7 Things A Man Only Does If He’s Serious About You

By on January 19, 2017

When it comes to the dating game, things can be a little bit confusing; and despite what some people may say, reading a man isn’t always as easy as it seems. If you’ve been dating a guy for a couple of weeks or even months, you’re probably wondering whether or not he’s really serious about you, or if the two of you are just simply ‘dating’ and hanging out. Well, to put your mind at ease we’ve come up with a must-know list of the 7 things a man only does if he’s serious about you.

He is Genuinely Interested in You

We’re not just talking about skin-deep issues; he actually cares and is interested in you and what happens in your life. A guy that’s not serious about you won’t ask you about that interview you just had or how things are going with your aunt in the hospital; he will only ask you about your day or other artificial things such as that. If he is asking you deep questions about you and your life, and actually remembers the things you tell him, it’s a sure sign he is actually serious about you.

Text/Call Responses

A man that is serious will tell his woman why he took so long to reply, just so she doesn’t get upset or curious about what he is doing. On the other hand, he will also be upset if YOU are the one that takes forever to reply to a text or call without a reason. I’m not saying you have to reply in 10 seconds or he will be mad; I’m saying if you were stuck doing something for 3 hours and he gets a little upset, that’s a good sign. Reassure him you were doing _____ and continue with the conversation.

You’re Automatically His Plus One

There’s an event or occasion coming up- is it assumed you will be his date, or not? If he always turns to you to be his plus one in any given situation, he is serious about you and doesn’t even want to think about making another lady his date for the evening.

He Asks Your Permission

Okay, he doesn’t necessarily ask for permission– he is a human being and allowed to do what he pleases (you don’t control him). But if he lets you in on what he is doing and checks to see if you will be okay with it, then he wants to know your opinion and actually values what you have to say- that’s a clear sign he’s into you on a serious level.

He Introduces You to Friends and Family

Point blank: if a guy is not SERIOUS, he will NOT introduce you to his friends- and especially not his family! But if you’ve got an invite to the cousin’s party, you’re there for football night with the guys, or you’re even on a texting relationship with his mother, this is an absolutely huge sign he is serious and wants to show you off to everyone.

He Brags About You

Guys like to brag about their woman; unless of course they don’t think she is the real deal. When a man is serious he’s going to be telling the whole world that he has the prettiest woman on the planet and isn’t afraid to show it. In fact, his friends and family may get sick of him bragging about you so much. But you don’t mind that, do you?

He Wants to Cuddle

Well, here we are. Now we’re talking about the more intimate side of the relationship, and it’s probably the one that will give you the biggest hint. When the two of you are done ‘doing the deed’, does he suddenly have to leave? Or does he stick around to watch a movie with you and cuddle with you in his arms? A man that’s just there for a quickie won’t want to cuddle, but the man who is serious about his woman will want to be there even after the ‘fun’ is over.

Hopefully whatever man you’re dealing with shows these 7 signs that a man is really serious about you. If not? Maybe it is time to have a deep conversation with him!


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    April 17, 2017 at 7:41 am

    who is the best star sign for Aquarius

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 17, 2017 at 10:52 am

      The top four more compatible signs for an Aquarius are Aries, Gemini, Libra and Sagittarius. Have a great day, Web!

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    February 22, 2017 at 5:02 am

    Hi, I just want to get your thoughts on two things. Firstly can it perhaps be of any significance or some sort of indication if another elderly lady (acquaintance of both me and my close male friend) asks me, without my friend being present, whether I really like him and if I’d settle down with him, him being my close male friend? Later on when I told him that this acquaintance was acting strangely he only responded with “he knows”. This happened last year and the year before last.
    Secondly a few days ago me and my friend were talking over the phone and I started alluding to something that was happening with one of my family members whom he has met a few months ago through me. He just told me straight away that he is not really interested in what’s happening with her, just said what he thought she should have done and nothing much thereafter.
    I was a bit upset with him behaving that way but nevertheless carried on with the conversation.

    I don’t know if I’m maybe getting it all wrong here but what could this all be indicative of? Please help.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 22, 2017 at 9:59 am

      If you are speaking with him over the phone and he said that he is not interested in another woman, then he may be interested in you. He may have thought that you were asking about your cousin as a romantic partner. Speak with him about and share your thoughts and feelings with him again. This may help bring your relationship to the forefront of your conversations. Have a great day, Charlotte!

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      April 27, 2018 at 9:04 pm

      Sounds like you got a Virgo man. They can be blunt and short about things that don’t concern them or someone they care about. Sounds like my friend, a Virgo, he tells you what you or whomever you’re talking about should do and he done with that conversation. He’s an analytical thinker, very serious. So the things you’ve described may mean nothing more than what he said. Take it at face value.

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 28, 2018 at 2:47 pm

        Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. It is certain that there is a benefit in allowing each person’s actions to influence your thoughts regarding them. Please share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Linda!

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    Cassidy Orter

    February 1, 2017 at 8:46 am

    Hi, this sounds exactly like my best friend and I. We have been friends for 10 years. I just got out of a really nasty relationship. And my best friend asked me out what do I say? P.S. I really like him back but I don’t know if I’m ready. I also don’t want to ruin our friendship if the relationship doesn’t work out.

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 1, 2017 at 1:33 pm

      If you want to establish a relationship with him and he asks you out, then accept. If you do not want to be with him, then explain that you do not want to risk your relationship. However, that route may damage your relationship as well. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Best of luck, Cassidy!

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    January 24, 2017 at 12:34 pm

    Hi, just about four of these sign describes my close male friend and the type of bond we have, except the last two and number 4. Have known each other all in all about six years now.
    We’ve been apart for 4 months now whilst I’m out of town but we have telephonic contact once a week where the calls are very long and we talk about all sorts of things. Usually he calls me, but every once in awhile I’ll call him.
    Before going out of town we would see each other once a week, play sports and spend some time afterwards as he lives on the other side of town from me. On every occasion he would give me a ride (pickup and drop-off), carry my bag and his own, would pay for us to play, buy the drinks afterwards. Last year I noticed him becoming more “touchy” (gently rubbing my back for no apparent reason) and hugging every time when parting ways (sometimes also coupled with a gentle back rub). He has before mentioned that he has met other girls but they were just not his type, but since the last or so he has never talked about other woman to me. He has on one occasion used the phrase “my dear” and on two different occasions used “my girl” during our telephonic conversation within the last year. Recently also told me that he tells me things which he tells no one else, including things about his family whom I have never met except his one brother. Also his closest friend has told me about six months ago that I am part of his circle of friends.
    Now since I still belief he may be secretly interested in more than just friendship there is other people who have independently told me things which boils down to the same things – him popping the big question. Apart from that I’ve had many people within the last 2.5 years coming to me specifically asking, sometimes even alluding to the two of us being an item. But up till now my friend hasn’t mentioned or given any indications that he wants us to be more than just friends or to just remain friends forever and ever. So I really don’t know what to think. What’s your take on this?

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 25, 2017 at 4:55 pm

      It is clear that he has strong emotional feelings for you. He wants to establish a relationship with you. Give him a a call today and talk with him about your thoughts and feelings. Try to spend additional time with him. If you want to establish a relationship with him, then try to clearly explain your feelings to him. He will appreciate it and probably share his feelings with you as well. Best of luck, Charlotte!

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