Cancer Man in Love

By on May 6, 2014


A cancer man can be described as being one of the shyest zodiac signs of them all. He is a very closed-off person who takes their time getting to know people, and he doesn’t trust easily. He doesn’t like to be the center of attention and is definitely choosy about whom he has a conversation with. However, a Cancer man has the capability of knowing how others around him are feeling, so when he does decide to engage in conversation he can usually tell when someone is interested or not. Aside from being shy, a Cancer man can be a bit random with his emotions and is a very traditional man that any woman would be lucky to have.


The Type of Woman Cancer Needs

Cancer men need gentle woman who will accept their genuine kindness and beautiful romantic gestures. They need a lady who will be grateful for everything he does within the relationship, especially the things he isn’t asked to do. A nagging woman or any lady who tries to take advantage of the Cancer man is simply out of the question. You must be willing to take the time to get to know Cancer, as he is a very shy individual who doesn’t open up easily. This requires a great deal of patience, another important attribute a Cancer’s lady should have. Last but not least, he needs someone who is looking for a long-term relationship, someone who will be completely loyal and eventually want to get married and start a family (almost every Cancer man’s dream is to have a decent home with several children).


Cancer in a Relationship

He would never even consider jumping into a relationship. The Cancer man takes a great deal of time getting to know his potential woman before making any sort of move. He has to ensure she is someone he can get along with and trust, someone who can make him feel comfortable and help him open up. Even after entering into a relationship, Cancer will remain shy and closed off for quite some time. It could be weeks, even months before Cancer is willing to show his innermost thoughts and passions.

This opening up may take quite some time, but once the Cancer man becomes comfortable with his woman, he simply becomes the man of everyone’s dreams. He is a traditional and conventional fellow and will open the door for his woman, bring her flowers to the doorstep, and pick her up to carry her across a puddle so she doesn’t get dirty. He is nothing short of a gentleman in all situations, which is obviously a huge catch for a lady (especially in this day and age when chivalry is practically dead).

To a Cancer man, making sure his woman is happy at all times is imperative. He wants to see her smile no matter what and will jump through fiery hoops to make it happen. He is happy to help his lady, whether it is something as simple as doing the dishes or taking out the trash, and will do so without being asked. He is happy to do things for his woman and takes pride in doing so.


Last but not least, the Cancer man is an extremely romantic individual who is always coming up with new and fascinating ways to prove his love. This could be something as simple as a beautiful song to something more extravagant like fireworks in the sky. He is likely to never cheat on you, as infidelity is an absolute no-no in his eyes and he has a no tolerance rule for cheating. He is seeking something long-term and the good majority of Cancer men want a decent home with plenty of little children running around.

Cancer in Bed

When it comes to a Cancer man in between the sheets, he prefers the more sensual and traditional way of love-making. He likes to do all of those incredibly romantic things, like taking hot bubble baths with scented candles or aligning the bed with rose pedals. Just like in his day-to-day life, Cancer wants to make his woman happy- and that includes in the bedroom. He will make sure his lover is satisfied and he greatly enjoys seeing her pleasured.


Negative Side of a Cancer Man

You might not notice it right away as the Cancer man is incredibly shy right off the bat, but this zodiac sign tends to be extremely moody. There moods seem to change by the hour- sometime the minute- and can go from being quiet and insecure to confident and comical. It’s hard to tell when the next mood swing is coming, and that can be incredibly annoying to those around the Cancer.

When a Cancer man enters into a relationship, he wants to put his all into his other half. He’d like to be by their side at all times and give them the world. This can come across as being clingy, and Cancers tend to be hard to break up with too. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, he just wants to give you his all- and that’s respectable.

This sign can get hurt extremely easily- a simple negative comment can send them into a deep depression. This type of over-emotional attitude can certainly get on people’s nerves, especially those close to the Cancer.


Cancer and Cancer: You are both sympathetic and emotional individuals who will find love and friendship in each other. However, the two of you will need to learn to deal with each others changing moods and attachments to the past to make sure the relationship stays strong.


Cancer and Pisces: The two of you have a passionate and emotional personality that will bring the two of you together. You are both able to sympathize well, which will allow Pisces to handle the Cancer mood swings. This relationship is built to last as both of you are on the same page on an emotional level. Pisces is undoubtedly the best zodiac choice for a Cancer!

Cancer and Virgo: Although the two of you are incredibly different, if you can find a way to put up with these differences you can find a deep appreciation for one another and build a very long-lasting relationship.


Cancer Man in a Nutshell

Although he is very shy and closed-off, he is still a bearer of never-ending mood swings that seem to change with each hour that passes. He is undoubtedly one of the best zodiac signs when it comes to relationships, as he is a hard-working, romantic, and conventional man is would do anything to put a smile on his lovers face. He believes in long-term relationships and is likely not to cheat, as Cancer looks down upon cheating immensely. He needs a woman who can stay by his side and be just as loyal and loving as he is, not taking his kindness for granted. He is most definitely looking for the woman of his dreams and 9 times out of 10 he wants to build a long-term relationship that leads to marriage, a nice house, and lots and lots of children.


  1. malachite

    December 4, 2016 at 8:59 pm

    Hi Admin,

    I just read your article and Ive just started talking with a cancer guy. I’m Virgo with doubt Pisces but I find him a little frustrating already not for any other reason than the fact that I don’t know what he is thinking or expecting or even wanting. He says he wants to meet up but has made any effort in doing so. I’m 11 yrs older than he is and we do live 4 hrs away which in honesty isn’t a problem as if we did work something out I can always fly up to him in an hour. So I guess my question is, should I be “patient” and wait and see what move he makes or risk him hiding in his shell by telling him that I feel as though he is playing games because he hasn’t done anything to progress things? Ive always been used to men who took control in the sense of being forward in making things happen and this guy is just the opposite. He is sweet etc in what he says but I don’t want to waste more time with someone who doesn’t want to meet in person because I don’t want an online chat romance only.

    • malachite

      December 4, 2016 at 9:01 pm

      Sorry for typo I am Virgo with double Pisces. See he is already frustrating me lol.

      • web admin

        web admin

        December 5, 2016 at 2:31 pm

        If you find that you are having trouble with your long distance relationship, then you are not alone. Many people have difficulties with such relationships. If you want to see him, then take charge and go see him. If you do not want to be in a relationship with someone that is laid back, then you do not need to remain in that relationship. Any problem that comes along can be solved by your actions. Best of luck, Malachite!

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 5, 2016 at 2:29 pm

      If you find that you are having trouble with your long distance relationship, then you are not alone. Many people have difficulties with such relationships. If you want to see him, then take charge and go see him. If you do not want to be in a relationship with someone that is laid back, then you do not need to remain in that relationship. Any problem that comes along can be solved by your actions. Best of luck, Malachite!

      • malachite

        December 7, 2016 at 2:46 pm

        Thank you for your reply. Time for me to take charge.

  2. Sophie

    November 29, 2016 at 10:51 pm

    Hi Web Admin,

    I appreciate your article and have been doing some research about Cancer men because I’ve met someone I’ve developed some feelings for. Its been about 4 months and right off the bat I’ve noticed that I’m most comfortable around him than I have ever been around guys that I started to have interest him. (Plus point). We go to the same college and thats where we met. I don’t know how but we always end up talking about relationships, even though right now we’re friends I guess? I say I guess because I’m honestly scared that he’s a “fuckboy” (excuse my language) From the beginning he’s made it clear that he’s not looking for a relationship right now and I made it clear that I only do long-term relationships and am totally not a casual dating/sex kind of person. Heck I’m very conservative regarding those matters and I’ve expressed that via actions and words. He hasn’t had a negative response and if anything he’s been understanding. He’s told me about his one and only past relationship which ended badly for him and I’ve told him about my one and only past relationship as well. He’s a fun guy, easygoing. I feel stupid for developing feelings for him despite him telling me he’s not looking for a relationship. We keep in touch via snapchat, text, fb etc but he never initiates anything not even a hangout or a conversation most of the time its me doing that. I’m a Scorpion. It irritates me because I feel unwanted and insecure when he doesn’t initiate. He almost always responds though. I just don’t know what to do. We haven’t been meeting lately due to our school schedules being different and him not initiating anything, I’ve tried and it was nice but I don’t want to be the one doing it all the time. He’s said something before along the lines of “I stay away from people I know I’m not good for” and “I’m selfish” and it has me wondering….I just don’t want to be hurt. I wish I didn’t have these feelings and could just be friends. I don’t know what to do??

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 30, 2016 at 8:26 am

      If your goal is to not be hurt, then you really have to focus on moving on. He has told you that he is not interested in a relationship, and it does not sound like that situation is going to change anytime soon. Unless you want to continue to develop feelings for someone who is emotionally unavailable, the best thing that you can do is try to move on.

  3. Ashley

    November 14, 2016 at 11:00 am

    We were bst frnds bfr getting into a relationship.. but I left the city fr highr studies n then I realised that I feel for him and then confessed. He told me about his feelings long back. so it was a long distance relationship. we had an on and off relationship but deep down we were sure of each other, we used to meet when I used to come back and we communicated less fr 10mnths. n then I came back. he was equally excited as me.. when I came back he got busy with his work n I strtd feeling insecure about him. N felt that he doesn’t love anymore n I used to say that lets stay frnds fr sometime wen u wil hav time we will continue.. I said this thrice n he used to take it casually bcz deep inside he knew wenever he will come n meet me I wil get nrml n cntinue this relationshp n it happened evrytime bcz he used to give me signs that he thinks of our future. But he used to get irritated of the thing that I always disagreed to get intimate with each other.. so he said one day that I don’t meet u oftenly bcz wenevr I m with u I want to b into u but u don’t want that now.. we had discussion on this topic fr almst 1 n a half yr.. n then I felt that if he is nt abl to spend time with me bcz of this then I agreed n we got intimate.. and I was equally serious but felt more insecure that wat if I wil lose him.. aftr all that also he was nt spending much time with me. One day I was upset n I asked him to meet me he said I can’t as u know I m busy with my work.. so I got angry at him and then in 2 weeks we fought thrice and then finally as he was being reluctant in meeting me and constantly saying that plz just wait fr sometime and handl ur emotions by urslf bcz I really can’t make time fr now.. I got more aggressive (instead of undrstnding his work which I always do) I sent him a mail writing many things out of which one thing (which I think) has hurted him the most that this physical intimacy will nt let me to take a decision fr our future.. (Which actually is false bcz fr me it matters alot that’s why it took me so much time to do all that). He didn’t contact me aftr that mail.. then I talked to him and apologised many times bcz I realised that it has hurted him badly. he said now I don’t want you to wait. pls just live fr ur own life. and work.. and then I asked him to meet me once initially he was nt ready but then he agreed. then a day bfr meeting I told him sorry but I really love u n u know that in reality I m never gonna leave u. Then he said we wil be frnds that’s it. wen we met I couldn’t talk about that. we had a nrml conversation. then I asked him to meet me again I want to talk about that. n then aftr a week he called me to meet him fr a while n then one more time he asked..but again we just had a nrml cnvrstn. its been 3 weeks I asked him twice to meet me n lets hav a word about that … he says we will but haven’t met yet.. what should I do. I can’t lose him.. but he says he is not sure if our future now.. please advice…

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 14, 2016 at 11:52 am

      If he has made his feelings clear, then you may have to live with that. However, your best option is to spend as much time with him as you are able. If he does not want to spend time with you or talk to you, then you have your answer. Take this time to look inward and determine what action that you want to take. It may be best for you to give him some space and try again in the future. For now, remain positive and think about what you want for your life at this very moment. Remain mindful as you move into the future. Enjoy life, Ashley!

      • Ashley

        November 14, 2016 at 1:36 pm

        But the way he responds it seems that he feels but doesn’t want to invest in a relationship… like I will tell u the incident few days ago I msgd him that can we meet onc he said sure wenevr u say.. the i said ok this weekend then bcz of his work timings he refused that I can’t.. then wen I said that ok if u don’t want to.. he said its not like that I dont want to but I just can’t right nw.. then I said ok I don’t know what’s there on your end but I m getting all into u.. intantly he responded with a reply that ok tomorrow morning.. I think if he really didn’t want.. then my loving words shouldn’t hv affctd him..

        • Ashley

          November 14, 2016 at 1:57 pm

          Thank you… u r right.. I should move on…:)
          And I hav a kind request to u .. if u can delete this post as I m not abl to find any delete option here..

          • web admin

            web admin

            November 23, 2016 at 1:31 pm

            If I can figure out how to do that on here, I will. We get a lot of comments a day, so I am not sure if there is a way to find all of them other than going through each comment individually. Good luck, Ashley–I hope that everything works out for you!

        • web admin

          web admin

          November 23, 2016 at 1:30 pm

          He may want to meet up with you, but he is just busy. I would keep an open mind about it because he is probably just working a lot right now. When work slows down, you can finally see if he will be able to meet up more often. If you really think that he is not invested in the relationship and does not really care, then it may be best to move on. What do you want to do as your next step?

      • Ashley

        November 14, 2016 at 1:58 pm

        Thank you… u r right.. I should move on…:)
        And I hav a kind request to u .. if u can delete this post as I m not abl to find any delete option here..

  4. Que

    November 13, 2016 at 6:19 am

    Hi, i am a Scorpio woman and he is a cancer… He showed interest in me and bought things for me and wanted to take me out… I didn’t believe he really liked me cox i thought it was too soon so I chose his friend and he warned he was gonna play me but i didn’t listen because i thought cancer was the player because he was to nice to me and was touchy and even tried to kiss me a couple of times. After his friend has used me and dropped me, he took me “back ” (I’m saying back because we were flirting during hid friend. But the problem was he wanted me to give myself completely to him like i didn’t with his friend, which meant sleeping with him… I told him i can’t and he found it unfair and he also spoke of him not believing i truly like him so it was a “test” and that he wasn’t going to hurt me he’ll take care of me. But i still couldn’t do it because i had a lot to lose but i love him n i told him and he wants “proof”. But i still broke it off because i couldn’t trust him, he also didn’t trust me and he always got jealous when i spoke to guys. Thing is i want him back but can’t even contact him because he said i should never speak to him again, i know he was being emotional because he looks at me with love in his eyes still… But i lost his number because i got angry and deleted everything… It was a bad fight but i can tell he still likes me… How do i get him back?
    Please help

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 13, 2016 at 11:18 am

      It seems as though your relationship has been damaged by a lack of trust. If he said that you should never speak to him again, then your relationship has ended. Allow thoughts of this person to fade into the past. Take this time to look inward and determine what kind of future that you want for yourself. When you realize what mistakes have been made and how you can avoid them in the future, then attempt to develop a relationship with someone else at that time. For now, remain positive and mindful. Have a great week, Que!

      • Que

        November 14, 2016 at 2:48 am

        Thank you… It’s going to be hard but I guess it’s really time to move on then… Thank you for your time

        • web admin

          web admin

          November 14, 2016 at 11:09 am

          Do not allow yourself to feel negative. Instead, take this as an opportunity to look inward and feel positive. This will hep you better understand the nature of relationships as you move forward. When you are ready, you will be able to insert yourself fully into your next relationship. Remain positive and mindful as you move into the future. Enjoy life, Que!

  5. Ashley

    November 2, 2016 at 9:57 am

    I am falling completly in love with a cancer man, we are going out of town alone for the first time this weekend and I wanna tell him. We have been dating for 4 months but have known each other 5 years. I met his children for the first time 3 weeks ago and our children met each other and clicked so well 2 weeks ago. My thing is though he’s so quite and closed off but I have to say I get a good morning beautiful text every single day but then no communication till like 9pm. I haven’t met his parents yet but he knows I want to and they have been bugging him to meet me. I’m a gemini who’s trying to figure out this secretive man who’s got me smitten, I like to talk a lot and he hates texting and very little talking in the phone maybe 10 min at night but he’s soooo attentive in person which has been almost every weekend for the past 4 months

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 2, 2016 at 1:15 pm

      It is certain that the two of you have a strong relationship. There is no reason to be alarmed that you have not yet met his parents. In time you will certainly do so. Continue to talk to him about your desire to meet his parents and eventually he will listen. Be sure to enjoy life and remain positive. Have a great week, Ashley!

  6. MissCancerwoman

    November 2, 2016 at 9:06 am

    Hi there, I have a cancer man now. We are one year in our relationship. He is very sweet and gentleman like I am so lucky to have him. But my problem is that he already had a daughter from his ex girlfriend and I too have my daughter from my past boyfriend and he doesnt know about it. I was like not into him before so I decided not to tell him the truth but then I was not prepared the whole thing we will be gotten this far in our relationship. I am also a cancer woman and I cannot accept any rejection, but my mind is always asking me what if he found out? What will I do? I love him now. And I know he loves me too. I am very close to his family and I am very afraid if you found out they will reject me and hate me for lying. Please I need your advise what is the best thing to do.

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 2, 2016 at 1:09 pm

      You should tell him the truth as soon as you speak to him next. It is important for you to be honest about your past. And while you should have already told him, you can not go into the past. If you lose him because of your withholding of the truth, then you will know the importance of honesty in the future. Do not continue to hide this from him. It will only be more and more likely to make him feel negative feelings toward you in the future if you do. Remain positive and act. Good luck!

  7. Scorpio woman

    October 24, 2016 at 10:53 am

    Hi I’m a Scorpio woman and I’ve been really into a cancer man this past months…. I would extremely agree that this sign is such a Moody being at some time I could barley read him. But after months and after he rejected me for about two times hahaha… He finally said that he could feel some spark between us I just want to know how to maintain this feeling of him or how to let him feel a deeper love for me since at any time they could easily change their minds or feelings 🙁

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 26, 2016 at 1:24 pm

      If he said that he has feelings for you and you want to develop a relationship with him, then share your feelings directly and honestly with him. He may want to develop a relationship with you, but he may feel unsure about your feelings. It would be wise for you to take this time to look inward and determine the future that you want for yourself. Perhaps his feelings with grow if the two of you are spending more time together, but it is possible that his wishy-washy emotions may tire you in the future. Remain positive and enjoy life!

  8. Roxy

    October 2, 2016 at 2:13 am

    Hi. I met this cute Cancer Guy 8 months ago via I am a Capricorn woman (but don’t know the rising or the moon). He’s 27, I’m almost 34 and I have a 13 y.o son (they haven’t met yet). Being in this relationship I discovered that I can have a lot of patience, lol. He is very sweet, he makes me feel good, just by breathing next to me, it’s a feeling I can’t describe, he just gives me a good vibe and of course this makes me wanting to see him as much as I can. But he is busy sometimes, also travelling a lot in the past few months. He says he loves me and misses me when he’s out, but sometimes I doubt it…For me, if he loves me, he has to prove it by giving me his time, and to show me that I’m important to him (this what I do for him). Also, what I am not too happy about is that he is not romantic. He said that he was in the past, but got hurt, and now he’s not doing it again. I feel it’s not fair, because I never hurt him, and I always show him my love, I even buy little presents, but he never gave me one… He hasn’t introduced me to his family yet (well, his mum, cause dad is separated, in another country). I don’t know what to think, my friends say that I should leave him because he doesn’t seem serious about a future together (he said that me having a kid is a kind of a problem). I want something serious with him, my intuition and my heart tells me he’s the one for me, but my reason tells me he’s too immature and he’ll never be the man I need..
    Can you please advise me somehow?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 2, 2016 at 9:51 am

      It sounds like he loves you and is interested in you. I would not worry about the traveling or lack of romance–if he has to travel, he has to travel. Many guys are not good at romance, so choosing to break up over that would probably not be a good choice. As for the problems with your child and him, that could be a real issue. If he does not want to have a kid at this point, that will not change. At some point, he would either have to accept the child or end the relationship. Only you two can decide if that will be a deal breaker or not.

      • Roxy

        October 3, 2016 at 2:20 pm

        Thank you very much for replying so quickly! Your advice is very good. I guess I just have to be (even more) patient and see what happens :p

        • web admin

          web admin

          October 4, 2016 at 10:39 am

          Good luck! Let me know if you need any more help!

  9. Scorpio/Libra girl

    September 27, 2016 at 9:37 am

    So , I am a Libra/Scorpio girl with a Pisces Moon , and I have a crush on a Cancer man , his Moon is in Aries… My question is that there are any chances for this to work out ? And can you give me any clues on how to get his attention (Like example an outfit or topic to bring up in a conversation) . 🙂

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 28, 2016 at 4:15 pm

      Certainly you will be able to establish a relationship with him. If you are comfortable with a bold outfit or a conversation out of the blue, then you are certain to grab his attention. What is important is for you to remain positive and speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. He will certainly respect your attempt and he may want to make his feelings known as well. Enjoy life and take action, Girl!

  10. Michi

    September 14, 2016 at 5:18 am

    I’m a Cancer girl and I have a crush on a Cancer guy who is older. I’m normally a good judge of character but I can’t seem to figure this guy out. There is also a language barrier since we speak 2 different languages. He’s given me signs that he may like me (as well as a mutual friend teasing that he does) but I’m not so sure. I’ve been going to his bar for the past 3 weekends and each weekend he rarely talks to me, but when he does he leans in closer than he would with other persons, and he checks to see if I’m ok, helps with language stuff, and is all around sweet. I haven’t seen him really act like that around any of the other girls who enter the place. But I’m really confused. He says he’s too busy to date, but he seems to be putting out these signs. I figure I’m reading too much into it so I haven’t mentioned anything to him and I’ve only met him on 3 occasions (we don’t communicate much outside of that venue). I’m really confused because these signs are confusing to me! What advice can you give?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 14, 2016 at 3:41 pm

      While he may be too busy to date, he may have the time to develop a relationship with you. If he leans in close and asks how you are doing, then be sure to be close to him as well if you want to develop a relationship with him. If you find that you want to spend more time with him, then do so. The language barrier may be a problem, but over time the two of you will become better at communicating with each other.

  11. What to do

    September 3, 2016 at 10:56 am

    I met a Cancer man in 2007 our communication stopped in 2009. Last year 2015 I had my phone in my back pocket and it accidentally called him, since we last spoke I changed my number twice I think. Later on that evening he texted and said who is this I replied and told him who I was and we sparked up a conversation since then we have been in connect with one another. Saw each other for the first time in 7 years in July nothing sexual happened we caught up on life and such. He expressed some things that I didn’t even know about ( feelings for me and all) my main concern is that he travels a lot due to his job and we don’t see each other often I’m an Aries woman and I just adore him and don’t want to loose him a second time around I got feelings for him but I’m scared to express them because in the conversation we had he said we would be friends for life so now Im just confused on what to do. We text every morning and sometimes I text him just to let him know I’m thinking about him and hope he is having a good day. I’ve never dated a Cancer before and I know they are sensitive people so I really try not to be so aggressive when I tell him how I feel. Any advice would be great!! Thank you

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 3, 2016 at 2:53 pm

      If you want to just be friends with this person, then change nothing and continue conversations with him. If you do want to develop a close relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. There is nothing wrong with keeping a casual relationship. Since he travels often, he could be your friend that you hang out with when he is around. You are under no obligation to establish a relationship with him if you don’t want to. Enjoy life and remain positive!

      • What to do

        September 6, 2016 at 7:57 am

        Thank you !!

        • web admin

          web admin

          September 6, 2016 at 8:00 am

          No problem! Let me know if you need any more help. Thanks for commenting!

  12. Karlita

    August 19, 2016 at 2:04 pm

    I am in a committed relationship with a Cancer Man. I fought with him because I got tired of his moodiness. I am a Virgo woman. He’s always busy even in our free time and it is very difficult in a long distance relationship. This irritated me that much for over 4 months now. I shared to him my inner-selves, worries, frustrations, fears, and expectations in our relationship. Sometimes I offered break-up but he does not want. He avoids argument too and if he wants to answer my arguments, he’s just calm and not so talkative but sometimes defensive. He said I don’t have to worry because he loves me and misses me always. That love is the maximum and there’s no more than love. He still ended up sweet. But I am just worried now if this Cancer guy want to hear their my feelings and fears. He might think of me as needy. I only want to make things better and talk things out. I’m still holding back if this kind of argument to him is valid or not because I am afraid that he might pull away.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 20, 2016 at 12:40 am

      If you find yourself needing to share your feelings, then share them. You do not want to be trapped with someone who is not interested in your feelings. Be direct and honest at all times. Be respectful of his feelings as well and if he is tired of discussing your feelings at this time, then accept that. If he decides to pull away from you, then he is pulling away from your honest self. You don’t want to be in a relationship with someone who doesn’t want to be in a relationship with you.

  13. Maxine

    July 26, 2016 at 1:30 pm

    Am a Libra and am in love with a Cancer Man we are in a long distance relationship for over a year now. I Visit him as often as I can as my job is a bit more flexible than his. I now decided that am not going to visit him again unless me come and visit me, as our last encounter was not as pleasant as I had expected. Am worried if am doing the right thing or I might loose him.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 26, 2016 at 7:40 pm

      You always risk losing a relationship if you choose to cut off conversation or stop meeting with someone. If you believe that you are taking the correct action in ending your relationship, then continue to do so. It would be best if you are clear with him about your goals and feelings and that you will be expecting him to come to you. If you hide your plan from him, then he will not know how you want him to act. Be direct with him.

  14. Scorp / Sag Lady-- With Cancer man?

    July 25, 2016 at 1:17 pm

    I’m a Scorpio-Sag cusp lady with a moon in Libra. I’ve had a crab man chasing me since Feb/March, and I’ve finally given in– I mean how could I not? He’s so dreamy!

    But now I’m curious as to what the likelihood is of us working out long term. I’m not looking to have a fling, but I also know the sag / cancer combo isn’t so…compatible.

    Am I destined for doom?

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 25, 2016 at 11:42 pm

      If you go into your relationship overly concerned about your star signs, then you may find yourself falling into common traps. Instead, take him for his personality and be honest with him about your personality. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If you want to ask him about his zodiac and see where he stands, then it would be most wise to do so.

  15. Love

    July 12, 2016 at 2:01 am

    I was with a cancer man for five years four in a relationship one in our marriage. I’m a Pisces woman who dealt with him having a secret child three in a half yrs before marriage I forgave him for the baby as well as accepted him. Fast forward he was still cheating off and on I stood by his side. We got married and he began catching cases, began living a second life while I worked two jobs getting back and forth on the bus while he rode around in another woman’s car and moved in with her. I was broken when his 7 yr old daughter was able to tell me exactly what he did with the other woman as well as the lies he made her tell me. He caught another case and I found out everything after the woman bonded him out. Nine months ago I was honest with him about my hurt that has been constant so I said I dont want to be with you anymore he called everyday crying and begging me to stay but wasn’t putting in any real effort. Keep in mind this day we are still married I didn’t start another relationship yet nor have I had sex. He on the other hand he’s dealing with a much younger girl who’s also a cancer keep in mind during the gap in our marriage he has never really stopped reaching out to me. I tried to stay away but he really wouldn’t let me go and she knows it too. I beat her up three weeks ago for nick picking and I would only be trying to communicate with him to check on his well being or respond to his search thru my mother his friends n child’s mother while with her. I gave him the attention he wanted but he began trying to play middle man still. We had sex 3 times 2 unprotectedly this week. But he is still playing the middle man after I sent her pictures of us. He is really upset and started saying I left him hanging but steady reaching out. I want him back I needed space to build myself up and get the home we never had…giving him time to get it right. How should I go about getting him back the cancer girl knows the truth but refuses to leave…what am I to really do to get all of his affection back.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 12, 2016 at 5:06 pm

      You need to immediately end your relationship with him. End your relationship for numerous reasons. The first reason, and the most important, is that this man is unstable, making you act in unstable ways, and is possibly a physical risk for your safety. The second reason, is the you need to demand respect from your partners, and you seriously need to take a look at yourself and your actions. Thirdly, by helping his cheat on his girlfriend, you are harming her and causing her life to be difficult. Fourthly, his daughter needs to see positive female role models in his life, not people who accept his actions and fight for him. Fifthly, he does not need to be able to use and abuse you, and by purposefully allowing him to do so, you are causing him to do the same to others. End all communication with him. Unless you are being abused by him and you are unable to leave, – and if that is the case you need to speak with the police – then leave him, today.

    • HoroscopeStar

      August 29, 2016 at 8:56 am

      Hi Love, just wanted to tell you based on my experience and my knowledge to all star signs. My question to you is, is he really worth it? Cancerian man often desire things that they couldn’t reach for it. That’s why they cheated again and again, as well as lying through their teeth. If you continue to keep giving him the chance again and again repeatedly, maybe next time it won’t be just this cancerian girl but more girls that are queuing behind which you weren’t aware of. Trust me, this is an unhealthy relationship. Once a cheater, always a cheater. Old habits die hard~

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 30, 2016 at 11:55 am

        It is always best to leave a relationship if someone does not respect you. If he is cheating time and time again, whether or not he is a cancer, then you should end the relationship. There is no reason for you to continue to be abused. Thank you for your reply, Star, as your comment is insightful and helpful. Feel free to always post and share your ideas to support this community!

  16. Cristina

    July 2, 2016 at 4:54 pm

    I have been dating a Cancer for almost 4 months now. Everything seems to be just fine, we have never had a real fight, he recently even asked me to meet his parents, which I believe is a huge step, that someone wouldn’t take unless they were really into that person and were sure that the relationship was going somewhere. The thing is, sometimes, pretty often actually, I feel he is a little distant, as if he wished he would be anywhere else but with me. I fear that I might not have given him the chance to say that he doesn’t want to be in this relationship. We never talk too much about it either. It’s is kind of hard to explain, but I don’t even know how exactly we got together in the first place. After several dates, this one time when he walked me home, we kissed, and never talked about it again. We just kept kissing each time we saw each other, holding hands while walking down the street, as if it was the norm. To this day, I don’t when is out anniversary supposed to be. I don’t really know what to do. I’m afraid that voicing my concerns would scare him off. Any advice?

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 3, 2016 at 12:47 pm

      Speak to him directly about your feelings and your concerns. It seems as though he likes you and treats you well. There is no reason to concern yourself about when your anniversary date is, and if you want to know for sure, then speak with him about it. If he respects you, which it seems like he does, then you should have no problem having this discussion with him. If he has a problem with speaking about your relationship with you, then you know that he may not be the right person.

      • Cristina

        July 3, 2016 at 3:35 pm

        Thank you so much got answering. I think that is actually what I am afraid of, the most: finding out that he is not the right person. I guess I should just get it over with as soon as possible, because it is eating me up.

    • HoroscopeStar

      August 29, 2016 at 9:00 am

      I do have an advice for you. Before this relationship gets any deeper, run for your life! Cancerian man have the mindset of bringing someone he thinks his mum will be fond of home. This is their character. And the reason why he’s distancing away it’s because he wants more than just a kiss. But never in my words have sex with him because after awhile he will get sick of you and find another girl who can give him more and satisfy his needs~

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 30, 2016 at 11:58 am

        Anytime that you have strong feelings that someone is not the right person for you, cancer or not, it is best to leave. There is no reason to string them along and there is no reason for you to be stringed along. If you are still in the relationship and not certain about leaving or not, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If he brushes you off, then you have your immediate answer. Remain positive as you move forward and know that you are the key to your happiness, no one else is.

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