20 Signs a guy like you more than friend.

By on December 25, 2013

You like him, no doubt about that. You like the way he smirks when something is pretty funny, and the way he turns red when he’s complimented. You like his eyes, the way his hair falls just right across his forehead. However, you don’t have any idea if he likes you that same way. Does he notice those things about you? Naturally you won’t even try to talk about it or do anything about it until you know how he feels. Why would you? It could ruin a friendship or make things really awkward. But, what you don’t know is that there are sure-fire ways to tell if he’s into you too. If you find he does any of these signs, you’re in!

1. He Changes The Way He Acts


When hanging out with a group of friends, he doesn’t act like he would if he were with them alone. As if he’s trying to impress you, he may be more polite and more attentive to you over them. If this happens, to show him you are into him, find reasons to grab his hand or his arm. Men are more likely to respond to physical contact than playful hints. You’ll notice that most guys, when they are with their friends, will show off. They’ll act like children–they goof off with their friends and act in a pretty embarrassing manner. But, when you are around everything is different. He acts like he doesn’t condone their childish behaviors, and may even dress in a different way.

2. He Asks Random Questions


If he keeps asking seemingly random yet obvious questions (ie. Do you have a boyfriend? What do you do for fun?) then he is probably into you. Why would he need to know if you have a boyfriend if he isn’t planning on changing that status for you? Asking what you do for fun is a sneaky way to know your interests for future date purposes. One of the most common questions is asking for your number or wanting to know everything about you. If he asks about your history, it means he is invested in you enough to want to learn where it is you come from, how you became the person you are, and even your family.

3. Always Finds A Reason To Touch You

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He can’t keep his hands off you. Literally. He finds any reason at all to touch you, be it helping you down stairs or into a car or even just “accidentally” side swiping your hand with his. One of the cutest things he will do is tickle you a bit. When a guy tickles you, it’s almost always flirting. No, its not just about cheesy pickup lines!



He goes out of his way to spend time with you. He cancels previous plans the minute you say you want to hang out. Any man who gives up Tuesday night poker or Sunday night football to spend time with you… if that doesn’t spell love then what does?

5. He Becomes Your ‘Yes’ Man


You notice that he always agrees with you. Seriously, with everything you say and everything you do. You could throw a banana peel in the way of an old lady with a walker, causing her to trip and fall, and then point and laugh at her and he will likely join in. Why? Because he likes you and really wants you to like him.

6. He Seems Very Protective of You


No matter what’s going on, he makes sure that you are safe. He guards you as if you are his most prized possession. Not saying women are possessions, but you get the idea. He may even go so far as to defend your honor if other guys are messing with you. Chivalry is not always dead! He gets upset if you are upset, and if you got faced with a mugger, he’d put you behind him while dealing with the situation. Sure, he could get shot or stabbed but as long as you are safe, he’d be okay with it.


7. He Teases


If you find he is slightly picking on you, teasing little things about you, it kind of falls into that elementary school idea that if he pulls your hair and picks on you, he must be in love. For a guy, teasing is flirting. Flirting means he likes you. It’s just that simple!

8. He Wants to Hear From You


He messages, texts, and calls you more often than not. One of the most obvious signs that he likes you is the fact that he can’t go a full day without talking to you. This shows that you are on his mind all the time, and he wouldn’t have it any other way!

9. He Helps You Out… Always


He has no problem doing whatever you ask him to. Whether it’s carrying boxes up to your 8th floor apartment, paying your rent, becoming your personal chauffeur, or hit man when exes don’t leave you alone. Whatever you need, he’s the guy for the job. In fact, if you really wanted him to, he’d treat you like a Queen and call you his majesty.

10. He Notices

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There’s also the fact that he notices the little things about you. The new haircut, new shoes, or the fact that you’ve recently changed shampoos. Maybe it’s the way you smile depending on the circumstance. Either way, he notices and likes it.

11. He’s Been Asking About You


You’ve heard from your sister’s boyfriend’s cousin’s wife that he’s been asking about you. Everywhere. The hobo that sits outside your building bumming for change had a twenty minute conversation about if he sees other guys coming in or out of your apartment.

12. He’s Loyal


You never see him so much as looking at other women. When the two of you are together, a whole burlesque show could walk by and he wouldn’t notice. In fact, the naked mile may run past you and his eyes remain focused on yours. You are the only one within his peripheral vision.

13. He Hangs Out With Your Friends


Everyone has that annoying friend, and nine times out of ten, it happens to be your best friend. He doesn’t like her, but he’ll hang out with her because you are there. Yea, that’s love. Even if that annoying friend is a guy who happens to be madly in love with you and you don’t feel that way. This guy may just be nice enough to have bro time with your friend, just to show how much he cares for you.

14. He Treats You Amazingly


He proves once again that chivalry is not dead. He opens the door for you, writes you little notes, helps you with your bags, defends you to people bugging you, and does all the little things we wish most men would do. Most guys don’t just do that for every woman, so you must be pretty special in his eyes if he’s willing to do it for you.

15. There’s No Sense of Time


Things are never rushed when the two of you are together. It’s like he has no care in the world on being late or missing something, so long as he has you. This means that he could spend hours on the phone just listening to you breathe and he’d be perfectly content with this.

16. He Tells You


One of the most obvious signs a guy likes you more than a friend? He says it. He says, “girl, I can’t stop thinking about you. You’re all I ever wanted and more.” Or something along those cheesy lines. Maybe he does it in a cute way, like writes you a note. Circle yes or no?

17.  He’s Always Nearby


He’s always close to you. He finds reasons to be close to you, maybe by leaning in when you are trying to talk to him. Sure, he probably doesn’t even need to get closer to hear you, but he will anyway. He just wants to spend a few seconds hearing nothing but you and smelling the perfume you are wearing. Plus, he probably hugs you. A lot. And lingers for an undetermined amount of time to smell your hair like those creepy guys in the stalker movies.

18. He Ignores You

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There is one way to know if he likes you, but honestly it’s hit or miss. He may pay no attention to you whatsoever. This whole “play hard to get” routine can be a popular one. It’s a way for him to play it cool and act like he doesn’t care when in fact, he’d bend over backwards to impress you.

19. He Has All Your Contact Info, Because He Asked For It


He wants to know how to get a hold of you at all times. He doesn’t say it like that, (because that would be creepy) but he adds you to Facebook, gets your home and cell numbers, and just for extra measures, installs a GPS on your car. Just kidding about that last one, but he really wants to be available to you.

20. He Goes In For The Kiss


The final clue that you are the one person on his mind? He tries to kiss you. He leans in, you can smell his mint mouthwash, his lips definitely look kissable, and who knows? Maybe he succeeds and kisses you. He could be drunk or sober, it doesn’t matter. If he kisses you, he at least finds you somewhat appealing to him. You should definitely see where it goes.

Long story short, if the guy you like happens to exhibit any of these signs, he’s more than likely into you for more than just friendship. There are a few things you should be warned about though. One, some of these signs can be seriously misconstrued. He may like you, but in the brother/sister type of love. He could also be gay, or just a really nice guy. If you are best friends with him and you were interested in making it more, be wary. It may ruin the friendship. Or, it may be the best thing to ever happen and you’ll live happily ever after. You never can tell. He just might be the one for you!


  1. Rexha

    February 7, 2017 at 3:18 pm

    Well theres this boy in my class and i really like him. He always stares at me and when i look at him he quickly looks away. He shouted my name when he was with his friends and i was with my friend. I love him but im really shy to speak top him. He also comes in my dream and i had a dream that im at school and he walkd padt and puts a note in my hand. On the note it says he likes
    Does he like me and wat should i do

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 8, 2017 at 11:21 am

      He probably has an interest in developing a relationship with you. Try to speak with him about your ideas and thoughts. Try to spend additional time with him if you are able to do so. Maybe you can try to spend time with him at lunch. Learn more about him and see if you want to develop a relationship with him. Best of luck, Rexha!

  2. Jozzy

    January 3, 2017 at 8:51 pm

    So, I know four guys in my hood who in some ways, three know each other. Let me classify them as guy A, guyB, guyC and guyD. I’ve known guyA for almost 1&half years, we live in the same house but in different appartement. One thing I have in common with these guys is that we hang out in the same bar since my friends dad owns it. This guyA is a bit cold towards me but can’t stop to smile, wave and greet me when he sees me, he almost aways leave the door open for me on his way home and now it’s been our tradition. If I go home first, I leave the door open,if he goes 1st, he leaves it open for me. When he sees me for instance, he would just start to stare at me till I get closer to him then he’ll greet me, thus will follow either by a smile or a smirk(even in the midst of his friends). We sometimes chat on messenger but our chat is casual. I’ve known guyB for a year n some months and he’s friends with guyA but don’t think they’re very close to each other. He’s the the type who acts wishy whiny. He wants to know almost everything about my life, we’re very close to the extent that he’ll leave his friends and spend time with me before going back to his friends. When he comes to me we hug, exchange pecks and he sit close to me leaving no space at all, as if there’s only that space left in the room. He tells me if he has a plan going on, at times about his family, he also ask if I’ve got a boyfriend or a crush. He recently ask if I know or if am friends with any of the guys in the bar on Facebook and I said yes. He just said okay. Just recently he tried to kiss me and I pulled away but surprisingly he kissed me some days afterwards. He’ll sometimes hug me very tightly, even in front of my friend. If he comes and doesn’t see me I hear that he came looking for me. But what annoyed me was when I asked him why he kissed me, he said he doesn’t know maybe for fun. He keeps saying he doesn’t want to date anyone since he’s jobless and he even said that no girl will date him knowing there’s no cash. I’ve known guyC for a year but have never talked to him casually. He’s friends with all the guys. Am friends with him on Facebook, he’s very difficult to read. I was going to the bar the other time and I saw him with other guys not knowing guyB was there. In the course of our exchange of pecks, I noticed he’s been staring at us since but he quickly looked away when I caught him staring. I once met him in front of the bar and he was about to enter but opened the door and made way for me to enter first. I was once trying to do something and he helped me out with his friend. He stares at me a lot. This reminds me , guyB once brought him up during one of our discussions and I said he’s friends with my brother but not the close type just hi, how’re you type. Then, guyB asked if I like him but I asked why and he said nothing then he said that I like him of which I just smiled and said stop teasing me. I’ve known guyDfor a year, he’s friends with guyAand C. For him he’s more than the word difficult to read cuz all this year that I’ve known him, he just stares at me, scan my face and doesn’t say anything. We take the same bus when going to school and coming back. He always stares straight into my eyes without saying a word. So it has now become our syndrome, we just stare at each other when we meet without saying anything. Sometimes, it’s very intense(I mean the staring, it turns to scanning of face but am always the one to break the eye contact ).When we’re in the bus, it’s as if we’re the only ones there cuz we just keep staring at each other, I break the contact but he keeps staring. But he either relax in his chair, tilt his head or stay focused whenever he stares at me. Mostly in the bar he sits at the end of the room facing the door as if he’s waiting for me to enter and when I do,he starts to check me out without leaving a piece of information. It strange why none of us has the courage to say hello. Please any idea about these guys? (Almost forgot am almost 20, guyA is almost 23,guyB is 24, guyC &D are both 19). Thanks for your time.

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 4, 2017 at 9:41 am

      I am not sure about guy C or D, but guy A and B sound like they like you. The fact that guy B was also worried that you could be interested in another guy shows that he is more likely than not interested in you. Now, you just have to decide which guy you actually like back and who you would be interested in dating. What do you want to do?

      • Jozzy

        January 4, 2017 at 3:26 pm

        Thanks for the feedback and honestly speaking, I got a crush on guyA the first time I saw him until guyD came. Even though I tried to forget guyA, I couldn’t do it. Now I’ve got two big crush on them. Don’t really know what to do *sigh *

        • web admin

          web admin

          January 6, 2017 at 10:07 am

          Take your time! Until one of them makes a move, you don’t actually have to decide for sure. As long as you aren’t in a rush to be in a relationship, you can wait and see which guy you like the most before you try to do anything. Good luck, Jozzy!

  3. sarah

    December 5, 2016 at 6:26 am

    well there is named sam who i really like and he is in my class.he keeps teaseing me and its mean.sometimes when his friends arent around he is nice to me.i think he likes me but my friends said that he doesnt.he is is the type of guy who doesnt stare at girls that much.but every now and then he gives me a glance and when i look at him he looks away quickly,when my friends look at him he just smiles and looks down they told me.idk why but wherever im present he is sometimes there.Also his bestfriend asked my friend if id like sam or not.and his close friend also asked me if i liked sam or not.and sometimes whether or not accidentaly our fingers touched and since then they have been touching

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 5, 2016 at 2:17 pm

      It is likely that he has an interest in you. Because he is talking with you and his friend is asking about your feelings, you can be certain that he likes you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then do so. Explain to him that you do not like it when he treats you in a way that is rude or unkind. He will understand if he cares about your feelings. Best of luck, Sarah!

  4. sarah fauzna

    December 5, 2016 at 3:00 am

    i know this guy and his name is sam .he is always mean to me and teases me.some times he is nice to me but mostly mean.he is the type of guy who doesnt look at girls much but he always gives me a glance and we hold our eye contact for at least 1 sec and quickly looks away.but whenever my friends make eye contact with him they tell me that he gives them a smile he does dat to all my friends except for me(also he is the badass type of guy).there was this time when our fingers touched and since then idk if he is doing on purpose but our fingers keep touching.and his bestfriend asked my friend if i like him or not.and even his girl best friend asked my friend if he likkes me or not and he tends to be every i am (i htink its by coincidence).can you plese tell me if he likes me or not?

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 5, 2016 at 2:34 pm

      It is likely that he has an interest in you. Because he is talking with you and his friend is asking about your feelings, you can be certain that he likes you. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then do so. Explain to him that you do not like it when he treats you in a way that is rude or unkind. He will understand if he cares about your feelings. Best of luck, Sarah!

  5. veka

    November 24, 2016 at 12:37 pm

    I met a guy on tinder and we met twice we have been talking and now he wants us to do more than friends and he dont want just to be friends. Now he is not talking to me since i said i want just to be friends. Can I trust him to be more than friends. He is a good looking guy and i like him.

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 25, 2016 at 10:15 am

      You never know if you can trust someone in a relationship or not, and a relationship is basically just a leap of faith. He obviously wants to be more than friends and does not want just a friendship with you, so if you want to keep him in your life, you would need to be more than just friends. It is entirely up to you whether you trust him enough or whether you want to have a romantic relationship with him or not.

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