50 I Miss You Messages for Him

By on April 23, 2017

When he is away, it seems like the world is a much sadder, darker place. Missing someone may not always equate to being in love with that person. It could be just an infatuation or longing to connect with people. But, we can all agree that the pain of missing someone is worse if you have a deep, emotional love for that person.

Couples in long-distance relationships have to endure weeks, months or years of separation. It’s not an ideal situation because it can aggravate little misunderstandings and intensify the distress of wanting to be with the person you love. If you succeed, though, it can be the most rewarding.

The sadness that you feel when you are away from your boyfriend, fiancé or husband is valid. If the relationship is new, the pain could be more intense. Communication is important during these times. Let him know that you miss him. He is probably missing you just as badly. There are times when the usual text messages or voice mails are not enough. You can plan for an online date, watch the same movie or read a book and discuss it. Send him a photo of you and your pretty smile.

Sometimes the best way to say, “I miss you” is through a heartfelt message. If you’re looking for the best love quotes to inspire you or just help you get through these sad times, look no further. We’ve compiled 50 sweet and romantic messages for the man you can’t help but miss.

  1. I feel proud that our love has withstood the distance. You can’t imagine how much I want to be by your side right now. But I will wait like I have always promised – hoping it won’t be too long until I see you again.
  2. How sad could it be if the man you miss is right beside you? Sometimes I feel you pulling away and it scares me. I miss the times when just the two of us is enough to make you happy. Let’s go back to the start.
  3. Knowing that you miss me, too, makes the pain bearable.
  4. Love is really not for the faint of heart. You’ve only been away for a day, and I feel like wanting to cry my heart out.
  5. I’m happy that I’m missing someone who is missing me too.
  6. I could distract myself not to think of you, but I can’t tell myself not to miss you.
  7. If I knew that loving you would be this painful, I’d still choose to be in love with you.
  8. Is it okay to say I miss you even though we just met? Is it fine to want to be with you even though you want someone else?
  9. They say fools rush in, and I’ve been a fool before. I promised myself to take it slow but I’m just falling deeper in love with you. I miss you.
  10. People who are waiting for love are sad people. Those who let love go are the saddest people.
  11. Just thinking about the next time I’ll see you send shivers down my spine.
  12. Wherever I am, I will always be yours. Just think about that when you miss me.
  13. It doesn’t matter if we’ve spent years together; I would still miss you the second you leave.
  14. I should have been prepared for this part. But no one can teach you not to miss the people you love.
  15. You’re worth all the days I cried myself to sleep.
  16. Missing you is bad but not knowing if you miss me too is harder.
  17. I have made wrong choices in the past. I give in to love too quickly. But just when I thought I’d be better on my own… I met you.
  18. There are no gifts that can calm my heart when you’re not around.
  19. The power of teleport would be nice in times like this.
  20. Even on the busiest days, I still pause and think of you.
  21. You are not the first man I have loved but you will be the last man I will miss.
  22. There‘s an inexplicable sadness knowing you can’t be with the man you love, who also happen to be your best friend.
  23. You left a heartache no one can heal. You gave me so many things to remember. I guess that’s the curse of loving you.
  24. As hard as it is to miss you, I should just be happy that you miss me too. But if life has a fast-forward button, that would be more helpful.
  25. Have you also thought of the past and wondered if you have done something differently, would it have turn things better for us? I’ve always wondered about that.
  26. I have loved you for so long even though we haven’t met. I content myself with the thought that there was a moment in time when we’re probably looking at the same sky.
  27. It doesn’t matter if you haven’t seen someone for years or for a minute. The pain of missing him would still be unbearable.
  28. You said there’d be no goodbyes, but I counted so many days and you’re still not here. I’m beginning to think it was just part of your games.
  29. You annoyed me and I hated you at first. But now all I want is to see you again. Fate has a funny way of connecting people.
  30. Your love chased away all the shadows, my fears, and my nightmares, but now that you’re gone, I’m learning to be afraid of the dark again.
  31. You are the hardest person to say goodbye to. I never want to be away from you. If you give me just one look, I might never be able to go even if I have to.
  32. Kindred spirits: you and I. I knew the moment we’ve met that what we have was something different. It was a love that transcends time and shatters all barriers.
  33. If you give me just one reason to stay, I promise you’ll never have to walk alone. I will give you the privilege of having a life-long companion. Will you take it?
  34. Missing you has always been such as disconcerting feeling. It’s something I can never get used to. Be here now.
  35. There are many ways to say I miss you. There are many things to miss about you. But there is only one reason why I do – I love you.
  36. The worst punishment you can give yourself is to hide your true feelings for somebody. That’s why I’m telling you now before it’s too late – I love you, and I really miss you.
  37. I can’t stop what my heart dictates. I can’t quiet my mind and not listen to what it says. All I can do is tell you I miss you – hoping you’d understand how hard it is not to love you.
  38. The sky is dark. The winds are colder. The birds are singing sad songs. The flowers don’t bloom anymore – all because you’re not around.
  39. I suck at everything. I suck at missing you, loving you, and trying to forget you. The only thing I’m good at is thinking of you.
  40. The worst moment in my life is the moment I realized you’re not coming back. The mornings feel like night, and I keep forcing myself to forget but I can’t. There should be a crash course on how to not miss someone or how to heal a broken heart.
  41. I’m waiting for the day I will stop missing you. I mean, if Santa Claus isn’t real, then maybe you aren’t too. But when Christmas comes, I always find myself waiting for Santa… and you.
  42. There are no big words, no magic words to tell you how I feel. I miss you. It’s as simple as that. And it’s painful because it’s true.
  43. You made me eat breakfast. You made me ride a bike. You quiet my demons and turned me into a brave new person. Was that your only intention? Teach me how to be brave, so I can survive a life without you?
  44. Times are harder when the person you want to forget keeps on popping in your head. There should be a cemetery for broken promises, old memories, and shattered hearts. Then you’ll know where to find me.
  45. I thought love will make me a happier person. I thought it will provide me a more positive perspective in life. But I’m just a bitter person now. I lost all hope in love. I’ve given up on my dreams. It’s the worst kind of feeling. Missing someone who isn’t real.
  46. The nights can be unkind when you’re missing the person you love. You keep on telling yourself you’ll make it but every day is a struggle that doesn’t end. But I’d rather have this sadness than lose you completely.
  47. Sure, we had our happy times. It’s what propels me to still wake up in the morning and go on with my life. Hoping that we can rekindle those moments and that you never have to leave again. May this message reach you wherever you are.
  48. What’s so bad about loving someone is missing them when they’re away. It doesn’t matter if it’s as short as an hour, it still feels like hell. Sometimes you can’t even breathe in longing. And when you’re finally together, you wish time will stand still.
  49. I accept that part of loving you is being sad when we’re not together. It doesn’t matter if it takes months or years. I will not let go because my love for you is patient. My love for you is true.
  50. I wish I can bury these memories of us. I can’t let it torture me forever. I can’t bear knowing I’m here missing you and you’re out there not missing me.

Missing someone is really painful but you don’t have to suffer alone. Open your heart, make peace with the past. Just hang on because everything will be okay in the end. The good things may not last, but so are the bad ones. Have faith in your love. The struggles you are experiencing now will only make you a better person. If you still haven’t told him you miss him, now is the right time.




  1. Celeste wimberly

    January 24, 2019 at 9:06 pm

    I have been dating my bf for 2years and he lives in the same town. Lately he had been claiming to work a lot we use to talk about plans together now he only talks about work. I miss my friend but when I say it he gets really testy so I hold back but if I say I am leaving he rushes over. I am uncomfortable playing this game I am ready to move forward with or without him. Again I love and miss him

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 26, 2019 at 12:11 am

      The two of you share a strong relationship. It is certainly possible that your relationship is changing for some reason. Determine what you want for the future of this relationship. Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Nourish this relationship by spending additional time with him in person. Have a great day, Celeste!

  2. Ryna

    January 7, 2018 at 12:38 am

    I’m in love with this guy for eight years now. He left to work and live in another country. He would come home for visits or vacation. I’d ask him to meet up and talk and he always gladly agreed. I wrote him an e-mail and told him my feelings for him. He never replied but when I asked him he said that he didn’t know how to react or respond so he kind of just let it be. I know that he already has a girlfriend but he still meets up with me just to talk when he comes for a vacation. In our meetings, he never mentions his gf or never tells me that he is already in a relationship. I asked him if it’s okay if we continue our meetings and chats to keep in touch with each other. He said yes. I think of him and miss him all the time. I really want to have a chance to be with him, a relationship with him. What should I do?

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 8, 2018 at 10:32 am

      He is in a relationship with someone else. There is no reason for you to attempt to establish a relationship with him at this time. Continue to share your kindness and compassion with him. If his relationship naturally ends and he reaches out to you, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Ryna!

    • Yasmine

      February 9, 2018 at 5:01 am

      If he has feelings for u he’ll come To u full stop

      • web admin

        web admin

        February 9, 2018 at 9:27 pm

        Thank you for sharing your thoughts and feelings. Have a great day, Yasmine!

  3. Sleem

    September 25, 2017 at 1:33 pm

    There is this guy i have been crushing on for over 5yrs now… We friends though…. I told him what i feel for him and that i want a relationship with him which he accepted but he has not been giving me attention the way i want and i don’t know what to do

    • web admin

      web admin

      September 25, 2017 at 6:20 pm

      He may be uncertain or confused about his feelings. Give him a few days to determine what his thoughts and feelings are. If he does not reach out to you in a few days, then speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Attempt to spend additional time with him as well. Allow him to share himself with you. Have a great day, Sleem!

  4. amayah

    August 9, 2017 at 9:31 am

    i’ve been having constant dreams about this boy that i love . we don’t talk anymore do to some really big drama and i miss him . in one dream , he hugs me from behind and he holds my hand and tells me that he will never stop talking to me and that he misses me too . he holds my hand and walks with me and uggggh , i dunno what to do .. i need guidance . i think about him often too which doesn’t help me because that makes me miss him more . what do i do ?

    • web admin

      web admin

      August 10, 2017 at 1:42 pm

      This dream is a reflection of your previous emotional connection with this person. Determine if you want to develop a relationship with him at this time. If you do, then reach out to him. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him an opportunity to share his thoughts with you as well. Have a great day, Amayah!

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