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    What do you do when your Crush likes someone Else?

    By on March 5, 2013

    It is quite challenging when you realize someone you have been crushing on actually prefers someone else than you, in fact, this is even more depressing when that other person is your closest friend. One of the outcomes from the results is that you go through a mix of emotions, which may include but not limited to anger, hurting and continued embarrassment. In some cases, we find it hard to accept this fate and may continue obsessing on the crush for some time.

    So, what can we do to make sure that the other person knows at least they are being liked by someone whom you happen to like? For one, if the other person already knows and has been going out with your crush, in order to deal with the acceptance, you can always tell them how you feel especially if the person is they are crushing on is your friend. In other words, letting them know how you feel and what would happen if they continued to date them can resolve your gestures.  The best way to resolve this is to look rather for a new crush to help you get over the old one. Note that liking someone else doesn’t suggest that you are completely over the old crush or the crush will stop liking the other person.

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    This is why it is recommended that you should try as much as possible to avoid your old crush and stay away from them for a while. The next thing is to learn how to act naturally, if by any chance, you realize that your crush likes someone else, and that you want to find a different crush getting over them, instead of acting suspicious when they realize that you once were interested on them, act as if everything is okay, and that it wasn’t a big deal.  It is always important to focus on various things, for instance, when you realize that your friend was in fact the person your crush liked so much, you should avoid taking it out on them.

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    Note that the other person is not the problem, they are completely innocent and thus the free will of your crush to like them was beyond your control, which is something that we should always learn to accept. Another thing is to take everything naturally when you realize that your crush is not interested in you, do not start hating them for that, or you will lose him as a friend if he or she was.

    18 Comments

    1. Lonely dark queen

      October 24, 2017 at 9:13 pm

      I liked this guy and he is in my class we talk A lot of jokes to each other and one of his friends today one of my classmates started shipping us we were shocked and after class I told his friend what my other classmate ship us and why she shouldn’t and he told me the guy I like liked someone else I felt depressed but I had crushes all my whole life none of them liked me back what should I do?

      • web admin

        web admin

        October 25, 2017 at 8:04 pm

        Take this time to determine what you want for your future and for the future of your relationships. Look inward and determine what choices that you can make in the future. Speak directly and honestly with the people who are in your life. Have a great day, Queen!

    2. Lyle Marc Bilway

      September 4, 2017 at 8:59 am

      I was so jealous in this guy..
      My crushs told me last 5 weeks that he dont like that guy anymore ’cause the guy she like have another crush..
      Then the guy know that my crush have a crush on him sooo.. He chat it on messenger then they’re getting close next 2 weeks it is our Acquaintance Party in our school..
      Im sitted between my crush and talk allot of things then my friend force my crush to talk to her crush then my crush do it.. She go to her crush then they talk allot and I dont know what’s all about.. then i get angry then I go outside so that I can’t punch the guys face soo then.. I realize that she didn’t like me so what can I do? I’m not her boyfriend to stop her feelings to that guy..
      So what would shall I do?

      • web admin

        web admin

        September 4, 2017 at 8:39 pm

        There is no reason to feel negative thoughts toward anyone, especially someone that you do not know. Allow these thoughts to guide you in a positive direction. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion. Attempt to spend more time with your crush. This will help her feelings toward you grow. Have a great day, Lyle!

    3. Rakesh Shetty

      August 26, 2017 at 4:12 am

      My name is Rakesh.I love a girl. She doesn’t know this. She tells that I am her best friend,and likes to share all her secrets of her boyfriend (Rohit). She always keeps talking about him with me. This sometime hurts me.Many a times she posts pics with some boys on FB. This sucks?.

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 26, 2017 at 7:47 pm

        Your crush is currently in a relationship with someone else. Do not attempt to develop a relationship with her at this time. There is no reason for you to not treat her with kindness and compassion. Treat everyone in your life with positive energy. If her relationship ends, then you can attempt to develop a relationship with her at that time. Have a great day, Rakesh!

    4. Rakesh Sharma

      August 26, 2017 at 4:11 am

      My name is Rakesh.I love a girl. She doesn’t know this. She tells that I am her best friend,and likes to share all her secrets of her boyfriend (Rohit). She always keeps talking about him with me. This sometime hurts me.Many a times she posts pics with some boys on FB. This sucks?.

      • web admin

        web admin

        August 26, 2017 at 7:47 pm

        Your crush is currently in a relationship with someone else. Do not attempt to develop a relationship with her at this time. There is no reason for you to not treat her with kindness and compassion. Treat everyone in your life with positive energy. If her relationship ends, then you can attempt to develop a relationship with her at that time. Have a great day, Rakesh!

    5. KD

      July 24, 2017 at 2:21 pm

      The boy that I love liked me back. That’s what he said to me. But now I just found out he has a girlfriend now. He made it obvious that he liked me. He would always talk about me (in a good way) and look at me. I didn’t know how to respond to this so I ended up doing some stupid things. But in the end I fell for him and I thought he still liked me after all the stupid stuff that happened between us. But I guess I was wrong. He has a girlfriend now. Did I mess up everything?

      • web admin

        web admin

        July 24, 2017 at 7:10 pm

        Your interactions may have caused him to move away from you and toward someone else. It is possible that he stopped being interested in you for a different reason. Allow his relationship to run its course. It if ends you are interested in developing a relationship with him, then reach out to him at that time. For now, look inward and determine what you want for your future. Have a great day, KD!

    6. ZORO

      May 13, 2017 at 9:58 am

      but i tried and nothing worked because this is the only girl that i liked so much in my life and i am 12 and i like everything about her but i feel that she loves my friend, so what can i do

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 13, 2017 at 10:23 am

        You can’t change the way that she feels, so there is nothing that you can do. All you can do is hope that she changes her mind in the future or focus on moving on. It isn’t easy, but you can do it. Good luck, Zoro!

    7. NasrDavid

      May 13, 2017 at 9:56 am

      but i tried and nothing worked because this is the only girl that i liked so much in my life and i am 12 and i like everything about her but i feel that she loves my friend, so what can i do

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 13, 2017 at 10:40 am

        All you can do is move on. You can’t make her like you, so your only option is to respect that she likes someone else. If you can, try to keep talking to her and get to know her better because it will at least boost your chances of getting her to like you in the future. Good luck, NasrDavid!

    8. EscanV

      May 1, 2017 at 12:49 am

      I have a crush on this girl… She openly told me how she likes this guy who may or may not like her back… She kind of knows I like her… When she found out she became a bit off towards me…

      Bearing in mind this scenario is basically normal for me… For the past say 14 years… when I was 14… I’ve liked A LOT of girls since that time…

      Never been in a real relationship before (I had a 2 week “I was the rebound” thing before, i actually didn’t know I was and found out she was sleeping with another guy whom became her boyfriend a week after she pushed me away) and I’ve only been kissed once (by the girl whom I was a rebound for).

      I literally don’t know what to do… I’ve literally tried EVERYTHING in the book…

      I’m always me… and When I tried the whole PUA thing… it failed horribly on a LOT of girls…

      I’ve been on a date before… furthest i’ve gotten (never went on a date with the other girl). When my “date” said to me was, which I won’t ever forget… is that i was the most genuine guy she had ever met… She blocked me on whatsapp and facebook 2 days later… I sent a normal text to her asking what happened… her response was… That I must have been fake because I was way to kind and gentle… I’ve gotten the same varied responses from numerous girls throughout my life…

      SO here are my flaws apparently…

      1) I’m too nice
      2) I compliment girls when it’s due or when I just feel like complimenting them… Usually if they have really beautiful eyes.
      3) I genuinely care… I get genuinely interested in getting to know them.
      4) I have never been in a strong verbal fight before… I tend to be very calm and try to work out whatever issue I have like an ADULT should…
      5) I’m not very attractive (I have been told so on a few occasions, to which I just smile and usually gently say good bye and leave)… though I do have really really turquoise eyes… which apparently is very attractive…

      ALSO bearing in mind I have been rejected by girls numbering in the hundreds now… and I’ve never been introduced by friends or family to girls before.

      I just don’t know what to do anymore… It’s really taking a toll on me emotionally now… I feel worn out…

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 1, 2017 at 10:21 am

        It sounds as though you are caring and intelligent person. Those two qualities often put off people who have a history of relationships that were not caring and with partners that may have been less intelligent. It is also possible that you are too forward with your compliments. You may want to tone down your focus on eyes and compliments, as this may make some people feel as though you are only interested in their looks. Perhaps try to find someone that shares a hobby or interest. This will help you. Have a great day, EscanV!

    9. supermariogamer

      March 6, 2017 at 7:36 am

      i tried it but nobody else looked beautiful.what now?

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 6, 2017 at 9:40 am

        You cannot force someone to like you unless a part of them is slightly interested. You may have to just wait and hope that he ends up realizing that you are the right person for him. Until he is at least somewhat interested, you may not be able to move the relationship along. Good luck, SuperMarioGamer!

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