10 Signs Someone Has A Crush On You

By on August 23, 2013

Are you suspicious that someone might be crushing on you? Are you just not sure how to tell? Sometimes, it can be extremely hard to find out when someone has crossed over the ‘just friends’ line and jumped onto the ‘I like you more than friends’ side. Whether you want that someone to be totally crushing on you or you just want to know so you can let them down super easy without looking like a fool, here are 10 almost definitely positive signs that this someone has a big old crush on you!

Sign # 1. You may have someone crushing on you if… they jump at every chance they can to help you out. Most people (a majority of the time)don’t take time out of their days  to drive someone home, do them a favor or get them something they need more than once for a someone they absolutely have no interest in. Someone who is set on looking after you, truly likes you and wants to make you happy.


Sign # 2.  You may have someone crushing on you if…  they talk pretty highly of you to friends, family or even talk you up  to your own friends. They most likely want to let the people around them know what they think of you themselves and wants them to think the same. It’s very important that if they like you that the people in their lives to like you as much as they do.

Sign # 3.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they tease you lightly, but often. This is often a strong method of flirtation. They’ll poke fun at you, but not enough to hurt your feelings. They will always laugh at your jokes, usually even your terrible ones that aren’t funny.


Sign # 4.  You may have someone crushing on you if…  they  smile at you all the time, grin when you grin and look you directly in the eye while talking to you. Someone who likes you will try to mirror your body language to relate to you more. They, more than likely, do this so that you feel more comfortable around them.


Sign # 5.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they start noticing when you change things in your appearance or clothing. If  they like you they may compliment you more than often and they tell you the things they like about you. It’s a good sign you have someone crushing on you if they pay close attention to most, if not everything, about you.


Sign # 6.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they do their absolute hardest to pay attention to everything that you do or say. They’ll listen intently to your stories, complaints and jokes. He’ll always keep track of your likes, dislikes and will converse back with you while you’re talking to make you aware that he is actively listening.


Sign # 7.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they will go above and beyond to figure out everything they can about you. They’ll ask about your person life, family, friends, childhood, ex-boyfriends, what your favorite food is- you get the picture! He’ll then in turn try to tell you person information about himself. He wants to get to know you and wants you to get to know him. Definitely a sign he’s interested!

Sign # 8.  You may have someone crushing on you if… Do they get awkward around you? Do they blush or fidget while talking to you? All in all do they just seem nervous when you’re around? If you find someone doing these things then they may be quite worried about embarrassing themselves in front of you. People with a crush tend to be affected by the person they likes looks, what they think and how that person reacts to what they say.


Sign # 9.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they ask you about the interest you have in other people. Are they curious to know whether you’re crushing on someone? Do they make it very clear that they aren’t interested in any other people themselves? Do they seem jealous when you talk to other guys and not just them? That’s more than a good sign that they have a definite crush on you.

Sign # 10.  You may have someone crushing on you if…  they may want you to get to know the other people who are close to them in their life. People like their friends and family. They’ll try to introduce you to their family and friends so that you can all get to know each other. After you all meet, your secret admirer will work very hard for both you and them to make good impressions on each other because he wants you all to get along in case you are a future girlfriend!



  1. Sanjana

    May 19, 2017 at 8:04 am

    So I have a crush and he’s my class mate. We don’t talk much like totally strangers, I told him tat I liked him but after some days his answer was no. One thing happened on my birthday, he wished me by hand shaking I was quite surprised and he did this in class. Whenever I tried to ask him like why r u not liking me? His answer was I’m not interested tats all. I often caught him staring at me during class hrs, only one time I caught him smiling and staring at me. I don’t know whether he likes me or not?. And when I’m alone he comes and stands near me but we’ll not talk.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 19, 2017 at 10:05 am

      It sounds like he does not like you. Smiling and other signs are probably just because he feels bad for rejecting you and wants to be nice. For the moment, I would move on and try to focus on something other than your feelings. For whatever the reason, he does not seem to be interested right now. Good luck, Sanjana!

      • charlotte

        May 19, 2017 at 8:08 pm

        nice article .. thank you for your efforts .. i want to share my story too . one family member Is older than me by 4 years and he unfriended me on fb then he made some of the signs that show that he is intrested he stares at me and treat me nice and he listen carefully when i talk and he stands near me I don’t know if he likes me or just him is nice he sent me mixed signals and we don’t see each other outside the family occasions and he doesnt contact with me but his mother watches me all the time

        • web admin

          web admin

          May 20, 2017 at 1:41 pm

          If he unfriended you on Facebook, then I wouldn’t count on too much happening. There could be something to the mixed signals, but I would not assume anything just yet. Good luck, Charlotte!

  2. Haneul

    May 13, 2017 at 7:25 pm

    Hi there ! Nice article ! Btw I want to share my story too and ask for your opinion about it. I have a crush on this senior at my college. We barely talk to each other seems he is kinda introvert and don’t really talk to girls but I’m kinda close to his best friend (like everytime I talk to his friend, he is always there but he just stands there and don’t talk). I think he knows I like him. He kinda notice that I have a crush on him cus everytime I look and stare at him, he will notice me ! There’s this one time where I tried to start a conversation w him and he didn’t really wanna talk to me, kept stuttering and kept on smiling shyly like why do you have to be soooo sshhyyyy duuuddeee ??? Wasn’t it me who had to be shy??? Sometimes when I walk by him and try to not look obvious (I try to look straight and don’t even glance at him), I kinda notice that he’s staring at me and my friends tell that too. I dunno what does it mean by all this ? Does he like me back after knowing I like him ? or he just trying to catch me staring him or what ??? or it’s just a random act ?

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 14, 2017 at 9:38 am

      It is possible that he likes you and is just too shy to do anything about it. He sounds painfully shy, so I don’t know if asking him out directly would even help–he may just panic and say no before he has time to think. Try to get to know him better, talk a bit more and hopefully he will open up. If he starts to feel more comfortable around you, he may end up showing how he feels at some point. Good luck, Haneul!

  3. Ain

    March 7, 2017 at 12:01 pm

    there is this guy in my school.we are in the same class. i hv had a crush on him for a while and i always check him out almost every time.We always make eye contacts,sometimes i noticed he is staring at me but we dont talk much because he is not the kind of guy that like to talk to girls or being close with them.Im close to his friend and i’ve told one of his friend that i like him but he (his friend) said that he’s still like his ex eventho they have broke up last year.then a few days later (about a week) that one friend told me that he think that the guy who i liked might likes me back (he tell me twice about 2-3 days later) and it kinda get me confused because i thought he haven’t get over his ex yet but i have those feelings too that he might likes me back but half of the feeling thinks the opposite way pls help me out btw good article i like them very helpful

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 7, 2017 at 3:46 pm

      Thank you for your positive comment about our article. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future. If you decide that you want to establish a relationship with someone, then speak directly and honestly with them about your thoughts and feelings. This will give you the best opportunity for establish a strong relationship. Best of luck, Ain!

  4. Demi Anne Cahiles

    March 4, 2017 at 9:35 pm

    I have a crush on my friend that has a different crush. I don’t know when my admiration for him stared, I just realized that some of my actions around I’m are getting different. That’s when I thought “Do I have a crush on him?”. After some of thinking, observing and research, I’ve come to a conclusion that I definitely have a crush on him. But after reading your article, I’ve noticed we’ve been doing it sometimes when we are together. Are eyes meet at a point and we tease each other a lot. I then thought that “Some of these are true but he has a crush on someone else. Argh! I’m so confused”. So is there a possibility that he likes me as a girl or just a girl friend and classmate? But your article was good, thanks for sharing it.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 5, 2017 at 10:59 am

      If he likes someone else, then it does not seem possible for you guys to have a relationship right now. That could always change in the future, but you may have to wait for a while. If you like him, keep trying to talk to him and try flirting with him. If he flirts back, then he may like you. Good luck, Demi Anne Cahiles!

  5. Alicia James

    March 4, 2017 at 8:20 am

    There’s this guy in my university. He and I are both amateur novelists. He always initiates conversations with me showing me his poems, chapters from his story etc even when I haven’t even asked him too. I gifted him my book and he kept on praising it over and over again he even took a picture of my book on his shelf and showed it to me the next day. Then he told me he wanted to collaborate with me on a novel. Is he doing this just because he wants a friend who shares his interests or does he have a crush on me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 4, 2017 at 10:21 am

      It could be that he thinks that you are a good novelist and wants to work with you. It is also possible that he likes you. For the moment, it could really be either option. If you like him back or like working with him, keep writing novels with him and see where things go. Good luck, Alicia James!

  6. Charne

    February 1, 2017 at 2:16 pm

    Hello there’s this guy tht I really like his so his so i tink out of my league his got a career a great job I beautiful manners and all I know it’s so stupid but i simply admire him and he does not even know but sometimes but i heard he has someone in his life but what I dnt understand is whenever he comes in the same place around me he does the most stupid tings like I need to notice or see him like I was speaking wit our office lady now the other day and who came passing by Him and i noticed he wanat to jst pass the office quickly tht he almost tripped over something he didn’t take note of I jst wana stop thinking and admiring him and let it go its a new year why hope for something that will never be yours😪

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 1, 2017 at 2:35 pm

      If he does not notice you or speak to you, then he likely does not want to develop a relationship with you. If the two of you speak and get along, then you can attempt to develop your relationship further. Try to spend additional time with him and try to meet him outside of work. The more communication that you have with him, the strong that your relationship will become. Best of luck, Charne!

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