Libra Man in Love

By on May 1, 2014


You might find him enjoying an enchanting ballet at the high-end theater in the downtown theater, or you might find him dining at the most expensive spot in town. The Libra man is one who craves elegance and sophistication and enjoys the finer things in life, however his indecisiveness may make his go-abouts a difficult choice. The Libran is a charmer in every way, and people tend to gravitate towards his fair attitude and intelligent conversation. He’s just a man who seems to find the good in everyone around him, and his fair and balanced nature keeps him from getting into any arguments. He just wants peace, happiness, and an expensive cocktail on his table- that’s not too much to ask, right?


The Type of Woman Libra Needs

As we said before, the Libra man is a guy who wants the finer things in life, whether it’s the nicest house, the perfect job- or the most beautiful companion. This doesn’t mean the Libra man is stuck up. He really just needs a classy, beautiful woman who knows how to handle herself in high-class situations he so commonly finds himself in.

Other than beauty and brains, a Libran is searching for a lady who can be grateful for the love he has to offer and is interested in a long term relationship. He doesn’t want a woman who is flighty or gets mad often. His sign makes him an incredibly peaceful individual and would much rather talk things over in a calm fashion then raised voices and slamming doors. For this reason, he needs a calm lady who will be able to discuss not only interesting things to peek his interest, but problems she may have too.


Libra in a Relationship

You’ve heard the term ‘sucker for love’ before, right? This describes the Libra man perfectly. He is truly a sucker for love and finds himself falling in love with his partners easily. He seems to wear his heart on both sleeves, not only to keep balance in his relationship, but so he can easily hand his heart over at a moments notice. This quick loving approach may leave the Libra man heartbroken commonly, but it also gives him a chance to show how much he loves his lady on a regular basis.

A Libran is an excellent man when it comes to dating. Women will note that the Libran is a sensational person who loves to wine and dine his lady, treating her to exotic and fancy locations at all times possible. He is one hundred percent dedicated to the relationship at all times and wants to make sure his woman is happy and pleased, inside and outside of the bedroom.

Aside from his passion and romantic gestures, another great reason to date a Libra is because he is incredibly calm, charming, and peaceful. His charming attitude will seem to pull you in while his intellectual conversations will keep you enthralled for hours on end. And when a certain problem does arise in the relationship, you won’t find a Libra man quick to judge or turn nasty. In fact, the Libran will stay calm even in the most intense situations and will find ways to deal with it in a peaceful manner, always refraining from nasty words or comments that would hurt his woman.


Libra in Bed

If you haven’t gotten the drift yet, a Libra man likes everything in his life to be balanced. Therefore, in bed the Libra lover likes to be pleased just as much as he pleases his woman. This balance means for an intense night between the sheets where both of you are sure to be completely satisfied by the end of the night- the Libra will make sure of it.

Besides being a balanced lover, Librans are also very passionate and sensual lovers. They love the sexy and finer things- even in the bedroom. You’ll note Libran men to be lovers of silky lingerie, rose petals on the bed, and sensual hot baths with his lady friend. That being said, an easy way way to turn a Libra man on is to put on something sexy or put some love-making music on with candles to set the mood. Try and refrain from the kinky things- Librans like to keep it classy at all times.


Negative Side of a Libra Man

We’ve said it multiple times before: Libra men love the finer things in life, which can make them appear superficial. They tend to gravitate towards beauty, especially when it comes to other people, and they may not be able to see the beauty beneath. This superficial attitude can certainly be a turn off for many women who will perceive him as being a player who only goes for the most attractive women.

Does he want to go to dinner at the little French bistro, or does he want to go to the fancy Mexican restaurant on the other side of town? Does he want to take the high paying CEO job, or does he want to follow his dreams to become an artist? He doesn’t know, and that leads us to another one of Librans negative traits: their indecisiveness, which is obviously a major annoyance in 99% of people. The best way to deal with this? Make the decision for him or help him weigh in on what would be best.


Libra and Gemini: This is possibly the best match for a Libra man. The two of you will have an incredibly fun time together as you both love the finer things in life and love an adventure. Your both great lovers seeking long-term investments and enjoy stimulating conversation.

Libra and Leo: Undoubtedly one of the most powerful matches, Libra and Leo feed off of each other’s personalities brilliantly, The two of you are incredibly in sync and will have an enjoyable time together, from basic conversation at a diner downtown to fascinating adventures across the world. There’s really no telling what the two of you will come up with, but it’s sure to be a very enthralling time.

Libra and Sagittarius: This is a wonderful match that can lead to a long-term relationship, that is, if the two of you can learn to deal with each other’s negative traits. However, there is room for plenty of fun and socializing within the relationship!


Libra Man in a Nutshell

Basically, a Libra man is a very charming individual who loves to attend high-class social situations and find himself in the middle of a huge crowd. He is always seeking for the most beautiful things in life, and that includes his lovers. He needs a gorgeous, intelligent, and classy woman who enjoys the finer things in life also. He doesn’t like to argue (ever), and therefore requires a lady who can keep her cool even in the toughest situations. Being a man who loves to love, he falls in love quickly and doesn’t want to play games. When he enters a relationship, he is in it for the long haul and will give everything to make sure there is a smile on his woman’s face.


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    October 9, 2019 at 1:56 pm

    I’m a Cancer woman who’s been seeing a Libra man for roughly 45 days. However, we have worked together for the last four years. He has said he liked me from the moment he had laid eyes on me. He’s and introvert and I’m an ambivert. I’m falling hard according to my son. I’ve always been told I come in layers that are hard to peel back. The Libra man doesn’t really like going out and spending money. However, I am the type to shower a person with gifts. He doesn’t like people spending their money on him. I will do the opposite if you tell me not to. He’s aware. I got off of work one night and went to his house to only see a woman laying her head in his lap. I froze up outside. I was in a trance and shaking. I began to cry. He had no idea I was at his house until hours after I had sent a photo of his and her vehicle. The following day he came racing to myself after confiding that there was no hugs or kisses with her. He said he told her he is seeing somebody else. They were clothed entirely. But, when he raced to my home he tried comfort me as much as he could. My guards were back up. He said by text that evening that he was worried I wouldn’t give him and second chance and that he will no longer have female friends over. He’s never revealed his feelings, but instead he sends me songs. He then tells me he just likes the songs. But, after I seeing what I seen and him realizing I was broken he sent me four different rock/love songs by four different bands. The songs basically said the same thing. They were about losing, forgiving, moving forward, trusting and loving. He’s never conveyed his feelings feelings, but instead he’s said what he likes and sees in me. How do I decipher him?

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      February 25, 2020 at 1:51 pm

      You are aware of his behaviors, and it seems that his actions were inappropriate in regard to what you felt was acceptable for a relationship. Time has passed since your comment, so it seems that you need to make a decision about what you feel is acceptable. Allow this experience to guide your behaviors in the future as well.

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    July 9, 2019 at 10:08 am

    Been with my Libra Man for almost 2 years now. He says he loves me and I want to believe him but Libras fall in love to be in love so I am not sure if he is in love with me or just thinks he is. I have asked him what is different about me and he says that he has never felt connected, we are really good friends and very similar. I’m a Leo so we do great together, I fear he is just in love with the idea of Love. How do I know if he is in love with me and not just doing his Libra thing?

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      July 9, 2019 at 10:22 pm

      Do not judge this person on his sign without taking into account his personal characteristics. The two of you share a strong social and emotional relationship. If you are interested in maintaining or strengthening this relationship, then speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you. Spend additional time with him in person, as this will nourish your relationship. Have a great day, Cristina!

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    January 17, 2019 at 8:46 am

    Hi, I’ve met my libra man online and not soon after he wants us to be exclusive and since we live states apart he wants me to move in with him and he will take care of everything, hes very sweet but I’m kinda nervous because he sounds too good to be true, hes been thru a lot of relationships and told me that I’m going to be his last, so should I make the move? Or should I wait? Is it too fast?

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      January 17, 2019 at 11:00 pm

      He has shared his thoughts and feelings with you. You need to determine if you believe that this is appropriate and in line with what you want for your future. Decide if this relationship is viable. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. This is a serious decision, so you may want to speak with your family and friends about your ideas. Have a great day, Tracy!

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    Teri Walker

    September 3, 2018 at 11:53 am

    I have been talking to a Libra guy since January. He chased me very hard, we have been dating exclusively since July. I’m not sure he was ready for exclusivity but something came up that he realized I wouldn’t accept that and if I did I wouldn’t be exclusive either. He then had to move for work. It was hard for him to tell me if we were going to continue or walk away. He eventually chose continue but I tell him all the time I Love him but he as never told me. It is my understanding that Libra guys fall in love pretty easy. So my question is is he scared to tell me or he doesn’t?

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      September 4, 2018 at 8:50 am

      There is a decent chance that he just doesn’t know how he feels yet. In addition, he may be afraid to emotionally commit since he knows that a long-distance relationship will be extremely difficult. You have been dating for a few months now, so this would be the normal time to become more committed and start saying “I love you.” You can keep the relationship going to see how it plays out, but it sounds like he might not be into a real relationship at the moment. If he hasn’t figured out that he loves you in the last nine months, he might not ever realize it.

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        April 13, 2019 at 9:57 am

        I’m dating a Libra Man . I’m A Scorpio woman We have been dating for 2 mnths It feels like I’ve known him forever . His Actions show he caught feelings so I don’t question him . I just go with the flow And see how this turns out If It’s meant to be It will be . Me being A Scorpio woman never In a million years did I think I would be involved with a Libra Man And so far It’s the best feeling ever . Sometimes us as woman rush everything If we learn to be patient and understand If It feels right Then maybe It Is We only live once Sometimes we have to take chances to see where be belong . I never get advice from anyone when It’s concerning a Man I’m involved with . I follow my hart . If Its meant to be I’ll be and I’ll never say I love you first We woman mess up the good moments being so In a rush

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          April 13, 2019 at 10:42 pm

          The two of you share a strong social and emotional relationship. It is important to continue to nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with everyone in your life, as this will draw positive people and energy into your life. Have a great day, Future!

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    June 20, 2018 at 8:03 pm

    Hi there,
    Just wanting some clarity on a situation with a Libra man.
    We met off seeking arrangement one time, I actually didn’t think the date went all that well until at the end I asked if he wanted to see me again… he replied yes… we didn’t see each other after that for two months – still kept in contact but could never get our schedules to match up. FINALLY… we met up again, he must have wined and dined me 5-6 times and we also went away together for the weekend before I mentioned to him I was moving 16hours away… he promised to stay in contact which I thought “yeah right, as if that’ll happen”
    But to my disbelief he would check in every week usually on the same day. It’s now been 6 months that I’ve been living in another town and haven’t seen him. I knew he’d obviaouly start dating someone else… and who was I to get butt hurt over that… which is did and started seeing her about 2 months ago… the only thing I’m stuck with is – why does he still message me every week? He still flirts… and has mentioned he misses me. However he has said he thinks we have a friendship. But is extremely open about the specifics of his new little fwb relationship that I really don’t want to know anything about?

    Does he think of me as one of the boys? And friends zoned me. Or is keeping me around because he’s comfortable with me?? HELP!

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      June 22, 2018 at 11:21 am

      He is a relationship with someone else. He likely still feels a strong emotional and social connection with you. He likely enjoys your company. However, he is in a committed relationship. Determine what actions of his you believe are appropriate. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Do not attempt to harm his relationship. Have a great day, Alice!

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    April 1, 2018 at 6:03 am

    I’ve been dating a Libra man for a year now. When we first met I was ending a relationship so I wasn’t as available as he liked me to be (he didn’t know I had just ending something). Once I ended that relationship we started spending a lot of time together going on trips, out to eat etc. We talk about everything , our connection is great, but 3 months ago he told me he isn’t looking for anything serious right now and he likes how things are going between us. Also, that if I get a boyfriend he wouldn’t want to deal with me. I have really caught feeling for this guy but I don’t know if the feelings are mutual. We are getting ready to go on another trip together and I want to talk to him about it but I don’t want to ruin things

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      April 2, 2018 at 12:27 am

      If he is not ready to develop a relationship with you, then do not allow that person to prevent you from developing a relationship with someone else. If you want to develop a relationship with him, then you may want to wait for him. Determine what you believe are acceptable actions for your relationship. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Cherry!

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    April 1, 2018 at 3:15 am

    I’ve been seeing a Libra man for a year now. When we first met I was ending a relationship so I wasn’t as present as he wanted me to be. When I finally ended my relationship we started spending a lot of time together, we’d go on trips, out to eat etc. 3 months ago he told me he’s not ready for anything serious and that he’s ok with how things are with us right now. We’re getting ready to take another trip together and I just really feel like we’re in a relationship but without the titles. I want to tell him how I feel but I don’t want to ruin things

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      April 2, 2018 at 12:23 am

      The two of you have developed a strong relationship. Determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. You may find benefit in spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Sweetie!

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    March 27, 2018 at 4:41 pm

    I met a Libra man on March 17th. I am a Pisces Woman. We clicked instantly and by day two he was telling me things that were very future oriented, planning trip etc. we talked and text non stop. We made plans to stay together Saturday and Sunday night and literally 2 hours before we were to meet up, he text me that he couldn’t do this, any of it. 15 minutes before we were texting about the hotel we would be staying st and how excited we both were. We’ve kissed, held hands etc. but were going to be intimate last weekend. Now he’s gone? He told me that he knew in his heart, for whatever reason, it wouldn’t work out and it’s best to end it now than in 6 months! How should I handle this? I really like him!

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      March 27, 2018 at 9:49 pm

      He has shared his thoughts and feelings with you. He is unable or unwilling to maintain a relationship with you. It is likely that he has a relationship that is preventing him from nourishing your relationship. Take this time to determine what you want for your future without him. Focus your emotional energy elsewhere. Have a great day, Tabitha!

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    March 17, 2018 at 3:31 am

    I am a cancer women dating a Libra man! From the first few months of dating he was cheating on me with other girls. But then things went serious and he came out and told me everything he got upto when we were together. Who he slept with, gave me all his passwords for his social media accounts, changed his number for me because i was having trust issues with other girls he was seeing randomly calling him. He decided after a few months he wanted to come clean and that I was the only one he saw a future with. He also took me to his mums grave and hes never taken any girl there before. Ever since then, we have been happy! But as a cancer, i always bring up our past, and what he did, my insecurities but he puts up with it and explains himself and tells me that im his one and only. Its even gotten to the point that when we argue he records himself to show me that he isnt playing around with other girls. I guess what im trying to say is… is he really committed to this relationship? Cos my trust issues seem to be getting in the way and causing arguments. Im just scared of putting 100% in again, and then end up getting hurt. Please help.

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      March 17, 2018 at 11:09 pm

      It is likely that he is sincere and wants you to be aware that he is trustworthy and cares for you. Do not allow your insecurities from other relationships prevent you from nourishing this relationship. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Jellybean!

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    March 4, 2018 at 10:10 am

    I met a libra man and things webby really quick with us. Then he seemed to back off alot but still in contact with me every day just not as flirty as hee was. Now he’s going thru all these stressful issues with kids and family and I can tell he’s being distant. I can’t tell if its me or just because he’s going thru alot of stuff

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      March 5, 2018 at 1:58 pm

      It is likely that he is too busy to nourish a relationship with you at this time. He likely feels a strong emotional connection with you. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Andrea!

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    February 25, 2018 at 1:17 pm

    I’m falling for this Libra man but I’m keeping my cool-big time. He and I met at a dark alternative club about five years ago and hung out there together quite a bit. Then the club closed, we lost track of each other, life got in the way. We recently got in touch again recently and at first things were rocky as at the event he invited me to he kept trying to touch me in ways I did not want to be touched. I got really mad at him and told him if he ever tried to touch me again like he was doing I would punch him in his throat and I left mad. Lol. That’s my Leo coming out in me. 😂 he apologized and backed off and we’ve been communicating through social media as of late. We met up again at a show the other night and he was much nicer and more of a gentleman to me-we just cuddled and held hands and kissed a few times. I’m not sure if things are going to progress and I’m not sure if I want them to-doesn’t help that his friend told me to “be careful” around him though I don’t know if that’s just his friend being rough with him or if it’s a warning to me. Either way I know what I’m dealing with. He is trying so hard to charm me and I think it creates a challenge because I refuse to give in until the time is right. I don’t know. We’ll see what happens when I see him again in a month. His birthday is September 23rd and mine is August 4th.

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      February 26, 2018 at 9:32 pm

      It is certainly possible that the two of you are interested in developing a relationship with each other. Allow the stars to take a backseat, and have your personalities and relationship dictate your future. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Morag!

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    Christina Albertina

    February 22, 2018 at 8:08 pm

    I met a libra man. He is my high school friend in the past. We didnt talk cause we re not close enough until now. 2 weeks ago i started to chat without any reason, and we chat everyday but he never ask me anything. He like to joke, and always respond my text. He never, sorry i mean just 1/2 question he asked to me, anything else is joke and not important. Actually im little confused, is he not into me or ?

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      February 22, 2018 at 9:16 pm

      It is certainly possible that he is interested in developing a relationship with you. There may be a variety of reasons for his actions. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share himself with you as well. Have a great day, Christina!

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        October 5, 2019 at 6:10 pm

        i have a crush on a libra man but i don’t want a serious relationship with him mostly because he is too old for me. we have been talking for a while and i think he’s been being flirtatious in a subtle way. He finds me naive and annoying sometimes and then other times i think he finds me amusing and cute and sexy. i feel him pull away whenever i’m blunt or too pushy which is my aries sign coming out lol! but he never pulls away when i’m being flirtatious though. Again i don’t want a serious relationship but do you think he likes me and he just thinks i’m coming on too strong? or is he just not interested? Libras are very diplomatic so i can’t tell! I get the feeling he would like a casual relationship with me too but he wants me to be more balanced and tactful like him…. or maybe he’s not interested and he’s trying to be nice by talking to me….. i can’t tell….. but we sometimes text on the phone for hours! and he told me he doesn’t do that with anyone else! how do i know!!! please help

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          February 4, 2020 at 8:28 pm

          It is clear that the two of you are maintaining a strong social relationship. You are allowing his age to influence your decisions, so take this time to determine whether or not you feel that this is appropriate. If you want to nourish this connection, then spend additional time with him in person.

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