When a Guy Blocks You: What Does It Mean and What to Do
One of the worst things about social media is the fact that you can be deleted and blocked from someone’s life without so much as a second thought, in less time than it takes to blink. To be so happy in love one minute, only to find that you can’t even see your BAE’s Facebook or Instagram page the next; there’s only one thing to do when you’ve been blocked by your guy …
Don’t React
Of course, there are a hundred and one ways of dealing with this particular situation, but one thing is for certain — he’s mad or sad and needs a little time. He’s *that* mad he doesn’t even want to see your social media accounts, let alone speak to you. If the two of you try to communicate on any level there’s a good chance the situation will just get worse … and more heated. You’ll both say things that you didn’t mean but the other person won’t be able to forget that you ever said them and that little lover’s tiff you had has the potential to turn into something deeply troubling. Perhaps even relationship-ending.
When a guy blocks you, give him some space. Let him have some time to think and relax. If the two of you have come to blows, chasing him further is just going to chase him away. You shouldn’t beg for his time, nor should you keep chasing him for it. If he doesn’t want you in his life right now, get on with yours.
- Get the girls around and have some drinks and a movie.
- Invite your parents around for dinner and a catchup.
- Go to the gym like you keep saying you’re going to do, but never do.
- Do something else — don’t pine for him, don’t sit and wait for him, just get on with your life and let things play out just as they’re going to.
Don’t React Like This …
If he blocks you on Facebook, don’t message him on Instagram. He’ll block you on there too, and then you’ll need to resort to using Twitter. What if he blocks you there? Whatsapp next? Then iMessage? What about Skype?
If you keep going around the social media accounts, there’s a good chance he’ll just keep blocking you. Take the first blocking as a sign — this chap needs his space.
> > If he WANTS you to chase him around the various social media accounts to “prove” how much you’ll do for him, he’s playing games. You don’t need that drama in your life. Boy, bye! < <
While we’re on the subject of other things NOT to do, don’t scream and shout at him. We’ve said it before and we’ll say it again — he needs some space. Shouting and screaming at him is not giving him space. We know that you don’t want to lose your BAE, but hurling abuse at him is not going to keep him in your clutches.
One final point that we feel it is important to bring to your attention — stalking his social media accounts using your friend’s social media account is always a good idea in theory but usually ends up going wrong somewhere along the line. You will accidentally ‘like’ an update from months ago, for example, making him aware of EXACTLY what you’re doing. He’s going to know that it’s your best friend letting you use her account.
Do React Like This …
Spend some time on yourself — treating and loving yourself. Self-care is very underrated but oh-so-vital, and if he won’t love you in the way that you would like him to, perhaps it’s about time that you started to love yourself?
Treat yourself to a pamper weekend or have that extra slice of chocolate cake. You’ll add an extra half an hour on at the gym to compensate for it, right?
Get your hair done. Nails? Yeah, get a manicure while you’re there too. All of those things that you don’t seem to find the time to do anymore now that you’re in a relationship; that’s what you should be doing. Sitting around waiting for him to make that unblock call is probably just going to break your heart. As the saying goes, you should be with the guy who ruins your lipstick with kisses, not your mascara with tears.
When the time is right — when you have both calmed down — you can talk again, perhaps sort out the problems you had or have. But you do need to have calmed down first. You can’t solve an argument by starting a brand new one. You almost must remember that the resolution might not always be quite as you’d hoped.
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Eli
September 16, 2019 at 11:07 am
Hi
I know a guy in social media. He asked me my number for WhatsApp.
Then we talked days with each other. He blocked me after the night that he was talking to me till midnight. When our conversation went about that he wanted to see my body, I didn’t answer him. Morning I sent him message, but it didn’t deliver. At evening he unblocked me. After 2 days I sent him message, he told me don’t worry, those talkings wouldn’t be repeated. We were in touch again and everything was normal. But after 3 days he blocked me again… This time without any reason or conflict…I know he will come back. What should I do then?
web admin
December 20, 2019 at 9:11 pm
It depends on what you want. Since he blocked you after you did not reciprocate his sexting, this may be the reason why he blocked you a second time. If you aren’t interested in that kind of relations–or are worried that that is the only kind of relationship he wants, you may want to just move on. It’s extremely soon in the relationship for someone to play games like this, so I would be really worried about where this is headed.
Stacey
September 15, 2019 at 3:44 pm
Hi
Well, I’ve dated this guy for half a year and he broke up with me due to external reasons. I accepted the break up and went no contact for 2 weeks and broke it when we ended up seeing each other again and talking. Nothing came from it. I decided to go no contact again even though he never reached out and we haven’t been talking for months now. I don’t bother him at all and all of a sudden he blocks me. Why could that be ?
web admin
September 15, 2019 at 8:28 pm
Your partner made the decision to end your relationship because of other influences in his life. He made the decision to block you, which may be because he wanted to prevent himself from reaching out to you. Allow thoughts of him to fade. It is clear that he is not interested in maintaining a respectful relationship with you. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Stacey!
belle
September 18, 2019 at 5:51 am
me and my ex just brokeup few days and he blocked me because i keep texting him i miss him.. what it is about
web admin
December 21, 2019 at 5:34 pm
He blocked you because you keep texting him, and he doesn’t want to get any of the texts. It’s his way of showing you he is serious and isn’t interested in ever having a relationship with you again. Unfortunately, there is nothing you can really do to change the situation, at least for now. It takes time, but healing will happen. Good luck, Belle!
Lauren
November 5, 2019 at 6:04 am
Hi, my boyfriend and I were dating for 10 months and recently we have been arguing and he said he wasn’t happy anymore and he needed space. So I left him be for two days then called him asking what’s going on. He told me he wants a break but his plan was to just focus on work and then get back with me. He told me we could stay in contact. I called him the next day and he freaked so then I left him alone. Then a week later he blockes me on everything, phone,Twitter,insta,snap. Even blocked my mom and sisters. I don’t know what to do because I still want him back but i don’t know how I could win him back. I just don’t understand why he is doing this because if he really wanted me he wouldn’t go to this extreme
web admin
February 16, 2020 at 9:34 pm
I think that you may want to just return the things you bought and get your money back, or give them to a friend who might like it. From the sound of it, he doesn’t want to be in the relationship anymore. If he gave you the impression he might want to date again or told you he just needed space, it was only to let you down easy because he didn’t have the courage to just end things like he should have.
Maluna
October 6, 2019 at 3:53 am
My situation just didnt make any sense? He blocked me because he thought i liked him when i never saw him that way only as friends. He was retaking his exams so i thought as a good friend i would help him and after that he blocked me but he did apologise. But nothing made any sense, I kept repeating myself by saying your just my friend and nothing else. Yet still he kept saying hes not looking for a relationship. Did he realise he was wrong or does he actually think i do like him low key
Maluna
October 6, 2019 at 3:55 am
Anyone please help me out. Would he apologise for acting directly or he definitely ignored this situation? hes a minor so i dont think he will bother about this situation, but i was always being nice and helpful towards him
web admin
February 4, 2020 at 8:16 pm
It is possible that he will apologize to you, and it is possible that he won’t. His decisions and choices will be based on the influences by your life. Take this time to determine if this relationship is viable or appropriate. Make a decision about what you want for your future and speak with him about your thoughts and feelings.
web admin
February 4, 2020 at 8:19 pm
He made the decision to block you. This may mean that this relationship is no longer viable. Do not reach out to him at this time. If he makes the decision to speak with you about his feelings, then share yourself with him as well.
ERIK MENDEZ
November 12, 2019 at 1:48 am
Same with mines
Me and my bf were dating for 1 month gonna be 2 on the 23rd of nov
Im veary emotional all of a sudden i feel as this caios is my fault
I cry everytime i see him
I get highly emotional to the point i hang up on him becuse i dont think he deserves that or i get highly upset
web admin
February 10, 2020 at 8:52 pm
In MRI studies, scientists have actually found that the brain during a break up looks like it is suffering from a mental illness. Basically, you aren’t imagining things if it feels like a break up is making you insane. It takes time to move on and heal, but it does happen. You just have to be patient, and healing will happen.
Esther
September 12, 2019 at 3:32 am
i met a guy on social media,we met the same day and asked me to be his girlfriend.however,i realize that he knew my ex bf and he went to ask my ex if were done,so that he i could start a relationship,,one month after he asked me if we could go and meet my mum,which is against our culture but ignored it.he asked me from my mother and she allowed me.without my consent he took me to his home to meet his parents.at first i thought they were his aunty and uncle but after shaking hand he told me that they are his parents,i could not escape because in our culture this is a sign of acceptance from his family n entering his home means u to become his wife. he was just so nice to me but he never wants me to talk with his friend or my male friends.he told me that the mother of his son cheated him so thats y.after some months i went overseas to study at university and he stays back to our home country.he always jealous of me,and said that he never trust any woman living his back.months passed by and we were not talking to each other.he blocked me every where on social media.on a my one month break i flew back to home and my friends told me that they saw him with another woman around the age of 60+ ,i knew she was the woman he was with before he took me.he was not home when i arrive.he was confined so he stayed at the police headquarters.neighbors started wondering why i came home but he didn’t even come to visit me..he rang me and was angry with me the whole month of unnecessary things.so i decided to leave his home.his parent told me not to leave so they and rang him and he warned me not to leave.on the last day before i went back overseas,my phone rang.i did not expect a call from him.but to my surprise,it was him.i picked it up.and he apologies,wishing me a safe trip and gods blessing and all that,he told me “when u return on Christmas please come back to our home,this our home,n he told me that he gave me money and his mother would give that money to me.so yes i received that and went back overseas.but he told me that we were just friends now.he unblocked me on fb and we talk but he never want to talk about the relationship.just recently he misunderstood the message i sent him n he blocked me again on fb.iam just confused what really is the problem here.
web admin
September 12, 2019 at 7:21 pm
The two of you maintained a social relationship. Immediately, he chose to disregard your personal values and social customs. While you were overseas, he made the decision to treat you poorly. He blocked you, which is beneficial for you. He is not the type of person that you should nourish a relationship with, as his behaviors are clear indications of how he would behave as a partner. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, Esther!
Megan Eastman
December 11, 2019 at 4:37 am
I was seeing this guy and I just kept hear bad things about him so I asked him for space and asked if I was coming back and being a brat I said no so I blocked him on Snapchat and he in return blocked me on everything else… I know I asked for it but I’m now truly hurt 💔
web admin
January 5, 2020 at 11:33 am
You blocked him due to rumors, and he blocked you in response. There is no reason doe you to feel hurt. You should take the opportunity to learn from this experience.
Kay
September 9, 2019 at 5:45 pm
Me and my ex have been dating for about 3years back and forth he goes back to college and things get shaky…last year I was kinda just hanging around n him too I ended up getting blocked for a month then he hit me up we ended up getting back together this summer as we were together we had a serious talk no more back n forth if we become negative in each other life or if we get in the way of each other success then we should end it then this year he hadn’t even been gone for a full 2weeks and I brung up a girl and he ended things w me and said he was really done we are never getting back together of course I was full of hurt this summer something personal and shocks happened to us together I thought it will never get bad again but I can’t help but have this gut feeling it’s going to be like the first time I just go crazy not knowing for certain idk what to think…and trust me rn I’m doing me I have lot to focus on but when I am free I do tend to focus on is this real
web admin
September 9, 2019 at 6:07 pm
The two of you maintained a relationship over three years. He blocked you and then reached out to you. It seems that the two of you are no longer maintaining a relationship, and he is uncertain about what he wants for the future. It seems that you need to make a decision about what you want. Take whatever action that you feel is appropriate. Have a great day, Kay!
Emily
September 19, 2019 at 6:07 am
Hi, I knew a guy on IG who’s been on my list for almost a year. We didn’t start chatting until a month ago. Prior to that he’d leave a comment here and there on my photos, mainly nature shots. We hit it off a month ago with daily messages and he was honest about having just broke it off with his gf. We never fully flirted I think we were both cautious but there was something there. I tried to distance myself from the situation once I found out he was still hanging out with his ex, I did this for myself mainly. I think he noticed I wouldn’t like his photos right away like I used to. Two days later I noted he deleted me without saying a word. Why didn’t he say anything? I messaged him saying it looks like he deleted me and that it’s his choice and it doesn’t make sense to me considering we got along. He read it but never replied. I felt stupid those two days when I still liked his photos even tho he had deleted me haha.
web admin
December 21, 2019 at 6:21 pm
He may have just been talking to you because he was interested in you romantically. Once he realized that wasn’t possible, he decided to move. It is also entirely possible that he found someone else and deleted you because he found someone else and wanted to move on for that reason. Whatever the case, it doesn’t seem like anything will happen anytime soon.
LeoHart
September 8, 2019 at 6:58 pm
I was seeing this guy for almost 3 years on and off we would hook up. Initially I knew he was just trying to have sex. But then feelings started to grow . Between the both of us. He did block me a couple times but I had told him in detail how I felt about him and he would unblock me. This time after the next day of seeing each other. He had left his empty pack of ciggs in my car. And because while we would see eachother on and off in between relationships. I sent him a picture of it just joking around like “haha you left your pack of ciggs in my car” he replied now you saying that makes me think you were in a relationship. And I wasn’t. I tried to tell him I wasn’t but he wouldn’t believe me. I grew very fond of him. And I miss him. I did what you weren’t supposed to do try to contact him after awhile and he ended up blocking me. I have tried to reach out through another social media and blocked there too. I know it’s clear he doesn’t want to talk. But I just wish he would Just explain. Closure isn’t easy to come by especially when you were feeling so close to someone. How do I move forward?
web admin
September 9, 2019 at 2:41 pm
The two of you maintained a social and emotional relationship for three years. Over the course of your relationship, he blocked you numerous times. At this time, he has blocked you on all social media platforms. It is clear that he is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, LeoHart!
Claire
September 6, 2019 at 4:38 am
I dated someone who was incredibly communicative, until our breakup, which was over something that was very petty. He ended it via social media, saying he’s not really ready for a relationship. I reached out with a video to just give myself some closure and didn’t ask for him back or anything. One week later, he comes at me via text with accusations but refuses to discuss them in person. He got me so upset that I had to resort to therapy. About two weeks later, I had some time to think and reached out with a note and an apology via text. I realized that I had a part in the end of our relationship so i acknowledged it. My counselor helped me draft it, too. I felt good that I finally got it out of my chest. And then I saw the read receipt and I felt even better. But one hour later, he blocked me on Instagram. His response to my opening up is A BLOCK. I mean, wow. We’re not even following each other anymore and we’re both on private.
I’m trying hard not to take this personally. His inability to communicate says a lot more about him than it does about me. But the sting is quite painful. We haven’t went talked for weeks and he blocks me the moment I became vulnerable. I should be the one blocking him but i didn’t do that because I know it would be hurtful. So finding out that this was done to me is a lot more heartbreaking than I anticipated.
web admin
September 6, 2019 at 10:51 pm
He ended the relationship, and he then chose to speak with you later. You decided to seek therapy, which will certainly benefit you. He made the decision to block you, which is likely beneficial for your mental well being. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Share your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Claire!
Franchesca
September 11, 2019 at 7:30 am
Wow! So he never responded to your letter? He sound very immature.
web admin
September 12, 2019 at 3:58 pm
Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. We always appreciate when members of our community share their supportive comments. Have a great day, Franchesca!
LeoHart
September 12, 2019 at 1:07 pm
It’s weird because he didn’t block me on all social media platforms… Does that mean anything?
web admin
September 12, 2019 at 3:16 pm
He has left some avenues of conversation open. This does not mean that he wants you to reach out to him. He may choose to speak with you in the future. If he does, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. For now, focus your emotional energy elsewhere and determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, LeoHart!
catalina19
October 2, 2019 at 4:19 pm
I have a similar situation:
Met a great guy on that new Facebook dating app, have been talking to him for a couple weeks (I know I know a little soon for worries and problems) went on a few dates including one yesterday we spent the whole day together but then when I needed to go home he seemed hurt he texted me that he got home ok and that he was glad to hear I did too then I woke up this morning and noticed he either blocked me or deleted his profile because our convo is gone. I texted him today pretending everything is cool and good news is he hasn’t blocked my number yet. I said hey, he left it on read for a few hours then just replied “yeah” and I replied telling him how much I enjoyed our time together and he left that on read too. Weird. The rest of the date was great he was very charming and affectionate. Just don’t understand the blocking. Would have figured if he was mad that he wouldn’t feel the need to tell me he got home ok you know?
web admin
December 30, 2019 at 10:14 am
For whatever reason, it seems like he has decided that this isn’t the relationship for him. Perhaps he is responding childishly to the fact that you needed to go home–if that is the case, you’re better off without him. It is also possible that any of the things you talked about were deal breakers for relationships–and it could have been anything from being a vegetarian to being a part of a different religion, so I wouldn’t worry about it.
Marina
October 5, 2019 at 5:46 am
We were seeing each other for 6 mounts, it wasnt anything serious. I wasnt annoying and petty or anything, he just blocked me on whats app for no reason. I dont know what to do
web admin
January 27, 2020 at 2:59 pm
He made the decision to block you, so it is clear that this relationship is no longer viable. Make a decision about what you want for your future without him. There is no reason to attempt to reach out to him in the future.
Noah Ellis
August 26, 2019 at 9:12 pm
So, me and this guy started seeing each other and spent a a lot of time together. We were together every day after I got off work and I even stayed with him mostly nights. Well, one day I was exhausted and didn’t want to drive to his place, so I messaged him 2 hours before I was supposed to go over and told him I was gonna go home that afternoon to sleep at home. He got mad and then the next day broke up with me. I of course got really emotional and blew his phone up for a while. I sent way to many messages. Then out of the blue he messaged me and says, “I would like to talk, but not over the phone. And it’s too late to talk in person.” Well, a week goes by and nothing, so I reached out to him to set up a day to meet and he replies, “I must not have been in the right mindset when I said that. I think we shouldn’t speak.” I got emotional again. He blocked me on everything. Social media and my phone. I stopped messaging him again and another day he randomly messaged me and said, “I unblocked you. Tried to FaceTime you. For a reason.” I replied, “I haven’t had my phone because I had it turned off and just got home from work. What’s wrong?” He replies, “Nothing.” I said, “Okay. So we still aren’t taking?” And he replied, “Yep.” And I haven’t talked to him since. What do I do? Do I move on or continue to wait for him to come back. I’m so broken. I fell in love with this man.
Noah Ellis
August 26, 2019 at 9:14 pm
Also, might I add he told me he loved me a week before and I wasn’t ready to say it yet. Which he respected. But I wish I had said it back to him. I know he is mad because I blew him up so many times because I got way to emotional and it just happened. It hasn’t happened in a while. I’m hurting without him. I miss him so much.
web admin
August 27, 2019 at 5:58 pm
The two of you maintained a romantic relationship, end then your partner made the decision to end the relationship. He chose to block you, as he no longer wanted to speak with you. He then decided to speak with you, but he told you that he didn’t want to speak with you anymore. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Noah!
web admin
August 27, 2019 at 5:56 pm
The two of you maintained a romantic relationship, end then your partner made the decision to end the relationship. He chose to block you, as he no longer wanted to speak with you. He then decided to speak with you, but he told you that he didn’t want to speak with you anymore. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Noah!
Annon
August 26, 2019 at 3:23 pm
I was with my ex for 5 years living together.Split few times over outside influences.He told me how much he loved me and were engaged for 2 of those years.When he left me 8 months ago it wasnt an ending just had to live apart.we continued contact and even went away for weekend all good but then I could feel something wasnt right and kinda of told him and he said ok it’s over. We had contact still he said hard to let go as wanted an us and I loved him very deeply but obstacles broke us he then said how much he hurt and still loved me but when I asked if in love he said no.
Within weeks he had moved on with someone else and went cold so I told him I had to block him as hurting so much and needed to heal. I did unblock and did text to say no hard feelings and wished him well in new relationship and was all amicable and he even said catch up one day. Now he has blocked me with no explanation. How does a man do that? I have treated him with respect but now I feel worthless and hurt. We are in our 50s
web admin
August 27, 2019 at 4:42 pm
He made a decision to end the relationship eight months ago. You then decided to block him, which was a decision that you felt was reasonable at the time. You then reached out to him, and he blocked you in return. His behaviors was appropriate, as he was in a relationship with someone else. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Anon!
Momo
August 24, 2019 at 2:07 pm
Today I met up with a guy and we basically had a date. We had so much fun and we really had the same sense of humor and acting. He told me that he really was into me and I also was very interested in him. At the end of the day, after we both went to our homes, he texted me that he missed me already and couldn’t wait to see me again. I was genuinely so happy.
But then things got weird..
Like he did mention he would visit his dad and after an hour or so as we were texting, he suddenly said “Idk I think I will stop it here though. It was nice meeting you.” And blocked right after he said that. I really don’t know why he suddenly blocked as he mentioned before that even if it didn’t work out he wanted to stay friends with me. I just don’t really know what I did wrong… We weren’t arguing, we just talked about how our date went and more. I just have no idea what to do..
web admin
August 25, 2019 at 11:07 pm
There may be various reasons for his actions. His sudden decision to block you seems to be related to some influenced in his life. It is possible that he is maintaining a relationship with someone else. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Share your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy toward you. Have a great day, Momo!
Anonymous
August 24, 2019 at 1:24 pm
I was dating this guy and we were happy. So one day he asked to meet his family and I refused because I was not ready to meet his family. He then said I should’ve said in the first place that I don’t want something serious and he thought that we have something real but no I was using him and made him sex partner. I was mad he didn’t even apologize but I managed to get over it and still loved him like nothing happened. So this other day when I woke up I found out that he blocked me on whatsapp. I waited for him for two days hoping he will text me but he didn’t. I sent him several smses asking what did I do wrong to him even now he hasn’t responded. It’s a been a week now. I can’t get over him I love him, I miss him. Everytime when someone whatsapp me I think its him. I can’t take this anymore its hurting. Please help me
web admin
August 25, 2019 at 9:07 pm
He wanted you to meet his family, and you informed him that you were not ready to do so. He felt that your uncertainty meant that you were not taking this relationship seriously. Because of that, he made the decision to end this relationship. He then blocked you. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and determine what you want for your future without him. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Anon!
Miriam weber
August 24, 2019 at 7:05 am
We dont talk toneach other, we are not friends but he is into me and i could feel rhat, but he suddenly blocked me on instagram. I dont know why? Please help me out i am feeling really bad, as i have started to feel fpr him.
web admin
August 25, 2019 at 8:31 pm
The two of you don’t talk to each other and you are not friends. Your personal feelings regarding his feelings toward you were your own. He made the decision to block you. There may be another influenced in his life which caused him to block you. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Miriam!
Sarah
August 21, 2019 at 2:36 pm
I feel like my story is so stupid yet I can’t get it off my mind for some reason. I know I should probably forget about him but I can’t. I was talking to this boy that asked for my number at this party for about of week. I could tell he was really into me but then all of sudden got dry. I left him on read and then we didn’t talk for two weeks. Like an idiot, I got drunk and messaged him asking y he never hit me up. He said he was busy with family stuff but wouldn’t tell me what. He said he would hit me up when he’s available. I didn’t know how trust worthy that’s statement was and while being drunk I wasn’t afraid to let him know it, so I went off. He ended up blocking me. I don’t know if I was in the wrong and if I should have given him space or if my intuition was right but now I regret it because I started to really like him (even tho we only talked for a week lol) and idk what to do. I’m very protective of my feelings which makes it reallllyyy hard to trust people but that also ruins any possibility for a real relationship and I don’t know how to fix it even if it’s not with this guy just like for future relationships.
web admin
August 21, 2019 at 4:07 pm
The two of you were speaking, and you decided that you no longer wanted to speak with him. You left him on read and did not speak with him for two weeks. You then reached out to him and went off on him. He then decided to block you because of your behaviors. Allow thoughts of him to fade and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, Sarah!
Ilse
September 2, 2019 at 5:37 pm
Hey
So basically this guy broke up with me because we kept arguing like too much and we went back toghetter then broke up again then went back toghetter and then broke up again(all of this in like 2 weeks). Finally i asked him for a week in which we dont talk thinking maybe we wont argue that much after we get some time off and he agrees but after 4 days he texts me saying he’s sad and that if we dont talk it over he will break up with me. He called me a few times and i ignored him , really wanting to stay a week off but then the second day he texted me saying its over and blocked me. A day after that i texted him”wanna talk about it ?” and he called me imediatly and we talked but he said theres a 99% chance we womt get back toghetter. However , he unblocked me and texted me from time to time and when i didnt text him he asked me why i wasnt texting him anymore. We talked and he even asked to meet so i can give him back his hoodies ,kept talking about how nice his new friends are , and said i confuse him ; but then there was a big dramatic argument with him and his friends in which lots of people were involved (not to do with us) and he got annoyed and blocked me again. Then he unblocked me after a few days , texted me and deleted the messages and then texted me again asking how im doing.
3 nights ago we talked like 3 hours and he asked me if i want to date again out of curiosity and i said that i dont want to hurt him again but another argument ensued last night in which everyone was involved (this time about us. He was telling his friends how toxic i made the relationship and how much he loved me ) and he blocked me as soon as i said something mean again and he said he doesnt want anything to do with me and that im his biggest regret. A friend of mine had also wrote to him and asked him to block me everywhere (which practically killed me ) so i can move on. He said he.s more than happy to do that but somehow i stil dont think he moved on cuz before we had a period of time where i also blocked him and just wanted him to come after me which he always did. Also this thing with blocking me everwhere has happened like 2 hours ago so not that long. However i cant go after him because he gets mean and i know that crying or telling him i stil care will make it worse. (Also his best friend sent me a picture of him and a girl holding hands just so i think they.re dating when they’re not . another friend of his told me this)
I never asked him to get back toghetter after he said its over but i feel like even though he is not admitting it he does miss me. We have been dating for like almost a year and we were making plans for our future and i stil have the feeling he will come back.(apparently he likes this girl but whilst he was talking to her he was telling me about it and everything going on in his life and kept repeating that he only likes her as a friend. He even had the guts to ask me for advice which kinda pissed me off and made me react not that well)
Should i give him time to heal from all the pain our arguments created ?(for i am as well slightly bitter, and if he came begging for me i would also need time and not go back to him immediatly. But somehow it really hurts and i really want him back and i dont know if i should try my damn hardest to kove on and really suffer , or wait for him to come back .
web admin
September 2, 2019 at 10:02 pm
The two of you broke up numerous times within a two week period. He then made the decision to block you time after time. He is interested in making you think that he is dating someone else. His behaviors are clear indications of his feelings. He does not want to maintain a respectful relationship with you. Make a decision about what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Ilse!
Jennet
December 20, 2019 at 12:16 pm
I met this guy 5months ago Nd he is a devocee he stays with one of his kids from marriage lately he does not have time I always have to talk Nd send him massages he sometimes don’t reply Nd said he was busy at work .it made me angry I ask if he was back with his ex Nd he blocked me please assist what should I do
web admin
December 22, 2019 at 10:32 pm
It seems like he may have blocked you because he was upset that you did not trust him and became angry at him when he was busy. If he blocked you, there is nothing you can do until he unblocks you. Hopefully, he will cool down and decide to give you another chance. Just be patient. If he does unblock you, try to worry less about how quickly he responds when he is at work. Good luck, Jennet!
Mark
August 21, 2019 at 11:02 am
I am having some issues that have made me really moody and I have explained to my part Enter, instead of understanding, she decided to complain about me not checking on her.
Today she told me some news about her having more time to spend with me and I said okay, she started complaining becuse she didn’t like my response and she blocked me on WhatsApp. What should I do?
This isn’t the first time I will complain about her not handling things well when I’m down
web admin
August 21, 2019 at 3:42 pm
The two of you were maintaining a social relationship. During your discussion, she made the decision the complain about your relationship. She then determined that would be appropriate for her to block you. Do not reach out to her at this time. If she makes the decision to contact you in the future, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings at that time. Have a great day, Mark!
Anonymous
August 18, 2019 at 10:26 am
There is this one guy whom I renewed contact with on a party last week. He started texting me again then, saying he broke up w his girlfriend. He would be sexting all day, sending me d*ck pics without even asking. We arranged to meet up two days ago and he canceled due to lack of time, apparently, had to finish sth. Then he said “let’s meet tomorrow”. I was ok with it and very tolerant. Next day, I got blocked by him. For no reason. He was the one initiating sex and sexting, I barely even texted him first. I am blocked both on Whatsapp and Instagram. Wondering why? Any logical/possible reason? We should have had sex but seems like he gave up bcs of sth. My sources told me he hadn’t returned to his ex. I don’t have a reasonable explanation, I wasn’t even being obssesed over him lol. Thx for replying in advance. Would love to hear your opinion on this. Never had this happen to me before.
web admin
August 19, 2019 at 9:48 pm
The two of you were sexting and thinking about maintaining a romantic relationship. Something in his life influenced him, and this caused him to block you. Because he has blocked you, it is clear that he is no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will find great benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Anon!
ivy
August 17, 2019 at 10:16 pm
I am married, but had an affair with someone, just once but we continued to talk with each other over the phone for almost a year, he has since migrated and calls but when I tried to call as well, lately it’s been ringing out , don’t know if it is that he has blocked me.
web admin
August 18, 2019 at 10:06 pm
You are married and this person is no longer answering your calls. Allow thoughts of him to fade. Focus your emotional energy on your partner. If you are no longer interested in maintaining a relationship with him, then inform him of your decision to end this relationship. Have a great day, Ivy!
Emily Red
August 17, 2019 at 8:52 am
I’d been talking to a guy for about a month or so. Everything was fine but then he stopped texting me. I obviously didn’t text him either. A few days later he texted me, apologising for not texting me and told me he’ll explain everything the next day in college. Later on, he didn’t approach me because “I was with my friends but he’d have approached me if I was alone” , we got into a fight and he ended up blocking me. What should I do? Should I just move on?
web admin
August 18, 2019 at 9:33 pm
The two of you maintained a distant social relationship. Overtime, something changed, and he stopped texting you. Eventually, the two of you got into a fight and he blocked you. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will draw positive people and energy toward you by sharing your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Emily!
mahirakhan
August 15, 2019 at 11:50 pm
he wanted my help as he is having some money issues it is first time that he asked my help in 5 years but i was unable to help him as i m having my family issues right now and he is not understanding that he is getting angry since yesterday he is thinking i don’t care for him he is thinking that i love money not him he is thinking my heart is fake
yesterday he messaged me and saying me :
[15/08 7:32 pm] prince: U didn’t helped me
[15/08 7:32 pm] prince: This world is this only
[15/08 7:32 pm] prince: Name sake fake people
[15/08 7:33 pm] prince: Bye
[15/08 7:33 pm] prince: I am blocking u
[15/08 7:33 pm] prince: Here after never message me
web admin
August 18, 2019 at 8:26 pm
He asked you for money, and you informed him of your valid reasons why you could not give him money. He chose to be rude to you. He then blocked you. Count yourself lucky that he removed himself from your life. His behaviors were inappropriate, and you do not want to maintain a relationship with someone like that. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere, and determine what you want for your future without him. Have a great day, Mahirakhan!
SA
August 19, 2019 at 3:30 pm
Hey, I’m in the same situation. We had an argument about me being stingy. I couldn’t help him because of certain circumstances and now he’s removed me off everywhere and won’t talk to me
web admin
August 20, 2019 at 9:05 pm
You are not financially responsible for other people. When people ask for money and remove you from their life when you do not provide for their lifestyles, then you should be accepting of their decision. Allow this person to fade from your mind, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. If they reach out to you in the future, then speak with that person about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, SA!
Terisa Lindley
August 7, 2019 at 9:54 pm
Been talking to this guy for a month. It was all cool n gravy u til he played me
He told me about his x and what we did together. He told me about another girl aka his gf which looked real pretty. Now I’m blk on FB n his phone. He only hit me up when he want sex idk what to do btw he 39 I’m 28
web admin
August 8, 2019 at 7:44 pm
It sounds like you are fully aware of his relationship status and his desires regarding your relationship. If he is in a relationship, then do not speak with him. His behaviors are clear indications that he is not someone that you want to maintain a relationship with. Allow thoughts of him to fade, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. You will draw positive people and energy into your life by sharing your kindness and compassion at all times. Have a great day, Terisa!
Sarah
August 5, 2019 at 7:11 am
Me and this guy were openly dating for about 8 months then started focusing on each other for 4 months. We moved in together and started traveling together. We got into a huge fight, broke up, blocked each other but still contacted each other. He ended up coming to get his stuff and we had sex. I felt bad after it so I didn’t say anything to him after. Then a week later I reached out and he responded (so we aren’t blocked ). I want to see him to move past the fight but I’m not sure if this is too soon. I’m not sure what to do
web admin
August 6, 2019 at 11:56 am
The two of you are maintaining a uncertain social and emotional relationship. At this time, the two of you are speaking. Make a decision about what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time together in the future. Have a great day, Sarah!
Gracy
August 13, 2019 at 3:43 am
Hi
I had a relationship for 4years now,we have visited each other back home,last time I went to his home he had less attention on me,I raised the concern but he said he had no money to move around..but I suspected chatting a woman on his phone..later on I did my research from his sister in-law since I was staying in his family house, I decided to bring the issue when I reached home, so he insisted I tell him who told me the issue or the relationship ends automatically.. And immediately he unfriended me on FB,blocked me on WhatsApp but after 20mins he unblocked me on WhatsApp but now we don’t talk since I told him to pay me back money I had lend him which he said he will in short time.after a week I greeted him and he replied he is not interested in greeting but if I had something to tell I write and if it required reply he would reply if not he would not respond. How do I deal with such. Should I move on?but back on my mind I know he has a woman!
web admin
August 13, 2019 at 7:01 pm
The two of you maintained a relationship for four years. You brought up your concerns about his behaviors. He immediately responded by blocking you. He is not interested in maintaining a respectful relationship with you. He has no intention of paying you back. Make a decision about what you want for your future without him. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion at all times, as this will draw positive people and energy in your life. Have a great day, Gracy!
Christine
August 4, 2019 at 9:37 am
He is 33 and I am 25. We have known each other for several months, and have been meeting each other for twice to discuss some topic related to schoolwork.
The third time we had coffee and he asked me a lot like what kind of music I enjoy listening, whether I am interested in having dinner with him or watching a film. We hugged before I left his car. On that day we had coffee, he told me he would be busy for a few days and so am I. So we kind of made an agreement that we will contact again after those super crazy busy days.
After a few days later, I texted him whether he is still busy or not. The Whatsapp shows two grey ticks; I ignored that for two days and texted him again, asked him sill busy or not and I want to meet. This time, the message showed blue ticks but the previous one was still grey. He said he wants to meet me too. He asked me whether I want some wine at my place, but I have a roommate and my roommate disagreed. Therefore, I told him maybe at other places or his place. Grey ticks again and he didn’t reply to me at all. After two days, I asked him is there anything wrong with his phone, blue ticks this time and he told me he is outside the city so cannot always receive the message and will text me tomorrow when he is back.
I have been waiting for him three days, honestly, he is really attractive to me and I text him again. Simple text, ask he is back or not. Still grey ticks and no response. I was confused this time and asked him whether his WhatsApp has any problems and told him about one of my exams he helped me before. Luckily, this time shows blue ticks. However, he replied, he can’t answer too much texts and ask me to have a great summer. And block me.
Do you think this guy has a girlfriend or he just suddenly hates me?
web admin
August 5, 2019 at 7:03 pm
The two of you were maintaining a social relationship. He left, and the two of you had various discussions. In the end, he made the decision to block you. This may be an indication of various influences in his life. He made the decision to block you, so it is clear that he is not interested in maintaining a relationship with you. It is possible that he has a romantic relationship that he is maintaining. Determine what you want for your future without him, and focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Christine!
Tresha
November 7, 2019 at 9:27 pm
We had been together for 2months and after we break up we haven’t talk about one week and then I started to talked to him on Viber and he replied to me we talked very well and he said something like’I can not forget our kisses”I missed you but now it is also OK for me’ and then we talked a lot about the other things till 1a.m but the next day I could not sent him a message on Viber so that I think he blocked me .I can not understand that situation at all and I want to know his side too.reply me
web admin
February 14, 2020 at 8:10 pm
He may just be trying to talk through his feelings and get closure so that he can move on. It is also possible that he is starting to remember all of the good times and miss them, so that could be in your favor. Right now, I don’t even know if he really knows what is going on in his thought process.
Connie
November 9, 2019 at 10:09 pm
Hi so this guy in my school same grade as me. we talk on snapchat and on imessages as friends and i just told him yesterday that i wanna tell him something and he was like ok amd i told him i have a little crush on you, do you share the same feelings ? And he said i will be honest with you NO. I like you only as a friend. And i guess i was really upset at the moment amd i blocked him on snapchat. But then i felt bad tge other day and unblocked him and when i searched gim up, outta nowhere it said user norlt found which meant he blocked me. Im so confused, what does that mean. What kind of attitude whould i have when im in front of him in school, should i act like he is non existemt to me when i see or i dont care aboit him so he wont think im chasing his ass or something? Please tell me how should i act in front of him? thankyou!
web admin
February 13, 2020 at 8:29 pm
When he saw you blocked him, he probably blocked you in return. People often respond negatively to being blocked, even if you blocked him for an understandable reason. You don’t have to ignore him, but there is obviously no point in flirting with him since he isn’t interested.