What do you do when your Crush likes someone Else?
It is quite challenging when you realize someone you have been crushing on actually prefers someone else than you, in fact, this is even more depressing when that other person is your closest friend. One of the outcomes from the results is that you go through a mix of emotions, which may include but not limited to anger, hurting and continued embarrassment. In some cases, we find it hard to accept this fate and may continue obsessing on the crush for some time.
So, what can we do to make sure that the other person knows at least they are being liked by someone whom you happen to like? For one, if the other person already knows and has been going out with your crush, in order to deal with the acceptance, you can always tell them how you feel especially if the person is they are crushing on is your friend. In other words, letting them know how you feel and what would happen if they continued to date them can resolve your gestures. The best way to resolve this is to look rather for a new crush to help you get over the old one. Note that liking someone else doesn’t suggest that you are completely over the old crush or the crush will stop liking the other person.
This is why it is recommended that you should try as much as possible to avoid your old crush and stay away from them for a while. The next thing is to learn how to act naturally, if by any chance, you realize that your crush likes someone else, and that you want to find a different crush getting over them, instead of acting suspicious when they realize that you once were interested on them, act as if everything is okay, and that it wasn’t a big deal. It is always important to focus on various things, for instance, when you realize that your friend was in fact the person your crush liked so much, you should avoid taking it out on them.
Note that the other person is not the problem, they are completely innocent and thus the free will of your crush to like them was beyond your control, which is something that we should always learn to accept. Another thing is to take everything naturally when you realize that your crush is not interested in you, do not start hating them for that, or you will lose him as a friend if he or she was.