Gemini Man in Love

By on April 30, 2014

largeThe Gemini Man. The man who seems to be the life of the party, the man whom everyone seems to instantly gravitate to the moment he enters the room. Is it his irresistible charm? Is it his immaculate mind that overflows with enthralling ideas? Or could it be that he is an intelligent man, always having something interesting to talk about, and loving every second of conversation with his company? You’d be surprised to learn hat it’s actually all three, as the Gemini man is a charming, handsome individual who is always engaged in an intellectual conversation with his peers.


The Type of Woman Gemini Needs

The Gemini Man has incredibly high standards and won’t just settle for anyone.

He isn’t seeking a woman who is only skin deep. He needs stimulating conversation- nay, he craves it. He won’t be excited to talk to a beautiful woman who has nothing to say. He wants a lady he can sit down and chat with for hours, talking about every aspect of the world and debating the pros and cons. He needs an intelligent woman who can keep up with him, and a woman who is able to stand by him in a social situation and feel completely comfortable. As a Gemini man tends to get bored easily, jumping from partner to partner, he needs a deep woman who has plenty to say and is willing to try new things (in and out of the bedroom).


Gemini in a Relationship

He is incredibly flirty and loves to be the center of attention in social situations. In fact, it wouldn’t be uncommon to find a Gemini man flirting from one girl to the next. And for that reason it’s hard for the Gemini to find a lady he is willing to settle down with. Even when he does find someone that peeks his interest, it is exceptionally hard for a Gemini man to fall in love. This is simply because this sign has a hard time with their emotions and rely on logic above all else, therefore he will run his mind in circles trying to fight the feeling of love.

That doesn’t mean that dating a Gemini is a waste of time. In fact, women who date a Gemini man will note that the relationship is fairly easy-going, and the Gemini man rarely brings up arguments. Even when an argument does arise, he will be able to work things out in a calm and cool matter with no upheaval- which is an obvious plus.

He’s a fun and bold lover and will exceptional, out-of-the-blue romantic gestures to surprise his lady. That being said, don’t expect the same old hum and drum when it comes to the Gemini boyfriend. He will stimulate your mind with conversational and then surprise you with a romantic gesture (probably) unlike anything you’ve seen before. However, don’t read too far into these romantic gestures as boldness and excitement is just a part of the Gemini nature and is something he does often.


This might leave you thinking that a Gemini man is prone to cheating. However, when a Gemini man finds a lady and enters into a relationship he is completely dependable and trustable in the relationship. He will focus on his woman of choice and won’t be afraid to inform you if there is a problem in the relationship, in which case he will try and solve the problem or leave before it gets too heated.

Gemini in Bed

If there is one thing for sure, the Gemini man is an exceptional lover between the sheets. He looks at sexual encounters like a fun adventure, always willing to try new things, whether it is a new position or a new toy. He won’t settle for the typical way of love-making and would much rather come up with new and enthralling ideas to stimulate himself and his partner. That being said, the Gemini man is not selfish in the slightest and pays close attention to what his partner enjoys. He will stop at nothing to make sure his lady is pleased by the end of the night.

The best way to turn a Gemini man on is through his mind. He won’t get excited over a new silky piece of panties and won’t care for a sexy strip tease. He would much rather be teased with dirty talk or sexual mind games that stimulate him. After he’s turned on, there’s really no telling what the Gemini man will come up with. Just know you’re in for one exciting evening that you won’t soon forget.


Negative Side of the Gemini Man

His mind is so clever and always jumping from one idea to the next, which can only mean one thing: the Gemini man becomes bored easily. This can be a huge problem, especially when it comes to relationships, as a bored man won’t stick around for long (whether it’s his job or his woman). This inconsistency is certainly the major downside of the Gemini.

Another negative side of the Gemini man is he is extremely flirty and somewhat flighty. This all roots back to his overactive mind which is bored easily. He likes to use his charm on the woman around him, but the man becomes bored with a woman easily and will quickly jump onto the next if she does not stimulate his mind. This may make the Gemini man appear superficial and women may label him as being a ‘player’. (Which of course is never a good thing, especially in the relationship world).



Gemini and Aries: This couple is built to last. The two of you both have intellectual minds that get bored rather easily. The two of you will be able to stimulate each other (both in and out of the bedroom) and have plenty of excitement in your relationship, as both of you are constantly seeking excitement and adventures.


Gemini and Leo: The two of you will have a harmonious relationship that works beautifully. There will definitely be plenty of fun times in your relationship as both of you are ready for the next adventure in life!

Gemini and Aquarius: You are both thinkers, therefore will be able to keep each other occupied- especially when it comes to communication. This stimulation will ensure neither of you get bored, and you will feed off each other brilliantly. Beside enthralling conversations, Gemini and Aquarius will come up with new and fun ideas to keep the relationship going strong.

Gemini Man in a Nutshell

It might seem like a difficult task to catch a Gemini. They are extremely flirtatious, charming, and intellectual, and don’t seem to want to be tied down. However, just like anybody else, the Gemini is seeking the perfect woman and wants to settle down eventually. He just needs to find an interesting and intriguing woman who can hold his interest. She must be able to keep up with his intellectual conversations and can’t be shy in the bedroom. Also, she should be ready to take on his over-the-top romantic gestures while also letting the Gemini man have plenty of space and freedom in the relationship.


Image credit: Andie, ToInfinity&Beyond, Nataly Linnick, Emina Kartalova.


  1. All messed up

    July 24, 2017 at 7:29 am

    My Gemini man only reach out to me once a month. We get together to have wild sex. It’s the best i ever had. I don’t know where it will go because I am a Capricorn. I think about him all the time don’t know if it’s lust or love. I only love having sex with him and he is very attractive. I am also very pretty. Confused.

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 24, 2017 at 6:58 pm

      Your best option would be to take this time to determine what your want for your future with your partner. Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Give him the opportunity to share himself with you as well. As the two of you have this discussion, you will learn what your true feelings are. Have a great day, Messy!

  2. Michelle

    July 10, 2017 at 11:47 pm

    Im a libra hes a gemini we’ve been talking for 2yrs but still not in a relationship.. When we first met it took a year before he would have sex with me and for some reason that made me want him more.. He tells me all the time how much he cares and likes me and for me not to be talking to any other men. However im not to sure im the only one!!! I just recently met his kids and his mom brothers etc.. He’s met my kids too!! But I moved to florida😢.. But he told me to get myself together and we would see where we could go.. He told me he was gonna move with me him and his kids he has custody of them.. But ummm he has his distant moments or what I call his man period and it is very annoying!! He gets in these moods and they last for like 2 or 3 weeks I don’t hear from him etc.. Then out the blue he’ll hit my phone like I miss you baby!! I really wanna be with him and he knows it.. He tells me to be patient that we will be together he said he had to make sure he could trust me.. Im really just confused and dont know if to move on or not.. To be honest im not to sure if he would care he shows no real emotions.. But when he does he just shuts down.. Please what advice would you give me.. Did I mention his kids love me and My kids love him… And all he ever says is his kids need a mother and because he finally let me meet them I figured that maybe that was a good sign especially when I met his mom and he introduced me to his brother as his girl but we’re not official..

    • web admin

      web admin

      July 11, 2017 at 7:15 pm

      If the two of you go more than a week without speaking, then your relationship is likely at a tipping point. Your relationship may have already ended. You should determine how you feel about your relationship at this time. Speak directly with your partner about your thoughts and feelings. It is likely that this relationship with be successful if the two of you live in the same city. Have a great day, Michelle!

  3. Marianna

    June 5, 2017 at 6:24 pm

    Hi. I’m a Cancer girl in a affair with a much older Gemini guy. I’ve known him for many years. Whenever I would see him he had always expressed he wanted to be with me. I always felt the same way and did eventually tell him. His work required extensive travel so after he retired we got together. I have a very busy life and he gets impatient when I can’t be with him when he wants. He will say things I find insensitive.
    It seems he doesn’t want to do anything else with me other than for me please his needs. I care for him very much but I feel he doesn’t care for me. He doesn’t invite to his house anymore. I think because there’s another woman there now. I feel like he will never love me or our relationship will never be more than this and maybe I should tell him to go away. What do you think?

    • web admin

      web admin

      June 6, 2017 at 10:46 am

      If your relationship began as an affair and you now believe that he is with someone else, then you are probably right. Allow him to fade from your life. He is not treating you with respect and probably is comfortable with having more than one relationship at a time. Move forward with your life in whatever way makes you feel most comfortable. Have a great day, Marianna!

  4. Georgia

    May 26, 2017 at 7:13 pm


    I am a Sagittarius who are in relationship for 8 months with Gemini, we know each other about a year prior to relationship. In the beginning, he was all into me, caring, always there for me, and very reassuring that he wants something serious, we are also click. But after we started relationship, we end up fighting more and more (it could be due to my insecurity and how he confused the hell out of me a lot) I wanted to break up with him few times already, his constant ‘I dont know’ answers are very confusing and contradicting. One time, he is all into me…the next, he could be ice and cold. He told me that all his friends and family know about me and yet I only met one of his friend and met his family once. (His status in social media also still say single). He always answered with IDK whenever I asked about how he feels and how he sees us going. I dont know what to do with him, should I stay or go? I felt like he is going to break my heart. There are times I feel like he is the one and this will work, but there are times, I doubt it. He said he really likes me but not sure if this is what he wants. He keeps on saying that he needs more time but I feel like he wont love me, he only likes me.

    • web admin

      web admin

      May 28, 2017 at 9:58 am

      If it were me, I would probably move on. He obviously isn’t committed in the relationship. He didn’t change his social media status, he doesn’t bring you around his family and he is unwilling to even say that he sees a possible future with you. It does not sound like he plans on this relationship being long-term or more serious. You have already been together eight months. While this might not be enough time to know if you are “the one,” it should be more than enough time for him to at least say if he is open to the relationship being more committed or longer term in the future.

  5. Simone

    April 19, 2017 at 11:27 am

    I’ve been dating a Gemini for about 10 months and I am a Virgo. We talked for 2 months before we even met and once we did we instantly clicked. And waited another two before we were intimate. At the time I wasn’t looking to be in any relationship as I had just got out of a really bad one and really looked at him more as a friend but I loveeeeeeed being around him. Over the past few months I’ve loved how we have taken our time to get to know one another and have noticed how our bond continues to get stronger each month. I can even count on one hand how many disagreements we’ve had and how much stronger it has made our relationship. This man is like my best friend and I’m falling in love with him. It’s something I’ve never experienced before from mental, physical and even sexually. He has relocated for me and changed jobs. We spend a lot of time together and surprisingly have a lot of things in common it’s almost scary lol. He’s even met my parents already BUT we’re not in a relationship! And even though I’ve wanted to take things very slow, we are slowly approaching a year and no talks of taking this to the next level. My Gemini loves to talk but certain subjects can be extremely sensitive and sometimes I do not even know how to bring things up without being too aggressive or blunt so I just don’t say anything at all and I feel like he does the same so sometimes things can go unsaid and we move on like it’s nothing. At this point I want more and I believe he does too but we just don’t know how to go about it….

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 19, 2017 at 8:03 pm

      The two of you are in a relationship. There is no doubt about this. It would be beneficial for the two of you to have a serious discussion about what your status is. It would be beneficial for you to establish an understanding about your relationship. Perhaps this is the time to decide to move forward. Have a great day, Simone!

  6. Adams

    April 7, 2017 at 6:25 am

    Im a Taurus. I been in a relationships with a Virgo and it was an off and on thing. But when ever we broke up I would message this guy who a (Gemini) and we would open up to eachother what we been threw and everything. Caught feelings but I would get back with my Virgo and leaving him hanging. It happen atleast four times. He (Gemini) was pissed, but still wants to be with me, now that im single. But stuck in my feeling to being with him or just wanting to be single for awhile. Idk he wants to spend sometime with me. We talk on the phone for like 3-6 hours at night. Im stuck what should I do. I like him alot

    • web admin

      web admin

      April 7, 2017 at 9:36 am

      For your mental and emotional health, it would be better to just be single again. You ought to have time to heal from your last relationship (and make sure that it is really over this time). At the same time, you have already started talking to the Gemini for three or more hours a night, so he will be hurt if you do not date him–especially if you are really single this time and could be with him. If you do not date him and choose to be single now, you could lose him. It is really up to you to decide what you want, although it looks like the best option right now is to date your Gemini.

  7. Aries2017Gem

    March 31, 2017 at 2:55 am

    Aries woman fallen for Gem guy… met him year ago. Talked and flirted on social media. We hang out same places with groups of friends. We hooked up and sex is incredible between us. I think about him when all time but never tell him. He likes to play this cat and mouse game ever so often. When he is around likes to leaves me with the feeling ” your only mine remember that” kind of feeling. Also our conversations come up repeatedly that I’m not to flirt with others online.But to find out he has gf for about 10 years. She lives 3 hours away and is hardly ever down here or around. Once I found out was heart broken somewhat but it was too late done fall in love with this man. It’s like he can sense it off of me without been told it. He texts and calls still even when I ignore him most of the time. Any advice? Our realtionship has been going on for almost 2 years now.. I am always trying be busy just so don’t run into him and found out I know of the gf. But he still continues to try talk to me and text all the time.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 31, 2017 at 9:21 am

      It seems like you may have commented twice on this one. I have to approve each comment individually, so it may take a bit for your comment to appear. If you do not see it right away, do not worry because you will. Read through my initial response and let me know if you need any more help. Thanks for commenting!

  8. Aries2017Gem

    March 31, 2017 at 2:12 am

    Aries woman who is crazy over gem guy.. started out as friends alot of flirting back and forth in begining. Been going on for years found out he has gf for 10 years. She lives 3 hours away and not into racing hobbies so therefore never see her around with him. I let him go but he keeps trying to text and calling. I love the cat and mouse game it played but now I know about the gf it turns me off but I miss him . When he is around like he watches on social media and our friends to be sure it’s known to me that I am only to belong to him. He is incredible in bed always like making sure as if “your not going no where ” satisfying sexual feeling. My feelings are already there but not sure what i should do at this point.

    • Aries2017Gem

      March 31, 2017 at 2:18 am

      Meant to say our realtionship has been going on almost 2 years

      • web admin

        web admin

        March 31, 2017 at 9:16 am

        Understood–let me know if you need any more help. Thanks for commenting!

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 31, 2017 at 9:15 am

      If he has had a girlfriend for the last ten years, then the best thing that you can do is move on. Even if he were to end things with her, he is obviously open to having long-term affairs again. The fact that he has not left her also makes it seem unlikely that he is going to leave her in the future. Plus, his habit of telling everyone that you belong to him and warning them away from you is worrisome on its own. He is quite jealous and possessive considering he is the one having an affair. The best thing that you can do now is move on and find someone who is actually emotionally available for you.

  9. shechu

    March 30, 2017 at 5:33 am

    Hi am a scorpion lady in love with a gemini guy. we met in a club 9 months ago and that is where he works, i get to see him maybe once a week and at times after a fortnight, He gives me attention when we meet and have been to his place in a friends company. We only have kissed but nothing more. Communication however is poor, i can text him and he does not reply but at times he does reply but briefly which annoys me. He says he loves me but i wonder why he is taking his time to take the relationship to the next level. i feel that maybe him working in the club has a lot of attention and can never be serious with one lady.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 30, 2017 at 10:14 am

      It sounds like he just wants to take things extremely slowly and get to know you. You said you met nine months ago, but how long have you actually been dating? If you have been dating less than six months, I would not read too much into it. If he were just interested in a fling or playing the field, he would have tried to do more than just kiss you. Since he hasn’t, he must be genuinely interested in a relationship. Of course, he may change his mind later on depending on how well you match each other’s personalities, but it seems like he genuinely wants to get to know you before taking the relationship further.

  10. Andrea

    March 27, 2017 at 3:42 pm

    I met a gemini online and he moves extremely slow when it comes to us being physical he wanted 3 months before we did anything and it wasn’t very passionate. Although leading up to it, he was very passionate with me until it finally happened. He used to call everyday around the same time but sometimes he doesn’t even check on me. He never mentions about being in a relationship about me but says that he cares about me and and wants all of me. It’s been four months but nothing serious just makes plans with me spontaneously but not much physical advances. Idk what he wants..

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 27, 2017 at 6:15 pm

      He is still dating you, so he must like you on some level. He may just be one of those people who is not particularly passionate. Not checking up on you may not be anything serious–it may have just slipped his mind, and he might not be the clingy sort of guy. He says that he cares about you though, so he most likely does. What you want out of the relationship (more attention and passion) may just be things that don’t suit his personality that well. The best thing to do would be to just talk honestly with him about what you want and how you feel. He isn’t a mind reader, so he’ll probably need you to tell him how you feel to actually understand. Good luck, Andrea!

  11. Rienara

    March 16, 2017 at 1:17 am

    Hi im a sagittarius woman, i met & knew a gemini guy for 2 months since our first dating. The 2 whole months was running well, we had a good time together and even he silently bought me stuffs that i like and also asked me to go for holiday once hes back from his holiday with his family. We finally had holiday together the short one because he was sick so the plan was change. I felt something diffrent with him in that trip, hes more quite but i thought is only because he was sick. 2 days after he sent me text that i should find someone bettee than him, he said he did try with me he said he like me but he didn’t feel something in his heart. I was surprised but what can i say i just said ok. Even he said anytime i need help i can run to him but i said no & thank you. What make me confuse is how come he didn’t feel something in his heart meanwhile what all he did to me it was something big, so i just think that he must try so hard on this till finally he decide to end it. He also said that we’re not in the same page, he think that i want more than just dating meanwhile he didn’t he still want to be free and thats wouldn’t be fair to me. What he said before and after totally different at first he said want to be my bf but i just smile he even told his friend that im his gf. 2 months after we seperate i called him for help i know i broke my promise and he help me, we become like friend, till one time he want me and he said sorry, he like me but hes affraid to love someone. Im totally didn’t get it so thats why i need your answer on this.

    Thank you.

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 16, 2017 at 2:34 pm

      He is having difficulties sharing his feelings with you. Try to meet with him in person and share your thoughts and feelings. Be honest and ask him to share his honest feeling with you. Take this discussion as the point where you determine what your relationship with him will become. If the two of you decide to remain friends or begin dating, then take this as the final decision. Have a great day, Rienara!

  12. Imtesal

    March 8, 2017 at 2:59 am

    I’m with gemini forfew months h is very different he loves to live alone he enjoys my company alot but after some time he started to say that i want to be alone i don’t understand what to do I’m cancer tell me what should i do to make him happy and take him back from loneliness

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 8, 2017 at 2:02 pm

      Speak directly and honestly with him about your thoughts and feelings. Learn about what changes he needs. If he tells you that he does not to be in a relationship with you, then accept his feelings and move on. Take this as a blessing and an opportunity. The end of this relationship will open new doors for other people who will love and care for you. Best of luck, Imtesal!

  13. arti sharma

    March 4, 2017 at 8:57 pm

    I am sagittarius and i met the gem guy in party. At first i was not into him but every time he came to me and i refused him alot. After two months i also showed him little love and care as friend.can i be sure that he likes me because the big problem is, that we speak diffrent language and from that it is hard to understand and also we dont text eachother. Do you think it is only attraction or Should i show him that i am also into him. There is also one thing that i ignored him because he had a girl but he flirted withme infront of his girlfriend manu times and they brokeup already. I dont have experience with love life so can any one help me

    • web admin

      web admin

      March 5, 2017 at 10:58 am

      It might just be an attraction to him. The fact that you speak different languages would make things hard, but not impossible. I would be a bit concerned about the fact that he first started flirting with you when he was in a relationship. If that is what he was like with his last girlfriend, then it is likely that he could do the same thing again. I would be very cautious before trying to pursue a relationship with him.

  14. Annabeth

    February 11, 2017 at 11:03 pm

    I’ve been in a relationship with a gem guy for a year now and I’m a virgo. He wants to talk and talk all the time and I do talk a lot but not all the time. He wants to talk but he doesn’t really talk much he wants me to do the talking. It’s like he knows I love him but he always says that ” I think ur not into me ryt? ” It’s kinda irritating and yeah he flirts but doesn’t accept. I put in as much as I can yet he makes me feel like I’ve done nothing and guilt wraps me every single time . How do I make things right ? Anybody ?

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 12, 2017 at 10:09 am

      It sounds like you two have a text-based relationship. Try to spend additional time with him in person. This way the two of you will be able to talk more. If he continues to make you feel annoyed, then be clear with him about why you feel the way that you feel. If he continues, then explain to him that he needs to stop making you feel irritated. Best of luck, Annabeth!

  15. Carlisle

    February 8, 2017 at 2:22 pm

    okay I guess I should just seek for help.
    so iv known this Gemini for 11 years. but we started dating barely 4 years ago. our first year was a blast cos it was me and him against the world. until I found out that he had a girlfriend somewhere. I cried and asked him and he immediately broke up with me. after several weeks, we settled and move on but it was so hard trusting him. i’m Aquarius tho but I love him. after that time, I dated someone else yet my gem kept begging for me to come back to him saying he liked our connection. I broke up with the guy and went back to my gem to start again but nothing seemed to have changed. Infact it was worse. out of frustration, I became totally paranoid so much that if we have a little argument, I won’t contain my anger as I would insult him so much. recently I found out about another girl he was in love with despite craving so bad for my attention. I was furious and we got into a long fight that caused a big split. Bit as usual he came around and I took him. about 3 days ago he called that we see and when we met, he called our relationship an abusive one and that I don’t give him what he wants. he also complained about a lot more. When I in turn asked him about the new girl, he sed he is in love with her but he’s not dating her. though his friends assure me he loves me, my gem doesn’t show me he cares at all. what Do you think I should do? I love him and I need to win him over

    • web admin

      web admin

      February 8, 2017 at 2:43 pm

      Your relationship is over. He is not respectful to you and he is not being faithful. Allow him to drift from your life. If you feel like you need to be with him, then take this time to look inward to determine what you want with your life. If you want to be with him, then take action toward him. Best of luck, Carlisle!

      • Carlisle

        February 11, 2017 at 12:07 pm

        taking actions towards him would mean?

        • web admin

          web admin

          February 12, 2017 at 9:48 am

          Speak with him about your thoughts and feelings. Spend time with him somewhere exciting or relaxing. Take your goals and life into your hands and move forward. Good luck, Carlisle!

  16. T

    January 13, 2017 at 12:29 pm

    I been dating a gemini for 3 mos, we talked 3 mos before dating. We always get in a deep conversation and can be honest about things. He said we were both financially unstable to be in a relationship. He was all over the place with his words. I’ve just been giving him space.

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 14, 2017 at 11:14 am

      If he has made it clear that he isn’t interested in a relationship at this time, then you are right to give him some space. You do not need to wait for him. If he is not willing to be there for you at this time, then it may bring you benefits to take this time to look inward. Determine what you want for your future at this time. Best of luck, T!

    • Tysia

      January 26, 2017 at 6:15 am

      You also should have made an effort to listen to his heart T. You might have heard him express his love/ hate for another woman.Theres your hint.

      • web admin

        web admin

        January 26, 2017 at 11:57 am

        Thank you for sharing your insights and advice. It is great to see that our readers are willing to support and develop our community. Please feel free to share more of your thoughts and ideas in the future. Have a great day, Tysia!

  17. Cat

    January 5, 2017 at 5:55 pm

    I fall in love with a Gemini younger than me 3 years old, I’m a Scorpio. We are room mate and he drive me to school every day. People said he like me because everything I want he will try to do it such as bought a lot of thing I like even he doesn’t rich, clean the house, cook for me and always be patient with me. However I never tho I will fall in love with him so when some one asked me what kind of man I like, I told them must be older than me and mature. So he try to grow beard and try to become a real man. After one year live together, I realized I like him so I asked him does he like me, he said no, he like younger and beautiful woman, I never can be his gf. I cried a lot. I wanna give up but we live together and I see him every day, I cannot stop this feeling for him, some time I flirt with him but he didn’t say anything and seems to enjoy it. I have no idea he likes me or not. Sometime he sweet, sometime so cold…

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 6, 2017 at 1:21 pm

      It is clear that your statement about older men had a negative impact on his emotional connection toward you. You should not be surprised that he said that he wanted a younger partner after you said that. It is not beneficial for you to cry in this instance. If you want to try to establish a relationship with him, then it would be wise of you to have an honest discussion with him about what you desire in a relationship. Your only chance is to respectful and kind to him. Good luck, Cat.

  18. Letha

    January 1, 2017 at 8:29 pm

    I’m an Aries woman and met a Gemini man a year ago. It started off great, however, a month into dating he became very attached and always wanted to hang out which exhausted me. I cut him off, but he’s been very persistent. This past week I gave it another try. I enjoy him so much, just nervous about him being so pushy and needy. How should I go about dating him this time, letting him know I want to go slow? I told him that last time, but I don’t think he took me serious until I started disappearing on him.

    • web admin

      web admin

      January 3, 2017 at 11:33 am

      If you want to go slow and he does not listen to your feelings, then perhaps his actions are making his feeling clear. If he does not respect your wishes, then it may be wise to move on. If your only problem with him is that he wants to spend time with you, then you may want to take a second look about your definition of a relationship. Take this time to determine what you want for your future. Have a great day, Letha!

  19. Jen

    December 29, 2016 at 10:38 pm

    I like a male Gemini. I am a female capricorn i think of him from time to time. Any luck

    • web admin

      web admin

      December 31, 2016 at 12:22 pm

      There is always a chance that you could be together and have a great relationship. For that to happen though, one of you will have to make a move. Try flirting with him or ask him on a date–he needs some type of encouragement to know that you are interested. Hopefully, he will flirt back and be just as interested in you as you are in him. Best of luck, Jen!

  20. Hello

    October 18, 2016 at 9:04 pm

    Hi. I’m a Lbra girl and I’ve known a Gemini guy for 4 years now. We go to church together and we are 3 years apart. But those times we basicly never knew eachother and we never talked, like, NEVER, and suddenly he keeps on looking at me all the time from afar with a serius gase and sometimes he has this smile with dreamy eyes like he is day dreaming but when we are close to eachother and when we have our usual small talks (we don’t talk much. usualy it’s kinda awkward) he acts like he doesn’t want to see me witch confuses me. i like him too, i don’t know where the feelings came from but i just feel like i want him to never take his eyes off me and i want to see his smile and i want to talk to him but it’s hard because we usualy ignore eachother sometimes even though we both really want to say something. His best friend likes me too, he’s a libra like me but i don’t like him and i think maybe that’s why he’s being so awkward because he doesn’t want to cause problems. his bestfriend is also 3 years older. PLEASE HELP ME!!!

    • web admin

      web admin

      October 19, 2016 at 2:58 pm

      It is possible that both of them have an interest in you, and the one who looks at you often is having stronger feelings. Perhaps this is because his friend also may have an interest in you. Perhaps it would be wise to allow one of them to come to you first, but if you want to take charge, then do so. Spend some additional time with your interest and see where it goes. Perhaps try to make eye contact and flash a smile. Enjoy life and see where it takes you!

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