How to Get a Guy to Ask You Out in 5 Ways

By on January 4, 2013

If you are trying to make him yours but don’t seem to be doing a very good job, there are a few tricks that you can play to move things along in your favor a little bit. If the “flirt with him and hope he bites” method doesn’t appear to be working for you, it’s time to look at Plan B – the clever girl’s way to get a guy to ask you out in 5 ways.

Invite him along as your “Plus One”

If you have been invited to a party, dinner or other special event where a “Plus One” is allowed, why not invite your current love (or lust) interest along with you? Nothing says “BE MY BOYFRIEND” quite like plus-one at a couple’s event.

Get a friend to help you out!

You could casually get your friend to ask the two of you if you are together – see what he says. If it’s a firm “Yes!” then he has already asked you out, and if not, you can sense how far away you are from how he says “No”. You could always get your friend to try out a bit of gentle teasing too – “You can tell you like each other….” Etc.

Use your common interests!

If you both like movies, ask him to a movie on a Friday or Saturday night when he should be out with his male friends. If he declines, you are not there with him yet. If you both like rock-climbing, why not suggest a weekend away doing it? To make him your guy, you need to put him in the place of one. If you don’t ask, you won’t get!

Keep your routine!

You may WANT to be at his beck and call, 24 hours a day, 7 days per week but to him, this just looks needy and clingy. Live your own life ladies – he’ll love you so much more for it! He’ll work harder to get and keep your attention if he thinks you still have a busy schedule and your company is wanted by many – make him work to get and keep you!

Let him know that you are ready!

Do you know the old phrase – “If you don’t ask, you don’t get!”? Well, never a truer word has been spoken. ASK HIM IF HE IS READY FOR A RELATIONSHIP! You need to let him know that you are ready to take the plunge, so to speak. Men aren’t very good and picking up on subtle hints so for heaven’s sake; make it easier for him!
Men are fickle creatures really, and with a little prod in the right direction you will soon learn that they are easier to read and manipulate (sort of!) to ask you out. You need to brave – it only takes second seconds of insane courage after all, as said in the great film We Bought a Zoo.

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