Scorpio Man in Love

By on April 25, 2014

Always determined to succeed, presenting an unemotional and detached personality while having an underlying need for love and fulfillment, and an eager and mysterious attitude that can’t be ignored, it’s no wonder why Scorpio is such a fascinating sign. They are undoubtedly one of the most loyal and determined signs of the bunch and won’t hesitate to ask questions, yet many perceive a Scorpio to be disinterested and bored. However, Scorpios are notably the most passionate and intense people, with a constant need for involvement and success.

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The Type of Woman a Scorpio Needs

A Scorpio isn’t swayed by a pretty face, nor is he attracted to a fake woman. A Scorpio man is on the lookout for a breathtakingly gorgeous woman who is fierce and confident, preferably with a stable career and a respectable personality. He seeks a true lady with a bright attitude and a sheer confidence that can draw attention even in the largest crowds. However, Scorpio also needs a woman who is adventurous and able to put up with somewhat possessive and intense relationship. He does not and will not put up with a woman who tries to play games. 

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Scorpio in a Relationship

It’s commonly said that a Scorpio man will be quick to jump into bed with a pretty woman, but he has to be really intrigued to enter in a relationship with a lady. She has to be extremely special and over the top to grab his attention for something other than a one night stand. And once he finds this extraordinary woman, he leeches on to her like bees on honey. He’ll do anything for his woman, yet may still give her the cold shoulder when it comes to emotions. You see, Scorpio men try to put on an act of being rugged and tough, not showing any form of love or interest. Yet deep down they are extremely emotional and attached to their lady of choice. In fact, they can be so possessive and intense that some ladies take it as being controlling. That’s just the Scorpio way, though- he doesn’t want to play games and he surely doesn’t want to lose his prized possession- which of course is his lovely lady.

A Scorpio man isn’t afraid to take on the challenge of a confident and classy woman, and doesn’t care if she makes more money or has a bigger house. In fact, he loves a woman that can take care of herself and doesn’t need stabilization from a man. This is what many woman find attractive in a Scorpio, especially the women who are highly successful and need a man who won’t be jealous (at least over financial matters). Women are also attracted to the fact that a Scorpio man is able to talk about real issues and deep problems without being offended or angry. In a Scorpio man’s mind, he would rather talk through a problem calmly rather than getting angry or bothered with each other.

To put it plainly, a Scorpio man is in it for the long haul. When he finds a gal he’s seriously interested in, he will do anything to keep her and treasures her like diamond or gold.

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Scorpio in the Bedroom

Scorpios can be very persuasive and mysterious. They love to put on an act, presenting an unemotional exterior yet on the inside having a somewhat needy and passionate attitude. Their seductive nature and mystery is what draws many women to the Scorpio man, and what he presents in the bedroom only ignites their lust for him further.

That being said, if you’re looking for safety and security, then you probably shouldn’t jump into bed with a Scorpio. Scorpios have very wild sex lives and a just-as-crazy sex drive that keeps them extremely active. They are willing to do just about anything in the bedroom- even if it’s only one time, just to say they’ve tried it. They don’t like a hum and drum experience and require a sexually adventurous woman that is able to keep up with his crazy sexual antics. That doesn’t mean they aren’t passionate or loving, but the Scorpio wants to please his lady with many different forms.

Needless to say, if you pursue a night with a Scorpio, you can expect a wild and adventurous time unlike anything you have experienced before. Just remember to keep an open mind and a positive attitude and you’ll experience plenty of pleasure.

Negative Side of a Scorpio Man

It can’t all be roses and daisies, right? And just like anyone else, the Scorpio has his flaws. One of the biggest flaws that any Scorpio dater can tell you is they can be a bit controlling. A Scorpio man will get jealous fast and likes his woman to be loyal to him at all times. He’s not necessarily trying to be controlling, he’s really just passionate about his lady and wants her all to himself. This selfish nature can be tamed and some women even enjoy the Scorpios intense relationship.

Another one of the biggest flaws commonly seen with Scorpio men is their mood swings. They can be fiery and passionate one second, detached and uninterested the next. This is simply because the Scorpio hates to show his sensitive side, deeming it weak, although inside they are really mushy and romantic. If you can stick by a Scorpio man through his mood swings, however, you are guaranteed to witness his sensitive and loving side- which has said to be beyond any other type of love you could get in another relationship.

Compatibility

Scorpio and Pisces: the two of you will share a deep emotional connection that makes for a very loving and fun relationship. You won’t connect with another sign as easily as you do with Pisces.

Scorpio and Scorpio: this makes for an extremely intense and romantic relationship. With the two of you both sharing possessive and controlling qualities, the two of you are likely to be glued to each other which can easily lead to marriage.

Scorpio and Taurus: the two of you will connect on a romantic level quickly. If you can find other levels and interests to connect with, the relationship will undoubtedly be extremely strong and long term.

Scorpio and Cancer: this match is less likely to work, but is still possible. The two of you both love an intense relationship and strong bond, however the two vary greatly when it comes to handling situations. This could end up ruining the once strong bond the two of you shared.

The Scorpio Man in a Nutshell 

He is a passionate, driven man who doesn’t like to show his sensitive side to the public. He’s desperate to find a confident, successful woman to one day have as his trophy wife. He needs stability and passion, and isn’t afraid to try new things- especially in the bedroom. His mysterious nature and seductive ways makes him easy to get along with, yet he only holds true feelings for few. If you can put up with his controlling nature and mood swings, the Scorpio man will treat you like a princess and make you feel like the greatest woman in the world.

161 Comments

  1. El

    August 26, 2018 at 3:58 am

    I am an aries woman, and my boyfriend is a scorpio. We had an intense relationship, I broke up with him last year because I want to have my personal time and space, and he really had this mood swings that I didn’t know how to handle that time so months after he tried to talk to me again, we flirted but he disappeared and days after I heard that he’s with his ex again. I cried so bad about a month because I do really love him, but instead of wasting my time to cry for him, I stand up, make myself better and tried to be happy as possible and he saw this on my social media accounts. Months again after he reached out for me and I talked to him like a friend again, he asked for forgiveness and I told that I forgave him already (didn’t know that the forgiveness he was trying to ask was to give him another chance) but I said that I can’t forget what he did to me. I was surprised because he went at home to talk to me, he said that he broked up with his ex and he didn’t have this feelings for her anymore it’s just he tried to revenge to me but what he did is bad and he just make things worst. He begged for months. I didn’t listen at first because he broke my trust. Then one night his cousin chatted me being sorry if asking for apology was too late, he told me that my boyfriend told them a lot of times and tried also to reach out but he become afraid because he knew wbat he did was unforgivable. Currently after months again, my boyfriend and I was together again, I asked him what did he see in me? he told me that I had this strong personality that makes him chase and chase me all over again, I and him has a great connection in the past before he met his ex, since that time he has this feelings for me but I left the university we’re studying and our connection was lost. Although he gave me all the assurances and he is very honest to me this time I still have doubts about his faithfulness because I’m afraid to feel that same pain again.

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 26, 2018 at 8:59 pm

      He has shown that he is willing to betray your trust. You currently feel as though you can not be certain of his actions. Decide if this relationship is viable. Determine what you want for your future. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. You may want to strengthen your relationships with you family and friends at this time. Have a great day, El!

  2. Moonlight

    August 8, 2018 at 3:47 pm

    I am an Aquarian woman who is married but I believe my boss who is a Scorpio is interested in me. I often catch him staring at me and he seems to take notice and compliments me in the little things like my hair or what I wear. I have recently become a slightly darker blonde and he took notice He’s an attractive guy and it’s obvious that other female coworkers thinks he is as well. Being the Aquarius lady I am, I’m not into that so I brush him off. He is in a relationship w someone else but he is very discreet about it. Anyway his staring has tappered off a bit but he still gives me these big smiles when he sees me. My marriage is not in a good place now and I may be divorcing. I also may be relocating to a neighboring city in Texas which may make things interesting. The Scorp would be a new adventure for me and the wouldn’t mind the distance but he’s so hard to read. So idk. Any advice?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 9, 2018 at 12:40 am

      You are currently married. Allow this relationship to reach a conclusion before you begin to establish a new relationship. Perhaps have a discussion about the boundaries of your relationship with your current partner. Your boss is also in a relationship, so do not attempt to harm his partner by damaging their relationship. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Moonlight!

  3. Moonlight

    August 8, 2018 at 3:41 pm

    I am an Aquarian woman who is married but I believe my boss who is a Scorpio is interested in me. I often catch him staring at me and he seems to take notice and compliments me in the little things like my hair or what I wear. He notices when I’m a bit under the weather also. He’s an attractive guy and it’s obvious that other female coworkers thinks he is as well. Being the Aquarius lady I am, I’m not into that so I brush him off. He is in a relationship w someone else but he is very discreet about it. Anyway his staring has tappered off a bit but he still gives me these big smiles when he sees me. My marriage is not in a good place now and I may be divorcing. The Scorp would be a new adventure for me but he’s so hard to read. So idk. Any advice?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 9, 2018 at 12:40 am

      You are currently married. Allow this relationship to reach a conclusion before you begin to establish a new relationship. Perhaps have a discussion about the boundaries of your relationship with your current partner. Your boss is also in a relationship, so do not attempt to harm his partner by damaging their relationship. Ensure that you share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life. Have a great day, Moonlight!

  4. Miles

    June 23, 2018 at 9:44 pm

    I like this scorpion guy and i feel like he like me too. He always answer all my question and where always close to each other when we talk. However i ask him some personal questions and he already ignoring my messages for 2 weeks now. What does it mean?

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 23, 2018 at 10:37 pm

      He has ignored you for two weeks. This is an indication that he is not interested in developing or nourishing this relationship. Allow your thoughts to fade. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. If you really want to nourish this relationship, then reach out with him. Determine what you want for your future at this time. Have a great day, Miles!

  5. Sarah

    June 18, 2018 at 6:25 am

    I have a crush on a scorpio guy and i think he likes me too because he keeps staring at me all the time and he asked his friend to ask me if im single.He also tried making friends with my guy friend and teies initiating conversation.what could this mean pls reply.

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 18, 2018 at 11:16 pm

      He is aware that you feel a strong social connection with him. His behavior indications that he wants to develop a relationship with you. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Sarah!

  6. Ci

    April 21, 2018 at 10:15 am

    Okay. I’m an Aquarius (in my 20s)and I have a Scorpio (in his 20s) in my life that I’ve known for 10 plus years. His sisters are my bestfriends and his niece and nephew are my god kids, his whole family loves me so yes we be around each other a long time… I lost my virginity to him at 24….We kinda dated when we were kids (haven’t dated as adults) . but fast forward we’ve always had a weird friendship. Like we’re just really cool with each other… he previously had a gf (his now ex) a few situations happened were me and her fought only because he put me in a bad situation dealing with me knowing he was still with her…. fast forward a lil bit more we’ve stopped talking for some months then he would always find away to speak to me or mess with me knowing I was still upset about the things that happened… I eventually forgave him for the situations and we moved past it. Fast forward to now he know how I feel about him at this point but we don’t talk always. And when we do it’s always one on one and it’s as if we’re bestfriends reminiscing about our childhood just talking about any and everything. He the only guy I’ve talked to and that I feel comfortable with. Of course I don’t like how he disappears sometimes but I’ve learned how to deal with it… I can’t tell where things will end up with us.

    Hes hard to figure out especially his feelings towards me. Everyone we grew up with notices how we are with each other and they can’t seem to understand the complicated relationship we have either lol.

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 22, 2018 at 9:58 pm

      The two of you share a strong emotional and social connection. Your relationship has history, and the two of you likely would be benefited by speaking. Spend additional time with him if you want to strengthen this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him a chance to share himself as well. Have a great day, Ci!

      • Ci

        April 25, 2018 at 9:03 pm

        We don’t talk as much as we did when we were kids. Normally when we do see each other we say hi and that’s about it. Things always feel awkward as if he’s holding back from me… he knows how I feel about him at this point in life but idk how to get him to express his feelings towards me.

        • web admin

          web admin

          April 26, 2018 at 9:51 pm

          He may have feelings that differ from yours. He may be uncertain or confused about your feelings toward him. Determine what you want for your future. If you want to attempt to nourish a relationship with him, then speak with him about your thoughts. There may be another reason for his lack of action. Have a great day, Ci!

  7. Neesh

    March 19, 2018 at 3:25 am

    I’m a Capricorn and I’m currently in new Zealand for 8months been gone from my scorpio boyfriend for 1 month now and I’m just wondering how will he act when he’s done something wrong I mean he says he’s gonna call but he doesn’t he call till hours later (sometimes not all the time) & he says he wants to get our dates tattood on us you know the day we met. I wanted to know if that’s the sign of him actually in love with me? Willing to make a big committment in our relationship & plus he says heshe really in love with me all the time I’ve been cheated on many times I maybe still holding in the past.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 19, 2018 at 9:32 pm

      It is possible that he feels a strong emotional connection with you. He has cheated on you multiple times, so you need to determine if you believe that his actions are acceptable. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Neesh!

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