Virgo Man in Love

By on April 27, 2014

Always having to recheck their work, seeking the best route possible, and spending countless hours perfecting every aspect of their life until it meets their standards- yes, this sums up the Virgo individual to a tee. But don’t think persistence and dedication is only used in business and school situations. Virgoans are extremely interested in their partners as well, and will ensure their lover is happy at all times. Is there anything else hiding underneath this man’s precise personality?


The Type of Woman Virgo Needs

A Virgoan isn’t persuaded by a pretty face, nor does he find himself enthralled with a woman who’s dazzling with jewels and fancy clothes. The Virgo man looks beyond the looks, seeking something more. He needs a stable, secure, and confident woman who knows her worth and doesn’t rely on her looks to get her way. In fact, a Virgo man will most always choose a beautiful and strong personality over a good-looking female any day. A Virgoan will sit back and assess his potential woman for some time before making the decision to pursue her- he must first make sure you are not some ditzy woman with a pretty face, but rather a smart gal with a head on her shoulders and a confident personality that is easily recognizable in a crowd. He also needs a woman who can boost his confidence and ego, and a lady with a wild side that can bring him out of his rigid shell a bit.


Virgo in a Relationship

The Virgo man is always striving for perfection, and will review his work endlessly until he finishes it with utmost perfection- and this includes his love life, too. In fact, a Virgo man has a very difficult time falling in love. This is because the Virgoan will spend a multitude of his time assessing the relationship, seeking out every pro and con of the woman/relationship and see if there are any flaws or cracks worth mending. It is only when he has decided that the relationship has met his standards of perfection that he will allow himself to become comfortable enough to fall in love. The positive side to this? He will be faithful to the woman he loves.

Virgoans are not only known for their faithfulness, but their thoughtfulness as well. They will always (and we mean always) make time for you, even though his days might be booked with full time work and part time schooling. The Virgoan will take special precautions and plan out his entire schedule to make sure he’s home to make his spouse dinner and play with the children during all of his free time.

It’s not often that you will see a Virgo man do anything extremely out-of-the-blue or romantic. His sensible nature and relaxed relationship style sees no need for extravagant schmoozing or romantic candlelit dinners on the ocean shore. However, don’t let that sway you from dating a Virgo man. Remember, he is the type of guy who is willing to do anything for his lady and makes time for her no matter what. He’s not high maintenance in the slightest and is in it for the long haul, which means you can’t put your fears of ‘hit it and quit it’ to rest.



Virgo in the Bedroom

During the first encounter with a Virgo man, you might notice one thing: his extreme rigidness. Virgoans don’t have a natural confidence about them, and this lack of confidence extends into the bedroom. You won’t expect any surprises or wild encounters with a Virgo man, as every aspect of the event is planned carefully beforehand and done so in the correct order during the night.

However, as the Virgo man becomes more comfortable with his lover, the rigidness will disappear and it will be like making love to entirely different person. Suddenly the surprises appear and you see a new found passion and wild drive in your Virgo lover. You will soon notice that his careful attention to detail and his strive for perfection can be used in a spectacular, pleasing way.

One way to get the Virgoan to come out of his shell and love you more deeply is to reassure him often of what a great job he is doing. As we’ve mentioned before, Virgoans are constantly seeking to be perfect in everything they are doing, and hearing from you that their work is perfect will boost his confidence and help him to relax more under the sheets.

Negative Side of a Virgo Man

The biggest negative trait a Virgo man possesses is his overcritical attitude. As he’s always seeking perfection in everything he does, he will certainly criticize every aspect of his daily routine until it meets his (sometimes impossible) requests. Many women find this to be annoying and this critical attitude can sometimes show up during the course of the relationship, which sometimes may lead to a messy and hurtful breakup.

The Virgo man is also a bit picky and harsh when it comes to choosing his mate, which can appear as judgmental. Virgoans will sit back and watch before making a move on a woman for the sole purpose of deeming whether or not she is ‘good enough’ for him. Of course, nobody is fond of a gentlemen who is extremely judgmental and picky when it comes to choosing a lady, so this can be a big put off for many woman.

Last but not least, a Virgo is very stuck in his ways and won’t change his mind for anything or anyone. Once he has an idea in his head, he will stick to it no matter what. This is a part of his overcritical attitude and constant need for perfection in every aspect of his life. This includes his love life, so don’t bother trying to change your Virgo man into something that he’s not- it simply won’t work.


Virgo and Capricorn: This is truly a match made in Heaven. The both of you are extremely driven and determined with everything you do and give 100 percent to your partner at all times. The both of you are seeking long term relationships and take relationships extremely seriously. You will be able to work through problems and always conquer your issues for a stress-free relationships that is almost perfect.


Virgo and Taurus: Another great match as the two of you are very secure in yourselves and are looking for something that is built to last. This relationship will flourish as the two of you strive for a seemingly perfect and limitless relationship. Just make sure the two of you get plenty of fun and exciting activities in, as your realistic mindsets can leave you lacking a bit of pizazz.

Virgo Man in a Nutshell

A virgo man is looking for one thing: perfection, whether it’s in his work, his friends, or his relationships. He wants the perfect woman who can boost his confidence and stay by his side no matter what. He is a driven, determined, and faithful individual who will stop at nothing to make sure his wife and children are happy at all times.


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  1. becky

    May 30, 2017 at 6:38 pm

    I am 47 and the first time I dated a Virgo man was for 2 1/2 months until I ended it a few weeks ago. Trust me, it will be the last time I ever date a Virgo man again! I am a Libra and read up on all the warnings of a Virgo man/Libra woman union. They were all true. This guy was sweet in the beginning but way too shy and reserved for this social butterfly Libra gal. I tried to make it work…until…we had our first argument. He was nearly an hour late for a date night and totally unapologetic. When I confronted him, he freaked out, yelling at me in a crowded restaurant. That wasn’t the end of it either. He stewed in his anger into the next day. How dare I demand he not be late and to apologize? He had zero humility and it was as if he was high on his self-righteous anger. I apologized for my part (confronting him, which in hindsight I shouldn’t have apologized). Oh no! He wasn’t having it. He was seething with rage, which was ridiculous. You would have thought I killed his first born or cheated on him. He was hell bent on torturing me verbally. He was way too particular for me anyways. Everything had to be just right. I broke up with him and am not looking back. Good riddance. His response to me breaking up with him was acting like a king baby. He blocked my email when I wanted a t-shirt returned to me. Eventually, he mailed it to me. I will NEVER engage with a Virgo man ever again. I think the only good Virgo men are those who’ve had serious counseling for their issues, especially if they have family of origin issues, which this guy definitely had. Now I know why I’ve never been attracted to a Virgo man in the past. They are stubborn, OCD-like with certain things, judgmental, and hold resentments forever.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 31, 2017 at 8:57 am

      It sounds like you are lucky to get out of that relationship. He does not sound like someone who would be easy to be with or worth your effort. Thank goodness you found this out earlier rather than later. Thanks for commenting, Becky!

  2. NeeNee

    May 2, 2017 at 11:32 pm

    So I’m a Taurus woman who’s dated a Virgo in the past and it wasn’t a good match AT ALL. The worst relationship I’d ever been in actually, I was the best woman to this man and his family and pulled a disappearing act on me out of no where. A few years passed and I got married, I ran into him and he apologized for everything. Doted on how beautiful of a woman I was and how much he actually appreciated me. Now, I’m separated from my husband and recently became friends with a Virgo man again. It’s been over 10 years might I add. I actually, was totally against even being friends with him. However, he’s the total opposite of my ex and we just mesh so well. Now he’s being distant, the communication is getting light and he answers what he wants when he wants. I’m working so hard to help him pull his life back together and he’s changing. Should I just be my patient self and wait to see if this changes or should I just focus on reconciling with my husband?

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 3, 2017 at 2:11 pm

      Perhaps it would be best for you to take this time to focus on yourself. Give yourself some time to live alone and without a partner. This will help to determine what you want for your future. It is very difficult to have a successful relationship with someone if you think about other people. Have a great day, NeeNee!

  3. Roxy

    March 14, 2017 at 8:03 am

    Hi there am a Leo woman I met my Virgo guy 3 months seemed a match made in heaven my dream guy ..very practical , intelligent & funny.

    Now last saturday I went out with Ma friends he also went out with his friends. At night abt 11pm decided to call him since miss him . No answer

    He only called me on Monday with no apology not returning My missed calls he talks as if nothin happened so I said to him politely that I didn’t like the no return on missed call. But he changed topic immediately not entertaining wat I was saying.
    For the whole week he has been distant no calls only will answer wat I ask . Got all cold & distant no communication on daily basis as we used to .

    Did I scare him away by expressing how I felt ? Bt we did not argue , should I keep my distance as well jst afraid the relationship might come to an end .
    & when would I knw if he’s no longer interested will he say it upfront ?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 15, 2017 at 2:58 pm

      You may have scared him away by expressing yourself. However, take this as a blessing. You do not want to be with someone who does not respect your feelings. Keep your distance and allow him to fade from your thoughts. If he reaches out to you and seems caring and you still want a relationship with him, then develop a relationship with him at that time. Have a great day, Roxy!

    • KeKe Baby

      March 17, 2017 at 1:25 pm

      I’m also a Leo, and my Virgo ex pulled this on me. Come to find out, in the days he was ignoring me, he was with his girlfriend. He ended up marrying her, and he is currently going through a divorce. He has since been call/texting all day and night. Virgo men make time for what they want to do. If he is not making time for you, me may be otherwise occupied. I understand the connection, as he and I were like rice and butter, peanut butter and jelly, and I was devastated not hearing from him. Now he is begging to be with me, admitting his faults, and trying to change. Virgos will always admit when they are wrong, and in the end, if he is interested and made a mistake, u will be the first to know after he realizes it.

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 18, 2017 at 12:40 am

        Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. It is certain that your words will help someone in the future. Please feel free to share any advice that you have about relationships in the future. Have a great day, Keke!

  4. girb

    March 1, 2017 at 9:54 am

    Hey..ive been with my Virgo guy for about 3 years and although its been rocky we had some good times. A few days ago we got into an argument about us not spending enough time together because all he does is work. He got so angry that he ended up calling it quits. The next day he called said he was sorry he loves me and he still wants to be with me. The problem is I’m not sure if us getting back together would be a good thing. Like I said the relationship has been tough, so at this point I’m not sure if I should let it go or give it another shot.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 2, 2017 at 8:36 am

      Only you can decide that–and you should probably decide that soon. He wants to get back together now, but he will most likely start to heal and move on if you give him too much time. You just have to decide if you think that this relationship is going to go anywhere. Could you see yourself marrying him and spending a life together with him forever? If not, you should move on. If you can only imagine yourself being with him forever, then you should get back together now. What do you want?

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