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    Scorpio Man in Love

    By on April 25, 2014

    Always determined to succeed, presenting an unemotional and detached personality while having an underlying need for love and fulfillment, and an eager and mysterious attitude that can’t be ignored, it’s no wonder why Scorpio is such a fascinating sign. They are undoubtedly one of the most loyal and determined signs of the bunch and won’t hesitate to ask questions, yet many perceive a Scorpio to be disinterested and bored. However, Scorpios are notably the most passionate and intense people, with a constant need for involvement and success.

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    The Type of Woman a Scorpio Needs

    A Scorpio isn’t swayed by a pretty face, nor is he attracted to a fake woman. A Scorpio man is on the lookout for a breathtakingly gorgeous woman who is fierce and confident, preferably with a stable career and a respectable personality. He seeks a true lady with a bright attitude and a sheer confidence that can draw attention even in the largest crowds. However, Scorpio also needs a woman who is adventurous and able to put up with somewhat possessive and intense relationship. He does not and will not put up with a woman who tries to play games. 

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    Scorpio in a Relationship

    It’s commonly said that a Scorpio man will be quick to jump into bed with a pretty woman, but he has to be really intrigued to enter in a relationship with a lady. She has to be extremely special and over the top to grab his attention for something other than a one night stand. And once he finds this extraordinary woman, he leeches on to her like bees on honey. He’ll do anything for his woman, yet may still give her the cold shoulder when it comes to emotions. You see, Scorpio men try to put on an act of being rugged and tough, not showing any form of love or interest. Yet deep down they are extremely emotional and attached to their lady of choice. In fact, they can be so possessive and intense that some ladies take it as being controlling. That’s just the Scorpio way, though- he doesn’t want to play games and he surely doesn’t want to lose his prized possession- which of course is his lovely lady.

    A Scorpio man isn’t afraid to take on the challenge of a confident and classy woman, and doesn’t care if she makes more money or has a bigger house. In fact, he loves a woman that can take care of herself and doesn’t need stabilization from a man. This is what many woman find attractive in a Scorpio, especially the women who are highly successful and need a man who won’t be jealous (at least over financial matters). Women are also attracted to the fact that a Scorpio man is able to talk about real issues and deep problems without being offended or angry. In a Scorpio man’s mind, he would rather talk through a problem calmly rather than getting angry or bothered with each other.

    To put it plainly, a Scorpio man is in it for the long haul. When he finds a gal he’s seriously interested in, he will do anything to keep her and treasures her like diamond or gold.

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    Scorpio in the Bedroom

    Scorpios can be very persuasive and mysterious. They love to put on an act, presenting an unemotional exterior yet on the inside having a somewhat needy and passionate attitude. Their seductive nature and mystery is what draws many women to the Scorpio man, and what he presents in the bedroom only ignites their lust for him further.

    That being said, if you’re looking for safety and security, then you probably shouldn’t jump into bed with a Scorpio. Scorpios have very wild sex lives and a just-as-crazy sex drive that keeps them extremely active. They are willing to do just about anything in the bedroom- even if it’s only one time, just to say they’ve tried it. They don’t like a hum and drum experience and require a sexually adventurous woman that is able to keep up with his crazy sexual antics. That doesn’t mean they aren’t passionate or loving, but the Scorpio wants to please his lady with many different forms.

    Needless to say, if you pursue a night with a Scorpio, you can expect a wild and adventurous time unlike anything you have experienced before. Just remember to keep an open mind and a positive attitude and you’ll experience plenty of pleasure.

    Negative Side of a Scorpio Man

    It can’t all be roses and daisies, right? And just like anyone else, the Scorpio has his flaws. One of the biggest flaws that any Scorpio dater can tell you is they can be a bit controlling. A Scorpio man will get jealous fast and likes his woman to be loyal to him at all times. He’s not necessarily trying to be controlling, he’s really just passionate about his lady and wants her all to himself. This selfish nature can be tamed and some women even enjoy the Scorpios intense relationship.

    Another one of the biggest flaws commonly seen with Scorpio men is their mood swings. They can be fiery and passionate one second, detached and uninterested the next. This is simply because the Scorpio hates to show his sensitive side, deeming it weak, although inside they are really mushy and romantic. If you can stick by a Scorpio man through his mood swings, however, you are guaranteed to witness his sensitive and loving side- which has said to be beyond any other type of love you could get in another relationship.

    Compatibility

    Scorpio and Pisces: the two of you will share a deep emotional connection that makes for a very loving and fun relationship. You won’t connect with another sign as easily as you do with Pisces.

    Scorpio and Scorpio: this makes for an extremely intense and romantic relationship. With the two of you both sharing possessive and controlling qualities, the two of you are likely to be glued to each other which can easily lead to marriage.

    Scorpio and Taurus: the two of you will connect on a romantic level quickly. If you can find other levels and interests to connect with, the relationship will undoubtedly be extremely strong and long term.

    Scorpio and Cancer: this match is less likely to work, but is still possible. The two of you both love an intense relationship and strong bond, however the two vary greatly when it comes to handling situations. This could end up ruining the once strong bond the two of you shared.

    The Scorpio Man in a Nutshell 

    He is a passionate, driven man who doesn’t like to show his sensitive side to the public. He’s desperate to find a confident, successful woman to one day have as his trophy wife. He needs stability and passion, and isn’t afraid to try new things- especially in the bedroom. His mysterious nature and seductive ways makes him easy to get along with, yet he only holds true feelings for few. If you can put up with his controlling nature and mood swings, the Scorpio man will treat you like a princess and make you feel like the greatest woman in the world.

    153 Comments

    1. Sarah

      June 18, 2018 at 6:25 am

      I have a crush on a scorpio guy and i think he likes me too because he keeps staring at me all the time and he asked his friend to ask me if im single.He also tried making friends with my guy friend and teies initiating conversation.what could this mean pls reply.

      • web admin

        web admin

        June 18, 2018 at 11:16 pm

        He is aware that you feel a strong social connection with him. His behavior indications that he wants to develop a relationship with you. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Sarah!

    2. Ci

      April 21, 2018 at 10:15 am

      Okay. I’m an Aquarius (in my 20s)and I have a Scorpio (in his 20s) in my life that I’ve known for 10 plus years. His sisters are my bestfriends and his niece and nephew are my god kids, his whole family loves me so yes we be around each other a long time… I lost my virginity to him at 24….We kinda dated when we were kids (haven’t dated as adults) . but fast forward we’ve always had a weird friendship. Like we’re just really cool with each other… he previously had a gf (his now ex) a few situations happened were me and her fought only because he put me in a bad situation dealing with me knowing he was still with her…. fast forward a lil bit more we’ve stopped talking for some months then he would always find away to speak to me or mess with me knowing I was still upset about the things that happened… I eventually forgave him for the situations and we moved past it. Fast forward to now he know how I feel about him at this point but we don’t talk always. And when we do it’s always one on one and it’s as if we’re bestfriends reminiscing about our childhood just talking about any and everything. He the only guy I’ve talked to and that I feel comfortable with. Of course I don’t like how he disappears sometimes but I’ve learned how to deal with it… I can’t tell where things will end up with us.

      Hes hard to figure out especially his feelings towards me. Everyone we grew up with notices how we are with each other and they can’t seem to understand the complicated relationship we have either lol.

      • web admin

        web admin

        April 22, 2018 at 9:58 pm

        The two of you share a strong emotional and social connection. Your relationship has history, and the two of you likely would be benefited by speaking. Spend additional time with him if you want to strengthen this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him a chance to share himself as well. Have a great day, Ci!

        • Ci

          April 25, 2018 at 9:03 pm

          We don’t talk as much as we did when we were kids. Normally when we do see each other we say hi and that’s about it. Things always feel awkward as if he’s holding back from me… he knows how I feel about him at this point in life but idk how to get him to express his feelings towards me.

          • web admin

            web admin

            April 26, 2018 at 9:51 pm

            He may have feelings that differ from yours. He may be uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. Determine what you want for your future. If you want to attempt to nourish a relationship with him, then speak with him about your thoughts. There may be another reason for his lack of action. Have a great day, Ci!

    3. Neesh

      March 19, 2018 at 3:25 am

      I’m a Capricorn and I’m currently in new Zealand for 8months been gone from my scorpio boyfriend for 1 month now and I’m just wondering how will he act when he’s done something wrong I mean he says he’s gonna call but he doesn’t he call till hours later (sometimes not all the time) & he says he wants to get our dates tattood on us you know the day we met. I wanted to know if that’s the sign of him actually in love with me? Willing to make a big committment in our relationship & plus he says heshe really in love with me all the time I’ve been cheated on many times I maybe still holding in the past.

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 19, 2018 at 9:32 pm

        It is possible that he feels a strong emotional connection with you. He has cheated on you multiple times, so you need to determine if you believe that his actions are acceptable. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Neesh!

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