Libra Man in Love

By on May 1, 2014


You might find him enjoying an enchanting ballet at the high-end theater in the downtown theater, or you might find him dining at the most expensive spot in town. The Libra man is one who craves elegance and sophistication and enjoys the finer things in life, however his indecisiveness may make his go-abouts a difficult choice. The Libran is a charmer in every way, and people tend to gravitate towards his fair attitude and intelligent conversation. He’s just a man who seems to find the good in everyone around him, and his fair and balanced nature keeps him from getting into any arguments. He just wants peace, happiness, and an expensive cocktail on his table- that’s not too much to ask, right?


The Type of Woman Libra Needs

As we said before, the Libra man is a guy who wants the finer things in life, whether it’s the nicest house, the perfect job- or the most beautiful companion. This doesn’t mean the Libra man is stuck up. He really just needs a classy, beautiful woman who knows how to handle herself in high-class situations he so commonly finds himself in.

Other than beauty and brains, a Libran is searching for a lady who can be grateful for the love he has to offer and is interested in a long term relationship. He doesn’t want a woman who is flighty or gets mad often. His sign makes him an incredibly peaceful individual and would much rather talk things over in a calm fashion then raised voices and slamming doors. For this reason, he needs a calm lady who will be able to discuss not only interesting things to peek his interest, but problems she may have too.


Libra in a Relationship

You’ve heard the term ‘sucker for love’ before, right? This describes the Libra man perfectly. He is truly a sucker for love and finds himself falling in love with his partners easily. He seems to wear his heart on both sleeves, not only to keep balance in his relationship, but so he can easily hand his heart over at a moments notice. This quick loving approach may leave the Libra man heartbroken commonly, but it also gives him a chance to show how much he loves his lady on a regular basis.

A Libran is an excellent man when it comes to dating. Women will note that the Libran is a sensational person who loves to wine and dine his lady, treating her to exotic and fancy locations at all times possible. He is one hundred percent dedicated to the relationship at all times and wants to make sure his woman is happy and pleased, inside and outside of the bedroom.

Aside from his passion and romantic gestures, another great reason to date a Libra is because he is incredibly calm, charming, and peaceful. His charming attitude will seem to pull you in while his intellectual conversations will keep you enthralled for hours on end. And when a certain problem does arise in the relationship, you won’t find a Libra man quick to judge or turn nasty. In fact, the Libran will stay calm even in the most intense situations and will find ways to deal with it in a peaceful manner, always refraining from nasty words or comments that would hurt his woman.


Libra in Bed

If you haven’t gotten the drift yet, a Libra man likes everything in his life to be balanced. Therefore, in bed the Libra lover likes to be pleased just as much as he pleases his woman. This balance means for an intense night between the sheets where both of you are sure to be completely satisfied by the end of the night- the Libra will make sure of it.

Besides being a balanced lover, Librans are also very passionate and sensual lovers. They love the sexy and finer things- even in the bedroom. You’ll note Libran men to be lovers of silky lingerie, rose petals on the bed, and sensual hot baths with his lady friend. That being said, an easy way way to turn a Libra man on is to put on something sexy or put some love-making music on with candles to set the mood. Try and refrain from the kinky things- Librans like to keep it classy at all times.


Negative Side of a Libra Man

We’ve said it multiple times before: Libra men love the finer things in life, which can make them appear superficial. They tend to gravitate towards beauty, especially when it comes to other people, and they may not be able to see the beauty beneath. This superficial attitude can certainly be a turn off for many women who will perceive him as being a player who only goes for the most attractive women.

Does he want to go to dinner at the little French bistro, or does he want to go to the fancy Mexican restaurant on the other side of town? Does he want to take the high paying CEO job, or does he want to follow his dreams to become an artist? He doesn’t know, and that leads us to another one of Librans negative traits: their indecisiveness, which is obviously a major annoyance in 99% of people. The best way to deal with this? Make the decision for him or help him weigh in on what would be best.


Libra and Gemini: This is possibly the best match for a Libra man. The two of you will have an incredibly fun time together as you both love the finer things in life and love an adventure. Your both great lovers seeking long-term investments and enjoy stimulating conversation.

Libra and Leo: Undoubtedly one of the most powerful matches, Libra and Leo feed off of each other’s personalities brilliantly, The two of you are incredibly in sync and will have an enjoyable time together, from basic conversation at a diner downtown to fascinating adventures across the world. There’s really no telling what the two of you will come up with, but it’s sure to be a very enthralling time.

Libra and Sagittarius: This is a wonderful match that can lead to a long-term relationship, that is, if the two of you can learn to deal with each other’s negative traits. However, there is room for plenty of fun and socializing within the relationship!


Libra Man in a Nutshell

Basically, a Libra man is a very charming individual who loves to attend high-class social situations and find himself in the middle of a huge crowd. He is always seeking for the most beautiful things in life, and that includes his lovers. He needs a gorgeous, intelligent, and classy woman who enjoys the finer things in life also. He doesn’t like to argue (ever), and therefore requires a lady who can keep her cool even in the toughest situations. Being a man who loves to love, he falls in love quickly and doesn’t want to play games. When he enters a relationship, he is in it for the long haul and will give everything to make sure there is a smile on his woman’s face.


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    December 7, 2017 at 8:49 am

    I met a Libra man about 8 months ago. He is amazing but lives with his partner and kids. He tells me that he doesn’t love her but stays because of his kids. His father died in a horrible way and he felt guilty because they didn’t really have a good relationship. He started to become distant with me and then sent me a message saying he just wants to be with his family and kids. He blocked me. He told me while we were together that he wished he’d met me years ago, said he loved me and wanted me to be in his future. Will he come back?

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      December 8, 2017 at 9:19 pm

      He has a partner and children. Any actions that you take to develop a relationship with him may harm his family, him, and yourself. Take this time to determine what actions you believe are acceptable. Separate yourself from him at this time. If his relationship ends for reasons unrelated to you, then speak with him at that time. Have a great day, Danielle!

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    November 29, 2017 at 6:47 pm

    I am a Libra lady and my man is a Libra also. We are very much in love and it kills us to be apart. We thought it was mind blowing when w met. But…it seems to get even more special as the years pass. We met at work like 2 or 3 days before his birthday 5 years ago. First is his birthday then 2 days later is mine. He tells me all the time how I’m his dream come true…every single thing he ever dreamed of and he spends every day of his life trying to be the man if my dreams. We love each other more than life and I am honestly not surprised. We both finally feel we have met someone who actually understands us and does not put us in a shallow or superficial category. We both think of things down to its core…then simplify it to breathe and be free to enjoy life. There is just so much that we understand about each other that we have always found ourselves feeling we would be burning energy trying to explain it to someone else. People that don’t understand like to judge. And we don’t like to feel We have to explain or defend ourselves. We can completely be our true selves with each other and it is the most magnetic relationship I could have ever imagined. I didn’t see any Libra/Libra relationships listed. So I thought I would just put it out there that it does work. We feel like we are pretty much the same person just raised in two different type of households. We both can be indecisive at times. But we are fully aware of it and make sure that we weigh out both sides and look at each angle. When he feels weak, I take over to help him feel strong and vice versa. We are each other’s closest and best friend and confidante. We are a force together. And as for that Libra charm… We are both considerably attractive as well as charming so we are constantly finding beauty together in each other everyday. Even though before him, I thought the only way to have peace was if you spent time completely alone to yourself, we can’t stand being apart from each other. When we are apart life feels grey and melancholy. But together everything feels perfect and vibrant in the world. It’s magical! Our love and desire for each other is so incredibly intense and sensual. There is never any concern outside of each other. It’s so amazing to have such a love like this. I know with a lot of signs the same doesn’t work. But this one does! We know each other. And all the things that other signs become infatuated about the libra…we already know about each other…and understand. Libra and Libra…perfect match. I could go on and on.

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      November 30, 2017 at 10:03 pm

      Thank you for sharing your experiences and insights. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and feelings. It is possible that your words may help influence someone’s relationship in a positive direction. Have a great day, Asia!

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    November 11, 2017 at 6:59 am

    Im a pisces woman in love for one month with a libra man who cares about me and wants to date me frequently,sex is perfect beetwin us,he invite me to his house for gathering with his brother and his friends,but he doesnt talk so much about his life and himself,and dont ask me alot about myself,he is so kind and lovely but i havent trust him much,his attitude made me jealous,but i control myself as much as i can and everytime i show a small sign we had a small argue and he told me that he is loyal to me,but i dont believe;i want him fall in love badly and never cheat on me what should i do?

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      November 11, 2017 at 7:36 pm

      Take this time to determine what you want for your relationship. If you are concerned about his actions, then decide if your feelings are based on his actions. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Mery!

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    Shonda Roberts

    August 21, 2017 at 1:46 pm

    I’m a Taurus madly in love with a Libra! I’ve been knowing him for a year now but we been involved in a intimate relationship for 5 months now. He is also married, he’s been married for 2 1/2 years & having marital problems. I’m not sure if has feelings for me. We have been through some things were we could’ve stop dealing with each other but we both decided to work on what every we are doing together. It feels like I’m getting mixed messages from him. He separated from his wife before. I tell him all the time that he can’t keep this affair up knowing he has his wife at home. He keeps telling me that he needs to make a decision. Should I be patient & see what he does or should I keep moving on with my life? Confusion!!!

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      August 21, 2017 at 9:38 pm

      Move on with your life. He is a married man and you are allowing and supporting him in his actions that harm his wife. Allow him to fade from your life. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Determine if you are you interested in being a mistress or if are you looking for someone who wants to marry you. Have a great day, Shonda!

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    August 4, 2017 at 8:59 am

    Hi I am an a Aquarius women dating a Libra man whom I’m deeply in love with. However I have a trust problem with him. H e always tell me that he loves me and is in love with me and I still feel that way. Please help.

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      August 4, 2017 at 9:18 pm

      If he tells you that he loves you and that he is in love with you, then he likely has a strong emotional connection with you. If you do not believe him, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. If you find that you have no reason to not believe him, then allow these thoughts to fade. Treat everyone in your life with kindness and compassion, and this will help you have more positive thoughts. Have a great day, Kim!

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    Clarisa L

    July 4, 2017 at 10:39 pm

    I’m a leo woman in a situation with a libra man. Him n me have been on & off since high school. We have never had sex only hugged and layed in bed together. (we sexted Tho videos n all )Ive been there though broken bones and other desicions he has made like where to go to college.Any how fast forward we both moved on. I had a baby in Jan of 2016. We started talkin again in Apirl. Waited a while to tell him. He was shocked at 1st then said it was ok. So we did a lot of heavy most of the yr. Till Nov when I as suppose to go see him in West VA.I didnt get to plans got messed up. We just recently started bck up in June.He is in our hometown right now,Im a state away.He has told me in the past how he feels about me n what he thinks.But he is a true libra when it comes to indecisiveness and us being in a realtionship. But yet and still Ik he wants me n same with me. He just had an car accident a week n half ago where he couldve died bt walked away. And I just think of him so damn much its scary. I feel like we had this strong hold on each other. My ❤ feels so full just lookin at a pic of him. he has told ne that we are both family oriented, that im a strong beauitful woman I’ve become. That the times we spent together where great.We always talk more in person than ova txt. So does he love Me or just want to sex me then leave me? Because he can never seem to give me a straight answer.

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      July 5, 2017 at 1:20 pm

      He likely has strong emotional feelings toward you. It is unlikely that he only wants to have a physical relationship with you. Reach out to him and share your thoughts and feelings. Perhaps think about visiting him, as it would let him know how strongly you feel about him. It will also give him a chance to speak with you about his feelings as well. Have a great day, Clarisa!

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    May 24, 2017 at 10:07 pm

    Hi,I was in love with a Libra man for three years without him knowing. I’m a cancer lady. We have met a couple of times three years back and till end I didn’t approach him. After three years,I direct messaged him in instagram. He didn’t recognize me but I told him its ok if he didn’t recognize me. Then,he reply me like so late and don’t really talk a lot because he was in university,far from me. Then I bravely asked for his number and he gave me immediately. We started texting and I told him that I had crush on him three years ago. And he actually seems to remember meeting me couple of times three years ago. Then one day,he hurt my feelings. He said I was not his type and he don’t prefer girls that talk a lot. He said I am a nice girl and very bold girl. I was shattered. Then after 4 days I texted him again. He said he maintained the distance with me because he don’t want to disappoin him family because he is studying. Then I realize that actually he hurt me to make me forget him. Then we talked so happily. Then I asked him what he is he doing. He replied buying food for lunch. Then I said “where is mine? When are u going to buy for me?” He replied that when he come here,he will bring me out. So now I don’t know whether he likes me or not.

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      May 25, 2017 at 9:26 am

      I am not sure. It sounds like he may just be trying to push you away because he should be studying and he does not want to let his family down. Until he just tells you for sure how he feels, you won’t really know what is going on. Either way though, it sounds like he cannot have or does not want to have a relationship right now, so you should only text him if you are alright with that fact. Good luck, Shasha!

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    May 2, 2017 at 8:19 pm

    Hello! I’m a Sagittarius 21y/o girl and I met this Libra 21y/o guy in March 2016 in a very professional setting. We didn’t talk at all after we met since I was in a relationship (whom I’ve been with for almost 2 years) at the time and it seemed like he was interested in me. But then in November, he messaged me out of the blue about the volunteer opportunity in that professional setting we met at and from then on, we just kept on talking and talking and finally hung out for the first time on Nov 7th. (My ex had broken up with me in September and so I was still “fresh out from a relationship” at the time and I wasn’t really looking for anything serious. The breakup kind of f*cked me up because my ex and I were each other’s firsts and so my whole mindset of the intimate parts of a relationship became askew after the break up.) I was getting to know this guy a lot more and in my mind, I didn’t want to start a new relationship so quickly, but he was a little bit more persistent for a few weeks, but at the same time I was confused about what he wanted because he acted like a boyfriend already, inside and sometimes outside of the bedroom, but never wanted to make things “official”. I had my guard on the whole time and it didn’t take me until around January for me to finally be more comfortable with this guy. And February was when things were finally moving much quicker where we’d spend the night at each other’s place a few times a week almost the whole month of February until now. This was also the time where he became less persistent about asking me to be his girlfriend but he lets me know that he likes me, cares about me, and respects me a lot. He also tells me that I’m not like any of the girls he’s used to and always tells me I’m the “wild card” that came out of nowhere. Fast forward to today, somewhere along the way these past few months, I started to like him even more to the point where I want to be in a relationship with him which I’ve told him. But as mentioned before, he’s afraid of commitment and something will either push him to be committed or he’ll figure it out on his own and told me, “One day either you will be my girlfriend or we will move on. I like you a lot and care for you a lot.”

    I try my best to spend some quality time with him to really understand him more since he lives about an hour away (our hometown.) It’s been a little over a year since we’ve known each other, but 6 months since we’ve started seeing and hanging out with each other. I’ve met and hung out with his best friends (the guys he lives with), he does the little cute boyfriend stuff like kissing my forehead a lot especially when cuddling, holding hands while we cuddle, we’re always intertwined when we’re asleep, we call each other babe and little nicknames, we’re always honest and open with e/o and have told e/o some personal stuff. Sometimes it feels like it’s a FWB but with more “benefits.” I feel protected when I’m with him but super unsure of where whatever this thing will go. I don’t know what to think of when he asks me to trust him, but then tells me not to trust him. He’s told me that he’s liking me too much and that’s when he gives me space. He’s also not the type of person that texts a lot or prioritizes social media (which is a nice change.) What’s the best thing to do? I really like this guy and truly care for him and want to show what it is to have a girlfriend that appreciates him. I can feel that somewhere deep down he likes me enough to be in relationship but is probably just fighting the feeling.. I don’t know how to help him make up his mind..

    I apologize for the long message.. just thought being thorough will help a little more.


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      May 3, 2017 at 2:08 pm

      Your best option is to speak directly and honestly with him about your feelings. Explain to him what your goals are with your relationship. If he is unable or unwilling to commit to those goals, then perhaps you should allow him to fade from your life. If he wants what you want, then take action to strengthen your relationship. It is likely that one of you will need to move to the other one for your relationship to last. Have a great day, Confused!

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    April 6, 2017 at 12:38 am

    I have a guy best friend who is a libra and im a gemini but he has a girlfriend so is there a chance that we would date each other or he would breakup with his girlfriend and they are dating for past 2 years. So is there a chance of him breaking up with her coz we talk the whole day everytime and even my friends think that there is something more than friendship between us. So is there a chance of him breaking up with her and dating me??

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      April 6, 2017 at 9:57 am

      They have been dating for a while, so I would not expect them to break up soon. I would also not try to force the issue because it will only cause drama in your own life–plus, if he left her for you, you would never know if he would just do the same thing to you in the future. There is always a chance that he could break up with her since most relationships ultimately end at some point, but there is no way to know how soon that break up would be.

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    Confused Girl

    March 31, 2017 at 1:41 am

    So I met this libra man back in October I my self am a Taurus, I truly do like him he’s funny and always smiling which is what I love about him when we’re together we have so much fun joking and laughing together, however I have a few questions I’ve noticed he perused me more before we were intimate he is rarely the one to call or text we do have a mutual understanding that we’re both in​ a place where we are focused more in our work and children given that we are both devorced however he can go weeks without texting or calling and when he does it’s only for the intimacy I’m not a clingy type of person but every once in a while when I call him or text him and ask him to get together for lunch or dinner he’s always too busy or he’ll make plans with me and cancel the last minute I’m not saying I want to spend every minute with him but I’m just not understanding if this is going anywhere I do like him and possibly even getting feeling involved however I would hate to be the only one to have those feeling I know he doesn’t have anyone else which is why I don’t understand is it maybe he’s not ready for a relationship or is it he’s just cautious of his next relationship or even just a old fashion booty call?

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      March 31, 2017 at 9:20 am

      Some people like the thrill of the chase and it excites them to be with someone new. His sudden change in how he pursues you may just be due to that. However, not calling or texting you for weeks is a little worrisome. If he is always too busy to get together or even respond to your texts, then it sounds like he is not as into the relationship as you are. If you are okay with a friends with benefits style relationship, keep dating him. If you want more, then you may have to just move on. Good luck, Confused Girl!

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    March 15, 2017 at 5:16 am

    I’m a Aquarian Women dating a Libra Man.
    Eish at the moment we just ok and his charming tactics are bothering me cause his always with female friends and Im not to sure if ill be dating him further. Everything about him its a laughing matter and he never gets serious unless if he wishes too.

    You know as Aqua we don’t like should I continue to date him?

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      March 15, 2017 at 4:04 pm

      You may want to speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Ask him how he views your relationship. He will be able to give you his true thoughts. That way your relationship can grow into what the two of you want it to be. Have a great day, Swazi!

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    March 7, 2017 at 12:40 am

    I’m not convinced on astrological traits

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      March 7, 2017 at 3:28 pm

      There are many scientific studies that support your thoughts. However, there are many people who choose to find pleasure in astrology, and we support their feelings as well. Have a great day, Danny!

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    March 4, 2017 at 4:31 pm

    I started working in my new place of work one month ago now, am a capricorn I met this libra guy who also works in my office.
    He invited me out for drinks on two diffrent occasions but i turned him down until last week when he offered to buy me lunch which i allowed and then asked us to hang out on Friday which i accepted……
    Me,him and two of his friends who are also colleagues in the office and are dating joined for the hang out…
    When out he was holding hands alot and making eye contact we got intimate later at night and the sex was great he dropped me off at home the next morning, sent messages and also called. Am scared and what to know what he is really up to plus what he wants…..I think i am starting to fall for him it’s so weird cos as a capricorn i don’t fall easily,I really like him and want to be sure that it’s on both sides not just my side alone…..what should i do? How should i go about it?

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      March 5, 2017 at 10:54 am

      It sounds like he likes you, so he most likely wants to keep dating you and see where things go. If you are starting to like him too, then go ahead and go on a date with him again. The only way you will know where this relationship can go is by dating him again and seeing what happens. Who knows? You may have found Mr. Right. Good luck, Golden! 🙂

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    February 26, 2017 at 12:17 pm

    I am a Gemini lady sort of dating a Libra guy. Met in less than a week and emotions caught heated up as we truly connected and we bonded. But then I wanna know how much he truly cares, if he loves me that much as I want to go on forever with him and I like him so very much, as well as how much he wants to go. He says most of what I want to hear but am uncertain. I want to know how I can make him love and be all dedicated into a commitment without being pushy. He communicates more often than not but I want more.

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      February 26, 2017 at 2:51 pm

      Spend more time with him. Share your thoughts and feelings with him. Try to learn about his goals and ideas. Try to go on a walk through nature with him or somewhere that has emotional importance to you. You will find that your relationship will grow as the two of you spend time together. This will help your relationship grow. Best of luck, Zami!

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    February 26, 2017 at 1:41 am

    Libra men are cons I’m Gemini my libra husband actually told me he just tells people what the want to hear.

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      February 26, 2017 at 2:22 pm

      Many people tell people what they want to hear. If you find that you continue to have problems with him, then explain your thoughts and feelings to him. Take action in your relationship. Good luck, Rhonda!

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    February 26, 2017 at 1:37 am

    I am a Gemini and have been married to libra man for 22years. Since our children left home 4 years ago I’ve realised how lazy. How cold and how self centered my libra really is. I’ve had enough. They’re non opinion silent approach to relationships is selfish. Good luck to women with libras if you can handle always being perfect to someone who really only cares what people think and not how they feel then he’s the one. They’re is no pleasing them

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      February 26, 2017 at 2:21 pm

      Thank you for sharing your experience with your relationship. You may want to take this as an opportunity to reach out to your husband of 22 years. It is certain that you haven’t felt this way your entire relationship. Try to rekindle your relationship. Good luck, Rhonda!

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    February 25, 2017 at 5:46 am

    I’m a Gemini and the Libra man that I love also loves me but we never seem to connect at the right time. I mean we are never single at the same time. 🙁

    When we met he was involved and I wasn’t. I didn’t know he was involved. The chemistry between us was so strong that he told me the truth. I ended things. I appreciated that he loved me enough to be honest but I couldn’t be in a love triangle either.

    After a while I became involved. Over the years I never forgot him. I reached out to him to see how he was doing. He and I never got over one another.

    Why is this so complicated?

    I know we have a genuine chemistry and love for one another but we also don’t want to hurt anyone else either. I’m involved and now he is involved with another person and we can never be.

    He and I both feel like we are made for one another but we both don’t want the guilt of hurting the people that we committed to either.

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      February 26, 2017 at 12:51 pm

      It seems as though the two of you have had a history of kindness and compassion. It is clear that you two want to develop a relationship with each other. You are right, it would not be fair for the two of you to leave your current partners to develop a relationship with each other. However, there is no reason why you two can not remain friends. Wait until the time is right. Best of luck, Complicated!

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    February 5, 2017 at 10:52 pm

    Im a scorpio lady in love with a libra man, we met about 6 months ago but we were both involved with other peple. We still continued to see each other but eventually it got difficult because we started to get jealous and angry with each other all the time then we drifted apart. We recently reconciled and this time I am not involved but he is. We dont fight anymore but I feel that he doesnt give me the time and attention that I need unless hes with me. When we arent together physically he often goes silent and dissapears. I asked him if he is serious about me or just passing time and he said he is serious and truly does love me. How do I make him fall harder and change his ways?

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      February 6, 2017 at 11:43 am

      He is in a relationship at this time. Allow him to fade away. You do not want to be with someone who choosing infidelity. That is a warning sign of how your future relationship will end. Take this time to look inward and determine what you want for your future without a cheater. Enjoy life, Lola!

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    January 7, 2017 at 9:00 pm

    So im currently with a Libra male as im a scorpio women. And i gotta say he has been one of my best relationships IV ever been into but lately we have been fighting alot.. Only because he is having baby mama drama. With this its making things between us hard because me as a scorpio I over think everything and I assume things fast as I speak before thinking. My Libra partner has showed me plenty of times that he truly loves me while still dealing with baby mama. All of our fights concern her its never anything else because we truly make each other happy. But lately idk the fights become more stronger then they use to IV been up everynight crying wondering if im losing him or not. He makes it seem as he wants to be with me and work pass all this shot even with me being with my mood swings.. But idk I might of messed up this time. He has been inogoring me. Keeping our condos short. But when he does talk he says the brightest shot to me. I do love this guy and IV been waiting for a reply as I sent him something that pored out my heart to him.. If that makes sense.. Im waiting .. But I need to stop because my Libra has sentencing coming up this Wednesday’ might have to go back to prison so he is stressing with that and baby mama at first him and I were fine but I started some things and now he just feels he should be alone for his possibly last couple days .. I wanna fix things with us even if he goes to the yard ill hold him down but not if he is fading away from me. Im just confused and lost with this.. That only time will tell

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      January 9, 2017 at 10:18 am

      It sounds like he may just be under a lot of stress right now, so I would not read too much into the way that he is acting. Between the way the other woman acts and his sentencing on Wednesday, it sounds like he has a lot to be worried about. He may just need a couple of days to think things through and relax. Even if he is sentenced on Wednesday, it will remove the stress of worrying what could happen. Wait until Thursday to reach out to him or try to make amends. By then, he will know what type of plans he can make for the future and at least one stressor will be gone.

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    August 27, 2016 at 11:37 am

    Im a scorpio women who was dating this libra guy for almost 2 years. We were friends with benefits for 3 years off and on before we actually made it official.And before we made it official he told me he had a child while we werent talking whuch brokr my heart because if past issues I had with previous relationships with guys with kids.We recently broke up because he couldnt deal with my trust issues.when i said I would change he said ive said that before.i asked if i prove my changes is there a chance he said yes. He says he loves me and is still in love with me.But i just feel things arent the same between us. I let him know everyday that support him and want to be there for him in a trusting happy relationship. I dont know what to do but i want him we still stay together till the lease is up.

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      August 28, 2016 at 7:51 am

      While it seems odd to break things off because he has a kid, it seems even weirder that he would wait so long to tell you. After a break up, it is hard to get the relationship back to normal. While it is not impossible for you guys to return to your previous relationship balance, it won’t be easy. Give it time. The best way to show him that you have changed is to make those changes and keep them. Perhaps after he has seen you live these changes for a few weeks or months, he will realize that you meant what you said and are willing to change forever. Good luck, Danyel!

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