between the two of you, then it is likely that your relationship with continue to flourish and develop.

      • Tanisha

        August 8, 2016 at 1:47 pm

        Thank you for replying and for taking time out to create a website that women of all zodiac signs can share their stories. I’ve learned that patience and confidence brings about positive results when it comes to Virgo men. I’ve been in long distance relationships before and things went very well. I believe that if I take my time as I have we will be just fine. We both have very reliable vehicles. Every day is a new adventure when it comes to him. I feel 17 again butterflies and all. So amazing. Keep up the good work. I am working on somethings so you may see a website soon from me.

        • web admin

          web admin

          August 8, 2016 at 8:50 pm

          It sounds as though you are having a wonderful time! I appreciate that you shared your story with us and I am sure that our other readers will appreciate it as well. Feel free to always share your stories and tales from your relationship. We look forward to hearing about your work!

  19. lvlygrl

    July 8, 2016 at 9:57 pm

    One more thing; I’ve learned this with my husband and other virgo men, never ever make them think you are kissing their ass. They will only run away and feel more cocky/arrogant. If they seem to be distancing themselves from you…let them know it’s cool without blinking. They will see you as being confident and independent. This actually draws them in closer. Virgo men “may” be intelligent, but me being an aries woman can pick them apart everytime, by just giving them all the space they need and playing it cool whenever conflicts arise.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 9, 2016 at 2:22 pm

      It would be wise to never ‘kiss anyone’s ass’. There is no reason to give false statements or actions. It is lying and inherently damaging to a relationship. Always be honest with your partner, regardless of their horoscope symbol. Honesty and respect should always remain at the top of your priority list.

    • N.May.04

      July 11, 2016 at 10:45 pm

      I’m an aries too, and in the past I had only dated (and married one) fire signs – mostly… Now divorced and I met this Virgo man a few months ago, and I am soooo in love with now..!! All my perspective changed..! I understand I must be patient.. Honestly, I didn’t know I had this level of patience in me.. But surprisingly, I have survived and it has been worth it because he makes me very happy… But how do you handle the mood changes??? How to keep calm? I mean, I am a pretty calm type of aries, but I like to feel secure and not feel pushed away.. He says he loves me, I think he is wonderful like no other… But sometimes he goes off in his thoughts, I ask him if he’s ok, he says “yes” almost always or says he’s just tired and feeling anxious.. Obviously other circumstances might influence this behaivor, but how can u keep calm around this? I’m asking because sometimes the mood changes just makes me want to run for the hills.. It drives me nuts!! Is this something that will get better or is it a Virgos trait??

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 12, 2016 at 4:12 pm

        Instead of focusing on the traits defined by zodiac literature, focus on the real relationships that are in your life. Focus on your actions that you are choosing to take in response to the actions of your partners. Do not make decisions based on zodiac ideas as they are not always applicable. Be patient with your partner, and understand that he is being patient with you when you don’t realize it. Speak with him directly and honestly about your desires for your relationship. And most importantly, do not treat your partner as though he is an exact copy of a zodiac trait stereotype, treat him like a human being.

    • Tanisha

      August 5, 2016 at 8:58 am

      Hi Ivlygrl, I have a question for you. How do you stand firm when there are an entourage of other women trying to vie for his attention also. We are not in a relationship we started as friends and finally our friendship has gotten deeper. Even though I talk to him everyday sometimes 3 or more times a day I still feel like I’m still not in. In the end I do not want to rush him but I would like to know where I really stand since our last encounter we were intimate. Any advice is welcome

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 6, 2016 at 12:33 pm

        If you determine that you want to speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings for him, then do so. If you find that he is willing to develop a relationship with you, then speak with him about encouraging other women to give him attention. If you find that after speaking with him that he is still not interested in developing a relationship with you, then it would be most wise to move on from him. Remain positive as you move forward.

    • Kimikash

      August 6, 2016 at 10:25 am

      Lvlygirl,

      I am also an aries woman dating a Virgo man. We have been seeing each other for about 6 months now, and we just hit that point where he turned really serious and says we need to discuss either going all in (serious relationship leading to marriage) and break up. I really want to be with him but there is only one thing thats keeping me from fully committing to him, and that’s his “coolness.” He can be sweet and affectionate, but I’m really used to being with guys who always tell me how much they want me, etc. This Virgo guy is not like that at all and never uses his words to tell me he cares about me. He brings out my patient side, which I love, and appreciate that he makes me want to be more calm, a better listener, etc.

      How do you see the virgo man/aries woman dynamic in your relationship? Do you think it has potential to work. I think if we can meet in the middle (him showing more affection + me being a better listener and more stable for him) we can make it work. but if only we come to this compromise. I really like him a lot and think I’m falling for him.

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 6, 2016 at 2:23 pm

        If he has made it clear that you are at the point where you are either going to continue your relationship in a serious manner or break up, then it would be wise to make your determination based on the qualities that you bring out in each other. Speak with him directly and honestly about what you want your relationship to become and your need for compromise. If he agrees, then continue your relationship.

  20. mary

    June 9, 2016 at 4:16 am

    Hi I am a Gemini woman aged 27,and my Virgo man is seeing me for six months now. the problem is he is not communicate wit me often we can even pass two weeks without talking in any way, he will only talk to me when he wants to see me. he is 34 and single..we always meet at his palace we talk and ended up having sex(we only ended up having sex twice per those six months together). i love him and he says he loves me too but he don’t call or text me as a person he loves. and if i ask he always tells me that he is busy or the place his is at the moment there is no network. we last saw each other last week but from there no even a text or a call i tried to text him, but he didnt reply till today.. should i stop texting him? Would you say there is a future with him? what should i do? Please help..

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 9, 2016 at 9:37 am

      Some people are just terrible at texting or calling, so don’t assume based on just that that he does not like you. Unfortunately, you do have a larger problem. It is understandable if he is too busy or just not the type of person that texts. The problem is that you rarely see each other, so he really has to be good at communication to keep the relationship going. Start by telling him how you feel and see what he wants. If the situation does not change, you may have to move on. Unless he can see you more in person or learn how to be good at texting, you may not want to remain involved in this relationship because it will only stress you out. Good luck, Mary!

    • Missy

      July 5, 2016 at 9:17 am

      Same here girl! I feel he likes me but he can be weeks without texting… and I always find out things last minutes like he didnt have any intention to let me know. He seems cold and distant but when we are together he holds my hand and caresses me and is sooo dreamy! that’s why i cant get him out of my head

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 5, 2016 at 7:06 pm

        It is not wise to focus on developing a relationship with someone who does not respect you simply because he is ‘dreamy’. It is a shallow and unhealthy foundation for a relationship.

    • lvlygrl

      July 8, 2016 at 9:46 pm

      Mary, I’ve been married to a virgo man for 14 years. I think your best approach will be to let him know that you will like him to communicate more, so that you’ll feel like y’all actually have a relationship. Afterwards, let him take the lead. DO NOT and I mean DO NOT! Contact him. Let him show you what you mean to him. If he still doesn’t communicate as you wish, then it’s apparent you don’t mean much to him. Move on expeditiously!

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 9, 2016 at 2:18 pm

        Mary, if you make the decision to use the no contact method, then it is clear that you have a lack of respect for this person. If that is your decision, then block him and break off all emotional ties to him. It is not fair to anyone to be treated in such a way. Either speak with him about your feelings and demand his respect, or remove yourself from his life.

Leave a Reply

Your email address will not be published. Required fields are marked *