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    Cancer Man in Love

    By on May 6, 2014

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    A cancer man can be described as being one of the shyest zodiac signs of them all. He is a very closed-off person who takes their time getting to know people, and he doesn’t trust easily. He doesn’t like to be the center of attention and is definitely choosy about whom he has a conversation with. However, a Cancer man has the capability of knowing how others around him are feeling, so when he does decide to engage in conversation he can usually tell when someone is interested or not. Aside from being shy, a Cancer man can be a bit random with his emotions and is a very traditional man that any woman would be lucky to have.

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    The Type of Woman Cancer Needs

    Cancer men need gentle woman who will accept their genuine kindness and beautiful romantic gestures. They need a lady who will be grateful for everything he does within the relationship, especially the things he isn’t asked to do. A nagging woman or any lady who tries to take advantage of the Cancer man is simply out of the question. You must be willing to take the time to get to know Cancer, as he is a very shy individual who doesn’t open up easily. This requires a great deal of patience, another important attribute a Cancer’s lady should have. Last but not least, he needs someone who is looking for a long-term relationship, someone who will be completely loyal and eventually want to get married and start a family (almost every Cancer man’s dream is to have a decent home with several children).

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    Cancer in a Relationship

    He would never even consider jumping into a relationship. The Cancer man takes a great deal of time getting to know his potential woman before making any sort of move. He has to ensure she is someone he can get along with and trust, someone who can make him feel comfortable and help him open up. Even after entering into a relationship, Cancer will remain shy and closed off for quite some time. It could be weeks, even months before Cancer is willing to show his innermost thoughts and passions.

    This opening up may take quite some time, but once the Cancer man becomes comfortable with his woman, he simply becomes the man of everyone’s dreams. He is a traditional and conventional fellow and will open the door for his woman, bring her flowers to the doorstep, and pick her up to carry her across a puddle so she doesn’t get dirty. He is nothing short of a gentleman in all situations, which is obviously a huge catch for a lady (especially in this day and age when chivalry is practically dead).

    To a Cancer man, making sure his woman is happy at all times is imperative. He wants to see her smile no matter what and will jump through fiery hoops to make it happen. He is happy to help his lady, whether it is something as simple as doing the dishes or taking out the trash, and will do so without being asked. He is happy to do things for his woman and takes pride in doing so.

    Last but not least, the Cancer man is an extremely romantic individual who is always coming up with new and fascinating ways to prove his love. This could be something as simple as a beautiful song to something more extravagant like fireworks in the sky. He is likely to never cheat on you, as infidelity is an absolute no-no in his eyes and he has a no tolerance rule for cheating. He is seeking something long-term and the good majority of Cancer men want a decent home with plenty of little children running around.

    Cancer in Bed

    When it comes to a Cancer man in between the sheets, he prefers the more sensual and traditional way of love-making. He likes to do all of those incredibly romantic things, like taking hot bubble baths with scented candles or aligning the bed with rose pedals. Just like in his day-to-day life, Cancer wants to make his woman happy- and that includes in the bedroom. He will make sure his lover is satisfied and he greatly enjoys seeing her pleasured.

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    Negative Side of a Cancer Man

    You might not notice it right away as the Cancer man is incredibly shy right off the bat, but this zodiac sign tends to be extremely moody. There moods seem to change by the hour- sometime the minute- and can go from being quiet and insecure to confident and comical. It’s hard to tell when the next mood swing is coming, and that can be incredibly annoying to those around the Cancer.

    When a Cancer man enters into a relationship, he wants to put his all into his other half. He’d like to be by their side at all times and give them the world. This can come across as being clingy, and Cancers tend to be hard to break up with too. That’s not necessarily a bad thing, he just wants to give you his all- and that’s respectable.

    This sign can get hurt extremely easily- a simple negative comment can send them into a deep depression. This type of over-emotional attitude can certainly get on people’s nerves, especially those close to the Cancer.

    Compatibility

    Cancer and Cancer: You are both sympathetic and emotional individuals who will find love and friendship in each other. However, the two of you will need to learn to deal with each others changing moods and attachments to the past to make sure the relationship stays strong.

    Cancer and Pisces: The two of you have a passionate and emotional personality that will bring the two of you together. You are both able to sympathize well, which will allow Pisces to handle the Cancer mood swings. This relationship is built to last as both of you are on the same page on an emotional level. Pisces is undoubtedly the best zodiac choice for a Cancer!

    Cancer and Virgo: Although the two of you are incredibly different, if you can find a way to put up with these differences you can find a deep appreciation for one another and build a very long-lasting relationship.

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    Cancer Man in a Nutshell

    Although he is very shy and closed-off, he is still a bearer of never-ending mood swings that seem to change with each hour that passes. He is undoubtedly one of the best zodiac signs when it comes to relationships, as he is a hard-working, romantic, and conventional man is would do anything to put a smile on his lovers face. He believes in long-term relationships and is likely not to cheat, as Cancer looks down upon cheating immensely. He needs a woman who can stay by his side and be just as loyal and loving as he is, not taking his kindness for granted. He is most definitely looking for the woman of his dreams and 9 times out of 10 he wants to build a long-term relationship that leads to marriage, a nice house, and lots and lots of children.

    393 Comments

    1. Gem In Love

      November 5, 2017 at 8:39 am

      I met this cancer guy online 7 monthes ago. We had instant attraction toward each other. It’s even hard to explain. I felt like I’ve been knowing him for a while. Everything was good in the beginning. He was sweet, charming. He would text me good morning everyday, call me. 2 weeks into the introduction process, he asked to meet and I agreed to see him in a cafe. On the day that we were supposed to meet he said he can’t see me unless I have sex with him.I refused and told him I need to get to know him and fall in LOVE before I can have sex with him.He said he is really into me and keep talking to me without having sex is something he can’t bear. I said then we should stop talking.After 2 weeks I missed him so much and couldn’t resist anymore,so I text him to check on him and played cool like nothing ever happened and he was happy to talk to me again, few days after he start pursue me into having sex with him again and I of course refused and stopped talking to him and we have been running into the same circle for about 7 monthes. He didn’t block me from his tango or other social apps and he would alwys drive by my house and watch me from a distance when I go out.He told me I mean a lot to him and I am always on his mind and he misses me and can’t stop thinking about me. I don’t know what to do.I tried to move on, but I didn’t feel the attraction and the spark with any other guy. It’s like I got addicted to him. I can’t stop thinking about him. We are back talking again and I am hoping he gave up on the sex for now. I was reading about the tests cancer do. I am not sure If he is testing me since the girls from his culture won’t have sex before marriage and he trying to see if I am the same way or he is just want me for sex and nothing else. Please help me. Any advice would be greatly appreciated. Thank you..

      • web admin

        web admin

        November 5, 2017 at 8:29 pm

        If he is monitoring your movements, then take this time to determine if you believe that his actions are acceptable and that you are safe. There is no reason for your to enter into a sexual relationship with this person. If you speak with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. He likely thinks that you are interested in developing a sexual relationship, as you continue to nourish this relationship. Have a great day, Gem!

    2. Gloria Gilani

      August 26, 2017 at 8:30 am

      Dear Admin
      I’ve been seeimg this cancer man for a year in a half.. he has stolen my heart.. so gallant and I feel safe when I’m in his arms.. he lives right close to me as a matter of fact he’s my neighbor.. Im so confused because there are times that we don’t see esch other for weeks… he works so much he’s a manager at a department store that takes up his time.. i have really fallen for this 58 yrs old man. But theres also another problem I’m married to a man that was deported and is living in another country for 8 yrs.. I’m so willing to get divorce and be with my cancer man.. but he so distant at time..and I don’t know where I stand with him or tell him how much I adore him.. so scare to lose him… help me.

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 26, 2017 at 7:50 pm

        If you and your current partner have been apart for eight years, you are not interested in moving to his location to be with him, and you are no longer interested in nourishing your relationship with him, then end the relationship. There is no reason for you continue that relationship if it is not able to be enjoyed. After you have divorced or begun the process of divorce, you can attempt to develop a relationship with this other person. Have a great day, Gloria!

    3. Made in love

      August 13, 2017 at 3:02 pm

      Im a cancer woman i met a cancer man about three years ago although it may have not been right we both where in relationships when we started to “talk” somewhere down the line i developed feelings for him..possibly because he started telling me that he loved me and wanted to keep me forever which sometimes i took him serious and others i had no clue what to think i also started to notice everytime i would talk to another guy he would start acting funny and saying he had a headache out the blue or when i didnt come speak to him right away he would be upset..i took it as signs that he really did have some type of feelings for me butnit was really suppose to be a sex thing fast foward we got into a huge arguement one day and he told me he doesnt want me and never did so i respected his wishes and wen on about my life although i was hurt we have mutual friends so as months went on he would casually ask about me or find away to mention me..i payed that no attention 2yrs goes bye i see him from time to time he always speaks when we are close by each other but i never respond..i had since rekindled my relationship with my mate and im engaged and so was he we actually got engaged to tge partners we were with in tge first place..so last week i see him he speaks but this time i speak back and starts to speak with others i was seated in my phone and i noticed it got quiet i look up to find him staring at me and no ones around than asked me if i loved him yes i still feel deeply for him but i said no and he proceeds to tell me i do and ask me y i fell in love anyway and i didnt answer he asked about my engagement and informed me his engagement was off than he started to compare my boyfriend to him self by stating he wasnt cooler than him and he cant make me laugh like he does…confused the hell out of me now ive been thinking about it non stop he gave me his number but when i text he didnt answer im so confused about my wants and having that little convo with him made me rethink my engagement.

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 13, 2017 at 7:31 pm

        If you are engaged, then focus your emotional energy on your current relationship. If this relationship is not viable, then end the relationship. But do not end your current relationship for someone that you do not have a relationship with. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Have a great day, Made!

    4. anon

      July 18, 2017 at 10:30 am

      Hey admin!
      I just met a Cancer man a few days ago, via Instagram. We’ve never really talked in real life before, but we have several mutual friends. The other day, my friend was giving me shoutouts, telling people to follow me, and he messaged me saying that my friend is very convincing. Our conversations kind of just sprouted from there. We’ve been messaging for at least an hour a day since. There have been several times he said things that made me think he is flirting, but then he backs off again, then on, then off. I’m definitely getting the feeling that he’s trying to impress me with his humor/trying to get me to laugh. Could he be interested in me, or am I just overthinking things as usual? Thank you!

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 18, 2017 at 3:14 pm

        It is certainly possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. His actions may be due to natural shyness or confusion about your feelings toward him. Your best option is to speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. This will give him the opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Anon!

    5. maha

      June 12, 2017 at 12:28 pm

      its been one month i met a cancer guy, he always come to see me he even asked my number.I’m a shy type and a baby face girl, he always stare at me and ask about my well being, i know he likes me and always call me beautiful but i always pretend that he is joking .

      • web admin

        web admin

        June 13, 2017 at 8:22 pm

        It is certainly possible that he wants to develop a relationship with you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. This will give the two of you a chance to develop your relationship. Best of luck, Maha!

    6. AMarie

      May 31, 2017 at 5:11 am

      Where did my post go? I posted yesterday 5/30/17.

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 31, 2017 at 8:52 am

        You appear to have commented twice on this one. I have to approve each comment individually, so it can sometimes take me a little while to answer all of them. If you do not see your comment right away, do not worry because you will. Read through my first response and let me know if you have any other questions. Thanks for commenting!

    7. AMarie

      May 30, 2017 at 12:56 pm

      I have been hooking up with a Cancer guy for over a year now. And let me tell you, the disappearing acts are beyond frustrating. It started out with him asking me out on a date, but I elected to just try to get to know him since I normally don’t date my friend’s family. Eventually after only text conversations, about a month in, I went to his house a few times. He was a complete gentleman and wanted to make sure i was comfortable. In the past, he’s been known as a ladies man, but his cousin told me he was ready for a relationship so I opened myself more to him. Eventually, I asked him how he felt about me and I got that “im interested”. Needless to sex we had sex and it stayed to a casual relationship. He no longer texted several times a day, didnt even ask or attempt to ask me out again. Though still a gentleman and passionate during our sexual encounters. He always wanted me to stay the night and cuddled with me the entire time. This left me really confused. I figured more than casual was out the question but I didnt understand why he was so intimate with me. As months went on like this, he would disappear 1 or 2 weeks at a time until I got fed up and stopped answering his texts. I wasn’t as vocal with my wants as I should have been but i felt like that’s a no-no in a casual thing. ABout a month later he reached out to me again and i explained to him that i did not appreciate the disappearing acts. He acted understanding and we went back at it….unfortunately it didnt last. The disappearing acts happens more and more to where now we only see each other twice a month versus twice a week. I live 8min away. I questioned him on whether he enjoys me or not and he claims he does, so why the distance? Did I get played or what? I’m ready to let go again because he’s so hard to read and won’t tell me much on how he feels but he asks me my thoughts every now and then. He’s so addicting but casual or not, I don’t like being treated as the last option. Is he just shy and thinks Im not interested anymore because i act non-nonchalant or am I just an object to be used from time to time?

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 31, 2017 at 8:49 am

        Whether he intended to play you or not, it sounds like this definitely became a relationship that was only about sex. Don’t let the cuddling or gentleman-ly behavior fool you–he might be kind, but it definitely seems like he just wanted a casual, primarily sexual relationship. I doubt you are just an object, but you also are not someone he plans on seriously dating. There is nothing that stops someone from still respecting a person that they just have sex with, and it doesn’t seem like he views you as just an object. At the same time, I doubt the relationship is actually going to progress past the sexual level. It seems like that that is what he wants out of the relationship, and since you never told him otherwise, he may have assumed that that was what you wanted as well.

        • AMarie

          May 31, 2017 at 11:13 am

          Thank you for your honesty! Sigh…time to move on from this addiction. Seems like you can never keep anything good these days.

          • web admin

            web admin

            June 2, 2017 at 10:04 am

            🙁 I hope that everything works out for you. It will take time, but you will gradually heal and move on. Good luck, AMarie!

    8. Vurgal

      May 11, 2017 at 10:25 am

      Adding a lil to that

      To a degree for the last 4 years I obvious picked up on who he is . How he pulls back when stress. How if he tells me he miss me n I don’t response with a similar affection he disappear . How if he mess up and I disappear there’s a real chance I don’t come back or forgive him , then that’s when he fights for his life to contact me n apologizes .
      Yet there’s still so much we need to get to know each other . It’s funny but our messed up codependent relationship for the last 4 years has somehow made us open up to each other , especially him.
      Idk this is so hard . Loving him is easy. Being with him without gaurantee is hard. Even if we do end up marrying one day. A piece of paper won’t change that their relationship thing is hard n I’m no good at it

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 12, 2017 at 8:21 am

        Loving someone always involves risk and the uncertainty of knowing if they will be there or not. In this case, you just have to decide if he is the right person and if you are willing to take that risk. What do you want to do?

        • Virgal again

          July 18, 2017 at 5:25 am

          I chose to stick around wait . It might be stupid but I love him. He said he’d work on communicating but better. The working on communication things didn’t last though . His disappearing bouts are a bit shorter these days but it still happens a lot. Any tip on keeping me sane ? Because when he pulls out and ignore me it drives my world down upside down . I already know this is a part of him I’ll have to get use to . Also, any tip on getting him to want to open up more without me nagging at him to open up more ? And last, from your point of view does it seem like he’s just bored or genuinely is with me because he wants me around ? ( being a Virgo I can’t help but think of it negatively , sorry)

          Thank you

          • web admin

            web admin

            July 18, 2017 at 2:59 pm

            It sounds like you have accepted his actions and want to continue to nurture your relationship with him. Our advice is to leave abusive or unacceptable relationships and behaviors. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Your best option is to speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If he ignores you, then you will be aware that he is not interested in treating you with respect. Have a great day, Virgal!

    9. Vurgal

      May 11, 2017 at 10:17 am

      Hi
      I’m a Virgo . My cancer tried to talk to me 4 years ago. Everything was great . He shared to me his last relationship n how his ex is now pregnant with his friends baby after they broke up. The relationship was great for 4 months n out of no where he became distant. I asked him what I was to him n he completely shut down n didn’t know what to say. So I told him he needed to let me go n not contact me because Idk how but I fallen for him n I needed to find a way to move on. For the past 4 years he will talk to me n then disappear n then text me again every month saying he missed me. This lasted 4 years . Obviously I still love him n have tried to move on but the love is still there. 4 years later he seem to contact me more consistently lately. He’s now in the NFL . Football is the most important thing for him. I finally said im tired of this on n off thing , aren’t you ? Why can’t we work on communicating better? You know how I feel about you .
      He finally spilled it out. He said he sees me in his future, he just can’t tell me when. His main focus is football n he ignore the people he care about sometime but it doesn’t mean he doesn’t care. If I need a relationship right now then maybe we should stop talking . After telling him I wasn’t going anywhere he said he promise to communicate better. It’s been good so far as he hasn’t disappeared yet. Except unlike at the beginning when we met 4 years ago, it seem like I’m the one starting the convo with him.
      I guess as a Virgo I naturally just have more to say
      Anyways idk if I’m being stupid, I don’t know if he’s leading me on with a small hint of a future, I don’t know if he’s sleeping with someone else. I don’t know anything really so I feel stupid all the time as if I could be getting played . But all I know is he never gave me a reason to not trust him and as of right now there’s no one else I want so I will wait .. I’m afraid that one day I will reach a point where I can’t wait anymore or maybe I find out I was played for a fool the whole time … the fear is really real

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 12, 2017 at 8:08 am

        I think that he is being serious about what he wants and is not trying to lead you on. He told you that his first focus is football, not relationships. He also said that if you need more, he can’t do it, and you should move on. It seems like he is being as upfront with you about his feelings and commitment ability as possible. Now, you just have to decide what you want to do. You may be able to be with him later, or it may not work out. There is no way to know what will happen. You just have to decide what you want out of life and if you want to wait around for the hope that he will still be there when football ends.

      • Natty B

        June 3, 2017 at 10:34 pm

        This sounds oh so similar to my situation. My Cancer Man buries himself deep with work and rarely doesn’t want to stick his head up for anything else. Oh yes, if he’s having troubles, he totally disappears. We’ve met almost two years ago, dated 1 1/2 and I have just made the fifth attempt to leave and he told me he sees me in his future (and it’s not too distant). I trust him but then I also met someone else who is more attentive to my needs and takes even more care (I’m a Gemini lol). I said yes to his future proposal and even though I did, I too am afraid that one day I will reach a point where I get frustrated or find out I was played for a fool the whole time … the fear is indeed real

        • web admin

          web admin

          June 5, 2017 at 2:01 pm

          It is difficult to live in fear. Sometimes the best option is to live in the moment. Treat your current partner with kindness and compassion and live your life without worry or anxiety about the future. What comes will come and you can deal with it at that time. Have a great day, Natty!

    10. Ryry

      May 8, 2017 at 7:01 am

      I met a cancer man two months ago and I can tell that he is so passionate, caring and gives too much attention but extremely Moody.i had to deal with his mood swings especially when he gets so distant sometimes and tend to be closed off without showing the reason Behind his weird attitude but I definitely was trying to make the first step always opening up a conversation with him and he seemed to appreciate this. What made me frustrated lately is that he didn’t stop telling me that he wants me to show him what love is cause he thinks he don’t know what it is and, he is a relationship guy but so Moody and has commitments frustrations and don’t know how to love. that’s why I been feeling insecure and noticed that he never Cutts off his ex relationships completely and keep reminiscing about the past for no particular reason.. That means he doesn’t really want to be back with his ex for expl but he keeps talking to her until he shocked me yesterday by telling me that he thinks he love her but she’s not the right woman for him and he doesn’t really want her back in his life but he thinks he is missing the physical feeling with her.. I felt so offended… How à man can love two women at the same time! I started going off and ended the relationship with him but he kept reaching out to me trying to convince me that I misunderstood him although what he said was clear enough it absolutely needs no further explanation.. If he already thinks that he loves her I just gotta fall back, that’s what I been thinking… This was so offending to me and I just concluded that he wants to take his time to really trust a person and open up to him but he doesn’t really know what he want.. that’s why he keeps talking to everyone.

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 8, 2017 at 10:27 am

        It seems like you may have commented twice on this one. I have to answer each comment individually, so it may sometimes take me a little while to answer them all. If you do not see your response right away, do not worry because you will. Read through my last response and let me know if you have any questions. Thanks for commenting!

    11. Ryry

      May 8, 2017 at 6:56 am

      I met a cancer man two months ago and I can tell that he is so passionate, caring and gives too much attention but extremely Moody.i had to deal with his mood swings especially when he gets so distant sometimes and tend to be closed off without showing the reason Behind his weird attitude but I definitely was trying to make the first step always opening up a conversation with him and he seemed to appreciate this. What made me frustrated lately is that he didn’t stop telling me that he wants me to show him what love is cause he thinks he don’t know how to love that’s why I been feeling insecure with him and noticed that he never Cutts off his ex relationships completely and keep reminiscing about the past for no particular reason.. That means he doesn’t really want to be back with his ex for expl but he keeps talking to her until he shocked me yesterday by telling me that he thinks he love her but she’s not the right woman for him and he doesn’t really want her back in his life but he thinks he is missing the physical feeling with her.. I felt so offended… How à man can love two women at the same time! I started going off and ended the relationship with him but he kept reaching out to me trying to convince me that I misunderstood him although what he said was clear enough it absolutely needs no further explanation.. If he already thinks that he loves her I just gotta fall back, that’s what I been thinking… This was so offending to me and I just concluded that he wants to take his time to really trust a person and open up to him but he doesn’t really know what he wants and who he wants in his life that’s why he keeps talking to everyone.

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 8, 2017 at 10:03 am

        Tell him that you will talk about dating again when he figures out his feelings for his ex. He doesn’t seem to be very in touch with how he is feeling about anything or, for that matter, anyone. He may need some time to sort through his feelings. Until then, back off and focus on your own life. In a few weeks or months, you can revisit the option of dating him if he has actually decided on what he wants and how he feels. Good luck, Ryry!

        • Ryry

          May 8, 2017 at 12:14 pm

          That’s exactly what I told him… That maybe he needs space to focus and maybe get a better view of the whole situation and know what he really wants because his emotions seem so unstable to me especially when he gets distant for no reason sometimes. What was funny is that he never treated his ex like he really still love her, he been ignoring her texts for a long time and didn’t want her to keep their child when she got pregnant ect… Then he said he thinks he loves her or missing sex with her! For me that’s so bugged and unstable emotion but got me frustrated because we didn’t really had sex for a while for the reason that he had erection pb due to stress but this made me feel so insecure bt myself and thought he misses her because he wants sex with her not me or maybe he thinks I’m the pb…. But He never really offended me and always saying that it’s not really abt me. And after he confessed abt his probable feelings towards her, he kept reaching out to me and told me that he loves me and wants me not her.. This is so unstable and confusing. I’m falling back right now cutted off conversation with him, ignored his calls and acted so mean cause I was angry.. although I miss talking to him too much . I feel depressed right now because of all that’s happening and because I thought that he was the one for me talking bt wanting to build a strong partnership and we tried to have a child from the second month together.. He asked me to give him patience and time and to hold us down, set the stage for him and let him do the rest cause we are in a distance relationship and I definitely was so down to him and loyal although I’m a Gemini and love my freedom but made efforts for us but he never trusts me and all that made me feel like walking on eggshells and that he is a player and only needs attention from everyone around,these are the negative thoughts I’m having because of my trust issues too, we both needed security and we both needed to trust each other that’s a fact but we were friends first.. direct and discussing everything and that’s the only reason that gave me motivation to fight and … I tried … But in a sudden everything just fell apart…….. All he was trying to do is telling me that he loves me and don’t wanna lose me, but I’m sick of cold words games u wanted him to show me! today is the first day we don’t speak to eachother that’s kinda weird to me we both getting distant and I’m suffering but… I know i just have to stay strong and just move on. I think I’m just designed to stay single cause these relationships of nowadays don’t really work. I just wanted to share thank you so much for answering and I just want you to tell me if falling back was really the right decision or I should have kept talking to him and listening to his lame excuses? .. Cause honestly I thought but everything happened and what he said bt loving his ex and me too is sick crazy to me.. He can’t be a normal person. Is it really possible?

          • web admin

            web admin

            May 9, 2017 at 1:41 pm

            It is really possible to love two people at once. It is not a good position for either of you to be in, but it is actually more common than you think. People often have some feelings for an ex, but how much they still care always varies from person to person. He just needs space right now to work through his feelings and figure out what he really wants. You can talk to him as a friend, but I would hold off on dating him again for the moment. Good luck!

    12. A LEO's Heart

      April 1, 2017 at 8:32 pm

      I am so lost and don’t know if I should move forward with this cancer man. We talk on the phone all the time. He shows genuine interest in my life, but I can’t figure out if we just have a sexual attraction or if he really likes me. He really puts me on an emotional rollercoaster, for he brings the passion out of me. I can’t get enough of our conversation or our brief moments spent together. I sometimes can’t help but to think I may be pushing him away because I want all of his time and attention.

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 2, 2017 at 9:25 am

        It sounds like he likes you, so keep dating him and play it by ear. There is no way to know if the relationship will progress unless you give it a chance. If you think that you are being needy by asking for all of his attention, then try your best not to demand too much. Keep dating him and see what happens because otherwise you will never know if this relationship could have worked out.

        • A LEO's Heart

          April 2, 2017 at 4:36 pm

          Thank you for responding. Not to question you but how or what are some signs to know he likes me. You probably can tell I’m in love with him. I’ve been hurt in all of my previous relationship so it gets harder and harder every relationship I go into. Im willing to see were this lead but I need to know if I have a chance. We’re had the conversation of feelings and I was a little disappointed when I told him I loved him and he responded that he only had strong feelings a for me. It might be me reading too much into things instead of enjoying the moment.

          • web admin

            web admin

            April 3, 2017 at 11:50 am

            It may just take him longer to figure out if he is in love with you or not. Some people fall in love fast, other people take a bit longer to really understand their feelings. If he said that he has strong feelings for you, then it sounds like you are headed in the right direction. I would relax, enjoy your relationship and see where things go. It isn’t easy trusting and loving after you have been hurt in the past, but the only solution is to just do it and open your heart again.

            • A LEO's Heart

              April 3, 2017 at 1:59 pm

              OK.Thank you

              • web admin

                web admin

                April 4, 2017 at 10:04 am

                No problem–let me know if you have any more questions. Thanks for commenting!

    13. Notorious L.E.O.

      March 16, 2017 at 5:57 pm

      Hi. I have been friends with a Cancer man for 5 or 6 years. I always found him attractive but never thought I was his type. Well about a year ago we started really flirting with each other, but again I never thought too much of it. He invited me to his house this past November. I got sick and couldn’t go. He invited me again a month ago. I went and it felt good spending time with him one on one like that…but now he is shying away from me and I don’t know why. I like him, more than just a friend but I am cautious because I’m not sure how he feels. Do I just leave him alone or tell him how I feel?

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 18, 2017 at 12:16 am

        He may be concerned about your feelings for him. He may be too shy to ask you out again. Try to spend more time with him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. He may just need to realize that you are interested in him. If he does not respond, then give him time to sort out his feelings. If you do not want to wait for him, then move on from this relationship. Have a great day, L.E.O.!

      • Elushious

        March 19, 2017 at 8:43 pm

        Im a cancer man myself and i bet hes into you but feels as if you dont feel the same way.we hate rejection most of all so we wont push forward into the unknown this is why he’s pulled back he’s protecting his heart from hurt. SO IF YOU WANT THE BEST MAN you’ll EVER COME ACROSS TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND DONT DO THIS OVER THE PHONE OR TEXT JUST SHOW UP AND TELL HIM HOW YOU FEEL AND HE WILL KNOW IF YOUR TELLING THE TRUTH OR NOT SO BE HONEST WITH HIM.

        • web admin

          web admin

          March 20, 2017 at 3:56 pm

          Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. We always appreciate when our readers share with our community. Please feel free to continue to share your thoughts and feeling in the future. Have a great day, Elishious!

        • Notorious L.E.O.

          March 23, 2017 at 10:50 am

          Thanks for that insight from a male perspective! Though I haven’t told him exactly how I feel, we spoke today and he was saying he is not looking for a relationship right now…it was a conversation he initiated without any prompting from me at all. Even though I am not looking to rush into anything, I do want to spend time with him one on one again but I won’t force that. I will just keep being his friend because he is a good guy. While telling me he wasn’t looking for a relationship he said all the women he dated were crazy so I’m not sure if that has anything you do with it or not. Either way we are cool with each other.

          • web admin

            web admin

            March 23, 2017 at 12:01 pm

            It sounds like he may be a bit hesitant to get into another relationship since he has had bad luck with relationships in the past. Staying friends with him and showing him that you are someone that he could trust (and not another crazy partner) would be steps in the right direction. Good luck, Notorious L.E.O.!

            • Notorious L.E.O.

              March 23, 2017 at 8:30 pm

              Thanks. I will try to keep things the same as they have been…even though I have a crush on him.

              • web admin

                web admin

                March 24, 2017 at 8:36 am

                Hopefully, it will all end up working out. Good luck!

    14. Joe

      March 7, 2017 at 10:37 am

      Hi there, so I met this cancer man at a family event, we spent the whole evening and night together and had a great connection, when I left he didn’t ask for My number and I played it cool, but within a few minutes I got a message from him ( he found a way to get my number) asking if I got to work okay and making small talk, it’s been a few days now with a few messsges but he’s not asking me out, I’m thinking of simply texting him that I had a great time and would love to see him again, what do you think?

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 7, 2017 at 3:44 pm

        Your plan is an excellent plan. It is always best to speak with your interest about your thoughts and feelings. It is clear that the two of you have a great start to your relationship. Best of luck, Joe!

    15. Dija_gemini

      March 6, 2017 at 1:14 pm

      Hi admin,
      I have known this cancer man for a few months…in our university he tends to look at me then he followed me and he asked for my number we started communicating…he says he likes me but he is very hard to interpret he came to my house and we ended up kissing and having sex but when I text him he answers casually I really don’t understand him I told him I liked him too and he said thank you do you think he really likes me…I have fallen in love with him but I can’t understand him what should I do?? He says he has no girlfriend and says he misses me

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 6, 2017 at 2:28 pm

        It seems as though he is interested in you. He may be a casual person, and that is probably why he answers in a casual manner. Try to reach out to him and spend more time with him. Your relationship will strengthen as the two of you spend more time together. Make a plan to meet up with him. Have a great day, Dija!

    16. Dija_gemini

      March 6, 2017 at 7:27 am

      Hi admin,
      I have known this cancer man for a few months…in our university he tends to look at me then he followed me and he asked for my number we started communicating…he says he likes me but he is very hard to interpret he came to my house and we ended up kissing and having sex but when I text him he answers casually I really don’t understand him I told him I liked him too and he said thank you do you think he really likes me…I have fallen in love with him but I can’t understand him what should I do?? He says he has no girlfriend and says he misses me

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 6, 2017 at 2:17 pm

        It seems as though he is interested in you. He may be a casual person, and that is probably why he answers in a casual manner. Try to reach out to him and spend more time with him. Your relationship will strengthen as the two of you spend more time together. Make a plan to meet up with him. Have a great day, Dija!

    17. whiterose

      February 19, 2017 at 7:32 am

      Dear Admin,
      I knew this cancer guy for 6 years due to working in the same dept. He moved last year to a higher post and started to tell me he’s been admiring me. He said he misses me and calls me almost everyday in January. But come February he’s changed. No more calls, no more whatsapp and no more texts from him. Been almost 2 weeks now. He’s nice tho i was surprised when he asked for sexy pics of my 2 private bodyparts!!. What should i do admin?. Should i just stay away and ignore him..or should i continue to shamelessly call and text him everyday without any reply?. He’s done this once and i just treated him like nothing changed. Pls help me..i am really going out of my mind. And btw, we’re not single..both of us..and it makes me harder to move on because i’ve never done this before.

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 20, 2017 at 1:49 am

        If the two of you are not single, then allow him to fade from your thoughts. Focus on your current partner. If I have misunderstood what you have meant by ‘not single’, then please respond. Have a great day, Whiterose!

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