20 Flirty Questions To Ask A Guy You Like

By on September 20, 2013






Flirting can sometimes become an awkward thing to do if you don’t have very many good, flirtatious questions to ask. When it comes to talking to a guy you’re into you want to make sure that you are asking all the right questions and letting them know that you are into them, in a subtle way. So, how do you let your crush know you like them without telling them that you like them? Here are 20 flirty questions that you can ask a guy you like:

 

Question #1.) Have you been working out?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: You’re complementing him! That’s Grade A flirting! Especially, since you are complementing him on not just one specific feature, but his whole body.

 

Question #2.) Are you single?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: A guy will automatically assume that you are asking this question for a reason. Girls don’t ask this to guys they aren’t interested in. When you ask a guy if he is single, you are totally flirting.

 

Question #3.) What do you like to do better: Cuddle or Makeout?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: Asking this lets the guy you like know that you are curious because you are interested in what one he likes better so that you can get down to it!

 

Question #4.) What are you looking for in a girl?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: His first though is going to be, “Why do you want to know?” And he is going to think that you are digging around to figure out if you fit his ideal description. Flirt, flirt, flirt!

 

Question #5.) How can someone like you be single?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: Unlike the plain ‘are you single?’ question, this one gives off way more of a playful flirt. You are complementing and asking a question. By asking how someone like him doesn’t have a girlfriend, you’re implying that it is unbelievable girls don’t try to date him every second because he’s hot or smart or funny!

 

Question #6.) What’s your favorite kiss?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: You are digging to know what he likes best and could even be you slyly saying it’s time for your first kiss.

Question #7.) What’s your biggest turn on?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: Only if you are truly into this guy, will you ask this question. And he knows that. You wouldn’t be asking if you didn’t plan on using that knowledge someday!

 

Question #8.) How did you get to be so hot/cute/adorable.

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Why It’s Flirtatious: Again just one of those super flirtatious complements that will make him smile.

Question #9.) Do you think about me a lot?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: You wanting to know if you’re on his mind a lot is telling him that you actually care and that you are thinking about him a lot, too.

 

Question #10.) Do you like romantic movies?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: Asking this kind of lets him know that you are thinking of him as a person to watch romantic movies with… and the people you want to watch these movies with are usually someone you like.

 

Question #11.) What is your perfect idea of a date?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: You want to know how he would spend a date and that let’s him know you are thinking of going on a date with him, but you want to make it perfect for him.

 

Question #12.) Do you have a date to the prom/dance/homecoming/event of any sort?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: Why? Do you want to be that date? Obviously, you might if you are asking! FLIRTATIOUS 101. Maybe he’ll even ask you out!

 

Question #13.) How do you feel about the girl making the first move?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: If he hasn’t made a move on you by now and you ask this question, it should give him the idea that you are thinking about taking that first step.

 

Question #14.) What are your turn offs?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: Asking a boy to tell you his turn-offs implies that you will try to avoid that list of things in the future. Duh!

 

Question #15.) Where do you like to be kissed?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: You may just get an eye-brow raise outta this one! This is flirting at its finest. You are letting him know that you are thinking about kissing him … and kissing him where he wants!

 

Question #16.) Do you think I’m sexy?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: You wouldn’t be asking if his opinion didn’t matter.

 

Question #17.) Do you sleep naked?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: Asking a guy you like this question let’s him know you are curious because you may want to know the answer for future reference if you sleep over. Or, maybe because you like to think of him indecent.

 

Question #18.) Would you be interested in going out sometime?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: You have finally broken the ice and started talking about actually going out and doing something. You are letting your crush know you are ready to go out with him.

 

Question #19.) Did you know that you make me smile?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: Taking him off guard and asking him something almost rhetorical will let him know that he does make you smile and that you love it.

 

Question #20.) Will you go out with me?

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Why It’s Flirtatious: This one is more than just flirting. You are taking the initiative to see if all that flirting did its magic and hopefully, he’ll say yes!

Question #21.) Would you consider yourself to be shy?

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Why it’s Flirtatious: Asking this question may get a nice glow on your crush’s face as he blushes. If he is shy, it will be cute to watch him grasp for an answer and if he isn’t, then his confidence may just be worth seeing.

Question #22.) What are you favorite nicknames/pet-names?

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Why it’s Flirtatious: This question establishes what names you two may favor in calling each other while flirting. Does he prefer babe or honey? You won’t know unless you dig deeper, girl!

 

Question #23.) Do you like dirty talk?

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Why it’s Flirtatious: What could possibly be more flirty than you working on getting his mind in the right- or should I say wrong place? His answer will  give you the material you need to lead him into a very amusing conversation the both of you can indulge in.

 

Question #24.) How would you describe your ideal relationship?

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Why it’s Flirtatious: All this talk of pet names and dirty talk may have things heated up, but opening up about what he would consider a perfect relationship might let your man know you truly mean business with him.

 

Question #25.)  Favorite place to make-out?

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Why it’s Flirtatious: Are you both suddenly resisting the urge to lock lips with each other? Good, that is exactly why this question is so dang flirty. Maybe he will even want to show you where it is…

 

Question #26.) What did you first notice about me?

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Why it’s Flirtatious: Was it your eyes? Your lips? Did he love the way you walk or talk? Shifting the focus of your conversations on yourself every once and awhile is a great flirt tactic. Get him thinking about what made him like you in the first place.

 

Question #27.) Do you have a secret fantasy and if so what is it?

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Why it’s Flirtatious: Create a pathway for the both of you to chat about what really gets you going. Find out his deepest desires and what he likes, then see if he is interested in your secret fantasies. The answers to both are sure to bring your flirting levels to the absolute max.

 

Question #28.)  Do you like sexting?

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Why it’s Flirtatious: Find out if you can continue to flirt even when you aren’t together! Asking these questions will get things riled up between you and the guy you are smitten with.

 

Question #29.) Do you think you could treat a girl right?

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Why it’s Flirtatious: He may get almost offended with you for asking and hopefully respond with something like, “Well, duh, of course I would treat a girl perfect!” Watching a man get flustered over these type of questions is always cute, flirtatious fun!

 

Question #30.) How would you make me fall for you?

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Why it’s Flirtatious: Listening to him list off all of the things he would do just to get you to fall for him is truly the sweetest thing you could be listening to. It is the perfect question when flirting with the guy you like. Who wouldn’t want to hear these sweet things?!





44 Comments

  1. S

    August 8, 2017 at 10:14 am

    I think I like this guy he is very kind, also funny. He is a year older then me. I just got dump by my boyfriend two months ago. I am not sure if I get into another relationship but I do like this guy. My friends said not to date him and then another said date him I just don’t know what to do please help.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 8, 2017 at 7:10 pm

      Continue to spend time with this person. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Decide if you are ready to develop a relationship with someone new. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, S!

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