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    Taurus Man in Love

    By on April 28, 2014

    If there is one thing a Taurus knows all about, it is persistence and dedication. A taurus man will work tirelessly until he reaches his goal, but in a steady and calm manner in which he can hold his dignity. He’s somewhat of a shy man, but that doesn’t mean he’s not an absolute charmer. Ladies seem to gravitate towards his hard-working and charming attitude, however the Taurus man only wants one classy lady in his life. His ultimate goal? To achieve his dreams with a good woman by his side and a comfortable, cozy home awaiting him after work each evening.


     The Type of Woman Taurus Needs

    Taurus has a very loving and romantic quality, and therefore requires a wonderful and sweet woman who won’t take advantage of his kind acts. He is generally seeking a lady with a bright, perky, and loving attitude to match his sensual qualities, and he truly cares more about a woman’s meekness and fun personality than perfect hair and expensive clothing. He needs a woman who can be upfront and not play games with him. Taurus likes his woman to tell it like it is in a blunt fashion so they can work things out, rather than beat around the bush.

    large-1 Taurus in a Relationship

    Opening doors for his woman, buying her a corsage for the first date, and leaving her with a kiss on the cheek is some of the old fashioned schmoozing ways of a Taurus. He loves to treat his woman with respect and give her his undivided attention at all times. However, Taurus is a thinker and doesn’t want to rush into a relationship. He would rather take the slow route and take each day with ease. This might be shocking to some woman who prefer a rushed romance, so knowing this factor is key.

    A woman who dates a Taurus will notice one thing in particular: he is an exceptionally loving man who is always pulling romantic tricks out of his sleeve. One night it may be a surprise dinner on the beach, while another night is a romantic getaway to his favorite cabin in the snowy mountains. If there is one thing for sure, you can really never know what to expect when it comes to a Taurus man. He wants to surprise his woman with amazing acts of romance and kindness, treating her like a princess every chance he gets.

    But wait- there’s another amazing quality about a Taurus man in a relationship- his consistency and closeness that he needs from his lady. It’s true, you won’t find a Taurus man cheating often. He would much rather build a concrete relationship he can depend on, never seeking out flighty relationships. Even in the worst of moments you can expect a Taurus to want to talk things out and work through a problem to keep the relationship alive rather than breaking at the first issue. And even though his temper may seem like a bad trait of the Taurus, his temper is really just a way of showing his deep-rooted passion for his woman- so don’t be surprised if the Taurus seems angry or jealous at times. Simple reassurance and a kiss on the lips will ease his mind.

    Taurus in Bed

    The Taurus man is a sensual fellow who is always polite and respectful to women. But in the bedroom, you can surely see a different side of a Taurus as he reveals his unbrittled passion and strength. This man loves to please his woman in every way possible and thinks of sex as a fine art, and every masterpiece must be enjoyed and perfected to a tee.

    Don’t be surprised if a sexual encounter with a Taurus is prolonged adventure of passion and seduction. The Taurus man doesn’t like to do things quick. He would much rather take his time on a woman, exploring each and every crevice of her body as if it were a beautiful sculpture. He pays close attention to the wants and needs of his lady and will stop at nothing to ensure her ultimate satisfaction is met. And that’s where we see his polite and passionate side arise once again.

    Needless to say, a (long) night with a Taurus is nothing short of a splendid sexual adventure that lasts much longer than a typical night between the sheets.

    Negative Side of a Taurus Man

    The biggest problem with a Taurus man is he can be a bit stubborn. Although he will always be respectful and nice with his stubbornness, he is almost always set in his ways and won’t change for anyone. Of course a lot of women see this as an issue as a Taurus man won’t even listen to someone else’s opinion if it doesn’t match his own, which can sometimes lead to a nasty breakup situation.

    Another negative trait commonly seen in a Taurus man is their self-oriented nature. They oftentimes have a goal set in their mind and will continue to strive for this particular goal no matter what- even if it means missing out on an important event with his woman. This type of behavior may come across as rude and narcissistic, although the Taurus believes he’s doing what’s best in his mind.

    In a relationship, the Taurus man is easily made jealous. This can translate to possessiveness from a woman, or thinking that he is too controlling. His passionate and loving nature expects his lady to be by his side at all times, and even the simplest flirts or gestures may upset him.


    Taurus and Taurus: This is essentially the perfect match. The two of you share the same qualities, including dedication, reliability, passion, and sensuality. Even your stubborn and inflexible qualities can work together to create the perfect harmony. The pair is likely to be successful in every aspect and cling to each other like glue, oftentimes leading to marriage.

    Taurus and Virgo: Likely to be a longterm relationship, the Taurus and the Virgo have no problem helping each other and working together in harmony. You both have driven personalities that could lead to a rewarding future.

    Taurus and Scorpio: The two of you are actually very different and you probably won’t have much in common. However, you feed off of each other beautifully and connect on a deeper level that isn’t skin deep. If the two of you can work through each other’s negative traits and have plenty of fun, the relationship can surely be rewarding.


    Taurus Man in a Nutshell

    A Taurus man is a very driven person who looks at things in an intellectual level, sitting back and plotting the perfect plan to reach his goal. He’s extremely polite and takes the old fashioned route when it comes to pleasing his lady. He is always respectful, although sometimes a bit stubborn. He wants to create a relationship that lasts and he always puts 100 percent of his love and dedication into his lady. Wanting to grow a foundation that will last a lifetime, Taurus is seeking a woman who will appreciate his romantic gestures and will be as sweet and gentle as a butterfly to him.


    1. Idris Tonković

      March 6, 2018 at 11:57 pm

      I’ve been in a LDR with a Taurus for two years. it was great when we were together in person but the problems were always in communication when we were not. he was texting more at the begining and then I took over that role. he always replied and also texted a lot. however, i expected from him to give me more attention in texting, without telling him that. so when it was ‘his turn’ to write I waited and one whole month passed. I texted him for valentine’s not saying why he didn’t contact me at all. Before that, he had some ambiguous statuses on social networks that showed he was upset (that i didnt text?). However, he just replied to my text that for him it’s another day like others and then stopped reading my texts where I was asking what’s wrong. I even came to his home to ask him what’s going on and tell him i love him but he was looking angry and cold and said he wants to be alone. he broke up with me saying it’s better like this. so he doesn’t want to say that we both made a silly mistake and he rather ruins a good relationship? he’s a really good guy with a good heart but terrible mood swings when we’re not together. what should i do?

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 7, 2018 at 5:24 pm

        He has decided to end this relationship. He has shared his thought and feelings with you. Allow thoughts of him to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Take this time to determine what you want with your future without him. Share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will ensure that positive people and energy will enter into your life. Have a great day, Idris!

    2. Elena

      February 8, 2018 at 6:33 am

      to make a long story short I’m an aries who has been in a long distance relationship with a taurus. I am prepared now to move, but he started seeing a girl about a year ago, he wants to break up but is trying to not hurt her, which it will no matter what. H wants to marry me. and I am trying to be patient, and I don’t want him to do something too quickly that would hurt his integrity. I just hope he can do what he needs to do so we can be together.

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 8, 2018 at 7:20 pm

        He is in a relationship at this time. There is no reason to attempt to harm his partner. If he plans on breaking up with her and nourishing a relationship with you, then he should do so. If not, then he is choosing to harm her. Determine if you believe these actions are acceptable for him to take. Have a great day, Elena!

    3. Neva

      February 1, 2018 at 12:27 am

      I am a Virgo. I am dating a Taurus man who is 14 yrs younger than me. We met each other while I was helping a friend move and he was helping too. when I saw him I was instantly attracted to him. So I told my friend who told me he asked about me too. I knew he was younger but I didn’t think he was 23. I’m 37 but we hit it off and ended that night with a kiss. Since then we have been together almost every day. He comes to see me or I go to his house. He says he’s been in a relationship with an older woman before and talks about his ex and his life. His dreams. His past. We have got very close. I have been staying at his house for the past 4 weeks because of an issue with my house. He offered me a place to stay. I have 3 kids… One with me at his house. He has no kids. He is really sweet and treats me like a queen. He is kind to my daughter as well. He works alot so I don’t see him much during the week. I am self employed and work from home. I cook for him and keep his home clean. We make time to make love some days or he just pleases me or holds me when he makes it in from work. And his couple days off. I do feel things are moving fast and he is very blunt about his feelings. If he needs space or a kiss or whatever he needs to express he does. He says he’s not ready to be boyfriend girlfriend but that’s what I think we are. Or should be. He even tells me he hasn’t been with another female since we began dating. It’s been 3 months since we met. Will he ever commit or should I just taper it off and become just a friend?

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 1, 2018 at 9:09 pm

        It is certainly possible that he is interested in nourishing this relationship. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Neva!

    4. Kimberley

      January 25, 2018 at 8:32 pm

      I’ll make it short as possible. Started dating not long after taurus man became single. We hit it off almost straight away like we known each other for years. He was very interested then he started to get distant, he came back again and again saying he missed me. He said he wants to sort his finances and head out since he had only recently become single. He kept saying he seen a future but feels things are so intense he needs some space. His texting habits aren’t great he responds quickly and always short. When we’re together he can’t keep his hands off me and asks alot about my family and about me. He opens up about his past and his family. I’ve met his brother he lives with and he has asked mutual friends about me.

      Just wondering, as I would like to be with him what should I do? Never met a taurus man before and feel so confused. He has recently asked for space as he said he feels we are very intense at the moment. Any help or advice would be appreciated.

      Confused cancer lady. His 32 and I’m 27.

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 25, 2018 at 9:18 pm

        He is interested in developing a relationship with you. He likely feels a strong emotional connection with you. He may be confused or uncertain about his feelings. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Kimberly!

    5. Kimberley

      January 25, 2018 at 8:31 pm

      I’ll make it short as possible. Started dating not long after taurus man became single. We hit it off almost straight away like we known each other for years. He was very interested then he started to get distant, he came back again and again saying he missed me. He said he wants to sort his finances and head out since he had only recently become single. He kept saying he seen a future but feels things are so intense he needs some space. His texting habits aren’t great he responds quickly and always short. When we’re together he can’t keep his hands off me and asks alot about my family and about me. He opens up about his past and his family. I’ve met his brother he lives with and he has asked mutual friends about me.

      Just wondering, as I would like to be with him what should I do? Never met a taurus man before and feel so confused. He has recently asked for space as he said he feels we are very intense at the moment. Any help or advice would be appreciated.

      Confused cancer lady. His 32 and I’m 27.

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 25, 2018 at 9:17 pm

        He is interested in developing a relationship with you. He likely feels a strong emotional connection with you. He may be confused or uncertain about his feelings. Take this time to determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Kimberly!

    6. Ellen

      January 5, 2018 at 5:26 am

      I’m a cancer woman who use to work with a taurus. He was in fact my boss and married. 1 month in the job I had a feeling that he likes me. he would show the signs even in front of his wife. She probably knew it too. It was getting really awkward for me. but lately I also started liking him since he was so strong with all those positive taurean qualities. We were similar in a lot of ways and he would bring those up too in our conversations. He is very respectful of me and has always been kind and gentle. I had recently quit my job and told him about my feeling over a text message.

      I do not understand why would he pursue me while being married and what was he expecting? He is very honest and a person of integrity so I am not able to understand his motives.

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 6, 2018 at 5:53 pm

        He is married and you are aware that he is married. His actions should not influence yours. You should not attempt to establish a relationship with him. There is no reason to continue communicating with him, as you are no longer his employee and he is married. Have a great day, Ellen!

    7. Deedee

      July 21, 2017 at 8:36 am

      I’m with a Taurus guy, who I feel as a Libra woman became controlling. At first it was a mind blowing relationship, amazing and fell so in love with him. Then, two years he became jealous and controlling. Over the years I really did not realize it because I was in in that I slowing lost my friends. They knew I loved him and understood. He on the other hand thought my friend and family were not there enough for me. Well, I tried to break up with him and he was not having that. Accused me of cheating and being trashy. Well I found out he was married and confronted him and it got worst. He has gotten violent and turned blame on me. Never giving an answers and saying he loves me, I need to see that. I have never been in a situation like this or ever except something like this. But I feel I fell too hard in love with other Taurus traits of being in love. Now I really do not know how to break this. People around me see and tell me and I see want needs to be done. But my heart just wont let go. Also, everytime I try to discuss this to him it ends up in a horrible fight and tears. How to let go or will this work if I stick with it?

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 21, 2017 at 8:37 pm

        End this relationship. He is a cheater and a liar. There is no more reason for you to continue a relationship with him. This person does not deserve your time. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future without him. Look inward, become closer to your family, or develop a relationship with someone else. Speak with someone about your thoughts and feelings. Best of luck, Deedee!

    8. Courtney

      May 11, 2017 at 2:03 pm

      I’m a Scorpio and after 2years I admitted to my friend that I do love this guy a lot. I’m not I knew love but I do love him. We have been sleeping with each other for 2years. We arnt official but I know its going that way. He had a gf but I know it’s wrong but feels so right. I can tell when hey say he takes things slow. And does look for a woman with a warm heart and top personality and looks. He always calls me pretty and beautiful. We started off as friends and Iv never clicked with someone so strong and straight away, he’s different from other lads. He cares for me and I know he loves me as well. He has said he loves me to bits and it’s took him 2years to admit it and it’s going slow but right direction. The other day he said to me her could smell me on the stairs and I was at the bottom my friend told me that’s a sign of strong connection and love to know what I smell like. We see each other a lot and he stays over at mine. And our time is special he cuddles me, holds my face while kissing me looks me in the eyes and tells me I’m so pretty or beautiful. We had a massive row this time last year and didn’t speak but something brought us back. It’s hard to explain Iv never have this magnet connection with any lad I have ever met. He’s just so sweet and amazing I’m building my career and he always tells me how proud he is of me. And is mad it’s says we have nothing in common but when we talk we like same music, we spoke about old cartoons we watched as kids, we like Same programs , we love cars and football the list is massive. We like to work hard for what we have, spoil each other, wear designer stuff ect. We can have such a laugh it’s amazing. He makes me feel so special and for once I can act myself and weird around him and he just laughs at me and says in so funny and cute. He does the same to me I can’t help but laugh at his weirdness. And for our sex life wow it’s off he charts how he makes me feel between the sheets I feel alive, he just think I’m the most amazing , sexiest girl ever. Just ca t explain how our chemistry is off the charts. I’d love to be with him but I want him to come to me in his own time. I know it’s not eighth but it feels so right. I ca tell he’s not happy but I can’t push him to decide that he will figure it out for himself and he already is. He’s just for a lot of ties and that. I know I’ll never find a lad like him. And he gets jealous of other lads. I joked around today saying I can get any guy and he said I can’t I said I can I’m single and he said yeah but they will be anging. And I know that’s jealousy cause when he says a girl is good looking I say she anging that’s my jealousy. And he said he would never wanna lose me or drop me, I’m special to him. He loves and cares for me I see it with him and he’s admitted it to me it’s took this long but it’s nice to know it’s more than just sex. I know I’m coming here for advice but I am generally happy and not been happy like I am for ages and he’s been their for me through tough times with my family being poorly he’s picked me up. So I do believe tarus men are Scorpios soul mates

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 12, 2017 at 8:43 am

        Hopefully, it ends up working out for you. If he is still in a relationship though, I would not count on him leaving her. People can love more than one person at once, so he could love his girlfriend just as much. Until he takes the step of leaving her, you can’t really be sure that he is yours. Hopefully, things work out for the best. Good luck!

    9. PrivateCancer

      April 16, 2017 at 8:50 am

      Generally, I get along well with Tauruses because they give good advice and are cool mellow people that don’t look for trouble. I recently ended a friendship/love relationship with a Taurus of one year that swooped me off my feet with just sweet words while I was divorced from hubby. Of course he knew the right things to say and got me. Then he started distancing himself as if I didn’t exist, and I was ok with it because I wasn’t trying to fall too deep in my Cancerian emotions. I preferred friendship. Although he distanced himself, if I ever messaged him, he would respond. But he hardly ever initiated it. When we met, he was dry and puritanical but cordial. By that time the emotions of the whole 1 year ordeal had overwhelmed me, and once I let him know that the emotions was overwhelming, he said he knew already and later on asked me to borrow him some money. That helped my emotions take a huge halt because I immediately lost respect for him, picked an argument, insulted him and stopped the friendship. Rant over.

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 16, 2017 at 9:14 am

        It sounds like your actions were harsh. It would be best not to allow your zodiac to be a crutch for any emotional outbursts that you had. There was no reason to be rude to someone who was down on their luck. Perhaps it would be beneficial for you to take this time to look at your actions and what consequences they have on your relationships. Good day, Cancer.

    10. LaVonne

      March 31, 2017 at 5:33 pm

      I am a Sag my guy is a Taurus. We have been together for 2 years. He is the most awesome man. Our sexual chemistry is off the charts. We talk about everything. He is my best friend, my lover, and my soul mate. I wouldn’t change one thing about him.

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 1, 2017 at 9:34 am

        You are so lucky to have found the right partner! Congrats and thanks for commenting, LaVonne!

    11. sophie

      March 26, 2017 at 4:03 am

      Hi, im libra girl. 2 months ago my officemate, a taurus man jokingly shout that he wants to be my roomate (we are on a discussion about vacation trip). After that i am thinking did he attracted to me? so the trip goes on but we did not be a roomate because i promised to my girl officemate. after got back i invited all of officemate to follow my instagram. He is the first of them follows me! then he view all of my story. Im interested in him too but dont know what i have to do. Could you ask your husbands’ opinion, what is my next step to make him come to me, text me or ask me out? I want to keep him interested and pursue me, approach me. I want to be his.

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 26, 2017 at 9:29 am

        It sounds like you are already doing everything write. I would start by texting him or making the first move yourself. If there is one thing I’ve learned from being with a Taurus, it’s that he is a terrible mind reader. It sounds like the guy likes you, so he may just be hesitant to make the next move because a) you work together and b) he does not know how you feel. If you make a move by texting him yourself or asking if he wants to do something after work (it doesn’t have to be a date, it could just be hanging out), it will help him realize that you like him and then he will make a move. Good luck, Sophie!

    12. tin

      March 21, 2017 at 5:59 pm

      im a scorpio and im in love with a taurus guy, i am so keen but im having a hard time to read his mind, ?

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 22, 2017 at 9:02 am

        It can be very difficult knowing what someone else is thinking. If you like someone, it can seem impossible that they like you back, so it is easy to misread the signs. For the moment though, there is no way to know if he is interested or not. If you like him, keep talking to him and try flirting. He may be just as uncertain, so flirting a bit will hopefully give him the confidence that he needs to make a move. Good luck, Tin!

    13. Hannah

      March 9, 2017 at 7:33 am

      I’m an older gemini woman who is falling in love with a young taurus man. Unfortunately we crossed paths right before he moved across the United States. We talk everyday, and he says he loves me. But he won’t be back in months. Do I wait? Im worried he’ll find someone, and I’ll get hurt waiting around.

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 9, 2017 at 2:48 pm

        If you want to establish a relationship with him at this time, then continue to speak with him and share your thoughts and feelings. Speak to him about developing a monogamous relationship. If he does not respond like you want him to, then allow thoughts of a relationship with him to fade. You do not need to wait for him unless you want to do so. Have a great day, Hannah!

    14. Andrianna

      March 6, 2017 at 8:01 am

      I am in relationship with a Taurus man and yes he is stubborn. But yes to him being loving, compassionate. This man wi give me his last just to see me happy. I must say I cherish him a lot and is grateful for him. At this day we are still going strong. And I am a Gemini lady. One thing I must say its difficult understanding him at times but gradually we are getting there. So yes most of what this article mentioned is true.

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 6, 2017 at 2:19 pm

        Thank you for sharing your insights and positive thoughts. We always appreciate such uplifting contributions to our community. Please feel free to share more of your ideas in the future. Have a great day, Andrianna!

    15. sadie

      December 22, 2016 at 7:58 pm

      Some of this isn’t true. Most successful partnership is a Taurus and Cancer. And Taurus men do play the field for quite a while until they find the right match and then, some still linger in fear of commitment. Taurus women can be full of drama and hard to deal with, which does not go with a Taurus man wanting to be calm and peaceful.
      Taurus and Cancer is best!

      • web admin

        web admin

        December 23, 2016 at 9:54 am

        Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. It is great to see that our readers enjoy our articles and can share their own personal experiences and insights. Feel free to share more of your thoughts in the future. Have a great week, Sadie!

      • Melissa

        January 24, 2017 at 1:04 am

        Not true I’m a cancer my fiancee is a Taurus he is very distance most of the time I can’t stand that he comes and goes I’m fed up with so I’m moving on this time and he will get no more chances this time

        • web admin

          web admin

          January 24, 2017 at 8:31 am

          Interesting. I am married to a Taurus, and he is never distant. If I were you, I would move on and not look back. If he is never there for you when you need him and won’t open up, then you deserve someone who will be better for you you. Good luck, Melissa!

        • Aylin

          February 4, 2017 at 7:45 pm

          I also was shicked by a so handsome Taurus, but very rude, cold, distant, he was…. Hearing my true feelings about hin, he reacted by totally rejecting me very directly , cold, wuthout heart… But he tried a lot to keep non sense conversation in messenger, askung me my plans for holiday, for week.end..until I told him to just leave me alone because he isn.t my bf to ask me what I am doing.. Now he keep silence.

          • web admin

            web admin

            February 5, 2017 at 10:24 am

            It sounds like the relationship is over with, so the best thing you can do is move on. His behavior is odd, and it is probably a good thing that you are not going to keep dating him. Hopefully, the next guy that you date will be the right one and be more compassionate. Good luck, Aylin!

    16. Autumn pruitt

      December 8, 2016 at 1:45 pm

      I met this guy who is a Taurus and I’m a Scorpio. We talked for a little bit as just friends with benefits but he wanted more so we got into a relationship. He came over one night and we had sex. He didn’t use a condom and he busted in me. He’s been ignoring me a lot. Barely texts back. He always textes me randomly and says he loves and misses me. But he also always accuses me on cheating. I’ve tried to brake up with him before and he got super mad at me and started cussing me out and making me feel bad. He randomly brakes up with me and says that I have to prove I’m not cheating and that I want him. He also said that he tried to get me pregnant. And that he’s not helping with the baby if we’re not together. We’re broken up right now and he has been really mean. He’s saying the baby isn’t his and that I’m a whore. He also has another baby on the way from a different girl. What are you thoughts? What do you think his deal is?

      • web admin

        web admin

        December 8, 2016 at 2:50 pm

        It is clear that he is someone who is not treating you with respect. He always tried to get you pregnant and then stopped talking to you. This is a bad sign. If you are not pregnant, then you should break off conversation with him. Do not let this ruin your view of Taurus people, however. Take this time to devote these actions to memory, and if someone treats you like this in the future, then leave them. Best of luck, Autumn!

      • sadie

        December 22, 2016 at 8:00 pm

        Run for your life. He is a massive player. Maybe at least take him to court to get money for the baby. Next time, please, use birth control.

        • web admin

          web admin

          December 23, 2016 at 9:54 am

          It is great to see our readers supporting one another. You are right, it is always best to separate yourself from someone who is not respectful to you. Thank you again for sharing your thoughts, Sadie!

      • Aylin

        February 4, 2017 at 7:52 pm

        Think at your life..dear. Exclude this Trash forever from your life ! If you are not ready being a mom, consider abortion, pass over all this , tell him you no need him anymore and you will fund a respectful and warm man . Don.t block your life with this trash. He is a trash jerk. You deserving better ! Use condom at every sex , in future, buy it by yourself and wait for someone better.

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 5, 2017 at 10:30 am

          That sounds like fairly good advice–it sounds like you may speak from experience. I am sure that Autumn Pruitt will appreciate getting the extra input. Thanks for commenting, Aylin!

    17. Nicole

      August 31, 2016 at 3:46 am

      I am a Virgo and have been on and off with a Taurus for the past 2 years and I am crazy in love with him. When we first started going out he always said he didn’t want a relationship as he was too busy but then I got with someone, completely cut him off and after a year he contacted me telling me he was sorry and that he regretted not making me his. I realised I wasn’t over Taurus so I left the guy I was with to be with him. Now we are finally in a relationship but I am so scared as I don’t think he really loves me. I want to sleep with him as the passion and sexual chemistry is so intense (unlike my other only relationship) and I want to know what it’s like to really make love but I am scared that he will hurt me even more if we sleep together and he leaves. I have never slept with him, I have only slept with one guy so it’s still new to me and I am just so scared to get played especially cos I love him so he will break my heart the worst. Also, we were never serious so I didn’t care but now we are together he doesn’t treat me right, he hardly sees me, doesn’t claim me publicly (no one knows we are together), he doesn’t make time for me, never wants to go anywhere or do anything and I ask him questions as I really want to get to know him and he answers but he never asks me anything back, he just seems keen on having sex and even though I like that he lusts for me and finds me attractive, I am scared that’s all he wants cos we have never done it in the 2 years we have been on and off. I am scared we will sleep together and then he’ll realise that’s all he wanted and he’ll get bored of me as a person and leave. Sorry this is so long but I have no friends to talk to and I want someone to give me advice.

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 31, 2016 at 9:56 am

        If he has not shared your relationship with other people, then you should hold off on sex. While he may not only be interested in sex, it is clear that he certainly is strongly interested in having sex with you. Have him show you that he is serious before you have sex with him. If he is unable to treat you with the respect that you require of him without hounding you for sex, then you have your answer. You are right to be patient.

      • Cutie pie

        October 1, 2016 at 9:30 am

        Hi i’m cancerian ,same problem i’m facing he wants to sleep with me . i’m also scared what if after that he won’t marry me he’ll leave me after that. We are also having on off scene since last two years. he said he is loyal with me. I have no frnd to talk about this. Who will guide me .:(

        • web admin

          web admin

          October 1, 2016 at 3:02 pm

          That sounds like a difficult situation to be in. There is no way to know if someone is in it for the long haul or if they want a brief fling. If he has been loving and committed to you for the last two years, then it sounds like he showed you through his actions that he wants to be with you. Relationships are based on trust–there is no way to know what someone will or won’t do, so you just have to do your best to find the right person, trust them and hope for the best. Good luck, Cutie Pie!

        • Meatie Pie

          March 9, 2017 at 12:16 am

          Be his friend, let him know you think he is the world to you, be loyal to him and hold off sex for a while until you can tell that he is relaxed around you. And when you decide you want to sleep with him eventually, you must initiate it subtly. A Taurus man wants to trust you and respect you. So be a lady for him. Also, it helps to check out your synastry chart between the two of you.

          • web admin

            web admin

            March 9, 2017 at 2:40 pm

            Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. We always appreciate the thoughtful comments that our readers share with each other. Feel free to share more of your ideas and insights in the future. Have a great day, Pie!

    18. Sherpa

      August 2, 2016 at 6:31 am

      Hi I am taurus guy. I am in so deep love with this scorpion girl. We have been in relationship for like 2 years. When ever we meet we fight but after few minutes we get involved in sexual act. Starting I was very jealous when ever she used to look other guys, after we came home I used to quarrel with her for the same thing. I love playing games and she really doesnt like it. I love to stay in home during vacation and she obsolutely hates it. She wanted to have tattoo in her whole body but i didnt like it. But now I have brought changes in myselves and she had too. And now our relationship is like unbreakable. I dont know but there is smthing with that girl that attracts me and she gets attracted to me. We have made few compromises between us and wverything is working well. And believe me when in bed our relation gets much stronger. We do sex like 3 times a day and she loves it although she say she dont like it. And one more thing yes I flirt with other gurls sometime but believe me she is gonna be my queen and m gonna treat her so

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 2, 2016 at 10:15 pm

        If you are in a relationship, then you should not flirt with other people. It is harmful to your relationship because it is lying about your fidelity. You should treat her with respect like you treat any other person. You should be honest with her about your actions and work to rectify it. If you decide to be fully faithful to her, then you may find your relationship having less and less problems.

    19. Bella

      July 23, 2016 at 10:10 am

      Im dating a taurus guy for a first time….when he flirted me at the start he used the polite conversation after i gave him the green light he start to shed off the mask of polite guy….and start to pushing me to sex chat and phone and im very conservative girl but the same time i love him so bad……so now he is pushing me toward the world of unconditional relation with no limits as if i am a bitch and he wants me to me his submissive in an indirect way….till now i refuse all this shit thats why he is not giving me the care and love i need…..he is pressuring me …..wt to do?

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 23, 2016 at 4:54 pm

        You need to immediately end your relationship with this person. It is clear that he not accepting your limits and he is choosing to treat you without respect. Tell him that you are no longer interested in developing a relationship with him as he has made his decision to disrespect you as clear as possible. If he continues to pressure you after you have ended your relationship, then explain to him that you will publicly share his messages online. Find someone who is respectful to your needs and desires.

    20. Tina

      May 2, 2016 at 6:13 am

      I’m an Aries woman and just starting to date my second Taurus. I was with the last one six years but he was just kind of insecure and clingy, not aggressively jealous or possessive. However..I already see signs that this one is, so basically if I want to date him, I’ll have to consciously bury most of my Aries traits or we’ll murder each other eventually… The only thing that helped me better understand him this time was reading Anna Kovach’s Taurus Man Secrets, it really made us more compatible!

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 8, 2016 at 7:29 pm

        It is a good thing you already know how to handle your Taurus–it will make your relationship much easier. I am actually married to a Taurus as well (and I am an Aries), and I find that our personalities balance each other out really well. I have the impulsive, self-starting Aries nature, and he has the Taurus follow through and stability, which work well together. As for the jealous and possessive aspect, we don’t really have a problem with it. I don’t hang out with any guys, and he doesn’t hang out with any girls, so we have never really had anything to worry about. Good luck, Tina!

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