Virgo Man in Love

By on April 27, 2014

Always having to recheck their work, seeking the best route possible, and spending countless hours perfecting every aspect of their life until it meets their standards- yes, this sums up the Virgo individual to a tee. But don’t think persistence and dedication is only used in business and school situations. Virgoans are extremely interested in their partners as well, and will ensure their lover is happy at all times. Is there anything else hiding underneath this man’s precise personality?


The Type of Woman Virgo Needs

A Virgoan isn’t persuaded by a pretty face, nor does he find himself enthralled with a woman who’s dazzling with jewels and fancy clothes. The Virgo man looks beyond the looks, seeking something more. He needs a stable, secure, and confident woman who knows her worth and doesn’t rely on her looks to get her way. In fact, a Virgo man will most always choose a beautiful and strong personality over a good-looking female any day. A Virgoan will sit back and assess his potential woman for some time before making the decision to pursue her- he must first make sure you are not some ditzy woman with a pretty face, but rather a smart gal with a head on her shoulders and a confident personality that is easily recognizable in a crowd. He also needs a woman who can boost his confidence and ego, and a lady with a wild side that can bring him out of his rigid shell a bit.


Virgo in a Relationship

The Virgo man is always striving for perfection, and will review his work endlessly until he finishes it with utmost perfection- and this includes his love life, too. In fact, a Virgo man has a very difficult time falling in love. This is because the Virgoan will spend a multitude of his time assessing the relationship, seeking out every pro and con of the woman/relationship and see if there are any flaws or cracks worth mending. It is only when he has decided that the relationship has met his standards of perfection that he will allow himself to become comfortable enough to fall in love. The positive side to this? He will be faithful to the woman he loves.

Virgoans are not only known for their faithfulness, but their thoughtfulness as well. They will always (and we mean always) make time for you, even though his days might be booked with full time work and part time schooling. The Virgoan will take special precautions and plan out his entire schedule to make sure he’s home to make his spouse dinner and play with the children during all of his free time.

It’s not often that you will see a Virgo man do anything extremely out-of-the-blue or romantic. His sensible nature and relaxed relationship style sees no need for extravagant schmoozing or romantic candlelit dinners on the ocean shore. However, don’t let that sway you from dating a Virgo man. Remember, he is the type of guy who is willing to do anything for his lady and makes time for her no matter what. He’s not high maintenance in the slightest and is in it for the long haul, which means you can’t put your fears of ‘hit it and quit it’ to rest.


Virgo in the Bedroom

During the first encounter with a Virgo man, you might notice one thing: his extreme rigidness. Virgoans don’t have a natural confidence about them, and this lack of confidence extends into the bedroom. You won’t expect any surprises or wild encounters with a Virgo man, as every aspect of the event is planned carefully beforehand and done so in the correct order during the night.

However, as the Virgo man becomes more comfortable with his lover, the rigidness will disappear and it will be like making love to entirely different person. Suddenly the surprises appear and you see a new found passion and wild drive in your Virgo lover. You will soon notice that his careful attention to detail and his strive for perfection can be used in a spectacular, pleasing way.

One way to get the Virgoan to come out of his shell and love you more deeply is to reassure him often of what a great job he is doing. As we’ve mentioned before, Virgoans are constantly seeking to be perfect in everything they are doing, and hearing from you that their work is perfect will boost his confidence and help him to relax more under the sheets.

Negative Side of a Virgo Man

The biggest negative trait a Virgo man possesses is his overcritical attitude. As he’s always seeking perfection in everything he does, he will certainly criticize every aspect of his daily routine until it meets his (sometimes impossible) requests. Many women find this to be annoying and this critical attitude can sometimes show up during the course of the relationship, which sometimes may lead to a messy and hurtful breakup.

The Virgo man is also a bit picky and harsh when it comes to choosing his mate, which can appear as judgmental. Virgoans will sit back and watch before making a move on a woman for the sole purpose of deeming whether or not she is ‘good enough’ for him. Of course, nobody is fond of a gentlemen who is extremely judgmental and picky when it comes to choosing a lady, so this can be a big put off for many woman.

Last but not least, a Virgo is very stuck in his ways and won’t change his mind for anything or anyone. Once he has an idea in his head, he will stick to it no matter what. This is a part of his overcritical attitude and constant need for perfection in every aspect of his life. This includes his love life, so don’t bother trying to change your Virgo man into something that he’s not- it simply won’t work.


Virgo and Capricorn: This is truly a match made in Heaven. The both of you are extremely driven and determined with everything you do and give 100 percent to your partner at all times. The both of you are seeking long term relationships and take relationships extremely seriously. You will be able to work through problems and always conquer your issues for a stress-free relationships that is almost perfect.

Virgo and Taurus: Another great match as the two of you are very secure in yourselves and are looking for something that is built to last. This relationship will flourish as the two of you strive for a seemingly perfect and limitless relationship. Just make sure the two of you get plenty of fun and exciting activities in, as your realistic mindsets can leave you lacking a bit of pizazz.

Virgo Man in a Nutshell

A virgo man is looking for one thing: perfection, whether it’s in his work, his friends, or his relationships. He wants the perfect woman who can boost his confidence and stay by his side no matter what. He is a driven, determined, and faithful individual who will stop at nothing to make sure his wife and children are happy at all times.


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