How to Tell If A Guy Likes You Through Texting

By on December 25, 2013






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Now, more than ever, we are totally glued to our phones. Twenty years ago it was all about the way we talked, today it’s all about the way we text. It’s nice to be able to talk to anybody and everybody every second of every day, sharing every thought and detail of your life can make you feel like you’re together even when you’re miles apart.  But even though we can send words back and forth almost as fast as we can think them, it’s a little bit harder to send emotions and feelings along with them.  Sometimes all of those little tiny LOL’s and OMG’s only add to your confusion – especially when you are talking to a guy you like.

Don’t Freak Out If He Doesn’t Reply Immediately

So, how can you tell if your crush’s friendly greeting is more than just friendly?  The first thing you have to remember is that guys don’t think or communicate the same way girls do.  Most of the time, they say what they mean and they mean what they say.  If you get a one letter response it’s because they’re busy or in a hurry or because it’s faster, not because they’re mad at you.  Don’t read so much into it.  Most guys are pretty straight forward.

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He Texts You Throughout The Day

Something else to keep in mind is that while we ladies are the queens of multitasking, most guys just aren’t.  They can do one thing at a time, and they can do it well, but try to get them to walk and chew gum at the same time and see what happens.  Unless, of course, they are chasing a girl.  Once a guy has his sights set on his lady love, he can pursue her 24/7, all while going about his normal routine.  So, if your guy is texting you when his mind should be on other things, like work, chances are you’ve tickled his fancy.  He just can’t get you out of his mind.

Does He Always Text Back Quickly?

Another way to tell if your guy is trying to send some ‘more than friend’ vibes your way via SMS is to pay attention to how fast he texts you back.  If he is responding within a few seconds, you know he’s waiting on your next message and is totally engaged in the conversation.  Even better is when you have a meeting of the minds moment and text each other at the same time – that’s almost the definition of soul mates in the 21st century.

He Tells You Everything

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Also, if any guy takes the time to fill up that little screen with detailed descriptions of his day, chances are he’s digging on you just a little bit.  Especially if he’s got an old-school phone.  No man is going to take the time to text you line after line on those teeny tiny number keys unless he’s got some hidden feelings.   The way he sees it, he’s making a valid effort to communicate with his lady, something not to be taken lightly.

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He May Just Stink At Texting

When you are wrestling with your internal “he loves me, he loves me not” demons, make sure to keep in mind that every guy is different.  So is every phone.  Some guys may not text back as often as you would like because their phone is a pain in the you-know-what, while others may not text you back because they’re just not that into you.  To tell which you’re dealing with, you’re going to have to use a little discernment.  You don’t have to go all crazy stalker or anything, but scope him out when he’s texting his buddies.  Does he look comfortable with his handset, or like  a bit of a novice?  If he’s a bit on the slow side, don’t be too offended if he’s a bit slow to get back to you.

He Wants To Spend Time With You

Something else to keep in mind is that if a guy is really into you, he’ll enjoy a bit of a chase.  Let him initiate the text sessions from time to time.  If you notice he’s hitting you up pretty regularly, out of the blue, chances are you’re on his mind more often than not.  If he’s thinking about you while he’s walking around his living room or dozing off at night, you might be more than the girl of his dreams, if you get my drift.

The truth is that even though the way we communicate has gotten high-tech, the thoughts and feelings we are trying to convey are the same.  There is a lot to be said for trusting your instincts; that being said if you are truly wondering about the intentions of your potential Romeo, the best thing you can do is ask.   Maybe something like U+ME=:) After all, it’s only a text message.  It’s impossible for him to know your true emotions, either.  Worst case scenario, you tell him you were only kidding LOL





202 Comments

  1. Janice

    April 8, 2017 at 8:18 am

    Hi. I have been regularly texting this guy friend since more than a year. We have good conversations. He remembers small details about me, like for example, he remembers a selfie i had posted some months back and said i looked adorable. He always compliments me, and is very flirty through text. However, when we meet, he is unable to talk much. Which makes me conclude that he is shy. A few days back,when we were texting, i reminded him of an incident which took place a year back, where he told me to keep his heart. He sent me 2 heart emojis and asked me to choose one. When i chose one, he said brilliant that was my heart, now yours. Keep it safe. In spite of all this, he still doesn’t say that he likes anyone. I have a feeling he likes me, but I’m not sure. He calls me a sweetheart and says i am a queen. When i asked him what does queen mean, he doesn’t explain it. I also compliment him and flirt. This has been taking place since a little more than a year. The sams day, he said he would wish a good night but he didn’t. Why does he message me continuously for days, then suddenly disappear? This has been always happening, with instances of him disappearing after messaging for days. I try my best to make him say something about what he thinks about me, but nothing happens. I haven’t heard from him since 3 days. Though this is normal. I don’t know if i should tell him I like him, because i don’t want to ruin things for us in the future. What would be the best thing to do? Thanks!

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 8, 2017 at 9:15 am

      He is probably just busy with other things or doesn’t want to seem too needy by talking to you all the time. From everything else that you said, it sounds like he likes you. He might not even be shy in general–he may just be shy around you because he likes you a lot. If it were me, I would tell him how you feel or at least ask him to hang out with you sometime. It sounds more likely than not that he likes you, so go for it! Good luck, Janice!

      • Janice

        April 8, 2017 at 10:57 pm

        Yes, he hasn’t been active on social media since 2 days as well. So he might be busy. I have also noticed that he is kind of shy with me, but seems to talk quite naturally to other girls. I think he isn’t sure of what i feel about him. Thanks for the advice!

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          web admin

          April 9, 2017 at 9:25 am

          No problem! I hope that everything works out for you, Janice! Good luck!

          • Kay

            April 10, 2017 at 11:44 pm

            Similar to what Janice had written, i have noticed that guys disappear after talking for many days. Then they suddenly reappear as if everything were normal. Is this known as “ghosting”? Why do guys do this?

            • web admin

              web admin

              April 11, 2017 at 8:46 am

              I think that the reason is probably different for every guy. Some guys just get busy, others may be playing the field or have their phones on silent. Other guys may just not be interested in a more serious relationship, so they only text when they are hopeful of going home with you that night. There is also always a chance that the guy just doesn’t realize that his sudden disappearance would make the girl think that there was a problem.

              • Kay

                April 11, 2017 at 9:30 pm

                I definitely agree with your last sentence. A lot of times guys don’t even feel that it’s important to be texting all the time. Thanks for replying!

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                  web admin

                  April 12, 2017 at 8:25 am

                  No problem–let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks!

  2. Sean

    March 27, 2017 at 1:18 am

    Hello there! This may be long, so I’m sorry!

    See, about 4 or 5 years ago, I was a flower girl at my brothers wedding. And at the banquet, I walked down the isle with a boy which was the ring bearer, he was one year older than me. And so, after the wedding, we havent seen each other since. Now, about yesterday, I saw him at my brothers house and, darn, was he grown up! We were both teens now, and I did not recognize him. And with his new manly self, I felt attracted.

    My brother has a “Just Dance” game on his xbox kinect, and during the party we played. All of us did, including the guy. I forced him to dance with a stare, raising my eyebrow and he just accepted his fate to dance with me and my sister in law. Its funny because when my sister in law told him to join, he refused. And when I just shot him a stare, he joins.

    Anyway, during the party, I catch him looking over at me. Not sure if its me he sees, but just maybe. I usually check at the corner of my eye, like when I laugh I close my eyes a little and look in the corner of my eye to see if hes looking, and most of the time, he is. Then I look over, he looks away. Maybe he’s just seeing how much Ive changed; I dont want to deduce anything wrong. Also during the Just Dance game, I danced with my sister in law and he wasnt included, he sat somewhere behind my sis in law. When the dance was finished, I instantly flicked my head towards him to see he was looking at me. Then he looked away! Just the same though, i dont want to deduce wrong things, so I let it be.

    I asked for his facebook account, and I was supposed to add him first, but he dis it for me. Does his ean something? Also, before he said goodnight, he said he’ll chat me tonorrow. I was thinking, “You’re just saying that to make me fell good or somethin” and the next day, he actually chatted me first. Does rhis mean anything as well? Also, I asked about why he joined the dance game if he doesnt like dancing in front of people because he is shy, so he says, but then he messages, “But you gave me that stare. I cant say no to that stare.” Is this sigbificant here? Maybe..?

    Thank you so much for your time!

    • Sean

      March 27, 2017 at 1:28 am

      Oh and also, a little addition?

      He conpliments a lot, like he says “dont worry, You danced pretty well,” and then since I told him all my sports, played intruments, and hobbies like drawing dancing and singing, he calls me talented ays its impressive. I know, this is a common reaction, but he asks more about me than says stuff about himself. If I ask a question about him, he answers it a little, then redirects the question to me. Example,

      Me: What are your sports..?
      Him: Oh i basically like basketbal. How about yours?

      And actually for the stare, he actually said, “Like what else was I supposed to say when you looked at me like that” I copy pasted it ^^

      Thank you!!

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 27, 2017 at 9:38 am

        It sounds like he likes you. Complimenting you all of the time is a sign that he could like you. Keep talking to him! It sounds like he is interested, so now you just have to see where this thing goes. Good luck, Sean!

    • Sean

      March 27, 2017 at 1:30 am

      Oh and also, a little addition?

      He conpliments a lot, like he says “dont worry, You danced pretty well,” and then since I told him all my sports, played intruments, and hobbies like drawing dancing and singing, he calls me talented says its impressive. I know, this is a common reaction, but he asks more about me than says stuff about himself. If I ask a question about him, he answers it a little, then redirects the question to me. Example,

      Me: What are your sports..?
      Him: Oh i basically like basketbal. How about yours?

      And actually for the stare, he actually said, “Like what else was I supposed to say when you looked at me like that” I copy pasted it ^^

      Thank you very much!!

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 27, 2017 at 9:37 am

        It seemed like you commented twice on this one. I have to answer and approve each comment individually, so it may take me a little while to answer all of them. If you do not see a response right away, do not worry because you will. Read through my last response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 27, 2017 at 9:37 am

      It sounds like he is attracted to you, but it would be too soon for it to be anymore. For the moment, keep talking to him online and get to know him better. It sounds like he at least thinks that you are cute, so now you just have to see if your personalities are compatible as well. Talk to him for a while, flirt with him a bit and see how he responds. Good luck, Sean!

  3. Katie

    March 24, 2017 at 6:47 pm

    When we first started talking we talked all the time but now not so much and he never ask me questions to get to know me better and when I ask questions he most of the time answers with one or two words but He flirts with me a lot but I just don’t know

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 25, 2017 at 9:19 am

      He could be shy or he may be starting to lose interest. It is also possible that he does not realize that you like him, so he has started to become quiet as he loses hope that anything more could be possible. At the moment, the best thing that you can do is keep talking to him and try to draw him out. Flirt more so that he realizes you are interested for sure. And if you are feeling particularly confident, you can even ask him to hang out or go out with you on a date. Good luck, Katie!

  4. Djjd

    March 21, 2017 at 10:09 pm

    He is always calling me baby and he also sends lot of love emoji

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 22, 2017 at 9:27 am

      It sounds like you guys are well on your way to having a romance. If he texts you all the time and has cute nicknames for you, then it seems more likely than not that he could be interested in you. Good luck, Djjd!

  5. Marilyn

    March 11, 2017 at 5:24 am

    Hi …there’s dis guy I met abt 4 days ago and we started chatting, he joked wit me and we were talking abt school stuffs cos we are course mates bt he’s a senior, then we started getting personal and he told me he doesn’t lyk frnds so we stopped talking…but he texted me again…is he interested?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 11, 2017 at 3:09 pm

      He may be interested in you as a friend. He may also be interested in developing a relationship with you. If you want to reach out to him, then do so. This may give him the chance to share his thoughts and feelings with you. You will also want to share your ideas with him. Take this chance to determine what you want to do. Have a great day, Marilyn!

  6. mic

    March 2, 2017 at 5:57 am

    Hi there is this guy i hav been chating with for two months now I dont know if he likes me or not most of the time am the first to chat him , sometime when i text him and he dont reply ontime he expalin to me why he did not reply on time he compliment me he says am sweet ,kind cute , amazing,and so on he show me so much care and consern he sometimes say Am very special to him i dont know if he likes me or not and sometime he tell me some secret and also sometime open up has feelings to me but i dont know if he likes me or not pls help know

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 2, 2017 at 9:04 am

      It sounds like he likes you. He takes time to explain why he does not reply immediately, and he compliments you constantly. He also trusts you with his secrets and talks to you all the time. It sounds like he is interested in you and may just be afraid to make the next move. Now, you just have to decide if you want to wait for him to make a move or if you want ot make the next move on your own.

  7. Kate

    February 23, 2017 at 8:55 pm

    So, this will be long. Hi. There’s this guy that I usually text with. We talk like we have been best friends for years but we only texted for like a week. He calls everything I do cute and he calls me pretty, amazing and cute. I call him pretty too. I usually text him first. And we haven’t talked in person yet because we both are around our friends. But when we see each other he looks at me then looks away. I know that he likes 2 girls. I’m not sure if he likes me… Do I have a chance? And how should I start a conversation in person with him?Thanks

    • Kate

      February 23, 2017 at 8:57 pm

      He says that one of those girls is in my grade👌🏻

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 24, 2017 at 11:58 am

        It is certainly likely that he has an interest in developing a relationship with you. You and him have a well developed relationship over text messages, so it will be easy for you to establish a personal relationship with him. Walk directly up to him and share your thoughts and feelings with him. You can even text him beforehand and tell him to meet you somewhere private. This will give you a chance to discuss your feelings with him without your friends around. Best of luck, Katie!

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 24, 2017 at 11:58 am

      It is certainly likely that he has an interest in developing a relationship with you. You and him have a well developed relationship over text messages, so it will be easy for you to establish a personal relationship with him. Walk directly up to him and share your thoughts and feelings with him. You can even text him beforehand and tell him to meet you somewhere private. This will give you a chance to discuss your feelings with him without your friends around. Best of luck, Katie!

  8. Denise

    February 22, 2017 at 5:25 am

    I’m sorry as this is gonna be a really long message. I have been regularly texting this guy from more than a year. We share a good relation with each other. He’s very flirty through texts and keeps telling me I’m a very special girl and keeps complimenting me. He appreciates me for the way I am. However he hasn’t admitted that he likes me. A week back, he was heading home and saw me walking down the stairs. He paused to see if it was me and then spoke to me for a few minutes as both of us were in a hurry. I found that he is kind of shy. As in, he asked me general things like why did I finish college early etc. even though we were talking through text just a day before and had a completely different conversation. I felt that he is more open through text than in person, and is shy. But I don’t know if this is true. We were sending messages to each other everyday for the past 3 weeks (though we didn’t have a long conversation as such). The day before, we spoke for an hour straight without a break. Then he sent me a reply to one of my messages yesterday morning, and also wished me a good morning. I wished him back. But he seen the message and didn’t have anything to reply. Normally if he would do that, he would send me a good night text. But I haven’t received one yet. I am not sure if he is only replying to my texts, or is actually interested in having a conversation. He also initiates conversations as well at times. Sometimes he is online but doesn’t reply to my messages for hours. I have also noticed that if we have a conversation for a long time, he generally disappears for a few days or weeks until he sends a message again. Or sometimes I send him a message. Do you think there’s a chance of him liking me? I have a feeling it is so. But I’m confused. Please help! Thanks

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 22, 2017 at 10:26 am

      He is interested in you. He may be busy or unable to message you. Your best option is to reach out to him and try to see him in person. Text and message based relationships often end because a lack of physical proximity. You will want to spend time with him. Best of luck, Denise!

      • Denise

        February 23, 2017 at 12:27 am

        Thanks! I wanted to know what is the reason for a guy to be so close to you, but yet not admit that they like you? Is it only a fear of rejection?

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 23, 2017 at 11:15 am

          It may be fear of rejection. They may also be confused about your feelings. They may also simply be shy. Have a great day, Denise!

          • Denise

            February 24, 2017 at 1:01 am

            What should be the best way to deal with a guy who is shy, and prefers texting rather than meeting? Could it mean than he isn’t loyal? There are a lot of shy guys who I’ve known and they say a lot of things through text which could’ve been awkward to say in person? Why is that so?

            • web admin

              web admin

              February 24, 2017 at 11:40 am

              Shyness is not a sign of disloyalty. Shyness is simply a sign of shyness. Some people are awkward in certain situations and some are not. The best way for you to speak with a shy person is to reach out. Explain to him that you are coming to see him. This will force him into action. Best of luck, Denise!

              • Denise

                February 25, 2017 at 12:38 am

                Thank you for your response! I have spoken to him a few times in person and find that it is awkward for him as well to speak. But he’s very different when he texts me, he’s more open (just like you said about shy guys). He doesn’t know of things to say when he has to talk, but he can endlessly chat with me over text. What’s the best way to not make him feel awkward the next time we meet? I’m also a shy girl.

                • web admin

                  web admin

                  February 26, 2017 at 11:49 am

                  Next time that the two of you are together in person and you find that you are at a loss for words, send him a sneaky text message. You can say things over text that you may be too shy or embarrassed to say. This will give the two of you a good laugh and it may help the two overcome your concerns. You will find that your will eventually talk instead of text, but it can be good for awkward pauses. Best of luck, Denise!

                  • Denise

                    February 27, 2017 at 3:45 am

                    Thank you very much for all your responses! 🙂

      • Kristan

        March 7, 2017 at 10:16 am

        Hi there my name is kristan and there is this boy chandler. We’ve been talking for a month and a couple weeks. I don’t know whether or not if he says who he says he is. he says hes not the type of person who gets a girl in bed and just leaves, i believe him but other people say he may be lying to me. he’s really sweet too me and appreciates me for who i am. He calls me cute and he just knows how to make my day. I don’t know whether or not if he likes me as a friend or likes me more than a friend. I’ve never met him in person but from what i can tell he is sweet and likes me for me. So if you have advice for me i would be glad too hear it cause i don’t know if i should waste my time with him or not. Oh and he goes to a different school then me but were seniors and were 1 years apart.

        • Kristan

          March 7, 2017 at 10:20 am

          plus i feel like if i meet him in person he may not like me, i don’t know why but i always get this feeling when i’m gonna talk too a guy i like i freak out and panic and never end up meeting him cause i get so nervous.

          • web admin

            web admin

            March 7, 2017 at 3:39 pm

            Unless someone knows for sure that he is lying to you, then they are speaking out of ignorance. He may be completely honest with you. Take this time to determine if you want to establish a relationship with him. If you want to do so, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Kristan!

            • Kristan

              April 10, 2017 at 10:18 am

              How do i get the nerves to go up to him in person without freaking out and chicken out of talking too him? How do i be myself without wondering if i be myself would he like me or not? I tend to be the type of person who gets so nervous being around the person i like.

              • web admin

                web admin

                April 10, 2017 at 1:50 pm

                Everyone gets nervous around the people that they like, and it just takes practice. As for being afraid to be yourself, look at it this way: if things were to go well and you were to date, you would have to be yourself at some point. If he doesn’t like you for who you are now, then you will either break up later or you would have to pretend to be someone that you are not forever. Plus, most guys (and girls) actually like a few unusual personality quirks and unique traits.

                • Kristan

                  April 11, 2017 at 10:05 am

                  okay! so say me and Chandler were to go on a date and everything goes well. We are leaving our date or something and as he is walking me to my car and were talking to each-other, we look into each others eyes and everything stops like were the only two people on the planet and leans in and i can’t help myself but to lean in. What do i do and how do i react?

                  • web admin

                    web admin

                    April 12, 2017 at 8:28 am

                    You could always kiss him if it feels like that look has a romantic undertone to it. Or, you could just lean in and wait to see what he does. It all depends on what you want to do. I wouldn’t worry about things that have not happened yet though–and if this has happened, then it sounds like he likes you for sure. Good luck, Kristan!

        • web admin

          web admin

          March 7, 2017 at 3:39 pm

          Unless someone knows for sure that he is lying to you, then they are speaking out of ignorance. He may be completely honest with you. Take this time to determine if you want to establish a relationship with him. If you want to do so, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Kristan!

  9. Alyssa

    February 21, 2017 at 5:38 pm

    Hi,my friends told the guy I like and we had so much conversations over text (I was usually the one to start them) they told him that I have a crush on him over my phone and asked if he likes me which he said idk and that he is confused (he’s friends we’re pushing him into me today). Story short, I told him it wasn’t me and that it was my friends, and now I’m not sure if he likes me or if i did the right thing by telling him it wasn’t me?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 22, 2017 at 10:06 am

      You did the wrong thing by lying. You have wholly confused his already confused feelings. Your best option is to speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. You may have hurt his feelings and embarrassed him. If he does not want to establish a relationship with you at this time, then take this event as a lesson. Have a good day, Alyssa.

  10. Anna V

    February 14, 2017 at 1:09 pm

    Hey, I’ve just started texting this guy about a month ago. He responds super quickly and carries the convo a little every time. My problem is that he can get any girl he wants (yes prob playing around with me) but I always have to start the convo. Is he interested in me??

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 15, 2017 at 9:09 am

      If he always talks with you and continues the conversation, then he is probably interested in you. He may be able to get anyone that he wants, but he is interested in you. Your best option is to try to spend time with him. If your relationship remains only text-based, then you may find that it will diminish over time. Hang out with him in person. Best of luck, Anna!

  11. Lisara

    February 10, 2017 at 2:53 pm

    Hi. I like this guy but i don’t knw bout his feelins at me, we’ve been friends bout 4yrs but only through on chat, all day & nite we’re texting, its seems like we’re both crazy bcz we’re laughing at the unimportant things urmm you knw ~ but then this year on on 31st Jan 2017, he texted me ‘ i miss you ‘ well i prob shock when i read it, i don’t knw how to respond bck tho, so i tease him till he text ‘ its okay u don’t miss me anymore ‘ i feel blank tht time till i reply ‘ i miss you too wt lots of cry emoji ‘ then he just laughing n says tht im funny. But after tht on 4th Feb, we stop texted at each other, i don’t knw y. I feel like im doing somthing mistake. What do u think ??

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 11, 2017 at 9:54 am

      You may want to send him a message. Text-based relationships often slowly end. You will want to try to spend time with him in person. Tell him that you want to meet up with him for a meal or for a walk. This is the best way to rekindle your relationship. Best of luck, Lisara!

  12. Maryann

    February 5, 2017 at 6:13 am

    Hi! I have this guy friend who I’ve been texting since more than a year now. He has opened up to me a lot. He keeps complimenting me always through text, and also keeps flirting with me. He tells me that I am a special girl, and I am a queen. However I’ve been noticing since a few weeks that he doesn’t reply quick to my messages. This doesn’t happen all the time, but it is quite often. I find him online at times for 10-15 mins at a stretch, and yet get no answer from him till like a hour or so later. I get frustrated and end up replying late as well to him. Once, I received a reply to my text after almost 2 entire days. I knew he was busy with some college work, but how can a person be so busy that he can’t reply to a text! I don’t know if he is just being flirty or actually likes me. He once told me “I won’t talk to anyone who says you are a bad girl.” He respects me, and is always praising me. Then why is he trying to ignore me? Please help.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 5, 2017 at 10:42 am

      It sounds like he liked you for sure before. He could be busy now with his college work, or he may have started to give up on you because nothing happened in your relationship. He has been texting you for more than a year now, so he may have just assumed that nothing would be possible since the relationship has not moved forward yet. Try asking him to hang out with you–it will help to rekindle your relationship and it will give you a better chance to gauge his mannerisms and attitude. Best of luck, Maryann!

      • Maryann

        February 6, 2017 at 1:27 am

        Thank you for your advice! What could I do to make the relationship move forward? I asked him if he ever liked a girl, or likes a girl now. And he replied no. It’s not possible for us to actually meet in person, though I rarely see him at college. What should I do then?

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 6, 2017 at 11:09 am

          He may have said “No” because he didn’t know for sure if you liked him. This is a normal occurrence. It would be best for you to speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. Tell him that you like him and that you would like to further develop your relationship. If he feels the same, then your relationship has begun. If he doesn’t feel the same, then you have lost nothing. Best of luck, Maryann!

          • Maryann

            February 6, 2017 at 11:38 pm

            Thank you very much!

            • web admin

              web admin

              February 8, 2017 at 10:19 am

              You are welcome. Have a great day, Maryanne!

  13. Audrey

    February 3, 2017 at 12:45 pm

    Hi
    There is this guy ..we became friends 2 years back we never used to talk much then just about school stuff like if there’s a class tomorrow ..so he was my facebook friend back then but never used to chat ..we started chatting when we both got admission in our respective colleges ..and i have started noticing this few months ago that he’s he first one to text also when i was back in my hometown for vacations…he asked me twice to go out with him ..but somehow i wasnt able to and also he remembers the small details like when im going back to college after vacations when ill be coming back .. but im still not sure if he likes me or not cause our conversations are not long enough but yeah he texts me atleast 4 times in a week .pls help me out with this !!

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 5, 2017 at 9:22 am

      It sounds like he could be interested in you. He may just be worried that you do not like him. You turned him down for hanging out twice before, so he may mistakenly think that you are not interested. Perhaps, you could try asking him to hang out as friends sometime. This will give you a better read on his feelings, and it will hopefully encourage him in thinking that something more could be possible with you. Good luck, Audrey!

  14. .

    February 3, 2017 at 9:21 am

    Hi
    There is this guy ..we became friends 2 years back we never used to talk much then just about school stuff like if there’s a class tomorrow ..so he was my facebook friend back then but never used to chat ..we started chatting when we both got admission in our respective colleges ..and i have started noticing this few months ago that he’s he first one to text also when i was back in my hometown for vacations…he asked me twice to go out with him ..but somehow i wasnt able to and also he remembers the small details like when im going back to college after vacations when ill be coming back .. but im still not sure if he likes me or not cause our conversations are not long enough but yeah he texts me atleast 4 times in a week .pls help me out with this !!

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 3, 2017 at 11:49 am

      He probably is interested in developing a relationship with you. Continue to speak with him. If you noticed that he initiates conversation often, then he probably has feelings for you. You may want to send him a message first so that he knows that you care for him as well. Try to spend time with him in person if you are able to do so. Best of luck, Dot!

  15. lazyann

    February 2, 2017 at 11:29 pm

    hi, I having a textmate for almost 3weeks..he said he like but I rejected becoause I do nt trust a person I dd not yet seen in person..but he always text but later he often txt only every after 3 days..is he still interestedwith me?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 3, 2017 at 11:37 am

      He may still be interested in you. He may be no longer interested in you because you rejected him. This is normal. If you want to continue to speak with him, then do so. Keep this experience in your mind as a lesson for your future relationships. If you want to meet with him, then do so. Best of luck, Lazyann!

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