Virgo Man in Love

By on April 27, 2014

Always having to recheck their work, seeking the best route possible, and spending countless hours perfecting every aspect of their life until it meets their standards- yes, this sums up the Virgo individual to a tee. But don’t think persistence and dedication is only used in business and school situations. Virgoans are extremely interested in their partners as well, and will ensure their lover is happy at all times. Is there anything else hiding underneath this man’s precise personality?


The Type of Woman Virgo Needs

A Virgoan isn’t persuaded by a pretty face, nor does he find himself enthralled with a woman who’s dazzling with jewels and fancy clothes. The Virgo man looks beyond the looks, seeking something more. He needs a stable, secure, and confident woman who knows her worth and doesn’t rely on her looks to get her way. In fact, a Virgo man will most always choose a beautiful and strong personality over a good-looking female any day. A Virgoan will sit back and assess his potential woman for some time before making the decision to pursue her- he must first make sure you are not some ditzy woman with a pretty face, but rather a smart gal with a head on her shoulders and a confident personality that is easily recognizable in a crowd. He also needs a woman who can boost his confidence and ego, and a lady with a wild side that can bring him out of his rigid shell a bit.


Virgo in a Relationship

The Virgo man is always striving for perfection, and will review his work endlessly until he finishes it with utmost perfection- and this includes his love life, too. In fact, a Virgo man has a very difficult time falling in love. This is because the Virgoan will spend a multitude of his time assessing the relationship, seeking out every pro and con of the woman/relationship and see if there are any flaws or cracks worth mending. It is only when he has decided that the relationship has met his standards of perfection that he will allow himself to become comfortable enough to fall in love. The positive side to this? He will be faithful to the woman he loves.

Virgoans are not only known for their faithfulness, but their thoughtfulness as well. They will always (and we mean always) make time for you, even though his days might be booked with full time work and part time schooling. The Virgoan will take special precautions and plan out his entire schedule to make sure he’s home to make his spouse dinner and play with the children during all of his free time.

It’s not often that you will see a Virgo man do anything extremely out-of-the-blue or romantic. His sensible nature and relaxed relationship style sees no need for extravagant schmoozing or romantic candlelit dinners on the ocean shore. However, don’t let that sway you from dating a Virgo man. Remember, he is the type of guy who is willing to do anything for his lady and makes time for her no matter what. He’s not high maintenance in the slightest and is in it for the long haul, which means you can’t put your fears of ‘hit it and quit it’ to rest.



Virgo in the Bedroom

During the first encounter with a Virgo man, you might notice one thing: his extreme rigidness. Virgoans don’t have a natural confidence about them, and this lack of confidence extends into the bedroom. You won’t expect any surprises or wild encounters with a Virgo man, as every aspect of the event is planned carefully beforehand and done so in the correct order during the night.

However, as the Virgo man becomes more comfortable with his lover, the rigidness will disappear and it will be like making love to entirely different person. Suddenly the surprises appear and you see a new found passion and wild drive in your Virgo lover. You will soon notice that his careful attention to detail and his strive for perfection can be used in a spectacular, pleasing way.

One way to get the Virgoan to come out of his shell and love you more deeply is to reassure him often of what a great job he is doing. As we’ve mentioned before, Virgoans are constantly seeking to be perfect in everything they are doing, and hearing from you that their work is perfect will boost his confidence and help him to relax more under the sheets.

Negative Side of a Virgo Man

The biggest negative trait a Virgo man possesses is his overcritical attitude. As he’s always seeking perfection in everything he does, he will certainly criticize every aspect of his daily routine until it meets his (sometimes impossible) requests. Many women find this to be annoying and this critical attitude can sometimes show up during the course of the relationship, which sometimes may lead to a messy and hurtful breakup.

The Virgo man is also a bit picky and harsh when it comes to choosing his mate, which can appear as judgmental. Virgoans will sit back and watch before making a move on a woman for the sole purpose of deeming whether or not she is ‘good enough’ for him. Of course, nobody is fond of a gentlemen who is extremely judgmental and picky when it comes to choosing a lady, so this can be a big put off for many woman.

Last but not least, a Virgo is very stuck in his ways and won’t change his mind for anything or anyone. Once he has an idea in his head, he will stick to it no matter what. This is a part of his overcritical attitude and constant need for perfection in every aspect of his life. This includes his love life, so don’t bother trying to change your Virgo man into something that he’s not- it simply won’t work.


Virgo and Capricorn: This is truly a match made in Heaven. The both of you are extremely driven and determined with everything you do and give 100 percent to your partner at all times. The both of you are seeking long term relationships and take relationships extremely seriously. You will be able to work through problems and always conquer your issues for a stress-free relationships that is almost perfect.


Virgo and Taurus: Another great match as the two of you are very secure in yourselves and are looking for something that is built to last. This relationship will flourish as the two of you strive for a seemingly perfect and limitless relationship. Just make sure the two of you get plenty of fun and exciting activities in, as your realistic mindsets can leave you lacking a bit of pizazz.

Virgo Man in a Nutshell

A virgo man is looking for one thing: perfection, whether it’s in his work, his friends, or his relationships. He wants the perfect woman who can boost his confidence and stay by his side no matter what. He is a driven, determined, and faithful individual who will stop at nothing to make sure his wife and children are happy at all times.


Image credit: Leaaa, Martha, Nicola.


  1. Leigh

    October 16, 2016 at 3:07 pm

    I’ve been seeing a Virgo man since January of this year. We are just friends but we meet up at least once a week and text each other every day mostly due to me initiating contact. I like him a lot and naturally would like to be more than just friends with him. He knows how I feel as I’ve expressed my feelings 3 times in the last 9 months. However, we always remain friends. I do feel that he has slowly been opening up to me since I first met him. He’s introduced me to most of his family (siblings and nephew and nieces). I feel that I’ve been getting mixed signals from him but then my friends tell me that I read too much into the things he does. I’m really happy when I spend time with him or when we are on the phone or exchanging messages. Sometimes I become very emotional and doubt myself and whether we will ever have a relationship. He says that he doesn’t want a relationship but only friendship. Then again he says that he doesn’t ever want any relationship with anyone as he’s worried about getting hurt. My heart and instinct tells me that I should persist and be patient but then again other times I doubt whether he will ever feel the way I feel about him.

    BTW he’s in his late 40s and I’m in my mid 40’s. We’re both single and never been married. He’s had many girlfriends over the years but none that have last beyond a year except for one. I’ve had 2 significant relationships lasting 5 years and 8 years and a number of flings in my younger days.

    I don’t think that I can walk away and stop being friends with him. That would hurt me a lot and I think he would feel let down.

    Any advice would be appreciated.

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 17, 2016 at 10:33 am

      I am really not sure what to say. He says he just wants friendship, but he also just does not want a relationship with anyone, so it is still possible that he likes you. The way that he treats you makes it sound like he could be interested in more, but there is just no way to know for sure. I you think that he is worth it and don’t mind the wait, it may be worthwhile to get to know him better and give him more time to trust you. Once he knows that you will never hurt him and he has been friends with you for a long time, it may make it easier for him to attempt a relationship as well. Whether you are willing for a long wait or not is entirely up to you though.

      • Leigh

        October 17, 2016 at 1:03 pm

        Thank you so much for your advice.

        I’m a Capricorn BTW. I feel that we get on so well. Both earth signs. We both have the same values. He’s very kind and compassionate which is one of the things that really attracts me. He also has a great sense of humour which I love. He’s an artist and ever so sensitive, sometimes too sensitive but that’s one of his qualities. The downside is he is constantly a worrier.

        When I have expressed my feelings to him previously he has always said that he wants to keep me as a friend as he can be friends with me forever. However as a girlfriend he says that we would not last beyond a year like his previous relationships as he becomes insecure and jealous. He says he always ends up getting hurt.

        I don’t know what to think. He wants to be just friends but then we spend so much time together. He does things like stop me in the street when we are walking on a Friday night out and then plays me a love song from his iPhone. He’s introduced me to most of his immediate family already. I’m confused. Sometimes when I look into his eyes and he’s looking back at me I really feel that he he must feel something for me other than just friendship but then he always maintains we are just friends. When I’ve been out with a male friend, he gets jealous.

        I’ve been single in the last 11 years since being jilted by my ex. It affected me a lot and I’ve only been on a couple of dates since then. I think that my Virgo friend is worth waiting for. I want him to trust me so that he knows that I won’t abandon him like all his previous girlfriends. I want him to know that I will always be around as a friend above all even if we can’t be in a relationship.

        I love him even though we have never had a physical relationship. The only physical contact we have are long hugs when we say goodbye at the end of the evening.I think the friendship we have is beautiful. I’ve never fallen in love before with someone who I’ve not had a relationship before. It’s new to me.

        • web admin

          web admin

          October 18, 2016 at 8:31 am

          It sounds like you know what you want to do, so now you just have to wait and see if he starts to trust you enough in the next few months or year to have a relationship. Hopefully, it will be worth the wait. Good luck!

          • Leigh

            October 18, 2016 at 10:50 am

            Thank you Web Admin!

  2. Icy

    September 24, 2016 at 11:13 am

    I would usually see this guy at work but never really spoke to him. After a month or so he started hailing and said that I was funny. Shortly after he asked for my number and we started texting each other. A week later he asked for sex and me being the Capricorn that I am said no. We hadn’t even gone on a date yet.
    We still communicate as we were (and I found out he’s a Virgo) and now it’s like he’s just trying to win me over. Is he doing it because he likes me or just wants sex?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 25, 2016 at 11:03 am

      It is certain that he is interested in having sex with you and it is likely that he has an emotional interest in you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If you determine that he is only interested in having sex with you and you do not want that, then explain that you are not interested in such a relationship. Whatever your decision, be sure to remain mindful as positive as you move forward, Icy!

  3. Abraham shaluwa

    September 20, 2016 at 10:15 pm

    am Virgo man…. what i know we are fuss attention to the one we love, our brain work always we think until we got hurt, we talk ànd chart for ourself which causes to forget other or not able to sit on crowded, simply dont denies us we remenber you but we are hard take phone and calling… we want to do everything for our own so any problem we are not first tell everyone becoz we have the answer of everything, serious we dont need advice or it hard for us to seek the advice for our own matter, but we asj everything we share and ee kike to have your choice and options but we know the best and our test.

    be true
    be confident
    take care of yourself
    improve every aspect in yourlife (we dont like less)

    we cant hold two girl at once , if virgo have no interest in you he appear cold and distant.
    you must to seduce virgo for a long (am sory for that )
    we late to fall in love or not at all
    we live the lonely life and we enjoy it alot

    if you make a perfect move ….. am sure a little love you got from him will burn you for your entire life… we surrender everything for one we date to love

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 22, 2016 at 4:22 pm

      Thank you for your insights and ideas. It is most certain that your experience will help someone in the future. Likely you will find people thanking you for your comments for their relationship ideas. Continue to post your experiences and thoughts with us and watch our community grow. Thank you, Abraham.

    • bindu

      October 14, 2016 at 12:37 am

      very true

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 14, 2016 at 10:21 am


  4. Debbie

    September 16, 2016 at 8:10 am

    I just met a Virgo some weeks ago.I took him to be a flirt CUs d first thing he told me is dat he loved my crop top…he was so clingy n all of a sudden asked for my number…we exchanged contacts n we’ve bin talking since den..

    However..I’m really beginning to love him cos something keeps striking me about him. So far..he has bin very sincere…and at anytime he makes a promise of calling back or doing anything…he keeps to it.

    Recently we’re both having a club program…one of the programs that brought us together initially…and I told him I won’t be able to come cos of finances..surprisingly…he’s asking me to come along that he’ll foot the bills…

    And just today..i asked him if there’s any strings attached and he got really upset,however I explained to him why I was bein straightforward and he understood but made mention of me hurting his feelings by asking that kind of question. Problem is… I love this guy but I’m finding it difficult to believe he’s genuine…

    I really don’t know how else to tell if he really loves me or not.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 16, 2016 at 10:52 am

      If he is willing to pay for you to be part of the program, then it is likely that he is interested in continuing this relationship with you. That said, with or without his knowledge there are sure to be strings attached. If your relationship ends, then you can be certain that the program payments will end. However, if you love him and he loves you, then you should try to spend as much time together as possible.

  5. cece

    August 18, 2016 at 9:19 am

    I’m also in love with a Virgo male we met online at first I was not into until he asked was I married single or fianceI told him no so I asked him about himself what he married and he told me yes he was married for 10 years and been divorced for 3years he also has three and he works the only thing is it’s a long distance relationship so one day he asked me to be his girlfriend and then he mention wife to be.I told him I don’t mind but how is that going to work because I live in Miami he lives in Orlando and he’s also in love with me and I love him too I don’t know what to do

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 18, 2016 at 9:33 pm

      If the two of you are interested in taking your relationship to the next level, then spend as much time together as you are able. If you want to try to meet up with him, then it would be wise to do so. In the future, if your relationship is to move far forward, then determine how to have the two of you live together or in the same city. Take this time to have a serious conversation with your partner and determine your course of action.

  6. AquaGirl/CapRising

    August 15, 2016 at 8:08 am

    I have a zodiac compatibility question – in one of your post you advise not to base your relationship around the sign itself, but I just want to know what are the chances of a successful relationship with my Virgo man based on our zodiac compatibility if anyone knows.

    I am an Aquarius female (although what I read about my sign doesn’t seem to match up) with Capricorn rising, Taurus moon and Capricorn venus.

    I’m not sure of my Virgo man’s rising but he is a Pisces moon with Leo venus and mars.

    We seem to get along great and complement each other in every imaginable way. Where I am weak he is strong and vice versa. It seems almost too good to be true and I think that’s where my doubt is.

    When I read your article about Capricorn/Virgo love and Taurus/Virgo love this is us. But when I read about Aquarius/ Virgo love I can’t relate.

    This zodiac stuff is really confusing.

    But one thing I must say my Virgo man is amazing we’ve been seeing each other for 17 months now and each day our relationship just gets better and better. He hasn’t said that he loves me, I have – in my past relationships this would have concerned me but with him it doesn’t because his actions show me that he loves me. He is the sweetest, thoughtful, smart, reliable and funniest man I’ve ever met. Omg and in the bedroom they come to life, full of passion – he blows my mind every time.

    For those who are just starting out dating a virgo man, honestly in the beginning they do show bad communication skills and disappearing acts are present but stick with them, be patient, don’t rush, communicate with them your feelings and don’t be overly dramatic with emotions when you do it will scare them away. They don’t even realize that they are being distant. They are worth it.

    But if anyone can answer my compatibility question I would really appreciate it.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 16, 2016 at 2:58 pm

      Since the two of you have been together for seventeen months and seem to have a strong relationship, then it is likely that you have moved past the majority of troubles that may arise from zodiac differences. If you are noticing that your relationship does not match up to the signs, then it is a wise decision to focus on the relationship with the person rather than the relationship with the sign. It would be best for you to take this energy regarding your signs and putting it toward a surprise date or perhaps a romantic getaway. Enjoy your relationship as it seems to be flourishing and is enjoyable.

  7. San

    August 13, 2016 at 11:07 am

    Hi I’ve been dating a Virgo man for 3 months now and we both are going through divorce of 20+ years. He initially was the one to always text/call or come over. Around the second month he slowed up his contact. He’s a police officer and there had been a few shootings/deaths on his squad so I was there to support him through that but since then he’s not been the same. I’ve asked him over & over what’s going on w/him and his response is: divorce, finances, work, exhaustion, etc… He’s told me that he loves me, that we’re exclusive and so on but I just don’t feel like we’re in a relationship due to his non communcationation. He was a heavy communicator before & now barely a text/call a day. I’ve not seen him in 2weeks. I do love him but I just don’t know what to do about us. He accuses me of having other guy friends but yet he makes no time for me. He work 6 days a week from 9 am-9p. He works 2 jobs. Please help bcuz at the moment I’ve basically cut him off bcuz I don’t know what to do w/him.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 14, 2016 at 6:58 pm

      It is clear that he is extremely busy and emotionally drained. It is likely that you are also busy and possibly emotionally busy. Speak with him directly about your feelings directly and honestly. If he shares your feelings and wants to continue your relationship, then it would be wise to do so. If he does not share your feelings or does not want to further your relationship, then you know that you can end it. However, as he is complaining about you having male friends, then there is likely other concerns that you will have to deal with in the future. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future.

  8. Tanisha

    August 5, 2016 at 9:28 am

    I left a message for ivlgrl because I loved her advice. I am good at giving advice but it is very hard when it comes to myself. I think I over analyze everything and this causes me to want to rethink the whole situation. I am a Pisces woman who loves to share and be loved. My life revolves around making others happy because in this manner I find happiness. I am head over heels in love with a Virgo man who is 6 years older than me. I’ve known him for 4 years. In the beginning he had a preference and he would tell me that he loved with women who petite. His ideal woman at the time weighed 130lbs. I told him I love the way I look. I am very busty but I have a medium built frame very tall. I exercise 3 times a week and I love the results I am getting in keeping my body toned. Anyway about 6 months ago I suddenly became sick and wound up in ICU. I was not able to contact him. Because we talked everyday for the last 2 years I think it bothered him. My mom answered the phone while I was in the hospital and from this point he has been a total different person. I’m showered with attention. He doesn’t remind me anymore of being just friends and our conversations have gone from once a day to 3 times a day. 2 weeks ago we were intimate and this only caused me to fall even deeper in love with him. I think my biggest fear is me. I live 2 hours away from him and we don’t see each other on a regular basis but we do talk a lot. He calls me and I call him. Everything happens naturally. My thing with him is that I don’t have a problem with calling him if he doesn’t call me and I remind him if he misses a call like he does me. We established in the beginning as friends. As a woman we must be confident in ourselves and you must always have faith. I dealt with a Virgo in the past and I was friends with him for 14 years before we became intimate so you must be patient even though the previous Virgo was not the right one. I will never give up on Virgo Love. It is the best love in the world especially when you meet with the minds first. We have so much in common. I feel like he is the male version of me and I am the female version of him. I believe with all my heart he is my soulmate and that he will be my husband. I think my question was posed because I don’t like competition when it comes to someone I love. I do things intuitively and I don’t get a bad vibe from him. So in the end I am going to be patient and let everything just flow like it has been. Good luck all you lucky women who found love in Virgo.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 6, 2016 at 12:37 pm

      Thank you for your positive and uplifting story! We always appreciate reading comments from our readers that uplift our other readers, like lvlygrl, and share trust and goodness. It seems to me that your friend has developed a strong sense of compassion, and your time in the hospital brought up stronger feelings in him for you. If you are able to shorten the physical distance between the two of you, then it is likely that your relationship with continue to flourish and develop.

      • Tanisha

        August 8, 2016 at 1:47 pm

        Thank you for replying and for taking time out to create a website that women of all zodiac signs can share their stories. I’ve learned that patience and confidence brings about positive results when it comes to Virgo men. I’ve been in long distance relationships before and things went very well. I believe that if I take my time as I have we will be just fine. We both have very reliable vehicles. Every day is a new adventure when it comes to him. I feel 17 again butterflies and all. So amazing. Keep up the good work. I am working on somethings so you may see a website soon from me.

        • web admin

          web admin

          August 8, 2016 at 8:50 pm

          It sounds as though you are having a wonderful time! I appreciate that you shared your story with us and I am sure that our other readers will appreciate it as well. Feel free to always share your stories and tales from your relationship. We look forward to hearing about your work!

  9. lvlygrl

    July 8, 2016 at 9:57 pm

    One more thing; I’ve learned this with my husband and other virgo men, never ever make them think you are kissing their ass. They will only run away and feel more cocky/arrogant. If they seem to be distancing themselves from you…let them know it’s cool without blinking. They will see you as being confident and independent. This actually draws them in closer. Virgo men “may” be intelligent, but me being an aries woman can pick them apart everytime, by just giving them all the space they need and playing it cool whenever conflicts arise.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 9, 2016 at 2:22 pm

      It would be wise to never ‘kiss anyone’s ass’. There is no reason to give false statements or actions. It is lying and inherently damaging to a relationship. Always be honest with your partner, regardless of their horoscope symbol. Honesty and respect should always remain at the top of your priority list.

    • N.May.04

      July 11, 2016 at 10:45 pm

      I’m an aries too, and in the past I had only dated (and married one) fire signs – mostly… Now divorced and I met this Virgo man a few months ago, and I am soooo in love with now..!! All my perspective changed..! I understand I must be patient.. Honestly, I didn’t know I had this level of patience in me.. But surprisingly, I have survived and it has been worth it because he makes me very happy… But how do you handle the mood changes??? How to keep calm? I mean, I am a pretty calm type of aries, but I like to feel secure and not feel pushed away.. He says he loves me, I think he is wonderful like no other… But sometimes he goes off in his thoughts, I ask him if he’s ok, he says “yes” almost always or says he’s just tired and feeling anxious.. Obviously other circumstances might influence this behaivor, but how can u keep calm around this? I’m asking because sometimes the mood changes just makes me want to run for the hills.. It drives me nuts!! Is this something that will get better or is it a Virgos trait??

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 12, 2016 at 4:12 pm

        Instead of focusing on the traits defined by zodiac literature, focus on the real relationships that are in your life. Focus on your actions that you are choosing to take in response to the actions of your partners. Do not make decisions based on zodiac ideas as they are not always applicable. Be patient with your partner, and understand that he is being patient with you when you don’t realize it. Speak with him directly and honestly about your desires for your relationship. And most importantly, do not treat your partner as though he is an exact copy of a zodiac trait stereotype, treat him like a human being.

    • Tanisha

      August 5, 2016 at 8:58 am

      Hi Ivlygrl, I have a question for you. How do you stand firm when there are an entourage of other women trying to vie for his attention also. We are not in a relationship we started as friends and finally our friendship has gotten deeper. Even though I talk to him everyday sometimes 3 or more times a day I still feel like I’m still not in. In the end I do not want to rush him but I would like to know where I really stand since our last encounter we were intimate. Any advice is welcome

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 6, 2016 at 12:33 pm

        If you determine that you want to speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings for him, then do so. If you find that he is willing to develop a relationship with you, then speak with him about encouraging other women to give him attention. If you find that after speaking with him that he is still not interested in developing a relationship with you, then it would be most wise to move on from him. Remain positive as you move forward.

    • Kimikash

      August 6, 2016 at 10:25 am


      I am also an aries woman dating a Virgo man. We have been seeing each other for about 6 months now, and we just hit that point where he turned really serious and says we need to discuss either going all in (serious relationship leading to marriage) and break up. I really want to be with him but there is only one thing thats keeping me from fully committing to him, and that’s his “coolness.” He can be sweet and affectionate, but I’m really used to being with guys who always tell me how much they want me, etc. This Virgo guy is not like that at all and never uses his words to tell me he cares about me. He brings out my patient side, which I love, and appreciate that he makes me want to be more calm, a better listener, etc.

      How do you see the virgo man/aries woman dynamic in your relationship? Do you think it has potential to work. I think if we can meet in the middle (him showing more affection + me being a better listener and more stable for him) we can make it work. but if only we come to this compromise. I really like him a lot and think I’m falling for him.

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 6, 2016 at 2:23 pm

        If he has made it clear that you are at the point where you are either going to continue your relationship in a serious manner or break up, then it would be wise to make your determination based on the qualities that you bring out in each other. Speak with him directly and honestly about what you want your relationship to become and your need for compromise. If he agrees, then continue your relationship.

  10. mary

    June 9, 2016 at 4:16 am

    Hi I am a Gemini woman aged 27,and my Virgo man is seeing me for six months now. the problem is he is not communicate wit me often we can even pass two weeks without talking in any way, he will only talk to me when he wants to see me. he is 34 and single..we always meet at his palace we talk and ended up having sex(we only ended up having sex twice per those six months together). i love him and he says he loves me too but he don’t call or text me as a person he loves. and if i ask he always tells me that he is busy or the place his is at the moment there is no network. we last saw each other last week but from there no even a text or a call i tried to text him, but he didnt reply till today.. should i stop texting him? Would you say there is a future with him? what should i do? Please help..

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 9, 2016 at 9:37 am

      Some people are just terrible at texting or calling, so don’t assume based on just that that he does not like you. Unfortunately, you do have a larger problem. It is understandable if he is too busy or just not the type of person that texts. The problem is that you rarely see each other, so he really has to be good at communication to keep the relationship going. Start by telling him how you feel and see what he wants. If the situation does not change, you may have to move on. Unless he can see you more in person or learn how to be good at texting, you may not want to remain involved in this relationship because it will only stress you out. Good luck, Mary!

    • Missy

      July 5, 2016 at 9:17 am

      Same here girl! I feel he likes me but he can be weeks without texting… and I always find out things last minutes like he didnt have any intention to let me know. He seems cold and distant but when we are together he holds my hand and caresses me and is sooo dreamy! that’s why i cant get him out of my head

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 5, 2016 at 7:06 pm

        It is not wise to focus on developing a relationship with someone who does not respect you simply because he is ‘dreamy’. It is a shallow and unhealthy foundation for a relationship.

    • lvlygrl

      July 8, 2016 at 9:46 pm

      Mary, I’ve been married to a virgo man for 14 years. I think your best approach will be to let him know that you will like him to communicate more, so that you’ll feel like y’all actually have a relationship. Afterwards, let him take the lead. DO NOT and I mean DO NOT! Contact him. Let him show you what you mean to him. If he still doesn’t communicate as you wish, then it’s apparent you don’t mean much to him. Move on expeditiously!

      • web admin

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        July 9, 2016 at 2:18 pm

        Mary, if you make the decision to use the no contact method, then it is clear that you have a lack of respect for this person. If that is your decision, then block him and break off all emotional ties to him. It is not fair to anyone to be treated in such a way. Either speak with him about your feelings and demand his respect, or remove yourself from his life.

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