20 Flirty Questions To Ask A Guy You Like

By on September 20, 2013
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Flirting can sometimes become an awkward thing to do if you don’t have very many good, flirtatious questions to ask. When it comes to talking to a guy you’re into you want to make sure that you are asking all the right questions and letting them know that you are into them, in a subtle way. So, how do you let your crush know you like them without telling them that you like them? Here are 20 flirty questions that you can ask a guy you like:


Question #1.) Have you been working out?


Why It’s Flirtatious: You’re complementing him! That’s Grade A flirting! Especially, since you are complementing him on not just one specific feature, but his whole body.


Question #2.) Are you single?


Why It’s Flirtatious: A guy will automatically assume that you are asking this question for a reason. Girls don’t ask this to guys they aren’t interested in. When you ask a guy if he is single, you are totally flirting.


Question #3.) What do you like to do better: Cuddle or Makeout?



Why It’s Flirtatious: Asking this lets the guy you like know that you are curious because you are interested in what one he likes better so that you can get down to it!


Question #4.) What are you looking for in a girl?


Why It’s Flirtatious: His first though is going to be, “Why do you want to know?” And he is going to think that you are digging around to figure out if you fit his ideal description. Flirt, flirt, flirt!


Question #5.) How can someone like you be single?


Why It’s Flirtatious: Unlike the plain ‘are you single?’ question, this one gives off way more of a playful flirt. You are complementing and asking a question. By asking how someone like him doesn’t have a girlfriend, you’re implying that it is unbelievable girls don’t try to date him every second because he’s hot or smart or funny!


Question #6.) What’s your favorite kiss?


Why It’s Flirtatious: You are digging to know what he likes best and could even be you slyly saying it’s time for your first kiss.

Question #7.) What’s your biggest turn on?


Why It’s Flirtatious: Only if you are truly into this guy, will you ask this question. And he knows that. You wouldn’t be asking if you didn’t plan on using that knowledge someday!


Question #8.) How did you get to be so hot/cute/adorable.


Why It’s Flirtatious: Again just one of those super flirtatious complements that will make him smile.

Question #9.) Do you think about me a lot?


Why It’s Flirtatious: You wanting to know if you’re on his mind a lot is telling him that you actually care and that you are thinking about him a lot, too.


Question #10.) Do you like romantic movies?


Why It’s Flirtatious: Asking this kind of lets him know that you are thinking of him as a person to watch romantic movies with… and the people you want to watch these movies with are usually someone you like.

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  1. Katie hensley

    July 25, 2015 at 5:11 pm

    Hey so I have this guy and we met through my best friend and he’s really great. I am starting to develop a crush on him and he wanted asked me to hang with him last night so I did and I feel like he likes me but I don’t know. When he texts me he always puts smiley faces and he never wants me to go. Help please?

    • web admin

      July 27, 2015 at 8:21 pm

      It sounds like he could be interested. Often, the best relationships are based on friendships. If you guys were to date, it would probably go really well. From the sound of your message, it seems like he is interested in you. Do you like him as well? Are you going to wait for him to make a move or are you going to make a move instead?

  2. alexia

    July 23, 2015 at 4:27 am

    Ok.I am in love with my best friend but everything is well cause he likes me too but he has a girlfriend and we r not even living near each other.He’s just here with me on his vacation. I need some advice plxlz

    • web admin

      July 24, 2015 at 4:00 am

      That is an extremely difficult situation to be with. Does he want to break up with her? Even if he did end things with her, you would still have to deal with the fact that you guys are far away from each other. Would either of you ever be moving? Personally, I would stay in the relationship (as long as you are okay with the ethical aspect of it) until you no longer want to just have a fling. After that point, you will need to have a serious talk with him about what you want. If he is unwilling to break up with her ever and neither of you is willing to move, then you will probably have to move on. For the relationship to ultimately work out in a few years, one of you will have to move closer and he will have to break up with his girlfriend. Good luck, Alexia.

  3. Ortance

    April 23, 2015 at 5:37 am

    am this really help, but I have some questions… Lol. So what if the guy U like is ur best friend ?How could u make him understand that u want a relationship?.. plz help

    • web admin

      April 24, 2015 at 2:48 pm

      That is a very difficult situation to be in. You have several options. The first one is to start flirting with him and hanging out with him more often. After doing this for a few weeks, you can try to make a move on him when you are hanging out. Since you are friends, you could also try talking about how you feel. An off-hand “Why haven’t we ever dated?” when he does something cute or makes you laugh could help to bring up the conversation more naturally.

      You should be careful, though, before you proceed. Once you have expressed your interest, it will be hard for your relationship to go back to just being friends and he will see you differently. Even if he feels the same, there is always a chance that it will not work out and you will lose a friend. As long as you know the risks going into that situation, you should be fine.

  4. Kalynn Jennings-Thomas

    April 21, 2015 at 7:19 am

    Would he think im crazy if i put all these questions on him at once should i like ask certein questions at a certein or go in for it??? Thanks!!!

    • web admin

      April 21, 2015 at 9:20 pm

      If you were to ask all of these questions at the same time, it would probably be extremely strange to him. Rather than asking these at once, you should slip them into the conversation. Every day or two, add another one of these questions into a normal part of the conversation. By doing this, you will be able to find out more about him without freaking him out too much.

  5. jesh

    April 19, 2015 at 10:58 pm

    Yeah I was called a creepy stalker

    • web admin

      April 20, 2015 at 7:15 pm

      Awww, that’s no good! These questions only work if you use them in the right way. Otherwise, it could end up weirding your crush out. You definitely need to slip them smoothly into the conversation for it to be normal sounding.

  6. Brittney

    March 9, 2015 at 1:39 am

    What if he doesn’t feel the same way about u?? I’m just saying!!!

    • web admin

      April 14, 2015 at 1:09 am

      That is true, but not too big of an issue. If he does not feel the same way, you will be able to figure it out fairly soon from his responses. Excellent question, Brittney!

  7. STAR

    February 11, 2015 at 12:46 am

    What if him& me both lived in different cities in the same state, will it still work.

    • web admin

      April 14, 2015 at 1:10 am

      These questions should still work perfectly fine from different cities and states. Your relationship will take more work, but that will be doable as well.

  8. layla eubank

    January 30, 2015 at 4:51 am

    Helped so much!

    • web admin

      April 14, 2015 at 1:15 am

      I am glad to hear that this helped you. Thanks for the feedback, Layla!

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