Cancer Man in Love

By on May 6, 2014






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A cancer man can be described as being one of the shyest zodiac signs of them all. He is a very closed-off person who takes their time getting to know people, and he doesn’t trust easily. He doesn’t like to be the center of attention and is definitely choosy about whom he has a conversation with. However, a Cancer man has the capability of knowing how others around him are feeling, so when he does decide to engage in conversation he can usually tell when someone is interested or not. Aside from being shy, a Cancer man can be a bit random with his emotions and is a very traditional man that any woman would be lucky to have.

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The Type of Woman Cancer Needs

Cancer men need gentle woman who will accept their genuine kindness and beautiful romantic gestures. They need a lady who will be grateful for everything he does within the relationship, especially the things he isn’t asked to do. A nagging woman or any lady who tries to take advantage of the Cancer man is simply out of the question. You must be willing to take the time to get to know Cancer, as he is a very shy individual who doesn’t open up easily. This requires a great deal of patience, another important attribute a Cancer’s lady should have. Last but not least, he needs someone who is looking for a long-term relationship, someone who will be completely loyal and eventually want to get married and start a family (almost every Cancer man’s dream is to have a decent home with several children).

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Cancer in a Relationship

He would never even consider jumping into a relationship. The Cancer man takes a great deal of time getting to know his potential woman before making any sort of move. He has to ensure she is someone he can get along with and trust, someone who can make him feel comfortable and help him open up. Even after entering into a relationship, Cancer will remain shy and closed off for quite some time. It could be weeks, even months before Cancer is willing to show his innermost thoughts and passions.

This opening up may take quite some time, but once the Cancer man becomes comfortable with his woman, he simply becomes the man of everyone’s dreams. He is a traditional and conventional fellow and will open the door for his woman, bring her flowers to the doorstep, and pick her up to carry her across a puddle so she doesn’t get dirty. He is nothing short of a gentleman in all situations, which is obviously a huge catch for a lady (especially in this day and age when chivalry is practically dead).

To a Cancer man, making sure his woman is happy at all times is imperative. He wants to see her smile no matter what and will jump through fiery hoops to make it happen. He is happy to help his lady, whether it is something as simple as doing the dishes or taking out the trash, and will do so without being asked. He is happy to do things for his woman and takes pride in doing so.

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Last but not least, the Cancer man is an extremely romantic individual who is always coming up with new and fascinating ways to prove his love. This could be something as simple as a beautiful song to something more extravagant like fireworks in the sky. He is likely to never cheat on you, as infidelity is an absolute no-no in his eyes and he has a no tolerance rule for cheating. He is seeking something long-term and the good majority of Cancer men want a decent home with plenty of little children running around.

Cancer in Bed

When it comes to a Cancer man in between the sheets, he prefers the more sensual and traditional way of love-making. He likes to do all of those incredibly romantic things, like taking hot bubble baths with scented candles or aligning the bed with rose pedals. Just like in his day-to-day life, Cancer wants to make his woman happy- and that includes in the bedroom. He will make sure his lover is satisfied and he greatly enjoys seeing her pleasured.

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Negative Side of a Cancer Man

You might not notice it right away as the Cancer man is incredibly shy right off the bat, but this zodiac sign tends to be extremely moody. There moods seem to change by the hour- sometime the minute- and can go from being quiet and insecure to confident and comical. It’s hard to tell when the next mood swing is coming, and that can be incredibly annoying to those around the Cancer.

When a Cancer man enters into a relationship, he wants to put his all into his other half. He’d like to be by their side at all times and give them the world. This can come across as being clingy, and Cancers tend to be hard to break up with too. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, he just wants to give you his all- and that’s respectable.

This sign can get hurt extremely easily- a simple negative comment can send them into a deep depression. This type of over-emotional attitude can certainly get on people’s nerves, especially those close to the Cancer.

Compatibility

Cancer and Cancer: You are both sympathetic and emotional individuals who will find love and friendship in each other. However, the two of you will need to learn to deal with each others changing moods and attachments to the past to make sure the relationship stays strong.

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Cancer and Pisces: The two of you have a passionate and emotional personality that will bring the two of you together. You are both able to sympathize well, which will allow Pisces to handle the Cancer mood swings. This relationship is built to last as both of you are on the same page on an emotional level. Pisces is undoubtedly the best zodiac choice for a Cancer!

Cancer and Virgo: Although the two of you are incredibly different, if you can find a way to put up with these differences you can find a deep appreciation for one another and build a very long-lasting relationship.

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Cancer Man in a Nutshell

Although he is very shy and closed-off, he is still a bearer of never-ending mood swings that seem to change with each hour that passes. He is undoubtedly one of the best zodiac signs when it comes to relationships, as he is a hard-working, romantic, and conventional man is would do anything to put a smile on his lovers face. He believes in long-term relationships and is likely not to cheat, as Cancer looks down upon cheating immensely. He needs a woman who can stay by his side and be just as loyal and loving as he is, not taking his kindness for granted. He is most definitely looking for the woman of his dreams and 9 times out of 10 he wants to build a long-term relationship that leads to marriage, a nice house, and lots and lots of children.





363 Comments

  1. A LEO's Heart

    April 1, 2017 at 8:32 pm

    I am so lost and don’t know if I should move forward with this cancer man. We talk on the phone all the time. He shows genuine interest in my life, but I can’t figure out if we just have a sexual attraction or if he really likes me. He really puts me on an emotional rollercoaster, for he brings the passion out of me. I can’t get enough of our conversation or our brief moments spent together. I sometimes can’t help but to think I may be pushing him away because I want all of his time and attention.

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 2, 2017 at 9:25 am

      It sounds like he likes you, so keep dating him and play it by ear. There is no way to know if the relationship will progress unless you give it a chance. If you think that you are being needy by asking for all of his attention, then try your best not to demand too much. Keep dating him and see what happens because otherwise you will never know if this relationship could have worked out.

      • A LEO's Heart

        April 2, 2017 at 4:36 pm

        Thank you for responding. Not to question you but how or what are some signs to know he likes me. You probably can tell I’m in love with him. I’ve been hurt in all of my previous relationship so it gets harder and harder every relationship I go into. Im willing to see were this lead but I need to know if I have a chance. We’re had the conversation of feelings and I was a little disappointed when I told him I loved him and he responded that he only had strong feelings a for me. It might be me reading too much into things instead of enjoying the moment.

        • web admin

          web admin

          April 3, 2017 at 11:50 am

          It may just take him longer to figure out if he is in love with you or not. Some people fall in love fast, other people take a bit longer to really understand their feelings. If he said that he has strong feelings for you, then it sounds like you are headed in the right direction. I would relax, enjoy your relationship and see where things go. It isn’t easy trusting and loving after you have been hurt in the past, but the only solution is to just do it and open your heart again.

          • A LEO's Heart

            April 3, 2017 at 1:59 pm

            OK.Thank you

            • web admin

              web admin

              April 4, 2017 at 10:04 am

              No problem–let me know if you have any more questions. Thanks for commenting!

  2. Notorious L.E.O.

    March 16, 2017 at 5:57 pm

    Hi. I have been friends with a Cancer man for 5 or 6 years. I always found him attractive but never thought I was his type. Well about a year ago we started really flirting with each other, but again I never thought too much of it. He invited me to his house this past November. I got sick and couldn’t go. He invited me again a month ago. I went and it felt good spending time with him one on one like that…but now he is shying away from me and I don’t know why. I like him, more than just a friend but I am cautious because I’m not sure how he feels. Do I just leave him alone or tell him how I feel?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 18, 2017 at 12:16 am

      He may be concerned about your feelings for him. He may be too shy to ask you out again. Try to spend more time with him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. He may just need to realize that you are interested in him. If he does not respond, then give him time to sort out his feelings. If you do not want to wait for him, then move on from this relationship. Have a great day, L.E.O.!

    • Elushious

      March 19, 2017 at 8:43 pm

      Im a cancer man myself and i bet hes into you but feels as if you dont feel the same way.we hate rejection most of all so we wont push forward into the unknown this is why he’s pulled back he’s protecting his heart from hurt. SO IF YOU WANT THE BEST MAN you’ll EVER COME ACROSS TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND DONT DO THIS OVER THE PHONE OR TEXT JUST SHOW UP AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND HE WILL KNOW IF YOUR TELLING THE TRUTH OR NOT SO BE HONEST WITH HIM.

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 20, 2017 at 3:56 pm

        Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. We always appreciate when our readers share with our community. Please feel free to continue to share your thoughts and feeling in the future. Have a great day, Elishious!

      • Notorious L.E.O.

        March 23, 2017 at 10:50 am

        Thanks for that insight from a male perspective! Though I haven’t told him exactly how I feel, we spoke today and he was saying he is not looking for a relationship right now…it was a conversation he initiated without any prompting from me at all. Even though I am not looking to rush into anything, I do want to spend time with him one on one again but I won’t force that. I will just keep being his friend because he is a good guy. While telling me he wasn’t looking for a relationship he said all the women he dated were crazy so I’m not sure if that has anything you do with it or not. Either way we are cool with each other.

        • web admin

          web admin

          March 23, 2017 at 12:01 pm

          It sounds like he may be a bit hesitant to get into another relationship since he has had bad luck with relationships in the past. Staying friends with him and showing him that you are someone that he could trust (and not another crazy partner) would be steps in the right direction. Good luck, Notorious L.E.O.!

          • Notorious L.E.O.

            March 23, 2017 at 8:30 pm

            Thanks. I will try to keep things the same as they have been…even though I have a crush on him.

            • web admin

              web admin

              March 24, 2017 at 8:36 am

              Hopefully, it will all end up working out. Good luck!

  3. Joe

    March 7, 2017 at 10:37 am

    Hi there, so I met this cancer man at a family event, we spent the whole evening and night together and had a great connection, when I left he didn’t ask for My number and I played it cool, but within a few minutes I got a message from him ( he found a way to get my number) asking if I got to work okay and making small talk, it’s been a few days now with a few messsges but he’s not asking me out, I’m thinking of simply texting him that I had a great time and would love to see him again, what do you think?

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 7, 2017 at 3:44 pm

      Your plan is an excellent plan. It is always best to speak with your interest about your thoughts and feelings. It is clear that the two of you have a great start to your relationship. Best of luck, Joe!

  4. Dija_gemini

    March 6, 2017 at 1:14 pm

    Hi admin,
    I have known this cancer man for a few months…in our university he tends to look at me then he followed me and he asked for my number we started communicating…he says he likes me but he is very hard to interpret he came to my house and we ended up kissing and having sex but when I text him he answers casually I really don’t understand him I told him I liked him too and he said thank you do you think he really likes me…I have fallen in love with him but I can’t understand him what should I do?? He says he has no girlfriend and says he misses me

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 6, 2017 at 2:28 pm

      It seems as though he is interested in you. He may be a casual person, and that is probably why he answers in a casual manner. Try to reach out to him and spend more time with him. Your relationship will strengthen as the two of you spend more time together. Make a plan to meet up with him. Have a great day, Dija!

  5. Dija_gemini

    March 6, 2017 at 7:27 am

    Hi admin,
    I have known this cancer man for a few months…in our university he tends to look at me then he followed me and he asked for my number we started communicating…he says he likes me but he is very hard to interpret he came to my house and we ended up kissing and having sex but when I text him he answers casually I really don’t understand him I told him I liked him too and he said thank you do you think he really likes me…I have fallen in love with him but I can’t understand him what should I do?? He says he has no girlfriend and says he misses me

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 6, 2017 at 2:17 pm

      It seems as though he is interested in you. He may be a casual person, and that is probably why he answers in a casual manner. Try to reach out to him and spend more time with him. Your relationship will strengthen as the two of you spend more time together. Make a plan to meet up with him. Have a great day, Dija!

  6. whiterose

    February 19, 2017 at 7:32 am

    Dear Admin,
    I knew this cancer guy for 6 years due to working in the same dept. He moved last year to a higher post and started to tell me he’s been admiring me. He said he misses me and calls me almost everyday in January. But come February he’s changed. No more calls, no more whatsapp and no more texts from him. Been almost 2 weeks now. He’s nice tho i was surprised when he asked for sexy pics of my 2 private bodyparts!!. What should i do admin?. Should i just stay away and ignore him..or should i continue to shamelessly call and text him everyday without any reply?. He’s done this once and i just treated him like nothing changed. Pls help me..i am really going out of my mind. And btw, we’re not single..both of us..and it makes me harder to move on because i’ve never done this before.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 20, 2017 at 1:49 am

      If the two of you are not single, then allow him to fade from your thoughts. Focus on your current partner. If I have misunderstood what you have meant by ‘not single’, then please respond. Have a great day, Whiterose!

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