10 Signs Someone Has A Crush On You

By on August 23, 2013

Are you suspicious that someone might be crushing on you? Are you just not sure how to tell? Sometimes, it can be extremely hard to find out when someone has crossed over the ‘just friends’ line and jumped onto the ‘I like you more than friends’ side. Whether you want that someone to be totally crushing on you or you just want to know so you can let them down super easy without looking like a fool, here are 10 almost definitely positive signs that this someone has a big old crush on you!

Sign # 1. You may have someone crushing on you if… they jump at every chance they can to help you out. Most people (a majority of the time)don’t take time out of their days  to drive someone home, do them a favor or get them something they need more than once for a someone they absolutely have no interest in. Someone who is set on looking after you, truly likes you and wants to make you happy.


Sign # 2.  You may have someone crushing on you if…  they talk pretty highly of you to friends, family or even talk you up  to your own friends. They most likely want to let the people around them know what they think of you themselves and wants them to think the same. It’s very important that if they like you that the people in their lives to like you as much as they do.

Sign # 3.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they tease you lightly, but often. This is often a strong method of flirtation. They’ll poke fun at you, but not enough to hurt your feelings. They will always laugh at your jokes, usually even your terrible ones that aren’t funny.


Sign # 4.  You may have someone crushing on you if…  they  smile at you all the time, grin when you grin and look you directly in the eye while talking to you. Someone who likes you will try to mirror your body language to relate to you more. They, more than likely, do this so that you feel more comfortable around them.


Sign # 5.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they start noticing when you change things in your appearance or clothing. If  they like you they may compliment you more than often and they tell you the things they like about you. It’s a good sign you have someone crushing on you if they pay close attention to most, if not everything, about you.


Sign # 6.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they do their absolute hardest to pay attention to everything that you do or say. They’ll listen intently to your stories, complaints and jokes. He’ll always keep track of your likes, dislikes and will converse back with you while you’re talking to make you aware that he is actively listening.


Sign # 7.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they will go above and beyond to figure out everything they can about you. They’ll ask about your person life, family, friends, childhood, ex-boyfriends, what your favorite food is- you get the picture! He’ll then in turn try to tell you person information about himself. He wants to get to know you and wants you to get to know him. Definitely a sign he’s interested!

Sign # 8.  You may have someone crushing on you if… Do they get awkward around you? Do they blush or fidget while talking to you? All in all do they just seem nervous when you’re around? If you find someone doing these things then they may be quite worried about embarrassing themselves in front of you. People with a crush tend to be affected by the person they likes looks, what they think and how that person reacts to what they say.


Sign # 9.  You may have someone crushing on you if… they ask you about the interest you have in other people. Are they curious to know whether you’re crushing on someone? Do they make it very clear that they aren’t interested in any other people themselves? Do they seem jealous when you talk to other guys and not just them? That’s more than a good sign that they have a definite crush on you.

Sign # 10.  You may have someone crushing on you if…  they may want you to get to know the other people who are close to them in their life. People like their friends and family. They’ll try to introduce you to their family and friends so that you can all get to know each other. After you all meet, your secret admirer will work very hard for both you and them to make good impressions on each other because he wants you all to get along in case you are a future girlfriend!



  1. Gurl

    September 23, 2017 at 12:20 am

    Hi! I also want to share my story ehehe. So i have a crush on a guy in my school, he’s in all of my classes except english and my friends and i (i am not entirely sure yet) think he has a crush on me. He kept staring at me, which i have noticed alot of times. He’s really nice to me but he isn’t to other girls. When i was sitting really close to a guy friend, my friends were saying how ‘cute we look together’ loud enough for my crush to hear, and he was really quiet (he is usually really loud in class but this time he was really silent) and ever since that day, he and his friends started bullying my guy friend, not physically but verbally. And his friends started being nice to me whenever he’s around (they’re still nice to me even though he isn’t around but they’re even nicer if he’s around). He’s now interested in MY interests. And when I got a really bad cramp during sports, he asked a friend of mine what happened to me and she told him i got a really bad cramp, he FAKE laughed. And when i was already ok, he asked me if i was alright 6 times and i was really touched at how caring he is. AND THE BIGGEST BIT OF ALL, he SMILES at me whenever we talk, SMILE as in a really big SMILE.He doesn’t smile that big to other girls besides me. So…is it possible that he likes me back?

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 23, 2017 at 8:58 am

      It sounds as though this person has bullied your friend. You should not attempt to develop a relationship with someone who is verbally or physically abusive. Take this time to determine what kind of relationship that you want for your future. Speak with your friend who was bullied by this person to determine his thoughts on you developing a relationship with someone who bullied him. Good day, Gurl.

  2. Sally

    September 6, 2017 at 11:00 am

    OK I met this guy a while ago at a friend’s place he is my friend’s brother’s bestie so we started talking and one day he took my phone from me and when I tried to get it back he held my hand in his and actually laced our fingers and I was like….. I got my phone back anyway but since then I noticed him staring at me alot and he is always teasing me but I’ve not seen how he acts around other girls so I don’t know if he likes me likes me

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 6, 2017 at 6:41 pm

      He is interested in developing a relationship with you. He may have a strong emotional attachment toward you. He is likely attracted to you. Take this time to determine what you want with this relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Sally!

  3. Lizzy

    August 19, 2017 at 5:47 pm

    So, I have a crush on this guy that’s been my classmate since third grade, and my friends and I suspect he has a crush on me too (me still unsure). Last Friday we had to go up the stairs to the classroom we were supposed to occupy, and I was bringing an envelope filled with so much papers, a snack bag, and my stroller bag (I didn’t think we were going up). He agreed to carry my envelope and when I struggled to carry my stroller and snack bag he chastised another classmate of mine who stood beside me and didn’t help me carry my bag. Then the next Monday after that our Science class turned to a Greek mythology discussion of Cupid and Psyche and his friend mimed pointing an arrow at him, then he mimed pointing an arrow at me, and he said, “You got hit.” He’s really nice and personable, and he’s really fun to fool around and hang out with. He shares to me opinions and secrets that I don’t think he would’ve told me last year, and I also noticed that he a bit more nervously or awkwardly around me. I was just wondering what your thoughts are on this?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 19, 2017 at 10:46 pm

      He is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is certain that he has feelings for you. Allow his actions to speak for him. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Allow him to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Lizzy!

  4. pinky

    August 15, 2017 at 7:36 am

    So… i met this guy a few months ago, but we only really started talking a few weeks ago. He is always nice and gentle with me. He always start the conversation and always seems to be excited when talk to me. He also help me when i need (even if i didn’t ask for). Sometimes i caught him looking at me from afar. The other day he said something about my hair and that i was “diferent” (I don’t know if it was a compliment. What do you think?) Today he came and we talked about his tattoos and suddenly he said “i wanna do something for you”. Then he made a paper boat to me and i think that was really cute. But, i don’t know if he has a crush on me or is just a nice guy. He seems to give several signs that is interested but sometimes he didn’t seems to care. Like, i don’t know. I’m kinda confuded because we met a short time ago but i already have a crush on him. Please, help me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 15, 2017 at 8:57 pm

      It is certainly possible that he has a strong emotional attachment for you. It is possible that he wants to develop a relationship with you. It is possible that he views you as a close friend and wants to show you that he cares for you. Allow his actions to influence you to reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Pinky!

  5. Lulu

    August 14, 2017 at 5:16 pm

    So I’ve known this guy since we were about 4 years old, he’s my ex best friends older brother (about 2 years older than me). When we were young up until we were about 18 I had a crush on him and I think he had one on me too (he did a lot of the usual things that teens do when they like each other, light flirting, teasing, messing around like causally touching/hitting each other and just having a crush on each other). All my friends saw how we acted and did say at the time that we obviously had some tension/chemistry and crushes on each other then but that we still have this chemistry now even though we are both in our early 20’s. What I’m getting at is that we don’t see each other as often and don’t really message as much on social media mainly because of life and that our friends don’t really overlap anymore but when we do meet all those crush feelings I had years ago be brought forward and I notice some of the things in this article that he (and me) mainly do when we are together again. He would lightly tease me still and we would joke or share memories of our childhood, maybe even make fun of some of them and his body language then recently my cousin pointed out also how his eyes are always trained on me and lighting up when I’m talking and that his feet point towards me (apparently that’s a new thing) and that when I enter a room he stands up straighter as if showing himself off or something plus a lot other things. Some stuff mentioned in this article too! I don’t know if it’s me just thinking too far ahead or those crush feelings coming back or you know being delusional or whatever but I think you could straighten this all out, hopefully.
    I’m just wondering if those crushes from all those years being close could still be there now that we are 21 and 23? Do you think he could still like me or have a crush on me? Like should I act on it or is he just being nice to someone he has known since he was like 4? Any tips or advice? 🙂

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 14, 2017 at 7:04 pm

      He has a strong emotional connection with you. It is possible that he wants to develop a relationship with you. It is likely that he still has a crush on your. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Spend additional time with him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Allow him to do the same. Have a great day, Lulu!

      • Lulu

        August 15, 2017 at 4:02 am

        Thank you so much! It was just a few nights ago when I met him again and my cousin said afterwards that she always feels this tension/chemistry when we are in the same room or talking to each other plus all the little body language stuff she sees (she’s a therapist of sorts). I think he is enjoying the ‘single’ life right now but maybe soon he will get the courage up or we can finally sort of have a good talk. He always looks confident but he was never been confident expressing feelings or anything so I think he is one of the shy types that acts the manly man.
        So you think the crush could be still there in a way and that he may want to try something? (I think it may be too but he’s probably shy or trying to not to let it on too much incase of rejection). His sister was one of my best friends during childhood so he may not want to start something with me incase it makes her awkward or something.. I guess I’m just going mad now but I should be honest with him even if he doesn’t feel the same.
        How do you think I could spend additional time with him and slip my thoughts/feelings into that?

        Anyway, thank you again and I will take your advice and information onboard 🙂 You have a great day too and keep up the great articles!

        • web admin

          web admin

          August 15, 2017 at 8:45 pm

          If you find that you are unsure of what you want to do with him, then you can always go on a nature walk. Visit the water, trees, mountains, or any other natural environment that you enjoy. You will find that your relationship will grow stronger when the two of you spend time together. You can always choose to spend time with him with a group of people. Have a great day, Lulu!

      • Lulu

        August 15, 2017 at 4:07 am

        Also when I was leaving the other night, he was talking to one of the security guards at the bar he works at and when I walked past and said hi he pretty much ignored the guard and just started talking to me. Don’t know if that means much because maybe the guard was boring him but it was pretty obvious. It was like he was just waiting for me to pass. Plus I caught him looking at me then looking away just before I walked out of the room after I said my goodbyes to him and give him a hug..

        • web admin

          web admin

          August 15, 2017 at 8:47 pm

          It is certainly possible that he is more interested in speaking with you than someone that he does not know well. This may mean that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. It is ossible that he views you as a friend and may want to get to know you better. Take action and enjoy life. Have a great day, Lulu!

  6. stargirl

    August 7, 2017 at 1:32 pm

    Hi, i love this article and i wanna share my story too…. (and sorry for my bad english)…. So theres a guy that is a customer from where a i work. He is a frequent goer, and everytime that he shows up, he is nice. When we first meet i didm’t like him at all, but a few months has passed and now i think that i have a crush on him. He always start the conversation, but, Although he seems interested in the conversation,does things to avoid eye contact like tinkering with the cell phone.He also is very helpful,Helping me with little things (even if I did not ask for help. I’ve also caught him staring at me a few times…. A few days ago I followed him into a social network, and he followed me back, but he did not send any messages. I wanna know if have any chance that him has a crush on me or is just a nice guy.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 7, 2017 at 7:43 pm

      It is possible that he is a nice guy, it is possible that he views you as a friend, it is possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you, or it is possible that he is unsure about his feelings. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Attempt to spend additional time with him as well. Have a great day, Stargirl!

  7. Electralyte

    July 21, 2017 at 7:05 am

    So there’s this guy in my class who is really smart..and i kept on noticing him stare at me, he also tries to avoid contact with me…and during an assignment i was grouped with him and he was really awkward…And while i was texting him i told him “I saw you staring at me…were you mad at me” and he said he was not and he told me to forget every last moment of him staring…

    There’s also this other guy…i asked him who was his crush and he replied that the last letter of her first name ends with the letter U…He also said she was in our class…BUT NO ONE’S NAME ENDS WITH THE LETTER U IN OUR CLASS….

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 21, 2017 at 8:28 pm

      The person who asked you to forget about him may not be interested in developing a relationship with you. He may be interested, but he may be confused about your feelings. It is likely that the person talking about names wants to develop a relationship with you. It is possible that he was saying that he liked you. Determine what you want with your future at this time. Have a great day, Electralyte!

  8. Sanjana

    May 19, 2017 at 8:04 am

    So I have a crush and he’s my class mate. We don’t talk much like totally strangers, I told him tat I liked him but after some days his answer was no. One thing happened on my birthday, he wished me by hand shaking I was quite surprised and he did this in class. Whenever I tried to ask him like why r u not liking me? His answer was I’m not interested tats all. I often caught him staring at me during class hrs, only one time I caught him smiling and staring at me. I don’t know whether he likes me or not?. And when I’m alone he comes and stands near me but we’ll not talk.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 19, 2017 at 10:05 am

      It sounds like he does not like you. Smiling and other signs are probably just because he feels bad for rejecting you and wants to be nice. For the moment, I would move on and try to focus on something other than your feelings. For whatever the reason, he does not seem to be interested right now. Good luck, Sanjana!

      • charlotte

        May 19, 2017 at 8:08 pm

        nice article .. thank you for your efforts .. i want to share my story too . one family member Is older than me by 4 years and he unfriended me on fb then he made some of the signs that show that he is intrested he stares at me and treat me nice and he listen carefully when i talk and he stands near me I don’t know if he likes me or just him is nice he sent me mixed signals and we don’t see each other outside the family occasions and he doesnt contact with me but his mother watches me all the time

        • web admin

          web admin

          May 20, 2017 at 1:41 pm

          If he unfriended you on Facebook, then I wouldn’t count on too much happening. There could be something to the mixed signals, but I would not assume anything just yet. Good luck, Charlotte!

  9. Haneul

    May 13, 2017 at 7:25 pm

    Hi there ! Nice article ! Btw I want to share my story too and ask for your opinion about it. I have a crush on this senior at my college. We barely talk to each other seems he is kinda introvert and don’t really talk to girls but I’m kinda close to his best friend (like everytime I talk to his friend, he is always there but he just stands there and don’t talk). I think he knows I like him. He kinda notice that I have a crush on him cus everytime I look and stare at him, he will notice me ! There’s this one time where I tried to start a conversation w him and he didn’t really wanna talk to me, kept stuttering and kept on smiling shyly like why do you have to be soooo sshhyyyy duuuddeee ??? Wasn’t it me who had to be shy??? Sometimes when I walk by him and try to not look obvious (I try to look straight and don’t even glance at him), I kinda notice that he’s staring at me and my friends tell that too. I dunno what does it mean by all this ? Does he like me back after knowing I like him ? or he just trying to catch me staring him or what ??? or it’s just a random act ?

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 14, 2017 at 9:38 am

      It is possible that he likes you and is just too shy to do anything about it. He sounds painfully shy, so I don’t know if asking him out directly would even help–he may just panic and say no before he has time to think. Try to get to know him better, talk a bit more and hopefully he will open up. If he starts to feel more comfortable around you, he may end up showing how he feels at some point. Good luck, Haneul!

  10. Ain

    March 7, 2017 at 12:01 pm

    there is this guy in my school.we are in the same class. i hv had a crush on him for a while and i always check him out almost every time.We always make eye contacts,sometimes i noticed he is staring at me but we dont talk much because he is not the kind of guy that like to talk to girls or being close with them.Im close to his friend and i’ve told one of his friend that i like him but he (his friend) said that he’s still like his ex eventho they have broke up last year.then a few days later (about a week) that one friend told me that he think that the guy who i liked might likes me back (he tell me twice about 2-3 days later) and it kinda get me confused because i thought he haven’t get over his ex yet but i have those feelings too that he might likes me back but half of the feeling thinks the opposite way pls help me out btw good article i like them very helpful

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 7, 2017 at 3:46 pm

      Thank you for your positive comment about our article. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future. If you decide that you want to establish a relationship with someone, then speak directly and honestly with them about your thoughts and feelings. This will give you the best opportunity for establish a strong relationship. Best of luck, Ain!

  11. Demi Anne Cahiles

    March 4, 2017 at 9:35 pm

    I have a crush on my friend that has a different crush. I don’t know when my admiration for him stared, I just realized that some of my actions around I’m are getting different. That’s when I thought “Do I have a crush on him?”. After some of thinking, observing and research, I’ve come to a conclusion that I definitely have a crush on him. But after reading your article, I’ve noticed we’ve been doing it sometimes when we are together. Are eyes meet at a point and we tease each other a lot. I then thought that “Some of these are true but he has a crush on someone else. Argh! I’m so confused”. So is there a possibility that he likes me as a girl or just a girl friend and classmate? But your article was good, thanks for sharing it.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 5, 2017 at 10:59 am

      If he likes someone else, then it does not seem possible for you guys to have a relationship right now. That could always change in the future, but you may have to wait for a while. If you like him, keep trying to talk to him and try flirting with him. If he flirts back, then he may like you. Good luck, Demi Anne Cahiles!

  12. Alicia James

    March 4, 2017 at 8:20 am

    There’s this guy in my university. He and I are both amateur novelists. He always initiates conversations with me showing me his poems, chapters from his story etc even when I haven’t even asked him too. I gifted him my book and he kept on praising it over and over again he even took a picture of my book on his shelf and showed it to me the next day. Then he told me he wanted to collaborate with me on a novel. Is he doing this just because he wants a friend who shares his interests or does he have a crush on me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 4, 2017 at 10:21 am

      It could be that he thinks that you are a good novelist and wants to work with you. It is also possible that he likes you. For the moment, it could really be either option. If you like him back or like working with him, keep writing novels with him and see where things go. Good luck, Alicia James!

  13. Charne

    February 1, 2017 at 2:16 pm

    Hello there’s this guy tht I really like his so his so i tink out of my league his got a career a great job I beautiful manners and all I know it’s so stupid but i simply admire him and he does not even know but sometimes but i heard he has someone in his life but what I dnt understand is whenever he comes in the same place around me he does the most stupid tings like I need to notice or see him like I was speaking wit our office lady now the other day and who came passing by Him and i noticed he wanat to jst pass the office quickly tht he almost tripped over something he didn’t take note of I jst wana stop thinking and admiring him and let it go its a new year why hope for something that will never be yours?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 1, 2017 at 2:35 pm

      If he does not notice you or speak to you, then he likely does not want to develop a relationship with you. If the two of you speak and get along, then you can attempt to develop your relationship further. Try to spend additional time with him and try to meet him outside of work. The more communication that you have with him, the strong that your relationship will become. Best of luck, Charne!

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