10 Signs Someone Has A Crush On You

By on August 23, 2013






Are you suspicious that someone might be crushing on you? Are you just not sure how to tell? Sometimes, it can be extremely hard to find out when someone has crossed over the ‘just friends’ line and jumped onto the ‘I like you more than friends’ side. Whether you want that someone to be totally crushing on you or you just want to know so you can let them down super easy without looking like a fool, here are 10 almost definitely positive signs that this someone has a big old crush on you!

Sign # 1. You may have someone crushing on you if… they jump at every chance they can to help you out. Most people (a majority of the time)don’t take time out of their days  to drive someone home, do them a favor or get them something they need more than once for a someone they absolutely have no interest in. Someone who is set on looking after you, truly likes you and wants to make you happy.

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Sign # 2.  You may have someone crushing on you if…  they talk pretty highly of you to friends, family or even talk you up  to your own friends. They most likely want to let the people around them know what they think of you themselves and wants them to think the same. It’s very important that if they like you that the people in their lives to like you as much as they do.

Sign # 3.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they tease you lightly, but often. This is often a strong method of flirtation. They’ll poke fun at you, but not enough to hurt your feelings. They will always laugh at your jokes, usually even your terrible ones that aren’t funny.

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Sign # 4.  You may have someone crushing on you if…  they  smile at you all the time, grin when you grin and look you directly in the eye while talking to you. Someone who likes you will try to mirror your body language to relate to you more. They, more than likely, do this so that you feel more comfortable around them.

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Sign # 5.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they start noticing when you change things in your appearance or clothing. If  they like you they may compliment you more than often and they tell you the things they like about you. It’s a good sign you have someone crushing on you if they pay close attention to most, if not everything, about you.

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Sign # 6.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they do their absolute hardest to pay attention to everything that you do or say. They’ll listen intently to your stories, complaints and jokes. He’ll always keep track of your likes, dislikes and will converse back with you while you’re talking to make you aware that he is actively listening.

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Sign # 7.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they will go above and beyond to figure out everything they can about you. They’ll ask about your person life, family, friends, childhood, ex-boyfriends, what your favorite food is- you get the picture! He’ll then in turn try to tell you person information about himself. He wants to get to know you and wants you to get to know him. Definitely a sign he’s interested!

Sign # 8.  You may have someone crushing on you if… Do they get awkward around you? Do they blush or fidget while talking to you? All in all do they just seem nervous when you’re around? If you find someone doing these things then they may be quite worried about embarrassing themselves in front of you. People with a crush tend to be affected by the person they likes looks, what they think and how that person reacts to what they say.

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Sign # 9.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they ask you about the interest you have in other people. Are they curious to know whether you’re crushing on someone? Do they make it very clear that they aren’t interested in any other people themselves? Do they seem jealous when you talk to other guys and not just them? That’s more than a good sign that they have a definite crush on you.

Sign # 10.  You may have someone crushing on you if…  they may want you to get to know the other people who are close to them in their life. People like their friends and family. They’ll try to introduce you to their family and friends so that you can all get to know each other. After you all meet, your secret admirer will work very hard for both you and them to make good impressions on each other because he wants you all to get along in case you are a future girlfriend!

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184 Comments

  1. star

    November 27, 2016 at 8:51 am

    I have this guy i have been crushing on and now his finally talking to me everyday thru chat. how can i know if he is interested on me? by the way he always chat me first and he always ask many questions just to make our conversation long but he always replies to me late. like 5 mins, 15 mins and sometimes 3-5 hours.

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 28, 2016 at 12:23 pm

      If he talks to you frequently and tries to keep the conversation going, then he is probably interested in you. The lengthy replies may just be because he is busy with something else or became distracted. I would keep talking to him and see where things go. Good luck, Star!

  2. Mike Fuller

    November 5, 2016 at 10:47 am

    I am a 41 year old man and I am heartbroken after a woman I have a crush on who is far superior to me and who I am intensely jealous of her associating with anyone else! I am being soft and very selfish and self-centred but she is a really beautiful woman who is about 20 or 21 years older than me! I am intensely jealous of people who have known things about her that I didn’t!, Intensely jealous about her possibly moving out to be closer with a possible poorly father, although that may or may not be true as I dreamed that but someone may have said it when I was asleep! I am intensely jealous of the city she comes from, London! And I am intensely jealous of other personal things about her that is far from being any of my business! I hope she is happy in life and I have never felt so intensely for a person before, but she is a Very Attractive, Kind and Wonderful Woman!

    • web admin

      web admin

      November 7, 2016 at 2:49 pm

      It is great that you have such respect for her and it is also great that you are mindful of your jealousy. It would be beneficial for you to take this time to observe and understand your feelings of jealously. Look closely at this attachment and determine what is connecting you to her. Decide if you have reason to feel these ways about her. If you want to develop a relationship with her, then speak with her directly and honestly about your feelings. Until you are in a relationship with her, you have no reason to concern yourself with the information that other people know about her. Even then, it would be mindful for you to realize that other people are closer to her than you are. Remain positive, Mike!

  3. Sarah

    October 27, 2016 at 3:21 pm

    there is this guy at school that i like and i talk to him a lot, like i sat in front of him in algebra and he sometimes messed with me like he would put his feet in the metal part where you can put your stuff in, then we moved seats in algebra (come to find he sits on my left in the front row and i noticed the other day that his foot was by my foot (almost touching), my best friend said that he likes me from what he said at his house (they were neighbors) and i asked him about it and he said no so I’m not sure if my friend was lying or not because he messes with me some times but not all the time and he asks for my help in algebra, am i just overthinking this or what?

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 28, 2016 at 2:50 pm

      If this guy is attempting to be near you and his neighbor says that he likes you, then it is likely that he has an interest in developing a relationship with you. If you want to develop a relationship with him as well, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. Perhaps allow your feet to go near his when you are sitting together and see what he does. He may move his foot away out of nervousness, but he may keep it there or even push back. Determine his actions and his meanings behind his actions. Enjoy life and remain positive, Sarah!

  4. mariam

    October 21, 2016 at 2:47 pm

    my friends are telling me this guy likes me but i dont think but alot of his friends i dont know are also telling me he is into me. He goes out of his way to make sure i am comfortable. He stares at me when doesnt think i am looking. He is my cousin’s close friend. i am always at my cousins house. Even his friends are teasing him about me. I just think he is nice but i don’t think its more than that. I would date him if asks me. he is cute even though i am older by a year. if he does like me, should i tease him about it so he confesses. thank you !!!

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 21, 2016 at 6:44 pm

      It is almost certain that he has a strong interest in developing a relationship with you. If you want to tease him until he confesses, then perhaps give his friends a heads up. He may become embarrassed or confused about your words and will want to talk with his friends. If they know what you are doing, then they will be able to direct him in the correct manner if he does not understand your goal with teasing. Be sure to let him know that you have feelings for him as well when teasing him. Remain positive and best of luck with your teasing! Enjoy, Mariam!

  5. Thomas

    October 17, 2016 at 4:53 pm

    There’s a girl in my class who has been constantly staring and glancing at me. For example, she’s always seeking eye contact. We’ve had eye contact a couple of times for like 3-4 seconds but she doesn’t smile or anything. And she’s glancing at me literally every day. There’s many other body language signs, but why would she seek eye contact with me so often? My first thought is that she’s attracted to me, but could there be any other reasons? Bare in mind that I know for sure that she was looking at me and not at someone or something else.
    Her close friend likes me too. They’re always together so it makes it all awkward for me and I’m not sure what to do.

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 18, 2016 at 9:46 am

      She may be looking at you because she likes you or because her friend likes you. If she is a good friend though, she will not make a move if her friend is interested, so all she may ever do is stare at you. You never mentioned who you liked. Before you decide what to do, you should figure out which girl you like and then make your decision about what to do. Best of luck, Thomas!

    • rebecca

      October 18, 2016 at 4:07 pm

      if she make eye contact again then smile. she will most likely smile back. that is mostly true and this is coming from a girl with experience. when you get a chance to talk to her in class make funny jokes but not ones that are from a joke book. come up with something on the spot. and to see if she’s comfortable with you ask for a high five sometime.

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 19, 2016 at 2:54 pm

        That is great advice, Rebecca! Thomas, if you notice that she continues to notice you and pay attention to you, then perhaps try to spend more time with her. It is likely that she has an interest in you and is curious as to if you feel the same about her. Take charge, yet always be sure to remain respectful and friendly. Or, if she seems like the assertive type, hang back and allow her to make the first move. The choice is yours, but remain mindful and friendly! Best of luck, Thomas!

  6. Vanelope

    September 25, 2016 at 5:12 am

    i have a crush and he’s my schoolmate and most of the time i catch him looking at me but the way he looks at me is just natural and there’s no emotion in it. just poker face. i also always catch his friends looking at me but there’s his one friend that whenever i catch him looking at me, he looks away and then smiles. i don’t understand if is it my crush that has a crush on me or his friend. or maybe they’re just talking about me-like making fun of me because i’m kind of different. i’m not friends with any one of them but i always see them around and i have been classmates with my crush in one of my subjects. so what do you think?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 25, 2016 at 6:31 pm

      It is possible that one of them has an interest in you. It is also possible that they both have an interest in you. Determine which one likely has feelings for you and see if you can have a conversation with them. Talk with them as a group and determine their interests. Remain mindful at all times and require them to treat you with respect. Enjoy life and think positive, Vanelope.

  7. Kayla

    September 23, 2016 at 3:37 pm

    There’s this guy, he’s my best friend, he messes with my computer alot, he always smiles when he sees me, he sits next to me at lunch, and my school’s Homecoming is coming up and he asked me if I was going, and I heard from a friend of mine who is in one of his classes that he said to her that he might ask me to Homecoming. I myself have a crush on him, and I’m a Sophomore and he’s a Junior. But we’ve known each other since middle school and I’ve liked him since middle school. But my question is does he like me? Please help.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 25, 2016 at 10:18 am

      It is likely that he likes you and wants to go to Homecoming with you. If you want to surprise him, then perhaps you can ask him out to Homecoming. It is possible that he has plans, but it is also possible that he is shy or uncertain about your feelings toward him. If nothing else, then speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. Remain positive and be sure to share your experiences with us in the future, Kayla!

    • Yaboi

      October 17, 2016 at 8:38 pm

      He definitely has a crush. Go out with the guy and if it’s nice you should tell him how you feel

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 18, 2016 at 9:47 am

        That sounds like excellent advice, Yaboi. I am sure that Kayla will appreciate it. Thanks for commenting!

  8. Shannen

    September 19, 2016 at 1:48 am

    My Friend Leaves a few glances at me at class, And he teases me that I’m getting fatter But I laugh at it and I punches his arm playfully,And he also asks me If I think someone in class likes me,and we’re pretty close,and he also said that I’m Beautiful,and my classmates alos says that he likes me,But I dont believe them, But does he have a crush on me?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 19, 2016 at 1:29 pm

      It is likely that he has an interest in you. He may see you as a crush and he may see you as a close friend. What matters most is that he cares about you and wants you to like him. If you share an interest in him and you want to develop a relationship with him, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If he shares your feelings, which he likely will, you can determine if you want to grow your friendship into a more emotionally relationship. Enjoy life and take this chance, Shannen!

  9. Kate

    September 18, 2016 at 5:25 pm

    Am a black foreign student in China so there is this girl in my class who out of nowhere started helping me with my homeworks and coming to my room , this summer holiday I went back to my country and she kept texting me when I came back she took me out and we kind of hang out together then she asked me about my boyfriend back home i told her we broke up then she told me she broke up with her boyfriend too…just a few days ago she spent a night at my place and all she was talking about was how in her circle of friends theee is a lesbian and she thinks it is no problem to be a lesbian she went a head to narrate how she likes to watch gay related movies … truth is am crushing on her could she be crushing on me too ? she is Chinese which hard to tell what is on her mind

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 19, 2016 at 1:21 pm

      It sounds like she could have a crush on you. She may be hinting about it by talking about a lesbian friend, saying she is open to it and discussing gay-related movies. While she may just like having a foreign friend to practice English with, it seems entirely possible that she could be gay or at least experimenting with her sexuality. Try flirting with her or making a move and see what she does. Best of luck, Kate!

  10. Ariya

    September 9, 2016 at 2:24 pm

    Most people at school says that this guy likes me, but I don’t think its true. He teases me, annoy me, calls me a kid or idiot. He did ask who my crush is, but he said its just for blackmail material. Do you think he has a crush on me?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 10, 2016 at 8:02 am

      It sounds like he could like you, but he also might just like to pick on you. Whatever the case, there is not enough information to know for sure how he feels. The more important question is if you like him. If you don’t like him, then it does not matter what he says or wants. If you do like him, then try flirting with him or read through our article on “How to Tell If a Guy Likes You” to get more information about potential signs that he could be interested. Good luck, Ariya!

  11. Ariya

    September 9, 2016 at 6:19 am

    There’s this guy from school who used to be my seatmate, that always tease me and does EVERYTHING he can to annoy me. He calls me shortie, stupid, kid, and always tease me about my scores in TLE. When I told him to stop, he told me that I will miss the way he does those things and ask him to do it. He’s kinda right though… Then one day, he asks me about my crush. I sometimes catch him glancing (but just for a second) at me. When we were no longer seatmates, he only talks to me maybe threetimes a day. Now I’m starting to wonder if he used to do those things because he likes me or he’s really, really bored

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 9, 2016 at 9:37 am

      It seems like you may have commented twice on this post. I have to answer each comment individually before it is approved, so it may take a little while for it to appear sometimes. If your comment is not posted right away, do not worry because it will be. Read through my first response and let me know if you need any more help. Thanks for commenting!

  12. Flora

    September 9, 2016 at 6:03 am

    I have a slight crush on a guy from school but I dunno if he likes me back. He used to be my seatmate and he always tease me or annoy me and argues with me. Sometimes when I’m ignoring him he writes lines on my notebook, step on my foot(but it never hurt), pull a strand of my hair(it never hurt), or poke my shoulder. One time, he asked me who I’m crushing on. I just dunno if he likes me because he always annoy me, and we’re not even friends, we’re frenemies. When our teacher changed our seatplan, I was seatedpretty far away from him. He only talks to me thrice or more times a day now. I wonder if he really did had a crush on me or he just did those things because he’s bored

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 9, 2016 at 9:34 am

      All of these things are signs that he could be interested. Touching you, teasing you and asking you who you like are all things that someone does when they are interested. Now, he does not have as many opportunities or justifications for talking to you without making it obvious how he feels. I would try talking to him more and flirting with him a bit–he may just need a bit of encouragement to make a move again. Good luck, Flora!

  13. Kaelyn

    September 7, 2016 at 3:46 am

    I’m new to this school and I met this guy who I’ve been having a crush on for a while. I noticed that he keeps staring at me and yesterday he threw a plastic bottle and it hit on my foot he said that he’s sorry and then his friend said he did it on purpose he said no I didn’t and laughed and I heard the chat of him and his friend, His friend said do you like her? Then he said no but what if she said yes?. Also we’re sometimes near each other, I don’t know if he likes me we’re not that close yet but do you think he likes me?

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      web admin

      September 7, 2016 at 1:30 pm

      It seems like you may have commented twice on this post. I have to answer each comment individually before it is approved, so it may take a little while for it to appear sometimes. If your comment is not posted right away, do not worry because it will be. Read through my first response and let me know if you need any more help. Thanks for commenting!

  14. Julia

    September 7, 2016 at 3:25 am

    Well i’m new at this school and I met this guy who I’ve been having a crush for a while and I noticed that he keeps staring at me. Yesterday he threw a plastic bottle and it hit on my foot he said that he’s sorry but his friend said that he did it on purpose then he said again no i didn’t and he laugh. Also I heard the chat of him and his friend, His friend said that do you like her? And I heard him said no but what if she said yes? Also sometimes we’re near each other. I don’t know if he likes me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 7, 2016 at 1:24 pm

      It sounds like he may have been trying to get your attention, and the rest of his behavior makes it sound like he could like you. He really has not done enough yet to be sure either way though. I would try to talk to him or flirt with him when you can and see what happens. Give it a few weeks and then decide if he likes you or not. We also have an article on Her Interest called “How to Tell If a Guy Likes You” that you could read through to see if he does any of the other signs. Good luck, Julia!

  15. Tay Marie

    August 24, 2016 at 3:17 am

    i have this friend hes always asking me how my day was making sure im ok talking to me teasing me and telling me compliments. he wants to walk me to all my classes and hangout on the weekend he bought me a necklace for my birthday and invited me to his he likes to give me hugs and move my hair out of my face. but he says hes seeing another girl. does he like me?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 24, 2016 at 12:27 pm

      He is interested in you. However, he is dating someone else. You should speak with him and explain to him that you are not interested in developing a relationship with him as he is dating someone else. You do not want to be responsible for the harm caused by fracturing a relationship. Tell him to stop giving you gifts and touching you as long as he is dating someone else. Take this time to look inward and determine if you want to develop a relationship with someone who treats his girlfriend the way he is doing so.

    • Kaelyn

      September 7, 2016 at 3:30 am

      I’m new to this school and I met this guy who I’ve been having a crush on for a while. I noticed that he keeps staring at me and yesterday he threw a plastic bottle and it hit on my foot he said that he’s sorry and then his friend said he did it on purpose he said no I didn’t and laughed. Also we’re sometimes near each other, I don’t know if he likes me we’re not that close yet but do you think he likes me?

      • web admin

        web admin

        September 7, 2016 at 1:25 pm

        It seems like you may have commented twice on this post. I have to answer each comment individually before it is approved, so it may take a little while for it to appear sometimes. If your comment is not posted right away, do not worry because it will be. Read through my first response and let me know if you need any more help. Thanks for commenting, Kaelyn!

    • Ariya

      September 9, 2016 at 6:23 am

      Have you seen who he’s dating? If not, then maybe he just made it up so you won’t suspect. But if you did, then maybe he likes you, but is already with someone else.

      • web admin

        web admin

        September 9, 2016 at 9:37 am

        Those are excellent points, Ariya. I am sure that Tay Marie will appreciate getting the additional insight. Thanks for commenting!

  16. Abbie

    July 28, 2016 at 2:12 pm

    I have this guy i have been crushing on but im good friends with him like i could trust him but my old friend told him i liked him so i started to avoid him even though i sat right next to him but that stopped after a while because he wanted to talk to me to see if i was ok but he teases me alot but not so much to hurt my feelings but he got me a present on his holidays this year and he wants to meet up does he like mr?

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 29, 2016 at 10:37 pm

      If he purchased you a present then he either views you as a friend or wants you to be something more. If you are interested in developing a relationship, then speak with him directly and honestly about your feelings. If he shares your feelings, then you know that you can develop a more intimate relationship with him.

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