17 Songs about Loving Someone You Can’t Have 

By on November 19, 2017

You’re not alone in loving someone you can’t have…and here are 17 songs to prove it!

Loving someone you can’t have, quite frankly, sucks. As Kate Winslet put it in The Holiday (because I really couldn’t have put it any better myself):

I’ve found almost everything ever written about love to be true. Shakespeare said “Journeys end in lovers meeting.” Oh, what an extraordinary thought. Personally, I have not experienced anything remotely close to that, but I am more than willing to believe Shakespeare had. I suppose I think about love more than anyone really should. I am constantly amazed by its sheer power to alter and define our lives. It was Shakespeare who also said “love is blind”. Now that is something I know to be true.

For some, quite inexplicably, love fades. For others, love is simply lost. But then of course love can also be found, even if just for the night. And then, there’s another kind of love: the cruelest kind. The one that almost kills its victims. It’s called unrequited love. Of that I am an expert.

Most love stories are about people who fall in love with each other. But what about the rest of us? What about our stories, those of us who fall in love alone? We are the victims of the one sided affair. We are the cursed of the loved ones. We are the unloved ones, the walking wounded. The handicapped without the advantage of a great parking space.

Yes, you are looking at one such individual. And I have willingly loved that man for over three miserable years. The absolute worst years of my life. The worst Christmas’s, the worst Birthday’s, New Years Eve’s brought in by tears. These years that I have been in love have been the darkest days of my life. All because I’ve been cursed by being in love with a man who does not and will not love me back. Oh god, just the sight of him. Heart pounding. Throat thickening. Absolutely can’t swallow. All the usual symptoms.

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What I am trying to say is I understand feeling as small and as insignificant as humanly possible. And how it can actually ache in places that you didn’t know you had inside you. And it doesn’t matter how many new hair cuts you get, or gyms you join, or how many glasses of Chardonnay you drink with your girlfriends. You still go to bed every night going over every detail and wonder what you did wrong or how you could have misunderstood. And how in the heel for that brief moment you could think that you were that happy. And sometimes you can even convince yourself that he’ll see the light and show up at your door.

And after all that, however long all that may be, you’ll go somewhere new, and you’ll meet people who make you feel worthwhile again, and little pieces of your soul will finally come back. And all that fuzzy stuff, those years of your life that you wasted, that will eventually begin to fade.

Now that you’ve read that you know that you are not alone. You also know that falling out of love is quite possible. Finding new love, requited love, just as possible (and there are several articles on here that will give you tips on that). That said let’s have a look at songs that resonate with how you feel (though I’m more pro recommending you to watch The Holiday and focus on rebuilding your life – it’s what I did when my ex left me many years ago…I still love that movie!).

All By Myself – Céline Dion

You know that beginning scene to Bridget Jones Diary? Renee Zellwegger sitting in her PJs, singing All by Myself while drinking vodka? The song might not specify a certain person as a love interest, but anyone suffering from unrequited love can most certainly recognize themselves in it. (And do watch Bridget Jones Diary if you’re feeling down in the dumps – you’ll be smiling by the end of it!).

All by myself

Don’t want to be, all by myself anymore

All by myself

Don’t want to live, all by myself anymore

Needles and Pins – The Searchers 

Bring back the good old fifties! This song may be about unrequited love, but it has a happy melody which one just can’t resist singing along to! Definitively more of a feel-good song than many others on this list. Sing along with it to take out your frustrations on how you are feeling and make yourself feel good simultaneously. There’s even a bit of a revenge theme to this song…which may not be all that “aware” and “conscious” to think of, but hey, sometimes a little bit of gloating is a like a dollop of Ben and Jerry’s – too indulgent to resist!

I saw her today, I saw her face, it was a face I loved, and I knew

I had to run away, and get down on my knees and pray that they’d go away

But still they’d begin (uh), needles and pins (uh)

Because of all my pride, the tears I gotta hide

Hey I thought I was smart, I’d won her heart

Didn’t think I’d do, but now I see

She’s worse to him than me, let her go ahead

Take his love instead, and one day she will see

Just how to say please, and get down on her knees

Hey that’s how it begins (uh), she’ll feel those needles and pins

A-hurtin’ her, a-hurtin’ her

Dancing On My Own – Robyn / Calum Scott

Heartbreaking. You’re in the corner watching him/her kiss someone else… But oh what a beautiful song! And Robyn’s version is definitively…happier due to making you want to dance!

Moving On and Getting Over – John Mayer

That voice, that man, this sad song…

Moving on and getting over

Are not the same, it seems to me

‘Cause you’ve been gone, I’m growing older

But I still can’t seem to get you off my mind

And I do believe I feel you all the time

To Know Him Is to Love Him – Amy Winehouse 

That feeling of one day he will know that you’re meant for him. Really. Right?!

It’s a Heartache – Bonnie Tyler

“It’s a heartache, nothing but a heartache. Hits you when it’s too late, hits you when you’re down…” Need I say more?

Andreas Johnson – It Should Have Been Me

This is a song I used to love – jazzy, sad and that rainy Sunday kind of feeling. And of course, all about unrequited love. “It should have been me. It should have been my kind of love.”

Creep – Radiohead

A classic. Don’t we all wish we were special? Like that special one we can’t get out of our heads?

When you were here before

Couldn’t look you in the eye

You’re just like an angel

Your skin makes me cry

You float like a feather

In a beautiful world

And I wish I was special

You’re so fuckin’ special

You Belong with Me – Taylor Swift

When you feel that you’re the one who understands them, you’re their great friend…and they’re with that drama queen who is just so not right for them. But if they want to suffer…what can you do? Not much. (But hey, spoiler alert: in the video there’s a happy ending!)

The Kill – 30 Seconds To Mars

This song is, in truth, about a break-up with self…facing one’s fears and becoming who one truly is, BUT most people going through a break-up with another person can relate to the very same words.  (Oh and the acoustic version is just the best!)

I tried to be someone else

But nothing seemed to change

I know now, this is who I really am inside.

Finally found myself

Fighting for a chance.

I know now, this is who I really am.

Love Yourself – Justin Bieber

You know that feeling, you’re in love with them still, but you shouldn’t be, but you are, but all they care about is themselves, so you should be moving on… Yeah, that. This song will definitively get you thinking about moving on!

‘Cause if you like the way you look that much

Oh baby you should go and love yourself

And if you think that I’m still holdin’ on to somethin’

You should go and love yourself

Somebody That I Used To Know – Gotye 

After the break-up…suddenly they’re just somebody you used to love. I mean know.

Grenade – Bruno Mars

You’d take a grenade for them…do anything for them…and they’d do nothing for you. What’s fair in that?

If I Could Turn Back Time – Cher 

If only you could, because then they’d stay…

Take a Bow – Rihanna 

You were so in love (still are) and the person cheated on you! It’s time to face up to the fact that s/he isn’t really sorry and you’re better of without him/her. You’re just gonna get through another pack of Kleenex first. “Don’t tell me you’re sorry cause you’re not. Baby when I know you’re only sorry you got caught.”

Cecilia – Simon and Garfunkel

We’re back to the 50s/60s and a happy tune about an unhappy subject: Cecilia. The woman who continuously ends up in bed with someone else…and he can’t stop begging her to come home…

Not Just Friends – Connell Cruise

That feeling when they want to be just friends. Ugh. And the music to this song really pulls you in as well to feel the sting of those words.

A Final Word…

Now, when you are done with this depressing list, put on Shania Twain’s Man I Feel Like a Woman or That Don’t Impress Me Much! And why not add Pink’s Just Give Me a Reason,  Gloria Gaynor’s I Will Survive. Go have fun, get a life, join a meet-up group, go to the gym, take your girlfriends on a  weekend away, watch comedies, score a better job, make sure you do what you love! Soon enough love will find you!

38 Comments

  1. Mira

    August 26, 2018 at 11:41 pm

    I am 24 y.o who’s in love with a 42 y.o man but age is not the problem. It’s the fact that he’s married and has 2 daughters as well. I used to be his assistant at work and I never crossed my lines so did him, he was professional at all times and I respect him very much. However I couldn’t hold back my feelings , he was a master piece and every day I admired him more and more. Being so close to him made me vulnerable and I believe that he’s the man of my life. Because he made me feel like no one else and I have no greater desire than to be with him. I wish things were different, I wish I was able to confess my love to him and see what he says. The thing is I felt like he always wanted to see me and we had these moments of eye contact and I felt these chemistry and flow between us. Of course I didn’t allow myself to talk to him because he’s married and I am not a runner and I’d like to see this man happy for the rest of his life. I love him truellu with all my heart. We met lately ( after 3 months of leaving my job to travel abroad) and I was shaking cause I was irritated by his presence , I passed by to take a certificate from HR department and I said hi to him and then he greeted me and told me to let him know if when I’ll be back again to my city ( he didn’t say as a request) it was more like something to say to somoene who you haven’t seen in a while. I’ve been thinking about this ever since and I don’t know what to do. Should I text him/ call him????????????

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 28, 2018 at 12:07 am

      He is married. Do not attempt to nourish this relationship. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. There is no benefit in attempting to harm his relationship. Determine what you want for your future without him. Decide what kind of relationship you want to nourish and maintain. Have a great day, Mira!

    • Deb

      September 12, 2018 at 5:24 pm

      No. He’s married with 2 children and you shouldn’t interfere. You should respect him enough to respect his marital status and home life. Go out and make your own future with someone single.

      • web admin

        web admin

        September 12, 2018 at 10:16 pm

        Thank you for sharing your supportive and positive comments. We always appreciate when members of our community share their insights and experiences. Have a great day, Deb!

  2. Karl

    August 26, 2018 at 8:04 am

    I still love my ex-boyfriend who I can say “my first true love”, I have loved him for almost 8 years now. He has a girlfriend now who I think just takes him for granted, but still, he really loves her despite of it, the girl is very lucky I just wish she come to her senses. I can’t do anything to take him back, so, even it hurts that he isn’t mine, the important thing to me is that he is Happy, and that is all I want for him… I always pray for his happiness, even though I am no longer the person who gives him that.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 26, 2018 at 9:05 pm

      It is wonderful that you have thoughts of kindness and compassion toward your ex. Your relationship with him has ended, and he is currently in a relationship with someone else. Continue to share your positive energy with him, but do not attempt to harm their relationship. Determine what you want for your future without him as a romantic partner. Have a great day, Karl!

  3. Dallioo

    August 22, 2018 at 10:08 pm

    I’m in love with my best friend of 7 years. Our distance keeps us apart. I’m afraid to commit to anything with being so far apart. I almost dropped everything and moved to him but my thoughts kept me from it. With every relationship now, they cannot compare to him. We tried dating a couple time despite the distance but I get too afraid of the unknown.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 22, 2018 at 11:55 pm

      You and your best friend share a strong social and emotional connection. Are are aware that a long distance relationship may be difficult to maintain. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. Determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a romantic relationship with him, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. You will strengthen this relationship by spending time with him in person. Have a great day, Dallioo!

  4. loner

    August 21, 2018 at 8:07 am

    I am a family woman and I used to love my bestfriend. Before anyone judge me hear me out first.
    I have this friend of mine since gradeschool. We used to hangout always. Whenever or where ever I am he’s on my side. Whether I am being a badass or not to him, still he’s always beside me. He met girls left and right but still he will chose me over those girls. Because for him he can find 10 girlfriends but never for a bestfriend. We were in our junior high when I’ve felt that I love him not as bestfriend anymore. But before I confess my feelings to him, right in front of me a friend of mine, our classmate and my bestfriend became lovers. That moment, I loose all the hopes that I have. Not until the following day, when my classmate told me that she ended her relationship with my bestfriend. Because she felt that it is not her he love the most. And yes, I could tell that I am happy knowing there’s now hope that someday we can be together as lover and not as bestfriend. But to no avail he pushed me away. No reasons at all, he walked away from me. Our path became different. Until we finished highschool, he never talk to me. But I still wait for him. I never got the chance to tell him how much I love him. I helped him with his schoolstuff without him knowing it. I am on my 2nd dyr in college when I met a man. A man that maybe other girls wish they have. And he is totally opposite of my bestfriend. He has no vices, he never drink alcohol, he never smoke and a man of God as what other says. He pursue me after a couple of month dating we became lovers. He knew that I don’t love him and I am still in love with my bestfriend yet he want to try his luck and take risk . I got a good man for a 1st boyfriend. After 2yrs I was about to end our relationship because I’ve felt guilty staying on a relationship that full of shit for me. I tried to love him but my heart still wanting only one man. It seems like my heart has it’s own mind. But I don’t know where to find him. Then I’ve heard a news from our common friend that my bestfriend is living with someone and expecting a child already. That moment, my world fell apart. I cried hard but upon seeing my boyfriend who still supporting me despite everything and the truth that I don’t love him and still he’s offering his shoulder for me. Right there and then I’ve decided that I will forget and sweep away all the feelings that I have for my boyfriend. And right there and then afyer 3 yrs of being in a relationship with my boyfriend, I gave him my all. And boom after a month I’ve found out that I’ll be a mom soon. And 3 months after I got married to a man I never dreamed of for a husband. But still, I did all the best I can do to be a perfect wife and a mother. After 4yrs I got pregnant again. 2yrs after giving birth to my youngest our marriage was put in test. My husband became job less, and it is only me who provide for everything. But I never complain because it is him that look after our kids. I don’t know if it is because it’s me who work hard for us that’s why my husband seems different. He is always angry and grouchy. And I don’t know if heaven and earth is just testing me. Aftet 12yrs of no communication and not seeing with each other I bumped with my exbestfriend. He asked for my mobile number thru his sister. After we exchanged each others number we get in touch. He told how happy he is knowing that I am now happily married. He also told me how sorry he is for pushing me away. If only then he could turn back the time he won’t do that. And he confessed that he pushed me away because he loves me and he doesn’t want to ruin the frienship that we had. It feels like bomb for me. I couldn’t help it but to yell on him. All those time pittying and asking myself why can’t he love me was a big shit. And right there and then I told him everything. He told me that what I’ve heard that time are not true. He is still single and no kids at all. And he said that he still love me. He went away for me to be able to reach my dream and have focus on my study.
    Now I am questioning myself shall I stay being married to someone I don’t love or follow the path to my happiness. But how about my kids? I love them so much and I can’t take it to see them hurting because of me. But how about my own happiness. Because on the day that our path cross again is also the same day I admit on my self that whereever he is or whoever he can be with I will still truly love my bestfriend..😢

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 21, 2018 at 11:25 pm

      Do not simply end your current relationship for this person who was once in your life. Determine what you want for your current partner and family. Speak with your husband about your thoughts and feelings, though ensure that he listens and respects your words. Speak with your family as well, but ensure that they are thinking about your emotional health. Give your partner time to absorb what you have said to him, and give him an opportunity to change his behaviors out of his love. Think about the health and influences for your children. If he continues to treat you poorly, then make a decision for your own happiness. Have a great day, Loner!

  5. Jazmine

    August 9, 2018 at 9:27 pm

    I am in love with a married man( I am married myself).We had an affair last November and again about 6 months later and now we don’t speak at all.His wife knows a bit about things that happened in November.She controls him,tracks his phone and god location ,so he is never able to talk to me .We also both have young children so that was always on the back of our minds .We didn’t want to ruin our families but we were so connected to each other .I can’t stop thinking about him and he said the same thing the last time we didn’t talk for over five months.He lives less than a mile down the road from me and I just want to stop thinking about him all the time but I can’t .

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 9, 2018 at 11:17 pm

      You are married. He is married. You have a family. His wife has been harmed by these behaviors. Your partner has yet to be harmed. You haven’t spoken with this person for months, so allow thoughts of him to fade. Focus your emotional energy on your current partner. If this relationship naturally ends, then determine what you want for your future at that time. Have a great day, Jazmine!

  6. QuirksAndPerks

    August 5, 2018 at 11:06 pm

    I’m in love with my best friend. He’s such an amazing guy and he’s helped me through some really tough times. He’s told me that I’m beautiful, smart, and that he’d do anything to make me feel better on a rough day. The only problem is: He has a girlfriend. I tried to stay quiet even though I wanted to express my feelings to him for the longest time. Today I came to visit him and a group of my closest friends (I’m staying in a different state for a couple of months). After I left, he texted me saying that he loved me and that if he were to ever break up with his girlfriend, he would love to be with me. I of course told him that I feel the same way. Initially it felt amazing to get it all off of my chest, but then he told me that he can’t end things with his girlfriend because he wouldn’t do that. I understood, but I can’t help but think about him. I know I can’t do anything now, or maybe even ever. But, I still love him and I want him to be happy. I’m so conflicted right now and I don’t know what to do. Forbidden love is the worst

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 6, 2018 at 10:24 pm

      He has shared his thoughts and feelings with you. He has explained that he does not want to end his current relationship. Do not attempt to harm his relationship. Determine what you want for your future without him. If his relationship naturally ends and he reaches out to you, then share your thoughts and feelings with him at that time. Have a great day, Quirks!

  7. Stuckinbetween

    August 5, 2018 at 9:42 am

    I’ll be going on a 2 year relationship and my other half’s bestfriend(Jason) introduced us to his boyfriend(Liam). It seemed like a normal thing just us four hanging out along with other friends , but I’ve notice Liam and I have a lot in common. A day later and we added each other on social media. We’ve been talking for two days before I told my other half about us talking because it seemed and felt wrong. However it was just as friends. But ever since we’ve been talking , I’ve developed some feelings for him and he for me . Although it’s pretty obvious , neither of us has the courage nor the heart to admit it because it will lead to us breaking up with our other halves, which we don’t want cause we both still care and feel deeply for them. At least that’s how I see it. It’s driving me crazy being with my boyfriend but thinking about another guy(Liam) .. it hurts me to see him with Jason Knowing there’s nothing I can do to change that. I’m constantly in heart ache every day because I know he’s with another guy . Idk what to do or how to handle this . Pls help

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 5, 2018 at 10:29 pm

      You are in a relationship. Do not attempt to damage any relationships. Spend additional time with your partner. Abstain from speaking with this other person. If you are no longer happy in your relationship, then make a decision based on the merits of the relationship. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Stuck!

  8. JustaGirl

    August 1, 2018 at 4:58 pm

    i’m 16 and i’m in love with someone who is in college. i feel like this could be the beginning of a great relationship… but i want them to have someone their age they can be with. i really want to be with them, and they want to be with me.. but we just think we shouldn’t date because they could find someone else at college. i don’t know what to do. should i keep trying and fighting?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 1, 2018 at 6:39 pm

      The two of you share a strong emotional and social connection. However, the difference between your ages may cause social or legal troubles in the future. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Decide if you believe this relationship is viable while your partner is in college. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Girl!

  9. Jason

    July 31, 2018 at 10:14 pm

    I met this beautiful young woman she is 22 and i am 47. The age gap should have been enough to scare her off but she keeps coming around and has shown Interest in being more then friends. The problem i have is my own Moral compass just will not let me engage her in this way. I very much like her but i know in my heart that any relationship would be physical and that it would end with me watching her walk away at some point. I can not bring myself to persue a relationship that is doomed to end this way. She has said that she doesn’t care about age but i have rebuked her advances twice. I have to admit i really like her much more then i had felt possible. She is very smart and our conversations reflect that. She is Mature,Has her own Income and loves her job. She cant be after a sugar daddy because i dont have that much (money)sugar to spend. Some basic information about me i am 6 foot 235 pounds Fit Athletic build. Brown hair brown eyes and the hair on top is thin. Pretty average looks In my own view. She has asked me on a third Date but when i said no she quickly said it doesnt have to be a date we can just put on Netflix and chill….Yes i am aware what that means. I feel like i might be robbing the cradle if i allow it. Yet my inner Cave man is screaming at me not to be a fool and so caught up in age. Should i just go with it while i can? In all Honesty i am close to giving in. She is so Beautiful. So im asking if im not the creepy old guy after a young women but she is after me does that change things? If so is me being honest with her enough? Do i have to be the bad guy and force an end to it even though my heart is calling me a moron?

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 31, 2018 at 10:54 pm

      The two of you have developed a strong social relationship. She, in a fully aware state of mind, has attempted to reach out to you numerous times. She is attracted to you. She may want to develop a long term relationship with you. Each relationship is based on the decisions and actions that each person makes. Age is not fate when it comes to relationship. Perhaps speak with the people in your life that you are closest to about your moral questions. However, she is an adult and is seeking to nourish a consensual relationship. Have a great day, Jason!

  10. Lostgirl

    July 16, 2018 at 4:23 pm

    I not long got out of a relationship with someone who i actually didnt love but i am and have been in love with someone else for a while. but we live on two opposite sides of the uk. and hes just got out of a bad relationship and i honestly have no clue about how to approach the situation. i mean i want to tell him how i feel, but i dont think i should because i dont know how he feels or how he will react. but hes just perfect in my eyes, he has the most gentle heart i have ever met in my life.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 17, 2018 at 11:56 pm

      The two of you have a history, and it is possible that he has similar feelings toward you. He may be in an introspective emotional state. You will find benefit in sharing your kindness and compassion with him. You may attempt to spend time with him in person. If you want to nourish a relationship with him, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. You can also wait for him to make the first move. Have a great day, Girl!

  11. lucyloo

    June 24, 2018 at 9:35 am

    i met someone 10 years ago, she was everything i wanted, she was perfect but she was in a relationship, nothing happend between us, although it was close. 10 years later im married but in a controlling relationship where i havent been aloud to speak to snyone 4 10 years, i cant get out, iv reconnected with the woman from my past (im a lesbian) iv made a secret facebook, she excepted my request and spoke to me once but hasnt replied since. i though she was married becauee thats what her facebook said, but she told me that they arent yet they have just been together 4 years. i dont know what to do i cant stop thinking about her, shes the most amazing person i ever met and i regret ever losing touch with her. i dont know wat to do. i would walk out of this hell whole if she was waiting for me. i cant even look else were as i compare everyone to her im so messed up.

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 24, 2018 at 10:23 pm

      You have a variety of emotional and social connections. You feel that you are abused in this relationship. If you are unable to speak with people because of the actions of your current partner, then you need to think about the viability of relationship. You are attempting to establish a relationship with someone who is currently in a relationship. Determine what you want for your future. If you are no longer happy with your current partner, then speak with her about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Lucyloo!

      • lucyloo

        June 25, 2018 at 2:27 am

        i dont want to be in this relationship, iv been stuck in it for 8 nearly 9 years. shes controlling, iv not spoken to my family in that whole time as she wont let me. she has seriousky bad mental health problems, she nearly been sectioned and she has overdosed and self harmed in the past. we have dogs but no kids, i cant leave my dogs with her and just up and leave as everything is in her name. shes cheated on me with her ex girlfriend 8 months after getting married. she spits in my face etc etc… but with all this going on i still cant get this other woman out of my head, shes all i ever think about do i wait to see if her and her girlfriend split up? or do i look else where, but i compare everyone to her so is it fair to look else where ? i dont know

        • web admin

          web admin

          June 26, 2018 at 11:19 am

          You partner abuses and neglects you. She has cheated on you. Her behaviors are clear indications that she no longer is interested in maintaining a relationship with you. Take your dog and leave. If you are unable to leave at this time, then save your money with the intention of leaving. Strengthen your relationships with your family and friends. Leave as soon as you as able to do so. Have a great day, Lucyloo!

  12. kisses

    June 23, 2018 at 9:20 am

    mine isn’t unrequited love…im in love with my best friend and he loves me too but I am older than him with a year..the possibility of being together till the end is unsure…now I have a suitor,a good man..im so confused

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 23, 2018 at 10:28 pm

      Do not allow your age difference prevent you from developing a relationship with someone that you have a strong emotional and social connection with. Socially and culturally, there may be a requirement that you court this suitor. If you have the ability to make your own path, then determine what you want for your future. If you want to develop a relationship with the person that you care for and who cares for you, then speak with your family about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Kisses!

  13. gogo

    June 9, 2018 at 9:13 pm

    actually the thing that really affected me wasn’t the songs .. it was what you’ve written, that’s me , that’s everything i wanted to say but couldn’t , thanks for sharing your feelings .. i recommend also say something i’m giving up on you

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 9, 2018 at 10:56 pm

      Thank you for sharing your insights and experiences. We always appreciate such positive comments from our readers. Please share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Gogo!

  14. Reyelle

    June 9, 2018 at 8:44 am

    I’m in love with my best friend.. have been for a while. We liked each other, a lot a few months ago. And when I told him I couldn’t date he got upset and didn’t talk to me for a week. Now he’s been dating a girl who used to be my friend, I guess I’m the only one who hasn’t moved on. But I think he still likes me. He always tells me how important I am to him and how beautiful I am.. I swear he loves me.. more than her. Am I imagining things? Even my friends think he’s in love with me.. sorry for the long paragraph!!

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 9, 2018 at 10:52 pm

      You have told him that you were not interested in developing a relationship with him. Because of this rejection, he chose to attempt to nourish a relationship with your friend. It is possible that he cares for you more than her, but he is in a relationship. Do not attempt to harm this relationship. If the relationship naturally ends and he reaches out to you, then share your thoughts and feelings with him at that time. Have a great day, Reyelle!

  15. Luna

    May 1, 2018 at 11:53 am

    He is one of my best mates, but he went out with my friend Cayla for six painful months. I have looked for signs, all negative. I hate this. at least I am not the only one.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 1, 2018 at 9:55 pm

      Thanks for commenting. Have a great day, Luna!

  16. Tim Mattfield

    March 5, 2018 at 7:12 pm

    Thanks. I really need this List. I thought I did enough research. But when I found out she had a BF it just broke my heart unlike anyone before. I just knew she was going to be the one. And now she’s blocked me on Social Media so I can’t even tell how her perfect life is progressing ie: marriage, children etc or God Forbid. A Breakup!!! Thanks for letting me vent

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 6, 2018 at 8:46 pm

      Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. Our community is here to support each other. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings in the future. Have a great day, Tim!

    • Luna

      May 1, 2018 at 11:56 am

      You gonna be okay. If she can’t see the best in you, she is stupid. Others will tell you the same thing because its true.

      • web admin

        web admin

        May 1, 2018 at 9:56 pm

        Thank you for sharing your supportive comment. We always appreciate when our community supports each other. Have a great day, Luna!

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